Weirdos with Personality Disorders?

[cocomaire]

I take pride in being a weirdo. I also seek out fellow weirdos on youtube. So called "normal" people scare me - the ones that remind me of stepford wives. Who are they, really? Who decides what constitutes a personality disorder? Is there a prototype personality that everyone is supposed to emulate? If we all had this personality, wouldn't we all just be exactly the same?

If whoever thinks we're weirdos would rather live in a world of one dimensional people, s/he has the disorder.

[kalacaw]

"Stepford wife" seems as accurate a definition as any. It's as though their personalities have been bleached. They should scare you.

[obsquatch]

I think that you are rad.

I also think that you totally fooled me into thinking that you had a Russian/Baltic accent.

And in closing, I think that the world should find more uses for tongue depressors and turkey basters, not necessarily together though, that might be dangerous.

Cheers!

[kalacaw]

obsquatch, my dear, I have a turkey baster but -- alas -- no tongue depressors. I'll abscond with one, though, the next time I visit my charming and talented doctor. The last time I was there he gave me a disposable, plastic speculum when I told him it would make a great "skeleton" for a duck puppet.

Do I know how to make efficient use of medical equipment, or what? :D

[romapsychic]

they say me and the gang are weirdo's Betty!

and we are' but just for fun! one who call's

another one a weirdo is the weirdo!

there's no excuse for them! lol jimmy!

[kalacaw]

I don't excuse 'em either, Jimmy.  I make them sit in the naughty corner. TIME OUT!!! Ha ha!

[romapsychic]

i keep my gang under control! yes they'ere

weird! but they only cuss at me! not my friend's they better not' i made them and

and i will take em out /ha!ha1 thanks Betty BOOP! lol jimmy!

[Soul2burn]

Here ,everyday, hiding behind a tree looking over my shoulder ,paranoid of big brother.Wierdo ,nah just a voice in the wilderness trying to be heard and not cut down.

[kalacaw]

Rejean, I know life has been rugged for you. I wish I could say to get out from behind that tree, but I know that's easier said than done. I wish only good things for you. :)

[bugsme10]

just wanted to watch this video again. i see what you mean.

even if there was no one there for me............

REAL BITCHES RULE !!!!

[kalacaw]

Ah, but we are here for each other! This is a community and WE ROCK! :)

[bugsme10]

thank you.

i needed to hear this.

[Calderoh]

i agree... i love to express myself alot... i love ya!!!

[kalacaw]

I love ya too! Calderoh, express away! Calderoh, I just left OhCurt's video about facebook and You Tube, and the thought I shared was about how much easier it is to get to know each other here. I'm really not knocking facebook, but between the two, we really do have a better platform for community. That's my my opinion, but I do believe it.

[GayAussieGuy]

Great video,

I could not agree with you more =)

5/5 and fav'd for sure =)

[kalacaw]

Thanks! Hey, we're real human beings with feelings, and each of us counts. There's a human heart behind every video, and that person matters.

You matter. :)

[bugsme10]

AMEN.

together is the nicest place to be.

[kalacaw]

It is indeed! That's this crowd too ... together. :)

[rentacrip]

Hey Kalacaw u r so right very good.i have subed your vids an i cant wait to see you speak more .God Bless .

[kalacaw]

Larry! Thanks for watching. I'm glad you liked it, and I'll do my best to entertain you! God bless you right back. - Betty :)

[soul71]

Great video.  Straight from the heart.

[kalacaw]

Thanks Dougie! It truly was straight from the heart. I've been here for two and a half years and I've met some of the kindest people. On behalf of all of us, I couldn't let the insult go. :)

[RelaxxKiller]

You go girl!!! well put.....nuff said!

[kalacaw]

Deanna, I can't have people putting us down! We're the best, and I won't sit still for it. ;-)

[fehquig]

LOL and I was always proud of being just a little bit weird with a unique personality :)

Thanks for the laugh at the end... You brighten my night!

[kalacaw]

Well honey, we gotta tell 'em what we think of 'em. I, for one, and mighty proud of my personality disorders ... all of 'em. :D

[fehquig]

As you should be!

[fecoki]

Damn,I left a comment yesterday and it`s not here

Very well said by the way

[kalacaw]

Oh well, I'm honored that you came back to make sure! You Tube is a great place, but these little issues are quite annoying. I'm not sure why some of the comment glitches are so hard to fix. Thank you for coming back though - very kind. :)

[DonQuixotedeKaw]

LOL!

You rock!

[kalacaw]

Thank you! I desperately need recognition, so this just works for me. LOL

Thanks for coming. :)

[illegalsmilereturns]

The white house ROFL!!!!! now they actualy may be weirdos ( oh no the C.I.A is kicking in my door as I type this ) power to the ppl!!!! nicely done B.

Stars

Tars

Ars

Rs

s danny

[kalacaw]

That's right!  Power to the pe ... oh wait. Somebody's at the door. I'll be righ

[artgirlsreality]

Bette I have the same accent disorder. who knew??? YOU ROCK. I had to Vlog this baby!!! YEAH I am here to have a gooood time. this IS community. no worries.....as oscar wilde said. " if they stop taking about you then you can worry" ( a very loose quoted.)

hugs,meg

[kalacaw]

Meg, thanks! Listen, girlfriend, you totally rock! Vlog to your hearts content. I need to come to your channel, and I know I've been slow in catching up.

The Oscar Wilde paraphrase works beautifully. I have another too, "If they're talking about you, they're leaving somebody else alone." :D

[kalacaw]

Oh yeah - hugs back definitely :)

[NBMonkey]

I have a drinking disorder, but other than that, I'm spot on normal!!! WooHoo!!

[kalacaw]

Peter, you're perfectly normal! Hey, if I eat cheese, I break out in hives. That's not normal. Other than that, I'm still not normal, but normal is just a setting on your dryer anyway. ;-)

[mieses2pieces]

BULLSHIT!!! LOL

[stufish4040]

Hi, Betty! You are, without doubt, one of my most-favourite YTubers . . you should be available on prescription :] Loadsa of hugs from the U.K. 5*****

_STu- :)

[kalacaw]

Stu! You should know that I am available for the treatment of "the miseries" in the states. Additionally, the FDA recently approved generic alternatives, but they're not the same.

Thanks for the stars, and those hugs mean a lot too. :)

[g2000m]

5 stars and one big smile!

[kalacaw]

Thank you! Hey, I can't let us be dragged through the mud.  :)

[13thDimension]

luv u2 :)

[kalacaw]

:) My lucky day!

[benzone50]

iMad! LOL!

so bloody well said Betty, here, here!

[kalacaw]

Bless your lil' ol' pea-pickin heart! See there, Ben?: I can do it in writing too. :D

Thanks - it had to be said.

[NaturalTwentyFilms]

I believe calling YouTube a "community" is misleading. Here, each individual is as anonymous as they want to be. In the real world, where we face each other in person, at work, play or home, we are accountable for what we do.

I wonder if calling/considering YouTube a "community" is perhaps misleading?

The term "Social Network" might help avoid the misnomer of calling YouTube, or regarding YouTube as, an actual community.

[kalacaw]

I've asked the same question, but "You Tube community" seems to have found commonplace usage. I do have close friends there, though, I must admit.

I think with the other problem, people who engage in covert aggression will use those tactics anywhere possible, seeking out soft targets in environments where others will either not observe or not become involved. In other words, if they're doing it here, I would submit that they're doing it at work and elsewhere too. Just my thoughts, though. :)

[NaturalTwentyFilms]

I call it a community, too, and I have some very good friends here. It's only when someone vlogs about it and I stop to ponder it that these thoughts come to mind.

Cheers!

[cozzyk]

Sounds like someone with a plastic robot disorder. Ever see that commercial pepsi maybe? they on a belt that's turns them all into model bodies. Man I love that people are all different and some of us wierdos other wise how boring would it be. Soft hugs.

[kalacaw]

Aw, soft hugs back! I agree. I haven't seen the commercial, but I've got a visual. We're not Jello either. We can't be poured into molds to become one specific shape. Conforming to the rule of law is one thing, but being what others expect of us so they can say that they are our masters is something entirely different.

[caretakerless]

I love being different... better different than a follower... weirdos unite!!!!

[kalacaw]

I love being different too! I can say that I'm a follower to a certain extent, but the leadership has to be sound, and the lowliest member of that situation has to be regarded with the utmost respect. That might be me, and I happen to think that my weirdness counts. :D

[kalacaw]

Hi Larry! Oh, we're all nuts, honey! That's a given, and I'm proud to be associated with us! :D

[moomay11649]

LOVE you Betts!

Moomay

[kalacaw]

Moomay!!! I love you too dear friend! :)

[BasicModelling]

Feelings.. woa-woa-woa.. feelings..

As always your videos makes me sing.. :)

[kalacaw]

My first comment didn't fly, for some reason. I don't get why that happens but anyway ...

I'm lucky to know you. You're a great guy, but how would I even know that if not for YT? This is a fantastic place, and we're a bunch of fantastic people. :)

[BasicModelling]

I may be biased somewhat.. but yes, I agree... :) :)

[wdciii]

Well Betty......This WEIRDO is PROUD to be one! The unofficial motto of my hometown is KEEP ASHEVILLE WEIRD! As far a personality disorders go..the only disorder I know of is not having a personality disorder!

Love ya,

Dennis

[kalacaw]

Love ya back Dennis! That's right. We're all something and more power to us! And what if somebody does have a problem here? When did that become a rightful excuse to ridicule a person? Nope. I won't stand for it, by God. ;-)

[slowhand1954]

You are no wierder then the rest of us dear.  lol Yes, there are so many great people here and you are among them. Yep you'll get over it, just stick with the winners here dear...Also you are so very right about not having reached our full potential here. There is much more we can and will be doing as we all mature in using this wonderful technology.

Peace n hugs,

Allen

[kalacaw]

Allen! How are you? You're exactly on target, and we have to pull together. We can do great things here if we just pull together!!! I've met people who don't understand what's happening here too, but they just haven't been involved, or have bought into negative perceptions they've heard from others. That's ok. We'll just forge ahead anyway. :)

Peace and hugs back! I'm glad to see you! :)

[kalacaw]

May the force be with you too!!! I'm a bit frustrated, because it shows that somebody has marked your comment as spam. It was probably a mistake - easy to hit that when you're mean to hit the "reply" button. I marked it as being "not spam," so hopefully that will fix it. :)

[Fringe111]

Bravo from a fellow wierdo

[kalacaw]

Thanks Joy! We're weird and we're proud!  ;-)

[daligoddess2006]

This IS so awesome and so true! I LOVE the youtube community! Thank you!~ a fellow weirdo and proud of it!

[kalacaw]

daligoddess2006! Hey, my dear, we're all a little weird! It's a beautiful thing! :D  I'm proud of it too!

[EasyRaoul]

The only weird people on YouTube are the normal ones...

[kalacaw]

Yeah, be deviant! Oh. That didn't sound right, did it? Well, you know what I mean. :D

[mieses2pieces]

I love you Betty and that's all I have to say!!!!

[kalacaw]

George, George, George! I love you too babe!!! We're all in it together, aren't we? We have to stick together! :)

[mieses2pieces]

I've got your back!!!

[kalacaw]

Thanks George! I've been looking for it. :P

[mieses2pieces]

You can count on me!!

[Rowdyeh]

I think the person calling us wierd is the truly wierd one! We're the people talking to each other, when we talk to each other we're not fighting, shouting is more like fighting but it's probably because people want to be heard and understood. Still that one who calls us wierd is probably angry because he's not in control and there's a LOT of people out there trying to control us! Cheers!

[kalacaw]

Rowdy, you hit the nail on the head. It's a control issue. It's about abuse, and we were tools somebody used to psychologically abuse another person. That stuff hits me the wrong way. Yuk.

Anyway, cheers back! You're a great guy and I'm glad to know you! :)

[TheFatAussieBarstard]

Hiya baby.....I loved this vid...

[kalacaw]

Hiya baby! I love you back. Hey! Marry me honey. I'll make your life Hell. :P

Just messin' with ya. I love you! :)

[mieses2pieces]

LOL!!!

[PalmOliveSoap]

it is better to join the fun that to be-little some one, I did the same video title which is not published yet and could not help but cuss! no control you see or education lol

SPRINKLES

[kalacaw]

HAHA! My dear, I love your videos! Did you cuss though? Oh me, oh my! Well, as long as you're unrepentant, I guess it's ok. :P

Sprinkles - that's just so dear. Sherry picked up on it at some point and said "frosting" at the end of one of her videos. I thought that was so cute! :)

[PalmOliveSoap]

yes she has a super cool catch frase love her so much,

I can only be unrepentant on a thursday ( what day is it today) lol

SPRINKLES and fun

[kalacaw]

Well, I don't know about there, but it's Wednesday here. Tomorrow you can be unrepentant, but today it's atonement my friend. HA!

Non Pareils!

[meheh]

You're awesome! I hope I my channel is evolving and being used to its fullest potential. Thank you for the inspiration.

[kalacaw]

Hey Matthew! You're pretty awesome yourself! All of our channels are evolving, really. I think what I mean is that we have a collective power we have not yet tapped. It's like the force, I guess. :)

[ShermerIllinois]

"Wur nat Wurdowz!" XD

I second that! :)

[kalacaw]

Hi Steve! You're exactly right! Urnot wurd, and eyemnot wurd either.

Wurd. :P

[kalacaw]

Same here! I've met people here with the best of hearts and the most genuine of intentions. I didn't address that guy's slam to people with those kinds of diagnoses, but it was a pretty despicable commentary. He was exploiting anybody and everybody possible for the purpose of psychologically abusing one person.

[anmoose]

Well done, Betty! You said it so perfectly right here: "We have something here that NO era in history has known, and we have YET to use our channels to their full potentials."

In fact, we have, in these few years, barely begun to EXPLORE their potentials. And yes, the whole WORLD is on YouTube, from monarchs and presidents to unemployed dishwashers.

And most of my very best friends are weirdos with personality disorders. I wouldn't have it any other way, thank you very much.....

[kalacaw]

Hey, we're getting to it Moosie. We do have a lot of power in this though. Oh my God, the great things we could accomplish!

I call most of it eccentric behavior, and eccentricity is a good thing!

[ZoeToots]

People are people. I like the construction noise in the background. You have made me laugh and you have made me "think" about things. I am so happy I have met you on the tubes here!

[kalacaw]

ZT, I'm happy I met you too! Look, this is a great place with great people. Innovation!  Progress! Etc! It's all happening here. :)

[k6tpl]

You Tell Them!

[kalacaw]

Hi Jer! He insulted us. I had no choice! :)

[NiteBlogger]

Here - Here Betty!

Meeting wonderful peeps ALL over the world, different ages, lifestyles, etc - it's the cheapest way to travel!

Yep, there's 'some' rotten apples in the bushel, but the tree of possibilities is endless! ;0)

[kalacaw]

Hey Ali! I like your style ... "the tree of possibilities is endless!" Down with repression! :)

[AZDACKSGaming]

lol

[kalacaw]

We're doing what we can! :D

[msixpackabs]

I am indeed one of the weirdos Ian (Em's friend) was talking about! I spend hours making "great" videos and anytime the numbers of subscribers (and haters) increases...I delete everything...but everything. lol

At least i managed to keep the same account for 2 months.

<3

[kalacaw]

Hey, it's nice to meet you! You don't seem weird to me at all, but very secure in your person if you're willing to delete stuff and start over.  :)

[MGABBYB]

Is iMad contagious? Because I think I have it...

[kalacaw]

Mary, iMad is highly contagious! There's no cure either, but who wants one? :D

[DonQuixotedeKaw]

:D I don't!

[1DRock37167]

IM a weirdo with personality disorders, but dont tell that asshole!

OH HERE, HERE!! Im a friend of Betty and she is a friend of mine, Im proud to say it LOUD FOR EVERYONE TO HEAR!!!! Love ya Betty, thanks for setting this "person" straight.

cue the music..."weve only just begun".

[kalacaw]

Are you really all that stuff? I had you pegged for Ordered Personality Disorder and severely not weird.

And Daryl IS MY COMPLETE AND TOTAL FRIEND TOO!!! Hey, I had to set him straight, and let him see that TheStarvingSoprano has friends all over the world who doesn't like to see her being treated abusively.

Thanks. Now I'll be hearing Karen Carpenter all night. :P

[PalmOliveSoap]

I know him and I agree he has personality disorders

lol

SPRINKLES

[kalacaw]

Yes, but the question is "how many?" I don't care what they are. I'm just looking for a number here.  :D

[PalmOliveSoap]

to date I have counted 42 personalality disorders he is guinness book ready is our Daryl LOL

SPRINKLES x 4

I wonder if people who think that youtubers are wierd searching for this bad thing and that bad thing are actually discribing themself and the way they look at the internet or hiding the fact that are addicted to another type of social networking website or gaming etc

SPRINKLES

[kalacaw]

I don't know, POS. It depends on the person, I suppose.  If it's just about a straightforward opinion, what they've heard about this place, or have seen upon first glance can definitely factor. Yeah though, what you said about hiding behind an addiction to another networking site makes sense too. It seems like something else entirely in this case, but there are a lot of reasons, I guess.

Notice how I say "I guess," so you can't really hold me to anything I say? Am I evil, or what? :D

[1DRock37167]

When you call the boys at Guinness, order me a pint.

Who cares what fuels our detractors? We know that we are perfectly normal in our weirdness:-)

[PalmOliveSoap]

Do you remember when wierdo's were the people who hung out on the street corner or in the bar you would avoid etc, but now we are all on Youtube now finding each other and hanging out

but definately not using bloody gaming websites

love to all with

SPRINKLES to Kalacaw

[tyrbolo]

Vox Populi Vox Dei

and here is where you hear the voice of the people.

Some say things not all agree with and some would rather be weirdos than to be considered

perfect in the eyes of society.

GRIN

[kalacaw]

Vox Pop!  Yay!

Conforming to society is average behavior, and average is the cream of the crap. ;-)

[TheStarvingSoprano]

You are COOL!

BTW.. That 'person' is moving out of MY house this weekend!!!

[kalacaw]

Well, you're COOL too!!! Hey, we're all in support of you and I just want you to have a great life. It's the only one you get, so you should have the best of everything life has to offer.

[TheStarvingSoprano]

Multiple Accent Disorder - I want me some of that!

Great video. GREAT. Favourited.

I agree with what you have to say. I love that youtube is an open portal to meet ANYONE in the world - it makes life so accessible and is such a fair and inclusive community we have here.

[kalacaw]

Thanks!!! iMad is an acquired disorder. I will be happy to bequeth mine to you, but I'm not planning on leaving any time soon. HA!

Anyway, just as long as you know this reply isn't about you. You deserve kind regard. :)

In many ways, this is the best time to live, and we have a venue through which we can accomplish mighty things! :)