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316Vlogs 2 years ago
Don't just hope she figures out you like her... tell her!
MysteryGuitarMan 2 years ago
Indeed.
man1d2tran 2 years ago
Bolted away! Hahaha! That's a terrific mall story. Glad you had a super time hanging out with the girl :) I hope you get a chance to see her again. I'm pretty bad for advice but if it were me I'd call her and if it goes to voicemail I'd leave a message saying I had a great time, I'd like to see her again, and I'll call her in a couple days or if I had a specific day I'd say that. I'd personally leave a day in between, preferably two. I've only dated 1 woman in my life, so...
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago
But I've gleaned some notions from women that I've spoken to or read comments from and one thing they like is their space (right up until they fall in lurve and then they want all of your space), they don't like any guy that seems *too* anxious, they tend to not like guys that seem clingy, and they will freak out in their brains if you leave more than two voicemails before they respond. They like to know what's going on, and they like surprises *only* when they're prepared for them.
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago
The surprises they like the most are the ones they've already decided they want. Second best is something that they already knew they liked at a time when they're feeling comfortable, even if they weren't ready for it. In any case, all women love to know a guy is putting thought into things they do. They also want a guy who has a life of his own and his own friends so the process of dating is a more gradual combination of lives, rather than something sudden and all-absorbing. Maybe. Good luck!!!
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago
Disclaimer: I'm talking about normal women. Of course there's lots of women out there who want someone who is obsessed with them and can't possibly give them enough attention but most women aren't like that. One thing that I suspect about women is that they hate to say things directly. They'd rather have you interpret the things they do and say in a way that conveys a meaning, without stating it. This is where things get crazy and I lose my marbles. I hope you keep all of yours!
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago
This is awesome information and you're very insightul to be able to have lived it and to be able to articulate it into words. Thank you, I can't say that enough!
man1d2tran 2 years ago
The cool thing about her is that she's a Psych student and she's not an actress. Usually actresses are all I meet and none of them are normal. As a general rule, the whole lot is flawed goods. I think she could be a good fit for me and over the years I have gained the experience to be careful to not mess things up. And to listen to the subtleties of when a girl asks (or lightly suggests) something, that you just do it. Like I would never really personally take off my shoes and socks and roll up
man1d2tran 2 years ago
my pants to go wade in the water, but it was a subtle way of her asking me to join her and stand with her, and I'm glad experience dictated to me that I do that. I wish I could have found some way to make it more romantic or to get my arms around her to let her really know my feelings, but I also was thinking to not come on too strong. It's a delicate balance and sometimes you just don't know what's right to do. So I err cautiously, sometimes I shouldn't but oh well.
man1d2tran 2 years ago
Oh a psych student, cool! Psychology is very popular for women, those classes tend to have a high percentage. I'm glad she's not an actress. Like MGM says, it's important that she gets some message that conveys your interest. Like I had mentioned, telling her you had a great time and want to see her again is a great way to start. It gives her room to move and leaves things open to both of you.
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago
I called her today! I left her a voicemail. I hatre doing that, I think women hate the sound of my voice on the phone. I think they make a decision over me from that. It went straight to voicemail probably because her phone was off and she's probably in class.
I think that if this works out or not, I might start taking Psychology classes at a CC just because of the female factor. I wonder if the Proessor will already know that by seeing a guy take that class haha.
man1d2tran 2 years ago
Hehe I'd expect lots of guys to take psychology :) It's probably an interesting course though.
P00P0STER0US 2 years ago