Weed, Alcohol, Hard drugs... is not a good idea..
When you feel high, yeah feel sure good... but after maybe what 12h maybe a day ! you will feel down again, and i guesse in your case you will take some again.. you can't always be on drugs to feel better...
Find the problem, go back on your feet, find something that make you happy.
Going out with your friends, listening to a movie or some music..
PEOPLE WHO ARE SUICIDAL ARE WEAK AND STUPID!!! PEOPLE WHO SEEK SUICIDE AS A SOLUTION MAKE ME WANT TO WHACK THEM OVER THE HEAD WITH AN ELECTRIC FLY SWATTER OVER AND OVER AGAIN...WAKE UP ALREADY! DO SOMETHING TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE... UNLESS YOU HAVE NO FAMILY, HOME, MONEY, FRIENDS, CLOTHES, .... THEN HMMMM....ERRR.. NVM, I TAKE THAT BACK. SUICIDERS..JUST DONT DO IT. I DON'T PITY THEM... THEIR DECISION. IF THEY'RE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.. THEY WONT FIND IT HERE.
hey poster- I thought you was a girl, guess I'm wrong. You should consider putting a disclaimer in your title like: PS Not a girl. If you need to please call a stylist or someone abou it.
Other than that, GREAT VIDEO! I would argue a little about your beliefs, but you are right that SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER!
Atheists don't kill themselves because when your dead thats it your fuckin dead! What i don't get is if you believe in god and heaven why don't you kill yourself? Go to heaven and meet god already. He will forgive you so please do it!
@buckinfitches Not if your catholic, its a mortal sin. You can't repent for suicide because then you'll be dead, so you will go to hell.
You may want to check with your religious leaders what the punishment in your religion is for suicide. If they have a brain cell, they will probably get you some help then before answering your question.
@GhostInTheShell29 Yeah ....i see. If you believe the religion then this can be seen as a way for god to force you into enduring his punishments in life. So if you happen to be an unlucky catholic born in some Brazilian slum plagued by disease, drugs, poverty.... you can't just end the torture you have to live through it. A real nice god they have lol.
because if all atheists commit suicide, where would be the voice of reason in the world? And wouldnt christians want to die? They could just make it look like an accident and then they can go to heven.
And remember kids, if you attempt suicide they'll lock you up in the nuthouse for 3 days and charge you $5,400 to sit there doing nothing. Then upon your release you'll have to sign a form waiving your right to own a firearm and years later if an employer runs a background check on you they'll find out you were in the looney bin.
Christians, obviously you can't commit suicide without going to Hell, but that doesn't mean that you can't go around annoying people about religion until some sociopaths finally get the message and kill you, then you go to Heaven. WWJD ? Exactly that. Now go do what he did.
Great response, with only one minor quibble (which I might get to later)
Firstly: some Irish help lines:
Samaritans: 1850 609090
HSE suicide help line: 1800 742745
CAREDOC: 1850 334-999
The quibble is really minor as it's clear that your primary motive is to help, and that is why this is a great video. The only thing I would say is that it still comes across like your objective is to try and talk them out of their decision, which may be something that they do not want to hear (more...)
The most difficult approach would be to accept their decision even while you're trying to help them. For yourself you will, of course, continue to hope that it will lead to them finding new reasons for living, and a lessening of the pain so that life becomes bearable, but always keeping in mind that you may end up having to be there for them while they go ahead with their decision. And that will not be easy.
i think mike is on his way back to the loony bin! ha ha ha! your definitely right that some people shouldn't be left to their own devices but being a pt on a psych ward feels like being a caged animal. no real therapy is occurring. i disagree w/ mike about psychiatry. it has helped me and many others and i think it is a worthy profession!
i do agree w/ mike that if you tell someone your suicidal they will make you go to the hospital and probably lock you up in an inpatient psychiatric ward
ironically....serial killer ted bundy worked for a suicide prevention hotline.thats said i being someone fighting with despression from the age of 12.i know lots about it and suicide.and you are wrong,they are ill.a suicidal mind is a unhealthy one.they need help and support.and as much as having antidepressants in your head sucks its better then a bullet buy fuck'n a far.but you can't pussyfoot around everything.he didn't mean shit he was making a point stop your poor me baby bullshit.
@eatmeimsteak you mean antidepressants over a bullet? well i look at people that have put bullets in there head and people that take anti d's and the bullet just don't look like its a good outcome.besides we all die at some point take life while you have it.
Suicide is not something that you can take too serious. I think this video is a great thing to do for others. You are far more mature than Mike. I really think people need to be more careful about what they put on youtube. You have no way of know who sees it.
People need to understand mental triggering. Suicide should be treated as a delicate subject because in these times there are a lot of unhappy people who contemplate suicide all the time.
DDZ thanks for your effort to counteract the poison of that pseudo-Christian idiot. I decided to fight him with some of his own medicine by writing the following message:
"Hmm, to judge from your decidedly anti-Christian line of reasoning, I think you are actually an agent of Satan. [Full text of 2 Cor. 11:13-15]. Now get a life and stop messing with people's minds!"
I don't believe in Satan, but maybe that moron does and this verse from his own book will prick his seared "conscience."
Thanks for trying, but people looking for excuses will find excuses one way or the other. Things like this over the internet just seem like false concern.
There's some kind of political taboo about discussing suicide. It's vastly common than people realise, but it's not in the culture enough for friends and family to have any awareness whatsoever on how to read signs or help.
I have seen some of Mikes videos before and he always comes across as a moronic dick. But this time his thoughtless ramblings are in danger of actually causing direct harm to people.
Very wonderful response. Thank you, friend, for being a GREAT person. Having experienced suicidal thoughts and depression, you are exactly right. I have been to the bottom and many people DO NOT understand, just as you stated. I lost many friends because they couldn't understand why I could not be happy. You are a great guy, Drix, from the bottom of my heart. Thanks and I hope hope hope people who need to see this does.
You are NOT taking this too seriously. It deserves the seriousness. That one lady made a girl kill herself on the internet, I don't think it improbable that an awkward teenager, feeling alone, may see that and attempt to either hurt themselves or others.
And to think that a blathering idiot like Mikecampochiaro is persuaded to have the moral highground, simply because he is a believer.... It is almost like another proof of the non existence of a god
Mike's a bit extreme in his message. It was out and out hate-speech and should be flagged as such. Those kind of people who would encourage suicide in others are the true evil and blight on humanity.
I watched the first 30 seconds of the video to which this is a reply but it was quite enough. Your actions seem in all aspects responsible and well measured.
Excellent video. You pretty much answered the challenge by demonstrating a far greater degree of understanding in this subject and giving out a far clearer anti-suicide message than that guy ever could, without even referring to atheism (I assume you are one).
Unless the video is parody, but that's a moot point since Poe's law clearly applies and no parody disclaimer is given anyway. Either way, its a pretty irresponsible and potentially harmful bit of media.
Being someone who has attempted suicide, I can appreciate the message behind this video. I'm no longer suicidal (it just took the right meds) but If I were I'm sure that this video would have helped. I didn't watch Mike's video so I can't comment on it, but to be quite honest, I don't want to watch it.
This video reminded me of the metanoia organization website's page 'Suicide: Read This First'. Interesting video, great message. I look forward to your full response.
Your quote...."What do you guys think... am I taking this too seriously, am I being too harsh?" No you are not taking it too serious, I watched his video after yours and can confirm mike is a complete tosser. Anyone feeling suicidal before watching his video could well be pushed over the edge by it. I think to be honest he was trying to be witty, but he failed miserably. ..
Great video! I remember the period when I was going through my divorce and also leaving Christianity. For over a year I was suicidal and even had a plan.
I certainly am glad I didn't follow through! I have since enjoyed many wonderful relationships, and also that life without god and the delusion of guilt is great! The way the pieces of life fall together after making a commitment to rationality is amazing! Life is much more exiting and fulfilling now.
As someone that had suicidal thoughts at one point from depression, I think people will appreciate this video. From my own perspective it was about seeing the point in life, and to be honest that feeling does not change, but is more forgotten over time. So basically like what you were saying people just need to give it time and things WILL get better. I PROMISE, just keep at it.
Good video Drix, the pain exceeding coping is spot on. I would recommend changing the subject of your video to something like "Suicidal, Hear this First" or something along those lines so people who don't you may come across it if they're feeling that way, and doing a search.
(this is rationaljunkie by the way, changed my account)
Why don't I kill myself? Mostly, it's kuz this is the only life I have
9Iamthewalrus 1 year ago
To theists: If heaven is so good, why not die?
TomRaphaelWolf 1 year ago
@TomRaphaelWolf
hmmm
you mean christians ?
Christians = people who believe in heaven and in god
Atheist = When you are dead you are dead.
WolfSeife 6 months ago
If you feel depressed excessively, Smoke Weed, thats what i do.
KCWhoa 1 year ago
@KCWhoa
Weed, Alcohol, Hard drugs... is not a good idea..
When you feel high, yeah feel sure good... but after maybe what 12h maybe a day ! you will feel down again, and i guesse in your case you will take some again.. you can't always be on drugs to feel better...
Find the problem, go back on your feet, find something that make you happy.
Going out with your friends, listening to a movie or some music..
But stop being a loser and stop drugs...
WolfSeife 6 months ago
PEOPLE WHO ARE SUICIDAL ARE WEAK AND STUPID!!! PEOPLE WHO SEEK SUICIDE AS A SOLUTION MAKE ME WANT TO WHACK THEM OVER THE HEAD WITH AN ELECTRIC FLY SWATTER OVER AND OVER AGAIN...WAKE UP ALREADY! DO SOMETHING TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE... UNLESS YOU HAVE NO FAMILY, HOME, MONEY, FRIENDS, CLOTHES, .... THEN HMMMM....ERRR.. NVM, I TAKE THAT BACK. SUICIDERS..JUST DONT DO IT. I DON'T PITY THEM... THEIR DECISION. IF THEY'RE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.. THEY WONT FIND IT HERE.
iml5xo 1 year ago
@iml5xo You have no idea what your talking about!
KCWhoa 1 year ago
@iml5xo Apart from the caps, 100% agreed.
TomRaphaelWolf 1 year ago
hey poster- I thought you was a girl, guess I'm wrong. You should consider putting a disclaimer in your title like: PS Not a girl. If you need to please call a stylist or someone abou it.
Other than that, GREAT VIDEO! I would argue a little about your beliefs, but you are right that SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER!
IronHorsez88 1 year ago
Atheists don't kill themselves because when your dead thats it your fuckin dead! What i don't get is if you believe in god and heaven why don't you kill yourself? Go to heaven and meet god already. He will forgive you so please do it!
buckinfitches 1 year ago
@buckinfitches Not if your catholic, its a mortal sin. You can't repent for suicide because then you'll be dead, so you will go to hell.
You may want to check with your religious leaders what the punishment in your religion is for suicide. If they have a brain cell, they will probably get you some help then before answering your question.
GhostInTheShell29 1 year ago
@GhostInTheShell29 Yeah ....i see. If you believe the religion then this can be seen as a way for god to force you into enduring his punishments in life. So if you happen to be an unlucky catholic born in some Brazilian slum plagued by disease, drugs, poverty.... you can't just end the torture you have to live through it. A real nice god they have lol.
buckinfitches 1 year ago
because if all atheists commit suicide, where would be the voice of reason in the world? And wouldnt christians want to die? They could just make it look like an accident and then they can go to heven.
JACEH123 1 year ago
religians be killing everybody
dont need help from anyone
diegodesouza 1 year ago
And remember kids, if you attempt suicide they'll lock you up in the nuthouse for 3 days and charge you $5,400 to sit there doing nothing. Then upon your release you'll have to sign a form waiving your right to own a firearm and years later if an employer runs a background check on you they'll find out you were in the looney bin.
JONATHAN1984ATHEIST 2 years ago
Talking to another human being will do a hell of a lot more to help a suicidal person find a reason to live than talking to God.
artgoat 2 years ago
They ask the same question of nihilists. Evidently our lives are miserable and depressing just because they have no intrinsic meaning or value.
I'm an athiest and a nihilist, but I'm not an emo and I like being alive.
ScaryCannibalTrout1 2 years ago
I really have to disagree on the "relief from pain" argument. It was a) weak and b) nonsensical.
People contemplating suicide are seeking an END to the pain. And suicide does indeed provide that.
TheRealMrPeach 2 years ago
Christians, obviously you can't commit suicide without going to Hell, but that doesn't mean that you can't go around annoying people about religion until some sociopaths finally get the message and kill you, then you go to Heaven. WWJD ? Exactly that. Now go do what he did.
formless777 2 years ago 6
5-stars from me-a Christian
ScrapGoldBass 2 years ago
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ScrapGoldBass 2 years ago
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You sound like a faggot.
GruntyAssassin2 2 years ago
Beats being one you'd know about that.
speccwolf 2 years ago
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Great job, but the booger pick at 0:27 threw me off...
rybodelerium 2 years ago
To me you sound fake and disingenuous.
JonThaBrave 2 years ago
adffg
TheAmazingImbecile 2 years ago
Thanks for being a responsible human being.
theberlindoctor 2 years ago 4
Did you say "existential crisis" in the description? I L-O-L'd
krylonshoe 3 years ago
no u
Metal7rocker 3 years ago
I admire what you're trying to do. You've done the right thing.
lairdofgarscaddon 3 years ago 3
Great response, with only one minor quibble (which I might get to later)
Firstly: some Irish help lines:
Samaritans: 1850 609090
HSE suicide help line: 1800 742745
CAREDOC: 1850 334-999
The quibble is really minor as it's clear that your primary motive is to help, and that is why this is a great video. The only thing I would say is that it still comes across like your objective is to try and talk them out of their decision, which may be something that they do not want to hear (more...)
rozeboosje 3 years ago 2
The most difficult approach would be to accept their decision even while you're trying to help them. For yourself you will, of course, continue to hope that it will lead to them finding new reasons for living, and a lessening of the pain so that life becomes bearable, but always keeping in mind that you may end up having to be there for them while they go ahead with their decision. And that will not be easy.
rozeboosje 3 years ago
Mike is a dumb d-bag.
Good response.
crazycrazycaleb 3 years ago
i think mike is on his way back to the loony bin! ha ha ha! your definitely right that some people shouldn't be left to their own devices but being a pt on a psych ward feels like being a caged animal. no real therapy is occurring. i disagree w/ mike about psychiatry. it has helped me and many others and i think it is a worthy profession!
seoul75 3 years ago 2
i do agree w/ mike that if you tell someone your suicidal they will make you go to the hospital and probably lock you up in an inpatient psychiatric ward
seoul75 3 years ago
Yes... and this is a system that needs fixing. But it's hard to argue that the entire system is broken (seems to have worked for Mike).
I acknowledge the reality of psychiatric pathologies and suggest that neurochem, etc. are evidence to support modern psychiatry.
It may be that some people AREN'T of sound mind to be left to their own devices.
Thanks for the response!
DrixDZanth 3 years ago
ironically....serial killer ted bundy worked for a suicide prevention hotline.thats said i being someone fighting with despression from the age of 12.i know lots about it and suicide.and you are wrong,they are ill.a suicidal mind is a unhealthy one.they need help and support.and as much as having antidepressants in your head sucks its better then a bullet buy fuck'n a far.but you can't pussyfoot around everything.he didn't mean shit he was making a point stop your poor me baby bullshit.
muncleike 3 years ago
Take this in a positive way... but I really am not sure how I shout interpret this comment.
DrixDZanth 3 years ago
@muncleike how do you know whats better when you've only done one of the two options your talking about?
eatmeimsteak 7 months ago
@eatmeimsteak you mean antidepressants over a bullet? well i look at people that have put bullets in there head and people that take anti d's and the bullet just don't look like its a good outcome.besides we all die at some point take life while you have it.
muncleike 7 months ago
Suicide is not something that you can take too serious. I think this video is a great thing to do for others. You are far more mature than Mike. I really think people need to be more careful about what they put on youtube. You have no way of know who sees it.
Workaholic313 3 years ago
you sir are a great human being, and this is a great video
if there is a god, I have serious doubts about him not letting you into his kingdom, no matter what religion/non-religion you are
goldenchocolate 3 years ago
4:03-4:17 That is an excellent line of reasoning.
SomethingSeaVlog 3 years ago
You are a beautiful man. Thank you for that!
DumbfoundedAtheist 3 years ago
Good video, and I don't think you took it too seriously, and you certainly weren't being to hard on him.
Fataalex 3 years ago
Great video, great message. I hope it reaches a lot of unhappy people.
You have my deepest respect.
IvoMoelans 3 years ago
People need to understand mental triggering. Suicide should be treated as a delicate subject because in these times there are a lot of unhappy people who contemplate suicide all the time.
DocuJunk 3 years ago
DDZ thanks for your effort to counteract the poison of that pseudo-Christian idiot. I decided to fight him with some of his own medicine by writing the following message:
"Hmm, to judge from your decidedly anti-Christian line of reasoning, I think you are actually an agent of Satan. [Full text of 2 Cor. 11:13-15]. Now get a life and stop messing with people's minds!"
I don't believe in Satan, but maybe that moron does and this verse from his own book will prick his seared "conscience."
Puchicas9 3 years ago
Very well said =]
I would also like you to add twloha. com to your list at the end, it helped me.
theatheistguy 3 years ago
DDZ, you rock. Whether you reach anyone or not with this (and deathweaselx86's response suggests you have), you are to be commended for the effort.
Samsaptaka 3 years ago
How about this? Theists, why waste time in this life when the next is just THAT good? Kek.
tanekki 3 years ago
Thanks for trying, but people looking for excuses will find excuses one way or the other. Things like this over the internet just seem like false concern.
sy1234 3 years ago
That's true. But some don't.
DrixDZanth 3 years ago
(oops, I mis-clicked and replied to myself by mistake)
sy1234 3 years ago
> That's true. But some don't.
I hope you're right.
There's some kind of political taboo about discussing suicide. It's vastly common than people realise, but it's not in the culture enough for friends and family to have any awareness whatsoever on how to read signs or help.
sy1234 3 years ago
Great response.
I have seen some of Mikes videos before and he always comes across as a moronic dick. But this time his thoughtless ramblings are in danger of actually causing direct harm to people.
mattblackcat 3 years ago
Very wonderful response. Thank you, friend, for being a GREAT person. Having experienced suicidal thoughts and depression, you are exactly right. I have been to the bottom and many people DO NOT understand, just as you stated. I lost many friends because they couldn't understand why I could not be happy. You are a great guy, Drix, from the bottom of my heart. Thanks and I hope hope hope people who need to see this does.
gyllenhaalic105 3 years ago 4
You are NOT taking this too seriously. It deserves the seriousness. That one lady made a girl kill herself on the internet, I don't think it improbable that an awkward teenager, feeling alone, may see that and attempt to either hurt themselves or others.
Thank you for taking the high ground.
SubRandomv6 3 years ago
And to think that a blathering idiot like Mikecampochiaro is persuaded to have the moral highground, simply because he is a believer.... It is almost like another proof of the non existence of a god
gildor67 3 years ago
Great video. I hate it when Christians say that atheists should be in despair (Veritas48) or that we should kill ourselves (mike...).
It's very insulting and I am offended by it. It's a bunch of bull.
AtheistKang 3 years ago
You're a good person. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
deathweaselx86 3 years ago
Mike's a bit extreme in his message. It was out and out hate-speech and should be flagged as such. Those kind of people who would encourage suicide in others are the true evil and blight on humanity.
nonreligionist 3 years ago
thank you for your sincerity. it shows, and people can sense it. please, never let the cynics change you.
shadyvista 3 years ago
I watched the first 30 seconds of the video to which this is a reply but it was quite enough. Your actions seem in all aspects responsible and well measured.
omegavalerius 3 years ago
Excellent video. You pretty much answered the challenge by demonstrating a far greater degree of understanding in this subject and giving out a far clearer anti-suicide message than that guy ever could, without even referring to atheism (I assume you are one).
Unless the video is parody, but that's a moot point since Poe's law clearly applies and no parody disclaimer is given anyway. Either way, its a pretty irresponsible and potentially harmful bit of media.
ChrisJMoor 3 years ago
Thank you for this little service.
Kamidake83 3 years ago
Being someone who has attempted suicide, I can appreciate the message behind this video. I'm no longer suicidal (it just took the right meds) but If I were I'm sure that this video would have helped. I didn't watch Mike's video so I can't comment on it, but to be quite honest, I don't want to watch it.
ChuckMeIntoHell 3 years ago 2
(HUG!)
hope no one's thinking of suicide...
Immevu 3 years ago
This video reminded me of the metanoia organization website's page 'Suicide: Read This First'. Interesting video, great message. I look forward to your full response.
RowanFortuneWood 3 years ago
I'd also like to add the analogy to weights at 2:10 was very powerful.
ScottishAtheist 3 years ago
The analogy has been around for a while.
SomethingSeaVlog 3 years ago
A very moving and mature response to a total asshat.
ScottishAtheist 3 years ago
Your quote...."What do you guys think... am I taking this too seriously, am I being too harsh?" No you are not taking it too serious, I watched his video after yours and can confirm mike is a complete tosser. Anyone feeling suicidal before watching his video could well be pushed over the edge by it. I think to be honest he was trying to be witty, but he failed miserably. ..
teznade 3 years ago 2
Right on.
Domzdream 3 years ago
very thoughtfull video no more needs to be said
GrimJim8000 3 years ago
You have my highest respect.
Thank You
ronaldec7 3 years ago
BRAVO!! Excellent response!!
neoyorke 3 years ago
Good man
BoogieNite77 3 years ago
Great video! I remember the period when I was going through my divorce and also leaving Christianity. For over a year I was suicidal and even had a plan.
I certainly am glad I didn't follow through! I have since enjoyed many wonderful relationships, and also that life without god and the delusion of guilt is great! The way the pieces of life fall together after making a commitment to rationality is amazing! Life is much more exiting and fulfilling now.
Life is good!
philstilwell 3 years ago 4
As someone that had suicidal thoughts at one point from depression, I think people will appreciate this video. From my own perspective it was about seeing the point in life, and to be honest that feeling does not change, but is more forgotten over time. So basically like what you were saying people just need to give it time and things WILL get better. I PROMISE, just keep at it.
twich35 3 years ago
It saddens me to see people so disconnected form the human condition.
Shalek 3 years ago
Good video Drix, the pain exceeding coping is spot on. I would recommend changing the subject of your video to something like "Suicidal, Hear this First" or something along those lines so people who don't you may come across it if they're feeling that way, and doing a search.
(this is rationaljunkie by the way, changed my account)
RobotzAreAwesome 3 years ago 3
Thank you for showing compassion. Someone out there needs this.
VioletCosmonaut 3 years ago 11
I really wana make a joke about theists getting closer to god but that doesnt really seem appropriate for some reason.
damn compassion getting in the way of my jokes
carnut666 3 years ago 2