"GAY!" A Coming Out Story.

[spartacus5922]

Seek Help ! 

[funeraldoom80]

can you at least try to be more masculine? I mean, stop being effeminate

[MoMcd416]

survivor is a pretty worth cause

[rvnclw13]

your lucky my parents were cool with it but i would still being akward crying all the time if there were such a thing

[SentientMilieu]

Do not worry about how you are coming off man. You look beautiful. And not being interested in sports doesn't have anything to do with being gay. That's just a silly stereotype.

[Noir709]

Those three simple words... "I love you."

[samtheman931]

Great video would recommend stop smacking ur lips

[hutch1page]

@samtheman931 Ugh, I know. Almost 3 years later now, it's hard for me to look back and watch this video of myself, haha. I'm a much different speaker now :) a lot less flamboyant too, hah.

[kusuyMontreal]

Are you coming out for real? ... Everybody knew you was a big queer since you was born baby!!!!!sorry.

[18thTryKyle]

my names kyle hutchison :D

im not gay though...no offence haha

[Deathavesery]

yay you are great here and queer Flower bower ^.^

[AstroMen2911]

Can I ask your birthday?

[Sublimon67]

totally with you on the flowers vs. sports thing, lol

[farthereast54]

Times sure have changed. Took me until I was 40 after a hopeless marriage (my heartfelt apologies to my ex). Kinda limited my choices, don't ya think. But it was a different era. So congratulations, Kyle. Good job! At least you are on the right track and will have the luxury of dating all the wrong guys and learning life's valuable lessons on the way to Mr. Right, instead of dating all the right girls on the way to Ms Wrong, merely going through the motions to everyone's eventual disappointment.

[Belle19700]

You are lovely, and don't ever change. I think homosexuality is just nature's way, of thinning down the population, and that's all it is.

[December27Joe]

You remind me of a cute man version of Alicia Silverstone.

[AllenTax]

Cute, beautiful & sexy. Slight effeminate voiced. A lil poetic. And ultimately brave. All good.

[Denuhm]

LOL the reaction your going to hell was my sisters first words to me when i told her.... but she's ok with it xD

[tisoy909]

haha youre coming out a FAG! lol

[ricky8541]

ur cute lol. nice story though.

[icecold989]

lol my parents said i chased butterflies and danced when i was sposed to be paying attention to teh soccer game i was in

[mandarindragonet]

I feel the same way; the burden shouldn't always be there to lie about who you are. It took me two whole weeks to convince myself to tell my closest friend, but the second time was so much easier. Only two people know, because I have VERY homophobic parents who openly talk about gay people as idiots who are unnatural, and how they should be arrested. I thought I was straight until I realized that this, not that, turned me on. My sister supports gay and lesbian rights, but I can't tell her. :(. T

[mandarindragonet]

hank you for sharing your coming out experience with us, and good luck!

[NateNStuff]

My sister and I haven't broken the 200 beanie baby mark, yet. lol

I fancied soccer but loved yellow daffodils, too!

Best of luck~

[utterlyherolike]

I'm sure AIDS is pretty depressing too.

[sleekcartim]

talkin to fam bout gay everyday, very interesting, prolly not for everyone tho, or is it? hmmm

[mexicancricket7]

you gay queer! i love it.. i'm bi

[bhickman86]

I think ur whole story is fake and u should be ashamed.

[icecold989]

why would you say that assswhole

[AiRbenderg2]

I think my dad knows i am gay i didn't come out to him for a reason. lol

[obentomusubi]

Flowers are cool! I know I love drawing flowers more than drawing footballs or basketballs!

[francnico]

youre hottt

[kfilmsvideoofthedead]

it was a surprisied tears

[itskellyorsomething]

"I wanted to dance"

[babyswisscheeseswc]

As for 2:40ish yeah, we knew, oh we had an idea. Love ya though

[Westb0r0church]

Helllllo!

[thejawbreakerboy]

u r a very brave young man. I'm 5 years older than you and i don't feel ready yet.

[kfilmsvideoofthedead]

pinisy

[pheovlrom01]

No rush not everyone will be ready to come out at the same time as anyone else...were all different.

[mad7o7]

yeah i'm planning on coming out when my granmother dies and my grandfather and yeah all the super old people but you know i think they already know

[garydaley9]

Do you swallow?

[Stonebridge598]

Garydaley9, Shut the Hell up u fukin retard u son of a bitch.

[garydaley9]

you must know he's a spitter then.Fancy a wrestle you butch boy?

[WMDraco]

hehe i came out on my 16th aswell ;) But i was drunk...

[brotherbeegee]

I said to my mother that "some guys like pamela anderson, I like Jake Gyllenhal."

[madonnawhore]

I'm going to hell for plenty of OTHER things... lol

[Sean2046]

what's with people always coming out via 5 page letter? i've yet to come out but i plan to do it soon once i'm off to college and i plan to just do it over the phone and say "i'm gay". is that a bad idea?

[joewilcock]

yeah, I think the Beanie Babies could have been a clue :) always luvin ya... j.

[coondapoor]

nice one. although a bit usual. thanks for sharing it though

[itsgoodtobegay]

lol you're a funny guy. thanks for making the video. :)

[liveinmymusic]

HAHA you sound like that silver haired guy from Project Runway lol

[darkstillflying]

HAha, worked out differently for me. I told my best friend in september and kept it between usb etween us, then in january we decided ok time for everyone at school to know, so I got there that morning and blurted it out then about 2 months later I told my parents. Parents are the only people that didn't accept it. But no one knew I was bi =]

[murcury43]

well done you coming out ive just done the same thing.all my family have said they knew lol . good luck things will work out .

[ANTM55]

how could anyone not know! im jk i love you really

[wlkernan]

I kind of envy you. :) I grew up in a Christian Fundamentalist home, so at 16 coming out was just not an option for me. (My closest friends new, but not my family.) I wanted to, but...Anyway, everything you said about lying about yourself is so very true--did that, got depressed, and even suicidal. Although my family situation couldn't have turned out more different than yours, it was still worth it because I am happy. I miss them in my life, but what can you do in a situation like that?

[hutch1page]

There is nothing more imporant than us being truthful to ourselves and finding that inner happiness... and we cannot do that if we constantly have to lie. Even though it did not work out the best... you did the right thing. :) I hope the best and that one day the lost connections are restored.

[wlkernan]

Thanks! :) As for the lost connections, it sadly remains for them. I don't know where they are living anymore--they have moved in the few years that have passed since the last time I saw them, and they didn't let me know. (I know that sounds so sad.) They do, however, have my phone number. So...

[MrMatthew554]

@wlkernan very interesting I can't understand that at all

[fabINkennesaw]

Sounds like you really have it together, man. Congratulations!

[hutch1page]

Thanks :D

[N1trostyle]

"mrs. hutchinson" was the name of that crazy lady in that short story "the lottery" who stoned people to death

[lalaleahwitch96]

I knew I was gay since I was at least 11. I started just looking at girls in a different way. When I pictured my wedding day, I pictured me and a nice looking man in a forest (forest because I've been Pagan since I was like 10) and then the man always turned into a beautiful woman. And I would think to myself, "Wow, she's hot." Then I would be shocked with myself. I told my friends and they were cool. Then I started getting depressed. I waited 5 years to tell my parents and I was hidden.

[MrOwens07]

I am in love with you, thank you so much for posting this. I came out and my life has kind of been snow-balling every since, so really do appreciate this video. You said a lot of true things, especially the one about there aren't enough ocming out videos on here.

[hutch1page]

I'm glad you are practicing free speech :) I don't think enough people do here in the U.S.

[TheNewFiyinite7]

lol! true!

[crimsonfist3]

Then why do men have them?

[michaelramirez07]

i love u

[FootOfFury]

No, I mean - why did you become a gay person?

As for someone interested in psychology I'd like to know if there were any specific events in your life or something that made you attract to same sex. Or maybe you have experienced something traumatizing before etc? And when you understood you have these urges. And were you interested in girls while little?

[justjosey]

are you trying to say that you have to have been through a 'traumatic experience' to be gay? your insane. you know nothing about psychology. if you did, you would know that it is not only a psychology its about biology.

its about your genes. people aren't gay for any other reason than that's what they are. x

[MrOwens07]

Why did you become straight???? Being gay in not a choice or a decission - it's just there. People are born black, white, girl, boy, tall, short, and there are some that are born gay. Most hide it until they can handle the effects of "coming out", but beside that, there's really no reason as to why we came out, it's of a when did we feel like telling people the truth, ya know?

[FootOfFury]

Why are you gay?

[wlkernan]

I truly wish that people like FootOfFury could, just for a few moments (at least), step inside a gay person--I think they would realize once and for all that it has nothing to do with choice!!

[FootOfFury]

I wish I had a shell like a turtle.

[boredkid92]

is your friend that said you were going to hell still your friend?

[TheLatigoKid]

It's a brave thing you did. It took a lot of courage at 16. You could hav just lived your life "playing it off." Have a very cool life. You rock!

[esper24]

good job on this vid-has a more serious feel compared 2 the other ones but ya-bein gay aint a biggie ok kyle its kool

[raconter1]

Interesting, Kyle, you focused on your parents and their reaction, which really, in reality, was nothing to fear, and is now a bridge to understanding. However, you don't mention the best friend whose instinctive reaction was to condemn you...did she lighten up, or are you not friends anymore. Actually, best friends can play a very important role in making this easy or difficult! It's hard to deal with criticism from people you care about. Nice job! :)Jack

[teacupemily]

hahah i love you (:

[jason6562]

good man ;-)

[hutch1page]

Thanks! :D

[MadridSBC]

That's Nice That You Would Share Your Story =]

[molly2323]

part 2 lol....its rare though 2 hav parents s

who r so cool, some off my friends parents r like that an will ask me about guys i like, but i dont think my parents will b that ok, no i havnt told them? they will still love me off course but enough 2b ok wiv it?

[molly2323]

mothers know lol apparently, my comin out story isnt as nice, if u can say urs was, i didnt really tell any1, one of friends who isnt my friend anymore came across some letters that id been writtin to this guy an decided 2show every1 an tell every1 she met, so in the end every1 knew b4 i had even really made up my mind 2 say anything, which is good, cause they were like we knew, whats wiv that y does every1 know an uv been strugglin wv the decision 4 ages, is it a secret? lol

[alexie12345678]

lol this video makes me happy lol.

754897563897536w485 stars and a sub.

your awesome!

[saintfletcher]

Yeah, it is brave doing this young. So much prejudice and discrimination out there. I think I had about 4 Russian closet doors to come out of one after the other before I came out to the open. It's a relief more than anything. I don't talk about it much on my channel. Blessings from Earth +++ The Saint +++

[mrbook7]

right on. I also believe it is still necessary to come out

[stevie901]

i don't believe in coming out.

people know i'm Bi, but i haven't said to them "i'm bi". I only said it to one freind, i was like "ah fuck i'm horny, fuck it. I'm bi, isn't he hot?!" that was like easy, but yeah i don't plan on "coming out" i don't believe in it.

if want it to be normal to be gay/bi in society, don't "come out", if you don't have to come out people will start have to assuming you are gay or straight, not just assuming you're straight.

[bbycakes08]

You are so brave to come out so young! It's an inspiration :)

[crimsonsai]

i know how the felt!lol u came out at 16? dang im a chicken i came out at 18. and it wasnt a very good "coming out experience" lol hit me up if u wanna know bout it! but ne ways! keep the vids coming kyle!! u rock

[InnocentLittleBoy]

wow ur cute, way to go honey!!!!!

i can sooo relate too all that

[ColdIce101]

wow at least u had da guts to tel somone i only told 2 pple and 1 of dem i dont talk to anymor da 1 i dont talk to anymore wen i told her she's lik wat does dat mean? and i was lik u gotta be shitten me and den my other friend i told that is totally cool with it told her what it meant now we don't talk at all anymore to tell you the truth im bi and my friend that i dont talk to anymore i actually have a crush on her like a big 1 and my mom i told her she said i was to young to kno bout dat stuf

[LennyHH]

thanks for the friends request. Your story was really cool ^^ and I liked the graphics you put in :)

*thumbs up*

btw: you are really cute xD

[rosecoloredtimes]

Love it.

Everyone pretty much knew with me. They were like... "Duh!"

[G0th1cR0s3]

I love you Kyle. Did you really play with flowers? It wouldn't shock me if you did. By the way, your friend is wrong - you're not going to hell. You're too kind and sweet to do that. Besides, you wouldn't stand a chance there. <3

[animerox]

"I would rather play with the flowers then sports." haha! You know, I may not be able to relate to your story in the same way, but I think just as a human being, I can. I know what it feels like to think that you have to lie about a part of yourself. I'm glad that everything went your way, because it doesn't for all. I love the bit about Survivor. Can't hold off on Survivor now! haha Good luck and I love your vids!

[tamasurvivor]

sounds like my coming out story! Yet I came out to my girlfriend at the time... and everyone else just already knew!