@talkingtom2vlog -- Being in the UK, a good place for you to get one is femininewear.co.uk . Its local, and plenty of brands there. If your flow is not too heavy, you can start with a smaller one, like small Meluna. Or small Ladycup. Most people find they work well for sports. But practice using one at home, in the evenings, with maybe a pad for backup, just while you are learning. That way by the time you wear it in public, you will have it mastered.
Uh, yeah I tried one of these a couple months ago and it was cool...until I tried to remove it. Blood everywhere. It looked like a horror movie in my bathroom.
@Jennamorrison43 -- That's ok, for some people it might take a little practice to get the whole "clean removal" down pat. But at this point, I can get literally go to the bathroom, take the cup out, empty, rinse, put it back, in the same exact time it used to take me to change a tampon, and with no more or less mess. Also the more often you empty it, the cleaner it is. I never let it get more than half full. Works much better.
@Jennamorrison43 MenstrualCupInfo is right. I've been using these for years, and I took me a while to get the insertion and removal to go smoothly. It's a matter of moving slowly and twisting the cup as you remove it. It's worth learning how to use!
@shayna40261 -- Most people just empty it when they go to the bathroom, yes. But unless your flow is heavy, you probably won't need to empty it every time you go to the bathroom.
I'm thinking about trying this, but I'm really not sure. I think it would be good because I hate the feeling of dryness when I use tampons. But my vagina is pretty tight and my vaginal canal is pretty sensitive...This seems like it would hurt a lot. It also seems time-consuming. Any advice for someone really sensitive like me?
@xxxBakeneckoxxx -- There are much smaller cups, like the small Meluna, or small Ladycup. But of course, I don't recommend using a really small one unless your flow is either normal, to light.
@xxxBakeneckoxxx I'm very similar and also dealt with vaginismus. It took me a while to learn how to use a cup (I use a similar brand), but it's definitely worth it. Try using a lubricant when you insert it. And if you're not home and need to remove it, you might have to pack a little toolkit to keep in your purse, which will include moist wipes, a small spray bottle, and a finger nail brush. Until you learn how to insert and remove it expertly, it will be a little messy. Just takes practice.
If anyone is wondering you can buy these cups at websites like: earthwisegirls they sell pads, reuseable pads and menstral cups, but i dont think menstral cups are too comfortable to use in my case i'd rather buy pads!
@tribefenatic I would say at least try it, because if you don't you will always wonder. But stick with the softer cups if you are sensitive. And go as small as possible for your flow. If you flow is really light, go with small Meluna, the soft variety, not the classic. Or a small Ladycup. If its average or heavier, try small Lunette, medium soft Meluna, Or SheCup. Even CupLee, if you can get hold of one (from Russia, you pay for them through Western Union).
@CaniS0210 -- because the cups do not cause TSS, like tampons can. Also, some people are allergic tot he material of tampons. And Tampons dry you out, but these don't. These sometimes also help with cramps, and can lighten your period for some people. They are better for the environment too, you use ONE of these in like a 5 or 10 year period, but billions of women with the waste of disposables is massive. Also, its cheaper in the long run, just like 4 or 5 of these in your whole life.
@MenstrualCupInfo thanks so much for all the help! I thInk I'll look into the melunas, since they're brand has so many options : ) thanks again, I'm really glad I found your channel
@MenstrualCupInfo first of all, thank you so much for answering my last comment : ) second, do you think I would be able to use a femmecup? My cervix is very high up, I have very long fingers and can just barely touch it with my middle finger. Should I go with the smaller ones or would femmecup be ok?
@TheTaraMonster99 -- Smaller cups can actually be harder to reach if you have a high cervix... However, if you can reach your cervix, then you should be able to reach a cup, so Femmecup might work. The stem is really thin and flexible though, so its only meant to help you find the cup. You're meant to only pinch and pull down on the bottom half of the cup itself. With a high cervix you might be babe to use a DivaCup, or any other brand. I would say focus more on how heavy your flow is.
just a quick question: i'm kind of embarrassed to ask my mom if i can get one... do you have any suggestions on how to ask her or to casually bring it up? i'm 14 btw
@kals207 -- you can look in the video description under the video, for a link t my word press blog. Let her read that, there are links on the right sode of the page with lots of other info. Let her read the main page, but especially other pages like "virgins and cups" or "still not convinced?" There's lots of info there. Hope that helps
I just don't find this "cup" method very sanitary. I mean I don't want to walk in on a woman washing her cup in a public bathroom sink because no one disinfects the sink after that. I think that's very disregarding of other people.
@ellesprettyinpink -- Well you empty it in the toilet. And they do make special disinfecting wipes you can use specially for a menstrual cup, it cleans your hands and the cup, no rinsing required. So no trips to the sink, you can do it all in the stall. You can also wet some hand-drying paper towels before you go in, and wipe the cup off with that after emptying, and your hands. Or some people rinse with bottled water in the stall. Lots of ways for it to be very private and clean.
HELP!!! I cant get it to open up when i get it in, and when i do it feels like its sliding out, ive been trying diva and lunette size 2... im 27, ive got 3 children... first off with the lunette... when i manage to get it in, its kinda uncomfortable.. not bad, just a lil bit, and then after a few hours when i go to take it out and empty it, its WAY up into my body... im not sure about diva i just spent atleast 1- mins trying to get it open... use the punch down fold!! please help..
@meszszs -- If you are really short inside (a low cervix) then it will sit low. But its just inside, so it won't be sticking out, if you get the right brand for your needs (Diva is longer, so if you're short inside, you should get a shorter cup). If you need to, you can trim the stem so that its just inside. You shouldn't feel it when you have the right cup and its sitting/trimmed right. I don't. I find it comfortable.
@xBreeTannerx -- you can wet some hand-drying paper towels before you go in the stall and take them in with you to wipe the cup out after emptying it. Then just give it a regular wash after you get home. In a pinch, that is just fine. Some people also keep bottled water in their purse.
I'm turning thirteen this fall. My period is quite heavy; my pads are soaked after 2 hours or so. Which cup would you recommend? And my mom doesn't like the idea of cups. How do I talk to her about this? Also, the idea of touching my vagina to use a cup kinda scares me. How do I get more comfortable with this?
@elizabeth98mustang -- Check out my Word Press blog, there is a link to it in the video description. there is a page there for virgins and cups with good tips. Also let you mom read the first/home page of my blog. Being young, you should stick with smaller cups like small Lunette, small ladycup, small or medium meluna
i need help! i have a suuper heavy flow and CANNOT find a pad or tampon to absorb all of it that i don't have to change every hour or more. does anyone know of something or a certain brand that could help me out? please reply!
@MenstrualCupInfo What brand would you suggest for me? I'm 11 and don't use pads because they just gross me out, truly hate tampons (I have really light flow and even the lowest absorbency is uncomfortable), and both my mom and I are all about the money saving thing. Please please please answer!
Hello! What cup / brand would you suggest for me ? I am 13 turning 14 and have medium flow .. and do you have any suggestions of ways to talk my mom into buying these ? She totally doesn't like the idea :/
@HorsieeGallop12 -- for your age, and a medium flow, something like small Lunette or Ladycup is good. As for your mom, I will send you a link in a private message, something for her to read.
The gyno says I have a very low cervix and will never be able to insert a tampon. I'm 25 and have had periods since I was 9. Imagin my pain, lol. Looking for an alternative. Do you think this cup with work on me or am I doomed to pads forever??? Any advice would be great! Thanks!
Hello! What cups do you find are the smallest cups? I am 14, and smaller, but I hate pads and tampons! I would also like to know how to ask my mom if I could use a menstrual cup! Thanks!
@madisong98 I am in the sam postion as you only I have tried a tampon an it hurt but get ur mom when nobody else is around and tell her u want to use the cup she shouldn't have a problem if she has explained stuff about ur body to u before this should be no problem
@MenstrualCupInfo After doing a lot of research on this, I am pretty much sold. However, I am only 13 and the idea of sticking touching my vagina makes me sort of freaked out. I have never used a tampon, and I don't really want to because of all of the chemicals. I think the menstrual cup sounds like a good idea for me because I hate pads. How can I become more comfortable with touching my vagina to insert the cup? How should I ask my mom if I can get a DivaCup? It would be kind of embarassing.
@madisong98: We were all taught to not notice that area since we were 2. Very 19th century way of thinking. Take a mirror. Its no big deal like ur arm. Its just part of u. I couldnt use tampon when I was 14. No one taught me how. I wasnt getting it past pubic bone, so it was very painful. Then I figured it out after a few tries. I never liked pads ever. You dont need to feel freaked out, its normal. We all have learned about ourselves. Once you know, its no big deal.
Great video...very helpful and exactly what I was looking for. This is a product I so badly want to love, but I cannot even stand to insert an applicator-free tampon. :*/
@b2223967 Oh noooooo! Ask your doctor about Mirena. I didn't have a period the entire time I had it and it was fantastic. If you have a history of ovarian cysts, don't do mirena. That was the only reason I got rid of mine, I have polycystic ovarian sydrome. It is the only IUD FDA-approved for heavy menstrual periods :)
@86jubilee -- You are welcome :) Regardless of how light your period is, you should never go longer than 10 to 12 hours without emptying and washing the cup. But you can put it back in after that.
How long does it take to get used to a cup? I've had mine for almost a month and i'm still not used to it!!! Please reply if you can share how long it took you and/or how long is normal. THANKS(:
@MerciMeMerciMe -- It honestly does depend on the brand. For example, the first cup I EVER tried, was a small DivaCup. Took me maybe 1 or 2 days to get the hang of insertion, removal, popping open. I practiced a lot in those days, before my period started. But it turned out, I have a very low cervix (short vagina), so Diva was just too long for me, even with the stem trimmed completely off. The bottom always stuck out. So I had to switch to small Lunette, because its shorter.
I'm a heavy bleeder, so this looks really handy! I normally can't go through a period without getting some kind of blood on my clothes.
Though my only problem is I don't think I could put it inside of me! I have a hard enough time as it is putting a tampon in, I don't know if I could handle a cup. @_@
@hannahw2 -- I actually used tampons ages 20 to age 27, and strangely enough tampons were actually more uncomfortable for me than a cup! lol. Its because they were dry and rigid, they absorbed and took away all the natural moisture, they always hurt my urethra. But a cup doesn't take the moisture away, and its flexible. So for me, it was just better. Even though tampons are smaller, they can still bother some people more.
@hannahw2 I have a divacup and I think it's easier to put inside/remove than a tampon.of course,you should master the technique in the instruction before (I took 1/2 hour to understand)
I was wondering which cup i should get? im only 15 years old, and im certainly not done growing. but i just CANT stand tampons and pads. i know this is a much better alternative, but im just not sure if im ready to use one yet? and if i were to purchase one im really not sure which one i should get because i am very petite. which do you think would be the smallest?
@mbattag26 -- 11 years old is the youngest cup user I know. I would only suggest the smallest size if its vaginal petiteness, and a very light flow. Being petite in the rest of the body does not effect vaginal size at all. I've seen 300lb women who need a small, and very short, very thin women who need a large. If your flow is normal to heavy, the smallest cup would fill up to fast. Try smalls that are not too big, but hold plenty of liquid. Like Lunette, Yuuki, Fleurcup.
@MenstrualCupInfo Thank you for the suggestions! and yes i do have a heavier flow, which is why i would like to switch to the cup, and my period also lasts 10 days, lucky me lol. i have no problem putting in heavy flow tampons, so im sure i wouldnt have much trouble with the cup. i certainly want to give it a try!!
@mbattag26 Evething is just the same. Now Im is using my first one, and I´t wonderful, a little bit misteriuos but ITS OK, I'm 27 and I'm so happy IM DONE WITH TAMPONS and PADS and My body and mt planet are thanking it. JUST BUY ONE AND ENJOY!!!! :)
It's got to be very embarrassing to use in a public bathroom. Imagine going to the movies with a date & he's got to wait forever outside while you are in there "coaxing" your body to accept this "cup". Women want you to hurry up & go pee, & then get out of that stall, so the next person can use it! There's practically always a long line for ladies bathroom (& little patience). Bloody hands, then grabbing your purse & touching the stall door, ew. This item is only good for using at home.
@Alina674 -- I use it in public restrooms all the time. Its pretty fast. Just grab one of those hand drying paper towels and wet it in the sink a little before you go in the stall (regular toilet paper will shred). Then you just take the cup out. Dump it in the toilet. Wipe it. Put it back in. Go. Really easy.
@chickytoo82 -- True, there are special wipes for cleaning a menstrual cup. Or you can use paper towels wet with water, in a plastic baggie. But baby wipes and feminine wipes were made to be used on the outside of the body. They may contain things like lotions, oils, fragrance, or other things that could cause infection if its up inside the vagina. So paper towels with water, or cup-specific wipes would be safer.
@Alina674 -- Plenty of people use a cup in public restrooms. Cups are pretty good an holding everything in and keeping you clean during removal. I've never had bloody hands from it. just empty in the toilet, wipe it with toilet paper, put it back in. Done. And some people like to wet a hand drying paper towel before they go in. That's actually much better for the job. But there are lots of ways to use it quick, clean, and easy in a public stall. check my "cleaning a menstrual cup" video.
Don't bother with instead. I've been using them and they don't stay in place. Some friends of mine tried them as well and we all have the same problem: if you lay down wrong or sit wrong they'll slip into your vagina and won't stay sealed or around the cervix. It's uncomfortable and causes a disgusting mess.
I heard that instead cups used to be awesome, but now they suck because the company oppted for a much cheaper, plasticy material. They leak constantly for a lot of people, so I wouldn't buy into those if I were you. Just saying.
@TheSnowyice I tried the instead cups before buying a reusable cup. It was a huge difference from pads or tampons, but they did leak, and it was frequently. I wouldn't recommend using them without some other protection. I was amazed when I bought my diva cup, it never leaks.
Ok, it's my first time using my mooncup and I was wondering, should I be feeling pressure around (excuse this) my butt. It feels like i need the bathroom, but I most definitely do not.
@narutoniichan -- its normal to feel rectal pressure with some things going in the vagina, because the vagina slants back toward the rectum-- it does not go straight up, the way many would think. Also the vagina and rectal are VERY close together. But sometimes you can slightly vary the angle of your cup to feel this less. And also, softer cups sometime help.
@viciousandchaotic -- There is almost always air in the vagina, at least a tiny bit. In fact, absolutely no air is a breeding ground for a yeast infection, since oxygen kills yeast. A tampon certainly puts oxygen in their, because it contains oxygen in the fibers. Also, when you go to get a pelvic exam, they open you wide up and all your insides are totally exposed to air. Also, during sexual activity, lots of air is pulled up inside you. Air in the vagina is very common, and impossible to avoid
How will you know when it's time to replace it with a new one? I know they last years, but what signs should you look for when it's time to be replaced?
@IWishUDidntNoMyName -- Actually, its more of a personal choice. They normally do change color a bit with use and that's ok. But some people just don't like that, so they replace it, or get a colored one. Or maybe if you notice that your body is changing and the cup just isn't sealing like it used to. Or you want a different kind. Or if you have a baby or something, and you need another size. If you don't care what the cup looks like, and its still working, then it doesn't need replacing.
@blueluny I'm a transgender man. How do you think I feel? I'm a guy too, but I still have to go through this. Sometimes it really sucks to be a tranny. -_- Oh well, there are some purks at the same time too. Like not having horrible B.O. and gross excess body hair. Horray I don't have to shave! xD lol So it's not that bad in exchange for dealing with this crap every month. :-D
I seem to be having a problem with my diva cup. every time I insert my cup I can feel the "pressure" of the suction and it almost makes me sick to my stomach. it also feels like my vagina is pushing it out but in reality it's not moving at all
I watched a lot of your videos last night and I bought a Mooncup UK today. I was a bit intimidated by how big they look in your videos. I just wanted to point out to others that they're smaller than they look in these videos. Even though I've only been using it for a few hours, I'd highly recommend it. I've heard others say this and I didn't really believe it, but it also seems to be easing my period pains. I've had no cramps since I put it in!
@MenstrualCupInfo It's a divacup size 2....I'm 30 with 2 children...I cut the stem hoping that might help...i've tried turning it but it's difficult...it leaks and i fell crapy...please help
@iamtashafierce -- Make sure you always insert aiming back toward the rectum, because we naturally slant that way. Never aim straight up. Try keeping one of the tiny holes inside the fold crease, it pops open better that way. Try inserting with the fold crease facing down, also helps it pop open better. Let it pop open halfway in and coax it up, if you can. The better it pops open, the better the seal. Not everyone can turn it, its ok if you can't. Hope that helps.
Hi, I'm having trouble with tampons and I'm finding pads less and less comfy. I'm looking into buying one and was wondering if the ladycup was the smallest and smoothest to insert for virgins. Also, if I can't put a tampon in easily, will putting in a ladycup be near impossible?
@xxchloesweet5xx -- Tampon or cup, make sure you always insert in the vagina aiming back toward your rectum. Never aim straight up, because the vagina naturally slants back. Also, tampons can sometimes be more difficult just because they are so dry! Small Meluna is the smallest. Then small Ladycup. Then small Lunette and small Yuuki (same). But also consider your flow. If its light, Meluna or Ladycup is ok. But if its heavier, then Lunette or Yuuki.
As a virgin female I must suggest the possibility that the reason this problem occurs for you is the very physical manifestation of your virginity-your hymen, which is an outer covering of thin and very sensitive skin outside of your vaginal opening. Anything that you insert;a large tampon, a small tampon, or even the tip of your finger could potentially cause you discomfort and could tear your hymen. I personally suggest avoiding inserts of all kinds. Enjoy your virginity ^_^
Hi, I'm having trouble with tampons and every cycle I find pads less comfy. So I'm looking into buying one. The ladycup is the smallest and smoothest to
@lethikim1990 -- Its just a guarantee or recommendation. But basically, you can use it as long as it still works, and its still in good condition. After 10 years, it could possibly wear out though, but it depends on the material. Some are made of silicone, some of latex, some of TPE.
Really helpful to read some of these comments and see this video!
I got the Divacup and am using it for the first time. Every time I put it in it felt like it was pinching me but then I cut the stem and no more irritation.
I am worried however....
1.Is it possible to lose the cup inside the vagina?Because I cut my stem could it go so far up that I wouldn't be able to get it out now?
2. I feel like I need to urinate but I don't. Is this cup to big for me, so its pushing on my bladder?
@raughr -- If you needed to trim the stem for comfort, then chances are pretty good that you are short enough inside to where it won't get out of reach. But even if you were a bit longer, still, the vagina's walls are closed off, and the end is closed off. So you are basically like a pocket up there, the cup can't really go anywhere, there is only so much room before the walls and the end will stop it. You can bring the cup closer to your reach by pushing like you are having a bowel movement.
@kayftw -- the companies don't recommend putting it in the dishwasher. It won't melt, but the soaps, cleaning chemicals and food particles that are in there can cause infections in the vagina.
@kayftw would u really put a dirty bloody menstral cup into something you put your plates that your family eats food off of? Just clean it with your hands and soap
@enicolep1 -- I and many other people believe that the reason tampons are so uncomfortable is because they are absorbent, rigid, and they dry you out. But cups don't. Also, you can't really force a cup to sit high or low. Where it sits depends on if you have a high cervix, or a low cervix (low cervix will make the vagina very short inside). It sounds like you have a high cervix, if the cup traveled high enough to where you could not reach it easily. DivaCup's body is longer, that might help.
Hi! Thanks so much for this video....I had never even heard of a menstrual cup until I saw this lol. The very first time, I had NO problems. Every time after, it's been an issue. I place it in, everything seems fine, but about an hour later, I'm leaking and the cup is NOT even full! When I first place it, the stem is exposed, but when I go to remove it, it's wayyyy up there and I'm struggling to get it :( Am I doing it wrong? I'm PMSing and this is NOT working for me! lmaooo!
Hello, I ride and show horses, at shows im sometimes riding for 7 hours a day..i ride english as well so im typically posting (when the horse is trotting and you sit up and down) Would this be comfortable enough to wear while im riding?
@COWGIRLUP99362 -- I've spoken to lots of people who ride horses and use a menstrual cup. They say it works well, and is comfortable. But of course the size or brand should depend on how heavy your flow is. If its lighter, you could try Ladycup or Meluna. If its heavier, maybe Divacup, Lunette, Fleurcup, Yuuki, Miacup.
Since my period was this week, I had to use my diva cup. My problem is that no matter how strong the seal is and how far in I push it, it comes back to my opening and pokes me all day, even when my diva cup is completely trimmed. Since I'm still in school, I'm sitting down and getting back up pretty often. Before I change the brand of my cup, do you have any tips for what I can do to keep it from poking me and sliding down? (I've already tried using it inside out, and it got ugly!)
@99horcruxes The reason your cup is sliding back down is because you have a low cervix (aka short vagina). This means the cup will want to sit very low, there is simply no room to push it up further. With me, its the same. Diva is the longest brand, so pretty much any other cup will be shorter (well, except large Yuuki). If flipping the cup inside-out to make it shorter doesn't help (it will be a little more slippery though), then switching brands might be the only thing you can do.
I'm using the cup for the first time today. I got my period yesterday..so I guess it's okay if I had a little trouble putting it in. I was just wondering how far in or out should the stem be? I tried to push the cup a bit higher, but it slides back in the lower position. So the stem is bothering me a little. Should I trim it? Or am I doing it all wrong:)?
@pilamaer -- If the cup wants to sit lower, that's ok. It just means you have a low cervix / you are short inside. In that case you can trim the stem for comfort. You can use scissors, but my favorite thing to use is a fingernail clipper. You have more control that way. So when you trim it, the step should be just inside, to where it doesn't bother you, but there should still be enough left to where you can grab it. Some people like to trim a little bit at a time, its a good idea.
My Diva cup just arrived today and my period is not on but i wanted to try to get it in . After many failed attempts , i got it in but after literally like 2 minutes i went to check it (just to make sure i did it right) and the stem was all the way inside of me and i started FREAKING out . then i finally got it down and the stem in between my lips and the same thing happened a minute later ! this is terrifying . if im on my period will this still happen ?
@sababy92 -- Many people's cervix down move down, shortening the vagina a bit during their period. But even if yours doesn't, try relaxing first, being tense makes it harder to reach. Then bear down like you are having a bowel movement, and that will shorten the vagina and inch or so, bringing it closer. Pinch the base, and tilt it from side to side, walking it down, to break the suction.
I just got my Lunette Selene size 1 and I did a dry run and accidentally tore a little bit of my hymen :( I can't get the cup in without losing grip and it popping out. Do you think I'll have an easier time inserting it when I'm actually on my period?
@XOXOhollymarieXOXO -- A lot of people do have an easier time inserting on their period. Even as a sexually active married woman, I do. Everything feels more relaxed and flexible during that time, for some reason. Also, its normal if a cup pops open early, as long as at least the rim is inside. Actually, a lot of people (myself included) find it easier to get a good seal if we pop the cup open early, and then coax it up the rest of the way. But only if its comfortable for you.
I am so glad I live in the age of youtube. I just started using the divacup and I was having trouble with removal, and I didn't have anyone to ask for help because no one I know uses one. Thanks so much for the demonstration!
@crapweasel510 -- You are allowed to practice using your cup when you are not on your period. In fact, you are encouraged to do so, because its good to have the techniques mastered before your period comes. You can even wear it 1 or 2 days before your period comes, so there will be no surprises. It should not be any less comfortable than when you are on your period. However, some women do find it easier to insert during their period, because your muscles are much more relaxed at that time.
I am a 27 year old virgin and my flow is normal to heavy. Rarely, I skip my period depending on my stress level etc. I have long vaginal lips and have no experience with tampons i.e inserting things up my vagina.
If i get a large cup, will it cause pain on mild to no flow days?
Excuse me for my blunt candor, but what menstrual cup brand and size would you recommend for me? I will rely on your judgment . Thanks
@crapweasel510 -- A cup should not be any more painful on a light day than on a heavy day. Most menstrual cup companies recommend a large for women who are 25 to 30 (exact age depends on the company) and / or who have given birth, or have a heavy flow. Smalls are usually recommended for under 25 to 30 (again, depending on age), and / or who have not given birth, or have a light flow.
@limewolf3 -- It can leak if it overflows, but that usually takes quite a long time. Anywhere from 4 to 12 hours for most people, depending if you have a light flow, or a heavy flow. the first time you use a cup, you can wear a pad for backup if you want, until you get confident. On the heaviest day, you just take it out every few hours to see how long it takes you to fill it up. From then on, you will always know, and you can empty it on time. Pads and tampons also leak if worn too long.
@coilness -- the first time you use it you might be a bit clumsy, but when you get the hang of it, its no more messy that putting in or taking out a non-applicator tampon.
My menstrual cup just arrived yesterday. Everything was fine except I struggled immensely to break the seal and remove it. I even watched the video describing how to remove it, and it was still difficult for me.
Then, I tried something. I used my convenient disposable wipe (just the generic brand from Walmart). I pulled the stem, and the cup came quickly out. I tried this again and again. This works quite well.
What about when you're at a public place? Let's say a "theme park," where you're going to be there all day and you use the bathroom, how do you wash your cup in a public place? I don't know I may be asking a weird question but I'm just curious.
@jessg05 -- In an emergency, it is acceptable to empty your cup and simply dry it off with toilet paper. then give it a regular wash when you get home. Or before you go in the stall, you can wet down one of those hand drying paper towels and use that to wipe it clean. Some people also carry bottled water in their purse for rinsing int he stall, since it can easily be refilled. Also, companies like Lunette and Ladycup sell Disinfecting Wipes, which can be used when there is no clean water.
@jessg05 -- I had my 2 heaviest days @ EPCOT & Typhoon Lagoon ~ 4 months ago. I think I was on my 4th cycle of using a MC so I was still pretty new @ it. It was absolutely not a problem. I just used toilet paper to clean/dry my MC & I was good to go! I was still a bit paranoid so I wore a pad "just in case" the day we were @ EPCOT, but I didn't have any leaks & I was able to go on all the water slides @ Typhoon Lagoon (I used to refuse to even put on a bathing suit when I had my period!)
there will never be a time in your period where you will never have blood on you.it will be all over your genitalia and at some point you will have to touch. it's part of you, it's you, blood is life. yeah, that could have been a baby you would be kissing and hugging and holding. think about it ladies
whats wrong with having blood in your fingers? i mean think about it. the blood sometimes soaks all the way to the string and you still touch it. and worse, you have removed your tampon, finished showering, are wiping yourself when suddenly a nice flow of blood starts to go down your hips, behind your knees all the way to the floor.
I'm a teenage girl, and I just started my menstrual cycle.. I'm using pads at the moment, but I'm somewhat hesitant to try tampons/menstrual cups. First of all, where can I get one? And are there menstrual cups made for.. well, my vagina has a very small/tight opening. I guess I'm just mainly concerned about pain/discomfort. Thanks in advance.
@toxicroses98 -- I understand, I myself didn't even try a tampon until I was 20, lol. But some people use them/ cups, as young as 12 and 13 now. Companies do have smaller sizes for younger people with lighter flows, and a few companies have an extra 3rd size for teenagers (Meluna, Naturcup). Ladycup is a good one too. Or Lunette. Most cups are about as wide as 2 fingers, you can practice adjusting to that width. You can find them in some health food stores, or online.
i am using my diva cup for my second cycle. i am totally committed to using it, but i simply do not have the finger dexterity to pinch in side of my vagina with my finger and thumb- believe me, i have tried and tried. however, i have found that if i insert my middle finger as far as i can, and try to break the seal near the top of the cup, and then basically "scissor" my pointer and middle fingers together on either side of the cup, i can shimmy it out enough to grab the stem with my thumb.
You just saved my day! I couldn't figure out how to get the cup out again. I tried everything (I thought), but your "walkthrough" helped me so much! Doing just what you showed did the trick! I didn't think I would ever put it in again - but now I know I won't regret buying my ladycup! Thank you so so much!
@bugaboo9213 No, of course not. You can, however, get toxic shock syndrome from tampons, although it's very rare. Google it. I believe the recommendation is not to leave tampons in longer than 12 hours.
@FishXHeadXSpeck -- Not normally, but a virgin might have some discomfort the first few tries. Or if someone is extremely sensitive. But it usually goes away with some practice. Or has a vaginal conditions like vaginismus, which can make inserting anything painful, even really small things. But of course, that could only be diagnosed by a doctor.
Which brand do you think is the best quality and easy to use? Do you ever have any trouble gripping the cup when you are trying to take it out. Seems like if its silicone it would get slippery and hard to grab.
@rachelmarye -- Some brands are more slippery than others. The ones that have grip rings on the base (I think) are easier to grip. It also depends on your "length" inside, if you have a high cervix, you will be longer. Low cervix, you will be shorter. If you are short the cups will stay down low and be easy to grip. And vise-versa. most women can use any cup, but some people develop preferences. Many beginners tend to like small Lunette or small Yuuki. consider flow levels too..
@08mlee -- Surprisingly, as you insert the cup and it expands, and you coax it up a bit further, it does a pretty good job of collecting most of the blood that's already in the vagina, like pushing it up the way a squeegee would do, and then it sort of drains into the cup once the cup is open. There's no more than there would be with a non-applicator tampon. 99% of the time when I remove my cup, the outside is totally clean, all the blood is inside.
My friend only 25 yrs old. She using lots tampons, end up had TSS & cervic cancer.. She learn hard way. May be chemicals in those tampons and bleach in pads. I decide to gave up those tampons & pad for my health's sake. I tried diva cup last week, love it! Now I can live more safer than have risk threat to my cervic @ young age. Btw, when I visit Doctor in office, there many signs that young ladies 20-30's end up risk of cervic cancer. =Possiable cause by tampons or pads chemical on those. =/
Since there are holes on the side of some cups, if you lay down and the cup has a lot of period flow in it, would the period come out of the holes and run out of the body?
@tombstoner79 -- Good question! The holes are fairly small and menstrual blood is a bit thick. The companies strategically planned the size of the holes to be big enough to help with popping open during insertion, breaking the suction during removal-- but NOT big enough for the blood to run through.
@JL30191 -- Yes you can wear it while sleeping. It can't go back inside you because your cervix at the end of the vagina is closed off. It doesn't matter if it touches your skin inside, because it would anyway with a tampon or even a pad. The blood is thick so even with a pad, there woudl be traces of
hmmm weird how no one has suggested just changing it in the shower in the morning and at night? Easy.
rainbeaukitty 2 weeks ago
@rainbeaukitty -- Very true, you can do that. But of course some people have a heavier flow and they need to change it more often.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 weeks ago
To any virgins out there... this WILL pop your cherry. And it hurts. Only the first couple times though, then its easy to stick it up there.
PurelyDanni 2 weeks ago
@mensturalcupinfo -- how comfortable is it for sport? also, I am from the uk, I am 12 years old, heat brand would you reccomend?
talkingtom2vlog 3 weeks ago
@talkingtom2vlog -- Being in the UK, a good place for you to get one is femininewear.co.uk . Its local, and plenty of brands there. If your flow is not too heavy, you can start with a smaller one, like small Meluna. Or small Ladycup. Most people find they work well for sports. But practice using one at home, in the evenings, with maybe a pad for backup, just while you are learning. That way by the time you wear it in public, you will have it mastered.
MenstrualCupInfo 3 weeks ago
Uh, yeah I tried one of these a couple months ago and it was cool...until I tried to remove it. Blood everywhere. It looked like a horror movie in my bathroom.
Jennamorrison43 1 month ago
@Jennamorrison43 -- That's ok, for some people it might take a little practice to get the whole "clean removal" down pat. But at this point, I can get literally go to the bathroom, take the cup out, empty, rinse, put it back, in the same exact time it used to take me to change a tampon, and with no more or less mess. Also the more often you empty it, the cleaner it is. I never let it get more than half full. Works much better.
MenstrualCupInfo 3 weeks ago
@Jennamorrison43 MenstrualCupInfo is right. I've been using these for years, and I took me a while to get the insertion and removal to go smoothly. It's a matter of moving slowly and twisting the cup as you remove it. It's worth learning how to use!
mmoore0325 2 weeks ago
is the time you take it out when you actually have to use the bathroom
shayna40261 1 month ago
@shayna40261 -- Most people just empty it when they go to the bathroom, yes. But unless your flow is heavy, you probably won't need to empty it every time you go to the bathroom.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 month ago
I'm thinking about trying this, but I'm really not sure. I think it would be good because I hate the feeling of dryness when I use tampons. But my vagina is pretty tight and my vaginal canal is pretty sensitive...This seems like it would hurt a lot. It also seems time-consuming. Any advice for someone really sensitive like me?
xxxBakeneckoxxx 1 month ago
@xxxBakeneckoxxx -- There are much smaller cups, like the small Meluna, or small Ladycup. But of course, I don't recommend using a really small one unless your flow is either normal, to light.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 month ago
@MenstrualCupInfo Thanks for replying. :) I'm going to check them out.
xxxBakeneckoxxx 1 month ago
@xxxBakeneckoxxx I'm very similar and also dealt with vaginismus. It took me a while to learn how to use a cup (I use a similar brand), but it's definitely worth it. Try using a lubricant when you insert it. And if you're not home and need to remove it, you might have to pack a little toolkit to keep in your purse, which will include moist wipes, a small spray bottle, and a finger nail brush. Until you learn how to insert and remove it expertly, it will be a little messy. Just takes practice.
mmoore0325 2 weeks ago
If anyone is wondering you can buy these cups at websites like: earthwisegirls they sell pads, reuseable pads and menstral cups, but i dont think menstral cups are too comfortable to use in my case i'd rather buy pads!
tribefenatic 1 month ago
@tribefenatic I would say at least try it, because if you don't you will always wonder. But stick with the softer cups if you are sensitive. And go as small as possible for your flow. If you flow is really light, go with small Meluna, the soft variety, not the classic. Or a small Ladycup. If its average or heavier, try small Lunette, medium soft Meluna, Or SheCup. Even CupLee, if you can get hold of one (from Russia, you pay for them through Western Union).
MenstrualCupInfo 1 month ago
Why don't they use a tampon..? It's much easier??! Actually i don't understand why they're using those cups??
CaniS0210 2 months ago
@CaniS0210 -- because the cups do not cause TSS, like tampons can. Also, some people are allergic tot he material of tampons. And Tampons dry you out, but these don't. These sometimes also help with cramps, and can lighten your period for some people. They are better for the environment too, you use ONE of these in like a 5 or 10 year period, but billions of women with the waste of disposables is massive. Also, its cheaper in the long run, just like 4 or 5 of these in your whole life.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 month ago
@MenstrualCupInfo thanks so much for all the help! I thInk I'll look into the melunas, since they're brand has so many options : ) thanks again, I'm really glad I found your channel
TheTaraMonster99 2 months ago
@MenstrualCupInfo first of all, thank you so much for answering my last comment : ) second, do you think I would be able to use a femmecup? My cervix is very high up, I have very long fingers and can just barely touch it with my middle finger. Should I go with the smaller ones or would femmecup be ok?
TheTaraMonster99 2 months ago
@TheTaraMonster99 -- Smaller cups can actually be harder to reach if you have a high cervix... However, if you can reach your cervix, then you should be able to reach a cup, so Femmecup might work. The stem is really thin and flexible though, so its only meant to help you find the cup. You're meant to only pinch and pull down on the bottom half of the cup itself. With a high cervix you might be babe to use a DivaCup, or any other brand. I would say focus more on how heavy your flow is.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
just a quick question: i'm kind of embarrassed to ask my mom if i can get one... do you have any suggestions on how to ask her or to casually bring it up? i'm 14 btw
kals207 2 months ago
@kals207 -- you can look in the video description under the video, for a link t my word press blog. Let her read that, there are links on the right sode of the page with lots of other info. Let her read the main page, but especially other pages like "virgins and cups" or "still not convinced?" There's lots of info there. Hope that helps
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
I just don't find this "cup" method very sanitary. I mean I don't want to walk in on a woman washing her cup in a public bathroom sink because no one disinfects the sink after that. I think that's very disregarding of other people.
ellesprettyinpink 2 months ago
@ellesprettyinpink -- Well you empty it in the toilet. And they do make special disinfecting wipes you can use specially for a menstrual cup, it cleans your hands and the cup, no rinsing required. So no trips to the sink, you can do it all in the stall. You can also wet some hand-drying paper towels before you go in, and wipe the cup off with that after emptying, and your hands. Or some people rinse with bottled water in the stall. Lots of ways for it to be very private and clean.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
Great video and the most "helpful" thank you!
theoddsquirrel 2 months ago
HELP!!! I cant get it to open up when i get it in, and when i do it feels like its sliding out, ive been trying diva and lunette size 2... im 27, ive got 3 children... first off with the lunette... when i manage to get it in, its kinda uncomfortable.. not bad, just a lil bit, and then after a few hours when i go to take it out and empty it, its WAY up into my body... im not sure about diva i just spent atleast 1- mins trying to get it open... use the punch down fold!! please help..
TrailRidingGemini 2 months ago
i don't understand... won't it feel really uncomfortable sitting so close to the opening of the vagina? i mean will i feel it throughout the day?
meszszs 3 months ago
@meszszs -- If you are really short inside (a low cervix) then it will sit low. But its just inside, so it won't be sticking out, if you get the right brand for your needs (Diva is longer, so if you're short inside, you should get a shorter cup). If you need to, you can trim the stem so that its just inside. You shouldn't feel it when you have the right cup and its sitting/trimmed right. I don't. I find it comfortable.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
Try yourperiod (dotnet)
videoman11021 2 months ago
Thanks for explaining cause I've never heard of it, we don't have such a thing where I live.
I was wondering: how do you reuse it when you're at school?
Because I think you'll get some weird looks if you start to wash it in front of everyone.
xBreeTannerx 3 months ago
@xBreeTannerx -- you can wet some hand-drying paper towels before you go in the stall and take them in with you to wipe the cup out after emptying it. Then just give it a regular wash after you get home. In a pinch, that is just fine. Some people also keep bottled water in their purse.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
I'm turning thirteen this fall. My period is quite heavy; my pads are soaked after 2 hours or so. Which cup would you recommend? And my mom doesn't like the idea of cups. How do I talk to her about this? Also, the idea of touching my vagina to use a cup kinda scares me. How do I get more comfortable with this?
elizabeth98mustang 3 months ago in playlist Menstrual Cups
@elizabeth98mustang -- Check out my Word Press blog, there is a link to it in the video description. there is a page there for virgins and cups with good tips. Also let you mom read the first/home page of my blog. Being young, you should stick with smaller cups like small Lunette, small ladycup, small or medium meluna
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
How does the vagina angle change when a woman's sitting down vs standing up?
tehKettyBear 4 months ago
@tehKettyBear -- the angle doesn't really change, because your torso is still upright. But sitting, things may be slightly more compacted.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
i need help! i have a suuper heavy flow and CANNOT find a pad or tampon to absorb all of it that i don't have to change every hour or more. does anyone know of something or a certain brand that could help me out? please reply!
kendrabeatty 4 months ago
@kendrabeatty -- the ones good for heavy flow are large yuuki, large divacup, large lunette, large fleurcup, large JuJu
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
@MenstrualCupInfo What brand would you suggest for me? I'm 11 and don't use pads because they just gross me out, truly hate tampons (I have really light flow and even the lowest absorbency is uncomfortable), and both my mom and I are all about the money saving thing. Please please please answer!
TheTaraMonster99 4 months ago
@TheTaraMonster99 -- smaller ones are better for your age, like small ladycuup, small meluna, small Lunette
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
Thank you for sharing this info it is very helpful!
Rhyn00 4 months ago
Hello! What cup / brand would you suggest for me ? I am 13 turning 14 and have medium flow .. and do you have any suggestions of ways to talk my mom into buying these ? She totally doesn't like the idea :/
Please Help !
Thanks
HorsieeGallop12 4 months ago
@HorsieeGallop12 -- for your age, and a medium flow, something like small Lunette or Ladycup is good. As for your mom, I will send you a link in a private message, something for her to read.
MenstrualCupInfo 4 months ago
I'm so proud of seeing all the women who are choosing natural options --especially the younger girls! I hope this trend surpasses Kotex :D
thehomeschoolwinner 4 months ago
Does it hurt?
I'm 15, and a virgin. What would you recommend?
macandease 4 months ago
@macandease -- stick with the smaller ones, like small or medium Meluna, small Lunette, small Ladycup
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
The gyno says I have a very low cervix and will never be able to insert a tampon. I'm 25 and have had periods since I was 9. Imagin my pain, lol. Looking for an alternative. Do you think this cup with work on me or am I doomed to pads forever??? Any advice would be great! Thanks!
HikariHime29 4 months ago
Hello! What cups do you find are the smallest cups? I am 14, and smaller, but I hate pads and tampons! I would also like to know how to ask my mom if I could use a menstrual cup! Thanks!
maydaizyteen 4 months ago
@maydaizyteen -- I will send you a private message, with a link for you and your mom.
MenstrualCupInfo 4 months ago
@madisong98 I am in the sam postion as you only I have tried a tampon an it hurt but get ur mom when nobody else is around and tell her u want to use the cup she shouldn't have a problem if she has explained stuff about ur body to u before this should be no problem
weasleytwinsgurl 4 months ago
cup is simply the best solution.
MrGoblinmalin 5 months ago
@MenstrualCupInfo After doing a lot of research on this, I am pretty much sold. However, I am only 13 and the idea of sticking touching my vagina makes me sort of freaked out. I have never used a tampon, and I don't really want to because of all of the chemicals. I think the menstrual cup sounds like a good idea for me because I hate pads. How can I become more comfortable with touching my vagina to insert the cup? How should I ask my mom if I can get a DivaCup? It would be kind of embarassing.
madisong98 5 months ago
@madisong98 -- I will send you a private message with some links for you and your mom, ok?
MenstrualCupInfo 5 months ago
@madisong98: We were all taught to not notice that area since we were 2. Very 19th century way of thinking. Take a mirror. Its no big deal like ur arm. Its just part of u. I couldnt use tampon when I was 14. No one taught me how. I wasnt getting it past pubic bone, so it was very painful. Then I figured it out after a few tries. I never liked pads ever. You dont need to feel freaked out, its normal. We all have learned about ourselves. Once you know, its no big deal.
2Ryled 4 months ago
Great video...very helpful and exactly what I was looking for. This is a product I so badly want to love, but I cannot even stand to insert an applicator-free tampon. :*/
EditorSEM 5 months ago
I HATE my period! I want a hysterectomy!
b2223967 5 months ago
@b2223967 Oh noooooo! Ask your doctor about Mirena. I didn't have a period the entire time I had it and it was fantastic. If you have a history of ovarian cysts, don't do mirena. That was the only reason I got rid of mine, I have polycystic ovarian sydrome. It is the only IUD FDA-approved for heavy menstrual periods :)
thehomeschoolwinner 4 months ago
Thx for the vid! I have one question my periods are very light and only last up 2 to 3 days. How long can I keep the cup in?
86jubilee 5 months ago
@86jubilee -- You are welcome :) Regardless of how light your period is, you should never go longer than 10 to 12 hours without emptying and washing the cup. But you can put it back in after that.
MenstrualCupInfo 5 months ago
Thank you SO MUCH for posting this. I was having so much trouble!
shellsandall 5 months ago
How long does it take to get used to a cup? I've had mine for almost a month and i'm still not used to it!!! Please reply if you can share how long it took you and/or how long is normal. THANKS(:
MerciMeMerciMe 6 months ago
@MerciMeMerciMe -- It honestly does depend on the brand. For example, the first cup I EVER tried, was a small DivaCup. Took me maybe 1 or 2 days to get the hang of insertion, removal, popping open. I practiced a lot in those days, before my period started. But it turned out, I have a very low cervix (short vagina), so Diva was just too long for me, even with the stem trimmed completely off. The bottom always stuck out. So I had to switch to small Lunette, because its shorter.
MenstrualCupInfo 6 months ago
I'm a heavy bleeder, so this looks really handy! I normally can't go through a period without getting some kind of blood on my clothes.
Though my only problem is I don't think I could put it inside of me! I have a hard enough time as it is putting a tampon in, I don't know if I could handle a cup. @_@
hannahw2 6 months ago 5
@hannahw2 -- I actually used tampons ages 20 to age 27, and strangely enough tampons were actually more uncomfortable for me than a cup! lol. Its because they were dry and rigid, they absorbed and took away all the natural moisture, they always hurt my urethra. But a cup doesn't take the moisture away, and its flexible. So for me, it was just better. Even though tampons are smaller, they can still bother some people more.
MenstrualCupInfo 6 months ago 7
@hannahw2 I have a divacup and I think it's easier to put inside/remove than a tampon.of course,you should master the technique in the instruction before (I took 1/2 hour to understand)
MrGoblinmalin 5 months ago
My mom thinks these r nasty but i really want one and i dont like takling about this stuff is there a way i can get it on do i have to get ovr it
PrettyLittleLiar1214 6 months ago
what happens if you do a backflip O_O
HugTheHobos 6 months ago
@HugTheHobos -- Nothing really, lol. It might slosh around a little, but it just settles again.
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
I was wondering which cup i should get? im only 15 years old, and im certainly not done growing. but i just CANT stand tampons and pads. i know this is a much better alternative, but im just not sure if im ready to use one yet? and if i were to purchase one im really not sure which one i should get because i am very petite. which do you think would be the smallest?
mbattag26 7 months ago
@mbattag26 -- 11 years old is the youngest cup user I know. I would only suggest the smallest size if its vaginal petiteness, and a very light flow. Being petite in the rest of the body does not effect vaginal size at all. I've seen 300lb women who need a small, and very short, very thin women who need a large. If your flow is normal to heavy, the smallest cup would fill up to fast. Try smalls that are not too big, but hold plenty of liquid. Like Lunette, Yuuki, Fleurcup.
MenstrualCupInfo 7 months ago
@MenstrualCupInfo Thank you for the suggestions! and yes i do have a heavier flow, which is why i would like to switch to the cup, and my period also lasts 10 days, lucky me lol. i have no problem putting in heavy flow tampons, so im sure i wouldnt have much trouble with the cup. i certainly want to give it a try!!
mbattag26 7 months ago
i am 9 and i hate tampons and pads
Neshie69 7 months ago
@mbattag26 Evething is just the same. Now Im is using my first one, and I´t wonderful, a little bit misteriuos but ITS OK, I'm 27 and I'm so happy IM DONE WITH TAMPONS and PADS and My body and mt planet are thanking it. JUST BUY ONE AND ENJOY!!!! :)
Magiclalita 7 months ago
i use a cup now , and I'm pretty satisfied.
Lilbluerocket 7 months ago
It's got to be very embarrassing to use in a public bathroom. Imagine going to the movies with a date & he's got to wait forever outside while you are in there "coaxing" your body to accept this "cup". Women want you to hurry up & go pee, & then get out of that stall, so the next person can use it! There's practically always a long line for ladies bathroom (& little patience). Bloody hands, then grabbing your purse & touching the stall door, ew. This item is only good for using at home.
Alina674 7 months ago
@Alina674 -- I use it in public restrooms all the time. Its pretty fast. Just grab one of those hand drying paper towels and wet it in the sink a little before you go in the stall (regular toilet paper will shred). Then you just take the cup out. Dump it in the toilet. Wipe it. Put it back in. Go. Really easy.
MenstrualCupInfo 7 months ago
@Alina674 You can also carry some wet wipes/small pack of baby wipes or feminine wipes to clean the cup and your hands after reinsertion.
chickytoo82 6 months ago 2
@chickytoo82 -- True, there are special wipes for cleaning a menstrual cup. Or you can use paper towels wet with water, in a plastic baggie. But baby wipes and feminine wipes were made to be used on the outside of the body. They may contain things like lotions, oils, fragrance, or other things that could cause infection if its up inside the vagina. So paper towels with water, or cup-specific wipes would be safer.
MenstrualCupInfo 6 months ago
@Alina674 -- Plenty of people use a cup in public restrooms. Cups are pretty good an holding everything in and keeping you clean during removal. I've never had bloody hands from it. just empty in the toilet, wipe it with toilet paper, put it back in. Done. And some people like to wet a hand drying paper towel before they go in. That's actually much better for the job. But there are lots of ways to use it quick, clean, and easy in a public stall. check my "cleaning a menstrual cup" video.
MenstrualCupInfo 6 months ago
Don't bother with instead. I've been using them and they don't stay in place. Some friends of mine tried them as well and we all have the same problem: if you lay down wrong or sit wrong they'll slip into your vagina and won't stay sealed or around the cervix. It's uncomfortable and causes a disgusting mess.
DemonicEvil61 7 months ago
I heard that instead cups used to be awesome, but now they suck because the company oppted for a much cheaper, plasticy material. They leak constantly for a lot of people, so I wouldn't buy into those if I were you. Just saying.
TheSnowyice 7 months ago
@TheSnowyice I tried the instead cups before buying a reusable cup. It was a huge difference from pads or tampons, but they did leak, and it was frequently. I wouldn't recommend using them without some other protection. I was amazed when I bought my diva cup, it never leaks.
VyCariously 7 months ago
Thank you for this upload. Really quite helpful.
tishasmith007 7 months ago
Ok, it's my first time using my mooncup and I was wondering, should I be feeling pressure around (excuse this) my butt. It feels like i need the bathroom, but I most definitely do not.
Thanks
narutoniichan 8 months ago
@narutoniichan -- its normal to feel rectal pressure with some things going in the vagina, because the vagina slants back toward the rectum-- it does not go straight up, the way many would think. Also the vagina and rectal are VERY close together. But sometimes you can slightly vary the angle of your cup to feel this less. And also, softer cups sometime help.
MenstrualCupInfo 8 months ago
is it okay for there to be air trapped up in your vagina? because i've heard its not good.
viciousandchaotic 8 months ago
@viciousandchaotic -- There is almost always air in the vagina, at least a tiny bit. In fact, absolutely no air is a breeding ground for a yeast infection, since oxygen kills yeast. A tampon certainly puts oxygen in their, because it contains oxygen in the fibers. Also, when you go to get a pelvic exam, they open you wide up and all your insides are totally exposed to air. Also, during sexual activity, lots of air is pulled up inside you. Air in the vagina is very common, and impossible to avoid
MenstrualCupInfo 8 months ago
i'm allergic to silicone. looks like its not the option for me!
LivingInArt 8 months ago
@LivingInArt -- They have cups made of TPE and Latex as well
MenstrualCupInfo 2 months ago
How will you know when it's time to replace it with a new one? I know they last years, but what signs should you look for when it's time to be replaced?
IWishUDidntNoMyName 8 months ago
@IWishUDidntNoMyName -- Actually, its more of a personal choice. They normally do change color a bit with use and that's ok. But some people just don't like that, so they replace it, or get a colored one. Or maybe if you notice that your body is changing and the cup just isn't sealing like it used to. Or you want a different kind. Or if you have a baby or something, and you need another size. If you don't care what the cup looks like, and its still working, then it doesn't need replacing.
MenstrualCupInfo 8 months ago
Feels mega weird when it pops open inside...
shortyzan 8 months ago
God I'm glad to be a guy. Well done to all you Ladies that have to deal with this lark.
blueluny 8 months ago
@blueluny I'm a transgender man. How do you think I feel? I'm a guy too, but I still have to go through this. Sometimes it really sucks to be a tranny. -_- Oh well, there are some purks at the same time too. Like not having horrible B.O. and gross excess body hair. Horray I don't have to shave! xD lol So it's not that bad in exchange for dealing with this crap every month. :-D
TheSnowyice 7 months ago
I seem to be having a problem with my diva cup. every time I insert my cup I can feel the "pressure" of the suction and it almost makes me sick to my stomach. it also feels like my vagina is pushing it out but in reality it's not moving at all
Feonalilly 8 months ago
I watched a lot of your videos last night and I bought a Mooncup UK today. I was a bit intimidated by how big they look in your videos. I just wanted to point out to others that they're smaller than they look in these videos. Even though I've only been using it for a few hours, I'd highly recommend it. I've heard others say this and I didn't really believe it, but it also seems to be easing my period pains. I've had no cramps since I put it in!
aislingniriada1989 9 months ago
I've been trying everything but my cup still leaks...please help
iamtashafierce 9 months ago
@iamtashafierce -- What size/brand is it? How old are you? Any children? Heavy or light flow?
MenstrualCupInfo 9 months ago
@MenstrualCupInfo It's a divacup size 2....I'm 30 with 2 children...I cut the stem hoping that might help...i've tried turning it but it's difficult...it leaks and i fell crapy...please help
iamtashafierce 9 months ago
@iamtashafierce -- Make sure you always insert aiming back toward the rectum, because we naturally slant that way. Never aim straight up. Try keeping one of the tiny holes inside the fold crease, it pops open better that way. Try inserting with the fold crease facing down, also helps it pop open better. Let it pop open halfway in and coax it up, if you can. The better it pops open, the better the seal. Not everyone can turn it, its ok if you can't. Hope that helps.
MenstrualCupInfo 9 months ago
Hi, I'm having trouble with tampons and I'm finding pads less and less comfy. I'm looking into buying one and was wondering if the ladycup was the smallest and smoothest to insert for virgins. Also, if I can't put a tampon in easily, will putting in a ladycup be near impossible?
xxchloesweet5xx 9 months ago
@xxchloesweet5xx -- Tampon or cup, make sure you always insert in the vagina aiming back toward your rectum. Never aim straight up, because the vagina naturally slants back. Also, tampons can sometimes be more difficult just because they are so dry! Small Meluna is the smallest. Then small Ladycup. Then small Lunette and small Yuuki (same). But also consider your flow. If its light, Meluna or Ladycup is ok. But if its heavier, then Lunette or Yuuki.
MenstrualCupInfo 9 months ago
@xxchloesweet5xx
As a virgin female I must suggest the possibility that the reason this problem occurs for you is the very physical manifestation of your virginity-your hymen, which is an outer covering of thin and very sensitive skin outside of your vaginal opening. Anything that you insert;a large tampon, a small tampon, or even the tip of your finger could potentially cause you discomfort and could tear your hymen. I personally suggest avoiding inserts of all kinds. Enjoy your virginity ^_^
sirdonicaschosen 9 months ago
Hi, I'm having trouble with tampons and every cycle I find pads less comfy. So I'm looking into buying one. The ladycup is the smallest and smoothest to
xxchloesweet5xx 9 months ago
Why wouldn't a person use it for more than 10 years?
lethikim1990 10 months ago
@lethikim1990 -- Its just a guarantee or recommendation. But basically, you can use it as long as it still works, and its still in good condition. After 10 years, it could possibly wear out though, but it depends on the material. Some are made of silicone, some of latex, some of TPE.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
Is there a reduction of menstrual odor or is it practically undetectable with the cup?
lethikim1990 10 months ago
@lethikim1990 -- Most people don't get it at all with a cup.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
Really helpful to read some of these comments and see this video!
I got the Divacup and am using it for the first time. Every time I put it in it felt like it was pinching me but then I cut the stem and no more irritation.
I am worried however....
1.Is it possible to lose the cup inside the vagina?Because I cut my stem could it go so far up that I wouldn't be able to get it out now?
2. I feel like I need to urinate but I don't. Is this cup to big for me, so its pushing on my bladder?
raughr 10 months ago
@raughr -- If you needed to trim the stem for comfort, then chances are pretty good that you are short enough inside to where it won't get out of reach. But even if you were a bit longer, still, the vagina's walls are closed off, and the end is closed off. So you are basically like a pocket up there, the cup can't really go anywhere, there is only so much room before the walls and the end will stop it. You can bring the cup closer to your reach by pushing like you are having a bowel movement.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
i was considering of a Menstrual cup but now i'm terrified to use it! D:
i'm within the first 2 years of my periods anyway so maybe it's not a good idea yet >.<
MehStupidVids 10 months ago
Is it dishwasher safe?
kayftw 10 months ago
@kayftw -- the companies don't recommend putting it in the dishwasher. It won't melt, but the soaps, cleaning chemicals and food particles that are in there can cause infections in the vagina.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
@kayftw would u really put a dirty bloody menstral cup into something you put your plates that your family eats food off of? Just clean it with your hands and soap
loveMeSomehiphop 7 months ago
@enicolep1 -- I and many other people believe that the reason tampons are so uncomfortable is because they are absorbent, rigid, and they dry you out. But cups don't. Also, you can't really force a cup to sit high or low. Where it sits depends on if you have a high cervix, or a low cervix (low cervix will make the vagina very short inside). It sounds like you have a high cervix, if the cup traveled high enough to where you could not reach it easily. DivaCup's body is longer, that might help.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
I never thought about wetting a paper towel before going in the stall. doh! thanks :)
waterlily716 10 months ago
Hi! Thanks so much for this video....I had never even heard of a menstrual cup until I saw this lol. The very first time, I had NO problems. Every time after, it's been an issue. I place it in, everything seems fine, but about an hour later, I'm leaking and the cup is NOT even full! When I first place it, the stem is exposed, but when I go to remove it, it's wayyyy up there and I'm struggling to get it :( Am I doing it wrong? I'm PMSing and this is NOT working for me! lmaooo!
spaindrexel 10 months ago
Hello, I ride and show horses, at shows im sometimes riding for 7 hours a day..i ride english as well so im typically posting (when the horse is trotting and you sit up and down) Would this be comfortable enough to wear while im riding?
COWGIRLUP99362 10 months ago
@COWGIRLUP99362 -- I've spoken to lots of people who ride horses and use a menstrual cup. They say it works well, and is comfortable. But of course the size or brand should depend on how heavy your flow is. If its lighter, you could try Ladycup or Meluna. If its heavier, maybe Divacup, Lunette, Fleurcup, Yuuki, Miacup.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
Since my period was this week, I had to use my diva cup. My problem is that no matter how strong the seal is and how far in I push it, it comes back to my opening and pokes me all day, even when my diva cup is completely trimmed. Since I'm still in school, I'm sitting down and getting back up pretty often. Before I change the brand of my cup, do you have any tips for what I can do to keep it from poking me and sliding down? (I've already tried using it inside out, and it got ugly!)
99horcruxes 10 months ago
@99horcruxes The reason your cup is sliding back down is because you have a low cervix (aka short vagina). This means the cup will want to sit very low, there is simply no room to push it up further. With me, its the same. Diva is the longest brand, so pretty much any other cup will be shorter (well, except large Yuuki). If flipping the cup inside-out to make it shorter doesn't help (it will be a little more slippery though), then switching brands might be the only thing you can do.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
I'm using the cup for the first time today. I got my period yesterday..so I guess it's okay if I had a little trouble putting it in. I was just wondering how far in or out should the stem be? I tried to push the cup a bit higher, but it slides back in the lower position. So the stem is bothering me a little. Should I trim it? Or am I doing it all wrong:)?
Thanks!
pilamaer 10 months ago
@pilamaer -- If the cup wants to sit lower, that's ok. It just means you have a low cervix / you are short inside. In that case you can trim the stem for comfort. You can use scissors, but my favorite thing to use is a fingernail clipper. You have more control that way. So when you trim it, the step should be just inside, to where it doesn't bother you, but there should still be enough left to where you can grab it. Some people like to trim a little bit at a time, its a good idea.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
Your video is great! I used a Femmecup yesterday for the first time and I was wondering how I would 'keep the contents off my bathroom floor' !!
squeeze321 10 months ago
My Diva cup just arrived today and my period is not on but i wanted to try to get it in . After many failed attempts , i got it in but after literally like 2 minutes i went to check it (just to make sure i did it right) and the stem was all the way inside of me and i started FREAKING out . then i finally got it down and the stem in between my lips and the same thing happened a minute later ! this is terrifying . if im on my period will this still happen ?
sababy92 10 months ago
@sababy92 -- Many people's cervix down move down, shortening the vagina a bit during their period. But even if yours doesn't, try relaxing first, being tense makes it harder to reach. Then bear down like you are having a bowel movement, and that will shorten the vagina and inch or so, bringing it closer. Pinch the base, and tilt it from side to side, walking it down, to break the suction.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
I just got my Lunette Selene size 1 and I did a dry run and accidentally tore a little bit of my hymen :( I can't get the cup in without losing grip and it popping out. Do you think I'll have an easier time inserting it when I'm actually on my period?
XOXOhollymarieXOXO 10 months ago
@XOXOhollymarieXOXO -- A lot of people do have an easier time inserting on their period. Even as a sexually active married woman, I do. Everything feels more relaxed and flexible during that time, for some reason. Also, its normal if a cup pops open early, as long as at least the rim is inside. Actually, a lot of people (myself included) find it easier to get a good seal if we pop the cup open early, and then coax it up the rest of the way. But only if its comfortable for you.
MenstrualCupInfo 10 months ago
I am so glad I live in the age of youtube. I just started using the divacup and I was having trouble with removal, and I didn't have anyone to ask for help because no one I know uses one. Thanks so much for the demonstration!
Eliz279009 11 months ago
Can you practice inserting the cup even when you're not on your period? Will it hurt if you do?
crapweasel510 11 months ago
@crapweasel510 -- You are allowed to practice using your cup when you are not on your period. In fact, you are encouraged to do so, because its good to have the techniques mastered before your period comes. You can even wear it 1 or 2 days before your period comes, so there will be no surprises. It should not be any less comfortable than when you are on your period. However, some women do find it easier to insert during their period, because your muscles are much more relaxed at that time.
MenstrualCupInfo 11 months ago
I am a 27 year old virgin and my flow is normal to heavy. Rarely, I skip my period depending on my stress level etc. I have long vaginal lips and have no experience with tampons i.e inserting things up my vagina.
If i get a large cup, will it cause pain on mild to no flow days?
Excuse me for my blunt candor, but what menstrual cup brand and size would you recommend for me? I will rely on your judgment . Thanks
crapweasel510 11 months ago
@crapweasel510 -- A cup should not be any more painful on a light day than on a heavy day. Most menstrual cup companies recommend a large for women who are 25 to 30 (exact age depends on the company) and / or who have given birth, or have a heavy flow. Smalls are usually recommended for under 25 to 30 (again, depending on age), and / or who have not given birth, or have a light flow.
MenstrualCupInfo 11 months ago
i believe this is sooo so so useful for camping.
Lilbluerocket 11 months ago
what happens when it overflows? pls answer!
limewolf3 11 months ago 9
@limewolf3 -- It can leak if it overflows, but that usually takes quite a long time. Anywhere from 4 to 12 hours for most people, depending if you have a light flow, or a heavy flow. the first time you use a cup, you can wear a pad for backup if you want, until you get confident. On the heaviest day, you just take it out every few hours to see how long it takes you to fill it up. From then on, you will always know, and you can empty it on time. Pads and tampons also leak if worn too long.
MenstrualCupInfo 11 months ago
Do you get bloody hands?
coilness 11 months ago
@coilness -- the first time you use it you might be a bit clumsy, but when you get the hang of it, its no more messy that putting in or taking out a non-applicator tampon.
MenstrualCupInfo 11 months ago
can you sleep in this?
BostonFrost 11 months ago
@BostonFrost -- Yes you can. But to prevent over-filling, its best to empty it right before bed.
MenstrualCupInfo 11 months ago
EASY MENSTRUAL CUP REMOVAL TRICK
My menstrual cup just arrived yesterday. Everything was fine except I struggled immensely to break the seal and remove it. I even watched the video describing how to remove it, and it was still difficult for me.
Then, I tried something. I used my convenient disposable wipe (just the generic brand from Walmart). I pulled the stem, and the cup came quickly out. I tried this again and again. This works quite well.
ignite7h 1 year ago
What about when you're at a public place? Let's say a "theme park," where you're going to be there all day and you use the bathroom, how do you wash your cup in a public place? I don't know I may be asking a weird question but I'm just curious.
jessg05 1 year ago
@jessg05 -- In an emergency, it is acceptable to empty your cup and simply dry it off with toilet paper. then give it a regular wash when you get home. Or before you go in the stall, you can wet down one of those hand drying paper towels and use that to wipe it clean. Some people also carry bottled water in their purse for rinsing int he stall, since it can easily be refilled. Also, companies like Lunette and Ladycup sell Disinfecting Wipes, which can be used when there is no clean water.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
@jessg05 -- I had my 2 heaviest days @ EPCOT & Typhoon Lagoon ~ 4 months ago. I think I was on my 4th cycle of using a MC so I was still pretty new @ it. It was absolutely not a problem. I just used toilet paper to clean/dry my MC & I was good to go! I was still a bit paranoid so I wore a pad "just in case" the day we were @ EPCOT, but I didn't have any leaks & I was able to go on all the water slides @ Typhoon Lagoon (I used to refuse to even put on a bathing suit when I had my period!)
degobahjunk70 11 months ago
there will never be a time in your period where you will never have blood on you.it will be all over your genitalia and at some point you will have to touch. it's part of you, it's you, blood is life. yeah, that could have been a baby you would be kissing and hugging and holding. think about it ladies
pakapoa 1 year ago
whats wrong with having blood in your fingers? i mean think about it. the blood sometimes soaks all the way to the string and you still touch it. and worse, you have removed your tampon, finished showering, are wiping yourself when suddenly a nice flow of blood starts to go down your hips, behind your knees all the way to the floor.
pakapoa 1 year ago
I'm a teenage girl, and I just started my menstrual cycle.. I'm using pads at the moment, but I'm somewhat hesitant to try tampons/menstrual cups. First of all, where can I get one? And are there menstrual cups made for.. well, my vagina has a very small/tight opening. I guess I'm just mainly concerned about pain/discomfort. Thanks in advance.
toxicroses98 1 year ago
@toxicroses98 -- I understand, I myself didn't even try a tampon until I was 20, lol. But some people use them/ cups, as young as 12 and 13 now. Companies do have smaller sizes for younger people with lighter flows, and a few companies have an extra 3rd size for teenagers (Meluna, Naturcup). Ladycup is a good one too. Or Lunette. Most cups are about as wide as 2 fingers, you can practice adjusting to that width. You can find them in some health food stores, or online.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
My house has well water and our purifier is broken, will this change the way a cup is cleaned (i.e. Stains/cloudiness) or cause any damage?
XOXOhollymarieXOXO 1 year ago
@XOXOhollymarieXOXO -- It shouldn't, in many cases, well water is more natural. As long as its potable.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
i am using my diva cup for my second cycle. i am totally committed to using it, but i simply do not have the finger dexterity to pinch in side of my vagina with my finger and thumb- believe me, i have tried and tried. however, i have found that if i insert my middle finger as far as i can, and try to break the seal near the top of the cup, and then basically "scissor" my pointer and middle fingers together on either side of the cup, i can shimmy it out enough to grab the stem with my thumb.
alterpiece 1 year ago
@alterpiece I have to "bear down" to get mine down an the I just firmly tug. Comes right out..
keishadoc 1 year ago
You just saved my day! I couldn't figure out how to get the cup out again. I tried everything (I thought), but your "walkthrough" helped me so much! Doing just what you showed did the trick! I didn't think I would ever put it in again - but now I know I won't regret buying my ladycup! Thank you so so much!
Soess4153 1 year ago
I've had a Diva Cup for well over a year now. It was the best thing I have ever purchased, I will never return to tampons or pads.
Karitten 1 year ago
Can you get cancer from pads and tampons???
bugaboo9213 1 year ago
@bugaboo9213 No, of course not. You can, however, get toxic shock syndrome from tampons, although it's very rare. Google it.
apodder 11 months ago
@bugaboo9213 No, of course not. You can, however, get toxic shock syndrome from tampons, although it's very rare. Google it. I believe the recommendation is not to leave tampons in longer than 12 hours.
apodder 11 months ago
is there discomfort or pain when inserting or removing the cup at all??
FishXHeadXSpeck 1 year ago
@FishXHeadXSpeck -- Not normally, but a virgin might have some discomfort the first few tries. Or if someone is extremely sensitive. But it usually goes away with some practice. Or has a vaginal conditions like vaginismus, which can make inserting anything painful, even really small things. But of course, that could only be diagnosed by a doctor.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
Which brand do you think is the best quality and easy to use? Do you ever have any trouble gripping the cup when you are trying to take it out. Seems like if its silicone it would get slippery and hard to grab.
rachelmarye 1 year ago
@rachelmarye -- Some brands are more slippery than others. The ones that have grip rings on the base (I think) are easier to grip. It also depends on your "length" inside, if you have a high cervix, you will be longer. Low cervix, you will be shorter. If you are short the cups will stay down low and be easy to grip. And vise-versa. most women can use any cup, but some people develop preferences. Many beginners tend to like small Lunette or small Yuuki. consider flow levels too..
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
wont my hands get all bloody with all this reaching and feeling
08mlee 1 year ago
@08mlee -- Surprisingly, as you insert the cup and it expands, and you coax it up a bit further, it does a pretty good job of collecting most of the blood that's already in the vagina, like pushing it up the way a squeegee would do, and then it sort of drains into the cup once the cup is open. There's no more than there would be with a non-applicator tampon. 99% of the time when I remove my cup, the outside is totally clean, all the blood is inside.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
Where can you buy these from
indiaca3 1 year ago
@indiaca3 -- Online, or some health food stores.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
My friend only 25 yrs old. She using lots tampons, end up had TSS & cervic cancer.. She learn hard way. May be chemicals in those tampons and bleach in pads. I decide to gave up those tampons & pad for my health's sake. I tried diva cup last week, love it! Now I can live more safer than have risk threat to my cervic @ young age. Btw, when I visit Doctor in office, there many signs that young ladies 20-30's end up risk of cervic cancer. =Possiable cause by tampons or pads chemical on those. =/
Luv2BeHappyLeo 1 year ago
Since there are holes on the side of some cups, if you lay down and the cup has a lot of period flow in it, would the period come out of the holes and run out of the body?
tombstoner79 1 year ago
@tombstoner79 -- Good question! The holes are fairly small and menstrual blood is a bit thick. The companies strategically planned the size of the holes to be big enough to help with popping open during insertion, breaking the suction during removal-- but NOT big enough for the blood to run through.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
@MenstrualCupInfo Does the menstrual blood coagulate as it sits in the cup as it does when you cut yourself?
tombstoner79 1 year ago
@tombstoner79 -- Not really... But it does separate. Like all the red stuff sinks to the bottom, and the clear plasma stuff rises to the top.
MenstrualCupInfo 1 year ago
so can i wear this to sleep? would the liquic goes back up or fill out? ><
JL30191 1 year ago
@JL30191 -- Yes you can wear it while sleeping. It can't go back inside you because your cervix at the end of the vagina is closed off. It doesn't matter if it touches your skin inside, because it would anyway with a tampon or even a pad. The blood is thick so even with a pad, there woudl be traces of