Parental Alienation Syndrome

[kalo5977]

our goverment inTHE BEST INTEREST have aliented 100's and 10,000;s of us from our children and grandchildren when and how are we going to stop this I CAN ONLY THINK THAT I,M GOING TO GO GET MY KIDS FUCK THEM THEY STOLED MY FAMILY AND I WANT THEM BACK SO MAKE ME A CRIMINAL HOW CAN THEY JUSTIFY THERE TERMINATION OF SO MANY HARDWORKING TAXPAYERS OUR KIDS WE LOVE OUR SOCIAL SECURITY FUNDS ARE WHAT SUPPORTS THESE KIDS THEY STEAL I THINK MORE OF US SHOULD GO GET OUR KIDS CRAM UP THE COURTS

[mrsstarzshine]

okay, the bottom line is this... when the child grows up, the child will see and understand the truth... and then justice will be served... how can the parent expect to be loved and respected later in life???... therefore, looking on the brighter side of life... eventually when the parent dies of old age, the child will not grieve because the truth is exposed. It is nice to not have to suffer grief when the evil parent passes away...

[3720Sammy]

I think that morparbilly you are reading into this video too much. You are missing the message because you are so focused on man vs. woman. Both are affected so instead your negative energy chill and take in the message of the video

[moparbilly]

It's too bad that it focuses (once again as usual) that the child says "I miss my mom" and in parenthesis (or dad)!!!!!! 90 % of PAS is CAUSED BY THE MOTHER turning the kids against dad (like me) The women are ALWAYS made out to be the good parent and the dad is always the deadbeat. I was going to save this video until it portrayed me as the bad parent, fuck you.

[HolSosa]

Thank you, I'm a mother living with Nine years now of Parental Alienation, my kids were taken to Argentina, talk about a mother's living hell, welcome to my world!

[INTIMEFILMPRODUCTION]

SOMETHING MUST TO BE DONE TO PROTECT CHILDREN OR SOMETHING WILL BE DONE WHEN THE COURT SYSTEM MESSES WITH THE WRONG FATHER ONE OF THESE DAYS...instead of suicide, I'm sure that some father will go after the heads of this corrupt political organization: the judges.

ONCE JUDGES START GETTING ATTACKED BY SOME ABUSED FATHER, I AM SURE THE SYSTEM WILL CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.

[GoddessofPentacles]

WE NEED HELP IN GETTING MEDIA ATTENTION FOR THE INJUSTICE IN THE COURT SYSTEM AND CSE AGAINST NON-CUSTODIAL PARENTS WHO ARE GOING THROUGH PARENTAL ALIENATION AND BEING ACCUSED UNJUSTLY!! LOOK UP GUY RIGHTZ on FACEBOOK, who is fighting for his freedom and others in the same situation.

[RennieEllen]

My ex-husband did this to me & our 8 1/2 daughter during our divorce. He did everything the video said, even asking her to choose which parent to live with. He falsely reported me to Family Services for child abuse. When it was finally proven that I was innocent , he then wanted nothing more to do with his own daughter. His actions caused severe damage to our relationship. She's now 23 & we're in the process of "starting over" & rebuilding our relationship. Sadly, PAS is NOT a myth. It's real.

[chensse]

And the newest trend is to ailinate the children from grandparents.

Vanditive, manipulating minds.

These people should be on meds; as they are delusional.

[BigMikeandMikey]

I am fighting for my 2-year old son, my only child. My wife filed a bogus Domestic Violence Injunction on me in Florida in November 2010 and I was ejected from my new home and kept 500 feet from my son. She voluntarily dropped the DVI several months ago. Since mid-December my wife has been in contempt of court, tested positive for drugs, has 3 DCF cases on her, and a criminal investigation for cyber/computer crimes for hacking into my e-mail. And she STILL has primary custody of my son!!!

[Supremecy12]

Still missing my son who was taken by my ex husbands grandparents using the name of his father, although father didnt want him. A pain that does not go away even more than 20 years later. I dont understand this. My only hope is in Jesus bringing him back.

[stew0534]

I am a loving father who moved from Texas to Ohio, because the my boy's mother was born a raised here in Ohio.Only to have her divorce me, take my boys from me.The courts force me to pay alimony for 2yrs + child support.The mother is an RN with a BS, yet she refuses to work, & recently took be back to court to take away my 2 day mid-week visit during the school year & more child support.She is constantly scheduling activities during my parenting time with the boys.This woman defines PAS!

[w1e2s3s4]

Isn't there a million more like buttons. I will NEVER give up the battle for Niklaas.

[flambrow]

My son made a solid choice to be with his dad. He hates his mother!!!!! too bad!!!!!

she needs to deal with it.

[mixerNack]

Can somebody tell me why a parent does this ? Is it a compulsion ?

[RennieEllen]

@mixerNack -- I know in my ex-husband's case, he did it as a way to get back at me through our child. He was a total control freak. When things didn't go his way, he got even meaner. He even got his whole family involved, telling them I was "mentally unstable" when the truth was he just wanted to be in control of the divorce. He threatened me many times that I'd end up "a bag lady on Commercial Street" while he got everything, including our daughter. Happily, it did NOT work out that way. :oD

[tiball358]

this is a very real problem and running rabid in washington state. the senators i have talked to wont make issue of it. we need to petition these sitting judges. we need to hold liars accountable. ie false restraining orders. should equal real jail time! We need to restructure the family unit ideaology within the family court.

[AdVader]

Often I feel bad because I tell my children the truth, I know they are hurt but not telling the truth is an even bigeer lie, there are 4 possibilities and as a lonesome father without children in a familylife I can never do it right because of an abusive mother and government, my fatherhood seems a mission impossible but, I did it my way ..

[APPLEexampleSample]

my mother did this to me when I was 5 and it worked...

[justhonest32]

People need to call out Parental Alienators. Mothers like Nancy Manka!! Judges like Judge McCall!! Oklahoma does not care about children! Nancy has done so much to emtionally abuse her children and admits she only wants them for money!! I pray her children do not become a statistic! It will be at their mothers hand if they do!

[booooboooo2010]

It's unbelievable these trolls litter these videos with their trash, but it's great in that they reveal who they actually are as well, parental alienators and therefore child abusers. My daughter is a victim PAS by the mother. The mother is what's called an obsessive and has, like the trolls here, deep psychological problems. Parental alienation is picking up steam and is recognized by many juristictions now. Thanks for the video and your contribution in helping bring awareness to others.

[beckymac43]

I never dreamed my ex son in law would do this to my daughter, my grandkids or my self. I feel helpless and have tried to tell him the destruction of what he is doing to the kids. They love there mother and tell me this everytime I have been allowed to visit and when the visits are allowed I come bearing gifts but there is more to loving and nurturing children with gifts. I stand as my daughter's advocate trying to keep peace. So hard to be silent and fear if i say wrong, he will cut me out.

[weirdo46939]

I really thought this stuff only happened in movies until I seen one of my friends doing it, at first I thought it was just a rare thing. My parents were seperated and my mother always made sure we never spoke badly about him, if he forgot a birthday she would put a card or little gift in the mailbox from him. I knew because she forgot and I had to drop it off for my youngest sister. I do the same for my children now. I don't understand people who want to hurt their own children for no reason...

[mrmcfizzy]

This video just absolutley blew me away. I am a father and alienated parent of 2 children, whom I love very much. The facts that came across the screen were very acurate and very real. I'm fighting just to get visitation and she is trying to take all of my rights away. I wish that I could bring this into court with me. Never-the-less, thank you for such a moving and informative video.

[DUmfk2]

its the same old story.

If you have testicles you have NO RIGHTS.

All women should be lobatamised the minute they give birth as some of them turn into lying manipulative evil bitches.

[lisahere123]

@DUmfk2

Remember...many men do this too! It is NOT gender bias....but in your case I am terribly sorry for the children since the woman should always show her more tender side as a good example. :(

[DUmfk2]

depends on the woman in question really. i suppose but its the kids who suffer most and its just not right

[realzoomy]

"And now he hates me because his dad tells him to hate me"

Yes. I am going to light a candle tonight at 10.00pm and I will be praying for you and your child to be re-united. I hope you will also light a candle and pray as well. Jesus said that if two or more gather in His name that He is there also. Let us ask God for your son to be returned to you, my dear.

[realzoomy]

You must stop allowing yourself to be manipulated by the secret family court scamsters.

PAS was invented by a pedophile - you must stop using it!

The secret family courts are PREVENTING you from sorting out your relationship problems - Matt O Conner said this himself - but the secret family courts don't care about that - all they care about is money.

Stop using PAS and encourage your members to talk about their problems instead - and ask Jesus to heal the family breakdowns.

[JJZeune]

The thing is this people, parental alienation is very real and very sad. My son is a invitro baby. It took us 3 years to create him and close to $50,000.00.

He was a twin, the twin died when i was 20 weeks pregnant. My son is the love of my life and I would die for him today!!!

And now he hates me because his dad tells him to hate me.

I dont have the money to fight his dad in court. Anyone who says parental alienation isnt real needs to kiss thier children and thank god its not YOU.

[caffeine4all]

Parental Alienation is alive and well. People want to say it's a 'myth'. OK perhaps those same people can explain to my 4 year old son why he can't see his half sister.  No one truly understands PA/PAS unless they are living this nightmare. The people that condone this behavior are the same people that are brainwashing their children and getting away with it!! Myth my ASS, it's alive and well and children are suffering because one parent has CONTROL ISSUES. Spread the awareness..PA=ABUSE

[SacredSocietyAP]

@caffeine4all SO True...I am going through this with my child. Anyone who thinks PAS is a myth need only lose their child then they would know how it feels. Its pretty much legal kidnapping.

[flambrow]

@SacredSocietyAP It os a myth. you were probably to weak to keep your child. you should have fought harder when you had the chance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Activism007]

HOW about an APROXIMATION rule? WHO EVER WAS the primary parent IS the primary parent POST separation, and DOCUMENTED histories of violence PRECLUDE a parent from inflicting this on the rest of the family? FORGET about what's FAIR for PARENTS....and Let's GO BACK TO FAULT in divorce proceedings. THEN the MOST MORALLY FIT WILL be the BEST hope for these kids.

[sepul071200]

what u have just said rnischalke.....sums it up perfectly, fingers crossed it all goes well for me in the family court on the 5th sept, an goodluck to everyone else...who is hoping to have there children in their lives!!

[rnischalke]

The names and hearts change along the way but the story never does.

One parent wants to control, manipulate and hurt the other, and the absolute best way to do that is through the children.

It doesn't matter to them that they are destroying their own children in order to hurt the "target" parent.

I am so sorry that you are going through this with the rest of us.

[MelodyGerow]

My 19 year old daughter Demi and I are both very interested in speaking out about our experiences with Parental Alienation. For reasons I'm still searching to understand, and through circumstances surrounding a nasty divorce, my younger daughter Scarlett (15 yrs old) has been alienated from us since 4/1/2003. We have been involved with many aspects of the Judicial System, but have not succeeded in having court orders followed.

[gerowbro]

correction it was Nov 11, 2007 remember? you took her to the mental ward at KU Medical Center? She was suicidal?

Melody Gerow is one sick indivudal..

[MelodyGerow]

Mr. George Gerow's comments speak for themself.  Please pray for him to heal.

[1stborngerow]

your sure are full of it

[1stborngerow]

wake up

[gerowbro]

Wazzup

[nlpsupport]

I feel I have lost my children forever, in prayer I hope in my heart I cry. Love and support to any parent going through this as I am now.

Love

Alan

[wteva99]

3:11 My exact thoughts on a billboard.

[foryoutohear]

PAS DOES exist!!!Period!! What you women want is just ANOTHER way to get what you want based ONLY on YOUR word! I agree that if a woman says there is abuse it should be investigated but NOT taken as fact.MANY men lose children ,the love of their children ,money and sometimes their freedom based entirely on a woman's word. Absurd! I will fight to make sure that EVERYONE accepts the REALITY of PAS!

[childrescuer]

jenhow69, you are obviously a wicked parent and your language indicates you have a very low IQ and very poor verbal skills to express yourself. Shame on YOUR mother.

[ribhkum]

i thought i was just bieng paranoid, i didn't realise pas was aknowledged by anyone! i love my son more than anything in this world ! i haven't been allowed to see or speak to him for 3 years !

[mhutchinson74]

It's not about kids MUST absolutely have 2 parents. It's about a FIT AND LOVING parent being denied time with their child due to the vendictiveness and lies from the other parent.

[SacredSocietyAP]

@mhutchinson74 You are so right.

[childrescuer]

One parent is MUCH better than a life in foster care like my son has to endure because of insane, evil ideas that a kid must have two parents. Because of that wicked sexism, kids are trafficked by homosexuals because in your sick minds "two parents are better than one." Yeah, bullshit.

[RheinlandTom]

You sick bastard have no respect for your child. In your selfish greed you totally blind away that it took two people to give your son the present of life. Over 75 % of all rapers in the US come from single-mother families without stabile fatherly component. If this is what you want for your son then I hope you fall prey to one or two of these guys first.

[jenhow69]

childrescuer- your a fucking cock get your facts right idiot

[UKSecretCourts]

Gardner 's PAS theory and his various scales to differentiate true and false claims of child sexual abuse are not informed by science and have been discredited by his peers.

Rather than subjecting his theories to scientific review, most of Gardner 's writings are published through his own press or in nonscientific journals. (Dallam, 1999)

[greggprovenza]

With regard to paid child abusers:

Come witness the judgment of the great whore (a court judge). And help me to expose the bitch.

go to:

thekingdomofGodministry.

blogspot.

com

Click on the "Betrayed" video on that site as well.

[KitYamisaki]

My ex-wife is currently doing this with our daughters. She even convinced my oldest to lie to the court officials that I had been drinking and driving with them in the car. I don't want to sever their relationship with their mother, but she's telling them that I will kill their puppy! She told them that I was the one who filed for divorce when it was her.

Yes, it is extremely difficult to prove PA without several smoking guns. Even the G.A.L. is blind to this. Anyone with resources please..

[mhutchinson74]

I was checking out your profile and I thought it was strange that your age is 13, but whatever. I would recommend recording everything and I mean everything! Never ever do what the mother is doing. This will only cause more confusion in the child's mind, and of course, a resentment toward you. Do you believe in God? I believe that there is a plan for you and the children that is not for you to figure out, but know that these are God's children, not "ours" and one day they will know the truth.

[KitYamisaki]

im sorry my father was using my account for his comments im sorry,

i do belive in god,

I dont Love my dad

I consider him more of a uncle or brother, I dont belive in what he tells me or this video i enjoy weekends without him,

5:41 it is completly true with my dad...

this is my own opion im sorry again

i didnt lie to the court

[CASCorruption]

There have been several trolls going around these groups tryinhg to create desention. They are Agent Provocatuers. They usually have fairly new accounts from other countries. These pychopaths know their reign of terror is almost over. It's called acts of deperation. Fight on people, the truth is growing and the guilty are scattering like cockroaches. And when it comes to fruitition, trust me they will eat their own, by singing like canaries to protect their own hides.

[lawker777]

@KitYamisaki My mom always blames my dad, but when I observe her, she always provokes people with scathing comments. She always decieves me and demonizes me by calling me a liar and a juvenile. Im trying to get high SAT and Enriched course marks.Both my parents swear at me and say im useless. My mom never helps me with my boarding school application, now my university. She always alienates herslef, from me and everyone. I guess im on my own. I shouldve been on my own.

[KitYamisaki]

@lawker777 Do you relise my father used my account to comment? or the fact that he said i was lying to the court means that the judges will not listion to me? Im 16, im going to be a senior next year, i don't like him because he lies, my mother is really stressed. He harasses my grandmother and tried to have her house condmned when my mother moved us.when we were all still living togahter i thought of killing myself to get away from him, two years of counsoling only revealed to me nothing that i

[KitYamisaki]

@KitYamisaki needed to speak my mind, and when i do, (for example last year) i made up a legal document to be added to the visiting times that i can choose when to go to my dads (Meeker county says you get to be 15-16 when you can freely choose not to go) and it was repaled. So i was forced to spend weeks in the summer alone with my step-sibling that i don't like. This year i have two jobs so i opted not to go to my surpressing fathers MOTHERS house and be ignored all summer again the gma i dlik

[lawker777]

@KitYamisaki Wow, you are in a worse situation than im in. wtever happens, its not worth taking your life. You gotta show em that you are better. Try to move out of the shithole ASAP! Thats wt im doing right now. Like you, i also had to spend time with my stepsibling. I know that there have been many lies that have circulated. Just focus on your job and spend time with people who you like and can help u. Good luck.

[mirinanyasdad]

Parental Alienation is child abuse, enforce court orders, two parents and the other half of a childs family is in the best interest of the child not the resident parent and certainly not the family courts.Truth Equality Justice.

[Chickenlaptop]

"Children love both parents, mother & father" Well, this ain't true.

[CherishTheChildren]

Time to enforce the true law of nature and the universe. Which is to provide to all children a emotionally balanced child hood stop the BS Puppeticians and get off your asses judges and do your job that WE THE PEOPLE insist you govern us with truth and fair judgement stop the alienation and destruction of our children.

Great Job keep the awareness coming vicious parents will = a destructive future society

Love Light

[noler1]

im not sorry to say but this video remines me of my son's mom...btw great vid. god bless her soul

[preachur99]

Great job! Never give up...........

[sepul071200]

fantastic video, i hope all parents watch this an wake up to whats going on!!

[someonewhocansee]

very beautifully made ... a very sound message ... Thanks 75cliffe for the link!

[75cliffe]

Magnificently edited video! Super art work It says all there is to say giving a clear message to all!! I wish you well. God Bless the Child X

[lisahere123]

This describes my ex-husband exactly ! He has taken my 5 defenseless boys and has kept them from me for 3 years now! He even told them I was run over by a truck and am DEAD ! They were my pride and joy, and I am continueously begging the courts to let me see them...to which they keep denying me because my ex has all the money to keep fighting me, making up lies and buy off the Judge and lawyers !

[gerowbro]

are you sure your not just a drunk and a stinking liar?

[ctyofangels]

Thank you for doing this I was a child of PAS and this is true to my heart. This is a life long battle. I just started a myspace and I posted this on it Im supporting parents and kids going through this. The words here fit so well to my feelings God Bless you for reading my heart and emotions

Chrissy

[rffjbanner]

One parent calling the other parent names to

a child is as bad for the child as hitting them,it scars the child for life.

Children should not be used as a weapon

or a target by an irresponsible parent.

Thank you RFFJ