One thing that will boost your confidence today!

[kyhnni123]

Thank you... now my room is finally clean! ;)

[YesseniaSegovia]

I guess I was really into the topic and knowing what he was going to say in the video because SURPRISINGLY I didn't even notice the lip biting thing in the beginning. I had to replay LOL

[curlyfangs]

So weird! I'm a hussey too ;) haha kidding I just like lame jokes

[ShirleyBrian]

wow, that was really helpful!

[xsparklexlovex]

brilliant advice!

[aburningpromise]

Thank you Matthew! This is something anyone can do no matter how difficult the task may seem! :D

I love it! What a lovely creature: Charm, wit, enthusiasm AND cuteness? :) Thank you for making my day Matthew!

[MoralDilemmas]

Totally worked! I just came back from my spring break and hadn't unpacked yet because it's midterms. This was my first free day but it was pissing me off that my room looked so messy. and it just got worse over the week because my room naturally gets messy during midterms. Did this today and made a huge dent!

[Amorphustruth]

I did not really listen to any of this- i lost interest in what was to come after the lip biting thing in the beginning. DOing sexy little things like that is not the best way to get us to concentrate!

[Welcometomylife2441]

LOL. I wonder if he reads these comments!

[Princesscoolboo]

I tuned out as soon as you bit your lips... Da to the uyymm. So hot!

[luciejade22]

is he attractive because he is very handsome, or is he attractive because he loves life - :)

[stephrb73]

sorry, not for me. about to leave...*click* the rest of you gals can have him... aw, I'm mean. looks like I fail at "getting the guy." darn. ;)

[Jshine1980]

he is so right !

[dbsk06]

omg this is GENIUS

I AM SO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL!!!! :)

[Stephie91]

Him biting his lip at 0:00 is already sexy omg.

[momokokochuchuchu]

you make me smile :) Thank you

[TheDoritosfan1]

wow great advice

[Rtv03]

I have heard AND applied this technique before. I believe it's based off of 'chunking'.

I have completely forgotten about it for the past three years. I am grateful for being reminded about a concept i need now more than ever!

Instant sub! Keep up the great work mate.

[MrHardCash]

Dude got a lot of female stalkers. lol

[MrHardCash]

Solid advice man. I am wondering why no one else mentioned this reason before. Yes, the reason I'm down some days is most of the time due to postponed tasks that I didn't get around to do for a while.

[superEOLHC]

You know what I think, every video you make you undo one button. That would get lots of (female and some possible men) subscribers. Can wait for the next video ;) ............ Not taking in a WORD he is saying though.

[ElizabethMarleySeps]

look dude, this isn't fair. If you gotta be that hot, at least button your shirt up because staring at your chest isn't letting me take in what ou're saying :)

[Choices84]

Thank you :o)

[smilesandstripes]

When he's biting his lip in the beginning.

[dammee]

can i hire you

[Ftheebeep]

Thanks for the advice. This is so true, I've experienced the inertia like effect when starting a task and then getting in the swing of things, but having someone say it to me really solidified it.

[monicachoo]

Okay, that's it. Where do I sign up? Lol!

[MMthefeeling]

if i do that can i attract you !?

[bindassbegum]

oh ur so hot dear but i love my boyfrnd coz he is nice not handsome

[BeautyBomb21]

I want to study psychology but I'm think it will be boring. You make it seem soooo muchfun!! I love you already :) first video I've seen ^^

[lollipoppp21]

he alwasy bites his lipes ... he knows how to get the girls go crazy haha

[NathanSpellman]

@lollipoppp21 not just girls ;)

[Flamink92]

God knows how many times I've pressed 0 ;)

[eviex919]

0:00 to 0:02- fwoar ;)

[Unic0rnendrainb0wz]

That lip bite at the start <3

[shangrila628]

This man is the most eloquent speaker I have ever heard. Loving his videos.

[DemonicrystalX]

3:40 hits head lolz

[thenameisdream]

yea true but i cant stop playing games -_- and a game takes 1-2-3 hours.. and after that i get bored then watch youtube then more games.. so im never motivated :D YAY ME -.- And i get motivated the last day of whatever im supposed to finish:D and dont sleep for two days in a row ^.^

[Lillysabana]

this is actually really motivating. when you look up advice on self esteem on the internet people always focus on aesthetics, like posture and smiling, which are all helpful. But reaching a goal can really boost your confidence. I've been putting off my graduate statement for a while, but after watching this I took the first step, emailing my professors for help. gotta start somewhere. Thanks for your help

[Blossomtree76]

This is amazing! Brilliant! An instant remedy to procrastination... I've been litteraly afraid of starting my school work for several days (the french system is dreadful on the amount of work given in high school) And this negative feeling and anger has been growing... now my list doesn't seem as long! Thankyou!! Your help is now extending to France, I will certainly pass this links to my hardworking friends who need a boost in confidence, just like I needed it! Thanks again :)

[lolo84314]

most of the things u talked about like having having worries and feeling bad about myself or feeling miserable it's all because I've been postponing tasks that should be done!but,u,talking like this encouraging way really helps a lot & makes me think again of my life & how to fix it & take a stand before it's too late!!thanks a lot!

[lolo84314]

Amazing video!!!thanks for the precious advice!it really boosts my confidence!:):)

[nootherjenny]

This has been such an inspiration! I worked my but off on something I have pushing away, I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders! I thank you so much! I guess I needed a stranger to push me, haha!

[MinMinMs]

great advice! love your videos!!

[NewyorkNewyork91]

he wouldn't be nearly as attractive if he had an American accent. lol

[Jedwardlove888]

Kiss your hand say your crushes name 10 times post thos to 2 videos look at your hand

[thecrazybffs2]

Lol is he giving advice to girls FOR guys cuz hes saying whatll attract him as one of the guys??? Im confused......................­lol

[yoojhinnee]

Hey Matthew! I hope you never quit uploading videos on youtube. You're very inspirational and I learn so much from you. You're so wise! Thank you so much for your time! You're a fantastic person!

[xhappyxcamperxconnor]

i like trains

[TypicalTeenQueen]

cleaned this room already! wow. this is great advice. really.

[GangsterKimxD]

This just helped me finally write my thesis paper :) Thank you!

[TheSPvixen]

omg he is so sexy and gives amazing advise!

[buzzcrasher]

I really want Matthew to answer this, is it true that as a guy it's hard to ask pretty girls to dance then more plain girls?

[theprincess857]

i love it i will take this chalenge ! :)

[gabitabon]

thanks... that really helped

[SuperChillout1]

I love your positivity Matthew. It's nice to see extroverted people online.

[stephanygg]

going to try this!

[MochaDevin]

great advice!

[MsShiningroad]

I'm going to check my application now

[bujeebuleeb]

@tracypeters93, we are just appreciating the fact that he is an attractive man. this does not mean we are not listening to what he is saying!

[kevbe144]

i did this with homework :D

[MsPinkflipflops]

Awesome advice :D

[nikiichan]

This sort of reminds me of the Pomodoro Technique method of time management. Tried that and it does help the confidence + makes me feel like i have done a lot but sometimes its like... I was so busy trying to get it done in that time frame that I might have not really concentrated as much as I should have been concentration. Which doesnt help cause I used it to study. However, the increase in confidence does help to carry on further even if I do slow down a bit.

[bocaknights1]

I want you, for the next five minutes, and I'm going to go crazy on you.

[musicrazyxxx]

Your cute lol



[ameliabarnbarn]

marry me Matthew Hussey?

[Coltongirl1]

He didnt say Go..........

[heidbrain]

i can't drive my truck now, because the wheel is off and the brakes are taken out !!!

...so , i guess that experiment didn't work !!!

[Shag529]

Oh my gosh. His incredible good looks paired with his intelligent, practical, well-spoken advice is almost more than I can handle.

[eviex919]

@Shag529 nice channel name haha

[gurahakash]

@Shag529 you really are needy of his tips!

[MissLkcg]

Hmm im going to take your advice...im going to go to school...and after five minutes leave :P kidding. How come you look so young yet have the maturity of someone much older?

[OnlyTheOceanJJ]

soooooo helpful! dude this guy is a genius :D

[angelfyre98]

Good advice. Im going to try that the next time I need to do CPR. But what happens if after 5 minutes it doesn't work and I don't feel like continuing. :p

Oh and Yum. ;)

[123rubychic]

If I spent five minutes on something I know my mum would want me to finish it or work harder and that's why I dread doing it so much cause she makes it into a big thing

[caseygirl23675]

the first 00:45 seconds kinda just narrated my life...

well that made me feel useless again -_-

:P

[StriveParkour]

Really appreciated the video, It helped a lot. 

[livinghappyisachoice]

I agree, I'm going to start doing this...it's true, breaking a little bit off of a whole is a relief and makes the task seem achievable and it isn't as overwhelming as you initially might've though

[ladyyelove]

WOW! i m gonna start doing this EVERYDAY now. seriously, I just got off YouTube and finished all my homework!

[TheMardyfish]

glad i found this i have an essay due in 10 hours

[MyNomina]

HE IS CUTE AND SMART!

[ElitaRane]

Good job!!!

[temkauulee1205]

what is your major? psychology?

[SelfImprovementClips]

Red hot relevant. I feel that the most important thing to accomplish any goals that we have is the "Getting Started" part... Most of the times, when we get started and start to work toward our goals, chances are, we'll continue striving on and eventually accomplish them (because its human nature that when we're halfway there, we're less likely to want to give up).

Thanks for sharing this video... And I'm definitely going to share this with my readers of my self-improvement blog.

Cheers!

Alex

[idunno1861]

This is really, REALLY good advice, and similar to what a college professor of mine said about getting into studying when you really don't want to.

[MissBendzel]

Haha, great! Totally works! ^_^

[RIMA142142]

this is so true !! thanks so much

[l1nkie]

It's like you read my mind, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now, because I have an essay and a speech due in the next day that I've put off for 3 weeks :P

[solidysnake1]

You are an annoyingly happy person lol

[kittylikesmilk]

You inspire me :)

[Flowerzz95]

He should make a vid. with only sound, so girls (and some guys) might actually hear what he's saying.. but now that you mention it.. I should probably start my math homework.... :|

[MissLittleDudette]

@Flowerzz95 Ditto, Ugh :(

[Jika28]

very insightful actually...i have done that before i know it does make you feel good about yourself...very clever edvice. Thank you Matthew

[saki619]

Thank you, this is genius.

[rhiannaphoenix1]

I was a bit of a geek at school and got bullied alot so my confidence is at a low gona try this and see if it helps. Thanks.

[1c54]

daniel raddcliff´s lost brother:P

[angeeelsvilma]

0:00-0:03 best 3 seconds of my life, ur gorgeous

[abeniharper]

@angeeelsvilma -'best 3 seconds of my life' lol that comment was tooo funny

[AreliLovesTiesto]

@angeeelsvilma agree! lol *sigh* :D

[DeemBrittyGirl]

Why does he remind me of Daniel Radcliffe? :D

[valleyballchick]

@DeemBrittyGirl because both have British accent 

[DeemBrittyGirl]

@valleyballchick I have British accent too. That doesn't mean I'm somehow similar with Dan. I think it's how he moves himself while talking and his expressions. Strange...

[monkeylove2102]

@DeemBrittyGirl great smile, the eyes and hair. plus a nice tan and good eyebrows. minus glasses.

[DeemBrittyGirl]

@monkeylove2102 Daniel Radcliffe doesn't have classes.

[popsita]

Tell you how it went : I finished half of my task, and i feel very much better so thank you. ill put that video in my favs.

[TheArtislife100]

A man who is confident and intelligent is so cute:)

[msredcurtains]

Amazing advise!!

[quitejaded]

This is amazing advice. procrastination really does hurt our confidence...

[laskecup123]

handsome <3 i'm dating u already

[mexifrida]

this is an amazing tip. the seal metaphor is so true, and i think i can see myself doing this.

great advice matthew!

[happyducls]

This advice was REALLY helpful to me.. I agree with him that one of the biggest reasons I feel less confident about myself is because I haven't done what I'm supposed to do properly (sometimes not even started!). So, 'getting started' itself does a big part for the whole progress. Especially when you decide to start things and do them only for five minutes with great tense, it just carries you on for the next 15, 30 minutes or even for hours if you are lucky. Thank you Matthew!

[tracypeters93]

Seriously guys? Actually pay attention to what he's saying, instead of just commenting on his looks... It's pretty good advice and I tried this and it actually works

[missykissy111]

@tracypeters93 THE HOT GUY GIVES ADVICE????????????

[chelleyw100]

This guy is really good. Ive just realised ive been coaching people all my life and not been paid. dammit!!!!! lol. seriously this is some good advice.The mind is a powerful tool and im using it to the fullest. im happy every day because i make it that way.

[NewBerri1]

Please, do not bite your lips...

[chibigrunt]

@NewBerri1 I do that...

[DebraGanoTV]

Hi MHLifestyle. Nice Video and it's beautiful. Keep it up :)

[Jennessis]

How ironic is at that he's talking about focus and you girls only seem to notice his good looks?

[TheBlueBeatle3]

I have a hard time focusing on what he is saying when he is so gosh darn gorgeous and drop dead sexy! ><

[habush01]

that lip bitign that he does is hella SEXYYY!!!

[mojmoj95]

lip biting.

[barbiedoll162]

He Is Beautiful <3



[memoirs01]

you are so gorgeous, you can tell me anything and i will do it. x

[1tokono]

Brilliant!

Thank you for sharing your wealth.

[vargaswendy531]

You are so hot! I'm listening but your eyes have all my attention :)

[DarKomplexshun]

Great video but i was drooling at 0:01-0:04.

[manoj105]

gr8 video



[DarkEmperor]

He's talking about your CV!!!

[sketchybananas]

I had to stop your video halfway through to go do something else for 5 minutes lol

[MrKotzbi]

done it lots of times very VERY nice way

[TrickSteam]

im so unconfident i dont like walking past kids when i walk my dog. im a fucking wreck :/

[FrostyCrossty]

quality

[CaseyJanee]

you are so right :)

[MamaDeeFromBC]

He's so cute I couldn't focus on what he was saying!

[DogLoverGSC]

I aspire to become a makeup artist, it would be the kind of job that you get money from and LOVE, I dream of having a certain house, and truthfully, I believe if I set my mind to it, I could achieve anything on my own. But,every girl wants her knight in shining armor. With my aspiration to be a makeup artist, I sometimes wear a lot of Eyeshadow, and though I wear little to no foundation my eyes make it seem I wear a lot of makeup next to the girl with the cakey face. What do guys think here?

[bocaknights1]

@DogLoverGSC Don't wear a lot of eye makeup. If you're not in a photo shoot it makes girls look trampy and overdone. Use makeup just to accent and use softer natural colors, not too bright or dark. Don't put dark eyeliner all around your eyes. Most guys like girls who look like they wear little to no makeup. Think fresh and natural. Women like makeup more than guys do. To guys a girl wearing a lot of makeup shows insecurity in your looks, or that you're looking to get laid. 

[ToxicCupcake1]

you look like halv part that daniel cliff..sumthing.. HARRY POTTER and chad murray :)

[happyansh2]

*faints* too much cuteness *faints* need air!

[84167]

thtas so freaking truee.

[ERRxxxx]

The lip bite at the start is so cute! :)

[AllDesignOnMe]

que lindo!

[ImGonnaFishSlapYou]

Meoww!

[adrianisen]

thanks, you da man

[PuppetsWithSmiles]

you are to cute for words... <3

[ViperRebby]

This is very true. When I keep putting things off I feel miserable because I like to feel like everything is done and theres nothing more to do. I just kind of have to tell myself that this is going to get done then I turn on some music and get started (everything is better with music). I think the hardest part for me is that I'm so tired after work. This video is great thanks for the advice. It makes me feel like I'm not the only one out there that has days like this. Peace.

[babavstardelight]

psff. look at him trying to look all cute for the ladies at the beginning at the video.

=p

[GgBibs]

You may have just turned my whole life around! God bless you

[mur2011]

omg yoU ARE WAY TO CUTE!!!!! OMG

[TheMinny11]

i learned how to do that through experience for ap us history. haha

[maidwithluv]

i cant stop watching your videos,you are just too gorgeous

[TheDaisy0106]

Thank you so much!

Your advice made my day!

[JustmeKasie]

thank you! now time to get started on my hw :)

[utubeisthebesteva123]

So true,i love the helpful advice you give in all your videos.thank you so much!

[Kassiopeja1]

Thanks for the advise) It really helps! To start doing something is the hardest part! You need to break through it and you're good)

[MSsimplygorgeous21]

just keep talking..i love watching you :))

make more video please !!!

[Kassiopeja1]

Thanks for the advise) It really helps! To start doing something is the hardest part! You need to break through it and you're good)

[SoxGrrl312]

Kiss me Matthew!

[SeaBlueAngelUni]

i mostly watch these for him ;D

[thevalkyrie8]

Its thought not fought! :)

[sunglassesred]

i love you

[cookrealfood]

thankyou!

[padawanstarwars]

still...feel...like...crap :(

[713088dancer]

In this video, he looks and sounds like and older hotter version of Harry Potter (without the glasses)

[xoxozaydeexoxo]

I was putting off doing the editorial and dramatic monologue that I have due tomorrow when I clicked onto YouTube and saw your video in my recommendation area. So I clicked it(obviously) and, after hearing what you said, just had to try it. Thanks to you I have one of my assignments done an hour before I even planned to start working. You just made my night that much better.

[SelenaxKorixFeltisk]

You have a very charming feel about you. Your advice is helpful, clear and informative and I hope to see more

[testing4echo]

This is just what I needed to hear at the moment. I've been struggling with this. Thanks

[1GLAMOUROUSGIRL]

I think your messages are very informative as well as interesting. You come across as being charming and charismatic. I enjoy listening to you and watching your videos. Thanks so much :)!

[cinleeboo]

I have fallen in love with you! x

[maikor3]

I start doing this earlier before watching this vid but very true, your advice are awesome :-D