im glad this video exists. my girlfriend wants to get a pap smear. but i really think its just a way for another man to get in and play around. it makes me sad. its not fair. in the end, im just the boyfriend. i dont even have a say. if shes aloud to get fingered by a male gynecologist, why cant i be aloud to go out and finger a different girl? how much different would that be?
I like the way you think melrules2011. Alot of girls don't have any respect for their own bodies and it's sad. But it's nice to find a girl who cares about who touches what part of her. youre very committed (:
i agree i am 16 and my first pap smear last week.i didnt want some stranger touching me and looking at me. its my body i should get a say in who can and cant see and touch me and last time i checked i do have that right but when i went to the doctor i was never asked i was told i had to undress and lay down thats it. i will never understand how woman are so ok with strangers looking and touching their bodies. the only person who should see my body besides me should be my future husband.
I agree with you. I've long maintained the gyn exam is just an excuse for the male medical fraternity to get their rocks off by probing the genitalia of hot women.
I totally agree, they violate our bodies,making us passive and non-resistant to their 'procedures' and ideologies, we must be good little girls/patients, feeling violated as many females do during and after these procedures makes us dumbed down and humiliated. They are to silence us thru 'shame' and fear of our sexualized parts.I've had two unnassisted births and the birth flow was not interrupted, messed with and controlled in the name of misogyny.*****
I agree with everything you've said. I've said that gyn exams are the most pointless, barbaric procedures for years. Doctors really do like to treat womanhood like it's a disease. The only thing that pisses me off more than the "need" for yearly pelvic exams is the fact that most women just accept this crap. Hopefully, one day, ALL women will be as knowledgeable as you. This video should be circulated around the web ASAP.
A few harsh allegations / words, but overall excellent! Circulate this video on Facebook or create a "group" of some sort. I love "Church of Modern Day Medicine."
Great video! The pelvic/ pap smear exam definitely needs to be abolished, because it belongs in the dark ages! I also recommend Laura Shanley's website, she talks about unassisted childbirth (some women even experiencing orgasmic births if left alone).
I must say you did an awesome job, now if you could only get more people to jump on the band wagon and keep posting videos like this, wow. I have had home births and hospital births and i would hands down go for home over and over again... Just make sure you are completely comfortable with your midwife and make sure she is trained properly and learn as much for yourself as you can to.. Knowledge is powerful when it comes to pregnancy and CHILDBIRTH. it is amazing.
I think the key is "take care of your body" women of many years ago did have sex at a young age, many getting married as early as 13-16, but they had ONE partner and so did the husband. When women drink, smoke cigarettes, and pot and have several sexual partners then they are at serious risk for many deadly health issues.
I don't agree that ALL doctors are horrible and if you feel uncomfortable with a doc, by all means see a midwife or nurse practitioner (they are more holistic than docs).
since my computer is being dumb i will reply here don't go say NO! if you absolutey have to bring a friend who will be a witness if they force it on you and you say NO! THAT IS RAPE.
it depends when I had mine at 15 it didn't the nurse was nice, but other people report it hurting, and then having bleeding afterwards. I have heard that female doctors are more painful then guys
I passed out and went to the er where I said no, but they kinda talked me into it. They found nothing. I'am glad to see a mother of teens that wouldn't allow that
yeah, why should some guy be allowed to get down there and look at my girl and finger and play around with her, its just wrong
bobthemous 1 year ago
im glad this video exists. my girlfriend wants to get a pap smear. but i really think its just a way for another man to get in and play around. it makes me sad. its not fair. in the end, im just the boyfriend. i dont even have a say. if shes aloud to get fingered by a male gynecologist, why cant i be aloud to go out and finger a different girl? how much different would that be?
xcrdude03 2 years ago
I like the way you think melrules2011. Alot of girls don't have any respect for their own bodies and it's sad. But it's nice to find a girl who cares about who touches what part of her. youre very committed (:
vaderdemon 2 years ago
i agree i am 16 and my first pap smear last week.i didnt want some stranger touching me and looking at me. its my body i should get a say in who can and cant see and touch me and last time i checked i do have that right but when i went to the doctor i was never asked i was told i had to undress and lay down thats it. i will never understand how woman are so ok with strangers looking and touching their bodies. the only person who should see my body besides me should be my future husband.
melrules2011 2 years ago 5
I agree with you. I've long maintained the gyn exam is just an excuse for the male medical fraternity to get their rocks off by probing the genitalia of hot women.
Masturbov 2 years ago
I totally agree, they violate our bodies,making us passive and non-resistant to their 'procedures' and ideologies, we must be good little girls/patients, feeling violated as many females do during and after these procedures makes us dumbed down and humiliated. They are to silence us thru 'shame' and fear of our sexualized parts.I've had two unnassisted births and the birth flow was not interrupted, messed with and controlled in the name of misogyny.*****
smmeegal 2 years ago
Stinky for sure
hetzii 2 years ago
i guess doctor's are dirty just because you say so! one day we'll have no doctors and everyone will be healthy.
pjmac88 2 years ago
I agree with everything you've said. I've said that gyn exams are the most pointless, barbaric procedures for years. Doctors really do like to treat womanhood like it's a disease. The only thing that pisses me off more than the "need" for yearly pelvic exams is the fact that most women just accept this crap. Hopefully, one day, ALL women will be as knowledgeable as you. This video should be circulated around the web ASAP.
EWalterJr 2 years ago 2
A few harsh allegations / words, but overall excellent! Circulate this video on Facebook or create a "group" of some sort. I love "Church of Modern Day Medicine."
703263 2 years ago
there is a facebook group called "against gyn exams", but I'am thinking about starting a myspace group
Cassandracutie18 2 years ago
I agree with you 100% that ob/gyn rape women I myself have felt raped when I was pregnant and seen an OB
harmonyjoy5 2 years ago 2
Great video! The pelvic/ pap smear exam definitely needs to be abolished, because it belongs in the dark ages! I also recommend Laura Shanley's website, she talks about unassisted childbirth (some women even experiencing orgasmic births if left alone).
Kilihardean 2 years ago 3
You know your stuff. Thanks for sharing.
inmeucjc 2 years ago 2
I must say you did an awesome job, now if you could only get more people to jump on the band wagon and keep posting videos like this, wow. I have had home births and hospital births and i would hands down go for home over and over again... Just make sure you are completely comfortable with your midwife and make sure she is trained properly and learn as much for yourself as you can to.. Knowledge is powerful when it comes to pregnancy and CHILDBIRTH. it is amazing.
dcakadr 2 years ago
I think the key is "take care of your body" women of many years ago did have sex at a young age, many getting married as early as 13-16, but they had ONE partner and so did the husband. When women drink, smoke cigarettes, and pot and have several sexual partners then they are at serious risk for many deadly health issues.
I don't agree that ALL doctors are horrible and if you feel uncomfortable with a doc, by all means see a midwife or nurse practitioner (they are more holistic than docs).
montananurs 2 years ago
Im havign mine done friday its my first nad im so freaking scared any tips for me ?
xmorganxh 2 years ago
since my computer is being dumb i will reply here don't go say NO! if you absolutey have to bring a friend who will be a witness if they force it on you and you say NO! THAT IS RAPE.
Cassandracutie18 2 years ago
does a pap smear hurt
xmorganxh 2 years ago
it depends when I had mine at 15 it didn't the nurse was nice, but other people report it hurting, and then having bleeding afterwards. I have heard that female doctors are more painful then guys
Cassandracutie18 2 years ago
Why did you get a pap smear at age 15? (Rhetorical question - you do not have to answer). As a mother of teenage daughters , I would not allow that.
703263 2 years ago 2
I passed out and went to the er where I said no, but they kinda talked me into it. They found nothing. I'am glad to see a mother of teens that wouldn't allow that
Cassandracutie18 2 years ago 2