your really gorgous! your whole voice and 'swag' is reallly attracting.and yourrr an amazing person... and as a mtf i wld date youu hahah but that wld be a lil weird ai...? :P x
@GaugeMichael XD Yup. My mother just has to get as many "he's" as possible in every convo about me and then acts like she doesn't realize what she is doing. -_-
write them off.period...move...start a new....your depressed becasue you have a bunch of haters trying to control you...it is the most liberating thing you can do for yourself. Turning your back and running is a good idea. When no one knows your gender ie all the new people you will meet in a different town then you are less suceptible to criticism and all the hate monging nastiness. Much Love, AVI
@AVITRANSMAN I've moved and moved so many times to get a fresh start but this was before taking hormones and my name change. Once I get it all changed and find a area I would like to move too that might be the case. But for now, I'm tired of moving lol I am finally settled. I have never lived in a place for a year....so I'm going to make the best of it. But that idea is a good option :)
Because I live with my parents and because I probably will for a while (given my current struggles with depression), I know they will make no effort unless I continually have conversation with them. However, it can be intimidating to confront people I am so indebted to. As well, my brother still sees me as his sister even though he claims to accept me. It's hard, especially since I haven't even begun physical transition yet, but I just have to deal for now and one day everything will be ok.
@godismyjudge89 Hey bro, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through depression. When you have it just drains the hell outta you. I hope that you will get things situated and on your feet to find happiness. It's a tough trying to keep yourself happy and to know what you want. You can't blame your family but shit, at least they could respect you enough to even try! it's very uncomfortable when being called by the wrong pronouns in public. Keep your head up high bro, it'll get better!
My mom's cousin Connie has called me Dan, but no one else in the family has. I can't blame the extended family because I just came out to them in February. However, I originally came out to my parents 6 years ago and just because I went back in the closet for the sake of religion doesn't mean that that never happened. When I came back out in February they acted shocked. And since then, only my mom has made slight effort by using DL in notes she leaves me.
friends should NOT even be a part of this question, even if it's a "slip up" they clearly don't see you as who you are,if some "friend" did that to me, that relationship instantly over
my fam is thankfully doing better specially since my stepmom got in the pic who ONLY uses the right pronouns BUT i will say it shouldnt be an issue either as long as i have been living liek this
LMAO at cage liek johnny cage xD
but you can blame her for the dumbassness of the enlis language G dose look liek C
@crakhoBITCH If a friend did that to me on purpose you best believe I will beat the living shit out of them. Well I told my mom in a text message about my name change and I guess she did mistaken the G for a C...it's all good, I forgive her. I'm glad to know that it's getting better for you. =)
@GaugeMichael no im not finished, stupid ass YT comment character count, about the englis language DO NOT get me started on a w being called a UU when it's a VV(double V) lmao
DONT WORRY, im going to bed NOW lmaoo...
well as soon as i finish watching the godfather part 2, which bdw i also ment to comment, don corleon is a man who lieks flowers :D
I totally relate, I am not sure if I am even going to my families thanksgiving dinner this year. My mother refuses to talk to anyone in her family about it and ask that I present as male when I come. Ugh it just makes me wanna show up in a beautiful holiday gown although I love my family and don't want to disrespect them either. Good luck this week sweetie!!!
@Bella1Paige It's sooo frustrating isn't it?!?! I just wish that they would give up a little more respect about it but I understand that it's hard for them to change. My brother who I've been close to all my life already uses the name and the correct pronouns! why can't they?!?! Screw turkey day, I gotta work and after that I'm hitting the strip club! lol thank you so much Bella, you too :)
@Bella1Paige Ohhh I had fun lastnight LOL! I think I met my first trans guy at the strip club. He knows my friend who is a lesbian and she told him about me. He's always identified as a lesbian but he was asking me all these questions and how he didn't feel like a woman....and I was like dude....your trans...lol I'll explain it more in my next vid! But I did have a blast! all the dancers were rubbing my head....ohhhhhhhhh how it felt so good! I LOVE DANCERS!!!! <3
@GaugeMichael So happy to hear your rocking out and having fun as yourself Guage! We all deserve to feel great about who we are and enjoy expressing it!
your really gorgous! your whole voice and 'swag' is reallly attracting.and yourrr an amazing person... and as a mtf i wld date youu hahah but that wld be a lil weird ai...? :P x
swexymofo66 7 months ago
omg...he's fucking hot!
Norijuice 1 year ago
parents are a different story. family is weird period. i got the whole you will always be my daughter speach too but my mom tries
boiwyatt 1 year ago
my friends are respectful. especially now that i dont look female at all.
boiwyatt 1 year ago
@boiwyatt It's a lot better when you don't look like the gender you can't stand to be :P
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
I feel ya, babe. Unfortunately, families tend to be the hardest to win over.
LicoriceLain 1 year ago
@LicoriceLain Ohhh I know this! they can be such douches lol!
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
@GaugeMichael XD Yup. My mother just has to get as many "he's" as possible in every convo about me and then acts like she doesn't realize what she is doing. -_-
LicoriceLain 1 year ago
write them off.period...move...start a new....your depressed becasue you have a bunch of haters trying to control you...it is the most liberating thing you can do for yourself. Turning your back and running is a good idea. When no one knows your gender ie all the new people you will meet in a different town then you are less suceptible to criticism and all the hate monging nastiness. Much Love, AVI
AVITRANSMAN 1 year ago
@AVITRANSMAN I've moved and moved so many times to get a fresh start but this was before taking hormones and my name change. Once I get it all changed and find a area I would like to move too that might be the case. But for now, I'm tired of moving lol I am finally settled. I have never lived in a place for a year....so I'm going to make the best of it. But that idea is a good option :)
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
aww you look so cute papi xoxoxoxo!!!
lolaluvzyou 1 year ago
@lolaluvzyou Tehe! thank you mami! <3
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
Because I live with my parents and because I probably will for a while (given my current struggles with depression), I know they will make no effort unless I continually have conversation with them. However, it can be intimidating to confront people I am so indebted to. As well, my brother still sees me as his sister even though he claims to accept me. It's hard, especially since I haven't even begun physical transition yet, but I just have to deal for now and one day everything will be ok.
godismyjudge89 1 year ago
@godismyjudge89 Hey bro, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through depression. When you have it just drains the hell outta you. I hope that you will get things situated and on your feet to find happiness. It's a tough trying to keep yourself happy and to know what you want. You can't blame your family but shit, at least they could respect you enough to even try! it's very uncomfortable when being called by the wrong pronouns in public. Keep your head up high bro, it'll get better!
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
My mom's cousin Connie has called me Dan, but no one else in the family has. I can't blame the extended family because I just came out to them in February. However, I originally came out to my parents 6 years ago and just because I went back in the closet for the sake of religion doesn't mean that that never happened. When I came back out in February they acted shocked. And since then, only my mom has made slight effort by using DL in notes she leaves me.
godismyjudge89 1 year ago
friends should NOT even be a part of this question, even if it's a "slip up" they clearly don't see you as who you are,if some "friend" did that to me, that relationship instantly over
my fam is thankfully doing better specially since my stepmom got in the pic who ONLY uses the right pronouns BUT i will say it shouldnt be an issue either as long as i have been living liek this
LMAO at cage liek johnny cage xD
but you can blame her for the dumbassness of the enlis language G dose look liek C
crakhoBITCH 1 year ago
@crakhoBITCH If a friend did that to me on purpose you best believe I will beat the living shit out of them. Well I told my mom in a text message about my name change and I guess she did mistaken the G for a C...it's all good, I forgive her. I'm glad to know that it's getting better for you. =)
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
@GaugeMichael no im not finished, stupid ass YT comment character count, about the englis language DO NOT get me started on a w being called a UU when it's a VV(double V) lmao
DONT WORRY, im going to bed NOW lmaoo...
well as soon as i finish watching the godfather part 2, which bdw i also ment to comment, don corleon is a man who lieks flowers :D
crakhoBITCH 1 year ago
I totally relate, I am not sure if I am even going to my families thanksgiving dinner this year. My mother refuses to talk to anyone in her family about it and ask that I present as male when I come. Ugh it just makes me wanna show up in a beautiful holiday gown although I love my family and don't want to disrespect them either. Good luck this week sweetie!!!
Bella1Paige 1 year ago
@Bella1Paige It's sooo frustrating isn't it?!?! I just wish that they would give up a little more respect about it but I understand that it's hard for them to change. My brother who I've been close to all my life already uses the name and the correct pronouns! why can't they?!?! Screw turkey day, I gotta work and after that I'm hitting the strip club! lol thank you so much Bella, you too :)
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
@GaugeMichael Have fun at the club boy!! you looking so good these days it not a wonder your getting propositions!! xoxo Bells
Bella1Paige 1 year ago
@Bella1Paige Ohhh I had fun lastnight LOL! I think I met my first trans guy at the strip club. He knows my friend who is a lesbian and she told him about me. He's always identified as a lesbian but he was asking me all these questions and how he didn't feel like a woman....and I was like dude....your trans...lol I'll explain it more in my next vid! But I did have a blast! all the dancers were rubbing my head....ohhhhhhhhh how it felt so good! I LOVE DANCERS!!!! <3
GaugeMichael 1 year ago
@GaugeMichael So happy to hear your rocking out and having fun as yourself Guage! We all deserve to feel great about who we are and enjoy expressing it!
Bella1Paige 1 year ago