Women Want To Be Dominated In Bed? (Psychology Today Story)

[Sahluful]

Men like to be dominated by women, too.

[Svenhartley]

I cannot stand Weseley Clark Jr, he seems like such a conceited ass hole.

[comeseeben]

now bitch, fix me my eggs, by the way I pissed on your leg in the shower.

[444papageno]

I found this an extremely ignorant and disrespectful. These idiots obviously never get laid and are more concerned with asserting their own pathetic idea of masculinity than actually making a point, be it right or wrong. It is perfectly normal and common for a man to enjoy a dominant female partner, obviously without any BDSM or torture theme involved. It is healthy for both people in a relationship to express dominance.

[eethry]

Actually they did a study on human females, it basically came down to this. They'd have one night stand or a fling with a guy with high testosterone, but not trust enough to have a relationship with. But with guys with face that shows less testosterone they feel more secure in having a relationship with him. Even though every once in a while might cheat on him with a guy with high testosterone.

[zepeterinma]

That's why i've never had a girlfriend; "Girls like bad boys", and all this time i've been going about it wrong. I was always trying to treat them really kindly, but if im mean, they will want me more.

[legendsofpsychosis]

Stop breeding psychology!!! Sigman Frued is dead.

[NightManiacsInc]

@legendsofpsychosis

stop breeding pyschology

[Simm2Dimm]

"shut up and get on ur hands and knee"...epic lol

[Deedovich]

As a woman I think, domination in bed is extremely sexy and fun. A man who's confident is extremely hot and attractive.However guy who is dominant in every aspect in my life is a fucking douche. Wes is a hot piece of ass and if he told me to go on my knees I would most certainly obey like the bad girl in me wants to. But if by dominant, he is also referring to what my chores of the day should be, what dress I should wear and what job I can do, he is going to be a very lonely man.

[Bladewing10]

Aren't all three of these guys divorced?

[truckbiz15]

Wes speaks his mind, and Micheal is hilariously witty, ben reminds me of Jim Brown who used to be on the FOX pregame show during football season and how he used to have to keep the panel together and focused to keep it running smoothly. In short awesome panel, more ppl would watch if you market it better, a lot of ppl dont even know where to catch the clips.

[heyyohill]

the dude in the blue sweater is acting like a jackass. he thinks it makes it seem cool.

[jcott15]

@heyyohill dude, if you watch the show regularly you'll see that he rarely understands when they're making jokes and really is a jackass haaha

[SeriousPsyche]

Male submission is borderline gay. Not that there is anything wrong with gay people but..... almost out of the closet.

[Tanfeliz]

"I only hope to GOD men read this and believe me. Hot ones. That live by me."

And don't work in public safety.

[Tanfeliz]

(continued)

In the world of "money talks and bullshit walks," where we live, they let me lead when it's time for me to lead, and I let them protect and serve me in front of the world. Let me assure you in a world with no consequences? Every one of them would be Wes, and I would be a very, very happy girl. You have to make them respect you first, then respect them back by letting them be the daddy.

I only hope to GOD men read this and believe me. Hot ones. That live by me.

[Tanfeliz]

Here's a scenario: I work on a fire department with about a 100:1 male/female ratio. My mindset: I pretend I'm not only neither gay nor straight, none of us are even anatomically correct. I act like that's the deal all day every day. They respect me based on seeing me work (and I'm the HBIC on calls, incident commander). They show me they respect me as a human being based on my professionalism. Let somebody bow up on me on a call, they trip over each other to kick his ass.

[Tanfeliz]

Another reason they always ask Wes? Because he's the only one who knows how hilarious it is to think guys learn to be good lovers in the army.

I hope several things:

1. Wes figures out how crucial he is to this team

2. Wes catches me being a very bad girl.

[Tanfeliz]

@TillThenPlease ::woman here::

You can delete the "Ha ha ha" because it's a true recipe for getting the blowjob of your entire life.

This is why they always ask Wes. Because he actually understands shit. There's nothing less sexy than a "Sensitive New Age Guy" who wants me to be the man in bed because I'm a firefighter. At the same time, "On your knees, bitch" isn't going to get it. Think: "lady in the streets and freak in the sheets" and you've got it.

You're welcome.

[12235117657598502586]

That's it!....I OFFICIALLY LOVE WES!

[joe133322]

Whats WMB?

[sepehrsian]

@joe133322 Wes, Mike, and Ben

[Shinius]

It's funny watching them stumble on the male kinks at the end.

[goldenshots]

LMFAO, gatta love Wes man..

[MelleB90]

Sometimes you have to fuck her gently, man...

[OolTube02]

@MelleB90 Yes, during foreplay.

[Tanfeliz]

@MelleB90 "Sometimes you have to fuck her gently, man..."

For me personally? I am on the lookout for a man who respects me as a human being and isn't intimidated by my strength. I want to get respected in the relationship, so I can hand him the keys to the pink palace. Whichever way he wants to fuck me when he gets there, hey. I like surprises. Seriously. This is the holy grail of my life.

YMMV

[Kardiatheon]

I total agree with you, but in the end men who like dominated know they are paying for it. So both side really know who is in charge. alot of women have penis envy.

[Calimantalkin]

Men want an angel in the kitchen and a whore in bed, why would women be different? Be nice until it's time to be very bad.

[tonybeir]

psychology today is total bullshit... never believe anything there.

[YungDGTM]

They needed a study to show that women want men to be men?

[DeSadeM]

Duuuude ... never tell a woman to "shut up", lol. That will never end well for you.

[guatepower]

I think I have a new favorite quote. "I just think you have to fuck em hard" :D

[blacklite911]

CFNM can actually be hot. Its either manifested in two ways. The guy is a stripper in which he proceeds to go around the venue having his dick sucked by various women while he flirts, dry humps and has whipped cream licked off of them, male strippers have way more fun (check them out ofefukt lol). The other way is where a man is just the boy toy of a group of women and they perform oral sex on him/ vice versa. or maybe have sex with their skirts on.

[FengxianLeTerrible]

i got a date in 2 nights sooooo we cant post this clip XD

[RetiredBard]

I think anyone into CBT could stand to watch a very disturbing video I saw once. I'll just mention two things that appeared: stiletto heels, and blood.

[TheGiantRobot]

Haha, Wes. No, you had a date in two nights.

[crackerz99]

CBT. Cock n Ball Torture?

[crackerz99]

Women are natural gold diggers.

[crackerz99]

Shutup! get on your hands and knees! ROFL.

[aemathisphd]

I love WMB. Plus, added together, they're, like, 1.75 Jews.

[TheDuckofLaw]

simply hilarious.

[bun4bun]

how did the date go Wes?

[Mazdem]

2:10 to 2:18 is hilarious get em!

[magicshoemonkey]

I thought Cenk and Anna handled this story way better, though thumbs up for the, "I guess you did find something more troubling to say" exchange. Most psychologists I've talked to will tell you Psychology Today is essentially pop-psych crap. This entire article/study strikes me as gross over-generalization mixed with stereotypes.

[BigManInCanada]

Is it just me, or does a lot of people here have extremely thin skin?

[trajan74]

See, give a guy a fruity name like Wesley, he'll grow up and kick ass.

[p00j2620]

LMAO!!! I fucking love Wes!

[SilvoKnight]

One Study != Conclusive



[NeccoWecco]

Psychology Today - full of bs

[MaryJesusJoseph]

This whole conversation is creepy.

[chenalos]

Wes motherfucker.

[Lipka001]

psychology today is an incredibly crappy magazine.

[JIYkp]

I think it's more because people have been conditioned by society and culture for thousands of years that women must submit to men, and sexual arousal is merely a short-term accentuation of subconscious desires.

[MikeandSara88]

"Dont think about love, dont think about bright moments, moonlit stars, wedding bells.. silent whispers, holding hands.. secret love letters... I think about GOOD sex, DEEP sex, HARD sex, ROUGH SEX GO!!!" - Lords of Acid

[millan32]

"I just think you have to fuck em hard" quote of the year.. this guy is awesome. i wanted to hear him say "There you go baby!! there you go!!"

[therealcharismatron]

How is this not completely stupidly hilarious?

[CognosSquare]

lols. I think Wes is right about that orgasm.

[odannyboy000]

My wife says she likes to be dominated.

[kazooga1234]

i have to agree with ana on this if you want to be dominate then be dominate if you want to be submissive then be sumissive fuck this study

[RoffeDH]

@kazooga1234 But that's the problem. People today don't think they're allowed to, more or less.

[kazooga1234]

@RoffeDH thats not true there are a decent amount of people who are just who they are and fuck others and i am one of them

[KnightofGascogne]

The 3 Stooges talkin' about sex...

LMAO

[TillThenPlease]

"I just think you have to fuck em hard", Ha, ha, ha, ha!

[OolTube02]

@TillThenPlease Totally works, though. And as for the naked male, clothed female bit, that's no fetish of mine, but that what happens when a guy really goes at it. Eventually I get so hot from the physical exertion that I strip everything off while the woman, who is much more passive and hence not in danger of overheating, keeps her clothing on.

So it's not so unusual. But it's no fetish. It's just the result of intense casual sex in a room temperature environment.

[flowergirl1313]

Love Wes and Ben. I can't decide who I like more. Sorry that Wes is now divorced, but what a catch.

[masterkayaki]

i prefer Women with Massive Boobs

[thenewvoice8]

@masterkayaki with you on that buddy!

[Healthypig1423]

This study is complete and utter bullshit and the extrapolation via a retarded distortion of evolutionary psychology is infuriating. The article is littered with reference to studies exclusively from THE HERITAGE FOUNDATION. The same conservative think tank TYT always shits on (rightly so.) But now that it has some sexist bullshit bent they support it.

[cleosombra]

@Healthypig1423 I fully agree.

I was very amused by YTY until I came across this video and I think I'm done with this group now.

Women don't have chemical differences that make women submissive. An animal in heat is a lot different than a woman who is aroused and to compare the two is extremely ignorant.

Women like dominance because for all of their lives, they have been dominated by men. They have been shaped in subtle and unsubtle ways. All this is doing is perpetuating old stereotypes.

[Healthypig1423]

@cleosombra

Yeah. Just another example of a people mistaking cultural norms and indoctrinations as human nature.

[Mestilf22]

I love them just because they're three dudes who're normally pretty smart being complete jackasses

[nigerachy1]

WMB= Weapons of Mass Banter...

At least I'm trying

[juliact]

@nigerachy1 Weapons of mass BS!!!

[Pollution122]

win

[MaicoMoon]

Women are fucking imbalanced, we already know.

[wrathsong]

All positive S&M is really an exchange of trust. That's why there are safe words. In a safe relationship, it doesn't matter who's top of bottom because the trust issue has been worked out before hand. As a lady married 17 years, sure I want to be dominated sometimes, but I also want to dominate sometimes. Talking about it as if there is one simple answer to what everyone wants, or that they want it all the time is silly. We all want hot sex. What we think is hot changes day to day.

[Mestilf22]

@wrathsong Here's to men and women having hot sex in all it's wonderful forms!

[crackerz99]

shutup get on your hands and knees! LOL thats hilarious.

[juliact]

I'm really offended by this clip. The study is BS, and you 3 guys talking about what women like is complete BS! If you believe this study and act on it you will only score the most bimbo of women. As if all women are the same, c'mon, use your brains.

[crackerz99]

@juliact Well you should know that 99% of men want to dominate women in bed...

[juliact]

@crackerz99 if you're right, then 99% of men suck.

[JPdakilla23]

@juliact u mad?

[juliact]

@JPdakilla23 yep. i'm mad as hell about this stupid BS study and even madder that TYT are foolishly taking it on board and promoting it, and then you get these 3 tossers taking s**t about women! 

[crackerz99]

Women want to be Dominated; Conquered; Occupied; Trampled underfoot in bed.

[benchfordeath]

CBT = Cock&Ball Torture

[joisfantastic]

im so attracted to ben. anyone else?

[AudioForAnarchists]

@joisfantastic no.

[muetter]

I've never met a woman that wasn't submissive 

[juliact]

This study is complete BS!!!

[RebelHQ]

Can't say I disagree with this study,

Seems true according to my experiences.

[acewings221]

First, I beat you all! Jealous? ;)