Mail Box By Yusuf Estes - Relationship between boys & girls in Islam

[shoxrux93]

Assalamu Alaykum I pray 2 times a day shom and kufton Is is okey? Because of my school and jobs If I prey to ALLAH (swa) to guide my family to pray,,is that represents shirk??.

[Muhanad0681]

@shoxrux93 Allah said that we should pray 5 times a day (it's a fardh) and if you can't do it because of school, you can add them together when u go home, but praying is not long, maybe 5 min, so try to have time for it while u r in school...and You are doing it for Allah, it must come from your heart first before you put it in other people's heart. Because on Judgement day Allah will talk to each one of us about what we did, so you will worry about your own things not anyone else's.

[TheBleedingFire]

this question is awesome... made my day

[sghouse]

Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,

zina will clean all the good deeds for 70years, is int it, and where in quran it has mentioned, what is the easy way of keeping the view down when driving when all pictures showing women with out scarves on their heads, what to say rather than lahoula wala quwwatha,

jazakumullahi khair.

[meryem25813]

Offf so true.. i think a lot about the girl my husband has been engaged to, before me.

But alhamdulillah he assures me all the time he married me bcz iam better than her for him.

Its hard to fight the jealousy in ur heart

[nadoeloiskat]

@meryem25813 if you believe that you're better than her, it doesnt mean that you really are. there could be a 1000 other reasons why he is with you now except that you're better. BTW this is so dirty subject. Here in Finland you can see everywhere a muslim men with his non-muslim "girlfriend" but not the opposite. Islam is a LIE.

[thugg22]

@nadoeloiskat And i can guess that you didn't really ask if the "girlfriend" was a christian or actually his wife. In case you did know she was just a "girlfriend", then consider going to talk to that person about his hypocrisy in the first place. But i have a bad feeling that you will not do that. Finnish people like to complain but never actually do anything. It's a sad state really.

[KnightCrawler2]

As a convert I have been with other women sexually but not since I have coverted to Islam. Will I be frowned upon by the Muslim community?

[KnightCrawler2]

@zihorah lol ur an idiot. Show me any proof of this you fool?

[sniperkills90]

Totally agreed...It pretty much fills that last space in your heart where it should be fileld with love and affection..It completes the man, like a puzzle being completed.

[biblegirl]

Well this is something that Christians and Muslims can agree on

[SuperDreamland]

I would like to tell you that we are brothers. because we are from the same father " Adam" also , we are worshiping the same god who creat the universe.

[sniperkills90]

No, we do not worship the same GOD. Christians worship the "Trinity", while Muslims worship the one true GOD, Allah swt.

[sniperkills90]

Christians dont believe in this stuff...What r u talking about..They have premarital sex relations like 80% of the time..They have BF and GF at least 2 or 3 times...Thi is pretty much somethign they dont agree on...

[biblegirl]

Okay, just b/c Christians don't practice it doesn't mean that's not what the religion teaches. There are plenty of people who lie, cheat, steal but the Bible says not to. I'll agree that there are many people who call themselves Christian that don't do what they should but maybe they're not really Christian. There are a lot of people out there that simply say they are to please mom and dad

[sniperkills90]

Go compare a muslim high school to a USA high school with christians..rofl. BIG BIG BIG difference

[aishahossam]

let me plz say something to you, first off not everyone in a usa school is christian,and just because ur born in usa dont make u christian, and just because ur born in muslim country dont make u muslim, what makes u muslim is doing what allah swt commands of you, and wht makes someone christian is doing what god commands of them,the bible clearly states tht sex befor marriage is a sin, just like it says in the quaran, when ur born in usa ur american only, ur religion is in ur faith not country

[sniperkills90]

Yes but most christians do have premarital sex. Thats why, in a christian dominated U.S, there are very high levels of teen pregnancy problems and related issues.

[aishahossam]

yes it ahppens in usa but its not allowed in christianity, thats my point, just because someone is born in usa dont mkae them christian, when you are a true christian u dont do this

[Piercedpixie56]

If you ever read the Qur'an, you would find there is a lot Christians & Muslims can agree on :)

[hedgehoghoodlum]

I don't need to marry the love of my life... That's what society wants. Also, Allah/God doesn't magically prevent AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases from spreading when I marry someone......

As well, STD's can be given to you through your mother at birth. So you don't have to go around sexing everything you see to die from one... My plan is this, destroy all carriers of STD's until the human population is cleansed (at least for a while)

[inmyhart1]

Muslim :- so .. nomadicsaharacrew .. would you like that the person who will marry your sister to try her befor marriage like a car befor he buy .. theres a featuers and conditions for the best girl to marry in islam ... but what u wnna do is just what animals are doing .. and even animals dos not do so in that way ..be logical and be polite

[nomadicsaharacrew]

christian: how will i know that i want to marry her if i didn't have sex with her. i can see they're making a good point actually,

[arabrockerman]

Shouldn't marriage be more than about sex shouldn't it be about having children and family too and how you love that person.

Also part of marriage is that you have to fill your sposes desire for sex in Islam (i believe) so actually lets say if my wife refused to have sex for whatever reason believe it or not I would have the right to marry another women visa versa I think (not sure) she could divorce me.

[sjunor]

Its interesting to open this dialog in an analytical way. There are many similarities between Judeo-Christian and Muslim religions. I don't consider myself religious but its nice to open a means of communication rather than casting assumptions upon each other.