How To Heal Your Relationship After Your Partner Cheats

[maudlinragdoll]

They make it seem so easy and unemotional. People can get past affairs, but only if both partners are actually committed to doing so. If the cheating spouse won't give up the affair partner or commit to counseling or tries to make the loyal spouse think it's all in their head, it's unlikely that such an amicable conversation is going to happen. It's the cheater's fault for cheating, period. But, both spouses contribute to problems & both need to fix 'em. This video should address obstacles, too.

[USERNAMEKLEMPTOR]

step 1: SLAP THAT HOE

[fishehfishehofdeath]

who would debate whos fault it was!? If he cheated it was all his fault!

[AceHalford]

There is no forgiveness after cheating, dump them straight away -_-

[FantasmaLuna]

Uh, bullshit. Dump 'em.

[MultiBrenda1970]

why does it have to be a guy

[TheEccentricKitty]

@MultiBrenda1970 In the other video, the girl cheated.

[14lanicup]

@MultiBrenda1970 it was a girl in the i cheated video

[TheWish11eleven]

this actually does help me..

[silverboyzzz]

Don't ever take them back. Get real, you'll never forget and will never trust them. Relationships are like cars, you can always "fix" them but sometimes it's a write-off and not worth fixing. Take a cheater back and you've just taught them it's okay to cheat on you again. The spots on the leopard don't change!

[silverboyzzz]

I took the car away and moved out. I cleaned out 50% of the money in the joint account, cut her off credit cards and line of credit, forced her to sell the house, cut her off medical and dental benefits from work and from car insurance. Got a lawyer and started the divorce process. Told everyone including her parents she had an affair. Had a few rebound girls for some fun. Got a new woman and have been happy for the last 5 years! Life goes on and you will survive. Don't ever take them back!!!!!!

[hairspeaks]

the first 2 comments lol

[BlizzardIceFox]

*hug at the end* Awwww BULLSH*T!

[WebkinzAnimania43]

Step 1 = Sing "Should've said no" by Taylor Swift

[Hablachuga]

I hate myself

[opendtuning]

if you want to use excuses for not leaving your cheating partner then cheat on them as well and even things up a bit that will make the union more bearable...in life it all comes down to one thing,at the end of the day whatever happens we have only ourselves and have to be true to ourselves. Real love means that I don't have to be with that person to love them but having to be with them is co-dependence...they are two different things!!!

[Drag2hand]

Or, you could just be loyal and not cheat. Then you wouldn't have to worry. Or If it wasn't you, just leave them. It will most likely happen again.

[rasmi1234561]

Once broken impossible to amend.

[BobChimichanga]

wow this video showed up as recomended for me because i watched how to escape a chokehold...WOW

[Beaverfishpwns]

Isn't this the girl that cheated on her partner later on?

Lol this is tottaly the best howcast couple.

[dominika668]

MOVE ON AND ENJOY LIFE

[PinoKakelkip]

'Don't waste energy arguing about who's to blame for the affair, instead focus on figuring out together why it happened'

Am I retarded or is that exactly the same thing?

[miniimee1100]

@PinoKakelkip lmao that's what i was thinking 

[Magith1]

@PinoKakelkip It's just you.

They're similar but not the same.

[anianivicvic]

But n the previous video SHE cheated on HIM

[XxDummehxd]

i would dump there ass right there i wouldn't talk that shit out that's plan stupid and dumb i would move on with my life and them to.. that's easy to do move on with life not cry over him/her

[Demonic666ash]

there really isn't a way to 100% fix a relationship after they cheat : \

[Kingjay144]

Good thing I'm bilangual in english and in french XD

[tomacalin86]

That's it, I am moving to France... crap, i dunno the language...

[bananerx3]

people who take back cheaters are pathetic.. have some self respect and leave the d-bag

[SuzumiyaHaruhi0]

YOU ARE LOVELY !

[sr388samus]

have some self-respect... if they cheated it means they don't care... move on and quit being pathetic...

[sr388samus]

hasn't this been done already...?

[poly501]

gosh! if he did it once,obviously hes gonna do it again later on...i can forgive him, but he's soooo OUT!

[thwipp]

you will need:

to fuck their best friend

[Jonikiwi]

hahahaha best coment i´ve ever seen XD

[RETARDZfull]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FIXED MY LIFE SO MUCH

[TheFoxAcount]

HAHAHA!:D

[TheElectricDreamer93]

If they cheat on you, then you don't want the fucker back.

[taziy1]

the best way leave her/him and a better future awaits you !!

[MasterREB]

Wow she was really pretty :-D

[izzygraze]

Yeah...if he's carrying around his mistress' panties then I'd say he's not serious about the relationship...

[stfuslimo]

of course, if he was serious he would leave it at the womans house lol

[xoANONiMUSox]

if he/she cheated, he/she will most probably cheat again! - move on..

[jgstargazer]

It's a tough one. It takes a keen eye to spot the one who is not into all the noise and glitter before you start a relationship. This will improve your chances of staying together with the "love of your life".

[LeksServices]

The decision to dump someone for cheating would seem obvious to some people, but those people live in a blissful world unaware of the way things really are. If you can make the decision to throw someone out of your life so callously, then you really didn't like them to begin with. Caring about someone enough, and if they care about you enough, may make it more rewarding to repair the relationship. It's never as cut and dry as it seems.

[MsMercury]

@LeksServices A few years ago I would have seen it cut and dry but you are right. I've found this out the hard way. It's hard to walk away from 18 years.

[gonzo191]

bullshit burn dat bridge as soon as dis shit happens

[MusicGiver2]

Relationship should end if spouse cheats.

Though :o its less worse when a guy cheats, just something about a woman cheating stings more

[MsMercury]

@MusicGiver2 I disagree. I am a female and can't imagine anyone hurting more than this.

[ritah2004]

"They should be very open and honest about how they're spending their time." yeah, right :p

[cutiepiedev]

step number 1. DUMP HIM/HER

[tripleggozzillionair]

just telll the chick 2 go fuck her self if she catches you cheeting

[MsMercury]

@tripleggozzillionair You are a piece of shit.

[hobonhan999]

what is monogamy?

[lovablemein3d]

One mate for your whole life (only a few mammals do it in nature)

[hazelnut1593]

it's when you only have one partner.

[anthonym2121]

the guy looks like a douche

[Noobsrock9]

He/She Cheated on you, he/she probably doesn't want to be with you anymore So just let he/she go. =\

[Chocolate6mac8]

or he/she is just a whore.... lolz or just too weak to restrain from impulse!

[willluvsthe411]

WILLLUVSTHE411 HERE ON YOUTUBE!!!

[OS253]

There's two kinds of people I hate. Liars and cheaters! You can deal with a cheater by kicking him/her to the curb. But liars are a different story.

[poorlilboy54]

that dude must be gay to cheat on her... shes hot

[jungenbum]

SPREAD THE SEED AS MUCH AS YOU CAN!

[TheAlmighyShia]

Part of me wants to say just leave someone who cheats on you behind, but the other part of me knows that you can make it work and be happy. My mom gave my step-dad another chance after he cheated and moved in with his little girlfriend, and they are really happy now. They even laugh about the crazy bitch.

[xanatose]

Dont waste time.

A person that cheats on you is a person that: A. does not respect you. B. Cannot be trusted.

Why will you like such a person at your side?

[keniammelo]

I agree 100%.

[Ganxiba]

5th!

[Younowkoed]

This is stupid, its like trying to be mates with your best friend again after hes been banging your bird.

[rockinsushi]

shes like,hot man... but what should u do if ur partner is trying to hurt you. or if ur in an abusive reationship?

[ColorfulNails]

who would ever cheat on HER?

[RaiderBoneDude]

interesting...