WLYB..................."This is the (equivalent of the) death penalty of a civil... case. What could be worse for a normal parent than to say you no longer have any rights to this child?"--Associate Appellate Court Judge Jennifer Bailey (4th DCA, Florida)
Im going tru custody battle n the court system dsnt make sence. I file divorce bcause domestic violence, my soon to b xwife hit me. I live in d marital home, she in a shelter with no job. Court gives her temporary custody, how is that the best interest of the child? It took me 18 month to get overnight visitation due to her lies. Forensic doctor reported that share custody is the best option but im still on trial n i hav no acces to my daugther exept weekend. Dnt know her school, doctor, friends
1.Take any sentence made by a feminist that involves the word man.
2. Replace the word man with the word jew.
All of the sudden it sounds kind of racist right?
Feminism is not about equal rights anymore, its about demonizing men and promoting women regardless of their individual actions through hate propaganda.
Same methods as religious fundamentalism or any dictatorship of the past.
Here’s an inspiring story of a man who, in 1930, demonstrated for the right to be a father father in Washington D.C. It is the earliest case of a public father’s rights protest I know of. James Welch: The Father Who Would Not Give Up” (with photos that will surprise you) @ The Unknown History of MISANDRY
shut the fuck up HO...it's the fact that he hasn't been manning up that's why this ball shit court system has become this way. next time understand ppl's pain ya fucking douchesac
I share my story and radio interviews... on my channel Daganerabus << Pls check it out. thank you. and the end result NOT posted yet... the Father has just been pronounced NOT GUILTY of any False allegations after HE called 911 To Protect his children. And after they were kidnapped by their mother. 9 months later! Read his story to on the available links. The beginning part.... thanks.
Great job. But the question then is: what exactly needs to change with the court system? What did me in was the $60K in legal fees prior to our trial, and an estimated $100K+ for the trial itself. I simply could not afford this. Extortion. To answer my own question, rather than revamping the entire system, one simple thing needs to be done: automatic 50/50 custody. Period. If one parent wants less custody thats fine, but otherwise you get 50%. See my video.
Where have you been? With females the kids are always a pawn..a tool as you will to get what she wants. I am a mother of three wonderful kids and there father has full access and equal rights to our kids as I do. They are ours, not just mine and not just his. We had them together. Hell I dont agree with mothers rights....you've lots your mind saying that BS. Fathers is equal to the mother in all rights to the kids. The kids have rights to both parents....These mothers need to really think.
You speak from the heart with fairness in mind good sir. I applaud your openness and sincerity in delivering a carefully considered, selfless perspective of such a delicate subject. Regardless my friend, the judicial system and its succubus proponents (lawyers, ES's corrupt family courts etc..) generate billions per month on child support related counsel and proceedings.
You are one cool dude and you are probably one cool dad. The courts should encourage dads to step up and give us a shot!!! This is why I think the courts
needs to feverishly enforce visitation orders just as they do with support!!! This is what I deem to be Equality.
Fathers are not being punished because of women's rights. Our government found a cash cow in our wives unhappiness with their marriages. This spin is perpetuated by all who have an agenda. The homosexuals have rights before Dads, the feminists have special privileges rather than equality. The law industry is pushing all of this crap
Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
You want my honest opinion? Visitation? Do not involve the Court. Do not gloat, do not cross your ex, and do not send your child home bragging about how much fum they had at dads. Keep a low humble profile and never tip your hand on your personal life. I've made all these mistakes and had custody. Try arrange to pick up kids from school or places she wont be involved and lessen her opportunity to create a domestic disturbance situation you will lose. Yeah dumb like a fox.
These Corrupt Collection Agencies / Extort Courts are well versed on deception and every dirty tactic imaginable. Destruction of documents, forging numbers, discrimination are just the tip of the iceberg Most men have NO clue what they're walking into and are ill equiped to even deal with the front counter goons let alone the robe wearing MAZIA behind closed doors. Most men dont realize they can wind up there for a child they never fathered and the extent of the corruption.
women do not have to fight to be allowed to see their own kids.. But men almost always do, where is the 'equality' in that?... all men get to do is pay money to an ex and call that 'child support' oh well suuure thats what its intended for but men dont even have a say on how they spend the cash on the children and that allows the female to spend it on herself and not the kid. Shared parenting for mentally fit people should be a presumption from the start.
@themaniusedtob Visitation is a myth, I dont care how much you pay or how many attorneys one gets if the mother decides no then your beating a dead horse. There is no money in visitation and in fact these Courts tell mothers behind closed doors "If you let him see the child it will mean less money." Why? They risk losing 18 plus years of residual income and job security! Get it? Now it will make sense when you file for enforcement and the robe wearing nazi WILL attack you like a rabid dog.
@atmdaddy well yeah i dont disagree with that i was just pointing out that its not fair that father have to fight to see their own kids while women can use the justice system in such a manipulative way just for their own gain at the expense of children.... i do know what you mean i undestand how the law works and thats why some things need to start changing and i advocate for that change.
@themaniusedtob That system is so beyond corrupt I honestly dont believe it can be fixed or fine tuned, it needs to be abolished, completely bulldozed just as they have done to fathers and innocent men and children. Bulldozed with no remorse/
@atmdaddy honestly, I think you are right.. I mean, its not as if women dont have everything feminism said it was out to get and even more.. one of the many problems with most feminist followers is that they dont realize they just want more power then men without equally earning it.. hence the need for quotas..
My socal daugther dropped out of school, and is working off the books, I've been paying this socal Childsupport payments for a good 18 1/2 years "my socal daugther is 19 y'o and a parent and works off the books", ----why off the books---"Why not pay taxes", Is just to proof to the courts, BY HER MOTHER. that my socal daugther is still living with her, just to collect childsupport. And the Jugde knows this.
So, Is ALL the same game plan, "My socal daugther" Is going to do the same to her "Boyfriend(s)". All that I see ----------( IS NO ) --------- MARRIAGE, NOT WORKING ON THE BOOKS, NOT GRADUATING, NOT JOINING THE US FORCES.
She'll RUN to the courthouses, SOON - as HER mother did to me, She just took my INFO from My wallet and went to Court.
And Yes, That's my socal daugther and I do Hate her aswell as to her mother.
the epitome of stupidity!, and Archie Bunkers twin the judge Diane Thomas! If you live in Philly and have to go before her wear a blindfold! You'll have nightmares if you don't! We need to put this system on Blast and the judges who support it thru the News media!
These family court judges are so willing to be willfully and woefully ignorant!!! And we need to put them on Blast! The whole Philadelphia,pa Family Court system is biased toward females. No matter what they do it's always the mans fault!!! In the phila,pa court system people like Susan smith and Casey Anthony are heralded as Heroes because they completely took away the child. That's how ignorant the Phila,pa system is!!! And 3 of the main culprits are Fern Caplan, Judge Doris peckurow who is
Ken, I'm right there with ya brother..... The courts give leniency to moms and the KIDS are the ones who ultimately pay for it. Some women capitalize on this and MANIPULATE. My hands were the first to touch my son at birth. I did everything to provide as a dad and a husband. Courts need to REALLY be in it for the best interests of the children. Visitations should be enforced as vigorously as child support. Equality for the sake of the childrens well being is key here. I feel your pain.
I know this video was posted a few years ago, but i just watched it now. I can agree and relate to you 100%. I myself and going through the same situation. Of course there are no two custody situations that are there same, just as there are no two people that are the same. Like you said, i know and respect women have rights too, but what about us fathers?
I actually started tearing up watching this. I just turned 21 in December , my daughter is six months old . My main fear is my daughter crying her eyes out when she sees me because she won't know who I am, or thinking I was one of those worthless dads that just run off and leave their children. My ex doesn't want me in my daughters life but with the shift she works only gets to see her 3 hours a day. All I want is 50/50.out of her 6 months of being in this world I have seen her about 20 days.
i am going throught the same thing... its horrible. i love my children so very much and want nothing but the best for them. their mother on the other hand, has stated on several occasions she will not stop until i do not see my children at all. last weekend she asked if she could pick them up 24hrs before she is ordered to by the courts. i refused. she then filed for emergency custody siting "fears for their satety"... clearly she does not have the childrens best interrest at heart
The judges know this. The lawyers know this. The police who are asked to enforce this know it. Everyone knows about this! How to stop this? Solution: Unite and speak with one voice!
your 100 percent correct and your words make me think of the same struggle my child is going through i feel the same as you and are going through the
same and to many children and to many fathers go through this thanks for sharing your words they are the words of a parent through the voice of a father
She jumped on me and her father pulled a gun on me. She filed a TPO and the police came to my house and almost shot me in the middle of the night. I went to court two times becuase she tried to have me locked up. Have not seen my son in almost two years. Justice really????
I absolutely agree with you. I believe that both parties should be held accountable an equal amount for there children. It is absolutely absurd the way the laws are written. Women should defiantly not use the gender bias court system to hurt there ex's by taking there children. That only hurts the child(ren), the child(ren)shouldn't have to grow up wondering why there daddy wasn't there as much as there mother. When in fact that was never what was intended. At least for me. I pleaded for 50/50.
Returning home from Iraq to my surprise I find that my wife had slept with over 20 men and made videos of these encounters. She hid or depleted over $500,000.00 I earned during my sacrifice to better my family. The courts then award her the home and everything in it forcing me to the street. The courts then award her custody of our son who wants to live with me. Now homeless, on disability, I hunger do to extreme amount of child support due. My crime? Surviving Iraq!
The family court is an economy for marginal lawyers and judges. They are each a little bit of a person. Court order visitation has the enforceable value of toilet paper.
The underlying issue here extends far beyond the court system. In the last few years efforts to destabilize society, demoralize the people and denigrate everything that's good, that works and that's just in this country has increased exponentially. Things are being consolidated and / or taken over from the TOP, DOWN, all across the country, at a faster rate than ever before; if not via ideology, race or religion, then with money. Children are always the #1 target / priority, women a strong 2nd.
Everything he says is true. Battling in court for some men is impossible, or sould I say most men. After the extreme amount of child support we are ordered to pay, the courts tell us that, finacially, we can not afford to help raise our own children. My ex takes 72% of my income and I can't afford to eat and have to live with my father. What if I had nowhere to go?? Straight to jail. It also doesn't help that my ex's family is wealthy and can afford to throw millions at lawyers if needed.
The system on purpose, creates a state of war. It tries to make a winner and a loser. This almost never works. Here is what does work, men learn the law, most court rulings are void. Go make the courts get rid of this no win deal. Once the woman realizes she does not have the upper hand anymore, then a lot of the problems will go away. Once that is done, make a plan that not only takes care of your kids, but creates peace and gives the kids the chance to be sucessful in life.
I totally undertand you,my husband is still fighting,so unfair she desapeared with his boy we are looking for help he is 14 years old and he'd not seeing his father wonderful man , for more than a decade it's ridiculius and also how expensive costs are in order to prove the truth ,this is no right thank you for your video
i think its an indictment against women that so many of them do try and poison their childern against their ex-partners for their own selfish reasons, without regard to the effect that this has on the child. maternal instincts my AZZ. im sure there are many men that would do the same...but unfortunately we will never know since the family kangaroo courts default custody to the owner of the vagina in 9 out of 10 cases for no other consideration. shame on the criminals and the enabling courts.
ok, im a girl, & a child of divorce, & i think its RIDICULOUS how women are pretty much automatically given custody of children. i thought feminism was supposed to erase gender roles? my dad paid child support up until this year when i turned 18, but it was never spent on me or my brother - just on mums botox & impulse designer shopping. dad even bought her a house, & she still bad mouths him & talks about how much she hates him. he just cant win.
I feel this man's pain. Been there, done that. Now it's going to be a movie called "What Tigers Do." Would welcome any feedback from anyone -- men and women alike -- who have gone through anything like this as well.
Kind of sad ... Why don't you cheer us up with more cover tunes from pink Floyd. I'm feeling your melancholy and it shows in your playing. I say just focus on your Floyd tunes and the rest will take care of itself..... I'm surprised she didn't stay with you just to hear your guitar playing..... Sad sad sad......
I got 3 weekends per month 2 weeks during the summer every other holiday.....she works part time and gets her weekends off. Before it became the battle from hell, she said that she would never do this sort of thing and we would be 50/50 custody no child support.......No such thing in real life. I pay literally 75% of my income right now in support. They said 17% plus add-ons. Its all a game and no man can live on 25% of their income when its under 40K a year, I don't care how frugal you are!
Im going thru this at the very moment and yhe mother is filing a fraudulent restraining order against me and to my knowledge i have not done anything wrong but go to the hospital or alcohol intoxication before my daughter was even born tho. my choice was to represent myself cuz i only kno she has nothing against me, its just the lawyer knows how to manipulate the court system, so well see what happens but im a man of my word..... Im representing myself!!!!!
Once a father receives less than 50%, he is no longer treated as a human being with natural rights. The exe’s boyfriend, lovers, the step-fathers all have more right than the biological father and they do not have to fight for it. Something must be done drastically. Maybe it is time to try the opposite either father's natural right for 50% equal time or 100% nothing. Men, please commit to never date, marry or lure a married woman or a divorced woman. This divorce market encouragement must stop
I can prove that my x cheated with over 20 men while i was in Iraq only to come home to depleted bank account and they gave her everything, and my son that wants to be with me is forced to live with a woman that could not care less about his well being. the courts broke every standing law to placate to her wishes. I have been made homeless and broke and they keep trying to toss me in jail.
Search thompson4justice to learn more about this country's corrupt court system, which is a taxpayer-funded system of organized crime that is accountable to no one. The Catholic priest scandal has nothing on the betrayals of public trust ocurring in our family courts where men are all criminals and women are all selfless, innocent victims.
KIDS NEED THEIR FATHER. I AM A WORTHY FATHER AND MY SON NEEDS ME. I AM CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH A BATTLE AS WE SPEAK AND I WILL FIGHT TILL I DIE, BECAUSE I EXPECT THE SAME OF MY OWN SON. IT IS 50/50 BROTHER!
hahahah...."how do you treat your women?" have one of the brainless idiots that is US soldier in Iraq tell first encounter Muslim so he can reply and "how are you treated by your women?" like trash? hahahaha...It is time we brothers put the whores and bitches back where they belong in the kitchen...I mean in the Western civilization...
hahahah...."how do you treat your women?" have one of the brainless idiots that is US soldier in Iraq tell first encounter Muslim so he can reply and "how are you treated by your women?" like trash? hahahaha...It is time we brothers put the whores and bitches back where they belong in the kitchen...I mean in the Western civilization...
I have three children who are now 22, 20 and 17. My ex-wife moved out of state and I no longer have access to my 17 year old. This piece of shift has lied to every person she knows and has more rights than I do.
Women always literally think that they OWN the children because they bore them..so what!! Fathers are actually more important than mothers because it's easier for a man to be both a strong father and be sensitive than it is for a woman to be strong and sensitive because women can't overcome their own emotions and can't think logically. That is why so many single mothers can't control their kids. My daughter has literally disowned her mother because she's seen how screwed up she is.
bloggermouth. thank you for making this video. their are to Meany men and women that do not speak out at all. and wen we do not stand up for one another things become worse for all of us.
I think fathers would do better ignoring their rights and instead fight for Children"s right to have their father in their life (equal parenting time). Same destination, just a different path of getting there.
Feminism is full of double standards. That "enlightement" you speak of is based on child-worship, a means to justify outrageous hardships placed on parents (usually men)
The court system isn't outdated, its specifically curbed to fuck men over.
These comments are really worrying me. I am most likely the father of an infant an ex-girlfriend just had and is insisting I'm the father. I have been there for her since she told me she was pregnant even though she knew I was skeptical about being the father. She has left me out of the pregnancy and didn't even let me know when she gave birth. I am in the process of trying to determine I am the father and to establish my parental rights if I am because she has left me off the birth certificate.
The current unjust laws of our federal and state governments only unjustifiably crucify "GOOD" men trying to be fathers. A movement has to take place to change laws to make this country just again not just in family court but in all aspects of OUR government this is OUR GOVERNMENT we are suppose to Govern it not outsiders doing things in a corrupt manner!
You are not alone in . My husband is fighting for custody of his 5 yr. old son. The mother continueslly tries to brainwash the young boy against his father. Tragically, this 5 yr old is now displaying the early signs of PAS, (Parental Alienation Syndrome), wherein the child begins to campaign against the alienated parent on their own. The National Organization for Women dismisses PAS, bur believe me, it is very real and poses a horrible threat to our society's youth. Good luck and God bless!
all i no is you better fight as hard as you can and then it might not work i see it all the time its not for men its about the money. i was a kid to i know them
I refused to only see my Daughter 4 days a Month and pay. I felt accepting anything less than 50/50 is like I am accepting that I am not a good Father, and that is why I should not have the baby more than 4 days a Month.
Feminist Nazi law's+ my ex, told me take the baby 4 days a month and pay, I said:
I said I want to support my child, after all is about the child.
I know what u have been going through and I wish you good luck.
"bloggermouth" I can't really put a real prize but here a quick list.
To get equal custody it cost me: $30,000, plus 9 moths out of work, many days in Jail.(criminal charges dropped false accusation:judge said no crime was ever committed), I was 218 pounds, by the time I got the custody i weighted 185 pounds, I suffered great sleeping problems that caused depression, and eating problems.
I lost a leased almost paid Semi truck, and CDL+endorsements became useless.
well done bro.i am a young man but my child is my heart and its a shame that they are used as pawns and that is exactly how they are used by scorned women..its a shame...check out the song i wrote about my daughter..you may find it beautiful and totally relevant
Well, this video definately and significantly makes you less retarded than I previously thought (and judged you by).
I agree with you 100% as I'm going through the same sort of thing you are. I'm adding this to my favorite's for sure, even though we're most likely on the opposite sides of the political spectrum, may even get a subscription out of me.
My political spectrum is a rabid centrist because fringe dwellers of right or left are far too narrow minded to appreciate the true diversity of people. I'm a businessman smart enough to know that both government and big business are not always responsible to the needs of people.
I'm sorry that you have to go through this. Keep the peace for the sake of your children.
We will not find justice at the hands of corrupt judges. (See YouTube videos) Judicial Benefits & Court Corruption Update / Evil Triangle of Court Corruption / Richard fine / Dr Shirley Moore slush funds /SBX 211. To end this title wave of corruption in our country must start with the corrupt judges. We can not bring evidence of corruption to corrupt judges. Los Angeles Superior Court judges are illegally and unconstitutionally taking 50,000.00 each for a total of 23 million per year.
Support groups? Are you kidding? Government funding and bureaucratic ineffectiveness that goes with it. More well-off pigs at the trough. Family Law takes place first at the legislature. You want change? Target the legislation and make both the right and the left feel the results in their bloated pocket books! (BTW., the IMF is selling 402 Metric tones of their gold reserves. That represents only 1/8 of their gold holdings. New ex-fathers will realize why that is important.)
We as fathers need to stick together and have these rights to be a father. I wish I could just be a father and leave the drama behind and focus on the future, but most women love the drama and will continue until they get what they want. I wish there were some support groups out there to be able to deal with things like this. My daughter can tell what is going on, but she cant make her decisions, we have to leave it to our curpt court system.
I have been going to court for the last 2/12 years fighting for my rights as a father. I finally got what I deserved, and then had to go back to court, because my ex wife said I was hitting my kid, my kid is almost 3. What women get away with these days are fucked up. I never put my hand on my kid and Yet I have to fight to prove it. I am still going through bullshit and only see my kid for 45 mins a week, already $20,000 in the hole. Lawyers just want your money!!
"bustmybigload" I know what ur saying about the lawyers. See by finishing ur case quick either way means less money for them. In fact sometimes Lawyers encourage parties to Fight because any fight makes them more money.
However, make sure u never tell ur Custody lawyers anything that he/she does not need to know. Never tell her that you would accept anything less than 50/50 regardless. Just say every time what u said since beginning.
Your attorney can be the biggest enemy and u wont know it.
I love this video.. very insighful. I wanna say over the past couple years I've had your video on my father rights mypace page. I like this video because you speak about your kids and not about woman or men, but as equal parental alienators... I hope all is well with you.
I could only disagree with one statement regarding signed on for life. Support payers are excluded from the same adoption options as single mothers and intact families. Its clearly discriminatory.
You are a perfect candidate for a non-custodial father because you are going to pay on-time and be there to support the kids. That is why you are catching hell in court. You are a NICE guy !!
Don't worry...there are women out there that sympathize with the impossible shake men receive in our culture---we just don't have a podium---check out my video--I think you'll appreciate it.
On a given day, all fathers should stop paying child support untill the system is made fairer.
The system could not handle such a mass protest, and remember, each father is a vote.
No more to, FAMILY LAW, FAMILY WAR.... and mega rich lawyers!
Divorce is allowed to suggest all fathers are criminals. I think some fathers should be entitled to compensation for humiliation and lack of support by the state.
Kids need BOTH parents!Only a bitch would use them to destroy the father!Been through it for years and see my children hurt by her game that the whole justice system,.sick psyco bitches!Hang in there and have no fear,jail is tmporary,love is eternal!!
Abolish "family court" and put it back to contract dispute standards. The moving party must PROVE their case TO A JURY, and the JURY sets the terms of settlement if the two parties cannot settle privately. Mediation must be required. Obstructive attitude should be punished. A party trying to use children to hurt the other should be stripped of their equity. Each party should submit a proposed settlement to the jury. No "judge" should have input or control. A judge is only a referee, not god.
This is exactly why your ex-wife got custody of the children in the first place. You're too reasonable and you would not create endless and profitable conflict for the agents of the court, as your ex-wife and most other women do. The court system is up to date and fine tuned to capitalize on families going through divorce. It must go, it's corrupted beyond repair.
There is no such thing as too reasonable. I'd hate to think what it would be like if I was unreasonable with a vindictive ex wife who would jump at the opportunity to capitalize on the stereotypical outraged father and have me removed from my son's lives. I agree that family court disappears and a system put in place where reasonable people like myself can get a fair shake.
@AugustusAlfa Exactly, you get it. Fathers and even alleged not the daddys have no business in these Extort Collection Agencies. From the second you walk in your Rights WILL be eroded intentionally and by well rehearsed design. Pit your meager earning against the $millions at their disposal? You ARE the enemy from the second you approach the counter or court room. Sit in their Office and just watch how many men come in and leave frustrated and castrated! I've seen it all and done it.
I been through all that for over 8 years,false arrests[1 on videotape] and now it's worse,her boyfriend beat me [knowing full well I got stenosis in my spine]and broke my ribs,they lied and said he wasn't there!I got jailed 6 days for public nuicance,just got out of jai last week on false charges,women re DOGS!!!!
DOGS are gentle way to say about them.You see they are born INNOCENT, but it's their evil (already spoiled) guardians..turn them SPOIL. Have faith brother...it started with Eve..and it'll follow till the end of time. God is just...and these are just the situations he gave us as "TESTS". "LUCKY" & "UNLUCKY" all will be brought to the almighty's courtroom and be judged on that lucky Day Of Last Judgement. May the evil perish ASAP. Say "AMEN".
cant understand why parents dont appreaciate each other in child rearing. to stop someone mid way (this i have experienced) is to shock their system as yes we signed on for life. it is the monies. yes kids need dad. who else is going to protect them in this man's world? a second class woman? (this i have experienced also) not going to happen we paid less we pay less into tax system. courts dont recongnize us as having full rights.
We're kindfred spirits. So many of us MUST mob together to increase our mobs numbers. A bigger mob than crooked LawLIARs/Judges and those that choose to protect them. We must increase our numbers by so many more multitudes, because it's like we are in a war against judges and their supporters and protects... & stars *** * ***
very well spoken I hope everything works out for you i am in the same situation and pray for you and all for the fathers who is living the same life and going trough hart times like this god help us all!
Your's sir, is a most calm and eloquent message on a serious matter. I too am going through a similar experience with my ex-wife denying me access to our son. Recently a family court judge allowed my ex to move my son to another state, Ha!, now I have little chance of seeing him. Like you, I will not give up on my child. We must make an appeal to our political leaders and to the masses by using a cool head just as you have here. Thanks for taking the time to share your story.
Bloggermouth...your commentary is the most truthful honest unbiased six minutes and forty five seconds I have ever heard on the blood sport of divorce.
This doesn't just happen to fathers. I haven't been allowed to be in my son's life for the last 5 years due to his father's inability to let go of the past. Ever since the divorce 10 years ago, I have been an emotional wreck. I don't know if my problems with depression are the reason for my ex-husband's denial of visitation or if he is just being the same control freak he was when we were married; but this has had a serious impact on my life as well as, I'm sure, my son's.
Hey everyone, please write your local and state governments. Matbe if we bug them enough they will change the system. Plus find out who is for your cause and vote them in.
I have been dealing with this situation for 4 years now and its really unfair how mothers use or hurt a child to try to do emotional pain to a father. In my case I doverced the mother, and she has made my life miserable using my child and the system, CPS, Friends of the family, Social Workers, etc... all against me .. SO I understand your point and hope to find help or tips to make this better for my little girl.
The courts must be held accountable for what they are doing to innocent children and parents. NO PARENT should ever be denied acess to their children unless they are found unfit in dependency court, yet judges often pick sides and violate the righjts of children and parents, this happens to as many women as it does men and its wrong no matter who it happens to. The courts are supposed to protect the best interest of the children NOT PICK SIDES. Family court reform is the answer,
Where I live, I was told that the family court system is meant to be harsh so that people will choose to mediate their differences. That often isn't the case. Either way, we agree that the system pits one parent against another. A system that typically favours the mother in custody issues. The statistics are overwhelming in that regard. This thread is filled with fathers denied access to their children. That said, family court reform is absolutely the correct path.
This is not a father or mother isue this is a PARENTAL RIGHTS ISSUE. The courts routinely violate the rights of parents without regard for the impact n the innocewnt children. I have been denied my children for 2 years in total violation of my civil rights the courts refusal to consider the rightsof parents and children is the problem, net the sex of the parent. Mother's and father's should be working together to reform the courts not blame the other sex. My story is on "mother on a mission"
The statistics indicate that far more men are denied access to their children. Your situation differs from the norm because of the judge. Most other cases are like mine. The crux of the situation is that children are being brought into an adversarial system that pits one parent against another. It's a child right as much as it is a parental right. You shouldn't have been denied the right to be with your children. I can see it's distressing and unfair to you and them. I wish you the best of luck.
I thought i'd watch this clip and realized that I am NOT alone on this legal matter. Of course my marriage didn't work, so be it. I only get to see my daughter 5 1/2 days out of the month, for "visitation"
Anyways, as things turned out the X lives with boyfriend and i am no longer recogized as the Father. Over and over again i'm denied visiation. But yea the courts are biased towards the women and i will keep on fighing for shared time with my 5 year old.
all women are whores..they get pregnant and when the child is born they tell the father to fuck-off and refuse him access..18+ years later the grown-up child wants to know why his/her father 'deserted' them..age-old scenario..it's the bitch mother's fault but the father gets all the blame and gets rejected..fuck-off whores
I share your frustration, if you could say that same thing without all the @#$%^& you probably have the best point on this blog. My 11 year old son is now mad at me after it has been his mother keeping me away. Can you believe that? Sounds like you have a story, please tell us!!!
This Thanksgiving is to be the holiday weekend for my son and me. But because that makes 3 weekends in a row with me and not with his mother, she told me over the phone that If I do not have him back by 4 PM on Thanksgiving Day for a high school football game that is to start until Friday -- he's a ballboy -- she has already told me that he will not be here for the holiday weekend. She told me to go ahead and file for contempt, adding how the court won't hear the case until after the holiday!
I just got screwed out of 1500 month when I only make 1200 month. I am going to lose my license, my two children that currently live with and my apartment. I am going to be neg 300 every month and I wont be able to afford my childrens healthcare. Any changes updates on these laws? no one to run to for HELP. I am sinking very quickly and my children as well as others are suffering. I am being forced to go underground and change my identity and become a criminal after I was doing so well.
No no Cris, don't become a criminal. That's a sure way of never seeing your kids, assuming that's important to you. You can appeal the support order in your local court. Dad's are getting worked over for sure, but if we stand together like you see here on this site, we'll force change. Hang in there!
hi there i am as well a father of 3 and too going through PAS. I agree with every statement you made. I hope the system changes so that the kids win in court not the moms and dads - THE KIDS!
i too am a victim of PAS, to have a woman poison the minds of our two children is wrong, its an illness based on power and money, to play chess with children lives against a father is child abuse, congrats on a great video.
Sir: I appreciated your lucid and well-spoken video post. Although I am not married, I think the problem is that too many women have a "fairy tale" view of marriage. And when it--God forbid--may go sour, these women in particular can develop very vicious and vengeful feelings. Shakespeare said "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". And it is a warning that needs to be well-taken by men. I hope things work out for you and your kids in all this.
Im a teenager of a broken family. Ive lived all my life thinking that I was the caused of this whole problem. My dad never visits my siblings and he also owe lots of child support money but I forgive him because I understand what he has been through. He is a guy who doesnt have the potential to be a father again to my siblings. I turned the blame on my mom. They both were never really there in my life, Ive always rely on my siblings for food and I seek wisdom from my uncles. Advice: Be there.
As a big brother to my siblings, the pain that I carry is almost unbearable. Ever since I was little Ive worried about money. Now Im concerned about how in the world is my mom ever gonna retire even tho its her fault. All my childhood days have been stripped. To my peers Im a social outcast. I hate myself n wished that my family would have been more harmonious then what it turned out to be. But I have faith that one day Ill be the father of my kids that my parents had never been.
and also i forgot to mention we have 50/50 but i only get to see my son 60 day out of 365 how fair is that or should i say how fucked up is that and this past summer she the mother of my chiled has dicided to take her vacation on my week end and as a result my son did not get to see me for a total of 7 weeks again the system alows it. shld i just give up and become a daed b dad?????it is painfull prossece and some time i wonder if it would no be easyer just to leave this placce
The situation you are in is very painful. As painful as it is, you cannot give up on your son. As a man, you need to set a good example for him by sticking with him through the hard times. I got a Father's Day card from my sons thanking me for "All the Lectures." Loved it. Boys really enjoy talking with their fathers. Focus more on your son instead of your ex and enjoy every second you get.
To advocate disobedience of authoritive government,is a no no by attornies.One whom does not have the ability to adhere to that in which is being demanded is not willfull.
But if one adheres it also means by participation one is submitting an aknowledgement,thus becomes a subject of that authority,even if it is wrong.
opposition is the only means for justice,otherwise it will go on and repeated injury is the result.
I've been through the hell hole of the UK family courts and come out the other side. STICK WITH IT! I had these thoughts as well but at the end of the day I love my daughter more than anything on this earth and always maintained the belief that she would want to know where she came from. It took me a DNA test, 5 years and 40+ court appearances obtaining 29 contact orders. I now have access to my daughter 3 weekends out of 4 in a month, Friday to Sunday. Now, they call me selfish!
NEVER GIVE UP! Those who DO finally give up might be that horrible overused word, don't let that be you. Join forces and keep up the fight, stay strong. Remember your kid needs you, he or she loves you. Find my group on Facebook and join us. (2♥ Children) TWO LOVE A CHILD - The Parental Allies for Children!
i am going true the same strugle a you and many other good dads and yes the legal system needs to change it yes not fair for the kids i have not had the chance to take my son to school with out have the mother interfiring and i could go ononon about how much damage that women is doing to our boy,and all of that for some unjustified reasons and there is nothing i can do to prevent that the system alows it i am just a father what can i do?????
After seeing this post and reading the comments I really do feel for everybody here who is denied access to their children by legal but unethical means. I am a single mum and have only denied my ex access in the beginning of our split when he used to turn up obviously stoned wanting to take our son out. Since then he has cleaned up his act and I have given him every opportunity to see his son but often he just doesn't turn up. So I want to applaud all of the men here who don't just not turn up.
Thank you.some have never been given a chance,to be a Father.
They are called an obliger,non-custodial,Defendent,or "Dead Beat Dad",which is the only time anything remotely associated to Parenting is used by the system,and it's used falsly in a way that epidemically creates an illusion of men.Men care,they love,their Heart breaks,they cry for what they have lost.
my chids mother denies me to see my daughter. she smokes crack blunts, drives around drunk with her in the car,and has felons up and around my child.what should if any thing can i do please comment.
Thank you for saying that.I agreed with what you said. I'm in a similar situation. Ongoing custody battle with my ex (1.5 yrs now), who has done everything she can to stop any contact with my son. I was primary carer for 2 years while she was studying full time, and have an excellent relationship with my son. There were 3 months when I didn't see him at all, didn't know if I would ever again.
Hey you ar a great man. All i have to say is why the hell are we Men not trying to change the system? we have the power, if all men stand together on this, then we can get rid of it!
5 years ago my brother wanted a divorce but stayed married. Now his daughter's 10 and he's not allowed to see her after his divorce a year ago.
I too want a divorce but I'm putting- up with my wife until my daughter turns 18... that's my plan anyway. I'm also going to school and don't have any girlfriends either. As a man I'm lonely but for now I do get to be a father.. God knows for how much longer.
Is it solution for divorced fathers in USA is to go to Mexico and marry a woman with kids?
I gave up thought of becoming a father!! Looking at the system and seeing what my brother is going thru along with many fathers out there, I don't want to be a father!!!!
I agree and I am also in a current custody battle with my EX-wife...Who is RE-Married and Pregnant again @ 37...And the best part is We 'all' live across the street from one another... Should'nt be a problem right? It is a problem for one simple reason..MONEY!
he makes a good point, the knock on effect, if the law denies access to your children,then generation by generation the role of the father will be watered down and disregarded,not appreciated till we are just personal fuckin banks.we created democracy,invented everything,build everything! women show sum fuckin respect,you wouldnt be the top of the food chain nor as advanced if it wasnt for us.the very language and rights you ae given we created by men
There needs to be a law that punishes the mother or alienating parent. A Law that requires them to pay for any and all counseling and family vacation needed to unite these children with their parents.
Hey man so many of us are going through the same thing, It is so strange!!!! I was going through this situation and didnt know what to call it, then I heard the term parental alienation on TV, did a google search and found so many of you with the exact same story as mine, and people who I have never met in my life!!!!!!! Amazing, As I begin to get public with my situation I found people who I am very close too going through the same thing but afraid to talk about it.
Oms this shit is so true
yourboykp2625 1 week ago
well done, thanks for posting.
yousuckatparenting 1 week ago
WLYB..................."This is the (equivalent of the) death penalty of a civil... case. What could be worse for a normal parent than to say you no longer have any rights to this child?"--Associate Appellate Court Judge Jennifer Bailey (4th DCA, Florida)
10 years 730+ entries and 4500+ pages.
The Family Court system is CORRUPT
newyeargg 2 weeks ago
Im going tru custody battle n the court system dsnt make sence. I file divorce bcause domestic violence, my soon to b xwife hit me. I live in d marital home, she in a shelter with no job. Court gives her temporary custody, how is that the best interest of the child? It took me 18 month to get overnight visitation due to her lies. Forensic doctor reported that share custody is the best option but im still on trial n i hav no acces to my daugther exept weekend. Dnt know her school, doctor, friends
elnelinqui 3 weeks ago
The more stories like this I hear, the more glad that I am to become an MRA
ApollosInsight 1 month ago
seen your video posted it on my facebook page "Occupy fathers rights". thumbs up
uplink010 1 month ago
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Here is an experiment:
1.Take any sentence made by a feminist that involves the word man.
2. Replace the word man with the word jew.
All of the sudden it sounds kind of racist right?
Feminism is not about equal rights anymore, its about demonizing men and promoting women regardless of their individual actions through hate propaganda.
Same methods as religious fundamentalism or any dictatorship of the past.
PendulumEffecter 1 month ago
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We treat feminism in the same way we treat racism,
We scrutinize any person for feminist opinion,
We refuse to cooperate with a person with feminist opinions,
We ignore and prevent any action from a feminist.
We defend ourselves together against any feminist attack.
We push back the pendulum to that of which feminism has crossed the line.
BUT WE DO NOT MAKE THE FEMINIST MISTAKE OF ATTACKING THE FEMINIST AFTER DEFEATED, WE ONLY BOYCOTT AND STEP AWAY TOGETHER.
PendulumEffecter 1 month ago
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Here’s an inspiring story of a man who, in 1930, demonstrated for the right to be a father father in Washington D.C. It is the earliest case of a public father’s rights protest I know of. James Welch: The Father Who Would Not Give Up” (with photos that will surprise you) @ The Unknown History of MISANDRY
pkpapers 1 month ago
Wipe your tears, take ur tampons out and get ur kids back I feel for u man shits not fair
kottino21 2 months ago
Your a fucking loser bro... Man up and go get ur girl back !!! You can do it for ur kids
kottino21 2 months ago
@kottino21
shut the fuck up HO...it's the fact that he hasn't been manning up that's why this ball shit court system has become this way. next time understand ppl's pain ya fucking douchesac
Sam10947 3 weeks ago
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ONCE UPON A TIME AGO THEY SAID
WHAT THEY WERE DOING TO MY DAD
WAS IN MY BEST INTEREST. . .THEY FUCKING LIED.
We know what you have been doing to our fathers
in your corrupt family courts you sick mother fuckers.
classaction666 2 months ago
I share my story and radio interviews... on my channel Daganerabus << Pls check it out. thank you. and the end result NOT posted yet... the Father has just been pronounced NOT GUILTY of any False allegations after HE called 911 To Protect his children. And after they were kidnapped by their mother. 9 months later! Read his story to on the available links. The beginning part.... thanks.
Larryshannon1976 2 months ago
Great job. But the question then is: what exactly needs to change with the court system? What did me in was the $60K in legal fees prior to our trial, and an estimated $100K+ for the trial itself. I simply could not afford this. Extortion. To answer my own question, rather than revamping the entire system, one simple thing needs to be done: automatic 50/50 custody. Period. If one parent wants less custody thats fine, but otherwise you get 50%. See my video.
father99782 3 months ago
Where have you been? With females the kids are always a pawn..a tool as you will to get what she wants. I am a mother of three wonderful kids and there father has full access and equal rights to our kids as I do. They are ours, not just mine and not just his. We had them together. Hell I dont agree with mothers rights....you've lots your mind saying that BS. Fathers is equal to the mother in all rights to the kids. The kids have rights to both parents....These mothers need to really think.
tracksanney 3 months ago
You speak from the heart with fairness in mind good sir. I applaud your openness and sincerity in delivering a carefully considered, selfless perspective of such a delicate subject. Regardless my friend, the judicial system and its succubus proponents (lawyers, ES's corrupt family courts etc..) generate billions per month on child support related counsel and proceedings.
Hi.
Moooo.
Cha ching.
I'm a cash cow.
Good luck to you sir.
spuriousyou 4 months ago
You are one cool dude and you are probably one cool dad. The courts should encourage dads to step up and give us a shot!!! This is why I think the courts
needs to feverishly enforce visitation orders just as they do with support!!! This is what I deem to be Equality.
Spadadiforza 4 months ago
Fathers are not being punished because of women's rights. Our government found a cash cow in our wives unhappiness with their marriages. This spin is perpetuated by all who have an agenda. The homosexuals have rights before Dads, the feminists have special privileges rather than equality. The law industry is pushing all of this crap
alldadsunited 4 months ago
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Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
smrfr 5 months ago
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Is like that saying, The Gov puts an innocent person in Jail or in Prison for a Crime that they NEVER had done nor DID, Just to see the OUTCOME of that Person?
Now we all know, Is NOT a good OUTCOME....etc
So, that's what the GOV is doing to US right now .... MEN'S, WOMEN'S ..... to all OF US !!!
Their USING and DOING the same thang/Experiment/Snow Balling Samplimg on us ......The Same Way.....LIKE
We're CRIMINALS!
THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE .. Direct Attorney ......Hell with the Jugde.
smrfr 5 months ago
Thank you for making this video. Could you please video respond to our channel with it? I think your message is very important.
UnPromisedLand 5 months ago
You want my honest opinion? Visitation? Do not involve the Court. Do not gloat, do not cross your ex, and do not send your child home bragging about how much fum they had at dads. Keep a low humble profile and never tip your hand on your personal life. I've made all these mistakes and had custody. Try arrange to pick up kids from school or places she wont be involved and lessen her opportunity to create a domestic disturbance situation you will lose. Yeah dumb like a fox.
atmdaddy 5 months ago
These Corrupt Collection Agencies / Extort Courts are well versed on deception and every dirty tactic imaginable. Destruction of documents, forging numbers, discrimination are just the tip of the iceberg Most men have NO clue what they're walking into and are ill equiped to even deal with the front counter goons let alone the robe wearing MAZIA behind closed doors. Most men dont realize they can wind up there for a child they never fathered and the extent of the corruption.
atmdaddy 5 months ago
women do not have to fight to be allowed to see their own kids.. But men almost always do, where is the 'equality' in that?... all men get to do is pay money to an ex and call that 'child support' oh well suuure thats what its intended for but men dont even have a say on how they spend the cash on the children and that allows the female to spend it on herself and not the kid. Shared parenting for mentally fit people should be a presumption from the start.
themaniusedtob 5 months ago 8
@themaniusedtob Visitation is a myth, I dont care how much you pay or how many attorneys one gets if the mother decides no then your beating a dead horse. There is no money in visitation and in fact these Courts tell mothers behind closed doors "If you let him see the child it will mean less money." Why? They risk losing 18 plus years of residual income and job security! Get it? Now it will make sense when you file for enforcement and the robe wearing nazi WILL attack you like a rabid dog.
atmdaddy 5 months ago
@atmdaddy well yeah i dont disagree with that i was just pointing out that its not fair that father have to fight to see their own kids while women can use the justice system in such a manipulative way just for their own gain at the expense of children.... i do know what you mean i undestand how the law works and thats why some things need to start changing and i advocate for that change.
themaniusedtob 5 months ago
@themaniusedtob That system is so beyond corrupt I honestly dont believe it can be fixed or fine tuned, it needs to be abolished, completely bulldozed just as they have done to fathers and innocent men and children. Bulldozed with no remorse/
atmdaddy 5 months ago
@atmdaddy honestly, I think you are right.. I mean, its not as if women dont have everything feminism said it was out to get and even more.. one of the many problems with most feminist followers is that they dont realize they just want more power then men without equally earning it.. hence the need for quotas..
themaniusedtob 5 months ago
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themaniusedtob 5 months ago
It's not a crime to be a man, It's a crime to have a Child........Period.
So, to those Young cats or Players, DON'T HAVE ANY KIDS!!
Even if that women tells "YOU" that your selfish, or that Monster -in-law "IS" asking and begging on her kness "FOR" a Grandchild.
Just walk AWAY, you don't even have to explain your self.....Just walk AWAY.
It's all about Money and more Greed and Selfishness, Now the ball(s) is in their courts....and their laughing behind your back.
Learn from me, Is ugly.
smrfr 5 months ago
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In Reality, an a Adult is 18 years Old.
They can DO what ever they Like or Want.
From Filming or making a Porn movie, Smoking MJ or Cig even Drinking a Beer.
Robbing or Kill someone, Drive any types of Car's.
Work/Job thats if thay want to, or Drop out from any School's?
Have a child with any or many partner's ?? Gay etc.
Do time in Jail or in Prison as an Adult.
BUT CHILDSUPPORT IS UPTO 21 YEARS OLD, BECAUSE THEIR CONSIDERD AS AN INFANT IN THE COURTS OF NYC ???.
That's not Reality.
smrfr 5 months ago
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@mc1dash1b So your saying, IS TO LATE just like EVERYBODY.....that bought A HOUSE or a CAR?
But aslong the deed is done, The situation. hAs to go on. All because Collateral Damage, That's was done by the GOVERMENT.
Look, If your a Spy ??
I wasn't in No Military to pay No CHILDSUPPORT!!! You feel me.
Hell with the EX and my SOCAL Daugther, I don't own theme SHIT......as well to the Goverment.
I've payed my TAXES...Fuck them.
Make them work ..on the BOOKS!!!
Like Hitler made those JEWS.
smrfr 5 months ago
The Sickness of Peasants, Pay your Childsupport, I can't take care of your Kids and My Husband.
smrfr 5 months ago
My socal daugther dropped out of school, and is working off the books, I've been paying this socal Childsupport payments for a good 18 1/2 years "my socal daugther is 19 y'o and a parent and works off the books", ----why off the books---"Why not pay taxes", Is just to proof to the courts, BY HER MOTHER. that my socal daugther is still living with her, just to collect childsupport. And the Jugde knows this.
Those are the part that hurts me.
Dropping out of school and not paying taxes.
smrfr 5 months ago
So, Is ALL the same game plan, "My socal daugther" Is going to do the same to her "Boyfriend(s)". All that I see ----------( IS NO ) --------- MARRIAGE, NOT WORKING ON THE BOOKS, NOT GRADUATING, NOT JOINING THE US FORCES.
She'll RUN to the courthouses, SOON - as HER mother did to me, She just took my INFO from My wallet and went to Court.
And Yes, That's my socal daugther and I do Hate her aswell as to her mother.
smrfr 5 months ago
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That's why I lost the trust and faith in the system and the sickness of peasants.
I don't and "YES" I lost that trust with my socal daugther.
I careless about HER MOTHER, she had the nerve to call ME - 7 seven - months later, JUST TO SEE IF ( I ) wanted to attend the babyshower.
But in between, My Ex - is married with more children's.
She's also work's off the books, and of course - welfare and on section 8.
smrfr 5 months ago
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In NYC is upto 21 y/o and that's another problem.That 18 y/o is an adlut, I don't know what anyone calls a 21 y/o person.
An infant??
I sit back and I tell my self, If I'm a Deadbeat socal DAD.
My socal daugther, wouldn't have any kids - NOT ON MY WATCH.
But is the GAMES, that these Sick Peasants LOVE TO PLAY, and past it on and to their CHIlD(rens).
I'll bet, her other TWO daughter that she has with her husband. won't get pregnant B4 ---- The age of 17.
smrfr 5 months ago
the epitome of stupidity!, and Archie Bunkers twin the judge Diane Thomas! If you live in Philly and have to go before her wear a blindfold! You'll have nightmares if you don't! We need to put this system on Blast and the judges who support it thru the News media!
cowboys2038 6 months ago
These family court judges are so willing to be willfully and woefully ignorant!!! And we need to put them on Blast! The whole Philadelphia,pa Family Court system is biased toward females. No matter what they do it's always the mans fault!!! In the phila,pa court system people like Susan smith and Casey Anthony are heralded as Heroes because they completely took away the child. That's how ignorant the Phila,pa system is!!! And 3 of the main culprits are Fern Caplan, Judge Doris peckurow who is
cowboys2038 6 months ago
Ken, I'm right there with ya brother..... The courts give leniency to moms and the KIDS are the ones who ultimately pay for it. Some women capitalize on this and MANIPULATE. My hands were the first to touch my son at birth. I did everything to provide as a dad and a husband. Courts need to REALLY be in it for the best interests of the children. Visitations should be enforced as vigorously as child support. Equality for the sake of the childrens well being is key here. I feel your pain.
Spadadiforza 7 months ago
Elected & Appointed Criminals & Perverts Who Enjoy
The Wages & Benefits of Legalized Human Trafficking
In The Courts Making Merchandise of Children.
44AlphaMale44 7 months ago
Sir,
I know this video was posted a few years ago, but i just watched it now. I can agree and relate to you 100%. I myself and going through the same situation. Of course there are no two custody situations that are there same, just as there are no two people that are the same. Like you said, i know and respect women have rights too, but what about us fathers?
thechad1371 8 months ago
5 feminazi so far
themaniusedtob 9 months ago 4
I actually started tearing up watching this. I just turned 21 in December , my daughter is six months old . My main fear is my daughter crying her eyes out when she sees me because she won't know who I am, or thinking I was one of those worthless dads that just run off and leave their children. My ex doesn't want me in my daughters life but with the shift she works only gets to see her 3 hours a day. All I want is 50/50.out of her 6 months of being in this world I have seen her about 20 days.
triggerjunkie08 10 months ago
HowIGotCustody dotorg ..................The ONLY way dads have a chance is to fight like this.
howigotcustody 10 months ago
i am going throught the same thing... its horrible. i love my children so very much and want nothing but the best for them. their mother on the other hand, has stated on several occasions she will not stop until i do not see my children at all. last weekend she asked if she could pick them up 24hrs before she is ordered to by the courts. i refused. she then filed for emergency custody siting "fears for their satety"... clearly she does not have the childrens best interrest at heart
armed2theteethH420 10 months ago
amen im going thru it now its a long story with me also
youngcerts1983 10 months ago
The judges know this. The lawyers know this. The police who are asked to enforce this know it. Everyone knows about this! How to stop this? Solution: Unite and speak with one voice!
FatherCanadian 11 months ago
your 100 percent correct and your words make me think of the same struggle my child is going through i feel the same as you and are going through the
same and to many children and to many fathers go through this thanks for sharing your words they are the words of a parent through the voice of a father
i support your words
pcanavan15 11 months ago
She jumped on me and her father pulled a gun on me. She filed a TPO and the police came to my house and almost shot me in the middle of the night. I went to court two times becuase she tried to have me locked up. Have not seen my son in almost two years. Justice really????
whateverhappened2 11 months ago
I absolutely agree with you. I believe that both parties should be held accountable an equal amount for there children. It is absolutely absurd the way the laws are written. Women should defiantly not use the gender bias court system to hurt there ex's by taking there children. That only hurts the child(ren), the child(ren)shouldn't have to grow up wondering why there daddy wasn't there as much as there mother. When in fact that was never what was intended. At least for me. I pleaded for 50/50.
trevorbenton58601 11 months ago
finally men are getting their balls back and learning how to stand up to women: MANHOOD101. COM
thenfm 1 year ago
Returning home from Iraq to my surprise I find that my wife had slept with over 20 men and made videos of these encounters. She hid or depleted over $500,000.00 I earned during my sacrifice to better my family. The courts then award her the home and everything in it forcing me to the street. The courts then award her custody of our son who wants to live with me. Now homeless, on disability, I hunger do to extreme amount of child support due. My crime? Surviving Iraq!
militaryvetandfather 1 year ago
The family court is an economy for marginal lawyers and judges. They are each a little bit of a person. Court order visitation has the enforceable value of toilet paper.
goodoldrebel8 1 year ago
The underlying issue here extends far beyond the court system. In the last few years efforts to destabilize society, demoralize the people and denigrate everything that's good, that works and that's just in this country has increased exponentially. Things are being consolidated and / or taken over from the TOP, DOWN, all across the country, at a faster rate than ever before; if not via ideology, race or religion, then with money. Children are always the #1 target / priority, women a strong 2nd.
regresseur 1 year ago
Everything he says is true. Battling in court for some men is impossible, or sould I say most men. After the extreme amount of child support we are ordered to pay, the courts tell us that, finacially, we can not afford to help raise our own children. My ex takes 72% of my income and I can't afford to eat and have to live with my father. What if I had nowhere to go?? Straight to jail. It also doesn't help that my ex's family is wealthy and can afford to throw millions at lawyers if needed.
PissRightOff100 1 year ago
The system on purpose, creates a state of war. It tries to make a winner and a loser. This almost never works. Here is what does work, men learn the law, most court rulings are void. Go make the courts get rid of this no win deal. Once the woman realizes she does not have the upper hand anymore, then a lot of the problems will go away. Once that is done, make a plan that not only takes care of your kids, but creates peace and gives the kids the chance to be sucessful in life.
unclefixer 1 year ago
I totally undertand you,my husband is still fighting,so unfair she desapeared with his boy we are looking for help he is 14 years old and he'd not seeing his father wonderful man , for more than a decade it's ridiculius and also how expensive costs are in order to prove the truth ,this is no right thank you for your video
ver2707 1 year ago
i think its an indictment against women that so many of them do try and poison their childern against their ex-partners for their own selfish reasons, without regard to the effect that this has on the child. maternal instincts my AZZ. im sure there are many men that would do the same...but unfortunately we will never know since the family kangaroo courts default custody to the owner of the vagina in 9 out of 10 cases for no other consideration. shame on the criminals and the enabling courts.
knowthingman 1 year ago
ok, im a girl, & a child of divorce, & i think its RIDICULOUS how women are pretty much automatically given custody of children. i thought feminism was supposed to erase gender roles? my dad paid child support up until this year when i turned 18, but it was never spent on me or my brother - just on mums botox & impulse designer shopping. dad even bought her a house, & she still bad mouths him & talks about how much she hates him. he just cant win.
xbegx1 1 year ago
i never got to put daughter to sleep ....my ex total custody
leftwingloc19 1 year ago
I feel this man's pain. Been there, done that. Now it's going to be a movie called "What Tigers Do." Would welcome any feedback from anyone -- men and women alike -- who have gone through anything like this as well.
TargetPractice08 1 year ago
I wish my dad would care so much about me.. you deserve to see your kids I support you 100%.
DoomNoMore 1 year ago
Your wife maluses your children.
DoomNoMore 1 year ago
This system has to change. I'm going to keep you in my thoughts.
HOODYWOODRECORDS 1 year ago
Kind of sad ... Why don't you cheer us up with more cover tunes from pink Floyd. I'm feeling your melancholy and it shows in your playing. I say just focus on your Floyd tunes and the rest will take care of itself..... I'm surprised she didn't stay with you just to hear your guitar playing..... Sad sad sad......
ThePigfloyd 1 year ago
I got 3 weekends per month 2 weeks during the summer every other holiday.....she works part time and gets her weekends off. Before it became the battle from hell, she said that she would never do this sort of thing and we would be 50/50 custody no child support.......No such thing in real life. I pay literally 75% of my income right now in support. They said 17% plus add-ons. Its all a game and no man can live on 25% of their income when its under 40K a year, I don't care how frugal you are!
13612 1 year ago
Im going thru this at the very moment and yhe mother is filing a fraudulent restraining order against me and to my knowledge i have not done anything wrong but go to the hospital or alcohol intoxication before my daughter was even born tho. my choice was to represent myself cuz i only kno she has nothing against me, its just the lawyer knows how to manipulate the court system, so well see what happens but im a man of my word..... Im representing myself!!!!!
G35Racer 1 year ago
well said, Mr. Bloggermouth. I feel you, my brother.
yellowtail3 1 year ago
Once a father receives less than 50%, he is no longer treated as a human being with natural rights. The exe’s boyfriend, lovers, the step-fathers all have more right than the biological father and they do not have to fight for it. Something must be done drastically. Maybe it is time to try the opposite either father's natural right for 50% equal time or 100% nothing. Men, please commit to never date, marry or lure a married woman or a divorced woman. This divorce market encouragement must stop
UltimateGoalOfLife 1 year ago
I can prove that my x cheated with over 20 men while i was in Iraq only to come home to depleted bank account and they gave her everything, and my son that wants to be with me is forced to live with a woman that could not care less about his well being. the courts broke every standing law to placate to her wishes. I have been made homeless and broke and they keep trying to toss me in jail.
militaryvetandfather 1 year ago
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Search thompson4justice to learn more about this country's corrupt court system, which is a taxpayer-funded system of organized crime that is accountable to no one. The Catholic priest scandal has nothing on the betrayals of public trust ocurring in our family courts where men are all criminals and women are all selfless, innocent victims.
papertiger1961 1 year ago
KIDS NEED THEIR FATHER. I AM A WORTHY FATHER AND MY SON NEEDS ME. I AM CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH A BATTLE AS WE SPEAK AND I WILL FIGHT TILL I DIE, BECAUSE I EXPECT THE SAME OF MY OWN SON. IT IS 50/50 BROTHER!
derek5271 1 year ago
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hahahah...."how do you treat your women?" have one of the brainless idiots that is US soldier in Iraq tell first encounter Muslim so he can reply and "how are you treated by your women?" like trash? hahahaha...It is time we brothers put the whores and bitches back where they belong in the kitchen...I mean in the Western civilization...
realdealforsure 1 year ago
hahahah...."how do you treat your women?" have one of the brainless idiots that is US soldier in Iraq tell first encounter Muslim so he can reply and "how are you treated by your women?" like trash? hahahaha...It is time we brothers put the whores and bitches back where they belong in the kitchen...I mean in the Western civilization...
realdealforsure 1 year ago
I have three children who are now 22, 20 and 17. My ex-wife moved out of state and I no longer have access to my 17 year old. This piece of shift has lied to every person she knows and has more rights than I do.
MrWhatstrue 1 year ago
Women always literally think that they OWN the children because they bore them..so what!! Fathers are actually more important than mothers because it's easier for a man to be both a strong father and be sensitive than it is for a woman to be strong and sensitive because women can't overcome their own emotions and can't think logically. That is why so many single mothers can't control their kids. My daughter has literally disowned her mother because she's seen how screwed up she is.
JediMasterRich 1 year ago
From a loving, caring Australian Father.
We too are suffering serverely from this injustice and cruel treatment against fathers. It seems this disgusting unequality is practiced globally.
I was a victim of alienation with my son being obducted. This is the silent torture of this and the latter of last century.
Very nice work with this video.
cogsism 1 year ago
bloggermouth. thank you for making this video. their are to Meany men and women that do not speak out at all. and wen we do not stand up for one another things become worse for all of us.
saxonhaste 1 year ago
I feel for you brotha, I refuse to have kids till my wife straightens up her act or I find the right woman
Krazie316 1 year ago 8
I think fathers would do better ignoring their rights and instead fight for Children"s right to have their father in their life (equal parenting time). Same destination, just a different path of getting there.
SHAME on our Family Court Systems
justsomefellow2 1 year ago 2
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justsomefellow2 1 year ago
Feminism is full of double standards. That "enlightement" you speak of is based on child-worship, a means to justify outrageous hardships placed on parents (usually men)
The court system isn't outdated, its specifically curbed to fuck men over.
luckyvet 1 year ago
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ContrarianExpatriate 1 year ago
These comments are really worrying me. I am most likely the father of an infant an ex-girlfriend just had and is insisting I'm the father. I have been there for her since she told me she was pregnant even though she knew I was skeptical about being the father. She has left me out of the pregnancy and didn't even let me know when she gave birth. I am in the process of trying to determine I am the father and to establish my parental rights if I am because she has left me off the birth certificate.
sidearmsalpha 1 year ago
Fathers are discriminated against, because they are men. That is what distinguishes fathers from mothers. Fathers are male. Mothers are female.
Trying to address issues of divorced fathers without talking about gender is like trying to deal with AIDS without talking about sex.
Everyone is more comfortable that way, but the discussion ends quickly.
proudguy 1 year ago
The current unjust laws of our federal and state governments only unjustifiably crucify "GOOD" men trying to be fathers. A movement has to take place to change laws to make this country just again not just in family court but in all aspects of OUR government this is OUR GOVERNMENT we are suppose to Govern it not outsiders doing things in a corrupt manner!
ashenmonkey27 2 years ago 2
You are not alone in . My husband is fighting for custody of his 5 yr. old son. The mother continueslly tries to brainwash the young boy against his father. Tragically, this 5 yr old is now displaying the early signs of PAS, (Parental Alienation Syndrome), wherein the child begins to campaign against the alienated parent on their own. The National Organization for Women dismisses PAS, bur believe me, it is very real and poses a horrible threat to our society's youth. Good luck and God bless!
Marielj79 2 years ago 4
The only rights a father has, is the right to remain silent..
lee5537 2 years ago
all i no is you better fight as hard as you can and then it might not work i see it all the time its not for men its about the money. i was a kid to i know them
galegregory97comcast 2 years ago 2
a society without greed would fix this "no money no problems" The Zeitgeist Movement.
hooplah1000 2 years ago 2
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*take back your balls and then grow a beard, eh*
gudguggerwugger 2 years ago
I refused to only see my Daughter 4 days a Month and pay. I felt accepting anything less than 50/50 is like I am accepting that I am not a good Father, and that is why I should not have the baby more than 4 days a Month.
Feminist Nazi law's+ my ex, told me take the baby 4 days a month and pay, I said:
I said I want to support my child, after all is about the child.
I know what u have been going through and I wish you good luck.
thestreetdogg 2 years ago 3
"bloggermouth" I can't really put a real prize but here a quick list.
To get equal custody it cost me: $30,000, plus 9 moths out of work, many days in Jail.(criminal charges dropped false accusation:judge said no crime was ever committed), I was 218 pounds, by the time I got the custody i weighted 185 pounds, I suffered great sleeping problems that caused depression, and eating problems.
I lost a leased almost paid Semi truck, and CDL+endorsements became useless.
thestreetdogg 2 years ago
well done bro.i am a young man but my child is my heart and its a shame that they are used as pawns and that is exactly how they are used by scorned women..its a shame...check out the song i wrote about my daughter..you may find it beautiful and totally relevant
markiss430 2 years ago
Well, this video definately and significantly makes you less retarded than I previously thought (and judged you by).
I agree with you 100% as I'm going through the same sort of thing you are. I'm adding this to my favorite's for sure, even though we're most likely on the opposite sides of the political spectrum, may even get a subscription out of me.
=P
turisas1234 2 years ago
My political spectrum is a rabid centrist because fringe dwellers of right or left are far too narrow minded to appreciate the true diversity of people. I'm a businessman smart enough to know that both government and big business are not always responsible to the needs of people.
I'm sorry that you have to go through this. Keep the peace for the sake of your children.
bloggermouth 2 years ago
We will not find justice at the hands of corrupt judges. (See YouTube videos) Judicial Benefits & Court Corruption Update / Evil Triangle of Court Corruption / Richard fine / Dr Shirley Moore slush funds /SBX 211. To end this title wave of corruption in our country must start with the corrupt judges. We can not bring evidence of corruption to corrupt judges. Los Angeles Superior Court judges are illegally and unconstitutionally taking 50,000.00 each for a total of 23 million per year.
danielcooper1000 1 year ago
Support groups? Are you kidding? Government funding and bureaucratic ineffectiveness that goes with it. More well-off pigs at the trough. Family Law takes place first at the legislature. You want change? Target the legislation and make both the right and the left feel the results in their bloated pocket books! (BTW., the IMF is selling 402 Metric tones of their gold reserves. That represents only 1/8 of their gold holdings. New ex-fathers will realize why that is important.)
111foreground 2 years ago
Can you shed a little light on the last comment?
dsalaam2001 2 years ago
We as fathers need to stick together and have these rights to be a father. I wish I could just be a father and leave the drama behind and focus on the future, but most women love the drama and will continue until they get what they want. I wish there were some support groups out there to be able to deal with things like this. My daughter can tell what is going on, but she cant make her decisions, we have to leave it to our curpt court system.
bustmybigload 2 years ago
I have been going to court for the last 2/12 years fighting for my rights as a father. I finally got what I deserved, and then had to go back to court, because my ex wife said I was hitting my kid, my kid is almost 3. What women get away with these days are fucked up. I never put my hand on my kid and Yet I have to fight to prove it. I am still going through bullshit and only see my kid for 45 mins a week, already $20,000 in the hole. Lawyers just want your money!!
bustmybigload 2 years ago
"bustmybigload" I know what ur saying about the lawyers. See by finishing ur case quick either way means less money for them. In fact sometimes Lawyers encourage parties to Fight because any fight makes them more money.
However, make sure u never tell ur Custody lawyers anything that he/she does not need to know. Never tell her that you would accept anything less than 50/50 regardless. Just say every time what u said since beginning.
Your attorney can be the biggest enemy and u wont know it.
thestreetdogg 2 years ago 2
I love this video.. very insighful. I wanna say over the past couple years I've had your video on my father rights mypace page. I like this video because you speak about your kids and not about woman or men, but as equal parental alienators... I hope all is well with you.
23angelo 2 years ago
I could only disagree with one statement regarding signed on for life. Support payers are excluded from the same adoption options as single mothers and intact families. Its clearly discriminatory.
111foreground 2 years ago
You are a perfect candidate for a non-custodial father because you are going to pay on-time and be there to support the kids. That is why you are catching hell in court. You are a NICE guy !!
gyamfio 2 years ago
Have your kids ever giving you a subpoena during visitation exchange? I've been Been there
mellymoke 2 years ago
Have it written in the court order:
"Neither parent shall disparage the other in the presence of the child.
mellymoke 2 years ago
Thank you sir. This makes me feel that someone is actually doing something about this.
bobbers7 2 years ago
Don't worry...there are women out there that sympathize with the impossible shake men receive in our culture---we just don't have a podium---check out my video--I think you'll appreciate it.
blandinthebasement 2 years ago
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I just heard something interesting.
On a given day, all fathers should stop paying child support untill the system is made fairer.
The system could not handle such a mass protest, and remember, each father is a vote.
No more to, FAMILY LAW, FAMILY WAR.... and mega rich lawyers!
Divorce is allowed to suggest all fathers are criminals. I think some fathers should be entitled to compensation for humiliation and lack of support by the state.
What do you think???
sosayus 2 years ago
Kids need BOTH parents!Only a bitch would use them to destroy the father!Been through it for years and see my children hurt by her game that the whole justice system,.sick psyco bitches!Hang in there and have no fear,jail is tmporary,love is eternal!!
lonewolf1264 2 years ago 2
Abolish "family court" and put it back to contract dispute standards. The moving party must PROVE their case TO A JURY, and the JURY sets the terms of settlement if the two parties cannot settle privately. Mediation must be required. Obstructive attitude should be punished. A party trying to use children to hurt the other should be stripped of their equity. Each party should submit a proposed settlement to the jury. No "judge" should have input or control. A judge is only a referee, not god.
tenbarrels5 2 years ago
This is exactly why your ex-wife got custody of the children in the first place. You're too reasonable and you would not create endless and profitable conflict for the agents of the court, as your ex-wife and most other women do. The court system is up to date and fine tuned to capitalize on families going through divorce. It must go, it's corrupted beyond repair.
AugustusAlfa 2 years ago 5
There is no such thing as too reasonable. I'd hate to think what it would be like if I was unreasonable with a vindictive ex wife who would jump at the opportunity to capitalize on the stereotypical outraged father and have me removed from my son's lives. I agree that family court disappears and a system put in place where reasonable people like myself can get a fair shake.
bloggermouth 2 years ago 2
@AugustusAlfa Exactly, you get it. Fathers and even alleged not the daddys have no business in these Extort Collection Agencies. From the second you walk in your Rights WILL be eroded intentionally and by well rehearsed design. Pit your meager earning against the $millions at their disposal? You ARE the enemy from the second you approach the counter or court room. Sit in their Office and just watch how many men come in and leave frustrated and castrated! I've seen it all and done it.
atmdaddy 5 months ago
I been through all that for over 8 years,false arrests[1 on videotape] and now it's worse,her boyfriend beat me [knowing full well I got stenosis in my spine]and broke my ribs,they lied and said he wasn't there!I got jailed 6 days for public nuicance,just got out of jai last week on false charges,women re DOGS!!!!
lonewolf1264 2 years ago
DOGS are gentle way to say about them.You see they are born INNOCENT, but it's their evil (already spoiled) guardians..turn them SPOIL. Have faith brother...it started with Eve..and it'll follow till the end of time. God is just...and these are just the situations he gave us as "TESTS". "LUCKY" & "UNLUCKY" all will be brought to the almighty's courtroom and be judged on that lucky Day Of Last Judgement. May the evil perish ASAP. Say "AMEN".
mowgli4peace 2 years ago
cant understand why parents dont appreaciate each other in child rearing. to stop someone mid way (this i have experienced) is to shock their system as yes we signed on for life. it is the monies. yes kids need dad. who else is going to protect them in this man's world? a second class woman? (this i have experienced also) not going to happen we paid less we pay less into tax system. courts dont recongnize us as having full rights.
mountain19 2 years ago
Thank you
rffjbanner 2 years ago
Women act like the children are 100% theirs and the maternal Grandmother's seem to have this bazaar notion too. What a turn off.
fraudbusteralert 2 years ago
We're kindfred spirits. So many of us MUST mob together to increase our mobs numbers. A bigger mob than crooked LawLIARs/Judges and those that choose to protect them. We must increase our numbers by so many more multitudes, because it's like we are in a war against judges and their supporters and protects... & stars *** * ***
eachtem 2 years ago
very well spoken I hope everything works out for you i am in the same situation and pray for you and all for the fathers who is living the same life and going trough hart times like this god help us all!
sellabombello 2 years ago
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CountArtha 2 years ago
Your's sir, is a most calm and eloquent message on a serious matter. I too am going through a similar experience with my ex-wife denying me access to our son. Recently a family court judge allowed my ex to move my son to another state, Ha!, now I have little chance of seeing him. Like you, I will not give up on my child. We must make an appeal to our political leaders and to the masses by using a cool head just as you have here. Thanks for taking the time to share your story.
thewholesalewizard 2 years ago
Bloggermouth...your commentary is the most truthful honest unbiased six minutes and forty five seconds I have ever heard on the blood sport of divorce.
Teddy6621 2 years ago
This doesn't just happen to fathers. I haven't been allowed to be in my son's life for the last 5 years due to his father's inability to let go of the past. Ever since the divorce 10 years ago, I have been an emotional wreck. I don't know if my problems with depression are the reason for my ex-husband's denial of visitation or if he is just being the same control freak he was when we were married; but this has had a serious impact on my life as well as, I'm sure, my son's.
pixygiggles 2 years ago
Hey everyone, please write your local and state governments. Matbe if we bug them enough they will change the system. Plus find out who is for your cause and vote them in.
owensgirl7 2 years ago
I have been dealing with this situation for 4 years now and its really unfair how mothers use or hurt a child to try to do emotional pain to a father. In my case I doverced the mother, and she has made my life miserable using my child and the system, CPS, Friends of the family, Social Workers, etc... all against me .. SO I understand your point and hope to find help or tips to make this better for my little girl.
Vriarios 3 years ago
The courts must be held accountable for what they are doing to innocent children and parents. NO PARENT should ever be denied acess to their children unless they are found unfit in dependency court, yet judges often pick sides and violate the righjts of children and parents, this happens to as many women as it does men and its wrong no matter who it happens to. The courts are supposed to protect the best interest of the children NOT PICK SIDES. Family court reform is the answer,
salomae1 3 years ago 5
Where I live, I was told that the family court system is meant to be harsh so that people will choose to mediate their differences. That often isn't the case. Either way, we agree that the system pits one parent against another. A system that typically favours the mother in custody issues. The statistics are overwhelming in that regard. This thread is filled with fathers denied access to their children. That said, family court reform is absolutely the correct path.
bloggermouth 3 years ago
This is not a father or mother isue this is a PARENTAL RIGHTS ISSUE. The courts routinely violate the rights of parents without regard for the impact n the innocewnt children. I have been denied my children for 2 years in total violation of my civil rights the courts refusal to consider the rightsof parents and children is the problem, net the sex of the parent. Mother's and father's should be working together to reform the courts not blame the other sex. My story is on "mother on a mission"
salomae1 3 years ago
The statistics indicate that far more men are denied access to their children. Your situation differs from the norm because of the judge. Most other cases are like mine. The crux of the situation is that children are being brought into an adversarial system that pits one parent against another. It's a child right as much as it is a parental right. You shouldn't have been denied the right to be with your children. I can see it's distressing and unfair to you and them. I wish you the best of luck.
bloggermouth 3 years ago
I thought i'd watch this clip and realized that I am NOT alone on this legal matter. Of course my marriage didn't work, so be it. I only get to see my daughter 5 1/2 days out of the month, for "visitation"
Anyways, as things turned out the X lives with boyfriend and i am no longer recogized as the Father. Over and over again i'm denied visiation. But yea the courts are biased towards the women and i will keep on fighing for shared time with my 5 year old.
dharmapunk76 3 years ago
all women are whores..they get pregnant and when the child is born they tell the father to fuck-off and refuse him access..18+ years later the grown-up child wants to know why his/her father 'deserted' them..age-old scenario..it's the bitch mother's fault but the father gets all the blame and gets rejected..fuck-off whores
9thprotocol 3 years ago 2
I share your frustration, if you could say that same thing without all the @#$%^& you probably have the best point on this blog. My 11 year old son is now mad at me after it has been his mother keeping me away. Can you believe that? Sounds like you have a story, please tell us!!!
thewholesalewizard 2 years ago
This Thanksgiving is to be the holiday weekend for my son and me. But because that makes 3 weekends in a row with me and not with his mother, she told me over the phone that If I do not have him back by 4 PM on Thanksgiving Day for a high school football game that is to start until Friday -- he's a ballboy -- she has already told me that he will not be here for the holiday weekend. She told me to go ahead and file for contempt, adding how the court won't hear the case until after the holiday!
1more4theroad 3 years ago
I just got screwed out of 1500 month when I only make 1200 month. I am going to lose my license, my two children that currently live with and my apartment. I am going to be neg 300 every month and I wont be able to afford my childrens healthcare. Any changes updates on these laws? no one to run to for HELP. I am sinking very quickly and my children as well as others are suffering. I am being forced to go underground and change my identity and become a criminal after I was doing so well.
cris6459 3 years ago
No no Cris, don't become a criminal. That's a sure way of never seeing your kids, assuming that's important to you. You can appeal the support order in your local court. Dad's are getting worked over for sure, but if we stand together like you see here on this site, we'll force change. Hang in there!
thewholesalewizard 2 years ago
hi there i am as well a father of 3 and too going through PAS. I agree with every statement you made. I hope the system changes so that the kids win in court not the moms and dads - THE KIDS!
alex312008 3 years ago
i too am a victim of PAS, to have a woman poison the minds of our two children is wrong, its an illness based on power and money, to play chess with children lives against a father is child abuse, congrats on a great video.
problemsincutex 3 years ago
Sir: I appreciated your lucid and well-spoken video post. Although I am not married, I think the problem is that too many women have a "fairy tale" view of marriage. And when it--God forbid--may go sour, these women in particular can develop very vicious and vengeful feelings. Shakespeare said "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". And it is a warning that needs to be well-taken by men. I hope things work out for you and your kids in all this.
zooeyhall 3 years ago
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Hey jackass! Have you grown up and pulled out of the legal system yet? Or are you still torturing your kids with your stupid vendetta?
686dsx 3 years ago
the selfish one is the one that is no spending time with there kids you are doing the right thing my men and you have my love and support f---- them.
jaidenthe 3 years ago
Im a teenager of a broken family. Ive lived all my life thinking that I was the caused of this whole problem. My dad never visits my siblings and he also owe lots of child support money but I forgive him because I understand what he has been through. He is a guy who doesnt have the potential to be a father again to my siblings. I turned the blame on my mom. They both were never really there in my life, Ive always rely on my siblings for food and I seek wisdom from my uncles. Advice: Be there.
KmkzA09 3 years ago
As a big brother to my siblings, the pain that I carry is almost unbearable. Ever since I was little Ive worried about money. Now Im concerned about how in the world is my mom ever gonna retire even tho its her fault. All my childhood days have been stripped. To my peers Im a social outcast. I hate myself n wished that my family would have been more harmonious then what it turned out to be. But I have faith that one day Ill be the father of my kids that my parents had never been.
KmkzA09 3 years ago
and also i forgot to mention we have 50/50 but i only get to see my son 60 day out of 365 how fair is that or should i say how fucked up is that and this past summer she the mother of my chiled has dicided to take her vacation on my week end and as a result my son did not get to see me for a total of 7 weeks again the system alows it. shld i just give up and become a daed b dad?????it is painfull prossece and some time i wonder if it would no be easyer just to leave this placce
jaidenthe 3 years ago
The situation you are in is very painful. As painful as it is, you cannot give up on your son. As a man, you need to set a good example for him by sticking with him through the hard times. I got a Father's Day card from my sons thanking me for "All the Lectures." Loved it. Boys really enjoy talking with their fathers. Focus more on your son instead of your ex and enjoy every second you get.
bloggermouth 3 years ago
To advocate disobedience of authoritive government,is a no no by attornies.One whom does not have the ability to adhere to that in which is being demanded is not willfull.
But if one adheres it also means by participation one is submitting an aknowledgement,thus becomes a subject of that authority,even if it is wrong.
opposition is the only means for justice,otherwise it will go on and repeated injury is the result.
hittingrabbit 3 years ago
I've been through the hell hole of the UK family courts and come out the other side. STICK WITH IT! I had these thoughts as well but at the end of the day I love my daughter more than anything on this earth and always maintained the belief that she would want to know where she came from. It took me a DNA test, 5 years and 40+ court appearances obtaining 29 contact orders. I now have access to my daughter 3 weekends out of 4 in a month, Friday to Sunday. Now, they call me selfish!
dan25london 3 years ago
NEVER GIVE UP! Those who DO finally give up might be that horrible overused word, don't let that be you. Join forces and keep up the fight, stay strong. Remember your kid needs you, he or she loves you. Find my group on Facebook and join us. (2♥ Children) TWO LOVE A CHILD - The Parental Allies for Children!
mrd00d 3 years ago
i am going true the same strugle a you and many other good dads and yes the legal system needs to change it yes not fair for the kids i have not had the chance to take my son to school with out have the mother interfiring and i could go ononon about how much damage that women is doing to our boy,and all of that for some unjustified reasons and there is nothing i can do to prevent that the system alows it i am just a father what can i do?????
jaidenthe 3 years ago
After seeing this post and reading the comments I really do feel for everybody here who is denied access to their children by legal but unethical means. I am a single mum and have only denied my ex access in the beginning of our split when he used to turn up obviously stoned wanting to take our son out. Since then he has cleaned up his act and I have given him every opportunity to see his son but often he just doesn't turn up. So I want to applaud all of the men here who don't just not turn up.
Sangra1l5 3 years ago 2
Thank you.some have never been given a chance,to be a Father.
They are called an obliger,non-custodial,Defendent,or "Dead Beat Dad",which is the only time anything remotely associated to Parenting is used by the system,and it's used falsly in a way that epidemically creates an illusion of men.Men care,they love,their Heart breaks,they cry for what they have lost.
hittingrabbit 3 years ago
As a victimised parent myself facing this problem in Singapore, I am really grateful you put up this great video and I salute you man!
To all parents undergoing this trauma : Keep fighting, God will see us through.
ykmsp 3 years ago 2
my chids mother denies me to see my daughter. she smokes crack blunts, drives around drunk with her in the car,and has felons up and around my child.what should if any thing can i do please comment.
dnice14304 3 years ago
Thank you for saying that.I agreed with what you said. I'm in a similar situation. Ongoing custody battle with my ex (1.5 yrs now), who has done everything she can to stop any contact with my son. I was primary carer for 2 years while she was studying full time, and have an excellent relationship with my son. There were 3 months when I didn't see him at all, didn't know if I would ever again.
Richard
MooMonkeyMan 3 years ago
Hey you ar a great man. All i have to say is why the hell are we Men not trying to change the system? we have the power, if all men stand together on this, then we can get rid of it!
cortezfu2 3 years ago
5 years ago my brother wanted a divorce but stayed married. Now his daughter's 10 and he's not allowed to see her after his divorce a year ago.
I too want a divorce but I'm putting- up with my wife until my daughter turns 18... that's my plan anyway. I'm also going to school and don't have any girlfriends either. As a man I'm lonely but for now I do get to be a father.. God knows for how much longer.
Is it solution for divorced fathers in USA is to go to Mexico and marry a woman with kids?
danieltheteacher 3 years ago
I'm with you (all the good fathers) who are facing this oppression by women & the bad court system!!
Morrisman27 3 years ago
I gave up thought of becoming a father!! Looking at the system and seeing what my brother is going thru along with many fathers out there, I don't want to be a father!!!!
Morrisman27 3 years ago
I agree and I am also in a current custody battle with my EX-wife...Who is RE-Married and Pregnant again @ 37...And the best part is We 'all' live across the street from one another... Should'nt be a problem right? It is a problem for one simple reason..MONEY!
completecooley 3 years ago
he makes a good point, the knock on effect, if the law denies access to your children,then generation by generation the role of the father will be watered down and disregarded,not appreciated till we are just personal fuckin banks.we created democracy,invented everything,build everything! women show sum fuckin respect,you wouldnt be the top of the food chain nor as advanced if it wasnt for us.the very language and rights you ae given we created by men
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greggprovenza 3 years ago
I hope you get your kids back!
sylviesangels 3 years ago
There needs to be a law that punishes the mother or alienating parent. A Law that requires them to pay for any and all counseling and family vacation needed to unite these children with their parents.
TBozz2003 3 years ago
Hey man so many of us are going through the same thing, It is so strange!!!! I was going through this situation and didnt know what to call it, then I heard the term parental alienation on TV, did a google search and found so many of you with the exact same story as mine, and people who I have never met in my life!!!!!!! Amazing, As I begin to get public with my situation I found people who I am very close too going through the same thing but afraid to talk about it.
TBozz2003 3 years ago