People need to realize the only reason they are sad is because they don't get something they want or things are not they way they want it to be. There would be no emotion if there was no want. I know going with the flow loses your character but is that more important than your health? Everyone can answer that question differently, but people need to understand that things go certain ways and you DO have an impact on which way they go. People need to learn to give without expecting anything back.
@czerwonymike Don't people have basic needs that should be fulfilled? Lying back and accepting what happens and having no boundaries is the perfect recipe for unhappiness and mental illness. As long as your wants and expectations aren't too high then you should be trying to find solutions to problems and looking for fun and friendship instead of waiting for it to come to you. Having character and emotions is vital for good health.
I'm so happy that I'm not with him anymore. I used to have everything and now have nothing, but I'm happy. Finally I'm doing things that I always wanted to do. I'm strong and I will fight for my kids.
wank alot keeps me happy
Archiiz1 4 months ago
What if your family members are abusive or have been distanced by the main abusive family member and cause nothing but stress?
lemsip 7 months ago
People need to realize the only reason they are sad is because they don't get something they want or things are not they way they want it to be. There would be no emotion if there was no want. I know going with the flow loses your character but is that more important than your health? Everyone can answer that question differently, but people need to understand that things go certain ways and you DO have an impact on which way they go. People need to learn to give without expecting anything back.
czerwonymike 2 years ago
@czerwonymike Don't people have basic needs that should be fulfilled? Lying back and accepting what happens and having no boundaries is the perfect recipe for unhappiness and mental illness. As long as your wants and expectations aren't too high then you should be trying to find solutions to problems and looking for fun and friendship instead of waiting for it to come to you. Having character and emotions is vital for good health.
lemsip 7 months ago
I'm so happy that I'm not with him anymore. I used to have everything and now have nothing, but I'm happy. Finally I'm doing things that I always wanted to do. I'm strong and I will fight for my kids.
The truth has to come out.
Thank you Mandy.
agrellka 2 years ago 3
Thank you Mandy. Love the wisdom you have. I have been using your suggestions and it has made a HUGE difference. Thank you SO MUCH!!!!
Sophia
Shongalolo71 2 years ago 3