THE NEED TO BE NEEDED

[ainafetse92]

dude you annoyed me at the beggining and then I realized you were pure knowledge and pure light, so um....thankyou you taught me quite a lot, first not to judge by the fucking cover, second, not to think of myself as a victim as it was actually me who enabled the entire situation and third, well...yea just thankyou i guess...:)

[megamatt53]

at least she is good looking.......i would let her co- DE- pend on me ;) you know what im talking about

[TheDonny2]

great work thanks so much well said you go girl feel the love with in . Donny Schlegel

[SuperDrumsforever]

Great information. Thank you so much.

[mashtee2003]

Your charismatic way of expressing yourself has helped cure my Erectile Dysfunction! Thank you! :-)

[thebiffwalters]

She's way gorgeous!

[savanah626]

Without the certainty of Gods love in your heart, one will always look for an external person, place or thing to validate them Jesus loves us all just the way we are.

[MrNightshade69]

thank you

[matt7879]

Your right, It kills me but your right.

[cozyfoxstudio]

I have been listening to the co dependant stuff and no one should be abused but when two people fall in love and they get used to each other and comfortable then you decide to dump the guy because your needs arent being met. Why dump the guy? Why not just go meet your needs with him? How is he co dependant for hurting so bad? How come you are not a selfish bitch? If was cheating on you would he be able to claim he was just meeting his needs? Is there no such thing as loyalty? Or love & devotion?

[resonantdave]

As a shaman this is one of the main "root causes" I see for other issues. Its all interrelated however. A huge factor in boundaries is also compassionate neutrality, which is usually overlooked. Compassionate sacrifice is considered a moral, a virtue, mandatory. This means that we place value on feeling bad for others, and feel guilty about boundaries. The TRUTH is that we should help others only because it feels good when we do and not because it feels bad when we don't.

[Xephon212]

I really enjoyed and benefited from your video. One suggestion: Please reconsider the music in the beginning, it caused me difficulty to hear you.

[humbletim10]

its easy to feel secure in yourself when you're hot, have huge breasts and a perfect smile.

thats what it comes down to guys. period. thats just it.

[whoizthavuchyld]

. . . i think another part of co-dependency is a result of low self esteem and confidence and trying to find an identity through someone else . . .

[TheUketube]

she annoys the fuck out of me. but she speaks the truth.

[LVLOUD]

I appreciate your raw honesty ;) and the add to your favorites list! ~Blessings~

[cozyfoxstudio]

@TheUketube if she told yhe truth she'd say she used the poor bastard the feel good about herself then dumped him for a better deal then blamed codependancy for her irresponsible, i need more refusal to accept responsibility for the trust she built and was too weak to work through.

[sentenio]

Love is Light

[4359634]

I believed, I fell in love with her, in reality I

fell in love with that need to be needed.

It was so unhealthy that I completly lost my own identity. Now, she's gone & I'm trying to dig myself out of the hole I put myself in.

[phoenixhoneybee]

Aloha!

Thank You.

[brollicon]

great vid excellent advice

[Gorilon44]

Thanks!! Im a co-dependent with my wife!!

[justlovingme]

Thank you so much for posting this. Your insight is truly valuable!

[poelover37]

Very good advice! Thank you for posting this. Also, your sister has a very good voice. You must come from a very functional, goal-driven family.