The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
This how the court weakens the man, judge ask the women how many children live with you no matter who there Dam fathers are ( jail, running the streets, drug rehab, etc.) Then they ask the brother and base it on that. Now hes taking care of not just his but Pookies, DoDobugs, And JoeyCrack. And you gp with that support and bresk off those thugs and your heads are filled sisters have put the rope and Lynch the brothers. Blackman read the Bible get knowledge. Shalom
Mannnnn that ending was deep Ike Turner and the boys like him are trash, at the same time sisters what the heck yall want the working man is corney when ya get them you and your girlfriends set him up Child support his ass up yes the brother was breaking off the support on an regular some wks he didnt had but when he did made sure you gotten it, now nuttin wrong with support it just waaay beyond call off duty the pay scale is rape of an brothers wallet. Next page
U black men / women are being fooled by the devil. I can't even begin to tell yall how bad the devil got us dooped. Both the black man & woman [ Micah 2:8 ] are the enemy. Most of yall are going to have to die along with Esau because yall are too wicked. Let me share with you a secret. The white man is not the devil. Esau is. God took the race out of Jacob & Esau.. However, Israel who for the most part are blacks & Latino's are more evil than Esau & the gentiles ( Eze 5:6, 16:48 / Jer 4:22
Black men r not weak...they just dnt know that they can dominate anything if they apply theirself...coming from a blk woman...maybe we blk woman should sit back and say nothing about the potential that r men possess...maybe they would prefer to waste their potentials and just be with a wht woman whp will just allow them to sit on their ass...JustSayn (the wht men dnt care how many of the wht woman r with black men as long as the slpn with them then they'll never lose their jobs...
IT,S FUNNY HOW SOME PEOPLE GET ON HERE AND SAY THAT GOD IS WRONG UNDER THERE BREATH ? HOW CAN YOU BE SMARTER THEN GOD ? YOU ARGUE THE POINT LIKE WE SAID IT . BUT IT IS NOT ME YOUR TALKING TO . YOUR REALY TALKING TO GOD . BECAUSE THEY SAY THE BIBLE IS THE WORD OF GOD . SO IF YOU REJECT THAT FACT . AND YOU SAY NO . AND YOU SAY MY WAY IS BETTER . THEN YOU ARE SAYING THAT GOD GOT IT ALL WRONG . AND DONT SAY THAT IS NOT WHAT YOUR SAYING . YOU THINK YOUR SMARTER THEN GOD . JUST SAY IT !
There is obviously a lack of a strong heads in the black community. If you take a look back into black history what you will not see is a two parent household with strong male head. Consequently the black women have been forced to step up, and set the example for the next generation of black men. But what happens is, most of these young men experience a whirlwind of emotions.In response to the absence of the male head and the overwhelming presence of a strong female authoritative figure.
Why can't both partners be strong and still have a working relationship? Two people viewing each other as equals and with respect. Why can't it work? For some equality doesn't appear to be an option - they want men to dominate and to push women into a weak role.
@ImNotRacistImBias This is how it should be . The woman understanding that the man is the head . But at the same time the man respecting her and not pushing his wait around . If any woman say she should have the same power as a man is out of place . Not because a man said it . Because that was the line of creation . If a woman follow the true role . And the man plays his part respectfully ? Then it will work out perfectly . And both will be happy and satisfied !
@nizzobeats The idea that women have a place below, behind, or not on the same level as men..... I don't see happiness in believing inferiority. I'm agnostic so I don't believe God gave men power over women. I'm looking at the issue outside of religion.
@ImNotRacistImBias Then you keep going down that road . Im not realy a church going person . But i do no that God no,s best . And it,s bean proven that the people of God divorce rate in 10 times lower then those of the world . So no matter if you want God in it or not . You can not say that the facts are not true . So keep on leaning on your own understand , Because remember you are not perfect . And you do not have the perfect plan . Do you no more then God do ?
@nizzobeats What facts? I can say the principles of Buddhism are fact but you won't believe them to be fact. So yes I can say your so-called facts are not true. I do agree, humans are flawed which another reason for one human not to submit to another flawed human.
As a young black woman who is in college, have a relationship and a baby on the way with the same man for 3 years, I can't believe there are black women out there that act the way some of you are describing. My boyfriend and I may argue, but we work them out and love each other unconditionally. I just can't dog a good man out or be picky. I don't want a rich man, just a man to help me out and I do the same for him. :)
the Bible says the woman is the weaker vessel. Black women have been deceived into thinking they are the backbone and a boss of black men. This has led to the destruction of the community.
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD They were deceived by white lesbians who wanted to be equal with men. Sisters need the black man to protect them from these albino savages. But whitey pushes the gay agenda and these bitchmade negro's fall for it.
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD Why is it everybodys fault but yours, Its the white man, society, black women, the government.......why are u so innocent, when your always proven guilty. Always playin the victim, its gettin really old, seriously
@eprahs1 Truth never gets old, it's just rejected by those who hate it. The black man knows history which reveals whose fault it is. The black woman is too fragile to handle history so she looks away whenever the horrid facts of our oppression emerge. I lead women, I don't follow them. No man is without sin, but black men know who the oppressor is. BW unite with evil oppressors rather than to worship the Lord who created heaven and earth. BW are being shamed in the church and in secular society.
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD thats why every time i turn around your between the oppressors legs.......your no angel never have been never will be. Like I said, stop playin victim. U make such generalizations without any facts. The facts are, more black men covet with the so-callled "oppressor" than black women. You work for him and f#ck his woman too. conversations over.
@eprahs1 - I don't have sex outside of marriage, I'm not a whore. Black women don't like white men because they know they can't talk that 'strong black woman' boss rhetoric with non-black men. BW are trying to get bm to submit to them, but it's not working. White women are submitting and taking care of bm, so they aren't much of an oppressor. I'm not fooled by your lies and tricks. I'm not into white women btw, that is YOUR generalizations and hypocritical btw. BW are becoming obsolete. Sorry.
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD It's really a shame you feel that way about Black women. I think they're strong, beautiful, and more educated than Black men. If you list the qualities that a person would want in a mate, without a doubt Black women would have more favorable marks than Black men. Black men cover up their insecurities by bashing on Black women, but the outside world can see Black women have much more to offer than a black man. Truth be told!
@gsvkck if bw are more intelligent than their men that is proof that bw are failing their sons. Black boys are the ONLY boys who get lower grades in science than girls. Its really a shame how black motherhood is so damaged that bw can't even hug their sons! And as far as men of other races having more to offer, does it really matter when they all call bw 'niggers'? And you wont find 'strong' (and outspoken) on their list either. BW are trying to force themselves on men, lol!
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD Wow you're willing to point the finger at everyone else but yourself huh? Black women failing their sons, really? How about black men being absent all together? I see black women doing their best raising a their kids with no help from their men. They may not be perfect mothers but they try, that's more than i can say for black men.
make them better....lots of bw like to much control and if they don't they throw a tantrum...i know a lot of good black men who get dumped for being boring from these strong bw.
Bm love drama too, and ww do too, maybe all races love drama. It depends on your education, who your parents were, or having a library card for books. One bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch. I guess many are too lazy to explore beyond their comfort zone/something. Wisdon is the ability to see past appearances. Finding your mate is suppose to be hard sometimes, you will appreciate each other more when you do. Talk is cheap, be a role model. bw
You know what's wrong with the black community. I will tell you. A black women will make a good black man jump through hoops just to get some of her time and give him the run around and make him work hard just to prove himself and then she will turn around and let a dog nigga smash raw. That's what's wrong with the black communty. The cycle repeats over and over and over. Niggas turn to dogs because that's what the vast majority of sistas want.
@jatamode You are exactly right. Black women have the whole "strong" thing wrong. Strong doesn't mean having a boisterous attitude. Be more feminine not masculine. Also, black men need to learn not to violent to their women.
@jatamode I was reading something about that. It seems the main reason why women stay with men like that is they fear he will do worse if they try to run away. It will be even more terrifying if children are involved and they are willing to sacrifice themselves for their kids. I know girls in school who stayed with abusive boyfriends before they decided to be strong and leave. They stayed single or became a lesbian claiming no good men exist. >.<
@CommanderB9488 But you know many brother weren't taught. It takes the MOST HIGH to teach a black man; any man how to be a man and treat a women and vice versa. Much prayer is needed
strong in wickendness, black people has no honour that what pastor menin man say
its true, the force their people to honour them,@jol223334 i am black ,u lie black are stupid and wicked,so they can only arcieve poverty,nothing more,
people who play God among they self, i am black i regret to be black, if colour isgood the life is good,its about life its not about colour so, so black colour is black life,
some black women are weak and cant handle a strong black man because they cant keep up to the standards of someone who is good or right. so if they mess up they cant blame the good blackman. or they are not worth the attention from the right man anyway its their lost.oh well, black men need to move on find love from a good women who he can treat right and know that she is not used.of course black lol
Here we go again: responding to a well thought out plan. Why can we not get along? It is not a mystery, if you know the history. We, Black boys & girls, are raised in reverse order of nature. All Black people need to type the following words in their favorite search engine: Let us make a slave.
Keep this shit up, and we will be WIPED out soon! How silly is it to think that as individuals, we can be strong. We don't know what strength is. It certainly is not having a job & trinkets!
Black women AND black men carry the burden of not recognizing a good thing when they see it because they both come from a damaged place. You can't blanket this whole concept for black women and act like black men who emerge from the same much escape unscathed either. If a woman tells you that some black men don't appreciate a black women you can't dismiss that just as the flipside can't be ignored. I have been passed over for being square, too nice and goody. It happens on both sides.
freetobemenoapology: No, it isn't. I bet you wouldn't dare call 'The Diary of a Mad Black Woman' a propaganda, huh?? You bought your ticket, excited and full of elation for seeing a black woman mad and bashing males. I bet you were excited at that 'propaganda', huh?? What your problem is is that you like it when a black woman(like yourself)calls out or shuns black man's issues, but when it's time for self-examination and evaluation, you call that a 'propaganda'. What's that smell?? Smells like
just be/play kind and nice and watch how many of these supposedly vulnerable ass bitches try to take advantage....be giving and see how much you get back.
thats the main way to see what you are dealing with...let em get comfortable you
will get to see the real person...marriage is dead nowdays way too many people
abused marriage and its out in the open...only dumb asses are marrying now.
And most of those dumb asses find out within 5yrs.
the thing that kills me about bitches is their initial position
many of these bitches play the vulnerable role but are positioning to kill
i was watching the view (with my dad) i dont watch that bullshit...he does
anyway these bitches were on their talking about
marrying a rich man who they know will cheat to get that money...
dont trust these bitches man...they have a hell of a disguise because they are beautiful. You will be paying$20k a month to a bitch who couldn't even make
im not swayed by what bitches say because i study who they are how they act how they treat other people...once you judge people by those things you will be alright.
niggas are tired & bitches are tired... but ask what they are tired of.....games
niggas play games & these bitches play games & it will continue until
niggas & bitches raise their level of communication..Relationships based
on lies will always fail....many niggas & bitches are lying to themselves
Good comment man. It goes both ways. As s BW I always hear BM saying that it's our fault they don't want us because we put them down, are non-supportive, gold diggin, etc etc and it's coming from the same BM that ain't even lookin for a job but lookin for a woman to support them... and i'm talkin about my own brothers, uncles, and cousins LOL... the nerve!
I HAVE HAD ALLOT OF BLACK WOMEN- MOST OF THEM WERE ATRACTED 2 MY THUGISH LOOK/ ATITUDE- BUT I POSSESED THE LOOK WITHOUT THE DRAMA- THE WOMEN WOULD WANT ME 2 BEAT THEY ASSES- BUT WHEN THEY SEEN THAT I WOULD'nt HIT A WOMEN- THEY CALLED ME WEAK, WHITEBOY, SOFTBOY- I REALLY THINK MOST BLACK WOMEN HAVE LOW SELF ESTEM & WANT An ABUSSIVE RELATIONSHIP- THATS WHY MOST CHASE THUG's IF YOU REALLY LOVE EM THEY SEE YOU AS A WEAK NI99@- SAD BUT TRUE- WE ARE FUCKED AS A PEOPLE DEAPLY- SAD = (
@2423hop Well, if you saw the end of the video with Ike and Tina, and Ike whipping Tina's ass infront of their kids, then you know that is the reason so many BP, male and female, think it's normal. They grow up with it and when they get into a relationship they relive it. Not because it's fun or they enjoy it, but because it feels comfortable and familiar. They've seen it their whole lives. These horrible relationships are a curse passed down from generation to generation.
@jadapoo1 << TRUE indeed- when I was younger- I didn't know how 2 controll my anger- but when i turned 25/26- I knew how 2 deal with issues without violence- I think some problems- comes from lack of maturity! & people not knowing how 2 controll their anger or feelings! coming of age teaches you right from wrong- but some people never grow up- I'm glad i learned early how to deal with my emotions- & "I'm sorry" 2 any one I affended when I was young & reckless!
@2423hop Good point... and it makes you wonder why some women crave the drama. But it's not just women... men crave the drama too which is surprising to me. Maybe it all has to do with choosing unhappy ass, low self-esteem having ass mates. For real though...me and my ex fell out and I saw him a week later with another woman.... later on he had the nerve to call me and tell me I'm scary just cuz I didn't try to fight the chick that he was with LOL... so yea... dudes like drama too
@Lozie82 < Life is 2 short 4 Drama period- A little drama "OK"- I get that- but drama every day-will leave a person's spirit drained- any man that loves drama- should go 2 CVS -& buy some maxi pads or tappons! L0L!
I'm glad I never wasted my money to rent "Diary of a Tired Black Man." It looks like it was just another propaganda movie to cast the Black woman in a negative (stereotypical) light and to complicate Black male/female relationships on a subconscious level. To imply that we're all loud, rude, inconsiderate, ignorant and constantly argumentative is the running theme (sigh).
It must have been a weak black man who created this video.....he made the f 'ing music so loud that we can't hear everything the strong black women said :o)
She said "better for us", LOL. That's why she's probably single. A black woman would put a gun to your head if you don't buy her a huge diamond wedding ring.
This really shows the ignorance of some women (not all). The female talking around 2:00 says BM dont understand that BW have the power to change a man in order to be better for a BW??? If that is not one of the most selfish statements I've ever heard in my life? Why are you with him if he's not perfect? And why cant you just accept him for who he is? Most men I know when they fall in love with a women they ask them to never change, but somewhere down the road, these women end up changing anyway
This really shows the ignorance of some women (not all). The female talking around 2:00 says BM dont understand that BW have the power to change a man in order to be better for a BW??? If that is not one of the most selfish statements I've ever heard in my life? Why are you with him if he's not perfect? And why cant you just accept him for who he is? Most men I know when they fall in love with a women they ask them to never change, but somewhere down the road, these women end up changing anyway!
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
they so strong but the need a man to buy the shoes clothes all the time like a dam ho
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
they so strong but the need a man to buy the shoes clothes all the time like a dam ho
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
@Jeff2all Thx man. I just went through some painful stuff with a potential date. It hurts. However, seeing Lawrence beat up on Angela Like that makes me think that my date passed up on a quality man, for real. Thx again.
@dupree82 A thing we all must go thru dupree, the ups & downs of relationships. I had stop making videos of "black women bashing" because of negative emails I got, but more things need to be said.
why the debate? I dont get it? black women do ever think about why black men dont want you? just never date them? easy as that. date other race men girls! black men hate black women with a passion. they are lazy and expect us to cook and kiss their ass and still work. while they turn us into babies mothers. I married a nice european man. and Im a wife and he is the father of our children. fuck trying to figure out black men. DATE OUT IMMEDIATELY! problem solved
well i heard it out of a sistas mouth, pursuing a loser because they cant get over their first love or they cant conquer him...nice. unfortunately alot of sistas have this same mentality and then complain about it later, when the losers true nature comes out or they themselves want more and expect him to change...bw for the most part do not recognize decent bm, and therefore r single or still messing with their baby daddies because it is familiar territory to them.
the majority of women are weak and pathetic because they expect to be seen as equal to males, and yet they expect physical security, and funding for their silly useless desires for material possessions, ( shiny jewelry ). It is very difficult not to relate them to an over-fed house cat who feels like your only purpose is to recognize that they are physically adorible, and to remind them of such. Meanwhile, most of the men are busy doing pissing contests through life, just to win favor.
@AveolarD So, ur persecuting ALL Black women when like you said "SOME" are mean...Nice excuse(lie), jux like all the other see thru racially misogynous excuses of "Why Black men don't want Black women." At the end of the day, BW get over BM b/c they been over you!!! Lol You can't win for lose, so move on!!! How many times do you have to have stereotypes of BW thrown in ur face like its the absolute truth!! A lot of BM are no diff then WM, there oppressive to us!!! Move on!!! Patience women!!!
@carmelbrown of course not ding ding. some are mean. however, i have grown up around classy and together black women. it's just the black women should maintain their integrity and virginity. the black woman has the power to rule the world because of the elements that they are made of. they just need a profound female black engineer to navigate the project. it's never ALL and that's why i said SOME. lastly, you need to relax, this is youtube, not your world that you live in.
@AveolarD Lol Uh, did I call u out of ur name jack ass?! No, letz try exercisin' some respect, which I know itz hard for u to respect BW. Nonetheless, ur bs comment still remains that u persecute all BW based off of some! Your words so whatever. What does BW's virginity have to do w/ anything? Obviously, ur missin' the point so yeah...And I'm always relaxed sweetheart, I jux speaks that real! What, the truth hurts?! And duh this is youtube, really that comment is baseless...Try again!!
@carmelbrown okay, mean ass. i was trying to give your silly ass the benefit of the doubt, but i see that you have issues. stop blowing up the issue. you are trying to be so condescending that you are appearing foolish. you are exactly the type of black woman that successful and professional black men run from. calm the hell down and unbunch your panties. try being a lady and you may get a decent man. you are too hostile. learn something from vanessa williams or gabourel union.
3:30 is what black women want and love, they get wet when u knock em across the face. at least those psycho ones that act neurotic.tough pill to swallow, but it's the truth. find a normal black woman and you wont have to play mike tyson with a chick to get her to shut up.
better for us what about him? im a black woman i was brought up different than the young women all they want is to be pampered and get their way as if they are GOD'S. yeah we should be respected and not hit on but where did this he should do what i say come from. it will never be right unless the black woman and the black man get it from GOD how to treat each other
i think black men and women should move forward and really go after what they want in a relationship and stop seeking acceptance from others, especially others who can't even make a real decision for themselves and just follow what they "think" is right versus what's really right for them.
get past the self-hate and self-improve your way of thinking, the appearance doesn't mean sh*t, it's the true nature of a person that your attracted to.
0:26 HOUSTON! YOU SHOULD HAVE WORN A CONDOM YOU DUMB FUCKING ASS HOLE! THE NET STEP WHEN YOU STOP COMMING AROUND TO SEE YOUR CHILD! THAT BITCH WILL PUT CHILD SUPPORT UP YOUR ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, this video is a huge exaggeration of wants and unwants. How do you get not wanting a weak man to wanting a man to beat you? Hmmm. Black men and black women will never get along as long as they keep stereotyping each other. I dont say all men are dogs because I dont personally know every single man. To say all black women dont know what they want, you will have to know every single black woman on the face of the planet.
@NatTurnerIsAlive Okay...now that's progress and NOW I at least can understand where you are coming from...it's not for me to agree or disagree. I try to look at people individually myself, but I can respect your right to exorcise whatever you believe in. Thank you for your time and comments. I'm sure we will have further discussions.
@NatTurnerIsAlive ok, hon...but what does that have to do with prettiblackbuttafly? I am not responsible for what any other black woman believes or wishes to support. All can do is stand up for what my beliefs are and do my part in helping to mend our differences. All i'm saying is, for that to be done, we need to atleast understand one another.
@NatTurnerIsAlive Do you think it is the fault of the Bw that we were raped as slaves? That's like saying it was Bm's fault that they were lynched and tortured every time a Ww accused them of lusting after them or sexually pursuing them in some way. It's just ridiculous that you would even bring that up as a disappointment. The Bw could easily say that Bm didn't do their part in protecting them from the rapist. Do you see where this kind of blame could lead? Division is part of the programming.
@NatTurnerIsAlive what makes you think I love ANY race of men more than I love my black kings, dude? Or do you have me confused with someone else? I know that the history of both Bm AND Bw has been one of major tragedy and minor triumphs, but if we have any hope for a future and survival as a people, then we need to atleast TRY to come to some type of understanding and quit all this hating, because it's not resolving anything and it's only adding to further diminish our existence as a people.
@NatTurnerIsAlive If that is what you're looking for in a partner, then I would advise you to be prepared to be disappointed...many men have turned up dead behind that very same thinking. Everyone was born with free will and I can hardly think of ANY woman that wants a man to define who she is and what she can or cannot do or why she should be doing it, etc. women can endure a lot, but every one has a breaking point because every one is human. BW aren't missing out if this is what bm r offering
@NatTurnerIsAlive No thank you. I'll miss out on that Nobody is drama free. To think that is to be naive. And where's the reciprocity? There is none. You just want the black woman to have no expectations. I am glad not all black men are like you.
@NatTurnerIsAlive Not all of us are the same. Not all of us put black men in a monolithic category. It's ridiculous to keep this conversation going, because in the end, black men and women overwhelmingly choose each other.
eiko212 and prettiblackbuttafly must have been watching a different video. What i got out of this clip is highlighting the FACT that many black women get with and STAY with a man they know are wrong, in hopes of trying to change him. Also the Ike and tina part was to emphasize the fact that many black women do what tina did and stay with abusive men, it is not advocating violence against women, rather pointing out many of you put yourselves in these positions, eben when others tell you to leave
@jahluv3000 What I got out of this video is that black men are putting all black women into one category: enemy who should be destroyed. There is no reconciliation in this. Only hatred. Only malice.
@eiko212 That is exactly how I feel. There are a lot of bw out there who have never left the mental stages of being a girl, but not all of us are stuck on what the media and society tells us a bm should be and I surely don't want a man beating my ass! I don't get why everything has to be so black and white. I don't want a feminine man, so that means I want to be slapped around? So bm are either punks or thuggish dictators? that's crazy. I want a bm who has both of our best interest at heart.
@prettiblackbuttafly Exactly. Reciprocity is the key here. There are black women out there who are immature in the mind and need to get themselves right. The same with black men. Threatening violence against one another does nothing to create peace. Only perpetuates violence. Low expectations is the rampant disease plaguing us. Black men, expect more for yourself. Same to the black women.
@NatTurnerIsAlive What are you talking about? Black women have some of the lowest interracial dating stats. How many out there are stupidly shunning other races because they want to marry the black man? Thousands. Black women have been brainwashed to believe that the black man is the only option, when it's just not true. Black men have been brainwashed to believe that patriarchy is the only way to be a "man."
@Prem488 What? Did you not see the video? The creator of this video is alluding that a black woman deserves to be beaten when she does not act in accordance to what the black man wants. That isn't respect. That's demanding dominion over a black woman with threat of violence. Black men keep saying "let us lead" but won't recognize the sexism and privilege you hold over us.
Why do men feel as if they are the only ones entitled to certain emotions? We were all subjects of the same abuse, degradation and discrimination and men can act a fool about it, rap about it, write about it and preach about it but as soon as a woman shows any kind of emotion about the things that she has had to bear witness to, she's angry, bitter and every other negative. That's just crazy. This society is conditioned against black women.
@prettiblackbuttafly Because we are the beasts of burden. We are the ones who have to carry the problems of the community. We can never let a black man fall, but black women can be thrown to the wolves no problem. We're expendable.
@eiko212 That seems to be the gist of the message that they are flooding us with, yes. That's why it's soo important that we as bw set the right example in society and start education in the home, but the burden also falls on the bm to do their part. This problem isn't going to be solved with bw alone and bm need to step up to the plate as well.
@prettiblackbuttafly Exactly. Black men sell themselves short, with so many of these foolish male "celebrities" talking against black men, saying good black men are 'extinct.' RIDICULOUS. Good men are not extinct.
I see where you re coming from eiko212, with you comments and you re right domestic abuse is never right!!
I ve found out the true defination of a strong black woman which is..... a woman that has weathered many storms and kept the goodness of character, ( note) not someone that has weathered lots of storms and come out bitter, angry, argumentative, uptight, and out to make every man pay for her past, this is the wrong interpritation of strong, and most men in their right mind would nt want
BM are not born bad, they learn this behavior from BW. so many BM try to be nice & got shit on by BW, when BM snap & turn nasty BW que up to have his babys. when he try to change for the better as he gets older to find the right typ of BW he get shit on again. it is sad but, if a BW dont fear a BM she wont respect or love him. BW complain but, they never leave a bad ass for a nice guy.
@rikshaw223 Respectfully, I disagree with you. Although most black men would agree with you, I think it's a copp-out. There are lots of good black women that want (and some have) good black men. Not everyone wants a thug and even those that did once upon a time aren't really on that trip anymore and haven't been for a while. The resentment between bm and bw is mostly based on the fact that there are bm that just don't desire bw, so they accuse us of being this or that and it's not justified.
@prettiblackbuttafly. thanks for your comment i will try & learn from it & keep an open mind. i think the greatest gift on earth is a black woman. i think BW have some how forgoten that their true value goes beond (bling), (a rap vidio) & (a weave) also a BM that would hold a BW above all other women is not nesaseraly weak. there are some good BM that can jump the fence to other races but, some BM like me can't. let us hope for a better understanding.
@rikshaw223 I agree with you and thank you for taking the time to understand and respond to my comment. Many black females have lost their way into a fantasy of being the bonnie to some thug's clyde. But that's a fantasy that have landed many dead and in prison. The entertainment industry really needs to stop contributing to the glorification of this. Children are being led astray and becoming angry and frustrated adults that cannot distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality.
@prettiblackbuttafly The entertainment industry does glorify that lifestyle to an extent. That is what the movies, T.V sitcoms, music, and as well as the music videos are,"entertainment." The problem is that the parents do not monitor what the children watch on television or the video games that they play. The parents nowadays do not take the time to sit with their children and explain the content of those video games and the shows on television.
@prettiblackbuttafly The parents also do not take the time to explain the difference between fantasy and reality as well as the consequences of those actions that they see on television, video games and music videos.
i dont trip off of BW cuz after all dat strength wears off they still want sum dick!! the batteries eventually go dead and the toy doesnt take the trash out. do u kno how many "strong black women" i have screwed? once i figure out that i cant tell em nuffin, i just get the draws!!
Can we stop throwing all black women under the bus? Last time I checked these women are not the national spokeswomen of all black women. Not all black women want the same thing. If we'd stop monolithing each other, we'd be better off.
Fuck this black woman and her dumbass remarks and attitudes..she only has power and authority from this Devil the so called whiteman!!!
And even this whiteman don't love you black hoes, he just using you to keep us under, but guess what society is going away...and It's going to be a Man's WORLD-BLACKMAN
This bitches basically saying i want a man with lots of money. its the word female explains it all $ FEE -MALE get it they come with a price a charge a fee. When you got lots of money you can treat women like shit and they wont give u a lick of attitude or if u white they will respect u. These some house nigger women anyway that this dude is interviewing. fuck these hoes!
Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
these women just looking for some big timers who making lots of money. the men who complain about black women attitudes are the ones who are non materialistic. if you a big time rapper or drug dealer these bitches will be all up in your hotel lobby after the show. the ones who dont do that they still the same theirs is just more professional they after lawyers and doctors and shit.
Wow, 1:43 is the typical think of those sistas who are mentally twisted. They talk to BM the way we "deserve", not so they can change us; but to "make" us "better" for them.
Complete contradiction. Trying to make someone "better" is in fact trying to change them. Her words also reveal that she perceives BM as week & lesser. Thats why she needs to make them strong & better; all by "talking to them like they deserve"
Enjoy your loneliness as every weak, lesser man u try to make better walks away
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
pc0p1mp 1 week ago
This how the court weakens the man, judge ask the women how many children live with you no matter who there Dam fathers are ( jail, running the streets, drug rehab, etc.) Then they ask the brother and base it on that. Now hes taking care of not just his but Pookies, DoDobugs, And JoeyCrack. And you gp with that support and bresk off those thugs and your heads are filled sisters have put the rope and Lynch the brothers. Blackman read the Bible get knowledge. Shalom
SD4philly 1 week ago
Mannnnn that ending was deep Ike Turner and the boys like him are trash, at the same time sisters what the heck yall want the working man is corney when ya get them you and your girlfriends set him up Child support his ass up yes the brother was breaking off the support on an regular some wks he didnt had but when he did made sure you gotten it, now nuttin wrong with support it just waaay beyond call off duty the pay scale is rape of an brothers wallet. Next page
SD4philly 1 week ago
BarabbasLove 1 month ago
There is no such thing as black people or white people.
All human flesh is equal to that of a beast to God ( Ecc
3:19). What makes man better than a dog is his (Gen
1:26) spirit within him. Your skin means nothing to God.
There are 3 types of spirits in human flesh ( Jer 31:27 =
Angelic [Jacob], humanoid [gentiles] & bestial [ Esau /
Edom ] spirits. God does not care about your race but
he does not love all spirits [ Pro 16:4 / Mal 1:1-4 & Rom
9:13 ].
/watch?v=JBK-QnH5Hxg
BarabbasLove 1 month ago
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BarabbasLove 1 month ago
This may have been a good video but I couldn't hear with the music going on.
MACWILLIAM42 1 month ago
Black men r not weak...they just dnt know that they can dominate anything if they apply theirself...coming from a blk woman...maybe we blk woman should sit back and say nothing about the potential that r men possess...maybe they would prefer to waste their potentials and just be with a wht woman whp will just allow them to sit on their ass...JustSayn (the wht men dnt care how many of the wht woman r with black men as long as the slpn with them then they'll never lose their jobs...
86lfrazer 1 month ago
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WHAT STILL KEEPS BLACK WOMEN SINGLE? WHITE MEN AND BLACK WOMEN'S VAGINAS!!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 2 months ago
Ike turner as an example ???
mcshanda35 2 months ago
IT,S FUNNY HOW SOME PEOPLE GET ON HERE AND SAY THAT GOD IS WRONG UNDER THERE BREATH ? HOW CAN YOU BE SMARTER THEN GOD ? YOU ARGUE THE POINT LIKE WE SAID IT . BUT IT IS NOT ME YOUR TALKING TO . YOUR REALY TALKING TO GOD . BECAUSE THEY SAY THE BIBLE IS THE WORD OF GOD . SO IF YOU REJECT THAT FACT . AND YOU SAY NO . AND YOU SAY MY WAY IS BETTER . THEN YOU ARE SAYING THAT GOD GOT IT ALL WRONG . AND DONT SAY THAT IS NOT WHAT YOUR SAYING . YOU THINK YOUR SMARTER THEN GOD . JUST SAY IT !
nizzobeats 3 months ago
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vincent15641 3 months ago
There is obviously a lack of a strong heads in the black community. If you take a look back into black history what you will not see is a two parent household with strong male head. Consequently the black women have been forced to step up, and set the example for the next generation of black men. But what happens is, most of these young men experience a whirlwind of emotions.In response to the absence of the male head and the overwhelming presence of a strong female authoritative figure.
freebrezzes 3 months ago 2
@freebrezzes good point ?
nizzobeats 3 months ago
Why can't both partners be strong and still have a working relationship? Two people viewing each other as equals and with respect. Why can't it work? For some equality doesn't appear to be an option - they want men to dominate and to push women into a weak role.
ImNotRacistImBias 5 months ago
@ImNotRacistImBias This is how it should be . The woman understanding that the man is the head . But at the same time the man respecting her and not pushing his wait around . If any woman say she should have the same power as a man is out of place . Not because a man said it . Because that was the line of creation . If a woman follow the true role . And the man plays his part respectfully ? Then it will work out perfectly . And both will be happy and satisfied !
nizzobeats 3 months ago
@nizzobeats The idea that women have a place below, behind, or not on the same level as men..... I don't see happiness in believing inferiority. I'm agnostic so I don't believe God gave men power over women. I'm looking at the issue outside of religion.
ImNotRacistImBias 3 months ago
@ImNotRacistImBias Then you keep going down that road . Im not realy a church going person . But i do no that God no,s best . And it,s bean proven that the people of God divorce rate in 10 times lower then those of the world . So no matter if you want God in it or not . You can not say that the facts are not true . So keep on leaning on your own understand , Because remember you are not perfect . And you do not have the perfect plan . Do you no more then God do ?
nizzobeats 3 months ago
@nizzobeats What facts? I can say the principles of Buddhism are fact but you won't believe them to be fact. So yes I can say your so-called facts are not true. I do agree, humans are flawed which another reason for one human not to submit to another flawed human.
ImNotRacistImBias 3 months ago
gotta reach back like a pimp
coabnmaxxedout 5 months ago
As a young black woman who is in college, have a relationship and a baby on the way with the same man for 3 years, I can't believe there are black women out there that act the way some of you are describing. My boyfriend and I may argue, but we work them out and love each other unconditionally. I just can't dog a good man out or be picky. I don't want a rich man, just a man to help me out and I do the same for him. :)
Tiabiacha1 5 months ago
If a man hits a woman, he is out of any order....... worst thing you can do!
Don't tell: "She wanted it"!!!
subass378 6 months ago
the Bible says the woman is the weaker vessel. Black women have been deceived into thinking they are the backbone and a boss of black men. This has led to the destruction of the community.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 6 months ago 7
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD They were deceived by white lesbians who wanted to be equal with men. Sisters need the black man to protect them from these albino savages. But whitey pushes the gay agenda and these bitchmade negro's fall for it.
IndyBlackMediaCon 6 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD Why is it everybodys fault but yours, Its the white man, society, black women, the government.......why are u so innocent, when your always proven guilty. Always playin the victim, its gettin really old, seriously
eprahs1 5 months ago
@eprahs1 Truth never gets old, it's just rejected by those who hate it. The black man knows history which reveals whose fault it is. The black woman is too fragile to handle history so she looks away whenever the horrid facts of our oppression emerge. I lead women, I don't follow them. No man is without sin, but black men know who the oppressor is. BW unite with evil oppressors rather than to worship the Lord who created heaven and earth. BW are being shamed in the church and in secular society.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 5 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD thats why every time i turn around your between the oppressors legs.......your no angel never have been never will be. Like I said, stop playin victim. U make such generalizations without any facts. The facts are, more black men covet with the so-callled "oppressor" than black women. You work for him and f#ck his woman too. conversations over.
eprahs1 5 months ago
@eprahs1 - I don't have sex outside of marriage, I'm not a whore. Black women don't like white men because they know they can't talk that 'strong black woman' boss rhetoric with non-black men. BW are trying to get bm to submit to them, but it's not working. White women are submitting and taking care of bm, so they aren't much of an oppressor. I'm not fooled by your lies and tricks. I'm not into white women btw, that is YOUR generalizations and hypocritical btw. BW are becoming obsolete. Sorry.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 5 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD It's really a shame you feel that way about Black women. I think they're strong, beautiful, and more educated than Black men. If you list the qualities that a person would want in a mate, without a doubt Black women would have more favorable marks than Black men. Black men cover up their insecurities by bashing on Black women, but the outside world can see Black women have much more to offer than a black man. Truth be told!
gsvkck 5 months ago
@gsvkck if bw are more intelligent than their men that is proof that bw are failing their sons. Black boys are the ONLY boys who get lower grades in science than girls. Its really a shame how black motherhood is so damaged that bw can't even hug their sons! And as far as men of other races having more to offer, does it really matter when they all call bw 'niggers'? And you wont find 'strong' (and outspoken) on their list either. BW are trying to force themselves on men, lol!
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 5 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD Wow you're willing to point the finger at everyone else but yourself huh? Black women failing their sons, really? How about black men being absent all together? I see black women doing their best raising a their kids with no help from their men. They may not be perfect mothers but they try, that's more than i can say for black men.
gsvkck 5 months ago
@LISTENtotheMANofGOD Compare your comment with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
1:34-2:17 Huh?
alreadycrowning 6 months ago
For the record Tina left Ike.
TheEditor80 6 months ago
make them better....lots of bw like to much control and if they don't they throw a tantrum...i know a lot of good black men who get dumped for being boring from these strong bw.
ssscybro2 6 months ago
Morning: Please read this writer's posts...!
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Pariah2001 6 months ago
Bm love drama too, and ww do too, maybe all races love drama. It depends on your education, who your parents were, or having a library card for books. One bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch. I guess many are too lazy to explore beyond their comfort zone/something. Wisdon is the ability to see past appearances. Finding your mate is suppose to be hard sometimes, you will appreciate each other more when you do. Talk is cheap, be a role model. bw
newmindseye 6 months ago
You know what's wrong with the black community. I will tell you. A black women will make a good black man jump through hoops just to get some of her time and give him the run around and make him work hard just to prove himself and then she will turn around and let a dog nigga smash raw. That's what's wrong with the black communty. The cycle repeats over and over and over. Niggas turn to dogs because that's what the vast majority of sistas want.
jatamode 7 months ago 17
@jatamode finally some one gets it.
ssscybro2 6 months ago
@jatamode You are exactly right. Black women have the whole "strong" thing wrong. Strong doesn't mean having a boisterous attitude. Be more feminine not masculine. Also, black men need to learn not to violent to their women.
CommanderB9488 5 months ago
@CommanderB9488 Yeah brothers need to stop hitting and abusing them, BUT it seems that many women like this kind of treamtment.
jatamode 5 months ago
@jatamode I was reading something about that. It seems the main reason why women stay with men like that is they fear he will do worse if they try to run away. It will be even more terrifying if children are involved and they are willing to sacrifice themselves for their kids. I know girls in school who stayed with abusive boyfriends before they decided to be strong and leave. They stayed single or became a lesbian claiming no good men exist. >.<
CommanderB9488 5 months ago
@CommanderB9488 But you know many brother weren't taught. It takes the MOST HIGH to teach a black man; any man how to be a man and treat a women and vice versa. Much prayer is needed
jatamode 5 months ago
strong in wickendness, black people has no honour that what pastor menin man say
its true, the force their people to honour them,@jol223334 i am black ,u lie black are stupid and wicked,so they can only arcieve poverty,nothing more,
people who play God among they self, i am black i regret to be black, if colour isgood the life is good,its about life its not about colour so, so black colour is black life,
seemecool12 7 months ago
that girl at 1:36 dont know what she talking about....
MrCoby303 7 months ago
single is always better
MrCoby303 7 months ago
some black women are weak and cant handle a strong black man because they cant keep up to the standards of someone who is good or right. so if they mess up they cant blame the good blackman. or they are not worth the attention from the right man anyway its their lost.oh well, black men need to move on find love from a good women who he can treat right and know that she is not used.of course black lol
SIMS4717 7 months ago 2
good black men seem to pay for the wrongs of no good black men out there far too often
hype77 8 months ago 2
THAT CHICK AT 1:34 IS STUPID....SORRY BUT IT HAD TO BE SAID
xdst84 8 months ago
Black women are our leaders...WTF...they can't ever grow hair!
level242 8 months ago
@level242 LMAO tru tru
DJSTUX93 7 months ago
@level242 Isaiah 3:16 explains why
BarbarianLion 1 week ago
woman is supposed to be submissive and husband is not to be a dickhead then ur marriage will most likely work
devito108 8 months ago
"We just try to make them better for us".. typical woman
zx169 8 months ago
who the hell are these black women lying to? stop kidding yourself the movie proves all these hating black women wrong.
igz20 9 months ago
Here we go again: responding to a well thought out plan. Why can we not get along? It is not a mystery, if you know the history. We, Black boys & girls, are raised in reverse order of nature. All Black people need to type the following words in their favorite search engine: Let us make a slave.
Keep this shit up, and we will be WIPED out soon! How silly is it to think that as individuals, we can be strong. We don't know what strength is. It certainly is not having a job & trinkets!
LETMEC4FREE 9 months ago
@LETMEC4FREE Real talk. I have read that too and its still true today ! This is y I don't teach my daughter feminism !
YoungnRomantic 6 months ago
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Awo3232 9 months ago
niggers are finished... the elites have had great success in destroying the black family...
PunjabiSikhRajput1 9 months ago
@PunjabiSikhRajput1 as much as i hate to, you are absolutely right?
boo843348 9 months ago
@PunjabiSikhRajput1 I hate when I see comments like this but you can't get mad at the truth.
LEOJULY241981 9 months ago
Black women AND black men carry the burden of not recognizing a good thing when they see it because they both come from a damaged place. You can't blanket this whole concept for black women and act like black men who emerge from the same much escape unscathed either. If a woman tells you that some black men don't appreciate a black women you can't dismiss that just as the flipside can't be ignored. I have been passed over for being square, too nice and goody. It happens on both sides.
JukBxLuvSong 10 months ago
freetobemenoapology: No, it isn't. I bet you wouldn't dare call 'The Diary of a Mad Black Woman' a propaganda, huh?? You bought your ticket, excited and full of elation for seeing a black woman mad and bashing males. I bet you were excited at that 'propaganda', huh?? What your problem is is that you like it when a black woman(like yourself)calls out or shuns black man's issues, but when it's time for self-examination and evaluation, you call that a 'propaganda'. What's that smell?? Smells like
thikboi91 10 months ago
BLACK MEN ARE NOT USELESS. LOOK AT LOUIS FARRAKHAN.
ALL BLACK MEN CAN POTENTIALLY BECOME A LOUIS FARRAKHAN. SUPPORT YOUR BLACK MAN AND TELL HIM TO LISTEN TO LOUIS FARRAKHAN VIDEOS ON TUBE.
shawnkwill 10 months ago
heres what u do
just be/play kind and nice and watch how many of these supposedly vulnerable ass bitches try to take advantage....be giving and see how much you get back.
thats the main way to see what you are dealing with...let em get comfortable you
will get to see the real person...marriage is dead nowdays way too many people
abused marriage and its out in the open...only dumb asses are marrying now.
And most of those dumb asses find out within 5yrs.
Life is chess not checkers play smart.
DoomCity202 10 months ago
the thing that kills me about bitches is their initial position
many of these bitches play the vulnerable role but are positioning to kill
i was watching the view (with my dad) i dont watch that bullshit...he does
anyway these bitches were on their talking about
marrying a rich man who they know will cheat to get that money...
dont trust these bitches man...they have a hell of a disguise because they are beautiful. You will be paying$20k a month to a bitch who couldn't even make
$40k a year.
DoomCity202 10 months ago
im not swayed by what bitches say because i study who they are how they act how they treat other people...once you judge people by those things you will be alright.
niggas are tired & bitches are tired... but ask what they are tired of.....games
niggas play games & these bitches play games & it will continue until
niggas & bitches raise their level of communication..Relationships based
on lies will always fail....many niggas & bitches are lying to themselves
& have identity crisis.
DoomCity202 10 months ago
@DoomCity202
Good comment man. It goes both ways. As s BW I always hear BM saying that it's our fault they don't want us because we put them down, are non-supportive, gold diggin, etc etc and it's coming from the same BM that ain't even lookin for a job but lookin for a woman to support them... and i'm talkin about my own brothers, uncles, and cousins LOL... the nerve!
Lozie82 8 months ago
@Lozie82 yeah im working on my terminology as i grow
i come back and see some of my comments and see where i could have
worded better...glad you got what i was saying...im still growing and a lot
of my comments come out of anger and frustration of these cycles we
have. Im stuck with the n word cause there is a huge difference in black
people and niggas....i hope the gap bridges itself somehow.
I'm Hopeful
DoomCity202 8 months ago
I HAVE HAD ALLOT OF BLACK WOMEN- MOST OF THEM WERE ATRACTED 2 MY THUGISH LOOK/ ATITUDE- BUT I POSSESED THE LOOK WITHOUT THE DRAMA- THE WOMEN WOULD WANT ME 2 BEAT THEY ASSES- BUT WHEN THEY SEEN THAT I WOULD'nt HIT A WOMEN- THEY CALLED ME WEAK, WHITEBOY, SOFTBOY- I REALLY THINK MOST BLACK WOMEN HAVE LOW SELF ESTEM & WANT An ABUSSIVE RELATIONSHIP- THATS WHY MOST CHASE THUG's IF YOU REALLY LOVE EM THEY SEE YOU AS A WEAK NI99@- SAD BUT TRUE- WE ARE FUCKED AS A PEOPLE DEAPLY- SAD = (
2423hop 11 months ago
@2423hop Well, if you saw the end of the video with Ike and Tina, and Ike whipping Tina's ass infront of their kids, then you know that is the reason so many BP, male and female, think it's normal. They grow up with it and when they get into a relationship they relive it. Not because it's fun or they enjoy it, but because it feels comfortable and familiar. They've seen it their whole lives. These horrible relationships are a curse passed down from generation to generation.
jadapoo1 10 months ago
@jadapoo1 << TRUE indeed- when I was younger- I didn't know how 2 controll my anger- but when i turned 25/26- I knew how 2 deal with issues without violence- I think some problems- comes from lack of maturity! & people not knowing how 2 controll their anger or feelings! coming of age teaches you right from wrong- but some people never grow up- I'm glad i learned early how to deal with my emotions- & "I'm sorry" 2 any one I affended when I was young & reckless!
2423hop 8 months ago
@2423hop Good point... and it makes you wonder why some women crave the drama. But it's not just women... men crave the drama too which is surprising to me. Maybe it all has to do with choosing unhappy ass, low self-esteem having ass mates. For real though...me and my ex fell out and I saw him a week later with another woman.... later on he had the nerve to call me and tell me I'm scary just cuz I didn't try to fight the chick that he was with LOL... so yea... dudes like drama too
Lozie82 8 months ago
@Lozie82 < Life is 2 short 4 Drama period- A little drama "OK"- I get that- but drama every day-will leave a person's spirit drained- any man that loves drama- should go 2 CVS -& buy some maxi pads or tappons! L0L!
2423hop 8 months ago 2
I'm glad I never wasted my money to rent "Diary of a Tired Black Man." It looks like it was just another propaganda movie to cast the Black woman in a negative (stereotypical) light and to complicate Black male/female relationships on a subconscious level. To imply that we're all loud, rude, inconsiderate, ignorant and constantly argumentative is the running theme (sigh).
freetobemenoapology 11 months ago 2
It must have been a weak black man who created this video.....he made the f 'ing music so loud that we can't hear everything the strong black women said :o)
jamieblond1 11 months ago
@jamieblond1 quit paying attention to the music and LISTEN.
mistanderson 11 months ago
If u a sista that dont need no man thumbs up!
Now put your name and number in my inbox because I got a 10yr old daughter that need to get like you. (advice please)
DenoJoe2Def 11 months ago
@carmelbrown why dont you go purify yourself in the waters of lake menetoka lmao
DenoJoe2Def 11 months ago
She said "better for us", LOL. That's why she's probably single. A black woman would put a gun to your head if you don't buy her a huge diamond wedding ring.
ArtistBet 11 months ago
@ArtistBet thats any women dude. also you dont need a ring to get married but thats what diamond dealers have implied for you to do
glennboy28 11 months ago
it's a luck in a draw. there are good BM and BW out there. look hard enough, be fair and honest and you will find each other.
AveolarD 1 year ago
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black women are too ouchi
AveolarD 1 year ago
This really shows the ignorance of some women (not all). The female talking around 2:00 says BM dont understand that BW have the power to change a man in order to be better for a BW??? If that is not one of the most selfish statements I've ever heard in my life? Why are you with him if he's not perfect? And why cant you just accept him for who he is? Most men I know when they fall in love with a women they ask them to never change, but somewhere down the road, these women end up changing anyway
damionyates82 1 year ago
@damionyates82 ..It's not real. It's a movie. It's propaganda. The BW is not your enemy, never has been, never will be.
freetobemenoapology 11 months ago
@freetobemenoapology BULL...this is very real, and black woman all across the country share that bully mentality
morphillyous 10 months ago
This really shows the ignorance of some women (not all). The female talking around 2:00 says BM dont understand that BW have the power to change a man in order to be better for a BW??? If that is not one of the most selfish statements I've ever heard in my life? Why are you with him if he's not perfect? And why cant you just accept him for who he is? Most men I know when they fall in love with a women they ask them to never change, but somewhere down the road, these women end up changing anyway!
damionyates82 1 year ago
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its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
they so strong but the need a man to buy the shoes clothes all the time like a dam ho
white199021 1 year ago
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
they so strong but the need a man to buy the shoes clothes all the time like a dam ho
white199021 1 year ago
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra doing the same thing
white199021 1 year ago
its got nothing to do with race women follow other women. they do what other women do. you wouldn't have the view the talk oprah rachel ray tyra
white199021 1 year ago
@Jeff2all Thx man. I just went through some painful stuff with a potential date. It hurts. However, seeing Lawrence beat up on Angela Like that makes me think that my date passed up on a quality man, for real. Thx again.
dupree82 1 year ago 4
@dupree82 A thing we all must go thru dupree, the ups & downs of relationships. I had stop making videos of "black women bashing" because of negative emails I got, but more things need to be said.
jeff2all 1 year ago 2
why the debate? I dont get it? black women do ever think about why black men dont want you? just never date them? easy as that. date other race men girls! black men hate black women with a passion. they are lazy and expect us to cook and kiss their ass and still work. while they turn us into babies mothers. I married a nice european man. and Im a wife and he is the father of our children. fuck trying to figure out black men. DATE OUT IMMEDIATELY! problem solved
shyvixx1 1 year ago
@shyvixx1 You had white kids
BarbarianLion 1 week ago
well i heard it out of a sistas mouth, pursuing a loser because they cant get over their first love or they cant conquer him...nice. unfortunately alot of sistas have this same mentality and then complain about it later, when the losers true nature comes out or they themselves want more and expect him to change...bw for the most part do not recognize decent bm, and therefore r single or still messing with their baby daddies because it is familiar territory to them.
wakeen01 1 year ago
@wakeen01 A man you must be a mind reader.
jatamode 7 months ago
the majority of women are weak and pathetic because they expect to be seen as equal to males, and yet they expect physical security, and funding for their silly useless desires for material possessions, ( shiny jewelry ). It is very difficult not to relate them to an over-fed house cat who feels like your only purpose is to recognize that they are physically adorible, and to remind them of such. Meanwhile, most of the men are busy doing pissing contests through life, just to win favor.
justletmeinassholes 1 year ago 2
good point.
7thpowerableVX 1 year ago
why do all strong and smart brothers marry non black women? hhmm. well, some sistahs are too mean.
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD So, ur persecuting ALL Black women when like you said "SOME" are mean...Nice excuse(lie), jux like all the other see thru racially misogynous excuses of "Why Black men don't want Black women." At the end of the day, BW get over BM b/c they been over you!!! Lol You can't win for lose, so move on!!! How many times do you have to have stereotypes of BW thrown in ur face like its the absolute truth!! A lot of BM are no diff then WM, there oppressive to us!!! Move on!!! Patience women!!!
carmelbrown 1 year ago
@carmelbrown of course not ding ding. some are mean. however, i have grown up around classy and together black women. it's just the black women should maintain their integrity and virginity. the black woman has the power to rule the world because of the elements that they are made of. they just need a profound female black engineer to navigate the project. it's never ALL and that's why i said SOME. lastly, you need to relax, this is youtube, not your world that you live in.
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD Lol Uh, did I call u out of ur name jack ass?! No, letz try exercisin' some respect, which I know itz hard for u to respect BW. Nonetheless, ur bs comment still remains that u persecute all BW based off of some! Your words so whatever. What does BW's virginity have to do w/ anything? Obviously, ur missin' the point so yeah...And I'm always relaxed sweetheart, I jux speaks that real! What, the truth hurts?! And duh this is youtube, really that comment is baseless...Try again!!
carmelbrown 1 year ago
@carmelbrown okay, mean ass. i was trying to give your silly ass the benefit of the doubt, but i see that you have issues. stop blowing up the issue. you are trying to be so condescending that you are appearing foolish. you are exactly the type of black woman that successful and professional black men run from. calm the hell down and unbunch your panties. try being a lady and you may get a decent man. you are too hostile. learn something from vanessa williams or gabourel union.
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD Lmao!!!! Good day to you sir!!!! God ur so full of it!!!
carmelbrown 1 year ago
@carmelbrown i knew that would calm your crazy azz down, lol.
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD GAME...BLOUSES...lol
carmelbrown 1 year ago
@carmelbrown ?
AveolarD 1 year ago
3:30 is what black women want and love, they get wet when u knock em across the face. at least those psycho ones that act neurotic.tough pill to swallow, but it's the truth. find a normal black woman and you wont have to play mike tyson with a chick to get her to shut up.
TheEviIOyo 1 year ago 2
Black women are to dramatic and strict. No man wants that unless he's naive.
Rookerman32 1 year ago 2
better for us what about him? im a black woman i was brought up different than the young women all they want is to be pampered and get their way as if they are GOD'S. yeah we should be respected and not hit on but where did this he should do what i say come from. it will never be right unless the black woman and the black man get it from GOD how to treat each other
lovelynann 1 year ago
i think black men and women should move forward and really go after what they want in a relationship and stop seeking acceptance from others, especially others who can't even make a real decision for themselves and just follow what they "think" is right versus what's really right for them.
get past the self-hate and self-improve your way of thinking, the appearance doesn't mean sh*t, it's the true nature of a person that your attracted to.
92680BOYD 1 year ago
0:26 HOUSTON! YOU SHOULD HAVE WORN A CONDOM YOU DUMB FUCKING ASS HOLE! THE NET STEP WHEN YOU STOP COMMING AROUND TO SEE YOUR CHILD! THAT BITCH WILL PUT CHILD SUPPORT UP YOUR ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rollin77 1 year ago
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Wow, this video is a huge exaggeration of wants and unwants. How do you get not wanting a weak man to wanting a man to beat you? Hmmm. Black men and black women will never get along as long as they keep stereotyping each other. I dont say all men are dogs because I dont personally know every single man. To say all black women dont know what they want, you will have to know every single black woman on the face of the planet.
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gives the same respect I give to them naneedj.info
malkanthekurulu 1 year ago
black women themselves dont even know what they want, they so damn confused!
kambridge967 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Okay...now that's progress and NOW I at least can understand where you are coming from...it's not for me to agree or disagree. I try to look at people individually myself, but I can respect your right to exorcise whatever you believe in. Thank you for your time and comments. I'm sure we will have further discussions.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive ok, hon...but what does that have to do with prettiblackbuttafly? I am not responsible for what any other black woman believes or wishes to support. All can do is stand up for what my beliefs are and do my part in helping to mend our differences. All i'm saying is, for that to be done, we need to atleast understand one another.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Do you think it is the fault of the Bw that we were raped as slaves? That's like saying it was Bm's fault that they were lynched and tortured every time a Ww accused them of lusting after them or sexually pursuing them in some way. It's just ridiculous that you would even bring that up as a disappointment. The Bw could easily say that Bm didn't do their part in protecting them from the rapist. Do you see where this kind of blame could lead? Division is part of the programming.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive what makes you think I love ANY race of men more than I love my black kings, dude? Or do you have me confused with someone else? I know that the history of both Bm AND Bw has been one of major tragedy and minor triumphs, but if we have any hope for a future and survival as a people, then we need to atleast TRY to come to some type of understanding and quit all this hating, because it's not resolving anything and it's only adding to further diminish our existence as a people.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive If that is what you're looking for in a partner, then I would advise you to be prepared to be disappointed...many men have turned up dead behind that very same thinking. Everyone was born with free will and I can hardly think of ANY woman that wants a man to define who she is and what she can or cannot do or why she should be doing it, etc. women can endure a lot, but every one has a breaking point because every one is human. BW aren't missing out if this is what bm r offering
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive No thank you. I'll miss out on that Nobody is drama free. To think that is to be naive. And where's the reciprocity? There is none. You just want the black woman to have no expectations. I am glad not all black men are like you.
eiko212 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Not all of us are the same. Not all of us put black men in a monolithic category. It's ridiculous to keep this conversation going, because in the end, black men and women overwhelmingly choose each other.
eiko212 1 year ago
eiko212 and prettiblackbuttafly must have been watching a different video. What i got out of this clip is highlighting the FACT that many black women get with and STAY with a man they know are wrong, in hopes of trying to change him. Also the Ike and tina part was to emphasize the fact that many black women do what tina did and stay with abusive men, it is not advocating violence against women, rather pointing out many of you put yourselves in these positions, eben when others tell you to leave
jahluv3000 1 year ago
@jahluv3000 What I got out of this video is that black men are putting all black women into one category: enemy who should be destroyed. There is no reconciliation in this. Only hatred. Only malice.
eiko212 1 year ago
@eiko212 That is exactly how I feel. There are a lot of bw out there who have never left the mental stages of being a girl, but not all of us are stuck on what the media and society tells us a bm should be and I surely don't want a man beating my ass! I don't get why everything has to be so black and white. I don't want a feminine man, so that means I want to be slapped around? So bm are either punks or thuggish dictators? that's crazy. I want a bm who has both of our best interest at heart.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@prettiblackbuttafly Exactly. Reciprocity is the key here. There are black women out there who are immature in the mind and need to get themselves right. The same with black men. Threatening violence against one another does nothing to create peace. Only perpetuates violence. Low expectations is the rampant disease plaguing us. Black men, expect more for yourself. Same to the black women.
eiko212 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive What are you talking about? Black women have some of the lowest interracial dating stats. How many out there are stupidly shunning other races because they want to marry the black man? Thousands. Black women have been brainwashed to believe that the black man is the only option, when it's just not true. Black men have been brainwashed to believe that patriarchy is the only way to be a "man."
eiko212 1 year ago
@Prem488 What? Did you not see the video? The creator of this video is alluding that a black woman deserves to be beaten when she does not act in accordance to what the black man wants. That isn't respect. That's demanding dominion over a black woman with threat of violence. Black men keep saying "let us lead" but won't recognize the sexism and privilege you hold over us.
eiko212 1 year ago
Why do men feel as if they are the only ones entitled to certain emotions? We were all subjects of the same abuse, degradation and discrimination and men can act a fool about it, rap about it, write about it and preach about it but as soon as a woman shows any kind of emotion about the things that she has had to bear witness to, she's angry, bitter and every other negative. That's just crazy. This society is conditioned against black women.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@prettiblackbuttafly Because we are the beasts of burden. We are the ones who have to carry the problems of the community. We can never let a black man fall, but black women can be thrown to the wolves no problem. We're expendable.
eiko212 1 year ago
@eiko212 That seems to be the gist of the message that they are flooding us with, yes. That's why it's soo important that we as bw set the right example in society and start education in the home, but the burden also falls on the bm to do their part. This problem isn't going to be solved with bw alone and bm need to step up to the plate as well.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@prettiblackbuttafly Exactly. Black men sell themselves short, with so many of these foolish male "celebrities" talking against black men, saying good black men are 'extinct.' RIDICULOUS. Good men are not extinct.
eiko212 1 year ago
I see where you re coming from eiko212, with you comments and you re right domestic abuse is never right!!
I ve found out the true defination of a strong black woman which is..... a woman that has weathered many storms and kept the goodness of character, ( note) not someone that has weathered lots of storms and come out bitter, angry, argumentative, uptight, and out to make every man pay for her past, this is the wrong interpritation of strong, and most men in their right mind would nt want
RonStalentclub 1 year ago
@muhammadfuckedAkid Nooo "they" don't. It's nice you like that but all women are different with different face. I don't have a flat nose so yeahhh
niceperson31295 1 year ago
@muhammadfuckedAkid (*trying not to laugh)Ewwww
niceperson31295 1 year ago
BM are not born bad, they learn this behavior from BW. so many BM try to be nice & got shit on by BW, when BM snap & turn nasty BW que up to have his babys. when he try to change for the better as he gets older to find the right typ of BW he get shit on again. it is sad but, if a BW dont fear a BM she wont respect or love him. BW complain but, they never leave a bad ass for a nice guy.
rikshaw223 1 year ago
@rikshaw223 Respectfully, I disagree with you. Although most black men would agree with you, I think it's a copp-out. There are lots of good black women that want (and some have) good black men. Not everyone wants a thug and even those that did once upon a time aren't really on that trip anymore and haven't been for a while. The resentment between bm and bw is mostly based on the fact that there are bm that just don't desire bw, so they accuse us of being this or that and it's not justified.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@prettiblackbuttafly. thanks for your comment i will try & learn from it & keep an open mind. i think the greatest gift on earth is a black woman. i think BW have some how forgoten that their true value goes beond (bling), (a rap vidio) & (a weave) also a BM that would hold a BW above all other women is not nesaseraly weak. there are some good BM that can jump the fence to other races but, some BM like me can't. let us hope for a better understanding.
rikshaw223 1 year ago
@rikshaw223 I agree with you and thank you for taking the time to understand and respond to my comment. Many black females have lost their way into a fantasy of being the bonnie to some thug's clyde. But that's a fantasy that have landed many dead and in prison. The entertainment industry really needs to stop contributing to the glorification of this. Children are being led astray and becoming angry and frustrated adults that cannot distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality.
prettiblackbuttafly 1 year ago
@prettiblackbuttafly The entertainment industry does glorify that lifestyle to an extent. That is what the movies, T.V sitcoms, music, and as well as the music videos are,"entertainment." The problem is that the parents do not monitor what the children watch on television or the video games that they play. The parents nowadays do not take the time to sit with their children and explain the content of those video games and the shows on television.
MACWILLIAM42 1 month ago
@MACWILLIAM42 very true
GQbum 2 weeks ago
@prettiblackbuttafly The parents also do not take the time to explain the difference between fantasy and reality as well as the consequences of those actions that they see on television, video games and music videos.
MACWILLIAM42 1 month ago
i dont trip off of BW cuz after all dat strength wears off they still want sum dick!! the batteries eventually go dead and the toy doesnt take the trash out. do u kno how many "strong black women" i have screwed? once i figure out that i cant tell em nuffin, i just get the draws!!
MrEarl0805 1 year ago
IM ONLY JOKING. PLEASE DISREGARD MY COMMENT.
HolyCrusader77 1 year ago
BLACK WOMEN + KU KLUX KLAN + NEO-NAZI ORGANIZATIONS= ALLIANCE
KILL ALL OF THEM!
HolyCrusader77 1 year ago
Can we stop throwing all black women under the bus? Last time I checked these women are not the national spokeswomen of all black women. Not all black women want the same thing. If we'd stop monolithing each other, we'd be better off.
eiko212 1 year ago
@eiko212 FUCK!!! THANKYOU!!!
niceperson31295 1 year ago
Fuck this black woman and her dumbass remarks and attitudes..she only has power and authority from this Devil the so called whiteman!!!
And even this whiteman don't love you black hoes, he just using you to keep us under, but guess what society is going away...and It's going to be a Man's WORLD-BLACKMAN
Heathencrusher7 1 year ago
This bitches basically saying i want a man with lots of money. its the word female explains it all $ FEE -MALE get it they come with a price a charge a fee. When you got lots of money you can treat women like shit and they wont give u a lick of attitude or if u white they will respect u. These some house nigger women anyway that this dude is interviewing. fuck these hoes!
BLACKMANIZGOD 1 year ago
I hate that movie! domestic violence sucks!
ashken79 1 year ago
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Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
Nnephilim 1 year ago
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Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
Nnephilim 1 year ago
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Sitting here watching this vid and LMBO @ 1:34...rubbish I tell u rubbish, she should’ve been cut off,lol..none sense, makes no since at all. She is just ridiculous, and I’m not saying all black women are ridiculous, but I’m saying she is,LMBO and that’s all I’m saying. One of the things we need to do is stop the sexing, yes, I’m a man&I said stop the sexing. People don’t know anything about one another then boom jumps in bed, not knowing what kind of cuddies, that other person is carrying,lol
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Nnephilim 1 year ago
these women just looking for some big timers who making lots of money. the men who complain about black women attitudes are the ones who are non materialistic. if you a big time rapper or drug dealer these bitches will be all up in your hotel lobby after the show. the ones who dont do that they still the same theirs is just more professional they after lawyers and doctors and shit.
BLACKMANIZGOD 1 year ago
@BLACKMANIZGOD Well sir, you are half right on that one.
MACWILLIAM42 1 month ago
1:34 this is exactly why the 'black community' is over, these foolish bitches and the rest like them
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
1:22 yeah well you sure as all hell fooled the shit out of me
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
Wow, 1:43 is the typical think of those sistas who are mentally twisted. They talk to BM the way we "deserve", not so they can change us; but to "make" us "better" for them.
Complete contradiction. Trying to make someone "better" is in fact trying to change them. Her words also reveal that she perceives BM as week & lesser. Thats why she needs to make them strong & better; all by "talking to them like they deserve"
Enjoy your loneliness as every weak, lesser man u try to make better walks away
BlackPerspectivenet 1 year ago
cut the bull, black women dont feel feminine so they act like men, imfact just keep clear of black men and women
SuperGashy 1 year ago