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  • :) don't worry, you are very cute. Dating for gays takes time...Im 27 and it has taken me quite some time to learn how to date in the gay world...and get this, it changes based on your location. Back home i couldn't find a date. Moved to an urban environment (SF) and I've found tons of dateable men. Even fell in love a few times. Thing is, to stay open to meeting someone of quality, give your time and heart to others and it will be returned..most of the time ;)

  • You need exorcism, you can be cleaned of your sins/demons.Living against GODs design isnt natural, you have evil in you and it pushes you like so many bilions to live against GODs plan

  • @YaOkRight LOL you sound like a retard.

  • @YaOkRight what the fuck is wrong with you? being gay isnt wrong in any way!

  • Becoming demon possessed isnt wrong? Worshiping the antichrist isnt wrong? Poor slaves you dont understand as you are blinded by your sins that the sins of your parents-you slaves have demons working in you that keep you blind.Homosexuality is against GODs plan for this planet and is the death of our race.Every gay society has collapsed.Get a born again Christian to pray for you and command evil spirits to leave you so you can be rehabilitated.You werent designed to live backwards!

  • @YaOkRight WTF is wrong with you! God loves everyone! God gave us free will and there is no such thing as GODS plan. If god wanted things to go a certain way, then god would make it that way. God loves and accepts everyone! Who the hell did you learn that shit from anyway!?

  • Shut up and dance.

  • i'm in the same situation, i think you're cute and very likeable person, hope everything works out for you

  • I feel you bro, I gave up a long time ago.

  • people suck dude , we were meant to walk the lonely path for while

  • I feel the same way you do,Id date you any day,Your gor-juss

  • wow mee too im a freak lolz

  • you've just accepted your being gay, now you should find out your place in the gay world, it takes time to get to knoe yourself as a gay guy

  • Add Me on facebook.!

  • Aww...Just wait,you'll find someone,and its a natural desire to feel loved,and a partner...You very handsome,and seem like you have an awesome personality.You wont be single for long!!:)

  • First and for most let me say this, there is nothing wrong with having standards, he's out there you just have to be patience and your paths will cross with Mr. Right trust me.

  • Omg, it's like we;re the same person. When you find a solution let me know. I've been out for nearly four years and I've had no luck. The only attention I get is from girls which doesn't really help me

  • you are so honest. just keep being true. and you'll meet someone as true as you deserve. I'm 38. I cried for 7 years being lonely. then I met my boyfriend. we were together for 16 years. moved in his country after 9 years. Now, it's over since 3 years but we still share the same house. you know why we can do that? because we always had love AND respect between us. Love is over but respect still there. nobody around seems to understand how we live but who cares... well, your vid touched me!

  • Wow How The Fuk Did I Get Here!

  • @BMusic93 i WAS THINKING THE SAmething lol

  • ill date you

  • Never give up looking 4 love ... Good things come 2 those who wait

  • your a cool dude...im a str8 dude btw Lets be friends Buddy

    Facebook Email Algam16@aol.com  Aaron Samuel

  • you are so fuckin ugly! lol

  • @91patjr are you kidding me? He's gorgeous!!

  • @91patjr ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS??? THIS GUY IS GORGEOUS AND ONE OF THE HOTTEST GUYS IVE EVER SEEN IF HE WAS BISEXUAL ID FUCK THE SHIT OUTA HIM LOL

  • @SwissSaint

    Try dating women. You know that they are your biological mates don't you? Get mental help.

  • I agree - many gay guys are not very sexy - many are not masculine......but I like bisexual guys a lot.....

  • Dating is just complicated, imo. It's just practice for the BFF contract called marriage.

  • U should lower ur standards just a little and look in very gay oriented places ULL GET A GUY CUTIE!!!

  • Your a young handsome guy, you will meet someone eventually

  • I'm sorry dear. But for the seemingly low standards that you have for a person, it's alot higher than you think. Not many people actually are able to carry on an intelligent conversation. In all honestly though, I'm listening to this while playing WoW and was just smiling the entire time....ahhh dammat that all the good guys are gay. Best of luck to ya though on finding someone <3

  • I think most of us go through this. This is so normal, most people don't say. You are sweet and I hope you have found somebody special in the last two years. ;) Go get'em you deserve it.

  • Please what's the song at the end anyone?

  • Dude ur preahcing to the choir....I have the same problems :(....I duno wat im doing wrong. But all I can say is follow what your passionate about and do stuff that u have fun doing so at the end of the day u can have some fulfillment in your life.....its wat I do. And hopefully u will find a guy who is passionate about the same things you are passionate about and u both will click with each other. :)

  • jeeeesthus chriiisttss

  • @SwissSaint Aww :) lol in retrospect i guess it's all funny.

  • hey man if someone approaches you man you should give it a chance thats how me and my gf was she approached me thought and we been going out for 7 months man just give the people that approach you a chance and im the same way i dont judge by looks or anything wish you luck man

  • Let's become friends...

  • @xypowerpop Absolutely

  • @xypowerpop......You are an attractive guy; but you just lack confidence. The things that you are looking for or not bad, but you may be looking for one person that possess all of those qualities and that person DOESN'T exist! Whenever you meet people, let them do most of the talking and be a good listener. Try not to over evaluate what they say and take them at face value. You'll find somebody that is very compatible.

  • cause is not to do with looks... its to do with how u feel and how they feel :D ul find that eventually lak im the same me still singles :( i guess i liked the wrong person

  • Stop bullshitting u just want to get fucked

    go to a drunk redneck he will open ur asshole and u can give him a blowjob fucking faggot.

  • Could you please send me the song title?

  • @JamSlam007 How It Ends by DeVotchka

  • what the fuck why the hell would you wanna date a dude you sick motherfuck

  • @MrJoshDada wow...u must be one sad mother fucker...you must not be christian...prolly some terrorist clan...fucking loser....

  • No that isn't true. You are very datable. You very handsome. you just need more exposure to other men with the treats you like. When you get to college, you are going to shine.

  • You're very good looking, intelligent and you should have standards. Perhaps you're trying too hard to find someone. It will happen. And it will happen when and where you least expect it.

  • without sounding desperate im single..

    anyone interested check my profile i like drumming and what not... mwa, Mitchy xo

  • standards.

  • @ShawnNotFiction mhmm.

  • I can honestly say that your my perfect type of guy! I hope I can find someone like you someday. :)

  • everybody stop treppin aiaat? let them man gets back to his normal condition (straight) it will be better 4 him

  • First of all, don't call it or think of it as a date. Don't even think of it as a relationship. Expect people to be embodiments of selfishness, most gay men to be warped, and don't worry about not being "normal." Most of all, realize that the world is absurd and that there's alot that's beyond your control.

  • oh how i can relate to you!!!!!!!!!!

  • What song is that playing in the back ground I love it and I need to knw what it is and I love this vid

  • @Undercoverbrother144 aww thanks :-) How It End by DeVotchka

  • man look at you!!!!! u look ridiculous while u r saying that u r looking for a guy! . can u please just stop this and find a relationship with a girl??

  • Um Travis is that ur name? I think we should date. I feel the same way sometimes. OMG u described the same standards I LOOK FOR ...I think we are looking for each other....Do you have a facebook?

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  • you may not be gay. you may be a girl.

  • You a cutie. Move to NYC, ATL, SF, LA, DC, MIA, CHI, NJ. Best of luck handsome.

  • Your not ugly.

  • Lol That sucks

  • Gay or Str8, your just weird...

  • @talk2gene30310 he's not weird at all...

  • im praying for you

  • It sux! i totally kno how you feel

  • aww... how cute

  • oops this is old, my bad. my comment is null then peace

  • lol dude u don't know how many guys i've met that play WOW. I don't play that, i'm a console dude (ps3/ xbox) but i don't see why u are having a hard time. I think the problem is Gainsville isn't the best place. this a gay gamer site that u should check out. And you are not doing anything wrong. It's the same with straight people. Some guys/ gals dont' find their mate or bf or gf until a few years. You have to be comfortable with yourself first man. Peace

  • lol you play WOW xD cute

  • Wow you've come so far since your this video. U got a boyfriend and you're happy. I'm proud of you, keep your head up!

  • @4realjimmy I feel like I have, yeah. this is from 2 years ago :-X i was such a mess!! Thanks so much for your comment, definitely brightened my evening

  • @xypowerpop anytime. Big fan of your videos and I can relate to alot of em.

  • @4realjimmy that makes me so happy!! :D 

  • @xypowerpop no it makes me happy that your commenting to my comments LOL see i've been watching these for so long I feel like I'm talking to my favorite celebrity. Well you're my favorite youtuber so I think that count LOL.

  • @4realjimmy awww you make me sound way cooler than I actually am. :P And inflating my ego, hah

    I'm rendering a video right now. it's been giving me issues today but hopefully it'll be online for all to view in the morning/early afternoon.

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  • @4realjimmy Lucky you.

    After all the hate, So I don't bother trying anymore. So I have become asexual i suppose. Thanks people for this.

  • You're far from ugly. You're super cute! I hope you do find the right guy for you someday. In the meantime, just focus on yourself and bettering yourself. Then you'll be ready to handle someone else.

  • i think personally that u would do alot better and feel more connected with a female i strongly agree u should try dating oppisite sex ur not dong nun wrong ur cute and seem cool u just need to try bisexual

  • Wear foundation. u are really good looking btw

  • Don't be discouraged, would be my advice..... really if the right person is out there then they are worth finding. Trust me.... some random dude X)

  • Lol I think strange behaviors are cool! I love unique people seeing that I'm unique. As far as I seen I actually like how your mind works

  • I really like your no-drugs policy. I respect that a lot. :)

  • Haha people these days, umm good for you. Go stick your dick in a cave(:

    Everyone is different. No one is perfect, therefor everyone has different interest and sexual attractions. Get over it. Prick(:

    And why are you looking up "gay" videos? Hmm somethings fishy

  • Your not ugly and you dont have a horrible personality! I love your personality too!

  • i feel the exact same way

  • GO AWAY EVIL GEY BEAST

  • I can relate.

  • dude im super str8 but even if i was gay.. id rather screw a goat.. than you.

  • awww, just takee timeee im sure the right one will come along! and your not ugly your freakingggg cuteee:) and yeah i have good taste im not lieing!. just wait.

  • I have felt the same way... I have guys who only want to sleep with me and not really date me... We might get along. lol

    How about giving your self a chance to build a connection... Sometimes you have you have to just date... its about you learning more about yourself... You don't have to have sex with them just have fun...go out

  • I've been having the same damn problem XD

  • If you are still in high school--Just wait. You still need to find yourself, and there will be more selection you are in college or on your own. Perhaps, some of your straight friends will come around by then :-) Please take this constructively, if you are craving someone to be in a relationship, it sounds like you have dependencies issue. When you're ready, it'll just happen.

    I just realized this post is over a year old. If this no longer applies, just ignore it.

  • @prplmnky oh yeah, now I'm in college and things are completely different, haha. Options galore.

    :D thanks so much for the wise words.

  • @Hatelerr awwww.. unsecure about ur sexuality ? theres one thing you could do to take care of yourself.. you can go fuck yourself ?:)

  • I'd rather wait longer & get someone who's perfectly compatible than suffer through a hundred heartbreaks. The longer the wait, the better the prize, every wiseman knows that.

  • trust me im very pick n u cant always b like God weres mi man weres mi boo, sum times it just has ta cum 2 u... dat time alone es to get ur self 2 gether , i bet it would happen wen ur graud es let down n u least expect it

  • I turned to men after finally being completely turned off by women. The best gay men, in my opinion, are those with erectile dysfunction because at least you know that 1) they're more likely to get to know you for you, and 2) they are alot less likely to cheat.

  • Honey, I have the same problem. You just need a masculine gay man. I feel undateable as well. I have love for the gay community, but alot of gay men are so focused on sex that I don't feel like really getting to know anyone because as soon as they get their rocks off, it's like "I'll call you...."

  • you would do so well to be straight bro, my sister and all her friends think you're hot

  • @LanceMurtagh hah, well that's a shame. tell them to get Y chromosomes and maybe then we'll talk.

  • Dude! your wayy too cute. just dont even worry about it, what i see is you're trying to look for the right one, i mean you're young you wanna committ to something serious already? just wait, when you least expect it, then BAM! there it is. but i mean sometimes you do gotta step up and go out there and just date to see what is that you really are looking for, mayb is not even what you are expecting. sometimes someone alot like you could get boring.

  • Dude! your wayy too cute. just dont even worry about it, what i see is you're trying to look for the right one, i mean you're young you wanna committ to something serious already? just wait, when you least expect it, then BAM! there it is. but i mean sometimes you do gotta step up and go out there and just date to see what is that you really are looking for, mayb is not even what you are expecting. sometimes someone alot like you could get boring.

  • I am not gay, but If I could ask you one question without offending you, it would be why are you gay? I have nothing against you and wish you best of luck w/ your dating n personal life. But why. Was it too many horrible fucked up relationships with girls, because I could understand that lol.

  • @xwasx08 umm, it's because i find men really hot, ahaha. it's pretty simple.

  • @xwasx08 Being gay is mostly genetic. You don't choose to give up on girls. He was born gay.

  • @xwasx08 He's gay for the same reason you're straight. He was born that way. If you're going to ask when he chose it, he chose it the same day you chose to be straight.

  • @xwasx08 I’m gay for the same reason you’re straight. I also find men really hot in the same way you find members of the opposite sex really hot. There’s no WHY to, what we are attracted to just is.

  • dude u need help. like no fking joke.

  • I will definitely date you!

  • I feel the same way sometimes

  • You aren't ugly, and I doubt you're undateable. I mean, I'm a girl, so I can't help you there but there has got to be a guy out there for you somewhere. Seriously.

    Good vids, man.

  • @drrb20

    I kno right he is

    @xypowerpop

    sometimes you don't realize u like someone until later it can be someone that is right in front of u this whole time and u might not even notice.. but it's too much to comment if u want I can message you •__•

  • @HENRYAL100

    STFU dumb bitch

  • I used to feel there was something wrong with me also but I guess I kind of got used to being alone. It sucks.!

  • dude shut up ur cute!!!!!!

  • ur lucky some ask u out =\

  • them straight guys if they really should've kick yo bitch ass, i know i would've punk

  • im the same way! its hard to be in our shoes

  • Gay guys are usually very needy. Are you sure your not the same, because your posting a public video on youtube? So the whole world can see who you are?

  • @roxasroks wtf is this?

  • @xypowerpop A question? So....

  • @roxasroks I journal and chronicle my life. As of 2007 I decided to share these thoughts with the world.

    oh you and your baseless generalizations..

  • @xypowerpop Baseless? I said a lot, not all. And excuse my wording, Im not in the habit of checking to see if what I said is ambiguous. I wasn't attacking you, that was an innocent question.

  • aw, someone needs a virtual hug ~HuG~

    You are handsome my friend. keep living and enjoying life and your prince charming with show up one day riding up on and epic flying mount. They colour the good ones purple for a reason you know ^_^

  • @IrateJazzBadger this comment is making me smile so so soooo much right now

  • @xypowerpop Hey no worries. everyone needs a hug. its funny, i did not realize till you responded that you posted this last year. hope things are going better for you know

  • O.O Tell U De Truth Im 13 And Lots Of My Friends Dont Mind Lik One Of My Best Buddys Will Act Lik Hes Meh Bf TO Joke Around But Theres Only Like 4 Gay Peaple At My School DAt R Guys And Im Wun Of Dem(Im Bi)

  • Hi, well ur cute so that's not it, let see, ur not strange, living Asexual! as humans we weren't built tht way. finding a match isn't easy n doesn't mean anythings wrg wit u. I think standards weed out unnecssary heart attacks n As 4 havin an intellect, maybe u could losen up a bit. understand wht ur looking 4 n hw culture plays a role n tht. u see guys who r on the DL n LTR 4 a year(s) maybe bcuz they r willing 2 put up wit sum of da things tht cum wit tht life style. 1st just know wht u want.

  • lol you sexy obama

    add me on youtube ---> slayedjudas666 i 'm a white nordic gay german male and i would love to date a hot black dude like you

    ready for cocktail sex ?

    muah xoxoxo

    love ya ---> add me on YT-----------> slayedjudas666

  • You're cute. But it's not enough for a relationship. People look for a winner in the relationship. They one, they can either hang on and let him drag them and support them, take care of them or the one they can share their knowledge and success with. I'm not saying you're a loser. I don't even know you. But if you're clingy or boring, or nervous, or shy, or too dependent, you should work on changing it. Focus on what you can GIVE to your partner, not on what you can TAKE from him. Hope it helps.

  • @PlanetVerdia Wrong, I don't want a winner? I want someone who is focused and driven to improve themselves and their situation. And people that are NOT shallow, and too self reflective.

  • @roxasroks Still the same. A winner is the one, who is independent. Winners don't need anybody. Everybody needs them. But winners sometimes like when their partner is clingy.. I mean. If you're a leader in a relationship, you might enjoy a clingy person. I know I don't. I used to be very independent, but found myself disrespecting clingy people. And I didn't like it. now me and my BF share all the responsibilities 50-50 and are together for almost 3 years. Never fought, never had problems.

  • @PlanetVerdia Ok I understand. Yes, I don't like clingy people either. As far as I am aware, people who like clingy partners are themselves, emotionally needy.

  • Here is your issue- you have taken apriori that there needs to exist a connection, sometimes that connection needs to be found and it is found by taking risks, diamonds and gold are found by digging through dirt and rocks, just give people a chance or else well like you said loneliness" Nikolai

  • I am attracted to straight guys because they seem more comfortable with themselves, whereas gays tend to fall into 2 main categories:

    1)Hot&Arrogant 2)Ugly&Nice.

    I know it's a genralisation, but I feel the same way you do. I am 22 and have been abstinent for over a year because I cannot find someone I like (i.e. hot and nice).

  • @dave16124918 that is such a sad statement in so many ways, i hope you find what you are looking for, but that statement is so loaded, it's not even funny. (Masculinity complex, embedded homophobia, projected stereotypes, self punishment, heterosexual obsession) and the list goes on, i know i have no right to psychoanalyze you, but it's statements like those that fuel heterosexual prejudice against the LGBTQ community, i mean if the members are saying it what do you leave for them?

  • @bluevozhak Lol you are like a pop-psychologist prototype. I find it funny that you even mentioned trying to psychoanalyze me, considering I am a psychology graduate and I know how unscientific it is to make all of these assumptions given one brief internet statement. Why don't you just diagnose me with some sort of mental disorder while your at it? Pathetic..If you work in a mental health field, I suggest you drop out because of your given character..you would make your patients sad & suicidal.

  • @dave16124918 hmm a psych graduate at 22? who do you think you are fooling? are you Douggie Houser? I'm actually applied anthropology (socio-cultural) and psychology, but i don't profess to know it all, unlike some people, anyhow, like i said i hope you find what you are looking for, your issues are yours

  • @bluevozhak You don't believe me? I am a probational graduate psychologist - I don't know where ur from but that's possible in Australia (At uni @ 18 - now 22 = 4 years in psych = prob registration). I don't have full registration yet, but I have the knowledge-base to identify a judgemental, unscientific assumption when I find one. Oh and I DID acknowledge the fact that I was generalising - quote "I know it's a genralisation, but.." Most people understood what I was saying. I hope u now do too!

  • @bluevozhak Now that I got that out of the way, my point was that I am not attracted to effeminate guys, but prefer more masculine guys - it's not a complex, it's a preference (there are manly gay guys out there, incase you didn't know). I am gay, have gay friends and don't hate it OR punish myself for it (where did you get that from seriously? You're trying to see something that isn't there). "hetreosexual obsession" = I'm not obsessed - I find a lot of straight guys hot - most gays also do..

  • @dave16124918 you said nothing about masculine or effeminate in your comment please re-read it, you made a broad generalization, i am one of those "masculine"m men you speak of, but what exactly do you define as masculine? is it based on the established heterosexual type, because just so you know in cultures across the world masculine is very different, in some masculine men wear make up, so please, speak for yourself alone, not "a lot of gay guys" . peace

  • @bluevozhak I wasn't going to put a thorough description of what a "masculine man" is on the internet - most people who watch this video know what I am talking about when I say that - apparently you don't. I am right when i say "a lot of gay guys" because most guys are straight, thus a lot of them are attractive simply because there are so many of them when compared to the gay men population. I have a limit on how many words i can write and I am not about to write 10 comments for u on youtube.

  • you could be my perfect man your not pickey and you like geeks :D

  • you are cute,i would date you :)

  • I think yr cute:P

  • I think yr cute:P

  • I understand what you feel. My son has had the exact same situation, honestly it's because most gay men are just sex pigs, and it is VERY hard to find a guy who isn't. Thus, he has almost no dates. Oh and he plays WoW, and is very cute.

  • Dude, we make up 10% of the world's population. It's fairly common for gay guys to be feminized, and most gays like masculine ones. I hear you, I'm in the same situation, but its because we are a minority.

    You'll find him someday. Though being openminded to long distance relationships is a good idea, I'd shy away from going for them. Try to start out just talking, move on to friendship, then let things go from there. Don't rush into anything.

  • You don't need to be in a relationship, you just want to be. All those fools that date around aren't dating the best person for them. There are so many people in this world don't get your hopes down so soon. You are datable and you will find him.

  • I like you. You are handsome! The lite facial hair looks nice, you dont sound or look gay (good thing). do you have muscles? If not that may help

  • I couldn't help but notice: As the video begins, CNN's "Larry King Live" is on the TV over your shoulder. I'm assuming this is your bedroom & along those lines, I can only think of two places a Larry King show has been audible in my bedroom. Linking to the seminal experience vibe, the first was his 11PM ET Mutual Broadcasting radio show in the early 1990s. Last summer, I watched taped "Larry King Live" episodes tracking remarkable Michael Jackson death story--including some Jackson family guests

  • @GWhiz99 define "seminal experience vibe" for me please? I'm slow.

    Interesting though. I love me some Larry.

  • faggot  he likes getting pumped up the ass

  • @TheWarriorchamp really dude thats fucking disrespectfull

  • Being picky is good, it means ull b satisfied with the person u end up with (as opposed to just settling for 2nd best). Best of luck to you =) (assuming things havent changed since the time u made the video)

  • OMG! dude u so made me about to cry for you.! :(

  • turn em gay ^^ haha that what i do