If it is really mature Kay Fans Do not these people a reason more people back to the more noisy
Kay Tse Department always destined to lose all child Kary Ng than Joey!
Stephy is a nice even sing you, you want to do days Luo Chung tune days after award, there you were, into the fine lines and reported that the age and plastic surgery and play thanks to the Lord, believers will never married on Well baby you simply make friends the life I think you're in the 'repair teeth' you are bad Star
I know this girl for more than 30 years but I never have a chance to tell her that I love her all these years. We see each other almost everyday and I have to pretend to treat her like a sister. We both have our own family now and I just have to keep my feelings inside. But trust me, it's very difficult!
@lauls85 It's always good to have somebody who understands! Thank you! I still see her everyday, but maybe it's God's will to put us together but have a brother-sister or best friends relationship instead of being lovers. Maybe this way it's better for everybody!
@fujing6338 If you understand Chinese, I want to give you this poem by 李煜 Title is 相見歡
無言獨上西樓,月如鉤。 寂寞梧桐深院鎖清秋。剪不斷,理還亂,是離愁,別是一般滋味在心頭!
I like this poem. I think it explains how you feel, especially the last part. 剪不斷,理還亂,是離愁,別是一般滋味在心頭! Even you still see her everyday, I know you want to tell her how you feel otherwise you wouldn't be posting it in youtube. It is tough. just like the last sentence 別是一般滋味在心頭! however, 剪不斷,理還亂
There is something that we would never get in life no matter how hard we have tried. But you already have something else.. Better or worse than you thought? Hard to answer. But I think your family they all love you too. Just focus on that. And just let time heals all wound. Eventually, you wouldn't feel as painful. Remember, 剪不斷,理還亂
@lauls85 Thank you! I wish if I could know you sooner! You know the worst thing is that she is the cousin of my wife and she was the matchmaker! And I might not have married my wife if it wasn't for her! Maybe I just want to be close to her! And my feelings for her grow stronger recently because her stupid husband left her for a younger girl half his age! She told me that she doesn't want to see my wife unhappy! So I guess I have to keep my feelings inside me until the day I die!
@fujing6338 It is like a movie or story setup. In life, we have many tough decisions. In you case, this is one of them. Your decision now is either go and tell her you want to be with her since you have been thinking about her all those years. If you make this choice and spend the rest of your life with her, the consequence would be: You would separate with your wife and kids, do you want that to happen? Think about it.
@fujing6338 The 2nd choice would be, just still the way it is now. You put everything under your heart for the rest of your life, pretend nothing happen. For this choice, I would suppose you would be the only person that hurt, instead of bunch of people that you care about. Somewhere in the future you may think about the last 2 sentences of this poem 《锦瑟》by 李商隐-- 此情可待成追忆,只是当时已惘然 I can't make that decision for you, dude, I just lay things down for you. Decision is on you.
@lauls85 I guess I will take the 2nd choice, I would rather be the only one that got hurt instead of me hurting everybody! No way that I would do something selfish to hurt my wife and my two kids. Sometimes in life you have to make personal sacrifices. And she may not accept me anyway! Maybe I am just being sympathetic to her! I like your 此情可待成追忆,只是当时已惘然! Thank you again for talking to me-it's like talking to a best friend! Thank you!
唉 咁有潛質ge歌手偏偏條路系崎嶇D
同埋首歌咁好聽點解仲唔破百萬架/____\
StephyAlex1 9 hours ago in playlist Liked videos
竟然到今日先留意到尼個mv....
findthenewworld 17 hours ago
@findthenewworld me too,以前齋聽,無留意mv
athenaphine 1 hour ago
My real story..
cassheng 1 day ago
個男主角...... 唉 ..... 算吧啦 @2:54 想打佢!
pachi0530 2 days ago
把聲好靚
o0crazybilly0o 4 days ago
最佳位置...
samg139000 1 week ago
good
olinachan 2 weeks ago
我真係好愛好愛妳,點解你就要拒絕?
我對你無微不至,我愛你,你也愛我.
只恨相識太晚,你最愛的不是我.我知道的.
雖然我不能在你心目中排第一位,
但我已經將你放左我心中的第一位.
就算我不能成為你最愛的人,
但我會成為最愛你的人...即使是不可能也好.
我寧願讓自己失敗,也不想放棄,逃避這失敗的罪名.
我真的很愛很愛你...Dada.
S051186 2 weeks ago 19
@S051186 同病相憐/_\
S3N234 3 days ago
@S3N234 叫我搵過第二個,唔值得我等.
你人走了,但都帶走了我的心.
我相信要再有戀愛,先要找回被她帶走了的心.
S051186 1 day ago
大佬,銳到正
faifaifai219 3 weeks ago
好听。感人
jinghuimai 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
謝安琪是現今香港難得一見的歌手
背後無大財團, 但是努力唱好每一首歌....
EV4543 1 month ago 18
沒有得您的允許 我都會愛下去
我有咩五好? 可五可以話比我知.
等我死心都死得心熄d
jjacchau 1 month ago 6
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如單論唱功,就我所知的本地女歌手,個個都在季孟之間。謝安琪之所以吸引我,是因爲她的歌有内涵,有思想,諷責社會不良風氣的明眼與慷慨令人擊節,所折射出的人生哲思往往能引起我心底的共鳴。
movebetween 1 month ago
謝安琪有學歷 讀完書先出黎做明星 見識係比一尾想發明星夢ge容小姐好
ch3onglam 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos 23
@ch3onglam 冇學歷/鍾意唱歌=發明星夢?膚淺.
primadonna717 1 month ago
@primadonna717 你講得好
babying0926 3 weeks ago
@primadonna717 佢係咁ge意思咩??
199237yan 1 week ago
謝安琪小姐係一個好有深度,好有見識同學識的歌手,唔講負面新聞,我覺得佢有實力過容祖兒.
safarihk 1 month ago 36
@safarihk 想俾好多個like你個comment!!
z15726249 1 month ago
愛情須要靠運氣.講真,有誰會喜歡當鍾無艷的角色,無奈世道太絕,感情不能勉強,唯有做一個默默為他好的閒人.
mikicc12 1 month ago 6
覺唔覺得無論人物、場境、表情都同你們的幸福既MV 好似
唔同既你們的幸福係鍾無艷既成人版
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If it is really mature Kay Fans Do not these people a reason more people back to the more noisy
Kay Tse Department always destined to lose all child Kary Ng than Joey!
Stephy is a nice even sing you, you want to do days Luo Chung tune days after award, there you were, into the fine lines and reported that the age and plastic surgery and play thanks to the Lord, believers will never married on Well baby you simply make friends the life I think you're in the 'repair teeth' you are bad Star
yeungsteve030 2 months ago
钟意kay的唱腔跟唱法···好好听~
YiW3iJ 2 months ago 8
最残忍的事,是要假装不知道自己爱上了一个不该爱上的人。一副若无其事的样子,呆在喜欢的人身边,看着他幸福,假装在为他的幸福流泪。
howhan80 3 months ago 20
@howhan80 簡直是一套"我可能不會愛你"
shortfat 1 month ago 3
chuckkk99 3 months ago 5
Lyrics (cantonese):
其實我怕你總誇獎高估我堅忍
其實更怕你只懂得欣賞我品行
無人及我用字絕重拾了你信心
無人問我可甘心演這偉大 化身
其實我想間中崩潰脆弱如戀人
誰在你兩臂中低得不需要身份
*無奈被你識穿這個念頭 得到好處的你 明示不想失去絕世好友 沒有得你的允許 我都會愛下去 互相祝福心軟之際或者准我吻下去 我痛恨成熟到 不要你望著我流淚 但漂亮笑下去 彷彿冬天飲雪水 被你一貫的讚許 卻不配愛下去 在你悲傷一刻必須解慰找到我樂趣 我甘於當副車 也是快樂著唏噓 彼此這麼了解* 難怪註定似兄妹一對
chuckkk99 3 months ago 7
佢邊度有整容-_-?
LAMshekwaiable 3 months ago 14
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CharleneShowSa 3 months ago
1:24 看著她邊吃麵邊流淚...心疼了 雖然自己也是女生///
要痛到什麼程度眼淚才會不受控的紛紛掉落
又要強韌到什麼程度才能繼續自然地吃那碗沾了淚的麵條
然後還可以不問回報地站在他身旁,背後 陪他走過這許多年
明明找不到療傷的地方 明明知道這寂寞將直至永遠
還是甘之如飴地畫地為牢...
不過就是有種人愛到極致 最後能相伴一生 對他們而言就是最好的結局吧
sum310 3 months ago 11
做鐘無艷未嘗唔係一件壞事啊。你愛拒,做拒既避風塘,甘就夠啦.
yatfu1998 3 months ago 5
擦....看到3:07我整个人都斯巴达了T-T.....可乐瓶啊可乐瓶
FanLinbo 3 months ago
這首歌受歡迎是因為很多人都有類似的經歷.
很喜歡的那個他, 只把自己當作兄弟, 還是一直的為他付出, 明知沒有結果, 還一直的待他好. 初時可能還會暗暗的抱著一絲他終有一天會受打動的念動, 到後來這念頭都打消了, 卻還是會一直的對他好, 因為那份愛已經不能自控了.
可是當想到他和他的愛侶甜蜜的時候, 自己心裡的辛酸又有多少人知道呢?
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係脆弱mv又係打難聽,又多一個未聽先彈的人
carson1099 3 months ago
Kennychan 199是「高登」打手,大家小心
gabl8a89 3 months ago 14
@gabl8a89 佢癈到係容姐首花xx打埋 '難聽' 兩個字!
Helgagaist 3 months ago
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難聽
kennychan199 3 months ago
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狗公之歌
siteelstink 3 months ago
@siteelstink 點解咁講???
josephinewu870303 3 months ago
糟糠之妻不可棄
benadsl 4 months ago
無論我怎麼努力, 也只是擔任鍾無艷的角色...
而你也只是獨愛夏迎春...
即使那個夏迎春不愛你, 你也是如此....
這個世界就是這樣的不公平....
我真的有那麼差, 差到連考慮一下都不行嗎?
jolin23456 4 months ago in playlist Liked 12
果條橋同《你們的幸福》一般一樣,唔通係續集?
gabl8a89 4 months ago 2
有時侯,就算有不錯的樣貌, 一流的實力 . 都只會落得如鍾無艷的下場。 她有事時便找你,但沒事時就不理你。 就算你想找她也不可
freddychai 4 months ago 6
e+無線做緊鍾無艷...
jolin23456 4 months ago in playlist Liked 23
意加聽返一樣咁好聽(: kay真係kay!!!加油阿
ponyolovely 4 months ago 2
有没有人知道MV开头那座桥系边度啊?急急急急急!!!!!!!!
CristCrist2010 4 months ago
@CristCrist2010
九龍灣啟福道
hw7897 4 months ago 4
@hw7897 5该5该
CristCrist2010 4 months ago
what's the name of the boy ?
and what is this MV about ?
Yourstruly347 4 months ago
27個人長得比鍾無艷還醜
MrDanDanDanDanDanLiu 5 months ago 13
契妹契上床
pinky215hk 5 months ago
我鍾意左一個由細玩到大既女仔,細個我同佢都唔知咩係戀愛,只當對方係好朋友.到慢慢大個我同佢都知道自己鐘意左對方既時候卻因為驚失怕醜同失敗而冇表白,直到最近個女仔要移民去美國,臨走先同我講佢鍾意左我好耐,我先後悔之前唔敢講,我而家好掛住佢,好掛住我細個同佢一齊玩既日子,但一切己經太遲..希望每一個人都識得珍惜眼前人.
szeronaldo 5 months ago 357
@szeronaldo 每人都有一個沈佳宜
keung18 2 months ago 8
@szeronaldo 我覺得你應該爭取!
kahinnine 1 month ago
@szeronaldo 有心永遠唔怕遲, 如果你掛住佢, 或者佢都係咁諗. 人地咁勇敢同你講, 希望你都勇敢地回應呀! 唔好辜負人地啦
nekoaratsuki 4 weeks ago 4
@szeronaldo ,,, 你個case 好痛/_\!
kincheung1113 3 weeks ago
@szeronaldo 睇完你個cm好感動 :'( 三年前,我有個好朋友,由小玩到大,都唔知大家原來係一直鐘意大家,直到佢要去美國讀high skul,先有勇氣同佢表白,可惜一切太遲....
szekikatie 2 weeks ago 3
@szeronaldo 追過去啦~~
bidibaby100 1 week ago 6
@szeronaldo be happy
elaineXD1 6 days ago
唱得正 mv又正 十個讚
mingfai007 5 months ago
cassheng
it is a war of intelligence are you smarter then a jew or ape?
yea!
LuneIare 5 months ago
ollololoolollo
9wye 5 months ago
ollololool
9wye 5 months ago
點解次次都係以前既歌好聽d
minisiuchung 5 months ago 4
喜帖街之前既歌...鐘無艷、節外生枝、我歌故我在.....好多也很有味道.......現在的變得商業化了....
ListenerSoul 5 months ago 4
我覺得呢首先係kay既代表作...
kitzzxx 5 months ago 11
@kitzzxx 我都覺得呢首係佢既代表作,聽過佢新同舊既歌之後都係覺得呢首最好聽最有感覺!
leockw 5 months ago 3
good
aaimpn 5 months ago
剛開始聽鍾無艷時,應該沒太多人喜愛,不明白為何當時這首歌沒紅,反而囍帖街卻比其更為大紅
lesleyching 5 months ago 6
@lesleyching
鍾無艷點會冇紅,可能當時你唔知啫,佢同囍帖街都唔同碟,唔同時間紅既兩首歌!
leockw 5 months ago
@lesleyching
鍾無豔果陣好紅喎.. 卡啦ok必點果陣
個個都聽過咁制.. 係中學入面好紅..其他唔知--
亦都係第1首我覺得kay唱歌好聽既歌
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這個世界係有公義既!KAY既音樂只會讓更多更多人聽到真相!
movebetween 6 months ago 2
男主角是那麼的自私,但無奈地女主角就是死心塌地的愛著他。
愛情,有時候就是這麼的無奈。
ZorusOfficial 6 months ago 11
自"鐘無豔 " 之后就开始留意啊KAY! =D
Aznproz 6 months ago
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KSSAsparkles 6 months ago 5
1:16勁搞野
chnomechi 6 months ago 9
good song ! old but still a classic ;3
harajukustar 6 months ago
我覺得“兄妹兄妹”真係害死人.... 唉
billybuzy 7 months ago 96
good mv, good lyrics, good melody, good voice!!!
terenceha 7 months ago
赞到。。。无话可说。。
Rjunlim 7 months ago
這是不是電視劇的歌??
Elizabeth111Music 7 months ago
@Elizabeth111Music 唐心风暴的插曲~
kenhigh2 6 months ago
超好聽
一齊反勁歌金曲頒獎典禮,唔好理個D白痴不公既頒獎典禮,D冇意義既獎就俾番D唔值得拿既歌手拿啦!
hwhlabgon 8 months ago 19
好感人嘅一首歌
百聽不厭
FOREVERKAYFANS 8 months ago 19
听極刀吾厭(!)
msman7101 8 months ago
听整刀吾厭(!)
msman7101 8 months ago
佢唱歌好好聽,把聲好特別!
hillson1997 8 months ago 3
我最中意謝安琪就係呢隻歌;)
當佢live唱呢隻;戈種穿透力再+埋歌詞就好似1字1句打在心中
lokbwong 8 months ago 5
我痛恨成熟到 不要你望著我流淚
但漂亮笑下去 彷彿冬天飲雪水
被你一貫的讚許 卻不配愛下去...
0109kate 8 months ago 6
嗯 只有親身經歷過才會明白的歌
有事鍾無艷 無事夏迎春
我不介意當鍾無艷 幫你做任何事都是我自願的
你有事的時候會想到我 我很高興
能幫到你解決問題 我也很滿足
我為你付出了 就沒想過要收回 也收不回 感情也是
只是 當別人問你我們之間的事 我希望你不要否認說沒有發生過
我們曾經相處的片段 請不要否定它存在過 好嗎?
我希望想要的回報就只是這樣而已 只是這樣而已
bearlovingdog 9 months ago 337
你好靚仔吖?點解要為咗你咁辛苦吖!
Baku59740 9 months ago 10
只有讀男女校,才能享受片段中的那樣...
m27a68v71 10 months ago 28
Does anyone know the name of the actor of the MTV? 有無人知個男主角既名? thanks a lot
nnnooosssfff 10 months ago 2
@nnnooosssfff 男主角:陳皓雲Howard 女主角:馬卓寧Vibeke
joy33 9 months ago
鍾無艷比囍帖街好聽<<我都覺= =
ray04131 11 months ago 25
知己,兄妹情= =
全鋼琴伴奏!!!well~
聲音很配合
YPYxchristine 11 months ago 3
永不開封的氣水,讓我抱在懷內吻下去..... touching but sad....
tsang1293 11 months ago 4
借分享喔~ 3Q^^
LEE19821102 11 months ago
k2l0112 1 year ago 19
其實我有點看不太懂這支MV
sun2ygirl 1 year ago
MV最後個男仔其實有番轉頭...........
可能終有一日 女仔的付出會有回報
meisxb 1 year ago 12
@meisxb Like!
邊一個對你好,其實是心知。
只怕
他回頭時已太遲...orz
mtfong 1 year ago 12
@mtfong 好多時侯人在江湖身不由己~_~
唔係佢對你好就一定可以一齊
sijdskafkad 11 months ago
mtfong 11 months ago
@mtfong -o- 邊個對你好 邊個對你差 雖然你心知
但會因為身邊種種限制 種種條件,因素 令自己決定錯左or做唔到決定
結果都係一樣~_~ 或者e d就係天意 e個世界咁大 遇到ge人咁多
一定有好多好似e d情況 一定有唔止一個會令你產生好感
但係有幾多個又真係可以係埋一齊~_~? 就好似e個mv咁 始終...都係一個悲劇..
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mtfong 11 months ago
@mtfong 吸取教訓... 係對人冇意思 ge 就撇撇脫脫 係對人有意思ge 就開波
唔好拖離帶水... 雖然先天ge野例如身邊各方面限制 我地無辦法去阻止
唯一ge方法只能做好自己本份
好似e隻mv 個男主角係對人有意思 但明知冇可能係埋一切又遲遲不下決定 拖離帶水
歌詞"在你悲傷一刻必需解慰找到我樂趣" 又再一次話比我地聽男主角若現若離..難以取捨
結果就相當明顯.o. 如果你能夠做到瀟灑一d 悲劇或者能減到最低 唔知答唔答到你...
sijdskafkad 11 months ago 5
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mtfong 11 months ago
@mtfong -O- 我多謝你就真 肯聽下亂講野kaka
sijdskafkad 11 months ago
@sijdskafkad "讓我決定我的快樂哪需得你的允許..."女孩早知是悲劇,但是能令她快樂的就是把悲劇演下去
CassLuvK 9 months ago 5
@CassLuvK ~o~ 唔演落去 又點會有鍾無艷e個故仔
sijdskafkad 9 months ago
@CassLuvK 愛一個人是會替他全心全意地付出,不會計較到底是悲劇還是喜劇,只要他開心就行了...
unknownid821 8 months ago 12
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mtfong 11 months ago
yay! finally found this after all searching for songs with same genre and style xD
kantheasian 1 year ago
遇到過,錯過了,痛呀...
yifanchn 1 year ago 2
I thought she had a tumor on her dress.
infernoman11 1 year ago 2
@infernoman11 Your observation is hilarious! I thought she had multiple bra cups on her dress!
electricorca 9 months ago
個女仔好靚好有氣質 叫咩名
ilovethisone123 1 year ago 2
@ilovethisone123 vibeke
joy33 1 year ago
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joy33 1 year ago
I cried. This feeling really sucks ;_;
BlackCatNumber13 1 year ago
請問一下有人知道這MV是啥意思嗎?
看不太懂MV到底要表達什麼
還有"鍾無艷"到底是什麼意思?
是人名嗎?
不過歌真的好好聽歌詞也寫的超好
不愧是林夕
crr5277 1 year ago 2
所謂:有事鐘無艷 無事夏迎春
歌詞大概是說 女主角雖然喜歡著那個男生卻以好友的身份一直做男生的“鐘無艷”,而一直無法成爲其戀人(鐘無艷)的無奈
annieyan213 1 year ago 8
想知道 歌詞內容跟 鐘無豔 三個字 有什麽關係?
iiluv8boy 1 year ago
@iiluv8boy 知道钟无艳这部电影吗 就是齐宣王的一个妃子之类的吧,她是中国古代四大丑女,同时也是才女,文武双全,为齐宣王做了很多事情,齐宣王在国家有难的时候宠幸钟无艳,没事的时候都宠幸一位叫夏迎春的美丽妃子,所以就有 有事钟无艳,无事夏迎春这个说法.歌词大致说,你喜欢我不过是因为觉得我人好.发了好人卡给我,而不是爱情. 这些解释希望可以帮到你
Vialaleung 1 year ago 222
@Vialaleung thank you. 齐宣王很賤. 哈哈
iiluv8boy 1 year ago
@iiluv8boy 啊哈哈 钟无艳是皇后啊..还是感动了齐宣王啊好像..
Vialaleung 1 year ago 4
好欣賞呢個時期既謝安琪
TheMicky1830 1 year ago 9
永不開封的汽水,讓我抱在懷內吻下去。
wkchan27 1 year ago 11
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kinwai2727 1 year ago
你都係拉VIOLIN嫁。。。
我點可以唔觸景傷情。。。
或者你是的愛這MV的原因。。。
carol3414 1 year ago 4
佢嗰時唱歌好好聽,但依家,唉!完全無咗個種style
yanpokhin 1 year ago 16
快樂著唏噓...so blue.
kk9066404 1 year ago 9
It's a sad song but it's so good.
peja16luver 1 year ago 6
melody帶點哀怨,同首詞真係好夾
fionman6 1 year ago 10
你的她怎允許/ 結伴觀賞雪的淚
第三者的故事
lovelyzuki 1 year ago 5
What does this song really mean?
boy0boy0 1 year ago
愛...是彼此分享和不求回報的付出...
CarolWen0909 1 year ago 4
呢首歌每日都会出现喺我脑里 ...
就算心情极好 ...一念到呢首歌个天就好似会即刻变灰 ..
我好攰...真系好攰 ...
唔好话你 ..
就连我自己都唔知道我究竟坚持紧什么 ....
swtbaka88 1 year ago 12
@swtbaka88
我諗緊堅持係因為你仍然好愛呢個人,又或者,你對呢個人仍然抱住一個希望,有時係抱住一個無可能既希望,好想放手..........但又放唔開..........真係好難
fionman6 1 year ago 12
@fionman6
或者你讲的啱 ...我的确仍然抱住希望 ....
虽然系好攰...
但系我捻我会继续撑落去 ...
swtbaka88 1 year ago
唔知點解覺得首歌係我心中既型像係偏黑色...
個MV唔太MATCH
toxicgo 1 year ago 4
其實我覺得鍾無艷比囍帖街好聽
好首意呢首歌
無論曲、詞同唱
fionman6 1 year ago 497
沒有得你的允許 我都會愛下去..
l0vebabex 1 year ago 5
@EdgyKayto 唔係,男主角係Howard
joy33 1 year ago
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joy33 1 year ago
she cried while she's eating the noodle, i tried this before. its reli STH, just like hit by a truck
nolvish 1 year ago
又會咁岩搵vibeke 黎拍伊個mv...-.-
ctin1516 1 year ago
I know this girl for more than 30 years but I never have a chance to tell her that I love her all these years. We see each other almost everyday and I have to pretend to treat her like a sister. We both have our own family now and I just have to keep my feelings inside. But trust me, it's very difficult!
fujing6338 1 year ago 9
@fujing6338 feel ur pain.
skyking166 1 year ago
@skyking166 Thanks for your understanding!
fujing6338 1 year ago
@fujing6338 I completely understand what you are talking about. Trust me, I really do know how hard it is for you to hold the feeling inside.
lauls85 1 year ago
@lauls85 It's always good to have somebody who understands! Thank you! I still see her everyday, but maybe it's God's will to put us together but have a brother-sister or best friends relationship instead of being lovers. Maybe this way it's better for everybody!
fujing6338 1 year ago
@fujing6338 If you understand Chinese, I want to give you this poem by 李煜 Title is 相見歡
無言獨上西樓,月如鉤。 寂寞梧桐深院鎖清秋。剪不斷,理還亂,是離愁,別是一般滋味在心頭!
I like this poem. I think it explains how you feel, especially the last part. 剪不斷,理還亂,是離愁,別是一般滋味在心頭! Even you still see her everyday, I know you want to tell her how you feel otherwise you wouldn't be posting it in youtube. It is tough. just like the last sentence 別是一般滋味在心頭! however, 剪不斷,理還亂
lauls85 1 year ago
There is something that we would never get in life no matter how hard we have tried. But you already have something else.. Better or worse than you thought? Hard to answer. But I think your family they all love you too. Just focus on that. And just let time heals all wound. Eventually, you wouldn't feel as painful. Remember, 剪不斷,理還亂
lauls85 1 year ago
@lauls85 Thank you! I wish if I could know you sooner! You know the worst thing is that she is the cousin of my wife and she was the matchmaker! And I might not have married my wife if it wasn't for her! Maybe I just want to be close to her! And my feelings for her grow stronger recently because her stupid husband left her for a younger girl half his age! She told me that she doesn't want to see my wife unhappy! So I guess I have to keep my feelings inside me until the day I die!
fujing6338 1 year ago
@fujing6338 It is like a movie or story setup. In life, we have many tough decisions. In you case, this is one of them. Your decision now is either go and tell her you want to be with her since you have been thinking about her all those years. If you make this choice and spend the rest of your life with her, the consequence would be: You would separate with your wife and kids, do you want that to happen? Think about it.
lauls85 1 year ago
@fujing6338 The 2nd choice would be, just still the way it is now. You put everything under your heart for the rest of your life, pretend nothing happen. For this choice, I would suppose you would be the only person that hurt, instead of bunch of people that you care about. Somewhere in the future you may think about the last 2 sentences of this poem 《锦瑟》by 李商隐-- 此情可待成追忆,只是当时已惘然 I can't make that decision for you, dude, I just lay things down for you. Decision is on you.
lauls85 1 year ago
@lauls85 I guess I will take the 2nd choice, I would rather be the only one that got hurt instead of me hurting everybody! No way that I would do something selfish to hurt my wife and my two kids. Sometimes in life you have to make personal sacrifices. And she may not accept me anyway! Maybe I am just being sympathetic to her! I like your 此情可待成追忆,只是当时已惘然! Thank you again for talking to me-it's like talking to a best friend! Thank you!
fujing6338 1 year ago
this MV could be one of the best in HK, really well made! simple but touching!
hchisnotidiot 1 year ago
i love the song
onikelly 1 year ago
香港難得的好mv
hkbnn 1 year ago 17