You might check this article in the British newspaper GUARDIAN:
"2011: A good year to be gay" - From marriage equality to the end of don't ask, don't tell, this has been an extraordinary year. h ttp://gu.com/p/34v5j
hey man, just found your channel today. I started watching your videos but the quality of your sound is horrible. What are you using to record it? it has a tinny echoey vibe to it. You're hot though :)
@red44ever Actually not every one who contracts HIV gets aids and since you are heterosexual you are more likely to get infected. Just thought I'd point that out :)
For what its worth, thank you for sharing your story. It's cool that your friends took it so well, aside from the drama. I hope mine take it as well as yours when i tell them. Looking forward to your next videos
If you want to believe there is no God and that you can walk after your own lust, than you are welcome to believe this. But when you start portraying yourself on the front page of YouTube, showing many that we are the God of our own Universe, than all I have to say is this. In my belief, being Gay is scary if God will judge creation.
There is a God or there isn't.
Both ideas are frightening. We are hurling through space at 66,000 MPH and nobody is in charge.
When people become more accepting of gay people it should be this easy exaggerated example: Going to the market with a friend and your friend says I want to get some chips and you say I like penis and there should be no, what did you say? or what? it should be oh you prefer penis or vagina=chips, stupid example but I think you get it!!
You should have just said "yeah I was having sex with a man the same time you were douching that gross stuff out of your vagina" She would shut up right then and there. Of course not really have sex with a man. I think that's what people have to get over is that not all gay men or women that were or are in the closet are demented perverts and there is something wrong with them. You shouldn't have to come out and say your Gay. You are not a Gay person your a person first...not a gay one.
@Punisher888able The stigma is if your hiding why? & that's what people fear what they don't know. & in my experience usually its the less educated that have a problem with gays or most often the people that hate gays are almost always gay themselves and hate themselves for be'n different. But difference in this world is what makes everyone special. I hate labels&no one should have to proclaim themselves a gay person to satisfy other people's prejudice,u should be Jay who happens to prefer men.
Most people assimilate the connection with one another through sexual connotations. But not all gay men will do all that's, laughing here: required or stereo-typed of gay men. Not all Gay men have gay sex.
so i have this coworker (oh-no-right?) he is that no sex until marriage type who grew up in christian life but is so close to guys and we were getting close. but when i came out to him he freaked out and then i got defensive. a year later he giggles like a girl (total jock) when i make a cocky sarcastic comment or something.. but there is the whole past stigma. i always get vibes even though i let go... when im good he gets like on then i start thinking of him again. ya i have to admit i lovehim
(cont) but i guess the point is that i really dont know how to get over the stigma that he has... and the friends he hangs out with. he has invited me to hang with his friends, but i just cant because of (other long story) but anyway i have a day to be around him saturday. i just need advice because i believe that this is a make or break point. help?
@IIhauzz that's a dumb reason to kill yourself. i think an existential or philosophical reason would be better. read: the myth of sisyphus by camus. it explores the philosophical reasons for life/suicide and he got the nobel prize for it.
@oxysean thank you for this comment. idk if this was a real suicide proclamation or not but never kill yourself for who you are. all you are is good and right and just in my life experience, sadness comes from not having the courage to do what you need to do (i.e. express to others who you really are) because if your hiding, all your thinking about are the worst possible outcomes and of people not accepting you. my advice: find someone who you know will accept you. someone you look up to and
Jesse "Amico Mio" I want to thank you for sharing this and contributing to the "Coming Out" archive here on YT! This will likely resonate with many others, and it makes Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here enormously proud of you "Bello"! With "Authenticity" such as yours here "Bello", the opportunity for those "Tempi Buoni" or good times will increase manifoldly !
I am so glad your coming out has gone so well...as it should be. :) btw, your volume is very low; are you checking audio levels before you upload?
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You might check this article in the British newspaper GUARDIAN:
"2011: A good year to be gay" - From marriage equality to the end of don't ask, don't tell, this has been an extraordinary year. h ttp://gu.com/p/34v5j
WobbliesIWW 2 months ago
thanks for your courage, stay strong
check this article in a student newspaper:
oudaily.com/news/2011/oct/13/column-come-out-closet-when-you-are-ready/
WobbliesIWW 2 months ago
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WobbliesIWW 2 months ago
hey man, just found your channel today. I started watching your videos but the quality of your sound is horrible. What are you using to record it? it has a tinny echoey vibe to it. You're hot though :)
blackxjx 2 months ago in playlist More videos from jayunit85
It's hard being gay. I feel like I'm gonna be single forever! Such torture! Why jayunit85 Why???
IIhauzz 2 months ago
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so got aids yet?
red44ever 2 months ago
@red44ever woww.. everyone, check this guys channel out... what a douch. Look at the "my dream" section.
jayunit85 2 months ago 5
@red44ever Get a life, loser!
weho1 2 months ago
@red44ever Actually not every one who contracts HIV gets aids and since you are heterosexual you are more likely to get infected. Just thought I'd point that out :)
Cupid2180 2 months ago
@red44ever No he has not.. but Ala did...
antonio2828 2 months ago
Shit. You're really hot.
lovehidemelody12 3 months ago
Nice
1437Ziggie 3 months ago
I agree...you are pretty attractive man
Aronhiioman317 3 months ago
YOU. ARE. HOT. AS. FUCK.
thefuzzyducky1 3 months ago
you're kind of cute :)
Nicosixteen 3 months ago
Will watch tomorrow, video is too quiet. But you are a good looking young man I shall say that.
Sanctuaryofstars 3 months ago
I'm gay
Oz55730 3 months ago
I want you to be my bf =/
Cmdelorenzo27 3 months ago
If you're not in love with this adorable guy then I don't know what's wrong with you.
brama1969 3 months ago
For what its worth, thank you for sharing your story. It's cool that your friends took it so well, aside from the drama. I hope mine take it as well as yours when i tell them. Looking forward to your next videos
cscher137 3 months ago
are you really gay? your hoooot, i wish you were my boyfriend
kevinxavier777 3 months ago
mmmm YOUR yummy
mrquizzler 3 months ago
Daaaamn. Somebody's fucking delicious.
poolerboy0077 3 months ago
are u single?
lifenet106 3 months ago
A lot of gay guys are smoking hot.
jfs50 4 months ago
God ur sexy as hell
HAPPYALWAYS29 4 months ago
@yamilaaveo how is him being hot and gay a waste
thaiIurr 4 months ago
You're kind of gorgeous, not going to lie.
thaiIurr 4 months ago
God damn you're cute.
Presurved 4 months ago
wat a wasteeeeeee ur too hot to be gay...lmao....mannn..grrrrrrr...
yamilaaveo 4 months ago
Great video, all the best to you. Btw, you are H O T like molten lava from a volcano ;)
darovids 5 months ago
You are gorgeous!
swmorrow 5 months ago
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If you want to believe there is no God and that you can walk after your own lust, than you are welcome to believe this. But when you start portraying yourself on the front page of YouTube, showing many that we are the God of our own Universe, than all I have to say is this. In my belief, being Gay is scary if God will judge creation.
There is a God or there isn't.
Both ideas are frightening. We are hurling through space at 66,000 MPH and nobody is in charge.
Yaylin2 5 months ago
When people become more accepting of gay people it should be this easy exaggerated example: Going to the market with a friend and your friend says I want to get some chips and you say I like penis and there should be no, what did you say? or what? it should be oh you prefer penis or vagina=chips, stupid example but I think you get it!!
Punisher888able 5 months ago
You should have just said "yeah I was having sex with a man the same time you were douching that gross stuff out of your vagina" She would shut up right then and there. Of course not really have sex with a man. I think that's what people have to get over is that not all gay men or women that were or are in the closet are demented perverts and there is something wrong with them. You shouldn't have to come out and say your Gay. You are not a Gay person your a person first...not a gay one.
Punisher888able 5 months ago
@Punisher888able The stigma is if your hiding why? & that's what people fear what they don't know. & in my experience usually its the less educated that have a problem with gays or most often the people that hate gays are almost always gay themselves and hate themselves for be'n different. But difference in this world is what makes everyone special. I hate labels&no one should have to proclaim themselves a gay person to satisfy other people's prejudice,u should be Jay who happens to prefer men.
Punisher888able 5 months ago
Most people assimilate the connection with one another through sexual connotations. But not all gay men will do all that's, laughing here: required or stereo-typed of gay men. Not all Gay men have gay sex.
Punisher888able 5 months ago
i love your videos. you're very inspiring, never stop being yourself :)
shakeitup2nite 5 months ago in playlist More videos from jayunit85
Those girls that 'out' gay guys is because they're mad that you won't place your penis in their vagina. It's as simple as that.
DouglasUrantia 5 months ago 40
@DouglasUrantia HAHAHA!
jayunit85 5 months ago
so i have this coworker (oh-no-right?) he is that no sex until marriage type who grew up in christian life but is so close to guys and we were getting close. but when i came out to him he freaked out and then i got defensive. a year later he giggles like a girl (total jock) when i make a cocky sarcastic comment or something.. but there is the whole past stigma. i always get vibes even though i let go... when im good he gets like on then i start thinking of him again. ya i have to admit i lovehim
BrownEyedChados 5 months ago
(cont) but i guess the point is that i really dont know how to get over the stigma that he has... and the friends he hangs out with. he has invited me to hang with his friends, but i just cant because of (other long story) but anyway i have a day to be around him saturday. i just need advice because i believe that this is a make or break point. help?
BrownEyedChados 5 months ago
Someone hacked into my account again and wrote bad stuff. Must've been my brother. Sorry everyone.
IIhauzz 5 months ago
I'm gonna kill myself for being gay. goodbye everyone.
IIhauzz 6 months ago
@IIhauzz that's a dumb reason to kill yourself. i think an existential or philosophical reason would be better. read: the myth of sisyphus by camus. it explores the philosophical reasons for life/suicide and he got the nobel prize for it.
oxysean 6 months ago
@oxysean thank you for this comment. idk if this was a real suicide proclamation or not but never kill yourself for who you are. all you are is good and right and just in my life experience, sadness comes from not having the courage to do what you need to do (i.e. express to others who you really are) because if your hiding, all your thinking about are the worst possible outcomes and of people not accepting you. my advice: find someone who you know will accept you. someone you look up to and
jayunit85 6 months ago
@jayunit85 Gay men are mean. They make me want to kill myself.
IIhauzz 5 months ago
trust. this will help you abundantly. THANK YOU ALL FOR THE COMMENTS! KEEP THEM COMMING.
jayunit85 6 months ago
@jayunit85
Ciao Bello!
Jesse "Amico Mio" I want to thank you for sharing this and contributing to the "Coming Out" archive here on YT! This will likely resonate with many others, and it makes Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here enormously proud of you "Bello"! With "Authenticity" such as yours here "Bello", the opportunity for those "Tempi Buoni" or good times will increase manifoldly !
Con L'Amore e Molti Baci! (Love n' Kisses)
Blaine
blainebill39 6 months ago
I really enjoyed listening to your story! You should make more videos :)
rpgarber 6 months ago
Congrats on coming out!
tooblanktofunction 6 months ago
Stay strong and be true to yourself. Thanks for sharing.
4454781 6 months ago
Gosh, you're pretty. :) Good luck with coming out in the future and yeah, please speak louder. I can barely hear what you are sayin'. ;) Bye
Izgubidan88 6 months ago
Oh my god you are hot!
rpgarber 6 months ago 36
Glad things went ok with your friends.
th3g00dstuff88 6 months ago