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  • I kissed my best friend and then I freaked out afterwards and completely avoided them at all costs to avoid confrontation mainly because i loved them and i was scared they wouldnt return the affection, and now ive lost an amazing best friend out of fear...listen to greg, he's a wise guy

  • I had something similar, except he actually reciprocated, and now he's being distant. People are so strange -___-

  • @esss44 reciprocated?????????????? i could get a dictionary but im too bored to do that?

  • @sethboy66 like...returned the action

  • Ok so me and my group of friends kiss all the time. Not like make out, just a little peck. We do it because we feel that is is just another way to show that we care for each other and love each other. Do you thin that is wrong or do u feel it is ok as long as we dont push it past that?

  • @TheEdwardCleary is any of the friends in relationships, are they of the same sex?

  • @SuperKellyo Yes there are but they will still kiss the opposite sex but only in a friend kind of way and love nothing more then that

  • @TheEdwardCleary id say its fine because u kno thts a way of showing ur affection nd if two of ur friends start going out nd one gets mad at the other for kissing one of ur other friends like they usually do then there just bieng a child

  • To most people this may sound weird but me and all of my friends kiss all the time. Not like make out but like just a peck. We do because our group of friends are so close that we feel its just another way to show how much we care for them and about them. do you think that is wrong or do you feel that it is ok as long as we arent pushing it past that?

  • is that even possible? putting your 'other' feelings aside to keep up the friendship? hm...

  • @SewTheBeat yeah, i was just thinking that. i don't think i could continue being friends if i was rejected. and if i was the one that rejectED the other person, i wouldn't be able to continue being friends either. it's kind of a lose/lose in my opinion. that's part of the risk and the reward.

  • At this point in my life, I don't even know how I would react to that situation. I think I would be too afraid of hurting their feelings or embarrassing them.

  • i said that to my friend. i told him i was willing to give up all feelings for him if it meant we could be close like we use to be before i told him i liked him.. we barely talk anymore...

  • @CableCordFun i did tell this girl the same (today), and i dont know how she responded yet...

    hope you are ok... everybody diserves someone, but someone diserves more then others...

  • random arm at 0:43 :DD xD

  • I agree completely, that's the advice I'd give. Be honest and open with the individual, and make sure that they know that you value your friendship more then the hope of being romantically involved with them.

  • ur so damn cute

  • I'm getting addicted to your vids lol

    Oni drugzz lmao

  • You DON'T rape your FRIEND!! Several guys did this to me. Tried to kiss me, I mean. It's totally horrible. Like Howard & Penny in TBBT, if ya know that scene... I dodged. Could barely resist kneeing their balls. Ruined all chances of me loving 'em. And now I'm still avoiding meeting them. They just don't seem to get over it, even though they say they do. Why do you men have such a huge problem with opposite-gender friendships?!!! Srsly. DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR FRIENDS!!! Ever! Unless they ask!

  • @Fr34k1ng0ut

    Trying to kiss you is not raping you.  HOW DARE YOU BE ATTRACTED TO ME, WE CAN NEVER BE FRIENDS AGAIN AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH­HHHHHHHH YOU ASSHOLE I HATE YOU.

    How rational you are. -_-

  • @LetUsPlay9001 What else is not raping? Intentionally touching private parts? Smooching? Anything that does not involve a penis in a vag? Them being attracted is not the problem, it's that they can't get over it and thus we can't be just friends. They keep bitchin' 'bout it. They look at ya like meat to fuck, and not a person. They also make ya feel GUILTY for not surrendering to their 'charm'. One such 'friend' called me a frigid bitch once he finally got a girlfriend. I feel sorry for her.

  • i think it abit late for me

  • This happened to me i pushed away but started talking months later to him again then i tried kissing him that didnt work we both decided to go our seperate ways..

  • Thats exactly what I would WANT to do. Loll.. >_> Eh I'd probably do it anyway.

  • Posted on my birthday, and I can relate to it, cant we all? :3

  • @kabluwi IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY TOO!

  • I stole my best friends of 3yrs, first kiss :)

    now me and her are together <3

  • i felt deeply uncomfortable when my friend tryed to kiss me, she knew perfectly well i was in a relationship and even though i was drunk i wasnt stupid , i didnt just reject but shut her out my life completely and even now feel i did the tight thing

  • right even , heh

  • wow u can b deep....ish...

  • @kaulitzchick1 Obviously, you haven't seen Onision's older stuff...

  • no, but i was hanging out with my ex and we ended up.. yeah.. and since then he wont talk to me. unless he absolutely has too.. i still have feelings for him, thats why it was so easy to do it. but him not talking to me is killing me.

  • You dont have to make every video in HD, I still get the message even in 240p :D

  • This advice is very wise and mature. My friend and I recently kissed. Now we are dating <3

  • I was the person secretly grabbing the bottle behind you. :3

  • "Let me be clear- no kissing." lol :D

  • This came at the perfec time! without a the kissing part

  • I love how Onision has a video for just about everything :)

  • <3 the random person behind you grabbing the drink bottle :3

  • I think that's some really good advice Onision :)

  • Your gray eyes are so fucking pretty! If you don't become a model I think I might die. Or kidnap you, make you become one, and reap all the benefits. And possibly rape you at one point in there.

  • @BeccaHennessy his eyes are blue...... and i wud so rape him too!!

  • @BeccaHennessy uhm... raping's bad... mmmkay?

  • @DraMattIck XD LMBO that is too funny!

  • i love ur eyes

  • I've never been denied because I've always been to nervous to go for it. I'm paranoid that way. So far every girl has kissed me first. I feel like it's a bad habit, though. To rely on the other end to fill the gap.

  • Can I just say that you look gorgeoussss here :p

  • @GeorgeSampsonLover97 You could, but skye is in the way of your love... it cannot blossom... lol jk. i agree with ya.

  • thank you!! kinda same situation is happening to me right now (bf is about to break up with me, but he's such a good guy that i want us to be friends if he wants to make that decision.) i'm going to tell him exactly what you said in hopes that he understands :). thank you so much for uploading.

  • Haha - I kiss and hug my friends all the time and make jokes about ass-fucking and we're totally cool, but my BFF is kind of...Shy so he's always like "Dude - NOT IN THE PUBLIC!" Haha - we're all fucked up.

  • i wouldnt hav gone with a kiss... talk first, cos words are a lot easier to smooth over thn actions. but yer if i was in their shoes (ie had been kissed by someone i considered a friend) i would want the situation to go "back to normal". maybe know that the feelings are ther but sides that prioritise the friendship and keep that, not ignoring the other persons feelings but pushin thme aside

  • Friends with Benifits ;)

  • Friends can't kiss ? I know guys usually don't, but I see girls kissing all the time. I always gave a girl a kiss when we parted ways. She wasn't a "girlfriend" she was just a friend. And it was a proper kiss. Not the filth that they put on the television. And it was on her cheek. I use past tense because our lives went separate ways, we both moved and don't cross paths anymore. Nothing to do with that kiss.

  • I often agree with you Onision. You are so intelligent and smart on life and in some way very very mature when it comes to the serious things and really goofy, crazy and funny when it's more light things most of us can laugh at with you.

    I really respect you for that. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!

  • thanks

    

  • A TINY HAND SHOT OUT OF YOUR BACK AND GRABBED A SOMETHING!!!

  • sky's hand!!!!

  • dude, you just helped me in my confusion, thanks!

  • I got kissed by my gay guy best friend, and im a girl...how confusing is that?

  • 0:45 you saw that, right?

  • @Edguy15 - Haha, yeah and it happens exactly when he says "I know what happened was ... REALLY weird." xD xD

    Hilarious.

  • haha nice. if i were 12, Onision is definitely the first I would turn to for relationship advice. especially if I were interested in someday marrying a lesbian

  • Yeahhh! Put yourself in the friend zone! That way you'll be tormented by the love you will never have. You'll get to watch her date countless jerks and be...forever alone.. hahaah...

    If she's avoiding you... she probably doesn't want to be your friend... or she already has another boy in mind.

    Find another girl. You'll be happier.

  • VERY GOOD ADVICE... GUYS KISTEN UO lol... wish all men think like you... but... LIFE'S LIFE RIGHT :)

  • ur the best <3

  • LOL 0:31

  • could not say that any better onision :)

    and i hope to start making videos of giving advice to people here on youtube too

    but yeah. well said onision. definitely.

  • can i kiss u

  • Ummmm what if i skipped the kiss and just stuck it in her with out asking....

    idk wut i did wrong...

  • Well said Onision....

  • i just noticed u look high or tired r u?

  • @aaylabeck you should know he isn't high.....

  • The hand at 45 seconds utterly amuses me.

    

  • i have 1 friend. never kissed. want to kiss her. bbuuttt she has a crush on my friend that likes her too but doesnt show it. WHAT DO I DO??

  • @ImTooBizzy

    grow a pair

  • @crazymenrunningback hahahaha. fersure. move on imtoobizzy

  • @ImTooBizzy bring them together it will make you happier to se her happy and always be at her side who knows maby if they break up one day you might be with her all you should do is make her happy no matter how much it hurts it helped me and i found someone better than her :)

  • 0:46 someone stole your beer.

  • @wealldieeventually skye did

  • most of ur videos end up saying they shouldnt be your friend ... -.-, is that why you dident have any friends? :c

  • Points for wisdom.

  • Kissing a friend without knowing for sure whether or not the feelings are mutual is kind of a bold move...

  • ... what's with the random arm at 0:42?

  • @MsAwesomeify skye's

  • @MsAwesomeify that's a little thing we call skye. n_n

  • @MsAwesomeify It's most likely Skye. (His wife)

  • @MsAwesomeify thats skyes arm :P

  • @MsAwesomeify

    I think Skye was reaching for her drink.

  • @MsAwesomeify Haha I'm pretty sure that's Skye. She's been siting in on his videos lately. haha

  • @MsAwesomeify *creepy* :P

  • @MsAwesomeify

    GHOST

  • @MsAwesomeify i think thats skye lol it was funny cause i was like omg hes growing another arm lol jks :P

  • You've got purdy eye lashes. :D

  • @DeathByGameBoy his whife?

  • And she's also kinda shy so I don't think she would take initiative if I was indeed something more to her, but if I message her now about how much I like her or how pretty she is, and I was just a friend, then she would be weirded out I think.

    Anyone have suggestions how to handle this?

  • @Hewkll well you have 2 options: 1) keep your feelings for her and always have the doubt of "what if" or 2) tell her that you really like her and if it doesnt work out you can still be friends !

  • @MusiqueMMUS but can we be friends if I've told her how I really feel? I think there would be an awkard tension between us from then on

  • @Hewkll thats going to be up to her and if she care about you as a good friend she wont care about that at least you keep trying

  • I met a really cute girl a few weeks ago on intro-camp for my new school, we really had a lot in common and went along great, but after camp I rarely meet her anymore. We live in different cities and we're not in the same class, so I've seen her like 2 or 3 times on a couple of weeks. We played some games together (online) and chatted on Facebook for a while but I've run out of inspiration for chat-subjects, I don't know if I'm just a friend to her or something more...she's something more to me

  • I've never kissed anyone, no one ever talks to me.

  • So today I was with this guy and my ex came up to me and was like oh hey and he just talked about normal stuff and I knew he loved me I loved him so I kissed him, with my boyfriend right there xD But i broke up with him andgot with my ex xD .

  • 0:45 AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA­AH

    THERES A DISEMBODIED HAND!!!!!!

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

  • @souske25 omg, that's scary, once you point it out XD

  • The 1 disliker is in denial.

  • @DJS506 LOL

  • Awhh onision u give the best advice (:

  • Very well put. You're a really great speaker. I've been subscribed for a long time now and I've never been disappointed.

  • I had a friend of mine kiss me once, he was like my best guy friend. And we went to the movies, I don't know if he thought i was flirting with him or what....but when he dropped me off at home, i gave him a hug in the car and he kissed me. I said bye went inside and shut the door and then started hitting my head on the door....and yelled omg what just happened?!?!?

  • @Karoger1987 LMAO

  • @Karoger1987 cool story bro.

  • @lightningrider83 I'm not a bro....I'm a chik.

  • What happens when is with sex?...being avoided from that person must be hard

  • i love how you call a person an individual :D

  • Nice hair :D

  • i love onision speaks because it reminds me your just a person like everyone else and not a crazy Joker!

  • This is my first time to leave a comment for you... I enjoy your vids very much. I agree 100% on what you said on this one. I myself have had to tell afried ...no kissing ...giggle

  • Great advise Onision!!! two thumbs for it!!! =D

  • That's so weird... My friend is going through the same thing O_O This boy that she's friends with kissed her, and then he started like... avoiding her in a way. She got really upset after that. De ja vu lmao

  • I think this is exactly what a person should do in this situation. =)

  • I tried to kiss an old friend.. We was hanging out every day in a week, she was like: KISS ME! and i was like OK :D and she was like kidding :o and she ran away, and that was wierd -_- that still anoys me, uts 1 year ago :/

  • u loooove your hair! shit!

  • Your videos had changed.I used to like creepy clown yelling at people

  • I really liked my friend awhile back and my bestfriend dared him to kiss me. When he refused to, I did instead and we've been dating ever since. It just goes to show that sometimes you have to be a little out going and actually risk things:)

  • this vid actually applies to my situation

    thanks!

  • i kissed my friends and its been 7 months goin hard((:

  • This has happend to me befor may times some have go too far some have stoped

  • Did you know that grabbing a man's crotch isn't an acceptable greeting anywhere in the EU?

  • your hair looks awesome in this video:}

  • Hey handsome :)

    Great advice!!! :D

    *Hugs*

    <3 Cas

  • Oh gosh, you're so freakin' cute! And yes, good advice. But I can't get past how freakin' cute you were when you said, "No kissing."

  • @blink182fan10

    haha its hard to explain

  • i accidently kissed my bestfriend turned out she liked me too =]

  • @ImTheRealNigger Accidentally? How the fuck? haha xD

  • are you really reading this comments.... ?I feel like you must be sooo busy.... because of this I am never posting a comment because its utopia..... but whatever...bye bye

  • perfectly said onision! :)

  • i agree with you onsion there was this one girl who kiss me then never talk to me again but when she see me she smile but i think she like me but i don't like her but i don't want to hurt her feelings what should i do

  • I like what you do, Onision..you thank one person..or two..at the beginning and hope the rest will want you to reply to them too..so they leave comments..

    I like you anyway..even though you won't like me after this..(that might not even be true in which case I'm sorry)..

    as for the "kissing friends" thing..I can only speak from experience so I can't give any advice..but I agree that the best thing to do is confrontation

  • I love your thinking, but I think different; if you get in a friendship first, then you're wrong, but maybe, sometimes it'll work with the friend-thing, but what you better gotta do, is being the 'weird' one in her/his life. You don't know him/her, but you talk to her, and never start with 'hi' or something, come up with original things, weird things. Ask for a date at the time you see her/him, don't wait for getting to know him/her. Sometimes, friendship helps, but this is my opinion, sow.. :D

  • Do a barrel roll

  • Thats about the best advice you could give man in this situation. Good video!

  • i love watching your videos when I'm going thru a hard time I'll watch one of these or even your funny ones and they always make me better =)

  • I've said almost the same thing to one of my friends. He is still my best friend^^ I wove em. such a cool guy. xD

  • my friends kiss me on the lips all the time. no akwardness here! ^^

  • I was all for your explanation but it took me three times watching the video over and over again to get it. First, I heard you say, "like you're losing da friendship" and I was thinking, "hahaha, he said da friendship instead of the friendship" (it was an Adam West moment). Rewatching it, I saw the creepy ghost arm.  Then I watched again only to realize that while my life has never had this sort of conflict, it shouldn't matter since you're necklace was hiding behind your collar. Uh, ADD much?

  • It was great advice. ^.^ I really like how you said that they shouldn't be your friend if they don't view the friendship the same way as you. I wish I could have watched this when I was younger. I wouldn't have gone through the pain of finding out my best friend really didn't give a rats ass.

  • One awkward moment shouldn't ruin a great friendship. I have had the situation where they couldn't accept just friendship & that is pretty heart breaking when you really care about someone. I've also had the situation where I loved them later even after thinking 'no way'. Haha! So love is weird. Good video!

  • Onision I don't know if you read this but if you do, I would like to know if we could and or would be good friends if we met each other, I do eat meat and I like it I think you are a great person.

  • i could never think of any better way to put it tna u could :)

  • I wish it was that simple Greg :/ x

  • Why the hell does it have to be some emotional mindgame all the damn time, if something bothers you dont make a long speach about feelings just ask why they're acting different, if they dont give you a straight answer then find another friend i mean fuck there are alot of people out there, and if you feel wierd after the kiss just straight up tell them, idk why everything has to be a damn guessing game its fucking retarded and makes everything way to dramatic.

  • @strifegamer I like your idea, but it could have been worded a little nicer. :) It's true about the mind games, people (me included) can't just come out and say what they feel. Communication is the key to every relationship, be it friends or more.

  • Wow, fantastic advice!!!!

    Worded perfectly.

  • Hey Onision, you know, I'm glad you do these videos. It's not because I've particularly gotten anything out of them as far as problems I have, but because it's nice to see you being you and caring about other people's problems. Sometimes I think about being a hater about certain things but then I think, why? It's not important what I want I. . .kind of. . .want to hate on but, what is important that I enjoy you as a comedian and as a person. =)

  • Unfortunately, not many people I've met have been like that. :\ And that's obviously Skye's hand (or maybe Cyr's).

  • I do like this, I rape her, if she likes, what most of the times she doesn't then I take her organs and sell the mon ebay. oh and she ends up dead. EMO POWER

  • What if cyr kissed you

  • 0:44

    Onision's other hand!?!?

  • SO one day i kissed the girl that i liked and had been friends with for a while. We kissed passionetly and then she suddenly walked off quickly afterwards. I felt horrible. I didn't know what to think. A week later she came to my work. I started to say i was sorry about kissing her and before i could get my words out she kissed me over the counter of subway. We have been dating for 10 months.

  • @Thesuicidalpopstar cool story bro +1

  • @Thesuicidalpopstar That's so cute. (:

    I guess she just had to think about it/you.

  • @Thesuicidalpopstar thats swell

  • @Thesuicidalpopstar u forgot the FML at the end ahha

  • i could not have put it better myself. :)

  • I agree, although I would probably word it differently.

  • My care for you? That's not English.

  • @beekeepers11 you re right.. maybe it's "care of" ? (I'm trying to learn xD)

  • @beekeepers11 How would you have worded it? The care I feel for you? Same thing..

  • @anjyl667 Care is a verb not a noun. Caring is the noun.