I've got twin boys on the way, i've never been happier. (:
I find it funny when people say "you've just fucked up your life" I don't see it that way, everything happens for a reason, I didn't fuck up I've started a new chapter in my life. (:
@AristYdes BITCH thats not how every one is hun. why dont you keep your bitch mouth shut because no one, especially a teen mother who is under stress u will never know, needs to here shit like that.
@AristYdes I'ev actually only ever been with one guy thanks and im 19. Wonder how manny guys you'ev had? Undoubtably more looking at girls my age. Having a baby doesn't make you a whore having a baby and not taking care of it does. Im moved out and pay ALL my own bills by myself at 19. No bf anymore. Im damn proud of myself, and if that makes me a trash whore than so be it.
@AristYdes i was 17 when i had my so, so im a teen mom and now i am 19 with a 14month old still with his daddy have been for 3years ive been threw what she has my bd's mum offered me money to abort our baby and she still thinks we made bad choice to keep him it is hard she sees him once every 2-4weeks and thats only because my bd sees him and is home from the army, it is tough i think she is so strong xx
Well at this point im still young but i'ev grown up alot. Yes its not ideal but i make the best of it. im now 18. i was 16 when i got pregnant. My daughters going on 1
why are so many of you girls content with being teen moms? how fucking stupid? there is so much to do than be a parent at a young age. condoms and birth control are your friend.
I never said i was content. Im simply making the best of things. Last time i cheeked making the best of things was a life skill. I fail to see how i am now called stupid for doing what i felt was right for me and my daughter. My daughter know's no better as far as my age and shes a happy healthy gorgous girl. Yea i have more bumps than other people who were more prepared and ready but that just means i have to be a stronger person and fight to make it up and ut of the hole i put myself in.
@AtlantaAngel84 no hun. condoms can break, and birth controll isnt entirly fail proof. i used both and still ended up with a daughter. k? thanx bye! dumb ass.
@aliciaddderty well idiot, spell check is your friend. secondly, your ass did not use both condoms and birth control if you did you would not have a daughter. run that dumb shit by someone else. i hope your kid doesn't turn out to be as dumb as you.
you are a prime example of what the negatives of being a teen mom. stay in school honey.
@AtlantaAngel84 well how about this, you stop bad mouthing teenage girls for having made a mistake. and how in god's name would you know whether or not i used both? and how in the world am i a prime example? i am happily married at 19 years old with a beautiful 4 year old daughter,and my husband is the most loving and caring husband and father. so why dont you quit running your mouth off about shit u know ABSOLUTELY nothing about. i do not regret anything i have done in my life. i love my family
@aliciaddderty just like that disgusting show teen mom glorifying teen motherhood, their is nothing glamorous about being a teen mom and there is so many other things a young person should want to do, besides be a parent. parenthood is very difficult so yes, it does look bad. getting pregnant young is not a good look, its stupid, point blank. if you are happy with your life and all, good for you. getting pregnant young is a loser move, point blank. the truth hurts but oh well, good day!
@AtlantaAngel84 haha and fyi my daughter is barley 4 years old and she can add small numbers and read and spell short words. DOES THAT SOUND LIKE A DUMB LITTLE GIRL? nope. so have fun with your life. fucking trailer trash.
@aliciaddderty you appear to be the trailer trash, your grammatical and spelling errors are comical. you have to have the WORST luck in the world if your guy used condoms and that broke and your birth control failed all at the same time, i'm sure your parents did not buy that one, but nice try, lmao! no i will not stop bad mouthing teenage girls because they see what can happen yet they continue to do stupid stuff. you're right, things do happen, but it's still idiotic.
@aliciaddderty fuck off trailer trash. don't you have an appointment for your welfare and food stamp benefits! don't you need to go to the wic office or bail your sperm donor out of jail?! gtfoh!
@AtlantaAngel84 you really are clueless aren't you? Ian is not in jail nor will he ever be. im not on welfare because my husband has a job that he is good at. and no he doesnt work at a mcdonalds, he is an electrician. and he i am in night school to become a photographer. and what exactly do u do except sit on your fat ass?
pumkinkiss , do you know how laughable and ridiculous and at the same time SAD it is that people are allowed to have kids when they are kid enough themselves to get grounded? and so what ae you saying? you wouldn't want to be on welfare, but you let your parents support you and your kid? isn't t that one big contradiction in itself and to your "...if you can't support your kid then..."
Well its been about a year and after a year of being with my parents I am going home to live with my bf. And it doesn't matter that it seems sad to you because i will never take back what happend. Its not like it was a big planned thing but i love my daughter im making a life for her and with her, im a good mother, and im happy.
oh and also that "if u cant support ur kid" statement was to the girls who belive its ok and are TRYING to get pregnant.
If it happends unplanned each girl should do what she can to make the best of things watter that may be for her. I dont belive in abortion but i wouldn't look down on someone for it.
well, at least you're not an anti-abortion clown then. those are the best... and teens that try to become pregnant those are so sub-everything that things like financial support are not even the most serious things to be thinking about. teens that try to become pregnant should be sterilized because anyone that dumb and irresponsible as a teen won't be able to raise a kid as an adult, either.
Well, I am against abortion I seen what they do and how they do it and it's horrible, but there's adoption if you can't afford the baby and you have no ways in taking care of yourself I believe theres a family for everyone, Why would a teen mom have a baby and rely on there parents who have raised or still raising there kids expect to raise there teens baby its not right, I believe that they should do adoption. They even have open adoption.
I wouldn't have been able to live with myself letting my baby go to someone eles. My bfs going into the army and im moving out with my baby and giving her a good life, and im still going to feel good about myself and raise her with her mother the way she should be raised.
well i am 24 but i am hoping that i am but right now with college and my mom being sick i am stressed out aot an di read that you should not be sterssed if you are trying to have a baby or if you were pregant. thanks for geting back to me how are things going.
oh its ok it takes me a while to get back to pepole as well but its cool and no i am not pregant yet but my time is coming i just know it. i just don't know when but i am just hoping it is soon. and my mm is doing better now she is still here thank god.. how is the baby..
Thank goodness about your mom. My moms been sick off and on my wole life so ik how it feels. The babies ok. Im going home to live with her dady soon. We are going to spend a few months together and then hes going to inlist in the army.
thats good that he is going to join the army my brother is in the army. i am glad to here the baby is good. i wish you all the best in life. do u have a fb or myspace. and also my mom has been sick for a while but she is doing better she takes alot of pills i hoe your mom gets better as well.
Update we worked everything out and we are back together now. We just had to get our plans for the future together and get on the same page, but we are now and honestly i dont think things have ever been more perfect.
Yes. He loves her more than anything in this world. Shes the only person he'd do anything for. Me and him will always be best friends if nothing eles if for no other reason than we bolth have the same goal-to make her happy and raise her right.
No we are not currently together as of 2 weeks ago. I wasn't a bad breakup like was just a set of diffrences. We are talking right now about how to make it work and what the future holds to see where we will stand in a few months.
Wow I was 16 when I fell pregnant with my first, I never had anything but support in keeping my son. I was asked maybe once if I would consider abortion, I said no way.. and it was never mentioned again even though I was single at the time also.
Many people have negative things to say, they will continue to do so over the years as you will always be a young mum in relation to your child but as time goes on you definitely learn to deal with that!
Thank you so much :} Im glad you got support from the begining. even i count myself lucky even though things wren't "Smooth" as far as other peoples approval so your really lucky for the family and friends you have.
I've got twin boys on the way, i've never been happier. (:
I find it funny when people say "you've just fucked up your life" I don't see it that way, everything happens for a reason, I didn't fuck up I've started a new chapter in my life. (:
TippyDurr 8 months ago 3
gross
phonebook232 8 months ago
pregnant teen mom? you mean white trash whore?
AristYdes 2 years ago
@AristYdes BITCH thats not how every one is hun. why dont you keep your bitch mouth shut because no one, especially a teen mother who is under stress u will never know, needs to here shit like that.
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@AristYdes I'ev actually only ever been with one guy thanks and im 19. Wonder how manny guys you'ev had? Undoubtably more looking at girls my age. Having a baby doesn't make you a whore having a baby and not taking care of it does. Im moved out and pay ALL my own bills by myself at 19. No bf anymore. Im damn proud of myself, and if that makes me a trash whore than so be it.
pumkinkiss 7 months ago
@AristYdes i was 17 when i had my so, so im a teen mom and now i am 19 with a 14month old still with his daddy have been for 3years ive been threw what she has my bd's mum offered me money to abort our baby and she still thinks we made bad choice to keep him it is hard she sees him once every 2-4weeks and thats only because my bd sees him and is home from the army, it is tough i think she is so strong xx
oswestryGIRL 1 month ago
@oswestryGIRL People only look at what they see on TV and in the media
pumkinkiss 2 weeks ago
Well at this point im still young but i'ev grown up alot. Yes its not ideal but i make the best of it. im now 18. i was 16 when i got pregnant. My daughters going on 1
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
why are so many of you girls content with being teen moms? how fucking stupid? there is so much to do than be a parent at a young age. condoms and birth control are your friend.
AtlantaAngel84 2 years ago
I never said i was content. Im simply making the best of things. Last time i cheeked making the best of things was a life skill. I fail to see how i am now called stupid for doing what i felt was right for me and my daughter. My daughter know's no better as far as my age and shes a happy healthy gorgous girl. Yea i have more bumps than other people who were more prepared and ready but that just means i have to be a stronger person and fight to make it up and ut of the hole i put myself in.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago 2
@pumkinkiss respect. i know how it is.
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 well yeah but some times that doesnt work.
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@aliciaddderty yeah they don't work when you DON'T USE THEM!
AtlantaAngel84 8 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 no hun. condoms can break, and birth controll isnt entirly fail proof. i used both and still ended up with a daughter. k? thanx bye! dumb ass.
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@aliciaddderty well idiot, spell check is your friend. secondly, your ass did not use both condoms and birth control if you did you would not have a daughter. run that dumb shit by someone else. i hope your kid doesn't turn out to be as dumb as you.
you are a prime example of what the negatives of being a teen mom. stay in school honey.
AtlantaAngel84 8 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 well how about this, you stop bad mouthing teenage girls for having made a mistake. and how in god's name would you know whether or not i used both? and how in the world am i a prime example? i am happily married at 19 years old with a beautiful 4 year old daughter,and my husband is the most loving and caring husband and father. so why dont you quit running your mouth off about shit u know ABSOLUTELY nothing about. i do not regret anything i have done in my life. i love my family
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@aliciaddderty just like that disgusting show teen mom glorifying teen motherhood, their is nothing glamorous about being a teen mom and there is so many other things a young person should want to do, besides be a parent. parenthood is very difficult so yes, it does look bad. getting pregnant young is not a good look, its stupid, point blank. if you are happy with your life and all, good for you. getting pregnant young is a loser move, point blank. the truth hurts but oh well, good day!
AtlantaAngel84 8 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 haha and fyi my daughter is barley 4 years old and she can add small numbers and read and spell short words. DOES THAT SOUND LIKE A DUMB LITTLE GIRL? nope. so have fun with your life. fucking trailer trash.
aliciaddderty 8 months ago
@aliciaddderty you appear to be the trailer trash, your grammatical and spelling errors are comical. you have to have the WORST luck in the world if your guy used condoms and that broke and your birth control failed all at the same time, i'm sure your parents did not buy that one, but nice try, lmao! no i will not stop bad mouthing teenage girls because they see what can happen yet they continue to do stupid stuff. you're right, things do happen, but it's still idiotic.
AtlantaAngel84 8 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 "your grammatical and spelling errors are comical" what are you running for yuppy of the year?... get a life you dumb whore.
aliciaddderty 7 months ago
@aliciaddderty fuck off trailer trash. don't you have an appointment for your welfare and food stamp benefits! don't you need to go to the wic office or bail your sperm donor out of jail?! gtfoh!
AtlantaAngel84 7 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 you really are clueless aren't you? Ian is not in jail nor will he ever be. im not on welfare because my husband has a job that he is good at. and no he doesnt work at a mcdonalds, he is an electrician. and he i am in night school to become a photographer. and what exactly do u do except sit on your fat ass?
aliciaddderty 7 months ago
@AtlantaAngel84 he and i *
aliciaddderty 7 months ago
pumkinkiss , do you know how laughable and ridiculous and at the same time SAD it is that people are allowed to have kids when they are kid enough themselves to get grounded? and so what ae you saying? you wouldn't want to be on welfare, but you let your parents support you and your kid? isn't t that one big contradiction in itself and to your "...if you can't support your kid then..."
PONYf3N 2 years ago
Well its been about a year and after a year of being with my parents I am going home to live with my bf. And it doesn't matter that it seems sad to you because i will never take back what happend. Its not like it was a big planned thing but i love my daughter im making a life for her and with her, im a good mother, and im happy.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
oh and also that "if u cant support ur kid" statement was to the girls who belive its ok and are TRYING to get pregnant.
If it happends unplanned each girl should do what she can to make the best of things watter that may be for her. I dont belive in abortion but i wouldn't look down on someone for it.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
well, at least you're not an anti-abortion clown then. those are the best... and teens that try to become pregnant those are so sub-everything that things like financial support are not even the most serious things to be thinking about. teens that try to become pregnant should be sterilized because anyone that dumb and irresponsible as a teen won't be able to raise a kid as an adult, either.
PONYf3N 2 years ago
chrissy68142 , just 'cause i'm curious: what do you believe are good ways of dealing with unwanted pregnancy?
PONYf3N 2 years ago
Well, I am against abortion I seen what they do and how they do it and it's horrible, but there's adoption if you can't afford the baby and you have no ways in taking care of yourself I believe theres a family for everyone, Why would a teen mom have a baby and rely on there parents who have raised or still raising there kids expect to raise there teens baby its not right, I believe that they should do adoption. They even have open adoption.
chrissy68142 2 years ago
I wouldn't have been able to live with myself letting my baby go to someone eles. My bfs going into the army and im moving out with my baby and giving her a good life, and im still going to feel good about myself and raise her with her mother the way she should be raised.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
well i am 24 but i am hoping that i am but right now with college and my mom being sick i am stressed out aot an di read that you should not be sterssed if you are trying to have a baby or if you were pregant. thanks for geting back to me how are things going.
BUSBUNNY3 2 years ago
No problem. Some times it take a while for me to write back bbecause i can be quite bussy with the baby but i love talking to my veiwers! ;]
Do you no if your pregnant yet? And i so sorry about your mom. I hope she is well now :[
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
oh its ok it takes me a while to get back to pepole as well but its cool and no i am not pregant yet but my time is coming i just know it. i just don't know when but i am just hoping it is soon. and my mm is doing better now she is still here thank god.. how is the baby..
BUSBUNNY3 2 years ago
Thank goodness about your mom. My moms been sick off and on my wole life so ik how it feels. The babies ok. Im going home to live with her dady soon. We are going to spend a few months together and then hes going to inlist in the army.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
thats good that he is going to join the army my brother is in the army. i am glad to here the baby is good. i wish you all the best in life. do u have a fb or myspace. and also my mom has been sick for a while but she is doing better she takes alot of pills i hoe your mom gets better as well.
BUSBUNNY3 2 years ago
good luck with all that you do in life. i a hoping to get pregant soon...
BUSBUNNY3 2 years ago
Thats nice. How old are you? :]
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
I'm glad !!! ;D Thanks a lot for the update ...
I hope this all works ou for you guys .... :)
keep me posted
teenstarfan 2 years ago
wow ! well good :) I'M glad everything is working out ! I wish you, him and your daughter the best !
And i think that it's great what your doing !
Keep it up ! :D
teenstarfan 2 years ago
Thank you! :]
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
Update we worked everything out and we are back together now. We just had to get our plans for the future together and get on the same page, but we are now and honestly i dont think things have ever been more perfect.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
Is he still helping you with your daughter ?
teenstarfan 2 years ago
Yes. He loves her more than anything in this world. Shes the only person he'd do anything for. Me and him will always be best friends if nothing eles if for no other reason than we bolth have the same goal-to make her happy and raise her right.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
are you still will your boyfriend ?
teenstarfan 2 years ago
No we are not currently together as of 2 weeks ago. I wasn't a bad breakup like was just a set of diffrences. We are talking right now about how to make it work and what the future holds to see where we will stand in a few months.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago
Wow I was 16 when I fell pregnant with my first, I never had anything but support in keeping my son. I was asked maybe once if I would consider abortion, I said no way.. and it was never mentioned again even though I was single at the time also.
Many people have negative things to say, they will continue to do so over the years as you will always be a young mum in relation to your child but as time goes on you definitely learn to deal with that!
I'm glad you have a lot of support now :)
mummycharmzy 2 years ago 7
Thank you so much :} Im glad you got support from the begining. even i count myself lucky even though things wren't "Smooth" as far as other peoples approval so your really lucky for the family and friends you have.
pumkinkiss 2 years ago