I totally have the guilt and thoughts you have - down to people who don't need babies having full terms. I was like I wasn't happy enough after (+), I didn't eat right, I had too much caffeine, I should have quit smoking, I wasn't handling stress well. I even said I didn't want a baby right now after finding out and that's the one thing that is killing me because my mom was happy and I was so worried she would be disappointed. Husband and I don't have insurance now and he's still in college.
I am sorry for your loss. I miscarried on Christmas Eve at 11 weeks. This would have been our third baby and I will try again soon because I will be 32 next week and I am not getting any younger. I was very disappointed, but like you I knew from the beginning that something was not right with this pregnancy - even though my Dr. kept telling me everything was great. Best of luck to you in your future.
I totally have the guilt and thoughts you have - down to people who don't need babies having full terms. I was like I wasn't happy enough after (+), I didn't eat right, I had too much caffeine, I should have quit smoking, I wasn't handling stress well. I even said I didn't want a baby right now after finding out and that's the one thing that is killing me because my mom was happy and I was so worried she would be disappointed. Husband and I don't have insurance now and he's still in college.
jdungan74 3 years ago
I am sorry for your loss. I miscarried on Christmas Eve at 11 weeks. This would have been our third baby and I will try again soon because I will be 32 next week and I am not getting any younger. I was very disappointed, but like you I knew from the beginning that something was not right with this pregnancy - even though my Dr. kept telling me everything was great. Best of luck to you in your future.
ambspringer 3 years ago
I am so sorry! I can't imagine what you are going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
twobabyboyz 3 years ago