you want a loner with no friends who sucks your dick without asking? that might sound nice for a little while but i'd imagine that would get stale pretty quick...if a guy ever said that they were my "head" i'd probably just laugh & then do a runner
@kevinferere sterness & sense of direction? i'm not sure where you pulled that from. gender exists, but it's wrong to say A is better than B, or that A is the leader & B is the follower. it's the same for race as well.
@kevinferere fair enough, but do you see where i'm coming from? you're not the leader of the women in your life just because you're a man. she may be a more competent leader than you, or maybe is able to work with you like an equal in a relationship. wouldn't it be better not to have someone relying on you to direct their lives?
@TheBgoz The reality is, we're equal spiritually, but not physically. Me being a man puts me in the position of a leader, but yes my competence actualizes the role. And there are times where a man must step down, but overall, he is the leader.
@TheBgoz Not so much strength alone, but just overall physical characteristics in general. You're not disputing an inequality, you're disputing your pride. If you knew better you would understand your place in the relationship and how beneficial it is to you.
@kevinferere how can you argue that's not an inequality? & yeah, it would hurt anyones pride to have someone else lead their lives, especially when it's based on a characteristic they cannot change such as sex or race. having someone else lead for me may be beneficial for them, but definitely not me. not being in charge of my own life isn't a benefit.
@TheBgoz You're not getting it. They're not "in charge" of your life or anything like that. It's a sense of direction I spoke of earlier; taking charge of the relationship and taking the initiative to cultivate the betterment of each others well being.
@kevinferere but what do you mean by "taking charge of the relationship"? & you should both try & work towards bettering each others wellbeing. it seems odd to be in a relationship & not acting to promote the person your withs wellbeing just because you're a woman :S i think guys just like the term "dominant" (i'm not sure why, but in my view it's an ego thing) but it's never actually the case. they aren't really dominant in any way other than physically.
@kevinferere no like i really don't get it. honestly. i don't like the idea, because in my mind the sort of relationship you're describing is one in which the freedom of the women is limited to what the husband allows, & that she basically has to do whatever he tells her to. is that correct?
@kevinferere well i'm never going to get it until someone who actually knows what anyone means by this type of relationship explains it to me. it doesn't really effect me though i guess - my boyfriend is my best buddy & we're 100% on the same level as each other. works perfectly for us.
omg LMAO @ " she cant be spiritually hirer than me" --- WOOOOOWWWW! wow! its not a competition, you need a spiritually strong women to cover you wen you weak-DUH! You gotta let that one go
@kevinferere that's some guys nature. & these guys are usually the ones who are insecure. sure, you may get an insecure girl who sees herself as inferior, but you can't really expect her to be any fun now, can you?
@TheBgoz Nature isn't insecure. Insecure guys fight for leadership, but a man who understand nature, NATURALLY takes his role, and if a woman competes with that, he won't fight her, he'll just leave.
LOL @ preventive measures no str8 guy friends allowed but cordial is okay...this is interesting but like you said God gives you what you need. Learn to trust my friend!
I agree with you with being the "Man of the house stuff", however, if you hold your "wife to be" captive by not letting her have girl and/or guy friends, then your "wife to be " would feel like a prisoner and eventually she will leave you. If you talk about God, why are you cursing? Don't you think you are misrepresenting God? I agree with you on everything except for that. I hope you treat your "wife to be" as a queen as you will want to be treated as a king when you find your "wife to be"!!!!
@kevinferere - Kevin, come on. Are you that insecure? I am just curious here: does that include male and or female friends in the church? What if your "wife to be" tells you she wants to have Bible study with church friends? What would your response be? I must say, overall you really impressed me with this video. That is Part 1&2. I don't hear men like yourself talking about what they want in a wife like that. LOL!!!!!! I really hope you find that "special wife" in your life.
You say that ish to everybody. Watch the video again and again. You trying to boost your views. Nice try once is enough for me. I don't wanna die laughing at you Kevin. Lol
@youknowyoulikeit1000 I don't need gimmicks. I tell you to watch the video again so you can get passed you ego and emotionalism and take in the point objectively. Oops, I used a big word. :(
Lol not intimidated at ALL! I'm very comfortable in my skin. I'm watching these videos and you might need to get cha mind right. Only a desperate uneducated bimbo would put up with nonsense you talking about. There's is no recipe for the perfect or even great relationship, lol. I should call you Dr. Love, LMAO! These women gonna chew your ass up and spit you out.
Lol, you still got some growing up to do. Keep these videos and watch them in a few years. You keep saying they intimidated I think you got that confused. Until you have actually been married then you really don't know what you talking about. LMMFAO! Do u really think young girls dream about sucking a dick everyday when they grow up and get married. Or not having their child hood friends in their life once they get married. You funny as shit. smdh
@youknowyoulikeit1000 Don't get intimidated cuz it's out of our league. The list is very realistic and I'm realistic enough to know that no woman will have all of these qualities, and that even if she does have all of em, she won't have em to the fullest. But as far as sucking dick...if you wanna keep a man, you better know how to please him.
I really like the part about men having girl friends as just friends and vice versa women having men as friends ( unless the men are gay) it can get messy and may cause problems in some cases. Not all. And men being more spiritual is something that I 100 percent agree with. Great topic!
great video but i kinda was surprised by the part about NO MALE FRIENDS. I am an artist and most galleries are run by men who call the house. would ya really get mad and supicious over that? other than that i don't see anything wrong with your list. the oral sex part is cool after you take a bath,lol. stay cool .
I just saw both videos and I don't think it's all that demanding. I mean, I was raised old fashioned but by seeing the financial turmoil of some women in my family I also know it's important to take care of myself and still keep house. That being said there has to be some kind of compromise. I say that once the kids are old enough to go back to school that's when it's time to get a part-time or something. It don't take that long to cook and clean,lol. And still make time for hubby,it's possible.
@MACMILL83 It's not at all. I expect most of the list, not all of it; or most of each item on the list, not all of each. It's very realistic when you think about it. There are women out there that willing.
you don't want a wife sounds like you want a hoe. no friends? no job means no money..wtf is your wife going to do all day while you're at work? you better off buying a mail order bride.
@PengarooShow I knew there would be that 10% smh. But for a simpleton such as yourself let me reiterate. I don't expect a woman to have every attribute nor do I expect her to have every attribute completely.
Lol you seem like you are pretty specific and know what you want in a woman...do you HONESTLY think you will find someone with all the qualities (mentally, spiritually, and physically) you have stated in all of your "What I Want in a Woman/Wife" videos seeing that you already have 3 (beautiful might I add) boys?? No judgement passed just simple honesty to quench my curiosity.
@08Tinkerbell12 I never said I expect all those qualities. I think I mention in one of my descriptions that I see a portion of all those qualities or portion of the qualities themselves. And no, having kids won't stop that.
i have all of those qualities and i know other women who do. we as a society look for mediocrity too much. he can have all of that in a woman if he looks for it.
I cant believe out all the things that u've listed on this video. I am all of them that asked in a wife or most men ask in a wife except one which is drinking da cum. I think thats my big problem in which i've done 2 any1. I think I would that whn Im married. wht do u think?
Do not how I stumbled across your vids bt they are good. Don't think it's too much - just your standards and you should never settle. I know I have mine and I wouldn't settle for anything less. But dang why she got have the donk action and extra meat going on (that just knocked me clear out of the ball park - lol). You sure you don't like petite women.
You know, I watched this the other day, and now I'm re-watching it. I'm not sure where the spiritual confusion for people came in. You never said you didn't want your wife to love God. You just want to be the spiritual leader of the home. I fail to see the flaw with this.
I agree with the plan B comment....If you want 2 marry somebody you should know for a fact that he/she will be you're one and only until you or he/she die...its simple...
I don't see where you are asking for too much! At least you know what you want and still believe in Marriage! I have a question...do you open doors?Smooches!
Idk why people would stop believing in marriage they aught to stop believing that ppl can't be faithful or disciplined and loving. Marriage is an institution and institutions only go as far as the people who institute them. And yes, I open doors.
Ok, thank you. But there are various reasons why men don't mature, some of which a parent wouldn't be able to control. Come on, how many preacher's sons you see out there wildin out. lol
i think you should try to stick as close to your list as you can. of course you have to be able to see someones potential as well when it comes to some things. there are people who might not quite be there but want to get there. there is nothing wrong with having things you are looking for in a mate. you know what you want so therefore dont settle! (what did you mean about not being ahead of you spiritually though? how can you keep someone from progressing just so you can be ahead?)
Noooooo! Why do people continue to misconstrue that point! I said that that's on me! I just would like to be more spiritually ahead. Why does that intimidate women?
intimidate? lol im not easily intimidated...especially not about something like this. i was just asking for clarification. thats what i like to do instead of assuming and saying something like "you need to make sure youre on point spiritually and then you wont have to worry about the woman being ahead of you spiritually." i thought asking what you meant about not being head of you spiritually was a better way to go about it but i guess not! lol
No one knows what they want in a spouse, only God knows your blessings because your BEST HAS YET TO COME!!! But when you get your blessing check that list of yours and see if all the items check out. When you look for that wife on that list! you will find her but be patience and wait on the Lord, to send the wife choosing for you.Remember you can speak things to existence and they are not always answered by Lord. Thank you for saying everyone (including men) bows before the Lord.
Hey the Lord said "Know" that I will and I am! But I am divorced and I minister to young women to not go threw any hardship without purpose from God. So yes I am a textbook and a educated Black Woman.
So your wife doesn't need to be educated? I am just trying to say that the wife God picks for you will satisfy your every need and want. But hey if you want a banana cream pie! then follow that list of yours.
Truthfully she doesn't. As a man, I can't depend or make love to a degree or a title. It won't cook me breakfast in the morning or suck my dick when I'm most horny.
Well sounds like you want a woman that doesn't realize her worth. because she does not have to be educated of the world but educated in the Word. Because her being educated in the Word, her grace will keep your family together. Banana cream pie means speaking of a woman who acts out and doesn't know her worth and position in the Kingdom of God.
Oh ok, being educated in the Word is important. You're taking me out of context. And I don't see how the word "banana cream pie" is derived from what you describe. You need to step out a little more. Your world is kinda small. Loosen up.
I am Woman thou art Loose! Banana cream pie came from Kat Williams comedy show. U talk about God but don't live up to your assignment and position for God. U get Loosen because my world and freedom isn't small living for Jesus!!! I am Blessed more than I can handle in this life time.
You believe that in your heart, but it isn't in your mind. Speak for yourself and don't repeat what your pastor teaches you until it is within you. I come across your type all the time. I bet everyone you associate yourself with is just like you. That's why I say you live in a small world, cuz you have a small mind. There is unity in diversity.
I only speak for my self and I have friends from all walks of life. From Std to babies and no daddies, I wasn't taught to repeat the pastor because he is human. I am just trying to live my life right and I am a process! I mistakes like everyone else but I thankful for mercy every morning. Don't type me because everyone is grouped individually. I have done wrong and I have done right so do not judge me from choosing to do right.
i can tell you a secret to getting head kevin lmao...ahead of you spiritually? how are you going to gauge that? If YOUR spirituality is between you and God..how is her's so much of your concern?
Some of your statements I agree, some I can see, & some I contribute it to your age. Your spiritual walk with God is just that, it is YOUR walk. Everyones pace is different. The woman you marry may be at a certain place at first, but it is possible that she may grow closer to God at a faster pace. It is HER relationship with God. Do you really think that God will tell her to stop growing so her husband can catch up with her? The point is, God wants both of you and He will guide the two of you.
wow just reading some of the 'bad comments' toward YOUR list of what YOU - KEVIN FERERE want in YOUR wife- wth is wrong with people? WOW like for real- I think that goes to show how childish they are by not respecting what other people want in their lives- but to each his own I guess
Well, that's real nasty (LOL). I'm just playing with you. That's nice to want all that in a woman. Good luck on finding it. Loving someone for who they are first. Then you two can work on all you and her wants.
Kevin - i think you're male version on of me. I COMPLETELY agree with everything you said. Yes, i need my husband to be the spiritual leader of the household, yes....he needs NO female friends. NO grown man has a female "friend" its "potential p*ssy". I also don't like a dude with a gang of friends or one thats always in the street. So EVERYTIME we go somewhere you just gotta know everybody?!?! GTFOHWTBS!
Who told you spiritual women don't suck dick? What kind of perfect little world do you live in. The flesh and the spirit are two different things but they reside in one entity.
man.. get outta here! lol! Not performing oral sex has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with being perfect. Get outta here do you kiss your mother with that mouth?
-sounds like you want a controllable weak hermit..."Stepford Wife"
-Spiritual level higher..no one is higher than god..wow that was a turn off....sorry I just heard that..I know you didn't mean what you said man...I mean you really didn't do that...the devil is a lie.
Thanks. Like I said, ppl should have standards, not morals. I think these qualities are realistic in a woman, but not necessarily absolute. But I think it would behoove a woman to at least have a majority of the said qualities...especially the one at the end of Part 1...lmaoooooo
lol Don't kill the messenger if you feel you don't remotely add up. Most of those qualities, most men can agree with. So if you callin me a bad husband, that directs much attention to yourself. You're an intelligent girl, I'm sure you can rise above what you feel.
Thats like me getting upset with you cause I HAVE a gut and you want a wife without one- if you dont fit the bill get over it- you DONT have to watch the video- people kill me! lol
I'm not saying that her vision is too lead the household, that is your job. I just feel like taking her advice on some things that you may not know biblically will benefit u and your vision for your household. If she is the woman God sent for you she will not try to lead the household and use her greater knowledge to help u walk in your God-given position.
Not rebel. I do want a man that is spiritually higher than me since he has to account to God for the household in the end. It just sounded like you know it all spiritually and your wife would be some type of idiot who couldn't hear or seek God without you. Hey, more men do need to stand up.
I didn't say I didn't. I said I did want a man who is spiritually higher, but I also want to be heard in what I gleam myself in my personal walk with the Lord also. You know, just in case you miss something ;)
If you are more spiritual than your wife does that mean you won't receive any word that God may give her to confirm something you been thinking about or that she can't share any revelations that God has spoken to her to help you both? The man should be the head of the household, but a wife is also put there to be your help mate. In the end it will be the man that has to answer to what went on in his household, not the wife.
Are you Muslim?
Taligreen80 1 month ago
@Taligreen80 Huh?
kevinferere 1 month ago
Chicken legs!!! LMAO Im done #Dead
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@NewBaltlondtv They call em "apple" shaped women. The ones that look like their ass is tucked in. lol
kevinferere 1 month ago
you want a loner with no friends who sucks your dick without asking? that might sound nice for a little while but i'd imagine that would get stale pretty quick...if a guy ever said that they were my "head" i'd probably just laugh & then do a runner
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz The video isn't about what a wife wants from me. If it doesn't fit you don't get mad.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere i'm not mad. i just can't believe it. umm...good luck to you & especially the girls you date.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz Don't be sarcastic.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere that wasnt sarcasm. youre gonna need luck with this mindset i'm afraid :S
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz It's not luck, it's nature.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere ...how is it nature? :/
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz Masculinity is characterized by bravery, sternness, a sense of direction, etc. All qualities pertinent to leadership. It's a part of nature.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere sterness & sense of direction? i'm not sure where you pulled that from. gender exists, but it's wrong to say A is better than B, or that A is the leader & B is the follower. it's the same for race as well.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz See, that's where you're being intimidated. No one said anything about better.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere fair enough, but do you see where i'm coming from? you're not the leader of the women in your life just because you're a man. she may be a more competent leader than you, or maybe is able to work with you like an equal in a relationship. wouldn't it be better not to have someone relying on you to direct their lives?
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz The reality is, we're equal spiritually, but not physically. Me being a man puts me in the position of a leader, but yes my competence actualizes the role. And there are times where a man must step down, but overall, he is the leader.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere physically? because they're stronger? that doesn't make someone a better leader in life.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz Not so much strength alone, but just overall physical characteristics in general. You're not disputing an inequality, you're disputing your pride. If you knew better you would understand your place in the relationship and how beneficial it is to you.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere how can you argue that's not an inequality? & yeah, it would hurt anyones pride to have someone else lead their lives, especially when it's based on a characteristic they cannot change such as sex or race. having someone else lead for me may be beneficial for them, but definitely not me. not being in charge of my own life isn't a benefit.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz You're not getting it. They're not "in charge" of your life or anything like that. It's a sense of direction I spoke of earlier; taking charge of the relationship and taking the initiative to cultivate the betterment of each others well being.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere but what do you mean by "taking charge of the relationship"? & you should both try & work towards bettering each others wellbeing. it seems odd to be in a relationship & not acting to promote the person your withs wellbeing just because you're a woman :S i think guys just like the term "dominant" (i'm not sure why, but in my view it's an ego thing) but it's never actually the case. they aren't really dominant in any way other than physically.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz It's not that you don't get it. You don't want to get it.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere no like i really don't get it. honestly. i don't like the idea, because in my mind the sort of relationship you're describing is one in which the freedom of the women is limited to what the husband allows, & that she basically has to do whatever he tells her to. is that correct?
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz Nope, you just don't get it. Leave it at that until you do.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere well i'm never going to get it until someone who actually knows what anyone means by this type of relationship explains it to me. it doesn't really effect me though i guess - my boyfriend is my best buddy & we're 100% on the same level as each other. works perfectly for us.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz I explained it to you. You just don't get it. Leave it alone.
kevinferere 3 months ago
@kevinferere i don't think u do either, but ok.
TheBgoz 3 months ago
Excuse me, I meant to say I live in Oregon.
1slandqu33n 4 months ago
Oh my! I just got done watching a couple of woman responses to this. Smh. They do have a point. LoL! You have a point too so I'm not hating.
1slandqu33n 4 months ago
So how do you know? Have you been with an island girl? Oh and I life in OR, btw.
1slandqu33n 4 months ago
@1slandqu33n What is OR?
kevinferere 4 months ago
@1slandqu33n What is OR?
kevinferere 4 months ago
Marry an island girl (doesn't have to be me) you won't regret it.
1slandqu33n 4 months ago
@1slandqu33n I know.
kevinferere 4 months ago
omg LMAO @ " she cant be spiritually hirer than me" --- WOOOOOWWWW! wow! its not a competition, you need a spiritually strong women to cover you wen you weak-DUH! You gotta let that one go
Courtnik0 5 months ago
@Courtnik0 Oh please, you're saying that to suit yourself. The male is supposed to be the leader. That's nature.
kevinferere 5 months ago
@kevinferere that's some guys nature. & these guys are usually the ones who are insecure. sure, you may get an insecure girl who sees herself as inferior, but you can't really expect her to be any fun now, can you?
TheBgoz 3 months ago
@TheBgoz Nature isn't insecure. Insecure guys fight for leadership, but a man who understand nature, NATURALLY takes his role, and if a woman competes with that, he won't fight her, he'll just leave.
kevinferere 3 months ago
LOL @ preventive measures no str8 guy friends allowed but cordial is okay...this is interesting but like you said God gives you what you need. Learn to trust my friend!
AnointedtoWait 8 months ago
@AnointedtoWait Nah, it's just that women like to "act" naive.
kevinferere 8 months ago
Amen :)
blackcherry8907 9 months ago
@blackcherry8907 Thank you babe.
kevinferere 9 months ago
I agree with you on everything except for your wife to be in not have friends except for gay men. Suppose your wife to be cheats on you or leave you?
27Access 11 months ago
I agree with you with being the "Man of the house stuff", however, if you hold your "wife to be" captive by not letting her have girl and/or guy friends, then your "wife to be " would feel like a prisoner and eventually she will leave you. If you talk about God, why are you cursing? Don't you think you are misrepresenting God? I agree with you on everything except for that. I hope you treat your "wife to be" as a queen as you will want to be treated as a king when you find your "wife to be"!!!!
27Access 11 months ago
@27Access Like I told you in the other vid. Get the fuck over it. Second, pay attention. She shouldn't have guy friends that close.
kevinferere 11 months ago
@kevinferere - Kevin, come on. Are you that insecure? I am just curious here: does that include male and or female friends in the church? What if your "wife to be" tells you she wants to have Bible study with church friends? What would your response be? I must say, overall you really impressed me with this video. That is Part 1&2. I don't hear men like yourself talking about what they want in a wife like that. LOL!!!!!! I really hope you find that "special wife" in your life.
27Access 11 months ago 2
From the back. Nice.
alexlove31 11 months ago
@alexlove31 What's nice from the back?
kevinferere 11 months ago
Bingo!!!!!! You got it take your own advise! Good job!
youknowyoulikeit1000 11 months ago
You say that ish to everybody. Watch the video again and again. You trying to boost your views. Nice try once is enough for me. I don't wanna die laughing at you Kevin. Lol
youknowyoulikeit1000 11 months ago
@youknowyoulikeit1000 I don't need gimmicks. I tell you to watch the video again so you can get passed you ego and emotionalism and take in the point objectively. Oops, I used a big word. :(
kevinferere 11 months ago
Lol not intimidated at ALL! I'm very comfortable in my skin. I'm watching these videos and you might need to get cha mind right. Only a desperate uneducated bimbo would put up with nonsense you talking about. There's is no recipe for the perfect or even great relationship, lol. I should call you Dr. Love, LMAO! These women gonna chew your ass up and spit you out.
youknowyoulikeit1000 11 months ago
@youknowyoulikeit1000 you don't get it. Every video of mine that you saw, watch again until you do get it.
kevinferere 11 months ago
Lol, you still got some growing up to do. Keep these videos and watch them in a few years. You keep saying they intimidated I think you got that confused. Until you have actually been married then you really don't know what you talking about. LMMFAO! Do u really think young girls dream about sucking a dick everyday when they grow up and get married. Or not having their child hood friends in their life once they get married. You funny as shit. smdh
youknowyoulikeit1000 11 months ago
@youknowyoulikeit1000 Don't get intimidated cuz it's out of our league. The list is very realistic and I'm realistic enough to know that no woman will have all of these qualities, and that even if she does have all of em, she won't have em to the fullest. But as far as sucking dick...if you wanna keep a man, you better know how to please him.
kevinferere 11 months ago
Your welcome. Actually I have watched them all.
dlowe95 1 year ago
@dlowe95 Dang, well take in as much of me as you can handle. Lol
kevinferere 1 year ago
I really like the part about men having girl friends as just friends and vice versa women having men as friends ( unless the men are gay) it can get messy and may cause problems in some cases. Not all. And men being more spiritual is something that I 100 percent agree with. Great topic!
dlowe95 1 year ago
@dlowe95 Thank you so much sweetheart. But I'm gonna have to make sure you see part 1 before you start giving me accolades. Lol
kevinferere 1 year ago
i love this video,,,,,
dlowe95 1 year ago
@dlowe95 ...and it loves you too sweetheart. What exactly did you love about it?
kevinferere 1 year ago
great video but i kinda was surprised by the part about NO MALE FRIENDS. I am an artist and most galleries are run by men who call the house. would ya really get mad and supicious over that? other than that i don't see anything wrong with your list. the oral sex part is cool after you take a bath,lol. stay cool .
zelda75231 1 year ago
@zelda75231 Male friends are cool as long as they're not too comfortable. Know what I mean?
kevinferere 1 year ago
I just saw both videos and I don't think it's all that demanding. I mean, I was raised old fashioned but by seeing the financial turmoil of some women in my family I also know it's important to take care of myself and still keep house. That being said there has to be some kind of compromise. I say that once the kids are old enough to go back to school that's when it's time to get a part-time or something. It don't take that long to cook and clean,lol. And still make time for hubby,it's possible.
lamasPrieta7 1 year ago
@lamasPrieta7 That's a very healthy viewpoint.
kevinferere 1 year ago
Good luck!
AvailabilityNow 1 year ago
@AvailabilityNow Thanks! :D
kevinferere 1 year ago
3:38
Yep...it's about insecurity.
leadingbyxample 1 year ago
@leadingbyxample nope.
kevinferere 1 year ago
Wow! you sound too good to be true! ;-l
MACMILL83 1 year ago
@MACMILL83 It's not at all. I expect most of the list, not all of it; or most of each item on the list, not all of each. It's very realistic when you think about it. There are women out there that willing.
kevinferere 1 year ago
you don't want a wife sounds like you want a hoe. no friends? no job means no money..wtf is your wife going to do all day while you're at work? you better off buying a mail order bride.
ohiochickk 1 year ago
@ohiochickk those are things that a wife does. If you can't grasp that then you must not be wife material.
kevinferere 1 year ago
Appreciate your honesty on this video:-)
thisizme82 1 year ago
@thisizme82 thank you.
kevinferere 1 year ago
smdh......you funny
down4lotts 1 year ago
LMAO :)
PengarooShow 1 year ago
Title should be, "The Goatman Unrealistic List!" LMAO, sort of playing, but sort of serious with no bad intentions...
PengarooShow 1 year ago
@PengarooShow I knew there would be that 10% smh. But for a simpleton such as yourself let me reiterate. I don't expect a woman to have every attribute nor do I expect her to have every attribute completely.
kevinferere 1 year ago
Wow you are my dream-boy ;))) nice statements !!!!!
MissRightousness 1 year ago
i know, point taken thought it was interesting
kinkytrinibaby 1 year ago
no for real dont beleive the hype it is very similar to Christianity dont know how much you know about it
kinkytrinibaby 1 year ago
@kinkytrinibaby Regardless, it's not what I meant.
kevinferere 1 year ago
the things mentioned in theis video have undertones of islam, I just found it interesting home you find what you are looking for...
kinkytrinibaby 1 year ago
@kinkytrinibaby lmaooo Islam? Really? Wow, ok. You can have that.
kevinferere 1 year ago
@kinkytrinibaby yep, i saw that too.
Taligreen80 1 month ago
Lol you seem like you are pretty specific and know what you want in a woman...do you HONESTLY think you will find someone with all the qualities (mentally, spiritually, and physically) you have stated in all of your "What I Want in a Woman/Wife" videos seeing that you already have 3 (beautiful might I add) boys?? No judgement passed just simple honesty to quench my curiosity.
08Tinkerbell12 1 year ago
@08Tinkerbell12 I never said I expect all those qualities. I think I mention in one of my descriptions that I see a portion of all those qualities or portion of the qualities themselves. And no, having kids won't stop that.
kevinferere 1 year ago
@kevinferere point taken. Good luck and God bless.
08Tinkerbell12 1 year ago
@08Tinkerbell12 thanks!
kevinferere 1 year ago
@08Tinkerbell12
i have all of those qualities and i know other women who do. we as a society look for mediocrity too much. he can have all of that in a woman if he looks for it.
peacemakerandrebel 1 year ago
I cant believe out all the things that u've listed on this video. I am all of them that asked in a wife or most men ask in a wife except one which is drinking da cum. I think thats my big problem in which i've done 2 any1. I think I would that whn Im married. wht do u think?
nappiswetpea84 2 years ago
Hold up! I didn't say all that about drinkin anything. lmao
kevinferere 2 years ago
Do not how I stumbled across your vids bt they are good. Don't think it's too much - just your standards and you should never settle. I know I have mine and I wouldn't settle for anything less. But dang why she got have the donk action and extra meat going on (that just knocked me clear out of the ball park - lol). You sure you don't like petite women.
amandacari85 2 years ago
They're pretty but naaaah. We can go out on a date...to the buffet. Yall skinny girls need to eat! When I hit I want to feel some kinda jiggle!
kevinferere 2 years ago
Nah, I'm saying that I would prefer to be on a higher spiritual level than my wife, but if not so be it.
Go and watch my "SUBMIT..." video where I discuss that particular topic.
kevinferere 2 years ago
You know, I watched this the other day, and now I'm re-watching it. I'm not sure where the spiritual confusion for people came in. You never said you didn't want your wife to love God. You just want to be the spiritual leader of the home. I fail to see the flaw with this.
chemistrycourtney 2 years ago
Exactly, and those "type" of women who see something wrong with it cuz there's something wrong within themselves.
kevinferere 2 years ago
I agree with the plan B comment....If you want 2 marry somebody you should know for a fact that he/she will be you're one and only until you or he/she die...its simple...
belinda0604 2 years ago 2
Thanks.
kevinferere 2 years ago
nice vid...
luvnme84 2 years ago
Thank you sweetheart!
kevinferere 2 years ago
I don't see where you are asking for too much! At least you know what you want and still believe in Marriage! I have a question...do you open doors?Smooches!
gobytch 2 years ago
Idk why people would stop believing in marriage they aught to stop believing that ppl can't be faithful or disciplined and loving. Marriage is an institution and institutions only go as far as the people who institute them. And yes, I open doors.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Another thing, the women who take this vid as me asking for too much are the ones who are intimitdated because they know they're not wife material.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Yeah, it's crazy. I don't think about it though. I know that as long as I get on my Loso, my wife will be on point.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Ok, thank you. But there are various reasons why men don't mature, some of which a parent wouldn't be able to control. Come on, how many preacher's sons you see out there wildin out. lol
kevinferere 2 years ago
Yo, I will win the lottery. But real talk, when I'm in that mood, I gets it poppin.
kevinferere 2 years ago
If she don't like gay dudes I don't care. I just don't like that accessibility. I'll trust a stranger a whole lot more than I trust a guy "friend".
kevinferere 2 years ago
i think you should try to stick as close to your list as you can. of course you have to be able to see someones potential as well when it comes to some things. there are people who might not quite be there but want to get there. there is nothing wrong with having things you are looking for in a mate. you know what you want so therefore dont settle! (what did you mean about not being ahead of you spiritually though? how can you keep someone from progressing just so you can be ahead?)
cocoaisbeautiful 2 years ago
Noooooo! Why do people continue to misconstrue that point! I said that that's on me! I just would like to be more spiritually ahead. Why does that intimidate women?
kevinferere 2 years ago
intimidate? lol im not easily intimidated...especially not about something like this. i was just asking for clarification. thats what i like to do instead of assuming and saying something like "you need to make sure youre on point spiritually and then you wont have to worry about the woman being ahead of you spiritually." i thought asking what you meant about not being head of you spiritually was a better way to go about it but i guess not! lol
cocoaisbeautiful 2 years ago 2
No one knows what they want in a spouse, only God knows your blessings because your BEST HAS YET TO COME!!! But when you get your blessing check that list of yours and see if all the items check out. When you look for that wife on that list! you will find her but be patience and wait on the Lord, to send the wife choosing for you.Remember you can speak things to existence and they are not always answered by Lord. Thank you for saying everyone (including men) bows before the Lord.
jamellia 2 years ago
Believe in the Word because you will pick your wife and friends according to the Word.
jamellia 2 years ago
Well thank you, little miss textbook. I agree with everything you're saying but it sounds like you know that in theory.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Hey the Lord said "Know" that I will and I am! But I am divorced and I minister to young women to not go threw any hardship without purpose from God. So yes I am a textbook and a educated Black Woman.
jamellia 2 years ago 2
That's wonderful, but if you follow my list being a textbook and educated has nothing to do with being a wife.
kevinferere 2 years ago
So your wife doesn't need to be educated? I am just trying to say that the wife God picks for you will satisfy your every need and want. But hey if you want a banana cream pie! then follow that list of yours.
jamellia 2 years ago 2
Truthfully she doesn't. As a man, I can't depend or make love to a degree or a title. It won't cook me breakfast in the morning or suck my dick when I'm most horny.
And what is a banana cream pie?
kevinferere 2 years ago
Well sounds like you want a woman that doesn't realize her worth. because she does not have to be educated of the world but educated in the Word. Because her being educated in the Word, her grace will keep your family together. Banana cream pie means speaking of a woman who acts out and doesn't know her worth and position in the Kingdom of God.
jamellia 2 years ago 7
Oh ok, being educated in the Word is important. You're taking me out of context. And I don't see how the word "banana cream pie" is derived from what you describe. You need to step out a little more. Your world is kinda small. Loosen up.
kevinferere 2 years ago
I am Woman thou art Loose! Banana cream pie came from Kat Williams comedy show. U talk about God but don't live up to your assignment and position for God. U get Loosen because my world and freedom isn't small living for Jesus!!! I am Blessed more than I can handle in this life time.
jamellia 2 years ago
You believe that in your heart, but it isn't in your mind. Speak for yourself and don't repeat what your pastor teaches you until it is within you. I come across your type all the time. I bet everyone you associate yourself with is just like you. That's why I say you live in a small world, cuz you have a small mind. There is unity in diversity.
kevinferere 2 years ago
I only speak for my self and I have friends from all walks of life. From Std to babies and no daddies, I wasn't taught to repeat the pastor because he is human. I am just trying to live my life right and I am a process! I mistakes like everyone else but I thankful for mercy every morning. Don't type me because everyone is grouped individually. I have done wrong and I have done right so do not judge me from choosing to do right.
jamellia 2 years ago 2
I don't care what you do or what you don't do. Just by reading your comments I can tell how you carry yourself.
kevinferere 2 years ago
y cant yall be on the same spiritual level?
shayzfine 2 years ago
I already discussed that in the video "little miss hot-headed self" lol
But that's not a set in stone type thing, Its just that I would like for things to be that way. But otherwise, I take it how it comes.
kevinferere 2 years ago
i can tell you a secret to getting head kevin lmao...ahead of you spiritually? how are you going to gauge that? If YOUR spirituality is between you and God..how is her's so much of your concern?
blklacquer 2 years ago 2
I'm not sayin its my concern, because its something I can't control. but I would like to be ahead spirirually being the man.
kevinferere 2 years ago
no male friends? yeah you are insecure and you don't trust her lol. and men have plan b's too (no pun intended)
you better watch the gay guy friends too. but oh my gawd i agree with the girlfriends thing 100
blklacquer 2 years ago 2
Yeah, but men have plan B's after the fact.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Some of your statements I agree, some I can see, & some I contribute it to your age. Your spiritual walk with God is just that, it is YOUR walk. Everyones pace is different. The woman you marry may be at a certain place at first, but it is possible that she may grow closer to God at a faster pace. It is HER relationship with God. Do you really think that God will tell her to stop growing so her husband can catch up with her? The point is, God wants both of you and He will guide the two of you.
mathgenie 2 years ago 2
You know what! That is the most well put comment concerning that topic. Thank you.
kevinferere 2 years ago
wow just reading some of the 'bad comments' toward YOUR list of what YOU - KEVIN FERERE want in YOUR wife- wth is wrong with people? WOW like for real- I think that goes to show how childish they are by not respecting what other people want in their lives- but to each his own I guess
NewNapChic 2 years ago
They're just intimidated, that's all.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Good vid again- just wanted to say- In my opinion- MOST men have a plan B not ladies
NewNapChic 2 years ago
They only have a plan B after the fact, not before.
kevinferere 2 years ago
You are to funny......but you speak the truth....good luck in finding that wife:)
shellbee1075 2 years ago
lol everyone's tellin me good luck as if it ain't gon happen. She may not have all those qualities but most.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Then u should say I want a woman who is going to let me lead our household!!
tychli16 2 years ago
Stop being so nasty LOL
Mslady41 2 years ago 2
That's not nasty, that's real.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Well, that's real nasty (LOL). I'm just playing with you. That's nice to want all that in a woman. Good luck on finding it. Loving someone for who they are first. Then you two can work on all you and her wants.
Mslady41 2 years ago
That's the keyword. "Work"
kevinferere 2 years ago
Kevin - i think you're male version on of me. I COMPLETELY agree with everything you said. Yes, i need my husband to be the spiritual leader of the household, yes....he needs NO female friends. NO grown man has a female "friend" its "potential p*ssy". I also don't like a dude with a gang of friends or one thats always in the street. So EVERYTIME we go somewhere you just gotta know everybody?!?! GTFOHWTBS!
j81jevon 2 years ago 2
Thanks!
kevinferere 2 years ago
your list sounds fair..
I wish you the best of luck finding her suga! when you DO, don't let her go! we need more fairytale endings in this world! :)
Dreaontv 2 years ago
True!
kevinferere 2 years ago
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honeyhued08 2 years ago
Who told you spiritual women don't suck dick? What kind of perfect little world do you live in. The flesh and the spirit are two different things but they reside in one entity.
kevinferere 2 years ago
man.. get outta here! lol! Not performing oral sex has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with being perfect. Get outta here do you kiss your mother with that mouth?
honeyhued08 2 years ago
Hell yeah!
kevinferere 2 years ago
you are hilarious
blklacquer 2 years ago
-sounds like you want a controllable weak hermit..."Stepford Wife"
-Spiritual level higher..no one is higher than god..wow that was a turn off....sorry I just heard that..I know you didn't mean what you said man...I mean you really didn't do that...the devil is a lie.
VivaciousElizabeth 2 years ago
Why are you so rebellious?
kevinferere 2 years ago
Awesome vid dude! No one should knock you for stating your preferences... Everyone has their own standards.
colorfulcandy777 2 years ago
Thanks. Like I said, ppl should have standards, not morals. I think these qualities are realistic in a woman, but not necessarily absolute. But I think it would behoove a woman to at least have a majority of the said qualities...especially the one at the end of Part 1...lmaoooooo
kevinferere 2 years ago
Wrong, Wrong, Wrong ! No Guy friends, no plan B, and I am not surprised. I guess you are whom I perceived you to be. Egotistical etc, etc.etc
But yo I still love ya. And btw, love your teeth love your lips. Your still great eye candy but a bad husband.
Lovelydiva60628 2 years ago 2
I love this comment...lol:)
Carletta09 2 years ago
lol Don't kill the messenger if you feel you don't remotely add up. Most of those qualities, most men can agree with. So if you callin me a bad husband, that directs much attention to yourself. You're an intelligent girl, I'm sure you can rise above what you feel.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Thats like me getting upset with you cause I HAVE a gut and you want a wife without one- if you dont fit the bill get over it- you DONT have to watch the video- people kill me! lol
NewNapChic 2 years ago
I'm not saying that her vision is too lead the household, that is your job. I just feel like taking her advice on some things that you may not know biblically will benefit u and your vision for your household. If she is the woman God sent for you she will not try to lead the household and use her greater knowledge to help u walk in your God-given position.
tychli16 2 years ago
Well ofcourse. She is there to help me see the things I can't see, but it is my responsibility to be at the forefront.
kevinferere 2 years ago
I think even if the husband is more spiritual that you should both be helping each other grow in the Lord, because you are now 1.
samarie30 2 years ago
It sounds like a part of you wants to agree with me but another part of you wants to rebel.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Not rebel. I do want a man that is spiritually higher than me since he has to account to God for the household in the end. It just sounded like you know it all spiritually and your wife would be some type of idiot who couldn't hear or seek God without you. Hey, more men do need to stand up.
samarie30 2 years ago
Why wouldn't you want a man that is higher than you spiritually.
kevinferere 2 years ago
I didn't say I didn't. I said I did want a man who is spiritually higher, but I also want to be heard in what I gleam myself in my personal walk with the Lord also. You know, just in case you miss something ;)
samarie30 2 years ago
What makes you think your husband won't hear you? Are you insecure?
kevinferere 2 years ago
Nope, not insecure. It just sounded like you didn't want to hear anything from your wife because you are so spiritually evolved.
samarie30 2 years ago
If you are more spiritual than your wife does that mean you won't receive any word that God may give her to confirm something you been thinking about or that she can't share any revelations that God has spoken to her to help you both? The man should be the head of the household, but a wife is also put there to be your help mate. In the end it will be the man that has to answer to what went on in his household, not the wife.
samarie30 2 years ago