George Collins on TV Panel with Porn People - Part 1

[The109926]

ya its like gambling u bet money tha u lose money... same thing in porn u watch it and than u lose ur house 2 .... lol what a retard religious people nerver know what to say and always say stupid stuff that don't make any sense

[compulsionsol]

@The109926, You're right about losing. I have clients that have lost their jobs, families, homes, AND ended up in jail. Way not pretty. There's some talk in my new book about religion and spirituality. Interesting stuff. George

[compulsionsol]

Thanks. Great comment. Men need reality, wouldn't you say? Fantasy leads to isolation, addiction and heartache. Men from all over the country tell me that daily. George

[andrjsh]

The "actress"'s assertion that men need a fantasy avoids the need for reality in a relationship.

[compulsionsol]

An amazing comment. I do this for a living and couldn't have said it better. Thanks for your input. Hopefully, you will read more good stuff like this when my book hits the stands this summer or early fall. Best, George

[selahofhim]

The big questions are what is sex & what does porn teach about it? Recovering from porn, I know it teaches sex is simply a recreational sport with any partner. It substitutes 4 an intimate relationship, shows women are 2 b used/dominated/objectified, & it can b used 2 escape reality. The truth it ignores-sex is an intimate emotional & spiritual connection between a man & woman, designed 2 bond them 4 life, & create children. Porn is a dangerous fraud destroying time, money, families & lives!

[xbox360prof]

MY NAMES GEORGE COLLINS

[smerrigan]

Its scary how naive people really are to sensitization effects of this forsaken industry.."normal upbringing" doesn't mean anything-just like any 12-step AA,NA,SA..etc..porn doesn't discriminate when imprinting on the brain..doesnt care if you came from a white collared picketed fence in New England suburbia..keep up the great work George- you are doing a good work with recovering addicts and will be rewarded one day on the otherside

[compulsionsol]

You're right. We get people from ALL walks of life. Addiction does NOT discriminate. We do, however, get them to become whole. Not who they THOUGHT they were, but who they REALLY are. Thanks for the compliments. best, George

[spvggzckwn]

You are sooo strange in the usa... its so funny to see this

[compulsionsol]

What do you mean? What does your culture say? Best, George

[xtraordinarymachine0]

I wish there were more men who opposed porn. I feel there needs to be more education on the effects of porn - I believe it changes how you view other people.

[rabadooda]

0:47 - its ugly betty!

[OoReachingJannahoO]

i hate it

and all who watch it

[compulsionsol]

BE careful. Real women are better for you. Really. George

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

Yeah...But real women won't break your heart, and it's virtually no headache :-P

[compulsionsol]

I don't know. I've got a LOT of clients who have overdone porn to the extreme. CHANCE the broken heart my friend. It's real. You can handle it if you try. George

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

No I know George, I'm just kidding. I know too much of anything isn't good, including porn.

So how long have you been free from porn? Have you written any books about the subject?

[compulsionsol]

I got into Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (Twelve Step) almost twenty years ago. Got clean of porn, got a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology, and started Compulsion Solutions in '95. We do effective work (via telephone/inet) with men (and women) all over the world. My E-Book to be on the site soon. Have you watched the videos?

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

where is this? Manilla?

[ominuka]

To be honest it does get boring after a while. Most of all many people can get tied up in any addiction, be it porn or anything else. I don't blame other people for having a detestable job the reason why someone would become addicted. The thing is, if you want to stand up for something and have a decent life, you'll stay away from crazy lifestyles that involve mass consumption of alcohol, drugs, sex etc.

[rosieparez]

@TehRealMayo01 you ask the most idiotic question. Maybe they all look half asian b/c they are dip shit.

[aSexualCompulsive]

That christian guy is full of cr*p, many people can enjoy a beer, and not end up selling their house for alcohol, but for others alcohol becomes a substitute for personal problems embedded into them from an early age, just like sex addiction.

[johnsch2003]

I agree about "objectifying". I honestly looked in my heart. My watching of porn, which is compulsive, makes me see women walking around me as objects and not as people. Probably it is different with other guys. But i have honestly told how it affects my thought pattern

[compulsionsol]

Objectification and sexualization is GOING ON in our society big time. Look at the media. Sex sells and boy are they USING it. But look at the outcome! It's, literally, crazy to see a person from the outside rather than the inside. We teach intimacy here at Compulsion Solutions...into-me-you-see. Intimacy. I appreciate your comment. You are not alone. Watch your mind and let your Higher Self be your guide. George

[ominuka]

BTW, what do they mean started thousands of years ago? I mean come on, pictures on walls is not pornography. It's more/less a way to keep track of life...

[friscobabyyy]

April...you don't think that shaking your naked ass in front of tons of guys is demeaning? YOu use the words moral values but do you even know what that means? you are such a bullshitter. how did you learn how to dance "sensual" anywayz? wasnt it from a strip club? you are truly one of thos ppl who represent women in a bad light and you're sitting in front of hundreds of people preaching??? oh mah god....

[agodsgirl]

You go friscobabyyy, ignorance is all I can say about this woman. I just divorced my husband a year ago over his porn addiction. He could not be intamate or make love the last two years of our relationship. I am glad people are speaking out and God Bless You!

[aSexualCompulsive]

@agodsgirl: Did you try to understand his addiction, did he go to see a councilor. I know that only when the addict sees that he or she has a problem then that is the first step in seeking recovery. One of the most important parts of recovery is familly.

If he would not accept his problem you were right in divorcing him, mybe that would have made him see his distructive actions. One of the problems is "its not hurting anyone" - "apart from myself", but as in all cases that is not the case.

[crayrail]

Don't judge her too harshly. Her insight is valuable. She actually seems to agree with the Christian cat, whatever his faults in his argument.