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  • I could not hold back my manly tears.

  • Beautiful ending to a beautiful movie!

  • I just saw this film last night, and I have to admit I cried alittle when I saw this scene. I have got to give points to the movies for that, of course Jack was the right person for the actor.

  • Nobody can touch Nicholson. One of the greats. We cried like 4 year olds watching this last night.

  • Jack is a guy's guy.  It's impossible not to share the emotion.

  • When I first saw this movie, I was 13 thinking that this would be another boring movie my mom put in for background noise. But as sat and watched, my opinion slowly changed. Watching film made me feel nothing else but everything for Schmidt to the point when this scene happened. I'm 17 now and I have tears on my key board, the same tears I had four years ago from watching this scene.

    thank you for posting, thank you

  • This is one of my favorite scenes in any film.

  • この映画本当に好きだ。ラストで全部持って行かれた。

  • I cried like a little girl when I saw this at the movies & I still tear up every time I watch this.

  • The reason why I saw the film was because of its title. When I saw the film I was moved by its messages and that the character Warren Schmidt had a slight resemblance to my father, but it’s a film we can all relate as we get older. As Warren Schmidt asks," ...to make some kind of difference, but what kind of difference have I made because of me?" Wow, the final scene carries so many meaningful messages for us all. We all can make a difference. God Bless!

  • I thought the movie was quite mediocre until this scene and suddenly its profoundness came crashing down and hit me like a ton of bricks.

  • Like many, I cried watching this ending, wonderful actor

  • This scene is so elemental - it is so humane - it is like the essence of life - the scene reaches so much deeper than most people will see within it. It says so much about human life on earth in such a very small gesture- especially regarding the whole movie - really a grand finale in cinematography and drama!

  • This ending was amazingly touching. All the time, all he knew was complaining about his life to a poor human being who's life was a tragedy. Maybe he was identifying with that child and thought he would understand him. In the end, he was expecting to receive something formal, without essence, maybe a few phrases composed by someone else but all he got was a simple drawing, yet so powerful, that brought him joy and another perspective upon life.

  • Ahhh... it feels good to know real men (like J. N. or Mr. Schmidt) can cry.

  • One of the few movies that have made me cry. I cried at this scene. Ndugu's drawing is deeply touching. I wish I could embrace and help every poor child from Africa! God bless them all!

  • Re: 'melodrama' discussion below: it meant a drama using music to heighten emotions. 17th century opera and so on. It's the emotional sweetener we now hardly realize is there. It has come to mean little or no relation between cause and effect, cheap emotion, unrealistic behavior and situations. It's the reason parents used to tell their kids comic books were bad for them in the 1930s. It's fun to be emotionally manipulated. Though it didn't start there, Hollywood perfected it.

  • Very touching. We are not always aware of how our small acts of kindness or sincere words will impact others.

  • Bufff.... Amazing!

  • Every time I'm having a pity-party for myself, I pop in my DVD and watch this scene. I'm humbled every time. :(

  • Thank you Jack...

  • Powerful ending - besides, I love the voice of the woman with the french accent!

  • I found this film to be deeply moving, with a clear message for everyone: Do what you can to make the world a better place, because all that you acquire in your life will mean nothing in the end. However, some critics came to the exact opposite conclusion. Cole Smithey wrote, "The picture endorses, nay lionizes, complacency, inaction and the privilege of the greedy to steal whatever they covet simply because they are treacherous enough to do it." Can someone explain this to me?

  • This is one of those rare instances where a "happy ending" manages to be consistent with everything that's been established in a film beforehand, including its cynical tone, while completely subverting and defying it at the same time.

    The entire movie exists for this one scene, as far as I'm concerned. Absolutely magnificent.

  • it s not only about the feeling of having made a difference in someone's life but also the feeling of being connected...feeling a connection with someone finally in your life.. i think that warren schmidt didnt feel connected with anyone in his entire life...incredible movie

  • El sr Schmidt recibe una carta de su "hijo adoptivo" Ndugu de Tanzania...

    "Estimado Sr Warren Schmidt, soy la hna Nadine Gautier de la Ordén de las Hermanas del Sagrado Corazón, trabajo en una aldea pequeña cerca de Embeya en Tanzania. Uno de los niños a mi cuidado es el pequeño Ndugu Umbu, el niño que ud apadrina. Hace poco necesitó atención medica por una infección en los ojos, pero ya está mejor- Le gusta comer melón y dibujar. Ndugu quiere que sepa que él recibió todas sus cartas

  • Finally, he found some sense to life...

  • @blasphemator when you get the chance and your sister isn't looking, you get your little todger out and let her baby play with it....

  • @Antibearvirus I don't think you have a clear idea of what the word "melodramatic" means. This scene was not melodramatic.

  • @bookgirlish

    Melodramatic: Exaggeratedly emotional or sentimental characterized by false pathos and sentiment.

    As much as I am a fan of Nicholson this scene felt more like the director tried to pull of a cheap shock reaction for the audience.

  • @Antibearvirus Your definition of "melodramatic" is correct. So what exactly was exaggerated? The score? It was very quiet and understated. Nicholson's reaction? His head barely moved. His tears were urgent, but hardly soap opera level tears. The letter from Ndugu? Actually quite mundane. Just a simple, heartfelt "thank you" note for sending that little bit of money and letters. The picture was just a typical crayon drawing you might see on any family's refrigerator. No melodrama here.

  • @bookgirlish Just because the score doesn't have Celine Dion level sod music doesn't mean that it isn't melodramatic, a scene could be exaggerated even without soap opera level tears.

    The thing that I think really does this quite melodramatic is that the movie tries to keep it subtle but completely fails.

    No offense, I really enjoyed the movie but I didn't like the ending.

  • @Antibearvirus Would you prefer an ending where Schmidt walks into a hospital and throws an incendiary grenade into the baby ward? Or maybe a nine-minute sequence of Schmidt raping and beating to death a helpless woman in some dark, claustrophobic tunnel?

    Not every conclusion to a movie needs to be a descent into an abyss of nihilistic despair, you know.

  • @TheBermudaMan I never said that, all I said was that I thought this was a desperate attempt to get a shock reaction from the audience, I'm fine with this concept... but they could've showed it in a more subtle way.

  • @Antibearvirus This scene defines subtlety. It's not exactly the end of Steel Magnolias. Now that is shock value, that is melodrama. Like someone prior said, this scene is the whole reason for everything that came before it. Far from showing desperation, it shows confidence in the overall message of the film. How would you have concluded the film?

  • @TheBermudaMan LOLOLOLOLOL I love you.

    

  • @Antibearvirus I think your criticism reflects your frustration in not being able to understand this scene and how it's contribution is not only powerful but also gives closure to the character's journey and the overall cynical tone of the story. Everyone else seems to "get it", what's with you?

  • @Antibearvirus Wrong...

  • @Mistermax30 No.

  • One of the very few moments that almost made my cry.

  • I cried :)....

  • @forger93 np

  • @forger93 Because he was going through life thinking he was a worthless shit, then he realized his life made a difference to somebody after all.

  • It's an amazing film, appropriately under noticed, about our own feelings of insignificance in this world...it is one of my ten favorite ever...nicholson is at his best in this.

  • @forger93 Because up until this point in the movie, he felt that he had hadn't done anything noteworthy or made an impact on anyone's life.

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  • I don't want to ruin this moment, because I got teary eyed too.

    But the woman wrote that the kid loves melon...

  • @Mrster hey that's pretty funny......great comment!

  • @Mrster= u haven't ruined, it, it is quite funny

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  • one of my favorite moments in cinema.

  • The last minute is my favorite scene in Jack Nicholson's career.

  • Not surprising that Jack has 3 Oscars.

  • For as much credit as Jack gets for this scene - and he deserves it - it's a great concept put to paper by Payne and the voice actor who reads the letter script also are a big part of what makes this scene so special.

    I still have never seen it without crying. One of the most beautiful scenes ever filmed and criminally underrated at that.

  • He cries both because he's ashamed at how negative of a person he has been, both in his life and in his letters to Ndugu, and tears of joy at the simple beauty of life captured in the painting. Here's this letter describing a horribly unfortunate young boy, no money, sick, but who loves to eat melon and makes happy paintings and wants his sponsor to be happy. Warren regrets that he's been anything but.

  • I wonder if the scene shows how little he has. By the end of the film he acknowledges that he's accomplished nothing with his life, and now he sees what COULD have been.

  • @MondoBeno He looks off to the left, where that picture of his daughter as a child was.

  • Great acting by Nicholson.

  • This really brings tears to my eyes every time I see it.Warren comes home after the wedding feeling a failure.From his retirement to his wifes indescretion to his objection to the wedding he lost-his life has no meaning.Then he gets a letter from Ndugu and finds that the little money he tossed in an envelope saved the life of a child-so his life does have meaning, he did make a difference to someone.Beautiful.

  • dude i thought he was crying because ndugu wasnt even like someone he could talk to. he was just a little kid and here he was telling him all about his life and shit

  • I was 25 (a guy), and on a whim I went to see this in the theater by myself, not really knowing what to expect, but I love Jack. After this scene took place, I sat there balling my eyes out. Jack's performance brought out every emotion and sad/happy time in my life up to that point, and it was an overwhelming experience. I will always love him for giving me that moment.

  • I was in tears by the end of this movie.

  • Amazing.

  • And Ndugu's letter to Schmidt.....(watch second)

  • Yeah, this scene really took me by surprise when I first saw it.

    Jack Nicholson is incredible!

  • Jack Nicholson is a lot of things. He's my favorite Joker, starred in the best movie based on a Steven King story, made an Adam Sandler movie funny to many people who'd otherwise run for the hills, is the only reason you can sit through "Mars Attacks!", and can convey a broader scope of emotions with the ending of a movie than maybe anyone alive or now deceased. People claim Brando is the greatest actor of the last 60 years, but I think very differently. If I had half Jack's talent, I'd be rich.

  • he's telling me so fucking many (bad and good) things from 2.38...

  • Heres a story of my experience. I live in Nebraska, and my dad had a heart attack unexpectingly. I cry so hard after this film was over, because since Nicholson's wife died in the film, it is a similar story to me also because it relates in the midwest. To me, its an underrated drama movie, I just love it.

  • @dissent88 Good stuff, I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @Canuckforces2

    No, my friend...it's Man's indifference and greed that keep him from helping his fellow brother.

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  • even halfway through the letter it was hard to hold back the tears, the jorney we as the audience have gone through with this man makes it all the sweeter

  • @dazura08 :)

  • Go read Noam Chomsky

  • This movie, Groundhog Day, and Up in the Air are the three most incredible comedies about the human condition ever made. And Paul Blart: Mall Cop, of course.

  • This is honestly one of the most powerful scenes I have ever watched; if you watch the whole movie and see how his life has been and then watch this, it is incredibly moving.

  • @Swartzeagle83 so true

  • @Canuckforces2 What a cynical bastard you are

  • I love this so much.

  • Almost unbearably touching... Like nothing else in film history in my opinion (though I think many people confuse being sad with being moved, when it comes to this ending).

  • I agree, this for me is the most profoundly touching moment in cinematic history. What I love about it is that for the whole movie, you see his letters as a catharsis of everything that he's ever repressed, you didn't really give much thought to the fact that it might have been affecting another human being. Then when he was at his lowest, the reciprocation of that love and altruism came back to comfort him and make his life worthwhile. For me it's the most life-affirming movie ending there is

  • Well said! Notice also how that final anagnorisis works on both the protagonist AND the audience... Very dramatic. Viva the great Pope!

  • @happysappy21 Well said.

  • @happysappy21 Perfect way of putting it! :)

  • You've summed up my sentiments exactly.

  • You would have to be made of stone if you don't get, at the very least, watery-eyed when you watch this powerful scene!!

  • i remember the first time i watched this, it was incredibly hard to hold back my emotion!

  • @thedrmat well said.

  • @thedrmat without context, i am stone

  • @thedrmat put my face on mount rushmore

  • @thedrmat

    I did! I did get watery eyed! :'(

  • wow. W/ how Bat #$IT crazy jack is in real life. I never expected him to be so vulnerable. I have a new respect for the man after seeing this scene

  • i always thought of jack nicholson as a master at acting. seeing this scene shows that he is also a master at acting with a soft heart.

  • now that, my friends, is the love that God created

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  • very sad film

  • I think anyone who is open to feeling with the heart just cries everytime they see this. It's an amazing scene. I'm so glad they did this! It always reminds me of the Truth of compassion and oneness. Thanks for the upload! Really inspiring!

  • i felt like crying, but the look on nicholsons face just made me burst out with laughter, i am going to hell.

  • no worries same here people make funny faces when they cry theres one on here keifer sutherland crying (his face is hilarious)

  • wow...very touching indeed!

  • This is so beautiful.

  • odaibaman: I think, from the nun's acent and the timbre of her voice that she was an african woman. There are many native africans who are catholic.

  • She was from France. Nadine Gauthier is a french name...either that or Quebec.

  • For her accent, I'd say France.

  • this scene made the whole movie. i was at such a low place in my life when i saw this. i knew exactly how he felt. GREAT scene!

  • the bridge Schmidt visits, the picture Ndugu drew all brings it home....Schmidt's life has meaning.

  • I cried along with Jack.

  • @dissent88 I think some of us wake up to the fact that most of our lives here in America is built around mindless material chatter, sex, and ego. Then one wakes up to the fact that a little child, spirit, energy can be so changed by such a small act of kindness. It shakes us down to our soul:) I cried too:)

  • @chakrachaser well said...it's exactly how i felt

  • @dissent88 me too...

  • @dissent88 You and me, both.

  • This is the only scene in a movie EVER that almost made me cry. Wonderful film.

  • Triste et bouleversant.

    Un très beau film.

  • Jack Nicholson is without a doubt one of the greatest actors of all time. There will never be another man like him.

  • I cried so hard when he reacts to the painting LOL Jack's one of the best actors ever!

  • Wonderful ending. I thought the voice of the European nun reading the letter was also a very effective filming device. Her voiceover (that of a lady who's been doing charity work in Africa for years, presumably) contrasted sharply with the banal musings of Schmidt throughout the movie.

  • This scene hit me so hard when I first saw this movie. Since then it has become one of my favorite movies. One of Jack's best characters that's for sure.

  • Such an utterly genuine emotion - Jack's finest minute on film.

  • OMG!!!I've cried like a baby.Such a beautiful and touching movie.Jack is a legend!

  • just cried. l

  • one of the most touching scenes i ever saw

  • Just....AMAZING FILM.....i hope you never die Jack

  • My gosh, I'm crying again. Once we make good for people, we start to experience love and joy for life. We can keep our whole life trying to satisfy our own needs and it will never end.

  • best actor ever

  • this made my cry, absolutely incredible movie ending, one of the best ever

  • I totally agree with you this is like one of the most touching scenes ever.

  • Wow - one of the most touching scenes in screen history. I remember watching this in the cinema. The movie stopped quite suddenly, as is apparent, and as the courtesy light faded up, people just remained sitting, crying...

  • I too cried. I did not find it sad in the least bit though. In fact, I found it very happy and inspirational. Schmidt knows he made a difference in someone's life. Even though we can't say what happens after the movie, the fact the film cuts to black with him smiling IMO means a new beginning to Warren's life, one of happiness and solace. Much like how the beginning was a musicless jump cut montage of the colorless city and the building of the company he devoted his life to.

  • Don't think it's his absolute best work (Chinatown or One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest anyone?), but this movie was so powerful, I was caught off guard. Especially this final scene. Jack just keeps on going, while his contemporaries such as Pacino and De Niro, both among the best of all time, are quickly becoming self-parodies of themselves and, though understandably, it's sad to see them past their prime. Jack's just that damn good.

  • Not so sad an ending, i think, but joyous. He cries because he has made a difference in someone's life.

  • your right, I just looked it the wrong way.

  • it's just such a sad but great ending, and only jack could do it like this

  • I was going to make a decent summary regarding this scene, but as censorship is being applied I have decided not to.

  • Censorship is to stop the annoying spam that gets posted. Post your summary and it'll be approved.

  • I literally hadn't cried since I was 10 years old until I saw this.

  • A tremendously powerful scene and a film that will perhaps, over time, go down as Nicholson's finest work. He is an American treasure. Most actors at his age are winding down and are well beyond their best work. He, on the other hand, produces this masterpiece. Thank you Alexander Payne and THANK YOU JACK NICHOLSON.

  • I'd love for you to post the scene in which he's sitting atop the Winnebago, asking Helen for forgiveness.

  • The letter wasn't what made Schmidt cry.

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  • it's suppose to be a dark comedy and thats how its suppose to end. By the way great movie.

  • I don't think the impact was in the letter nearly as much as it was in the picture. That's when it hit me, anyway. I find something beautiful in such a simple realization and message as this.

  • You have misunderstood the film.

  • Little Ndugu sure does love his melon!

  • I really think this whole thing, culminating in this last scene, is much deeper than the fact that he realizes he has been important in somebody's life...that he makes a difference through his donations, etc. Throughout the whole movie, he is surrounded by mediocre wretchedness, at best. Ndugu clearly has a capacity for love and goodness well beyond most of the characters in the movie. I think that's what brings Schmidt to tears.

  • Such a great movie. It really expresses the humorous foibles of people and also a genuine desire to make a difference in the world, however small.

  • The way I understand it is that we all make a difference in at least somebodys life. Nicholson's character was just watching tv and saw this ad and thought "why not". He did this as a careless hobby and at possibly hes loneliest hour he realizes that what he thought was a petty act of charity inevitably became a reason to know that he has made a difference in the world and that at least one person carries on his memory.we should never think, that we dont matter. this always brings me to tears.

  • nice written. interesting, while surfing on youtube, the video I was watching before this one was "HIM - Join me in death" with the line "your life ain't worth living" - 180 degrees opposite message.... ;)

  • Awesome. Simply awesome. One of the most touching, moving scenes in any movie.

  • you the man sgtfluffymcfay

  • This scene hurts. Powerful.

  • beautifullll movie.thankyou for posting it!!

    please please can you post the part from the movie,where writes the letter to n dugu and ads the dollars for icecream????the best...lol

    thankyou in advance,,....its a great great movie!!!!! ;)

  • thanks for posting this

  • I saw the last ten minutes of this at the theater, and I was amazed that Jack is still as versatile as he was in "cuckoo's nest". This is an ending that have never forgotten.

  • A very simple movie, beautiful though. It's so important to give to other people, to share what belong to us. Like time, money, goods, food, love. Thank you for this video on youtube. I'm a better man after watching it.

  • that ending gets me every time. a wonderful screenplay, a great film, and the best actor in my 31 years.

  • Jack is truly an amazing actor. This crying scene proves that it is okay for an actor to cry.:)Most actors don't do that. And Jack did..and is still doin it.:)

  • they say, it´s almost more difficult to make people laugh than make them cry; but this scene is so touching and authentic - ihmo - Jack Nicholson is crying for real

  • a very beatiful film

  • its such a beautiful film

    it made me cry even though the ending was happy

    jack nicholson is an incredible actor!

  • When I first watched this, I was just bawling at the end. One of the best scenes with Jack Nicholson, and one of the better movies I have seen overall.

  • Slightly beyond the knee-jerk reaction to this scene, I'm reminded that the primary goal in my life is to be a generous, warm and kind human being.

  • one of the greatest actors of all time.even marlon brando

  • This movie was hysterical heart~touching gold. I remember this scene all to well at the movies.

  • I think you misinterpretted the ending. Its symbollic as it's the only time in the movie he's happy, when he realizes he's made a difference.

    But if that what it means to you doesn't mean its wrong.

    Perhaps your just cynical. :D

  • Being a 22 year old guy, I hate to admit when I cry. However, this ending definitely made me teary eyed once I saw it, and I consider it one of the best movies that I have ever seen. I say so because the movie made me feel what Schmidt feels at the end. It is sad and happy all at the same time. Even at the funny parts, a little part of me felt the sadness of the situation. I consider it best because of the range of emotions it made me feel throughout the movie.

  • I cry every time I see this, the most beautiful moment in any film ever. Makes me happier than anything else.

  • Considering my eyes usually glaze over at hammy sponsorship commercials, it's ironic that this scene touched me more profoundly than any other in recent memory. Maybe if Alex Payne directed those commericials, he'd enlist a few hundred more participants. :)

  • the first time I saw this scene, I completely lost it. Really beautiful and poignant, for sure.