Thank you so much!!! I am having issues with my co-workers at work. You said things that are happening to me. I really needed to hear this because I was letting my co-workers consume my life. And this is not cool. I will work at this. I'm glad I came across your videos.
that's where I get confused one day I'm letting ppl walk all over me the next I'm being assertive but I seem to put it across the wrong way, and some days I can just be a down right BItch. Sadly. but i also feel a certain sense of power at the time for having the guts to speak my mind. so dunno!! but your advice sounds like the way to go, just easier said than done as I'm sure you know :)
I too, would also love to thank you for sharing this message. It is so true that keeping one's temper is the key to not loosing control of the present time ahead. My only advice is...whenever theres a disagreement. Control your tone of voice and everything else will fall in place. While the antagonist is going berserk act as a mirror and allow that person to see themselves. Thank You.
I have always had a hard time with my temper. As I've gotten older I dont let the little things bother me. BUT when I have something to say, I get tounge tied when I try to express myself. I am a "cut the middle man & go straight to the point" type person. I have found myself walking away rather then expressing myself. Then I get upset that I couldn't say what I feel. It can get so hard! I go from one extreme to the other. How do I learn to walk that line?
@Ingrid0424 I believe we all walk that line each time we walk away or know when to not say a single word. The great thing about Laughing Now, and Crying Later is that it's a continuous cycle in which we jump in and out whenever we choose. Sometimes we silence our tongue because we know that point in time would've become violent. We never like to say it but the only time to unleash anger is when someone close to us has been hurt in-vain. Follow Peace...Even Anger has it's order in the Universe.
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
I'm not an empath, but EVERYONE needs this advice because bullying is a serious problem at work/society in general. I can be polite and some folks still act like jerks. I don't know why they're allowed to keep their jobs. I'm nervous because I just started a new job and hope I don't have to deal with this drama. I DO NOT want to be treated like a doormat, but I don't know what to do because bullies don't respect other people at all.
Thank you fro the wonderful video, I really needed to hear this as well as many others. What perfect timing and it sounds like you really have quite a connection with your guides and the lesson was taken wholeheartedly with me and will be a lifelong tool. I am glad you were able to get your day off despite the issues at work and hope things slow down a bit for you. Enjoy the New Year holiday!
aww thanku Sunshine, lov ur messages. I have a quick temper (Im like a wok - heat up quick, cool down just as quick) so this message was especially poignant. I feel your pain working in sales at this time of year - it should be illegal to work on xmas eve and boxing day! It can be hard to maintain a peaceful outlook when you are dealing with demanding customers...an they are the worst at this time of year! hope u take the time off that you deserve over the new year! much love to you Rose xox
Thank you for this video, I struggle within the home and at work with negative people; often anger is present and it's difficult to contend with. I try to shield myself but I seem to absorb everything and it starts to bring me down and saddens me. Merry Christmas.
I just had an experience with someone who called me very stressed out and up set and mad,i instantly started to feel and react the same way i was thinking...Why am I getting stressed and upset i was just so calm ?
I have this a lot ,watching this really helped me to think about how to control that,because i pick up on peoples feelings right away!
...without tolerating nonsense. Remaining calm and in control of oneself, as you said, really is the answer. And you know what? Being a steady example is not only right, but the most effective reality check and chastisement against someone behaving stupidly. Nothing sets the Darkness straight, better than Light. Its amazing how truly loving that person through it, manages to "tell them off" the most. Its the only way to genuinely burn their ego, while genuinely loving them, at the same time. :)
I love your honesty, Rose! This vid is SO on point. Its like you took the words right out of my mouth! lol I struggle with this very thing, myself - it is no joke. I think because our empath ability IS so natrual to us, we don't automatically see the distinction. Its a challenge to constantly be aware of/remember something that's such a core part of you. And you're right about balance. We're sweet - not stupid. It's both possible and as it should be - to be truly loving [con't...as usual. lol]
Thanks for shareing this message at a time that I really REALLY needed to recieve it. I have a lot to say about this, buy i'll leave it at that. THANK YOU!
I love way you are, the way u speak! I wish i had a partner like you (*_*) your heart is beautiful!!! Lol i cant believe i have a crush on you!!! =p silly me. Well at lest am not afried to speak my heart/mind =) good night Namaste love light & oneness
Thank you so much!!! I am having issues with my co-workers at work. You said things that are happening to me. I really needed to hear this because I was letting my co-workers consume my life. And this is not cool. I will work at this. I'm glad I came across your videos.
Thank You Again!
p3121 4 weeks ago
@soulteachings Wow, I feel honored for the comparison, because we are all so much alike. Thank You.
916suns 9 months ago
that's where I get confused one day I'm letting ppl walk all over me the next I'm being assertive but I seem to put it across the wrong way, and some days I can just be a down right BItch. Sadly. but i also feel a certain sense of power at the time for having the guts to speak my mind. so dunno!! but your advice sounds like the way to go, just easier said than done as I'm sure you know :)
ShesThe1yup 1 year ago
@Ellom27 - THANK YOU! <3 Love, Light and Blessings!
Ingrid0424 1 year ago
"I honor the spirit in you which is also in me."
Ellom27 1 year ago
I too, would also love to thank you for sharing this message. It is so true that keeping one's temper is the key to not loosing control of the present time ahead. My only advice is...whenever theres a disagreement. Control your tone of voice and everything else will fall in place. While the antagonist is going berserk act as a mirror and allow that person to see themselves. Thank You.
Ellom27 1 year ago
I have always had a hard time with my temper. As I've gotten older I dont let the little things bother me. BUT when I have something to say, I get tounge tied when I try to express myself. I am a "cut the middle man & go straight to the point" type person. I have found myself walking away rather then expressing myself. Then I get upset that I couldn't say what I feel. It can get so hard! I go from one extreme to the other. How do I learn to walk that line?
Ingrid0424 1 year ago
@Ingrid0424 I believe we all walk that line each time we walk away or know when to not say a single word. The great thing about Laughing Now, and Crying Later is that it's a continuous cycle in which we jump in and out whenever we choose. Sometimes we silence our tongue because we know that point in time would've become violent. We never like to say it but the only time to unleash anger is when someone close to us has been hurt in-vain. Follow Peace...Even Anger has it's order in the Universe.
Ellom27 1 year ago
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
tresfancy 1 year ago
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
tresfancy 1 year ago
Thank you so much. Exact situation I am in at the moment. Clarified the point for me. This is the place I usually hit the wall and wake up wondering where I am. I now am only able to sleep and unable to meditate due to a huge unexpected blow up of someone elses anger. This time I'm staging a sit in until I'm listened to because it is elder abuse by an individual in extreme soul pain and no hope. What I have learned is that no physical torture or pain is as painful as a soul without hope.
tresfancy 1 year ago
I'm not an empath, but EVERYONE needs this advice because bullying is a serious problem at work/society in general. I can be polite and some folks still act like jerks. I don't know why they're allowed to keep their jobs. I'm nervous because I just started a new job and hope I don't have to deal with this drama. I DO NOT want to be treated like a doormat, but I don't know what to do because bullies don't respect other people at all.
yenenga82 1 year ago
Thank you so much for this video. It meant a lot to me. Now I know for certain I'm an empath and I need to take care.
pisceslove 1 year ago
Thank you fro the wonderful video, I really needed to hear this as well as many others. What perfect timing and it sounds like you really have quite a connection with your guides and the lesson was taken wholeheartedly with me and will be a lifelong tool. I am glad you were able to get your day off despite the issues at work and hope things slow down a bit for you. Enjoy the New Year holiday!
starringlolabelle 1 year ago
Agree! Stay centered in who you are. Its a war of energies. Stay strong in your love & peace energy
yo1dude1man 1 year ago
Stay Positive! Stay positive, stay positive, stay positive.
Smile! Say "Hello!" to them. Ask them how they're doing.
yo1dude1man 1 year ago
aww thanku Sunshine, lov ur messages. I have a quick temper (Im like a wok - heat up quick, cool down just as quick) so this message was especially poignant. I feel your pain working in sales at this time of year - it should be illegal to work on xmas eve and boxing day! It can be hard to maintain a peaceful outlook when you are dealing with demanding customers...an they are the worst at this time of year! hope u take the time off that you deserve over the new year! much love to you Rose xox
msezyrider 1 year ago
Merry Christmas Rose and I hope you have a happy New Year. I appreciate your genuiness and youe loving nature!!!! **hug**
SeasonAndShine 1 year ago
Honest perspective as always, showing the light and dark. thank you
latestaley 1 year ago
Thank you for this video, I struggle within the home and at work with negative people; often anger is present and it's difficult to contend with. I try to shield myself but I seem to absorb everything and it starts to bring me down and saddens me. Merry Christmas.
listenlightlove 1 year ago
I am so glad that you made this video!
I just had an experience with someone who called me very stressed out and up set and mad,i instantly started to feel and react the same way i was thinking...Why am I getting stressed and upset i was just so calm ?
I have this a lot ,watching this really helped me to think about how to control that,because i pick up on peoples feelings right away!
Thanks Rose may love fill your life! :)
chelsearayl 1 year ago
...without tolerating nonsense. Remaining calm and in control of oneself, as you said, really is the answer. And you know what? Being a steady example is not only right, but the most effective reality check and chastisement against someone behaving stupidly. Nothing sets the Darkness straight, better than Light. Its amazing how truly loving that person through it, manages to "tell them off" the most. Its the only way to genuinely burn their ego, while genuinely loving them, at the same time. :)
TheSpiritsSecret 1 year ago
I love your honesty, Rose! This vid is SO on point. Its like you took the words right out of my mouth! lol I struggle with this very thing, myself - it is no joke. I think because our empath ability IS so natrual to us, we don't automatically see the distinction. Its a challenge to constantly be aware of/remember something that's such a core part of you. And you're right about balance. We're sweet - not stupid. It's both possible and as it should be - to be truly loving [con't...as usual. lol]
TheSpiritsSecret 1 year ago
Thanks for shareing this message at a time that I really REALLY needed to recieve it. I have a lot to say about this, buy i'll leave it at that. THANK YOU!
TheNobleCure 1 year ago
@TheNobleCure Thank You For Commenting- Bless You Dear Heart & Merry Christmas!
916suns 1 year ago
@916suns Merry Christmas Beautiful Soul!
916suns 1 year ago
u are a Angel Rose!
unknownagentm88 1 year ago
I love way you are, the way u speak! I wish i had a partner like you (*_*) your heart is beautiful!!! Lol i cant believe i have a crush on you!!! =p silly me. Well at lest am not afried to speak my heart/mind =) good night Namaste love light & oneness
awakingligth 1 year ago
@awakingligth Thank You So Much! Merry Christmas , Universal Blessings!
916suns 1 year ago