@dongnguyen25 He's saying how parents often pass down their problems to their children, and can mess up your life with their psychoses (such as controlling behaviour, overbearing, ignorance, unhelpful, etc). I incline to the view that if your parents have f***ed you up, you should probably not have children. My parents have f***ed my life up and as a result, I don't want to have kids or marry at all.
@BlackMariah69 Yeah, he was one of us. An ordinary human being with the faults and fears of an ordinary human being. Still one of the great poets, though.
Discovered this by chance in my high school English book and loved it. From what I've seen, this is one of those poems people either love or hate. Seems to me that the older you are, the less likely you are to write it.
Great reading. Great poem. Thanks. I "discovered" the poetry of Philip Larkin about 20 years ago; "Church Going" was the first poem that I read in an Spanish translation: "Ir a la Iglesia" (I'm mexican; excuse my English!), that sounded simply beautiful. Thanks again.
That's interesting, as Malcolm McDowell (Alex) has a Yorkshire (northern) accent, while my accent is more southern England/London. I'm glad you liked it - thanks for commenting!
For somebody with a divine tongue, your a bit silly aren't you?How do you know he resorted to using the word 'Fuck'. Did he lay awake for nights on end until giving in...'Oh bugger it, fuck it is then'!
What does it matter anyhow? He's putting in to words how he feels about his parents, not wondering whether he's copping out or not. I couldn't stop myself from saying that your comment is rather half-baked and a tad irritating. Fuck is a word.
A few of my friends at Hull University were told off by him in the Library....in 1983.. I think...they had no idea who he was.....I think they may have told him to fuck off....I told them who he was . Funny. Bloody philistines.
Larkin's a great poet, and no doubt about it, but this one has attained a fame far beyond its meagre accomplishment. Using the f word if a cop out for a poet of his stature, and I always regret he felt he had to resort to using it. Poets do not require street credibility like punk musicians.
bad language=colloquilalsim= a more accesible poem. sorry for nit-picking but i too am quite the larkin fan............. a master of poetic form if ever i read.
Duh, the whole point of Larkin was he was rejecting the notions of what a poet should do. He was traditonal in form (rejecting the blank verse of Modernism) yet used contemporary in vernacular (rejecting the elitism of Modernism).
@sophiejanebailey I think what he says in the poem is very wise. I think only a certain percentage of human beings are suitable to be parents, yet society pressures and eggs on everyone to have kids even though many people don't really want to raise kids and are not suited to it. Some of us are meant to stay single or not have kids. Parenting aint for everyone, and the sooner the human race understands that, the better.
Yep, it's simple but very incisive. It's a pity Larkin never accepted the Laureate post - I don't think he really got the recognition he deserved during his lifetime.
Great one Derek. How true it is. Did I hear you say a cuss word? I'm exposed to linguistic decadence! How'd you slip this great new one by me without me noticing? 8-)
First time I read this poem, I thought it was just a funny joke. But the older I get the more I realise just how true it is.
IlRezzonico 1 month ago
Music is Oscar Peterson's Night Train - i think.
Deana3902 2 months ago
life is pain and we should not bother, right on!
GriefTourist 2 months ago
Get out as early as you can, And don't have any kids yourself.
juliamakhubela 3 months ago
@dongnguyen25 He's saying how parents often pass down their problems to their children, and can mess up your life with their psychoses (such as controlling behaviour, overbearing, ignorance, unhelpful, etc). I incline to the view that if your parents have f***ed you up, you should probably not have children. My parents have f***ed my life up and as a result, I don't want to have kids or marry at all.
Relugus 5 months ago
They fuck you up your kids
And the little shits mean it
bunnyman06 7 months ago
*right-wing, jazz-loving, pornography-loving, whiskey-loving, racist, mysoginist librarian.
BlackMariah69 8 months ago
@BlackMariah69 Yeah, he was one of us. An ordinary human being with the faults and fears of an ordinary human being. Still one of the great poets, though.
gaspode18 4 weeks ago
great...but why the pictures of Eric Morecombe's? :o)
MusicStudyMan 9 months ago
Well this was uplifting. lol
MarsyasX1 1 year ago
O's
rexh1212 1 year ago
That's a damn good reading, a brilliant video - very well done.
Riddles2007 1 year ago
What's the name of the music at the end? And who's it by?
whitesocksmylad 1 year ago
~*effing brilliant!! love it*love it*love it
ChrysalisBound 2 years ago
Love the poem, love the reading, love the jazzy finish. :D
EggsEqualVictory 2 years ago
very very nice vid, Larkin is an amazing poet, and i'v never heard his voice before, very appropriate
ilikethepie91 2 years ago
Thanks! It's actually me doing the reading, but I think someone else has posted a YT video of Larkin reciting this poem.
delbhoye 2 years ago
@ilikethepie91 - Nah - that's not Larkin's voice.
angelaandkiki 2 months ago
Discovered this by chance in my high school English book and loved it. From what I've seen, this is one of those poems people either love or hate. Seems to me that the older you are, the less likely you are to write it.
DrDoom343 2 years ago
Great reading. Great poem. Thanks. I "discovered" the poetry of Philip Larkin about 20 years ago; "Church Going" was the first poem that I read in an Spanish translation: "Ir a la Iglesia" (I'm mexican; excuse my English!), that sounded simply beautiful. Thanks again.
drbogenbroom2000 2 years ago
Glad you enjoyed it - thanks for stopping by!
delbhoye 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
when i heard it, i thought it was the voice of alex in the oragne clock (kubrick).
And it made more sense, actually is that kind of personality
Sorry for muy english im a chilean girl who love this poem.
allitagarcia 2 years ago
That's interesting, as Malcolm McDowell (Alex) has a Yorkshire (northern) accent, while my accent is more southern England/London. I'm glad you liked it - thanks for commenting!
delbhoye 2 years ago
Hmmm... How on earth is using the word "fuck" a "cop out"?
It's a perfectly valid word within our wonderful English language and has been used in many great pieces of literature and poetry.
P.S. To PJ - is Gord divine then? ;o)
DKUncut 2 years ago
in the words of murdoc niccals
this be the verse couldve been a killer song but he never managed to write this be the chorus
lewismurray1 2 years ago
Thanks for the in-depth and scholarly insight into Larkin, Silkcoolio.
EnglishG3nt 2 years ago
Hi 'thewordofgod'...
For somebody with a divine tongue, your a bit silly aren't you?How do you know he resorted to using the word 'Fuck'. Did he lay awake for nights on end until giving in...'Oh bugger it, fuck it is then'!
What does it matter anyhow? He's putting in to words how he feels about his parents, not wondering whether he's copping out or not. I couldn't stop myself from saying that your comment is rather half-baked and a tad irritating. Fuck is a word.
Yours
PeppermintJumpsuit 2 years ago
A good poem reccomended to me by none other than my dad LOL.. i enjoyed the reading thanks.
TheHugDrug 3 years ago
Glad you liked it.
delbhoye 2 years ago
A few of my friends at Hull University were told off by him in the Library....in 1983.. I think...they had no idea who he was.....I think they may have told him to fuck off....I told them who he was . Funny. Bloody philistines.
gasgas270 3 years ago
LOL. Good one! But I don't think being told to fuck off would've fazed Larkin much!
delbhoye 2 years ago
Larkin's a great poet, and no doubt about it, but this one has attained a fame far beyond its meagre accomplishment. Using the f word if a cop out for a poet of his stature, and I always regret he felt he had to resort to using it. Poets do not require street credibility like punk musicians.
wordofgord
thewordofgord 3 years ago
fuck is a pun, our parents do 'fuck us up' in a way.
aaronb01 3 years ago
bad language=colloquilalsim= a more accesible poem. sorry for nit-picking but i too am quite the larkin fan............. a master of poetic form if ever i read.
imasmeasmecanbe 2 years ago
Duh, the whole point of Larkin was he was rejecting the notions of what a poet should do. He was traditonal in form (rejecting the blank verse of Modernism) yet used contemporary in vernacular (rejecting the elitism of Modernism).
Zythe 2 years ago 5
Has anyone got any ideas for a dissertation proposal on the poetry of Larkin?
MarkJPaddy 3 years ago
Is that Larkin doing the reading?
anchower 3 years ago
No, it's me!
delbhoye 3 years ago
best poem ever, but he was a prick
Slikcoolio 3 years ago
Yep, he definitely had some, er, issues :-/
delbhoye 3 years ago
philip larkin kept it real
sophiejanebailey 3 years ago 3
@sophiejanebailey I think what he says in the poem is very wise. I think only a certain percentage of human beings are suitable to be parents, yet society pressures and eggs on everyone to have kids even though many people don't really want to raise kids and are not suited to it. Some of us are meant to stay single or not have kids. Parenting aint for everyone, and the sooner the human race understands that, the better.
Relugus 5 months ago
I'm studying Larkin for AS English Literature, blunt but so true it's horrible how true it is... this one made me laugh :D
92walex 3 years ago
Larkin's great - he says it how it is! If you liked this one, then check out 'Sunny Prestatyn' as well. Good luck with AS Lit!
delbhoye 3 years ago
One of the best poems ever written. I keep a copy of it in my wallet.
MycroftsMatch 3 years ago
Yep, it's simple but very incisive. It's a pity Larkin never accepted the Laureate post - I don't think he really got the recognition he deserved during his lifetime.
delbhoye 3 years ago
fuckn weirdo
ctcollegiate 3 years ago
Great one Derek. How true it is. Did I hear you say a cuss word? I'm exposed to linguistic decadence! How'd you slip this great new one by me without me noticing? 8-)
DieselBodine 3 years ago
Yes, I'm afraid there were some rude words in this one, DB. It's an 'R' rated poem with some adult content. :o)
Perhaps I should do some nice poems, like Keats or Wordsworth!
delbhoye 3 years ago
5 star, favorite.
debswildhoney 3 years ago
Hi Deb. Glad you liked it !
delbhoye 3 years ago
5 stars, Del, you bastion of culture, you!
useryug 3 years ago
Thanks Barry. I've always been a bit of a bastion ! :o)
delbhoye 3 years ago