He wasn't going to hit her, he went to grab the pillow she was holding in her hands. Some people have too much time on their hands but not enough observation skills to see clearly.
Good point! I recall him saying that later in the movie. Though if I had yelled at my folks the way she did, I would have gotten more than a light swat!!!
you can see her shirt move when he doesn smack her, its not the pillow, its her and I would have done the same thing if my daughter was hollerin at me like that. this was a classic movie, much better than the new one
@UnschoolingEagle lol that is NOT assault. assault is someone beating the heck out of you, not a parent correcting a child out of love. no one likes to spank there kids, and they dnt do it hard enough to hurt them badly. and if they do THEN thats assauly and there retards. some would have gotten worse for yelling at there parents
@LuvsToLaughGirl Spank an adult on the behind against their will in front of a cop and watch what happens. This is my only comment toward you, I suggest you look up Alfie Kohn, Murray Straus, and Alice Miller.
@UnschoolingEagle but thats just it, kids ARE NOT adults. im not saying u should hit kids, thas not what i mean. im a teen, and when i was younger my parents spanked me. and i hate how people now a days are like "abuse!" of course i hated it, but it helped me. if a kid touches a power cord, and u smack (not abusivly) on there bottom, they wnt do it again. its out of love
@UnschoolingEagle OK, you named 3 meddling jews who wrote their unproven theories without even being parents at the time. Our children are not strangers in the street minding their own business, you fool. We have a responsibility to raise them knowing proper behaviour and firm boundaries for when they are truly out of line.
No loving discipline = more likelihood of juvenile delinquency in teenage years
@JiminyKracker So instead of trying to respond to my comment with studies or some evidence to back up your beliefs... you decide to insult jews and then spout your opinion as if it is fact. Pretty cool.
@UnschoolingEagle Fuck you. You want me to read 3 books in order to be 'allowed' to debate with you? lol, why don't YOU read 3 of the numerous books by scholars that endorse smacking in certain situations. Are you even a parent? No you're not, so stfu, you have no clue what you're saying!
@JiminyKracker I have read a few books that endorse spanking (To Train Up a Child being one of them) none of them pull from any type of empirical study at all or if they do the study is quite laughable. I am also not saying read three books... just research into the subject online... read some empirical studies... check out if they are good studies. I teach which means I deal with more kids than any parent ever will.
@UnschoolingEagle Dealing with kids is not the same as being a parent. For the record, I am a teacher too. And for obvious reason, aside from legality, the way I deal with students is totally different to the way I interact with my own kids. And I've never met a parent/teacher who does otherwise.
@JiminyKracker I haven't met a parent/teacher who hasn't said it is much more difficult to teach. Children are naturally inclined to listen to their parents except for about 2-4 years old and then once puberty hits. During the toddler years you need to keep toddlers from harm and redirect them if necessary. I see no reason to ever hit. Once they hit puberty that is when they should be given even more freedom. Problems arise when parents are unreasonable.
@UnschoolingEagle Depends. Many young kids will talk back or get cheeky with parents, but respect their teachers because they hold a different authority, almost like a police officer. The biggest issue teaching young kids is that you have 20+ of them, & can be challenging to get them to listen/stop talking etc. I almost never get blatant disrespect from students.
Whereas many kids will test the boundaries of what they can say to their parents, & as a last resort, a smack can do wonders
@JiminyKracker It is GOOD that kids get cheeky with parents. Humans are not meant to be obedient little drones that say "how high" when a parent says "jump". I find it funny parents think hitting is a good response to a verbal issue. You seem concerned with "disrespect" well no one owes you respect... you need to earn it. You are not smacking respect into your child but fear and anger. Which is then internalized and often brought out in other negative ways.
@UnschoolingEagle Horseshit. Earning respect from ones own kids? lol. And maybe if I'm on my best behaviour, I could earn their respect AND even impress them too! Discipline is for their benefit. When I say "don't run across the road", that's not a suggestion that I should need to garner their approval and hopefully they'll pay attention.
Anyway, I find it comical that you think backchatting and disrespect is wonderful. It's gonna be a rude awakening should you ever become a parent one day.
@JiminyKracker This is why you have problems with your kids... you sit on your high horse thinking they owe you respect no matter how unreasonable you are or how you act. This is why most parents have problems with their kids. Backtalking is not in the same league as disrespect. Backtalking is usually just a child presenting an argument and parents don't want to be questioned. Backtalking is a sign of intelligence and independence... two good things which parents love to stifle for their egos.
@UnschoolingEagle I don't have any problems whatsoever. You, however, are in for a rude awakening should you ever become a parent. Your views will then fold quicker than superman on laundry day.
@JiminyKracker How about the parents whose views did not fold? Like Alfie Kohn, Dayna Martin, Sandra Dodd... or the hundreds of other parents who rarely use punishment and treat their children with respect and as equals... All their kids are fine and often doing great... getting into great colleges without stepping a foot inside a school. Am I saying it is going to be easy and I will have no problems? Of course not.
@UnschoolingEagle HA yeah right. That ego takes the kid right out the door to go partying with their friends right after you told them no. BUT hey, with your logic, when they get back you can argue happily about why that was wrong :)
Why don't you show the scene where she actually does get slapped in the face?
Schmaiden1 4 months ago
He wasn't going to hit her, he went to grab the pillow she was holding in her hands. Some people have too much time on their hands but not enough observation skills to see clearly.
Sam7svu 6 months ago
Brian, you bastard.
ladythatsmyskull 8 months ago
Theirs NO smack =O
HippyAngel001 1 year ago
u know i find it funny, he swats her here but later in the movie, he tells his fiance that "you don't spank 13-year-olds"
sahmpac 1 year ago 5
@sahmpac
Good point! I recall him saying that later in the movie. Though if I had yelled at my folks the way she did, I would have gotten more than a light swat!!!
JubalCalif 1 year ago
what smack?
tracyterry 2 years ago 7
Thats a fucking dude
Popsfresh 2 years ago
Any kind of slap to Hayley Mills ass gets a big plus from me.
nawtee 2 years ago 4
u call that a smack what rip offf
spanker48 2 years ago 15
how many times is she gonna throw that pillow down hehehe
Bumblebeeyatch 3 years ago 7
More like a light spank than a smack.
Wushu17 3 years ago 5
you can see her shirt move when he doesn smack her, its not the pillow, its her and I would have done the same thing if my daughter was hollerin at me like that. this was a classic movie, much better than the new one
sahmpac 3 years ago 16
So you would have committed assault against a child because of a verbal cause? Real intelligent I must say.
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago
@UnschoolingEagle lol that is NOT assault. assault is someone beating the heck out of you, not a parent correcting a child out of love. no one likes to spank there kids, and they dnt do it hard enough to hurt them badly. and if they do THEN thats assauly and there retards. some would have gotten worse for yelling at there parents
LuvsToLaughGirl 1 year ago
@LuvsToLaughGirl Spank an adult on the behind against their will in front of a cop and watch what happens. This is my only comment toward you, I suggest you look up Alfie Kohn, Murray Straus, and Alice Miller.
UnschoolingEagle 1 year ago
@UnschoolingEagle but thats just it, kids ARE NOT adults. im not saying u should hit kids, thas not what i mean. im a teen, and when i was younger my parents spanked me. and i hate how people now a days are like "abuse!" of course i hated it, but it helped me. if a kid touches a power cord, and u smack (not abusivly) on there bottom, they wnt do it again. its out of love
LuvsToLaughGirl 1 year ago
@UnschoolingEagle OK, you named 3 meddling jews who wrote their unproven theories without even being parents at the time. Our children are not strangers in the street minding their own business, you fool. We have a responsibility to raise them knowing proper behaviour and firm boundaries for when they are truly out of line.
No loving discipline = more likelihood of juvenile delinquency in teenage years
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker So instead of trying to respond to my comment with studies or some evidence to back up your beliefs... you decide to insult jews and then spout your opinion as if it is fact. Pretty cool.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle Fuck you. You want me to read 3 books in order to be 'allowed' to debate with you? lol, why don't YOU read 3 of the numerous books by scholars that endorse smacking in certain situations. Are you even a parent? No you're not, so stfu, you have no clue what you're saying!
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker I have read a few books that endorse spanking (To Train Up a Child being one of them) none of them pull from any type of empirical study at all or if they do the study is quite laughable. I am also not saying read three books... just research into the subject online... read some empirical studies... check out if they are good studies. I teach which means I deal with more kids than any parent ever will.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle Dealing with kids is not the same as being a parent. For the record, I am a teacher too. And for obvious reason, aside from legality, the way I deal with students is totally different to the way I interact with my own kids. And I've never met a parent/teacher who does otherwise.
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker I haven't met a parent/teacher who hasn't said it is much more difficult to teach. Children are naturally inclined to listen to their parents except for about 2-4 years old and then once puberty hits. During the toddler years you need to keep toddlers from harm and redirect them if necessary. I see no reason to ever hit. Once they hit puberty that is when they should be given even more freedom. Problems arise when parents are unreasonable.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle Depends. Many young kids will talk back or get cheeky with parents, but respect their teachers because they hold a different authority, almost like a police officer. The biggest issue teaching young kids is that you have 20+ of them, & can be challenging to get them to listen/stop talking etc. I almost never get blatant disrespect from students.
Whereas many kids will test the boundaries of what they can say to their parents, & as a last resort, a smack can do wonders
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker It is GOOD that kids get cheeky with parents. Humans are not meant to be obedient little drones that say "how high" when a parent says "jump". I find it funny parents think hitting is a good response to a verbal issue. You seem concerned with "disrespect" well no one owes you respect... you need to earn it. You are not smacking respect into your child but fear and anger. Which is then internalized and often brought out in other negative ways.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle Horseshit. Earning respect from ones own kids? lol. And maybe if I'm on my best behaviour, I could earn their respect AND even impress them too! Discipline is for their benefit. When I say "don't run across the road", that's not a suggestion that I should need to garner their approval and hopefully they'll pay attention.
Anyway, I find it comical that you think backchatting and disrespect is wonderful. It's gonna be a rude awakening should you ever become a parent one day.
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker This is why you have problems with your kids... you sit on your high horse thinking they owe you respect no matter how unreasonable you are or how you act. This is why most parents have problems with their kids. Backtalking is not in the same league as disrespect. Backtalking is usually just a child presenting an argument and parents don't want to be questioned. Backtalking is a sign of intelligence and independence... two good things which parents love to stifle for their egos.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle I don't have any problems whatsoever. You, however, are in for a rude awakening should you ever become a parent. Your views will then fold quicker than superman on laundry day.
JiminyKracker 9 months ago
@JiminyKracker How about the parents whose views did not fold? Like Alfie Kohn, Dayna Martin, Sandra Dodd... or the hundreds of other parents who rarely use punishment and treat their children with respect and as equals... All their kids are fine and often doing great... getting into great colleges without stepping a foot inside a school. Am I saying it is going to be easy and I will have no problems? Of course not.
UnschoolingEagle 9 months ago
@UnschoolingEagle HA yeah right. That ego takes the kid right out the door to go partying with their friends right after you told them no. BUT hey, with your logic, when they get back you can argue happily about why that was wrong :)
LuvsToLaughGirl 3 weeks ago
@LuvsToLaughGirl OH MY GOD A PARTY! Who gives a fuck? Only controlling parents. I went to parties to. They are fun.
UnschoolingEagle 2 weeks ago
when did he smack her?
danielchance 3 years ago 4
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theblinddonkey 1 year ago
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i like the new version of the film better.
steffy382 3 years ago
He didn't smack her, he smacked the pillow out of her hand.
barkingtree88 3 years ago
I never even noticed that. I thought he was slapping at the pillow.
Shasta018 3 years ago 3
i love her
evanthomas07 3 years ago
hardley a smack is it?
Grimmypuddleduck 4 years ago 2
Ya, you can barely catch it.
SpankingLife 3 years ago
i can't find the slap...It's ahrd to catch I've seen it a million times!
loves2laugh10 4 years ago
I've seen this movie so many times as a kid, and I never realized that he smacked her. I always thought she was reacting to the stern "Stop it!"
Lol.
crocetti1984 4 years ago 4
I also love this version of the parent trap. Do you have the song the twins sing together "Let's Get Together" !
1sunshinegirl 4 years ago
I love this version of the parent trap. Can you please post more clips from this version please?
JaneAustenRules 4 years ago
I also love this version of the parent trap. Do you have the song the twins sing together "Let's Get Together" - Hayley Mills Rocks!
1sunshinegirl 4 years ago
Hayley Mills rocks!!
messinwithit 4 years ago