How divorce affects children

[poopypooppoop1000]

all these things are about argueing not divorce divorce is a good thing if you think about it cuz it ends arguing

[MrCooljeppe]

i guess we all think we newer will get divorced as adults, but i think our parents thought the same thing.

[Shawty0105]

I should show this video 2 my mom and dad maybe they will finally understand. :(



[lovejordanpenn]

my parents are getting a divorce all because of my mom and her affair she lied to all of us and now my family is ripped apart and she is leaving our house just to live with him i hate her so much and i will never forgive her

[reidrules45]

not a bad video.

[robynbministries]

I lead a program called "the Big...Divorce Thru the Eyes of a Teen" and I am brokenhearted by what I hear every week. Parents are living through their own pain, trying to find another relationship to fill the gap, while the kids feel like they are left in the dust. Another generation of pain and failed relationships/families. By the end of the 14 weeks, it is so great to see kids healing and headed toward a healthier and freer future.

[ilikenewbies457]

i got no friends, got no buddies to relie on, only got my younger brother who needs me, living with my dad

[OneAgainstMarriage]

If your con artist spouse has connections with police, when he or she springs the trap they will lock you up so fast your head will spin. Some are quite adept at coercing you to plead guilty to false charges just to get out of jail or out of frustration or just to get it over with. If youre male your wife makes a little "deal" with her copper friends and they throw you in jail and go after your money. If you're female your abusive husband has his copper friends keep you in line, or in jail.

[OneAgainstMarriage]

Marriage is a vile con job that has been taken over by con artists and murderers. People have been enslaved and had their lives trashed by marriage forever. When you marry you are knowingly and willingly involving the law in your relationship. Unless you are the con or murderer yourself, i dont recommend getting married. You start off paying the church. Then counsellors. Then lawyers. Churches, counsellors, police, bail bonds, lawyers and courts make money off you because you married.

[unclefixer]

Well baxfikkle and manpanati your both right, it is a corrupt system. I am looking for a good racket to get into, but if it was this God awful racket or start running gun and selling drugs, then the guns and drugs it would be. Atleast people who sell those things are selling something the public wants. No body but selfish women and the corrupt thug who run it, wants the current divorce, family law system.

[unclefixer]

Feminazi's, and selfish women in general, the corrupt and greedy legal system think divorce is the best invention since sliced cheese! For everyone else it is misery, injustice and a wound that never goes away. The few and the selfish, get to win and get patted on the head for doing wrong, While those who lost and suffer indignity and injustice from it are not heard. Well its time to be heard. It time to stem the epidemic of divorce and hold those accountable who cause it.

[baxfikkle555]

@unclefixer "the corrupt and greedy legal system think divorce is the best invention since sliced cheese!" It is for them! & remember they not only want you to get divorced they want you to get married again too so you can get divorced AGAIN ! Its a never ending win win win win again for them ! Marriage is a racket that makes organized crime look like grade schoolers! Its totally UN NEEDED but the Legal system & government wants it !

[Mapanatl]

@unclefixer Amen Brother! That is what I have been saying.

FEMINISM was started by ZIONISTS JEWS when they failed in injection Communism in the US. it turns out that the McCarthy era was not so bad after all they were onto something. Alas, it only delayed the Destruction on US Society with Feminism.

the founders where all ZIONIST JEWISH women. and even TODAY the most vile-speaking Bitches are JEWS. look it up.

even here on YT "Radical Feminist statements"

RESEARCH IT! pass it ON!

[dablackle24]

my parents might be gettin a dirvorce. and 3:44 is true but i dont have a friend tht can help me through this or tht cares :(

[baxfikkle555]

@dablackle24 you have internet access! thats a Hell of lot more than I had.

Toughen up a little bit, quit whining. Your parent(s) could get killed in an auto accident too. You could get cancer. Are you whining about that too? Need a friend? then go find one! there are tons of kids out there! whats the matter you cant find someone you own age ?

[NiiNaBoBiiNa]

they split when i was like 6.. both remarried.. except my mom maried a bad guy.. he did things for 5 years.. i told.. they divorced and he is in jail.. um.. i live with my grandma.. i havent seen my parents or 4 little brothers. in about a year. :/

[boudebes12]

this made me cry my parents got divorced thats been happening im probaly gonna fail 4rth grade

[therealtappinG]

my mom and dad divorced when i was 3. now my mom and stepdad are divorced and im 21. i havent seen my stepdad since january 12 and we were like best friends.

[Mapanatl]

@therealtappinG Don't worry about your stepdad. Where is YOUR DAD??

as a Child you probably never knew the war that you never heard about the WAR between your parents. eventually driving him or keeping him away.

I know what I'm telling you. YOU SHOULD look up your DAD!

[RobertMOdell]

One word: ADULTERY.

Adulterers will not see the Kingdom of God.

[alovingfather1]

Lest ye repent!!!!!!!!

[RobertMOdell]

Yes, repent. Remarraige is a life of adultery. I hope that people will stop comitting adultery and ask forgiveness for what they have done.

[porthole11]

@RobertMOdell is it a adultary thing when she loves herself so much, she dont care about anybody else or the bad shes doing to get her selfish way

[RobertMOdell]

@porthole11 Could be selfishness, greed, or any number of things including idolotry resulting in such behaviors. Adultery can also cause people to change the way they act. You just never know what is behind behaviors without asking.

[sunsetsbythesea]

personally, i think a reason why parents get divorced is because they make each other miserable, and unlike fifty years ago where they didn't talk about or think about that common situation, today it's out in the open and people won't put up with it anymore, thus, divorce...i'm just saying...

[Ilovetoact13]

my mom & dad divorced and i am only 10

[sunsetsbythesea]

i spent christmas with my dad for the first time since the divorce. he lives 3 states away. i came back to my mom and our little house. i went into my room and lay in the dark. i started crying. what is the point? life is too fucked up to live... my mom keeps telling me everything's okay. but it's not when you cant fucking live anymore.

[Alexander67212]

I am the Dad in a divorce and trust me. Im sure his heart breaks and he misses you. I grew up and my parents divorced and it is hard but much harder as the parent. Understand that they both love you. Divorce is terribly painfull but you will get through. Just take it slow and allow time to heal you. It just takes time.

[sunsetsbythesea]

thank you for that.

[Ahhtheennna]

I HONESTLY dont think divorce is that bigg of a deal, sorry my opinion . (:

[pizzelle4u]

@Ahhtheennna then you never learned the importance and meaning of what Marriage is. With that statement, that is one reason why children are so lost today today.

[Alexander67212]

Then i honestly feel your in denial or have no heart. Sorry, my opinion. :(

[knrwooo]

my parents got divorced just before xmas a few years ago. its never been the same

:(

[winstondinesh]

Great Job!! Keep it up!!!

[SuperRAwbones]

My parents are getting a divroce.....i cry most of ther time..I used to be a A student now i make C's....I need help..

[xMusicalMelancholyx]

Same here.... :'(

[isaachaze1]

I'm a divorce attorney in California. Seen it all. Always feel bad about the kids and what they go through.

[AdVader]

Sto pthe war against fathers marriage and families.

[rainbowdragon999]

I'm actually lucky since my parents split up isn't so severe I feel fine its been just today it mostly is affecting my parents especially my dad since he barely is able to be with us and now he has less time now I feel sad more for him than me

[tigawoods]

@rainbowdragon999 thats an affect of divorce also. the child feels a sort of need for worry for one of the parents.

[farida986]

@rainbowdragon999 what u mean ur dad has less time?

[rainbowdragon999]

@farida986 He is not in our house and lives in my uncle's house

[TediusZanarukando]

My parents have always been together.  However, my brother divorced my nephew's mother in 2007 but got remarried in 2008. I agree with the end of this video, that suicide is not the answer to parental divorce.

[LadyBritonWhite]

there is always hope... bullshit.

[uchihafan96]

mi parents are going through divorce right now... my dad almost killed himself, my mom cant trust anyone (not even me) and i never can show im upset because of my little 8 year old brother who im trying to protect from this madness i cant even say im sad cuz i dont want him to worry about all of this

[sunsetsbythesea]

i feel for you. Let me know if you ever want to talk.

[uchihafan96]

my dad moved to Pennslyvania(sp?) and moved his selfish girlfriend and her two kids in. me and my brother are forced to sleep in windowless rooms in the basement while her kids sleep upstairs (and its MY DADS house, not hers!) and my aunt and uncle (dad's brother and sister-in-law) are bitches who make up shit about me just to cause drama. but other than that things are starting to get better, i am closer to my mom now than i ever was.

[imselfconfident10]

not how it affected me

[patrickstarfatty1]

my parents got divorce when i was in grade. 1

[h60562]

My parents got divorced over 10 years ago and i still haven't got over it.

I've tried to but each time I am near either of them I feel physically ill, i've gone downhill in life and have to take drugs to cope, has anyone got any advice they can give me, the feelings just don't seem to go away no matter what I do.

[TILLEYJS]

boohooo cry me a river

[carguru3]

FUCK YOU TILLEYJS

[TILLEYJS]

Why fuck me? carguru3...Just because you don't like my opinion. Sorry, but it is true for some, whether you like it or not.

[carguru3]

O your basically telling me to kill myself my parents are going through a divorce you douche

[TILLEYJS]

Cry me a river so I can float home! We all got problems...

[carguru3]

This is exactly why i said FUCK YOU DOUCHEBAG IS BURN YOUR HOUSE DOWN USING YOUR OWN SHIT

[TILLEYJS]

I hope your whole family dies in a car fire lol...

[carguru3]

Funny i'll see you in hell

[TILLEYJS]

At least we will have something to talk about..

[uchihafan96]

lol sorry that waz a funny comeback

[TILLEYJS]

Really I wouldn't know. My parents divorced and it destroyed me. So fuck you! I hope you get herpes in your lungs, you skank bitch.

[sunsetsbythesea]

why are you hating on other people's problems? that honestly makes no sense.

[TILLEYJS]

Divorce is a good way for children to see that they don't matter and that nothing is etched in stone. Your parents only care about themselves and how they will be inconvenienced by you. Suicide is a way out, but not the fun one. You get to go through imminence pain and heartache. It will teach you things about humanity that will protect you in your adult life. So suck it up, adapt and overcome but never forget.

[h60562]

That's got to be the worst advice ever, i hope your having a joke, if not you need help.

Sucking up emotions is the worst thing you can do.

[uchihafan96]

have you gone through your parents getting a divorce?

[trippster221]

YES!!!

[Katex2k8]

my mum and real dad split up wne i was 2 1/2 and i found out that on tuesday my mum n step dad r splitting up and im onley 12 :(

[AirRaidX]

Far too many parents are unfaithful in their marriage. They cheat, whore around, commit adultery, get divorced for terrible reasons because they're incredibly selfish, disgusting, sickening & they care nothing about their family. Otherwise they wouldn't do these things. It destroys a family forever. It causes untold PAIN, SUFFERING & AGONY for THEIR kids & the kids of the other families they DESTROY along the way. I fucking refuse to sugarcoat the devastation of the breakdown of the family.

[joshj2j]

ok....my parents are divorced....im only 11...now some of you who are 14+ and parents divorced...well you have to get that out of your head...name of song???

[sunsetsbythesea]

stay together for the kids-blink 182. i have it on my ipod hehe.

[silentonall]

Yep...divorce sucks...IT BITES!!! Perhaps the number one reason (in immoral terms) on why the United States is on the decline. It's time to exploit this my friends....BIG TIME!!!!

[sweetzie]

my parents devorced wince i was 3, i never know what it feels like to have both parents in the hse, its sad, i was too young to know anyway, im 18 now, and between time, i went ot court to pick who i have to be with and whos on whos side and shit, my parents dont even talk to me, they practically abandoned me,i have to do modeling and work at bars and what not being a bartender at new york and modeling shits what not save my own money, its hard, wat song is this anyone? reply me pls.

[joshj2j]

the name of the song is tay together for the kids

[just2w4tch]

meh... just over 10 years on since my life was shattered, and suicide is looking pretty good about now. my younger bro seemed to make it look cool. i am just sticking around to watch the guilt. 'sgreat.

[jenelle152]

I will never get over my parents divorce 12 - 14 years old. Fighting, raging during the night, going to court, stating who I wanted to be with, knowing I had to fight for my own safety because the other was just going for custody to hurt the other one. It left me with life long depression, hospitalization, drug abuse, and severe loneliness, I searched for my person, to fight the loneliness, married him 9 years ago, he cheated, and I'm in the same situation and I'm right back there.

[BALANCE94015]

dothemacarana08...suggesting adding facts and statistics, adding numbers and percentages to the video, makes all the difference and has a much greater impact. what's the number or percentage of kids from divorced families commit suicide? at what age? what percentage?...suggestion for your next video project, have a rolling list of names under 18 yrs. old, at what age, residence, why parents divorced, and how each died.

[Paintballgod717]

When my parents got a divorce I wanted to live with my dad but my mom had other plans. I had to go to court about it and I had to wait till I was 18 to live with my dad. 6 years after the divorce. And now my mom doesn't talk to me and said she never wanted to see me again. SHE TOOK HER ANGER OUT ON ME. It blew but now I LOVE BING HERE. I thought I could never survive growing up and we would constently fight but I pulled through

[anonyma84]

It is horrible to be forced to choose who are you going to live with, but it is worse when the decission depends on a court.

The ugliest thing

[DROPDEADDEATHCORE]

My mom is filing for divorce with my dad.

And i have to choose who i want to be with.

And i love them both so much that i just want everything to do be like it was when i was younger.

[Paintballgod717]

Just make sure your explain your reasoning really clear or you might really hurt the other. Make sure the one you choose wants you there for you and not because they get child support money

[sunsetsbythesea]

i'm so eternally sorry. it's so sad, and unfortunately, that tearing you're going through will take a while to heal, if it even does....

[Mahucharn]

Simple, yet meaningful. I liked it, it is definatly a HUGE problem in the world today.

[bbegemjan]

i will never do this to my kids ... this is such bull i don't understand my parents :(

[philipgeorge1991]

@bbegemjan thats what you say now... wait till you face a rough relationship yourself.

[Chancerz000]

I don't think parents even care about how this effects the children cuz my mom is always saying "i am so glad i dvorced your father i feel so much better and i am soo lucky to get away from him" notice that there was only 'I' in there no i'm sorry to put you threw this...me and my brother sufferd threw it and now both my grandparents r divorced,my aunts and uncles,IT'S A FUCKING CONSTANT WAR!

[UEGUnequaled]

@Chancerz000 hey, it has to stop somewhere, you could stop it

[Mapanatl]

@Chancerz000 The influence on our society to destroy ourselves is made by the ZIONISTS they are the ones that started FEMINISM telling stupid women to HATE their MEN, their husbands, to Abolish Marriage, to destroy marriage, "Equal Rights for women" (even though a husband is providing for his family).

Zionists Jews are the Cause of all this. they Started Feminism when they could NOT inject Communism in the US.

in Russia they Succeeded with Communism and destroyed that country

RESEARCH it!!

[waynefisher927]

Amen airraid!!!!!!

[mylongcylinder]

This is an issue I tried to make clear to my ex-wife.

She was way too selfish to listen.

[mylongcylinder]

This is an issue I tried to make clear to my ex-wife.

She was way too selfish to listen.

[airraideagle]

exellent vid.

do parents even FUCKING comprehend the MASSIVE, unfathomable amount of pain, suffering, agony and devastation that their selfish divorces, adulterous affairs & remarriages cause? do they? most don't

[airraideagle]

I hope the mothers & fathers that CAUSE this and DO this to their kids ...fucking burn in hell.

And no, I will NOT ever accept that parents are just human & make "mistakes", that it's not good to stay together 'for the kids', that it's not good to stay in a bad marriage, being miserable, that it's better to divorce. that's wrong. those are LAME, PATHETIC, Family-Destroying BULLSHIT fucking ideas and excuses.

[LadyMiserable]

It's not wrong to divorce, when your marriage isn't working any more!!

My parents divorced 2 years ago and I'm happy, that they have a new life with other partners. Even if my life isn't turning out that well, but that's my business and I really don't think that I would be happier if my parents would still fight almost everyday! I think it would be worse.......!!!

[LexieCasteel]

um, One thing I dont get, what if one spouse beats the other? Is it wrong to divorce? What if the bad marriage that makes everyone unhappy creates a bad enviroment for the kid?

[lokimili]

finally someone who got the point! you're so damn right!

[LexieCasteel]

I understand if a kid is hurt,I went through the same thing, but then again they were so unhappy together that I realize that the enviroment of tense and hurt would be too much to live with. If I didnt love my husband and he didnt love me, we fought and bickered and nothing helped, why should we take it out on the kid? Why should he see the hurt we are going through? As long as the kid knows we both love him(her) and my ex and I keep our problems away from him, he wont be affected by the divorce

[ArmaniSoledad]

It's great!