I was raised in a violent home. When my son was 6-months old, I gave him up for adoption as I hit him and I did not want the cycle of violence to continue. It almost killed me to do that as I loved him so much. But I wanted him to grow up in an abuse-free environment. Someone has to stop the violence.
there is no cycle i have been beaten by my mom but uim not going to hit my kids when i grow up well maybe like a soft little slap to make them look at me when i am talking to them if my son does something wrong i will only make him do it until he gets it right
I can't even watch that without wanting to cry.. because it's.. my family life. After moving back home, it becomes evident as to what it is. This is portrayal is true, and It hurts my heart.
STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN. I want my own experience to help even ONE other person to break the cycle of abuse and end the nightmare. Please be that person! Love, Sarah
Go to Amazon.com for my book HONEYMOON AND HELL: A Memoir of Abuse ($5.99)
I own a table and a little play teaset exectly like that. My mom used to have a pair of shoes like that. That looks exaclty like my neighbors house....holy fuck...
kids are the key to our future if we dont stop now and turn around and try to make the world a better place what kind of future will they have if we dont change now
Now that's what couples with children should see. If the parents does demestic violence, thier children sees it, then they act it out, and do the same when they'er older. That should be a wake up call.
Um don't you think it's a little harsh to you know rip out balls, and proceed to torture anyone. I mean what you're proposing is much worse than even domestic violence. I mean it's more extreme. I'm against violence against anyone and so therefore I think your statement is ridiculous and ultimately ironic. Where as your opponent might hate women, you clearly hate men. We aren't all at fault for your turmoil in this world...just saying.
Please do not support Floyd Mayweather Jr. In 2002 he beat up 2 different girlfriends and in 2004 he beat up 2 more women at a nightclub. In 2005, he was ordered to court because he assaulted the mother of his children. There is also a petition out there that you can google that is asking the CEO of AT&T to drop their endorsement of Floyd Mayweather Jr. Please sign and pass the word. We don't need domestic violence convicts making more money. Please tell your friends and family as well.
As a child of domestic abuse -- I found this video to be Spot On! Thank goodness someone could put into video, in a simple way, just a brief moment of what I grew up with! It's something you never outlive or forget.
Aww grow the fuck up asshole! I'm of course referring to all the abusive husbands in the world. If your wife accidently spills coffee and your upset; tough shit. Grow the fuck up already
This gave me the CHILLS, children are the HIDDEN VICTIMS, and yes, behaviors are learned. We need to help, the chain needs to be broken. Domestic violence is a generational violence.
I hope you know that this is a very bad thing to do. Try to get some help. Maybe talk to a psychologist or a psyciatrist. You can get help, but you have to act now. Don't let this behavior continue. Violence is never the solution!
Really good, I did a psa video about this issue too for my socology class, but you really got the point across in a very powerful and influential manner!
i personaly belive the best way to solve domestic violence is take the abuser out back and put a bullet in their brain that will stop the cycle. Violent pacification indeed
In a strong way, I agree with you. I think ppl that abuse should be locked up for life, forced to work in the jail to give back to society the immensity of what they took from it.
~I'm so freakin' mad right now! I had a presentation last week to do on DV & was searching all over for an appropriate clip to play....& eventually found one. This would've been better though. Damn, me.~
Hi Holly! I'm new to the tube, but I wanted you to know that this the most excellent video i have ever seen!! I am putting together a powerpoint presentation for class and wanted to know if you can email me this video? I tried to do it but it came as a link, so I dont know how to add it as a video in one of my slides.
Teens stopping domestic violence go to siv2009 (dot) com this will help Rihanna and others yall. They got "Please stop the abusing, abusing." lip glosses. They donating the profits to a domestic violence violence organization. And they only 3 dollars I know im supporting.
XxchrisbrownloverxX: I would prefer that Chris Brown's dad saw it.... Lets not blame Mrs Brown for being beaten by Mr Brown. All too often the woman is blamed - for not leaving, allowing her children to witness it or for 'provoking'. The abuser is responsible for his actions. Children who witness DV do not all grow up to abuse, it is a controlled choice.
Excellent PSA, I will use it in my work to show the impact DV has on children.
Believe it or not alcohol is not the main factor in domestic violence. You may think so, but it's not. 80% of the abusers admitted that drugs or alcohol mellow them out and make them less likely to strike.
Domestic violence is a learned behavior. The good majority of abusers were victims themselves.
This has a personal impact on me. My dad was abusive, and I almost became abusive myself. I'm glad my loving friends, my therapist, teachers, and mom helped me through it. And they helped my sister overcome her victim traits . . . thanks for posting this.
Children, whether we want to believe it or not, are a clean canvas waiting to be painted. Or a lump a clay ready to be molded into a work of art. Its the duty of PARENTS to try and mold them into a beautiful sculpture or a beautiful painting so that they can be the very BEST that they can be in life.
But so many parents don't even think twice about that...
Why not on disney? more than 50% of children live in violent homes anyway and see it live as it happens might as well see something that will tell them that tis wrong.
Children are like clay, they learn from there environments this advery is perfect in showing that in a child brought up in an abuse environment. when they become parents guess what the cycle begins again.
I love this video and shared it on my fb page! Thanks for such an amazingly powerful video!!
jamienicoleguy 1 week ago
@jamienicoleguy you are very welcome.
hollylevin 1 week ago
OMG
WhiteAngel7047 1 month ago
Does this remind anyone else of subway commercials? Guess the bitch just took his sandwich to many times. Lol
ArtERie11293 1 month ago
This was well done! Not to graphic, but got the point across!
SimbaGirlRules 3 months ago
amazing! congrads! what does the boy sais in the end? thanx, keep up the good work!!!
butt3rfly18 7 months ago
@butt3rfly18 The boy says "why dont you put this in your tea" i think :(
khfanmuffin 2 months ago
this was amazing, the message is so strong!
ayeshahahahahahah 8 months ago in playlist PSA's, PIFS, and other commericals
Good Creativity.....
beesathish 9 months ago
if i would of recorded my domestic violence experiences, everyone in this world would cry for me everyday :(
bobysoad666 10 months ago
i grew up with domestic violence. is it still domestic violence when your dad calls your mom stupid.
bobysoad666 10 months ago
@bobysoad666 Yes, it is. It's considered verbal/emotional abuse.
xtremeroswellian 9 months ago
@bobysoad666 Me too. But as I get older, I wonder if my mom didn't bring it on herself. She IS pretty stupid.
kdavidmcd 3 months ago in playlist psa's with teeth
good.
DinoPandaBanana 10 months ago
that was just...OMG!
InuCho1 11 months ago
I was raised in a violent home. When my son was 6-months old, I gave him up for adoption as I hit him and I did not want the cycle of violence to continue. It almost killed me to do that as I loved him so much. But I wanted him to grow up in an abuse-free environment. Someone has to stop the violence.
thekenniewitch 11 months ago
Subtle and superb
TheBramma23 11 months ago
oh my goodness this is so powerful.
mshee20 11 months ago
there is no cycle i have been beaten by my mom but uim not going to hit my kids when i grow up well maybe like a soft little slap to make them look at me when i am talking to them if my son does something wrong i will only make him do it until he gets it right
rvbsmcaboose 1 year ago
@rvbsmcaboose
You don't even see the massive contradiction in your comment, do you?
poised2pause 11 months ago
@rvbsmcaboose even a small slap is child abuse. i'd rethink your parenting skills.
mshee20 11 months ago
chilling but true
eyesofwater123 1 year ago
Damn........
dgenerate707 1 year ago
I can't even watch that without wanting to cry.. because it's.. my family life. After moving back home, it becomes evident as to what it is. This is portrayal is true, and It hurts my heart.
AichJay74 1 year ago
STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN. I want my own experience to help even ONE other person to break the cycle of abuse and end the nightmare. Please be that person! Love, Sarah
Go to Amazon.com for my book HONEYMOON AND HELL: A Memoir of Abuse ($5.99)
MsSarah729 1 year ago
I bet she learned not to spill the next time.
BruiserKnux 1 year ago 2
Oh sh**
egg64 1 year ago
Excellent.
ragiles4209 1 year ago
a nice visceral image, without having to overdo it or use shock.
paivakai 1 year ago
Oh my god. I have no words. Saying this is amazing is an understatement.
MyBicycleIsAHorcrux 1 year ago
Domestic violence wouldn't happen if you didn't pick the musle-bound high school jock, instead of the avarage looking nice guy.
giovannimartinezm5 1 year ago
@giovannimartinezm5
YES IT WOULD AND IT DOES.
Stop blaming domestic violence on ONE TYPE of persyn. All types of people commit domestic violence. And it ALL needs to end!
310BPM 1 year ago 4
I work for a non profit violence prevention agency. Is there a way I can use this video to show to school groups and other agencies?
cldecaro 1 year ago
@cldecaro hi, i sent you a msg on youtube. if you still are interested in using this commercial, please write me back.
thanks,
holly
hollylevin 1 year ago
I own a table and a little play teaset exectly like that. My mom used to have a pair of shoes like that. That looks exaclty like my neighbors house....holy fuck...
TheLuckyCream 1 year ago 2
.. . wow. .. that was very potent.
kracked8katt 1 year ago
when done with kids, it sends the message alot quicker.
amandayell 1 year ago 6
Gosh this is so good! :)
vgirls2008 1 year ago
this is what happens alot!!
matzahball12 1 year ago
kids are the key to our future if we dont stop now and turn around and try to make the world a better place what kind of future will they have if we dont change now
aman4trulove 1 year ago 10
very good actually. most domestic violence psas are unintentionally funny and come off bad. you did a good job. very realistic.
jwhittle91 1 year ago
Brilliantly original. Ver powerfull
corinne00000001 1 year ago
Disturbingly true and very effective.
dakotadugger 1 year ago 4
Powerful and so true.
wr3stlegirl 1 year ago
very true..and well done...especially the part when we knw its kids.
ash2life2000 1 year ago
really impressive
Lani1207 1 year ago
Wow, that was amazing!
Blahhahagag75 1 year ago
Wow. That's really good. Nice!!
dramatique10 1 year ago
Well made but very distressing, which I suppose is the whole point.
Euterperocks 1 year ago
great job
NarutoCuti 1 year ago
wow, well done. This is really effective.
eurythmic72 1 year ago
wow - very effective!
babettelarue 1 year ago
this is amazing.. It teaches you alot by children. Loved it:)
MsGettingPlayed 1 year ago
this is an amazing video! thank you for helping spread the word.
alexdavidson1982 1 year ago
Now THIS is a good PSA. Not that over the top "try and strike fear into you" bullshit. Props to you.
thelastkert 1 year ago 6
This is an amazingly powerful ad.
tgallupcartier1 1 year ago
"As a sexual abuse and domestic violence survivor, I know that keeping secrets only helps abusers."
Please visit my friend's blog, or share it with someone: vickielinegar.blogspot.com/
kristinh883 1 year ago
Kids learn a lot from their parents. Including domestic abuse. And, if this ad is to be believed, incest, as well.
Soundnous 1 year ago 3
The boy will become an abusive boyfriend at the age of 14. And the little girl will be in an abusive relationship.
BigBlueBeast 1 year ago
Now that's what couples with children should see. If the parents does demestic violence, thier children sees it, then they act it out, and do the same when they'er older. That should be a wake up call.
buzzlewie 1 year ago
Well done :)
Mariiexful 1 year ago
so true
driababe100 1 year ago
incredible
nickanina113 1 year ago
OMG.
AlyssaXoXoMarie 1 year ago
well done
Lastsongonbleach 1 year ago
OMG this was a excellent video against domestic abuse. How true it is that most time we grow up to be a product of our home life.
MrLongmikey 1 year ago
Um don't you think it's a little harsh to you know rip out balls, and proceed to torture anyone. I mean what you're proposing is much worse than even domestic violence. I mean it's more extreme. I'm against violence against anyone and so therefore I think your statement is ridiculous and ultimately ironic. Where as your opponent might hate women, you clearly hate men. We aren't all at fault for your turmoil in this world...just saying.
Kenner81 1 year ago 3
wow
savetheaminals22 1 year ago
what happend at the end?! 5 stars!!
transfan216 1 year ago
Please do not support Floyd Mayweather Jr. In 2002 he beat up 2 different girlfriends and in 2004 he beat up 2 more women at a nightclub. In 2005, he was ordered to court because he assaulted the mother of his children. There is also a petition out there that you can google that is asking the CEO of AT&T to drop their endorsement of Floyd Mayweather Jr. Please sign and pass the word. We don't need domestic violence convicts making more money. Please tell your friends and family as well.
mayweathersucks 1 year ago
Brilliant! Demonstrating generational influence and why the cycle continues.
olizette 1 year ago
great ad!
pookita315 1 year ago
that was brilliant, having them wear their parents shoes. That was great!
Mist27 1 year ago 99
wow on my birthday this happened
LuigiFan99 1 year ago
damn that was chilling...
cancanmaster 2 years ago
I can't believe what I just saw!
ChloeALaPunkPrincess 2 years ago
You made this? Well done...
2aucey 2 years ago
I would like to use this psa for a child development class. very disturbing but shows the affect that dv has on children
dedwards723 2 years ago
Good ad man
Filmzie 2 years ago
Great commercial! Thanks for posting this!
selenesarah17 2 years ago
oh god, that scared me.great comercial, no one deserves to suffer at another's hand.
babyblueartest 2 years ago 3
wow this so sad and amazing. such a good idea.
krissietintin 2 years ago 2
As a child of domestic abuse -- I found this video to be Spot On! Thank goodness someone could put into video, in a simple way, just a brief moment of what I grew up with! It's something you never outlive or forget.
azproreader 2 years ago 3
kudos
synchronium24 2 years ago
Wow, very powerful. Good work.
BlackHearts234 2 years ago
Ugh, I can't stand this kind of garbage
"You spilled the coffee!"
Aww grow the fuck up asshole! I'm of course referring to all the abusive husbands in the world. If your wife accidently spills coffee and your upset; tough shit. Grow the fuck up already
TheInstantClassic1 2 years ago 5
I hate it when this kind of stuff happens.
XxChLoExGoRdOnxX 2 years ago 4
excellent video. very sad and very real
LifeWitTheBoyz 2 years ago 80
ok that's pretty much the most horrible thing I've seen all day.
Sakamachi25 2 years ago 6
This gave me the CHILLS, children are the HIDDEN VICTIMS, and yes, behaviors are learned. We need to help, the chain needs to be broken. Domestic violence is a generational violence.
cecisol66 2 years ago 5
i abuse :(
lorigunsolus 2 years ago
well stop :)
stlcardsfan4evr 2 years ago 3
oh people should feel sorry for you. you probably just cant stop
chipper1027 2 years ago
I hope you know that this is a very bad thing to do. Try to get some help. Maybe talk to a psychologist or a psyciatrist. You can get help, but you have to act now. Don't let this behavior continue. Violence is never the solution!
selenesarah17 2 years ago
OMG so sad I cried for a whole week :(
mryjn420090 2 years ago
I LOVE UR COMMERCIAL !! I'm going to use it for my family violence project good stuff thanks
1211Lucky 2 years ago 2
i have to do that. im going to use it too :)
fizzegurl147 2 years ago
lol we did the same
Spindel01 2 years ago
Same here (: im using it tomorrow for class
BeingMichelle 2 years ago
so true
kickyordonkey 2 years ago
WOW......I mean WOW...powerful
kimig 2 years ago
I got chills.
webothgowrongx33 2 years ago
Silence of Abuse hurts...! Children are like a sponge...they soak up everything they see and hear!
InsaneSins 2 years ago 6
But you can squeeze out a sponge.
Dominub 2 years ago 3
fuck this is good, very powerful and true
evildemonlama 2 years ago
so powerful and so true, really gets the point across !!!!!
socheekyx 2 years ago
Whoa.
timbertalks 2 years ago
the scary thing is.... these things really happen
gallopingal1234 2 years ago 2
Oh...that was really...sad...
Justalittledead 2 years ago
Really good. They only show one set of anti domestic violence ads where I live, but this is a million times better!
bloodiedXangel 2 years ago
.........WHOA...............
CutieMikell 2 years ago
sell this to an anti domestic violence org. they'll buy.
itsover9000able 2 years ago
Awesome.
Deadboy99 2 years ago
i second that
HeineProductions 2 years ago
That really makes you think. Very moving and powerful.
Lisa13245 2 years ago
tea spill youth
coffee spill adults
uckersas 2 years ago 2
woah.....
roastingpotato 2 years ago
yeah so true... perants if you love your kids dnt let them go through something like this...
09greenlove 2 years ago
That was deep!
AbuseDomestic 2 years ago 2
WOW
Pixiebabe 2 years ago 2
Really good, I did a psa video about this issue too for my socology class, but you really got the point across in a very powerful and influential manner!
FianceProductions 2 years ago 2
woow, great job...
ijhem 2 years ago 3
Ok this was a good PSA. It hit home.
AlechsHughes 2 years ago 2
That was excellent. You are an artist.
jackbox1971 2 years ago 2
Good video.
AdmiresAce 2 years ago 2
what does PSA stand for?
LittleDrB 2 years ago
PSA stands for Public Service Announcement.
MusicTributeVideo 2 years ago 2
i personaly belive the best way to solve domestic violence is take the abuser out back and put a bullet in their brain that will stop the cycle. Violent pacification indeed
Angelofmercy01 2 years ago
Perhaps a little less red meat in the diet would cure whatever wrong with you.
jackbox1971 2 years ago 7
In a strong way, I agree with you. I think ppl that abuse should be locked up for life, forced to work in the jail to give back to society the immensity of what they took from it.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
wow i think a part of my soul died just now
that was.... WOW
O_O
emanuelisdabest 2 years ago
Very well done! It had a powerful message, and it was intense
JackAustinFilms 2 years ago 4
oh man that was harsh,
MysticAngelina 2 years ago
this is a lot more powerful than those hilarious canadian PSAs
alecUNH 2 years ago
Very well done! we are having a charity concert in October and I would love to use this video on screen. How do I get permission?
pebblesal 2 years ago
...HOLY SHIT
sk8terman72 2 years ago 2
That's really good
PrettyLittleBlonde 2 years ago
Holly,
How can I get permission to use this video on our website? It is very powerful...
lccares 2 years ago
I think the folks who make televised PSAs should take notes from this.
outlaw2747 2 years ago
Wow. Where'd they find kids to do this?
Fawnyy 2 years ago
Ho...ly....shit, that was disturbing. Incredibly powerful stuff there!
spidey1221 2 years ago 2
~I'm so freakin' mad right now! I had a presentation last week to do on DV & was searching all over for an appropriate clip to play....& eventually found one. This would've been better though. Damn, me.~
HaItIaNgLaMgUrL 2 years ago
Hi Holly! I'm new to the tube, but I wanted you to know that this the most excellent video i have ever seen!! I am putting together a powerpoint presentation for class and wanted to know if you can email me this video? I tried to do it but it came as a link, so I dont know how to add it as a video in one of my slides.
Audrey
MrsAudreyDaniel2769 2 years ago
i created this commercial and i'm wondering what school you saw it at.....thanks, holly
hollylevin 2 years ago
oh my god!!!!!
d4rt123 2 years ago
wow. this is very well made and gets the message across.
elisaisnothome 2 years ago
brilliant video
blondeoverblue18 2 years ago
Teens stopping domestic violence go to siv2009 (dot) com this will help Rihanna and others yall. They got "Please stop the abusing, abusing." lip glosses. They donating the profits to a domestic violence violence organization. And they only 3 dollars I know im supporting.
hanna2200 2 years ago
they should have showed this add to chris browns mother....maybe she would have gotten him help before it got to the point where it is now
XxchrisbrownloverxX 2 years ago
XxchrisbrownloverxX: I would prefer that Chris Brown's dad saw it.... Lets not blame Mrs Brown for being beaten by Mr Brown. All too often the woman is blamed - for not leaving, allowing her children to witness it or for 'provoking'. The abuser is responsible for his actions. Children who witness DV do not all grow up to abuse, it is a controlled choice.
Excellent PSA, I will use it in my work to show the impact DV has on children.
tigersplat 2 years ago
Oh my god, this ad is spectacular, it really gets the point across
Laxer1723 2 years ago
Believe it or not alcohol is not the main factor in domestic violence. You may think so, but it's not. 80% of the abusers admitted that drugs or alcohol mellow them out and make them less likely to strike.
Domestic violence is a learned behavior. The good majority of abusers were victims themselves.
happycat2010 2 years ago
How true that is! This is a great video, thank you!
happycat2010 2 years ago
This just gave me Goosebumps
xRockaJoJox 2 years ago
brill video!!
whoresok12 2 years ago
my daughters did that once scared me straight
anitajlinett 2 years ago
this video is incredibly disturbing, but only in the sense that this is so true. exceptional job on this.
kilrothi 2 years ago 2
daaaamn...
so true
Silberwoelfin89 2 years ago
great video!
xybananas 2 years ago
This has a personal impact on me. My dad was abusive, and I almost became abusive myself. I'm glad my loving friends, my therapist, teachers, and mom helped me through it. And they helped my sister overcome her victim traits . . . thanks for posting this.
kirakirakirimi 2 years ago 2
good job!
I have to do a psa commercial for alcohol abuse, so i was wondering what video editing program did you use?
qtazngirl 2 years ago
I really love this advert, it has impacted my wife in a special way, and I want others to see it as well!
ADVlCEDOG 2 years ago
mm mmm
damn.
thats a true statement.
apologizenow 2 years ago
omg...wow, thats serious, people really do eed to see what children learn from ourselves...
pcwpatriot2008 2 years ago
wow great point. Did you actually use child actors for this commercial?
gallegosproductions 2 years ago
Wow this was such a compelling video with a clear and direct message that I am writing a paper on it, I hope you do not mind
sandisover8ed 3 years ago
I agree
mead28 3 years ago
*Wow. that gave me chills!!!! so very sad!!!*
SpontaneousStar 3 years ago
Children, whether we want to believe it or not, are a clean canvas waiting to be painted. Or a lump a clay ready to be molded into a work of art. Its the duty of PARENTS to try and mold them into a beautiful sculpture or a beautiful painting so that they can be the very BEST that they can be in life.
But so many parents don't even think twice about that...
AbstractChic 3 years ago 2
Wow... that is so true children soak up behaviors like a sponge!
OrigSupawoman 3 years ago 6
omg
that got the point across
purpleshoeman 3 years ago 4
I thought it conveyed the message clearly and right to the point. Great video.
dahwang12 3 years ago 5
awesome commercial.
danlourenco 3 years ago 2
THIS COMMERCIAL ROCKS!!
FeralChildBuff 3 years ago
This was really good.
stoplightt 3 years ago 2
....wow. i say put it on tv (except on more adult channels. don want this on disney channel)
music4me2Iwant 3 years ago 3
Why not on disney? more than 50% of children live in violent homes anyway and see it live as it happens might as well see something that will tell them that tis wrong.
madeinrussia1985 3 years ago
i usually laugh and poke fun and right rude non pc comments at stuff like this... but... this... made me feel sad
Arun999 3 years ago
omg, aww :(
gigglefartt 3 years ago
Children are like clay, they learn from there environments this advery is perfect in showing that in a child brought up in an abuse environment. when they become parents guess what the cycle begins again.
goddesslush 3 years ago
excellent video. Great way to get your message across.
vickieburns3 3 years ago
This is exactly why i left my ex, i didn't want my daughter to grow up seeing it and thinking it was ok :(
boobiemilez23 3 years ago 8