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  • lol No wonder you're so ugly!

    God, why can't people just be happy with who they are instead of spending a shitload of money trying to be something they're not? You're not a woman, You're a Man with boobs

    lol and I bet you're so insecure that this post will have to be "Approved" to be posted

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  • So your a lesbian trans sexual woman?

  • i want you to think of it like this. if you died in the woods and enough time had gone by to decay your flesh and clothes and they found your skeletal remains... would they claim you were a woman or a man? bone marrow would contain DNA having an XY gene and your public arch would be less than 90 degrees. You can modify yourself all you want but you are hiding empirical fact. You can never and never will be a real woman. Always an immitation.

  • I think you are a beautifull person, im not traz, but i am gay. when i was a kid vidos like yours and people like you helped me. keep speeking truth. YOU GO GIRL! :)

  • Okay, so do you like Gay men, or Straight men, or girls?

  • People know what gender they are, deep inside you KNOW. It is possible to be born in a male body but know that you are really a female. Just because you were fortunate enough to not be born into such a confusing situation doesn't mean it doesn't exist and they deserve to do whatever it takes to make themselves comfortable with the gender they are supposed to be. She CAN be 100% woman because that's what she really is. Some women may be born without ovaries but that doesn't make them not a woman.

  • Gender isn't between the ears it's a word or term stating biological status. I hope some day boys can wear dresses and do things that society defines as "feminine". Instead of trying to fit in with the ideas of others you really could've been brave and been yourself without conforming to society's beliefs on gender specific behaviors. Society has limited views on what behavior is masc or fem. We've lived in a repressed society with ideas that reinforce hating people who do not conform.

  • My behavior is closer to that of a gay man but if I took hormones and mutilated my chest I would still not be a man because how could I know what that is? You're fooling yourself if you think you're a 100 %woman. You do not have ovaries or a uterus. Man and woman is a genetic term that doesn't define me or my actions. How can one person say they know what it is to be someone else. I can never be 100 % man and the same goes for you. I'm not trying to be hurtful. I wish you happiness.

  • You ask for acceptance from others but you couldn't accept yourself as who you were. Gender should be a biological term that doesn't isolate behaviors to one sex. It upsets me that you think that mimicking female actions and genitalia makes you a real woman. I''m glad you are happier but you are reinforcing that "female" and "male" is defined by make up clothes and quilting etc. You are limiting yourself by defining a woman or man. Drop the pronoun and be yourself.

    Acceptance over mutilation?

  • @missqueenbean420 let me be clear here. the reason why you are the highest rated comment is because people with insecureties 'want' to identify themselves with your perfect sketch about what the world should be. and yes i do aggree with you on the be yourself matter and the acceptence of everyone. however sadly, acceptance on the transgender or gay matter will never establish in this society. also 'being yourself' as a transgender or gay person is a taboo in this society.. get real please.

  • @squirtleenblastoise

    It's sad that what your saying is true because society is so limiting with their views but we have to start somewhere and if my comment is being rated highly its because others want people to be themselves too and that's a positive sign showing that society might change someday. I want people to be happy without mutilation. Just like I wish women didn't need to get breast implants I don't want people paying to cut up their bodies to match societal views. Peace

  • @squirtleenblastoise Also I'm Canadian and gay marriage and civil rights are respected here. Even though I wish people wouldn't mutilate themselves I still support their right to do so.

  • @missqueenbean420 "sex" is the biological term, but gender is what you identify yourself as. people can't control if they are transgender, so they can't just "accept" who they were born as, per se. one way to understand how it feels to be trans is imagine one day you wake up and you have had a full on sex change. being called he instead of she, now you have to dress a certain way, have your hair short and whole long list of other things just to be accepted by society.

  • @missqueenbean420 continued: she isn't re-inforcing gender roles and stereotypes of what you are supposed to do to be a man or a woman, but instead just doing what personally makes her feel feminine. not every trans woman will feel the need to wear makeup or a skirt to feel like a girl, but it varies from person to person.

  • eat more.

  • do you have friends who are girls? do you also date girls?

  • i see a goblin in this movie STFU BOY

  • your a dude?

  • @iphoneguy2012 I think you mean "you're"

  • u need to eatttttttttttt

  • @allisme11 Lots of people like thin girls.

  • @allisme11 (s)he thinks straviming him/her self will make her/him look like a a girl

  • @ChristinaWolfle It's a she asshole! respect that.

  • i love all your videos every one of them opens me to more love for you and what you have the courage to do

    maybe one day I'll have courage/cash

  • Awesome VLOG!!!!!

    Would love to chat as a fellow TG woman!

  • Your voice sounds pretty female. Does the estrogen do that?

  • @hac1m good question, no testostrone makes the voical coirds grow longer, but estrogen will not make them shrink. The best silioution is to learn to only use half your voical coirds, there is surgeries as well, but they rarely have good results.

  • Can I ask a question?

    You mention in a few of your videos how you were raised a boy, and I've seen written many places and strongly believe the slogan "Raise boys and girls the same." Do you believe that? You obviously have a strong sense of gender identity (I don't think I do, or I'm not aware of it) so I'd be really interested in your perspective. The slogan is so easy, but the reality doesn't seem so straight forward.

  • @rabbit I Think there are many things affected by our gender and even in a house hold that are "raising them the same" there is going to be differences, mostly sub concuse. I remember my kindergarden teacher always telling me so nicely that boys don't play tea party with the girl and rushing me of to play with the trucks. she did propably did not even think about it that much, just trying to keep order, But I learned right there that girls were different and I was not in the club and I should be

  • @fireflygirl246 That's so sad :( Any of my friends with little boys say they naturally want to play with trucks. I used to play with probably equal part "boys" and "girls" toys, I was even told teddybears were for boys! But anyway that doesn't matter.. no one should tell a child they can't play with what they want or that their interests somehow make them different!

    She probably thought she could nip it in the bud and save you a difficult life. But we all of us are what we are.

  • @rabbitwho I actually always had the feeling that it was less to do with me playing with the boy toys vs girl toys and more about play with the boys and not the girls and behaiving like we expect boys to behave and not how girls behave.

  • you look and sound like my nanna.

  • you are stupid mscurvy fuck you that is really real there is a 7 year old that says the same thing that she is a transgender fuck you seriously shut up and i don't care what you say

  • You are SO cute!!! =)

  • Say what? intellect...

    You better keep quit then mscurvy! Cuz that is something you seem to lack of!

  • ^_^

  • Huh? 24 years old ?

  • yeah it about how you think and she thinks like a girl and feels like a girl.

  • wow to you mscurvy you are an ignorant person who puts shame on all women, trans or not, all over the world.

  • Obviously you DON'T know any better, considering the fact that you can't seem to comprehend the scientific facts behind transgender individuals. Their minds are that of the opposite sex they were born as. That makes them emotionally and mentally the opposite sex. The outward appearance is only to make it obvious to the world and to make them feel more complete. And if you can't understand that, why were you watching this video? To make her feel bad about herself?

  • If you disagree with this why did you watch the video? Coming across it by accident doesn't mean you are obligated to watch and then to sit there and talk shit to her...for what purpose? if it makes her happy let it be! Im sorry that your life is so miserable that you feel the need to disturb others.

  • No mscurvy,

    this actually is a girl. this is a very true girl and honestly, u dont know anything about her and her sex, so dont dare to try to tell she is a boy, cause SHE DECIDED for her REAL gender.

  • icecoldbath: u are awsome, and everything u do in here is an inspiration for everyone who is struggling the same way all transgenders do. im just a average boy - not transgender - but i honestly admire everyone who wins the fight against circumstances and believes in his true gender. Baby, U ROCK!

  • @mscurvy You're a dumbass!

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  • god is cruel eh.

  • abovecrazykid... you are one sad lonely little nobody, go get a life!

  • I think she is painfully aware of this, i think she will carry that pain with her for her whole life. Check out her video "baby shaped hole".

    would you consider a woman that has had a hysterectomy any less of a woman. Gender is between the ears, study after study shows that trans women brains are closer to born females brains, it is literally a female brain trapped in a male body. A woman is what is between her ears, not what she was born with between her legs.

  • abovecrazykid- Hehe my grandma doesn't either!

  • Go girl!

  • 100% confused... please stop trying to keep the tone of your voice on a high pitch and just talk naturally,,, you'll see what comes out. ;-)

  • why is your voice so squeaky

  • She is becoming/is a female and takes pills and stuff to change her voice, eventually it should even out..

  • your beutiful the way you are. ppl shouldnt say others are ugly.

  • if children don't want to see things like this then they won't watch it but stopping children learning about being gay lesbian or MTF or FTM is not a good idea and as for the parents they can get over them selves

  • People vlog about their life all the time, or about normal things they do. She is talking about what she is doing. Just because it's not appropriate doesn't mean it's not happening.

  • i dont mean to be rude ashley but do you have an eating disorder? youre like dangerously skinny babe. Also, did you have a procedure done?

  • lustit-Some straight guys DO date trans girls, most gay guy would NOT want to date a trans girl.

  • Thank you for speaking your truth, I enjoyed hearing you......Bill M.

  • Your beautiful in the way you act, not the the way you look but still you look good

  • you are the cutest girl!

  • She's actually not ugly. I'm guessing your main reason for saying that is that her body was technically male. So she is actually a stereotypical cute girl!

    Why bother throwing shit around. Nobody gets anything positive to read your demeaning comments, as they are useless.

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  • stay beautiful :)

  • God, you seem like such a beautiful person! Good luck to you.

  • soo...

    whats a transwomen exactlyy ?!

  • you've only been transitioning for one year!!?? wow you've really been successful,

    love your vids, well-said!

  • you rock!!!

  • I know that is a rude comment as we look at it but the fact that there is that question shows that there is progress in this persons life in the right direction... You turned out very well I might add looking forward to looking back myself!

  • a transvestite how ever u spell it im confused my self

  • I admire you :) I am a woman and feel good being one but I admire people like you who have the courage to change and fight for your hapiness :) you sure are a female and a great one :)

  • Thanks for the sociological input on some of the psychological aspects within your subculture. Obviously it takes great strength for someone like yourself (or those like yourself) to confront the very things that make up who you really are. While understanding, that such knowledge is considered a taboo within sociaty and the family. I wish you well but, what you need to do, is write a book about that subculture community so that an understanding can be formed in the main culture of sociaty.

  • Eh, just ignore these people...if you want to be a woman and feel that you're a woman than damnit..you just be a woman...No you can't give birth or have periods and whatnot(I would rather not have them..lol) Embrace what makes you happy..the happier you are about yourself the more accepting other people will be. :D

  • yes I love being a woman as well because women can have these interesting relationship/friendships with other women... I am a lesbian and I support trans rights. People are afraid of what they don't understand. you are a beautiful person :)

  • You look fabulous! I hope I look so good 11 months from now :)

    You are so right. Friends are the best thing anyone can have in thier life.

    All my best beautiful :) hugs!

  • I am Irish and don't appreciate the remark. It's not like all Irish people are drunks. By the way not all transgenders look like drag queens. Only most of them do.

  • You just proved that you lack alot of this LITTLE TINY THING CALLED "Self Respect"...

    What you just said is twisted...

    Feeling SO damn bad about your self your going to bring down someone to make your self feel better!!

    Haha sounds like somones got issues...

  • You have just proved my point, anyone who says "shemales smell and look like dog shit?!" should be kept away from normal society, you are a hateful maniac.

  • Wow, Mrbossman, you should be put in a mental home because you're a maniac, God will send you to hell for being so hateful.

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  • happy birthday ashleyy

  • I'm 'TranSexual' or 'Transgender' but have ALWAYS bn female. Its a long and complex issue to discuss. I KNOW I'll NEVER b a natural born woman but I'm damn close to it.

    Being a woman is more than just clothing, make up and speech. Its actually BEING.Its difficult to forget where we once were physically.I cud rant all day but dont wish to. Please just be careful as there are so many out there still that dnt understand us and you are very young yet brave.

    all the best and sincere regards

    Pam xx

  • Is that an Aquateens poster I see?!

  • i like your voice [:

  • I am so proud of you. Everything you have said is so right and true. You are wonderful hun. Sooooo proud of you!

  • you are really brave to do this and be public about it especially in this close minded world we have so i congratulate you and also admire you for such bravery

  • where is this going

  • preach on sister

  • I don't care what you say, you were never male.

    I just can't imagine you as it! I can even picture you as a little girl.

  • You mean "show your penis"? :)

  • ANOREXIC :PPPPPP

  • Thank you for posting this video.

  • wow no offense but you need help, you're too skinny, please get help for your healths sake

  • Hello,

    I know i've never met or talked to you before, but i stumbled across this video and i just wanted to tell you that i really appreciate you discussing these topics. I find it to be a very brave thing to do and i think alot of people going through the same process and feelings can gain alot from what you have to say. I respect wht you have to say and i just wanted to thank you for having the courage to openly discuss this topic.

    Hope you're doing fantastically. :)

    Elektra

  • Wow! What you're saying is so, so Similar to the feeling that I have. It's really great to see another Transgirl with these feeling...Thank you:)

  • People are who they are, not what other people decide them to be. People are more than a gender or a color or an age. The bigots on here are the same hateful excuses of humanity that once justified slavery and segregation. They love to jump up and claim to be fighting for truth, but the only people they can seem to fight are people that are already being honest. They refuse to listen to anyone because that might require effort and might, just might make them think and see how hateful they are.

  • I don't see anything other than a woman on my screen... but I thought OMG she has anorexia.. and I felt sad. :(

  • I don't really have a adams apple and I'm still a man, right?

  • You know what's funny? Guys don't accept me because they don't see a man when they look at me. Women don't accept me because they don't see a woman in me. Transsexuals only have one thing in mind when they see me. I really don't have any hope left. I stand alone.

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  • "i'm not being prejudice.."?

    I beg to differ, Honest Bollocks. You appear to be the very embodiment of of prejudice. You're also a dead ringer for being crap at grammar.

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  • You say you are not prejudiced. What would you call the statement "transgenderism is fuckin lies"? If you could quell your frothing anger for sufficient time to put forth a reasoned argument instead of an ill spelled stream of invective, perhaps you would avoid allegations of prejudice. Do you a favour? Do yourself a favour, chum!

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  • One reason: a person should have the right to define their own identity.

    Your reliance on bile and untruth spewed forth with deficient spelling and apparent fear of proper grammar shows you to be as unconcerned with clear and reasoned argument as you are with a person's right to self determination.

    I have nothing further to say to you. I hope your fear, anger and hatred make you happy.

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  • and you'll die an ignorant slut.

    what you fail to understand, either by being deliberately obtuse or savagely callous and limited is that the choice for a transsexual is transition or die. whether you like it or not, transsexuals have as much right to live, work and be treated in the gender that medical doctors agree they really are. no one chooses this path, it is too damn dificult.

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  • Let's have a look at what you're doing.

    1. replying in the most offensive, harsh and profane way.

    2. deliberately attacking a person who is struggling to deal with some complicated issues in a most vicious way.

    3. posting not to debate or learn or to discuss, but to abuse, to harm.

    4. stalking all other videos of this nature and behaving in the same abominable fashion.

  • These are the actions of an unbalanced sociopath with deep rooted problems. I can only wish you the best in struggling with whatever in your past has lead you to become a social pariah. I feel sorry for you, you are to be pitied.

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  • I know that you are young and feel that being this way somehow makes you appear 'smart' or 'cool' or whatever word of the month denotes the in crowd. You simply are behaving in a juvenile and hateful manner.

    Please seek help.

  • And if any of your messages had any substance of value then perhaps some might be fooled into thinking thatthere was some compassion behind the hate. Unfortunately you're simply all styles, and a very bad one at that. Substance comes from strength of character, integrity, and self-worth, none of which you actually possess. Again, seek help. You scream of potential suicide.

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  • Well, yet again you show your lack of maturity. Revolting against celebrities is in itself an act of bonding together like sheep - the black sheep. The use of 'we' is very telling. I never mentioned celebs or anything like that, so these things must also be on your mind. Nor did I talk about abortion. Seek help child, it is in your best interest.

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  • My plea is for you to seek help, your behaviour is neither normal nor warranted. In fact your non-sequiters indicate that there is some heavy drug usage going on as well. I won't waste anymore time trying to help someone who clearly cannot see that she has some sevre problems. Good luck finding yourself. Maybe one day you'll do something nice to someone and that'll help pay for the hate you've spread here.

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  • hmm HonestBollocks does have a point, you can't be going around saying people are insane because their opinions are not the same as your own, and man you clearly left out the whole debate, and yes he is being a bit aggressive but you can see why, and please quit the whole psychologist crap because no book or person can tell you how a person's mind acts, indeed this transsexual has serious problems such as anorexia and I doubt arguing with a teenager will help this person in any way

  • it has no point. it's all about rage and narrow mindedness and hate. I have no tolerance for that. It has no feelings or compassion or anything remotely connected to love, which is very sad. If it wants to rage against the world, then let it find a wall and shout it's yowlp against the universe. To stalk a transsexual, who is walking a path so difficult that 35% commit suicide is atrocious. There is no excuse in abusing transsexuals, living is hard enough.

  • Aggresive? it is a complete shit about it. And you, sir have not read the posts carefully. You will see I evinced no opinion regarding it's claims, only it's actions.

  • and man for someone who claims to be mature you sure are immature, you don't need to take him seriously he's just a kid that probably is still going through adolescence plus a teenager has negative views about everything and it sounds to me you are being quite the child yourself and you're been angry for what to get a kids account deleted? how will that end it the hate? it won't because it's still out there and there are alotttttttttttttttt worse than him trust me there are

  • I have reported you to youtube. An intervention is necessary, your hate knows no bounds.

  • dude that's been harsh, he's a teenager and is very immature there's no need to go that far

  • everything I said was the truth. unfortunately for you armchair quarterbacks, this woman has been involved with CAMI in support of these people and has access to all kinds of data. What you and the other idiot don't understand is that transsexuals have the highest suicide rate of all groups. by far. fucking with these people will cause deaths. so if i'm ticked off then i am rightly so. trying to push a suciide risk over the edge is tantamount to murder. deal with that.

  • dude i'm not trying to push suicide on this person are you mad?, the last thing we need is more suicides but i know what you mean, indeed there is like 30,000 suicides in the US each year alone, and i can understand why you are angry, and man i do recall HonestBollocks saying kill yourself or die to this poor person, you can't be goin around saying things like that without proper proof, and dude being sarcastic doesn't help, also i doubt he knew the suicide rate of transsexuals in the US.

  • the suicide rate in belgian transsexuals (where gender dysphoria is far more accepted) is 29.7%. In the US it approaches 35%, 1 in 3 will attempt suicde, most more than once. this is nothing to screw around with. I tried every which way to get this person to cease and desist, including deflecting things into another arena...but to no avail. you need to step to the other side here and get them off this video.

  • well man, i can see what you're talking about, i'm sure he had no idea of that, and you can't blame it on him for the suicide rates indeed he is being narrow minded but he isn't the only person on this planet that is, and man you've tried to make it look like he's insane not try and make him understand why this kind of behaviour isn't acceptable, teenagers are hard to bring around & spewing things like him be mentally unbalanced is hardly gonna change his opinion on transsexuals you know.

  • trust me, this person has some serious issues, and i pray that they are the result of rebellion only, but my instinct tells me otherwise. He is in no mood to listen to anything so i felt that shocking him was the best. maybe not the best decision. Peace, k?

  • well dude we don't know that because we've never met him indeed he is being vicious but you are provoking him which is not a good idea, oh man you can't seriously think he goes out and hurls abuse at people like this poor person do you? no it's just a teenage thing he'll get over his childish attitude when he's a bit older he is a teen after all, and man calling someone crazy only fuels their fire you know plus if you had of told him about the suicide rate i'm sure he wouldn't opened his mouth.

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  • so stalking videos of transsexuals is normal? spouting profane hatred is normal? There is no debate, science has proven that something happens in the womb that causes these people to have minds that mimic the other gender. neurology has shown this. after 50 years of psychology no drug, no therapy, no treatment works except transition to the opposite gender. But fuckwit has no interest in that, it only wishes to abuse, harm and hate.and that's why I labelled it for what it is.a sociopath.

  • i never said that, he is only 19 and you know what guys are like at that age, and dude for a guy that supposeably mature you sure do act like a child, but man he is only saying in harsh words that it is impossible for transgenders to become like real women, you act like you're all calm and mature dude you're quite the opposite, and dude i've not seen any comments from him on any other transsexual video on youtube and dude science isn't always right you have to admit that

  • Do us all a favor and head back to the pub where u belong u mick.

    doesn't feel to good does it?now, the same way you're treating this girl, picture all of that hate and anger and ignorance, and imagine what it would be like to walk through your daily life, as you are, with all of that directed at you because of how you were born. Irish, male, most likely fat, and with lots of spots on your face. Do you get it yet? YOU'RE WRONG. YOUR BOLLOCKS ARE FULL OF SPERMY LIES!! hahahahahahahaha lmao

  • yes i was been a dick you're right i deserve it, and the pub jokes? lol typical american i ain't gonna start arguing with you, and the discriminaing against the Irish? hehe very hypocritical, tut tut tut my dick don't to me lol, btw hows life being a part of the church of satan since you live in San Francisco, also you call Irishmen fat? hehe majority of americans are overweight & obese lol, argument over, i'm a dick and i deserved your remarks,

  • oh dude don't mind HonestBollocks he's just like that because he came across the worst bunch of transsexuals who were perverse sick fuckers, so you can see why he has a bad opinion of them it's just the wrong impression he got so don't be bothered & no he doesn't go around attacking them on the street in case you're wondering

  • Hi Ashley, I do not see anything other than a woman, so you should not worry about others' opinions. Also, when I first started watching it I thought you looked familiar. Then I realized that your face almost exactly resembles like my sister when she was younger. You and her could have been nearly twins - it is so uncanny. I will have to share the link of this video with my sister.

  • I love this. You seem like such a real, warmhearted person. I resonate with everything you said about being a woman :)

  • so you where a guy? and now a girl

  • that comment was ment to msmichell35 by the way lol

  • I recommend the documentary "The Gender Puzzle"

    Google for : gender puzzle transcript

    to watch the film go to booserver dot com

    then search for 'Gender Puzzle'

  • there may be a debate as to wether a transwoman is a "real" woman, but what is crystal clear is that their gender is indeed female. Transwomen were born with male sex but with female gender. Their brains are female and similar to women's brains. The brain's gender is developed in the womb.

  • wow shoud b a gurl i get a very strong

    feminin presence frum u i think it took a lot 2 come forth n put yo self out there

  • you should seriously stop faking ur voice like that, talk confortably, ur really femenine physically anyways i wouldnt think anything else but a girl with a deep voice (like pink) my FAVORITE singer ever! :)

  • This is the comment for the video response in this: named"Not Female?" which comment board currently disabled.

    Transgender is the politically correct way of saying "GAY" to people. In the latter part of of your video you said" transgender's genes are ALMOST the same as to real women". Would you consider a mouse with a lion's feet a lion or a dog with a nose of a human a man? Let's try to be sensible shall we? Sorry ,but the next time you make a stand try not to have a loophole with it.