How to approach and meet a girl in your class

[LAHWF]

I've made some videos of me and friends approaching girls at school and in public. check them out! thanks

[ultimate8pac]

in class is easym just ask her name

[tiavuj6624]

what about if i like the guy who is in this video yes im a girl and sorry to say but you are very hot do you have a girlfriend :) i

[arkady39]

@tiavuj6624 Thank you! ;) You are too kind.

[goudz23]

lol my campus has over 45k ppl so every guy walks up to random girls and say "you look familiar, did we have a class together?" it works though lol

[RomeoSOF2]

Lol, I helped a girl in my class in a physics test and she got 10/10, because I helped her alot and I'm pretty good at it =p

Does being smart attracts women much?

[Kyle7181]

I sit right next to this girl in my class that I would like to get to know. Any tips on how to break the ice with girls that sit next to you?

Thanks

[mohimohi1983]

Tell her let's get something to eat and ask her for sex after you had your food.

[moviemakingbusiness]

o.o you guys are making me blush... i has no clue why i clicked this vid... ima go now... ~runs away~

[MitchKid1991]

My biggest problem with girls is that if I am the on to break the ice i feel as though i am sucking up to her... and i feel infeior to her.. And when SHE breaks the ice i feel as though i am more important than she is and that I want to remain that way... it is hard to explain but quite weird

[Mentallyawake568]

the mirror in the background is hillarious. I thought I saw a ghost but it is the guru himself.

[simockslo]

is it good if you are shy and have a little anxiety but still talk and get along with her?

[EXTREMESKATIN]

G E N I O U S lol

veryy smart x]

[bleachfan778]

my friend wanted try this but they sit beside eachother and talk so she knows he knows she in his class my friend is kinda stressed and that make me kinda bummed please reply

[formaldehyde83]

This would be a very effective tip, but I couldn't exactly pull that line on her, because we share a relatively small class... And I'd look kinda like a mook pointing out the obvious by saying, "We're in the same class together!"

I'm pretty interested in this girl, but I don't know how to start a conversation. I get no opportunities outside of class, and I don't want to just start sitting by her, that might come off as creepy...

I don't know, girls are tricky man...

[xlawofattraction]

just say something, i do it all the time!

it doesn't even have to be a long conversation. Whatever you do, don't plan what you're gonna say, just say something

[adolescent900]

What if she walks too fast? When class is over, she's out and I'm still packing my books..

Professor doesn't like when anyone talks so I was thinking maybe passing a note back and forth since she sits right next to me.

[aarruleAAAAAAAAAAAAA]

good, but here, find out what bell rings, a minute before, pack up..

[ST8CPT]

but what if she is allways with her friends?

[wnxsparkman1]

i tryed both participating and not participating but nothing work what else should i try

[RayRayaGoGo]

So i love the accent.

Very Very sexy ;)

[k7dq]

excellent

[WannabeJessica]

your kinda cute! wheres your accent from?

[samazn20]

"hey, aren't we in the same class?" this quote makes Me laugh it's hilarious. The way you guys can do, just talk to everyone around you and then isolate that girl into a conversation that relate to class lessons. Just dont focus on her beauty just be polite and show some class like u talk to anyone else. Just smile and dont focus on her appearance.. and yu'll see the magic>>

[Cruisefuckinkalem]

on the other hand, most women wants to be pursued (NOT CHASED) as a guy you have to show that you're interested in a discreet way, but yes i agree that you shouldnt just jump on her xD

[TaelurJamez]

Awesome vid man :D lmao at 0:54

[Necroman666]

I always make eye contact with nice girls, and they seem to enjoy me, but i just can't go there and speak to her. i have a real serious shyness issue with girls only.

[Ki11erSniper08]

Omg me too, its crazy. I see a girl im attracted to and i just cant say anything to her.

[kuushaal]

OH MY GOD!! BUDDY..Its like reading something I have written..I eye girl and I know for a fact they enjoy it and they eye back..I have noticed girls eying me on the subway through reflection mirrors(not bragging) and I love it, but when it comes to going up to her and talking..I am pretty shy and chicken out a lot of times!!

[boanerges90]

same here...

[wnxsparkman1]

i'm with you there i'm shy too trying to talk to them

[seanelfy]

ha ha me too same thing they seem to look back alot but i never take it any where

[bannanahomie]

ur not alone

[Necroman666]

I am a really good looking guy who gets a lot of attention from girls, and kinda confident in the walk, but i have never had a girlfriend. i am 'socially awkward' with girls, but no problem with guys. how to overcome this problem where i'm someone who ''theres just not much to talk about with''

look, i'm real interesting and very inteligent, but have none social skills with girls at all, and i feel very unconfortable, but only with the cute ones.

[houman6a6]

This only comes with practice- what you have to do is just do it! Go up to that good looking girl and talk to her-- it might be awkward first time..try it again with different girl...and again... the more you do the better. Trust me.

Another tip: When going to bed- imagine yourself going up to the most attractive girl. Imagine yourself talking to her- imagine yourself getting her number. Imagine yourself feeling good. This might sound weird but it REALLY works.

[sniperfox33]

Ya I have the same problem. Like, I'm really smart and I like to answer questions in class but, I'm not sure if I answer to many questions....='( Plus I am really shy, around girls that I like. At least I have a good personality and I'm good looking.

[Cruisefuckinkalem]

"at least I have a good personality and i'm good looking." hahahahaha.. good looking persons are not shy. thats a law of nature.

[Technocian]

Keeping it simple... I like.

I've come to learn that those fancy "movie-style" pickup lines do not work in real life. Keeping it simple and straightforward is what always works best.

[Tai02]

Wouldn´t I be entering the friend zone by aproaching this way? There are any risks of that to happen? Can I really be seen as a possible boyfriend with this tip?

[Rejii16]

ok was this a bad move? It was raining today after school, i was walking past the buses to get to my car. i had an umbrella that i wasnt using. A very attractive girl was walking behing me to her bus, but she was using her book for cover. I(naturally a nice person) said" you dont have to use your book, u can share with me and Ill walk you to your bus". Her bus wasnt there so i [in a rush] asked for her name and number.got both and said she can borrow the umbrella and continued to my car.i think

[Harvest8888]

wow...that is genius Rejii16! I will have to try that one...the best part is that she will probably want to return it to you! Score another meeting!

[6sasuke0]

Excelent tips but what if the girl is in the year above mine? So i rarely see her (shes always in the study base for her year only) what do i do then?

[reebbeer36]

Hey nice advice man. Im a freshman in college and I am trying to hook up with the hot blonde girl who sits in front of me. I was pretty confused about introducing myself, but I think I will try your method next class/after class. I will be sure to post updates if anyone wants to hear about my progress, my goal this week is to just get a name. lol

[dungeon987654321]

hi bro im that kind of person who is big strong the kind of rugby player person and ive seen a nice girl in my form group but i see her only 15mins a day as she is in none of my other classes i know her name and personality and she knows mine im polite and kind to her but every time i seee her elsewhere she is with like 8 other girls who lets just say not be my favourate type

plzz i really want to get into her even more so what shall i do to get her hand onto mine plzz expert person advise me.

[OGSKrew]

great vid.. imma have to use the out of class casual comment thing you suggested thanks :)

[arkady39]

If she doesn't like you, then you move on and set your eye on someone else.

[Tai02]

Hey Arakady! I´m interested in girl of my class and I´m planning to use this tip to approach her.. but I want to ask you something.. when meeting a woman of the same class.. the risks of getting stuck in the friend zone are bigger? or it´s the same as other dialy situation?

[Tai02]

Hey! Arkady39 I have new class mates this year and most of them are hot girls/women!! :D I´m interested in one in particular because she seems clever than the rest and I find that very sexy :P I´m planning to use this tip to reach her but I have a doubt. Can a girl of the same class see me as a possible boyfriend?? Do I have any risk of entering the "friend zone"??

[youngb1ood]

theres a girl in my class that actually does what that guy does.... annoying ass girl complains and stuff talks too much basically

[liquidpaper510]

dam hes good!!!

[ballers211]

Hello man i am interested in this girl in my science class. but i wanna talk to her and stuff but she doent have da same lunch as me and stuff. and when class ends her next class is right bside da one she is with me. gimme some tips man. thanks a lot!!

[taino3444]

i would leave the class at the same time as her n just ask her sum simple shit like did he assign us homework or wat was the HW, ask her wat grade she has in the class n if she understands everythin, ask her her name n introduce urself n just keep it goin from there

[valdonado19]

Good tips! Theres this how little German girl in my class that is smokin hot! Im into her, and Im sure shes into me. The only problem is the fifty German dudes that cock block like shes the Last German girl in the world.I think it beacuse Im latin and not German that those guys do that shit? Dont worry though Ill catch my little Frauen!;-)Even if I have to pummel over fifty little Germans dudes!McCain '08

[bloodiestmuffin]

lol

[SmartGuyMan]

Thankyou for the suggestion, simple but hopefully effective.

[MightierToaster]

I still think just approaching a girl right when class gets out is the best way. Find common ground, and ask if you want to get coffee. Until it fails I live by it.

[happyFlip182]

I sit right by her, and im still to nervous and distracted by her beauty to do so.

[FLESHINTOGEAR21895]

the girls at my school think im a perv because i still laugh at words like balls and nuts..... how do i get out of this pit?

[sonyvaio18]

Hey Arkady, Thanks for your awesome insights. Just let me know if u answered this in another video: Let's say you start the conversation. What I find is often times the conversation gets boring and we talk about mundane things afterwords. How do you make conversation fun and interesting? How do you listen in the right way?

[arkady39]

Go to the homepage of my site and download "powerful personality" short audio. Also check out "powerful conversation" audio program. They provide a very detailed answer to your question. Thanks.

[arkady39]

A lot is up to you too. Don't bring boring, mundane subjects and you will be much better off.

[Komaoala]

(sigh) Too bad I'm taking online classes since it works out with my work schedule.

[sgtpepperaut]

i wouldnt necessarily follow her and approach that same time. much rather see where she usually is after class and await her there..this way she is the one coming to you not vica versa.

[arkady39]

Thanks a lot.

[comfortablynumb412]

I am a really good looking guy who gets a lot of attention from girls, but i have never had a girlfriend and i am 18 and and gonna be a freshmen in college. i am 'socially awkward' with guys and even moreso with girls. how do i overcome this problem where i'm someone who ''theres just not much to talk about with''

[arkady39]

Good question. You should start working on becoming a more interesting guy - gaining more knowledge and forming more opinions about difference things and issues.

[hnraghava]

I'm not sure if this would work, I'll try anyway

[JooseyJuice]

Lol, This whole time I thought that guy in the background was a roommate that just hangs out there in all your vids. Just realized that it was a mirror.

[stardestroyer18]

Me 2

[arkady39]

:) Thanks. Where do you live?

[richieguitar17]

thx but i need to know on how to talk to a girl while in class i am way to shy plz comment back with advice

[arkady39]

Yap, that's me.

[DevochkaNeTvoya]

hmmm not bad advice... if a guy ever does this to me, ill know he is interested lol

[arkady39]

Very good. I like your screen name. And I think I know what it means. :)

[DevochkaNeTvoya]

and what would that be? :))

[arkady39]

Come on, you can tell I speak Russian ("not your girl")

[bonehead515]

That makes no sense if that girl is in your class then you would look dumb because its obvious that she is

[arkady39]

It wouldn't look dumb if you never actually spoke with her before, and you would say - "Hey, we are in the same class, aren't we?" - there is absolutely no harm in that.

[arkady39]

Sure, that's why I never say "be yourself" - because it really doesn't mean anything.

[arkady39]

I don't understand...

[arkady39]

Why do you think that?

[OhjeesAndBlossyxD]

man your so cool

[sexyplayerbunny]

Or u just somehow randomly go up to her. doesnt matter if she;s sittin alone or with her friendz. And be like "hey guys my friends just rejected me>? Say it in a funny way. Can i just come and join yous"

[Tedddytom]

Are you gay?

[arkady39]

What makes you think that?

[uploader1010]

yeah why do u think that??

[xslaught3r]

cuz he wants him! hahaha XD

[Jagger02]

I keep choking... I had class with her today and helped her out in an assignment. I just keep choking... Arkady HELP ME!!!! lol

[kadavikhan]

Man i know how you feel man . i finally talk to her today my next step is asking her to tutor me ...

[arkady39]

I am sorry. This is something that only YOU can do. Be assured that once you do it, it's not going to be anywhere near as scary as you think it will be.

[Fredzione]

Wow nice vid bro keep it up!

[arkady39]

Thanks.

[Bobzeaux]

I'm always participating in class, and it's impossible for me to "accidentally" bump into anyone without being creepy. Whatever successes you think you can attribute to this sort of technique are only coming out of girls being charmed by your unusual accent.

[vasandgvd]

ok! here's the big deal...

There's a girl that I really like! While my friends think that she's not that beautiful I just can't get my mind out of her.

The bad thing is that I didn't approach her from the beginning and she's caught me looking at her many times, so I'm sure that she knows she's interesting for me.

So I can't follow you advices because she will understand whatever I do is in purpose. What shall I do? Seating next to her, or stumbling upon her will get me in embarrassment.........

[arkady39]

Good question and a common problem. If you can, try this great ice-breaker: "Hey, I thought I would come up to you and say hi instead of staring like you know i have been doing for the past month" - say it lightly, with a smirk and it will be a great way to open a conversation.

[fade2black412]

I have a problem. There is this girl in my A block and its frustrating because we both know that we really like each other, but the ice is not broken and its been months. The few times we have talked I have been very unnatural and uncomfortable. I really want to try to get rid of this problem of mine but its hard even though I am positive she likes me because she started trying to talk to me first. Any advice to break the ice after all this time?

[arkady39]

Why is it awkward and unnatural? Do you think she is shy? Or are you shy? Or you guys might just not have a lot to talk about?

[comfortablynumb412]

It is me who is shy, and the obvious shyness I have has made it so we just make eye contact sometimes, but there is a strong connection, I just have to think of things to say and learn to speak with confidence, because I am confident in my looks, because many girls are interested in me, but I am trying to gain confidence in my social skills and whatnot.

[Jagger02]

This is gold my friend.

[arkady39]

Thanks, appreciate it.

[dropoutextreme]

nice tips =)

[dodo321sens]

Great advice. Thanks arkady:)

[arkady39]

Thanks for watching.

[OmarMafia66]

hey love guru wat race are you, im not racist just curious, please reply

[arkady39]

No problem. I am Jewish.

[OmarMafia66]

Oh Ok Thank You, I For Some Reason Thought You Were Arabian LoL Sorry But Thank You, Your Methods Are Great

[arkady39]

Well, both ethnicities belong to the semitic races.

[OmarMafia66]

Ohhhhh Ok Then That Explains Much More To Me, Thanks

[deathdealer12cat]

there is this one girl that i kind of talk to in class and i want to ask her out to the prom. She is really nice but i don know if 1. she like me and 2. if her friends will except me. And on top of that every time i start talking to this girl to ask her out i bitch out at the last second or one of her friends come and interupt me. what should i do

p.s. plese reply fast the last day to pay for prom is in 4 DAYS !!!!!!!!!!

[arkady39]

Hey there.

1. There is NEVER a way to know if someone likes you for sure. This is just part of dating that we must accept.

2. Don't worry about her friends accepting you and all the other circumstances. Remember, you have absolutely nothing to lose. If nothing else, it will be an interesting experience.

Most importantly, instead of focusing on this girl, focus on gaining the skill of confidence& approaching girls - this would be much more important to your future interactions with women.

[deathdealer12cat]

thanks man. i am going to watch more of your clips and ask he out next time i see her. hope what you say is ture and it goes well :)

[ViperGuy10]

Awesome video, Hey I have a question for you. I'm a senior in high school, and I like this beautiful girl who is a junior. she's not in any of my classes and I only see her in the hallways and sometimes at lunch. I tried to talk to her yesterday but i couldn't because I got really nervous and I didn't know what to say. Can you please give ideas or tips on how to approach her because I really don't want to sound stupid or weird, Thanks!!!!

[VueTim92]

i have a questions, i like this one girl in school, never have a class with her, i think she likes me but i can never be 100% sure. i alwas find her around wit her friends so the best time is probally in the lunch line or in the hallway. how and what should i talk to her about? when i actually come up to her.

[arkady39]

Hey, there. I would say something like that playfully: "Wow, you are so popular! (wink wink) you are never alone. What's the secret?" - the execution would be much more important than the words...

[shyniceguy22]

i'm a college student and i like this girl in my one class. i cant really talk to her in class cause she sits far way. i usually just say hi at the end. i dont see her around school. i'm thinking on asking her for her sn and she what she says. just seems like i need to say more or do more but i dunno when and how i can. any advice would be appreciated. thanks

[arkady39]

Please see my reply below.

[arkady39]

That sounds like a plan. And doing something is much better than doing nothing at all.

And remember, HOW you talk to her is much more important than what you say. Don't make a big deal out of it, and act as if it was the most natural thing for you to do - coming up and starting a conversation with her. If you don't create pressure in a situation, she won't fell any and things will go much better. Thanks, and let me know how it goes.

[ttgaetani]

im a senior and 17, but i like this freshman girl who is 14. shes not like many freshman girls: she's a cheerleader, she hangs out with juniors and seniors, but shes also not in any of my classes. how would i approach her in the hallway?

[arkady39]

If you saw her cheerleading, next time you see her - come up to her and say: "hey, great cheerleading out there.... you are something... what does it take to get that good?" - this should break the ice, and if not then... she is not interested. I must also mention that 14 sounds awfully young for any romantic interaction, even though you are not much older.

[Churromyster69]

yeah thats true, she has work right after class so she's always busy i guess. but i'll try to crack a joke n i'll see wut happens lol thanks arkady =D

[arkady39]

Sounds good. let me know how it goes.

[Churromyster69]

umm, but how about if she's one of those that takes off right after class in a hurry, so you have no other option left but to spark a conversation in class, especially if she sits next to you, what are good conversation starters?

[arkady39]

One great thing you can do is making fun of something or making a smart remark about something that the teacher said.

Also, if she is in a hurry to leave, don't hesitate to stop her and say "wait a minute." I mean, where can she possibly be in such a big hurry to?

[immortalzero18]

thanks!!! i'll try to do this

[arkady39]

Yes, and keep me posted.

[kingreaper54]

can some one help me on conversation starters

[antartica4321]

I'm in college right now and I see this girl I really want to get to meet. However, my buddy saw her first, and he already talked to her. Fortunately she completely turned him down. So I guess this gives me the green light to talk to her. The problem is that she has seen me and my buddy around campus A LOT, so it is obvious that she knows we've spoken about her, and that I know her name. My question is how I introduce myself, while still making it spontaneous, and casual?

[arkady39]

Don't worry about what she thinks you know and what's on her mind. You never met her in person so it doesn't matter what other people say. Just go up to her next time and say: "Hey, how is it going? I haven't had a chance to meet you yet. I know you are talking to my friend..." etc... and see how things develop.

[antartica4321]

This solution is so simple, yet it is the smartest thing I've heard all day. IMA DO IT!!!

[kingreaper54]

hey i need help approaching girls man i just find it so hard i don't even know what to say to start the conversation

[politeista12]

has a lot of sense thanks

[arkady39]

Thanks!

[arkady39]

Then it means that she is rude / not interested / immature. You laugh and move on not thinking about it another second.

[angeleyez1974]

Hey arkady39 You kno u r hott i guess

[arkady39]

Well, thank you. That's nice of you to say.

[mastaplaya51]

wow never thought of doing that great work keep it up!!! =]

[arkady39]

Thanks, I hope you find it useful.

[merlin15222]

im sorry to tell but what you just told people to act like 90 per cent off afcs who think being "nice" and being "yourself" will get a girl,the truth is that this wanna be guru will teach you to become the girls "friend"-nothing more,no offense guy

[arkady39]

I want to remind you that being an AFC or becoming a friend is not about what you say but HOW you say it and what frame of mind you are coming from. Nothing about this kind of approach will put you in a friend zone or will make you come across as an AFC unless you make wrong moves after that.

[459286]

it din't work 4 alot 'o people i kno

[arkady39]

Well, nothing works every time. For instance, if a girl is plainly not interested, NOTHING will work. But this method makes breaking the ice easy. Thanks.

[spikeyhairazn]

typical, yet, will work!

[arkady39]

Try it when you have the opportunity and let me know how it works.

[spikeyhairazn]

anything will work, u gotta figure life out, and how lifes goes, and figure yourself out, and u will get lots of girls, u dont have to be rich or good looking, just smart, n nice, n sweet.. believe me i know.. ask all my friends gf's.... ;(****

[liljx9i6]

uhm the 1st is not my type..

but the 2nd one...i think i can work with=] thx

[1337GreenTeaBagger]

Thanks!

[crackphoo]

thanks dude

[lksdaklsad]

yeah great advice again

[arkady39]

Thank you!