I am so sorry for your loss. My niece was born with down syndrome, and a massive heart defect. My "baby" sister named her after me, what an honor :-) She fought against tremendous odds, and won......until....during a "routine" surgery to fix a stent in her heart, the surgeon accidentally put a whole in her heart, and it wasn't discovered until it was too late. I arrived at all child. hosp. Tampa fl. just in time for her to pass away in my arms, on Halloween. They are our guardian angels now,
I'm so sorry for your loss. If not for that embolism, I know that Ben would still be with you. I love his little pucker up. My daughter did that a lot when she was a newborn. I have a pic of her doing that the day after she was born. RIP little angel.
I feel bad for their loss, but in the US I thought you could not bury people on private property? You aren't supposed to use your backyard or anything that is not a cemetery. I'm confused, but I agree that Benjamin went back home. You will see him again someday...
I am so sorry for your loss, you had a beautiful and strong child! He's in God's hands now <3 I was wondering what Edward's Syndrome is because in my Medical class I had to do a report on Benjamin's Syndrome so I'm really confused.
Why would all of you people come here and attack this family??? If you do not feel as they do, and or dont agree for some reason go on to the next video! You have a choice to continue to watc or not! What did you think this would be about wen you elected to view?? Please don't listen to te hate! God Bless and keep you and your family!
My heart goes out to this family!! What absolutely disgusts me is how rude some of the comments are! If you do not agree with this then don't watch it but please don't completely trash the family. I too wouldn't do a video like this however every person has a right to grieve in their own way. Benjamin's memory is kept alive through this video and even though i dont know him or his family through this video i am able to add this family to my prayer list! R.I.P little man
I don't agree with a few things ! He should not be blasted you tube! I'm very sorry for your loss ! You tube isn't the place to show a deceased child :(! Why was he buried near a tree? Not a beautiful cemetery ? God bless! Something's should remain private
@trisheeloveslucas If American cemeteries are like the ones out here where I live, I think they wouldn't put him there because of the possibility that another grave would go on top. Our cemeteries have at least 12 feet so 2 coffins can go inside. That part I can understand n I think they wanted t raise awareness for Edward's syndrome or sumn. (I'm just assuming still)
@OinkCity I agree. That is sick. why would you exploit not only your deceased child but your other living ones, showing their pain and suffering and almost mocking it.
Thank you so very much to everyone who commented on this site over the past 5 years since the video was posted. Yesterday the 15th of December was the anniversary of our precious little Benjamin going home to be with His Saviour Jesus Christ...We are more than confident that he IS in the loving arms of God. We do not fear death....for those who know the God of the universe...it is just a doorway to life....Once I did not know God....I cried out.."if you are there...show yourself to me! He did
God bless you and your nice family, he'll always be with you, i'm so sorry about Benjamin your son. But i'm sure that now he's already with god in heaven the place that he has prepared for all of his childrens.
oh my my faith in heavenly father was faltering, until i watched your video through your love and faith your little angel will be held in the arms of our heavenly father,
God bless you, your family and all that sent their love and help to you during such a difficult time. I'm sending all my love your way. May your beautiful gift from god rest in peace. Xx
What a precious and beautiful family! Your kids are so beautiful too. Makes such difference when we have God on our side! What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little baby boy!
I find you to be an insensitive jerk!!! I hope you can make your way to God and that He will forgive you!!!! That family did not deserve to lose a child. It was a mistake made by accident and I am sure this family has forgiven the nurse.
@themenaceanish - you are ridiculous, why would you even say that! I pray you never have to go through something like this...You are a sad individual.. It's best not to say anything about God's children, the consequences are not good!
@2ravenf0x2 okay i c ur point it just suck that his family almost lost him and he lived and they bonded with him and then he gets taken a way anyway idk
@247fallon ya I know I actually balled my eyes out and for even a split moment I was angry too but I realized just like my first one I was pregnant with which I lost there was a reason and I also remember that my baby is in God's arms just like Benjamin without pain or suffering. He was a big fighter yes but perhaps he may have been in more pain if he had kept going more then he could bare, remember God doesn't give us more than we can bare. God Bless!
FOR ALL THE DISLIKES LOSE A CHILD THEN COME TALK TO THESE NICE PEOPLE OR MYSELF! YOU WOULD FARE BETTER TO SPEAK TO THEM THAN ME! AS FOR I AM A BROKE MAN, AND I WILL BREAK YOU!! UNTIL YOU LIVE IT NEVER JUDGE! AS FOR THE VIDEO YOU ALL HAVE DONE A WONDERFUL JOB! I AM A MAN WHO EXPERINCED THE SAME LOSS AND I CRIED THE WHOLE TIME :(
@xXDuckMunkXx you,re absolutley right i,m sorry but i can not help to say this but i don,t agree .
i believe in god and i believe that no mather what if you live you,re life normal in a loving way gay ore not gay ore as a atheiist , you,re going to heaven we all make sins a believer or not we all do so . i,m also a person who can see spirits ans this is something that the bible is against but i can,t help i just see them . i know were we go when were gone... R.I.P. little benjamin !!!
~XxDuckMunkXx~ You better hope there is not a God. because if there is ( which I truely believe there is, as are all parents to these little angels) you're sure gonna rot in hell and not for being gay but for the way you hurt others!!!!
Hard to watch the expressions of sorrow on the surviving children's faces. I am so very moved by your story. Your faith in the fact that Benjamin is waiting for you in Heaven God bless you all. I'm sure the balloon release helped your family cope, especially the other children. Is your son's condition a recessive trait? Are you and the children being genetically screened?
@xXDuckMunkXx You douchebag! You picked the wrong place to make a stand, these people are grieving! You have no business telling them what to believe! I'm gay, you're a moron. Where did you get your advanced degrees in physics and theology? You think you know everything their is to know? You'll excuse me if i don't take the word of some degenerate dropout who trolls on other peoples grief. You make me sick. Grow up.
it's a really sad story ( i'm only 16 btw) but i just read that " I hope that this nurse has been brought to justice for what she/he has done!" AND i were like omg! how can you be so mean not like she did it becous she wanted to kill the poor boy. and we a all hurmans and we all make mistakes. But it's a really sad story but i hope that your hanging in there.
im sorry for your loss but god has nothing to do with any of this...maybe it makes you feel better to believe in a higher power but this kind of stuff can happen just because
@psk75999 Well of course im never gonna go through this cause im not stupid enough to have a child, and even if i did i wouldn't sit on it's face with my fat pimpley ass.
I know there is nothing that I can say to ease the pain. I wish there was. The strength & faith of you, your family & your church family is awesome. I cried during the video, but they were not ALL sad tears. I found myself crying inspirational tears as Ben went home to be with Our Father. To see all of you refusing to let the devil take the love & happiness from your heart even through the sadness is something that I will take with me forever. May God bless all of you!
I felt the waves of sadness come over me watching your daughters cry over seeing their brother passed away. I felt that way when my brother passed and I still remember it to this day though I was only a 3 year old. in your video on 6:41 if you look REALLY closely where the rock and the light are shining together right near your scarf you can see the faint image and face of a baby! Can anyone else see this?
What a wonderful testimony thru' such sorrowful loss. Your faith in your tragedy has glorified God, and continues to help others. More importantly, preaching the Gospel to see souls saved while in the midst of your suffering is such a beautiful, powerful message of the only One Who can comfort. May God bless you and your family abundantly here, and there, too. Your precious Benjamin may take many others to Heaven with him, because of this testimony--God is faithful and true. Bless you!
I have never viewed a sadder video! But this was the most beautiful and well put together memorial, I have ever came across! May peace be with you and your beautiful family, now, always and forever. Rest in eternal peace baby Ben, until the resurrection day!
I cannot fathom the thought of ever losing one of my children. I hope the day mat never come and if it does, I pray to have as much faith in the heavenly father. I just don't know if I could be so strong! I truly admire your faith!
May the Lord give you comfort by the power of the Holy Spirit of God through the Precious Blood of Christ our Lord and Savior, may His Peace always be with you and your beautiful family, in Jesus Name i pray Father-God, Amen
i am so sorry for your lose he was a beautiful baby.... and for all those people leaving mean comments get a life. its a video about a deceased baby like really grow up.
I am so sorry that happen. I am a little suspecious of that nurse. I hate to think like this, but I'm thinking she may had murdered him on purpose. Maybe it happen because they were scare that he would live for much much longer and raise healthcare costs even higher.
May Christ lighten your burden.. May God Shine His face on you n your family. im really moved watching this. Ben is surely with Jesus our Lord of life..
we all know it is sad, maybe God want it that way.. so that He can keep the baby in his arms.. for the family, sorry . and for the nurse, dont blame yourself , nothing is to be blamed, God has given the family a chance to atleast have baby benjamin for few moments...... it's already a gift that God extended his life ... please stop blaming each other.. He is right now at God's hand.
Poor special baby. May he lie with Jesus and the Lord for all eternity. (did i spell that right??) anyway, beautiful story, i cried so hard for your precious child. He was so cute too!! God be with you, although im sure he already is. :)
Sorry your family had to go through this. I am sure your baby brought lot of joy on the short period of time. Glad to know you got comfort by the Mighty
God. May He bless your family, you have beautiful children. Glad you used your testemony to bring others to Christ. Sure it was a smell of sweet incense into the presence of the God whom you serve!
In sadness is so much beauty! Thanks for sharing your story of your wonderful son, your wonderful love and devotion to God and to one another.....This is an awesome family!
sinto muito pelo seu bebe...so vc pode sentir esta dor. mas tento compartilhar. ele esta com jesus agora brincando com lindos animais. deus te abençoe e te conforte" leticia from Brasil.
this is one of the most heartwarming events that i have heard of. the faith you have is wonderful and wise. although our belief systems are quite different we both know there is a god. with that our hope will never shatter...i wish you every happiness:)
starting @ 4:22 it is horrible to c! Im holding my son as I watch this and cry holding him tighter. May God give you comfort and Ben I know I will see you in paradise one day! You are a beautiful lil boy. Rev 21:3,4!!!!!!!!
Our loving Lord never wanted this to happen...Satan has a period of time to harm us, and our children also. He makes us lose faith.It's good to cling onto your believe at times like this.It gives you hope and relief. Things will change, the bible promises us that. God promises us. He will make all harm undone, but at his own time. Till then keep your faith, read the bible if you start to doubt... It might help you in all kind of difficult times. (revelation 21:3,4.)
Sad and cruel things happen on earth, not because God wants it to happen, but obviously Satan rules the world. He created deceases and anger and hate. Also death was n't ment to be, in the first place. Now the whole world is messed up and what's more painful to notice is that people always seem to "blame" their Creator.
I have a friend whose daughter also had trisomy 18. She was also told by her doctors to terminate the pregnancy. She and her husband chose not to because of their faith in the Lord. Unfortunatley little Jayla didn't live but 18 hours. Her mother said she touched so many lives in those few hours. Drs and nurses kept asking her, "why are you rejoycing when your baby is dying" they responded with, "because God let us meet her!" God is good!
i cried D: i watched so many sad story videos tonight and none of them made me cry. He was so cute :*( im very sorry for ur loss. God bless Ben and ur family
So sad:( And to see your other children crying, it broke medown, I cried so much. I hope that this nurse has been brought to justice for what she/he has done!
If you don't mind me asking, what exactly happened that caused the embolism? Was it negligence, or just a difficult procedure or something like that? I am sorry for your loss, and I wanted to say that you sure have some beautiful children!
This is something that no one could have stopped. it was meant to be but there are some kids that we can help still. Kids who live in the middle east forced to become terrorists.
at least we can help them.
and whoever that kikoshithead is. Hey man, I'm atheist but you don't say stuff like that.
Very touching, tears poured. I gave birth to my son 3 weeks early and they told me there was a chance he'd be put on oxygen - something about white boys who are born before term, their lungs don't fully develop -. of course i was heart broken but i stayed strong, had faith and didnt shed one tear. I knew my sons guardian angel was watching over and God had his hands around us. Now, to this day.. I have a healthy/happy 4 month old Boy. God is GREAT and works miracles!
The faces of your saddened family brought tears to my eyes. My nephew was still born yesterday morning and I was there when he came into the world. He was the most amazing miracle I had ever seen, perfect in every way, but I cannot stop crying for him. I held him and kissed him goodbye as the warmth drained from his tiny body. He was just under a pound and was 7inches in length. I have to say, your Benjamin has a beautiful face, he looked absolutely adorable. R.I.P sweet Benjamin. x
ur story of ur son is such an inspirtation to me, i was just arguing with a couple of women that thought that it would be ok to abort (murder) an unborn child cause i would have birth difects and would just suffer. i told them that it was wrong a child no matter how much time its here deserves to know that they are loved. birth defects or not. ur story proves me right. bless u lil benjamin. fly high sweet child.GOD bless u and urs
he will go streight to heaven... children who pass away are granted heaven by god... A child is born sinless (i am a muslim)... and may god keep you strong as a family always.....
WOW. This is a very powerful video! You have such rock solid faith. You guys are awesome! May God Bless you abundantly, as I know He will be each and every day.
"""fuck up your toddler's i am back i am very mean this time if you ruin my video's i am going to remove your video's this time i mean it""" your children are ulgy then ever" " ""
This is by far one of the most beautiful videos on youtube, I am crying its so touching, and I applaud how much faith you have, Lord continue to bless your family! and your little angel up in heaven..
WHAT DID THE NURSE DO?I CAN SEE THE LOVE FOR YOU ALL GOD IS THE ONE THAT CAN MAKE ALL FEEL BETTER AND SO WILL THE 3 BEUTIFAL KIDS YOU HAVE AND THE 1 GORGUSE BABY THAT AWAITS YOU IN HEAVEN WITH OUR FATHER.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALLWAYS
This is a wonderful but sad story about your family. I am not a religious person, I do have my beliefs and faith. I was lovely of you to share this with the world. A family with such a harsh loss and still has their faith. The loss of your lil' Benjamin was heart wrenching. You have a beautiful family. I'm sure you will see your lil Benjamin again one day. our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
this video was very touching, as i was watching it i began to cry because he was so beautiful and he just had to go like that. i'm so sorry for your los!
What a sad and beautiful story. I would love to show this to my children so they don't cry sometimes about death. Unfortunately their father - my ex (who is Catholic) believes that when you die it is black and that is all. What a beautiful way to express Gods power and Faith. Thank you so much for sharing this. You are great parents and your children are gorgeous. I really hope this came across the way I was trying to express it. RIP angel Ben.
I Cried . he Was so handsome. & your kids loved him so much . he was a blessing to you guys. im truly sorry for the lost. me & mother sat and watched the whole thing. tears run down our face. you will see him agian )=
i commend ur faith and do not disourage it. i am a non beleiver. all of your children are beautiful. i'm sure ben is in a nice place somewhere. deepest sympathy to your family. u have a beautiful lil boy to remember.
What a wonderful family...through tragedy you still uplift the name of our Lord Jesus Christ...thank you for your dedication and faith in God despite your circumstances...may your witness plant many seeds for the kingdom. God bless!
wow this is sooo sad, im sorry! n for kikyousdream, u r sooo disrespectful beyind belief, you know that this family is religious n lost their bby an all u can do is use that language an make them feel more down, wow u need to grow up. if this was u n their shoes what would u do, wouldnt u want memories of ur bby, or would u b as heartless as u r to this family. ur unbelieveable! ppl like u is y this world is so carless..
we all know it is sad, maybe God want it that way.. so that He can keep the baby in his arms.. for the family, sorry . and for the nurse, dont blame yourself , nothing is to be blamed, God has given the family a chance to atleast have baby benjamin for few moments...... it's already a gift that God extended his life ... please stop blaming each other.. He is right now at God's hand.
This family, in its grief, has blamed the medical fraternity because to accept this as a true passing of life they would have anger at their so-called God - and clearly they can't face that, so they continue to live in a self-propelled euphoria that their 'God' has given them strength etc. Bear witness to your own grief but publicising your young children's grief is indescribably cruel. They could not possess the delusional fantasy you have in this God, so their grief is bad! shame on you!
This family, in its grief, has blamed the medical fraternity because to accept this as a true passing of life they would have anger at their so-called God - and clearly they can't face that, so they continue to live in a self-propelled euphoria that their 'God' has given them strength etc. Bear witness to your own grief but publicising your young children's grief is indescribably cruel. They could not possess the delusional fantasy you have in this God, so their grief is bad! shame on you!
It probably wasn't the nurses fault. These babies are fragile and almost always die within one year of birth. I feel bad that he passed away, but you should not blame things on other people when the baby was already destined to die.
@haucks I am so glad someone (i.e. you) made a sensible comment. I completely agree with you. I believe in the anger and frustration and sorrow of this family, but it is so misplaced.
I cried. Blessed be the name of the lord and blessed be this beautiful child who was lost to the hands of cruel fate. Praise be the Lord for his survival as long as was possible. The Lord's plan is unclear. Blessed be the family and the child. Blessed be all christians.
that is fucked up beyong belief, poor angel, I hope that nurse doesn't hurt anymore innocent children....but why were you creepy religious people carrying around and taking family photos with the dead baby.....that gives me the chills.
when its your baby u would understand how they can do that its the last time u can hold and tell them how much u love and will miss them its the last time u get to touch them kiss them
It moves my heart to see your faith stands strong. I thank you for sharing this beautiful story. be blessed my beloved family.
its12midnightbrdy 2 hours ago
@superhotchick699 I think the rules are different from state to state regarding burial.
He was a beautiful child.
mielkay71 1 week ago
I am so sorry for your loss. My niece was born with down syndrome, and a massive heart defect. My "baby" sister named her after me, what an honor :-) She fought against tremendous odds, and won......until....during a "routine" surgery to fix a stent in her heart, the surgeon accidentally put a whole in her heart, and it wasn't discovered until it was too late. I arrived at all child. hosp. Tampa fl. just in time for her to pass away in my arms, on Halloween. They are our guardian angels now,
sherylann321 1 week ago
@sherylann321 God bless you all too.
its12midnightbrdy 2 hours ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. If not for that embolism, I know that Ben would still be with you. I love his little pucker up. My daughter did that a lot when she was a newborn. I have a pic of her doing that the day after she was born. RIP little angel.
pooh42682 3 weeks ago
I feel bad for their loss, but in the US I thought you could not bury people on private property? You aren't supposed to use your backyard or anything that is not a cemetery. I'm confused, but I agree that Benjamin went back home. You will see him again someday...
superhotchick699 3 weeks ago
People are so insensitive. I mean come on these poor people lost their little boy.
The best thing to do is pray and ask the Lord to forgive them. Benjamin is in Jesus' arms. You'll see him again, I know you will.
Your child, such a precious little one. May Jesus shine down blessings and His perfect love upon your family.
tazluvpizza 1 month ago
omg im sorry for ur lost god bless you all and your little boy rest in peace amen!!!!
MrChap013 1 month ago
I am so sorry for your loss, you had a beautiful and strong child! He's in God's hands now <3 I was wondering what Edward's Syndrome is because in my Medical class I had to do a report on Benjamin's Syndrome so I'm really confused.
SuperJacklynnn 1 month ago
Why would all of you people come here and attack this family??? If you do not feel as they do, and or dont agree for some reason go on to the next video! You have a choice to continue to watc or not! What did you think this would be about wen you elected to view?? Please don't listen to te hate! God Bless and keep you and your family!
luvsmonks4902 2 months ago
My heart goes out to this family!! What absolutely disgusts me is how rude some of the comments are! If you do not agree with this then don't watch it but please don't completely trash the family. I too wouldn't do a video like this however every person has a right to grieve in their own way. Benjamin's memory is kept alive through this video and even though i dont know him or his family through this video i am able to add this family to my prayer list! R.I.P little man
gabrielleillie 2 months ago
God bless you and all your family and also do not listen to those mean comments that people left t
vegnmic1 2 months ago
I don't agree with a few things ! He should not be blasted you tube! I'm very sorry for your loss ! You tube isn't the place to show a deceased child :(! Why was he buried near a tree? Not a beautiful cemetery ? God bless! Something's should remain private
trisheeloveslucas 2 months ago
@trisheeloveslucas If American cemeteries are like the ones out here where I live, I think they wouldn't put him there because of the possibility that another grave would go on top. Our cemeteries have at least 12 feet so 2 coffins can go inside. That part I can understand n I think they wanted t raise awareness for Edward's syndrome or sumn. (I'm just assuming still)
Sxeybodygirlz 2 months ago
Have a heart! , stfu how would u saaay such thing! .. rest ur soul handsome! .
iManggoTanggo 2 months ago
Sorry for the baby but the parents are fucking stupid people.
Why did take photos? FUCK
OinkCity 2 months ago
@OinkCity I agree. That is sick. why would you exploit not only your deceased child but your other living ones, showing their pain and suffering and almost mocking it.
downthestreetteam 2 months ago
Thank you so very much to everyone who commented on this site over the past 5 years since the video was posted. Yesterday the 15th of December was the anniversary of our precious little Benjamin going home to be with His Saviour Jesus Christ...We are more than confident that he IS in the loving arms of God. We do not fear death....for those who know the God of the universe...it is just a doorway to life....Once I did not know God....I cried out.."if you are there...show yourself to me! He did
sincerelygloria 2 months ago
God bless you and your nice family, he'll always be with you, i'm so sorry about Benjamin your son. But i'm sure that now he's already with god in heaven the place that he has prepared for all of his childrens.
JKC2535 2 months ago
trisomy 18 does cause death to a child but a lot of times if the child is strong enough he/she can beat it but sadly most doctors wont tell you that
I'm sorry for what happen to you
XTheTaylorTerrorX 3 months ago
selfish
AbneyParkFan 3 months ago
oh my my faith in heavenly father was faltering, until i watched your video through your love and faith your little angel will be held in the arms of our heavenly father,
wildthingtornado 4 months ago in playlist Remembering Children with Trisomy 18
Rip beautiful boy .`*.¸.*.•°*”˜˜”*°•.`*.¸.*.•°*”˜˜”*°•.ƸӜƷ
I'm deeply saddened by your precious loss..God bless you & your beautiful family. I know HE will keep you strong....
JojoplusBo 4 months ago
it is really painfull...the baby was vry cute........it made me cry..:((
pooja6402 4 months ago
:((
pooja6402 4 months ago
God bless you, your family and all that sent their love and help to you during such a difficult time. I'm sending all my love your way. May your beautiful gift from god rest in peace. Xx
fupiM 5 months ago
What a precious and beautiful family! Your kids are so beautiful too. Makes such difference when we have God on our side! What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little baby boy!
Luvamicah 5 months ago
I had my lil one in 2006 as well, I am soo sorry for your loss, one day you will see him in heaven. Godbless.
AngelBug109 5 months ago
I find you to be an insensitive jerk!!! I hope you can make your way to God and that He will forgive you!!!! That family did not deserve to lose a child. It was a mistake made by accident and I am sure this family has forgiven the nurse.
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But it is an ugly mom, what can I say? LOL!
themenaceanish 5 months ago
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What a fucking ugly mom lol!
themenaceanish 5 months ago
@themenaceanish - you are ridiculous, why would you even say that! I pray you never have to go through something like this...You are a sad individual.. It's best not to say anything about God's children, the consequences are not good!
Jesusloverofmysoul36 5 months ago
@themenaceanish You insensitive asshole. Shut your troll face and prey this doesn't happen to your family like it did to this one.
RandomKiddStuff 5 months ago
r.i.p. baby ben..... :(
shyennelove 6 months ago
r.i.p. baby ben..... :(
shyennelove 6 months ago
May god bless you Benjamin.
MrBuckmaster69able 6 months ago
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christians are so fucking stupid
satisfiction 6 months ago
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satisfiction 6 months ago
such a beautiful boy.
MNarcisa 6 months ago
So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. God bless you all!
sneezymonkey 6 months ago
:'( Ben died but he is still alive in all our hearts
tdifan12322 6 months ago
he fought and fought for what for someone to steal his life from him shame on that nurse
247fallon 6 months ago
@247fallon do not be angry at the nurse even though it was a horrible accident it was meant to happen God has a reason for everything.
2ravenf0x2 6 months ago
@2ravenf0x2 okay i c ur point it just suck that his family almost lost him and he lived and they bonded with him and then he gets taken a way anyway idk
247fallon 6 months ago
@247fallon ya I know I actually balled my eyes out and for even a split moment I was angry too but I realized just like my first one I was pregnant with which I lost there was a reason and I also remember that my baby is in God's arms just like Benjamin without pain or suffering. He was a big fighter yes but perhaps he may have been in more pain if he had kept going more then he could bare, remember God doesn't give us more than we can bare. God Bless!
2ravenf0x2 6 months ago 2
@2ravenf0x2 true hes with god so he wont feel pain no more. God Bless you and your loved ones
247fallon 6 months ago
FOR ALL THE DISLIKES LOSE A CHILD THEN COME TALK TO THESE NICE PEOPLE OR MYSELF! YOU WOULD FARE BETTER TO SPEAK TO THEM THAN ME! AS FOR I AM A BROKE MAN, AND I WILL BREAK YOU!! UNTIL YOU LIVE IT NEVER JUDGE! AS FOR THE VIDEO YOU ALL HAVE DONE A WONDERFUL JOB! I AM A MAN WHO EXPERINCED THE SAME LOSS AND I CRIED THE WHOLE TIME :(
wheaty02 8 months ago
I would wring the nurses sorry neck!!!!
DannyFatSack 8 months ago
Well, if expressing my opinion is going to send me to Hell than I can't wait! :D
No one or no thing can or will stop me from being who I am or how I feel.
xXDuckMunkXx 8 months ago
@xXDuckMunkXx you,re absolutley right i,m sorry but i can not help to say this but i don,t agree .
i believe in god and i believe that no mather what if you live you,re life normal in a loving way gay ore not gay ore as a atheiist , you,re going to heaven we all make sins a believer or not we all do so . i,m also a person who can see spirits ans this is something that the bible is against but i can,t help i just see them . i know were we go when were gone... R.I.P. little benjamin !!!
olienca 8 months ago
~XxDuckMunkXx~ You better hope there is not a God. because if there is ( which I truely believe there is, as are all parents to these little angels) you're sure gonna rot in hell and not for being gay but for the way you hurt others!!!!
mimisaldana 8 months ago
Hard to watch the expressions of sorrow on the surviving children's faces. I am so very moved by your story. Your faith in the fact that Benjamin is waiting for you in Heaven God bless you all. I'm sure the balloon release helped your family cope, especially the other children. Is your son's condition a recessive trait? Are you and the children being genetically screened?
rubyjean65 8 months ago
i a so sorry for your loss i started crieng wen i wached this
smash8205 8 months ago
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I am very sorry for your loss, but seriously there is no such thing as God.
The bible is nothing but a story that a drunk made up.
Your son didn't pass away because God wanted him to, your son passed away because his tiny little body just couldn't handle trying anymore.
Repent against my sins?
I'm gay, that's considered a sin, and there is no possible way will I ever say I'm sorry for that.
I am who I am and nothing will ever change that.
xXDuckMunkXx 8 months ago
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thetoolbox112394 6 months ago
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@xXDuckMunkXx A drunk? God is a drunk? I realize you're an atheist, but please, use your head a little.
thetoolbox112394 6 months ago
I am very sorry for your loss, but seriously there is no such thing as God.
The bible is nothing but a story that a drunk made up.
Your son didn't pass away because God wanted him to, your son passed away because his tiny little body just couldn't handle trying anymore.
Repent against my sins?
I'm gay, that's considered a sin, and there is no possible way will I ever say I'm sorry for that.
I am who I am and nothing will ever change that.
xXDuckMunkXx 8 months ago
@xXDuckMunkXx A jerk is what you are to challenge the faith that has brought this family some measure of peace.
rubyjean65 8 months ago
@xXDuckMunkXx You douchebag! You picked the wrong place to make a stand, these people are grieving! You have no business telling them what to believe! I'm gay, you're a moron. Where did you get your advanced degrees in physics and theology? You think you know everything their is to know? You'll excuse me if i don't take the word of some degenerate dropout who trolls on other peoples grief. You make me sick. Grow up.
Sylvael2002 7 months ago
it's a really sad story ( i'm only 16 btw) but i just read that " I hope that this nurse has been brought to justice for what she/he has done!" AND i were like omg! how can you be so mean not like she did it becous she wanted to kill the poor boy. and we a all hurmans and we all make mistakes. But it's a really sad story but i hope that your hanging in there.
theisgj 8 months ago
im sorry for your loss but god has nothing to do with any of this...maybe it makes you feel better to believe in a higher power but this kind of stuff can happen just because
ukejuke100 9 months ago
@psk75999 Well of course im never gonna go through this cause im not stupid enough to have a child, and even if i did i wouldn't sit on it's face with my fat pimpley ass.
TrollawayCapn 9 months ago
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God is not real.
AndHellFollowedMe 9 months ago
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I kinda looks like one of you accidentally sat on his face!!!!!!!! mystery solved, throw 'em in jail sheriff.
TrollawayCapn 9 months ago
POWERFUL!
malcolmsnake 9 months ago
Sorry for your loss. God bless your family.
ADAOKILA 9 months ago
there is a stone in my throat and my eyes are raining :(
TheColonelcole 9 months ago
This is so sad.I'm sorry for your' lose. I don't think I would have had the heart to forgive that nurse.
AustinMyka2049 9 months ago
i'm all up in tears!!
UnforgivefulSin 9 months ago
I know there is nothing that I can say to ease the pain. I wish there was. The strength & faith of you, your family & your church family is awesome. I cried during the video, but they were not ALL sad tears. I found myself crying inspirational tears as Ben went home to be with Our Father. To see all of you refusing to let the devil take the love & happiness from your heart even through the sadness is something that I will take with me forever. May God bless all of you!
ttjoslin 9 months ago
I felt the waves of sadness come over me watching your daughters cry over seeing their brother passed away. I felt that way when my brother passed and I still remember it to this day though I was only a 3 year old. in your video on 6:41 if you look REALLY closely where the rock and the light are shining together right near your scarf you can see the faint image and face of a baby! Can anyone else see this?
victoriasay 9 months ago
May God keep you and bless you.
marymroe 9 months ago
looked lyk he did a nazi salute
lopez7771 10 months ago
oh my.... im in tears.... this is terrible. he was a strong little man. my prayers are with you and your family.
kayleegilmore123 10 months ago
that beautiful little baby in the arms of the one who made him now. so beautiful! bless him u and ur family and keep it REAL <3
hunnibud 10 months ago
What a wonderful testimony thru' such sorrowful loss. Your faith in your tragedy has glorified God, and continues to help others. More importantly, preaching the Gospel to see souls saved while in the midst of your suffering is such a beautiful, powerful message of the only One Who can comfort. May God bless you and your family abundantly here, and there, too. Your precious Benjamin may take many others to Heaven with him, because of this testimony--God is faithful and true. Bless you!
caroljohnson168 10 months ago
there's one more Angel in Heaven, and I'm sure that he'll be always with you!!!
love is the real tie between heaven and hearth.......
love, valentina from italy
valenka77 11 months ago
Gosh he was an angel.... I cried thru d entire video..... Rip..
devashree100 11 months ago
I have never viewed a sadder video! But this was the most beautiful and well put together memorial, I have ever came across! May peace be with you and your beautiful family, now, always and forever. Rest in eternal peace baby Ben, until the resurrection day!
I cannot fathom the thought of ever losing one of my children. I hope the day mat never come and if it does, I pray to have as much faith in the heavenly father. I just don't know if I could be so strong! I truly admire your faith!
4angels9732 11 months ago
i have never cried as much as i just did now R.I.P little Dude xxxxxxx <3
kirstyovyo12 11 months ago
iam so srry for your lost
luzairia1 11 months ago
May the Lord give you comfort by the power of the Holy Spirit of God through the Precious Blood of Christ our Lord and Savior, may His Peace always be with you and your beautiful family, in Jesus Name i pray Father-God, Amen
Serge1965 11 months ago
i am so sorry for your lose he was a beautiful baby.... and for all those people leaving mean comments get a life. its a video about a deceased baby like really grow up.
DJbizzyB96 11 months ago
I am so sorry that happen. I am a little suspecious of that nurse. I hate to think like this, but I'm thinking she may had murdered him on purpose. Maybe it happen because they were scare that he would live for much much longer and raise healthcare costs even higher.
padussia 11 months ago
May Christ lighten your burden.. May God Shine His face on you n your family. im really moved watching this. Ben is surely with Jesus our Lord of life..
All the praises be unto Jesus. Amen.
marialjansen 11 months ago
you're too catholic man!
pwilhauk 11 months ago
i'd say you struch gold when you had this little boy! he's beautiful. i hope you and your family are doing well.
BaileyFlys 1 year ago
The picture at 4:31 is so sad! SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!
hushpuppyhyz123 1 year ago
only Christ and true faith in him could give you this strength..."but for us, to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord".
hisonlyladybird 1 year ago
omg! hope you are all ok!
this is sad :(
he will be ok up in heven :/
i promise,
bless your family x
Sherwoodx11x 1 year ago
we all know it is sad, maybe God want it that way.. so that He can keep the baby in his arms.. for the family, sorry . and for the nurse, dont blame yourself , nothing is to be blamed, God has given the family a chance to atleast have baby benjamin for few moments...... it's already a gift that God extended his life ... please stop blaming each other.. He is right now at God's hand.
cute1885 1 year ago
I'm filled with soo much sadness right now o can barely breath:(
mjrangel13 1 year ago
Poor special baby. May he lie with Jesus and the Lord for all eternity. (did i spell that right??) anyway, beautiful story, i cried so hard for your precious child. He was so cute too!! God be with you, although im sure he already is. :)
MyEmoRubberDuckie 1 year ago
Sorry your family had to go through this. I am sure your baby brought lot of joy on the short period of time. Glad to know you got comfort by the Mighty
God. May He bless your family, you have beautiful children. Glad you used your testemony to bring others to Christ. Sure it was a smell of sweet incense into the presence of the God whom you serve!
crisvelazquez 1 year ago
You are a beautyfull mommy, Hy, Fabrizio
BestFabrizio 1 year ago
I am so sorry that such a wonderful boy as Ben had to leav you. He is with the Lord now though and you will see him very soon.
worldofstan 1 year ago
Keep your faith. he is one of the most beautiful children i have ever seen. Im am sorry for your loss
vanessamushroomheadx 1 year ago
In sadness is so much beauty! Thanks for sharing your story of your wonderful son, your wonderful love and devotion to God and to one another.....This is an awesome family!
musicmom02 1 year ago
I cried my eyes out!!!!
emomermaid360 1 year ago
So TINY!!!!
MiniMouse411 1 year ago
sinto muito pelo seu bebe...so vc pode sentir esta dor. mas tento compartilhar. ele esta com jesus agora brincando com lindos animais. deus te abençoe e te conforte" leticia from Brasil.
letykatt 1 year ago
What a migthy testemony!I am so sorry for your loss!Benjamin is now home with Jesus where you will see him again one day!
Hans021220 1 year ago
My respects for your loss.
Ceaaa22 1 year ago
this is one of the most heartwarming events that i have heard of. the faith you have is wonderful and wise. although our belief systems are quite different we both know there is a god. with that our hope will never shatter...i wish you every happiness:)
R.I.P Benjamin. youll see him again one day.
NiteHuntress49 1 year ago
Im in tears....so sorry..glad you have awesome faith in god to get thru this.
TheCharlie2929 1 year ago
"Curious Case of Benjamin's Death" should be a better title
Aerodynamic14 1 year ago
Thank you... my heart feels your loss... my son is also with the Lord.
beckster48 1 year ago
starting @ 4:22 it is horrible to c! Im holding my son as I watch this and cry holding him tighter. May God give you comfort and Ben I know I will see you in paradise one day! You are a beautiful lil boy. Rev 21:3,4!!!!!!!!
CHELSEARAMOS06 1 year ago
Edwards syndrome is the little sister died. Born on 08.27.2009, passed away on 23/10/2009...:'(
MercedeszSmith 1 year ago
what a beautiful baby, and what a sad story. rip ben♥♥
jadzxkay 1 year ago
Our loving Lord never wanted this to happen...Satan has a period of time to harm us, and our children also. He makes us lose faith.It's good to cling onto your believe at times like this.It gives you hope and relief. Things will change, the bible promises us that. God promises us. He will make all harm undone, but at his own time. Till then keep your faith, read the bible if you start to doubt... It might help you in all kind of difficult times. (revelation 21:3,4.)
R.I.P little Ben... :-(
huisvrouwtjuh 1 year ago
Sad and cruel things happen on earth, not because God wants it to happen, but obviously Satan rules the world. He created deceases and anger and hate. Also death was n't ment to be, in the first place. Now the whole world is messed up and what's more painful to notice is that people always seem to "blame" their Creator.
huisvrouwtjuh 1 year ago
My parents went through this with the death of my 8 year old brother Paul.
I'm so sorry.
luckyvet 1 year ago
I have a friend whose daughter also had trisomy 18. She was also told by her doctors to terminate the pregnancy. She and her husband chose not to because of their faith in the Lord. Unfortunatley little Jayla didn't live but 18 hours. Her mother said she touched so many lives in those few hours. Drs and nurses kept asking her, "why are you rejoycing when your baby is dying" they responded with, "because God let us meet her!" God is good!
leannfan01 1 year ago 2
i cried D: i watched so many sad story videos tonight and none of them made me cry. He was so cute :*( im very sorry for ur loss. God bless Ben and ur family
DarkFrostxX 1 year ago
when the baby was die, he 's all white :'( i'm so sad
millybieber00 1 year ago
So sad:( And to see your other children crying, it broke medown, I cried so much. I hope that this nurse has been brought to justice for what she/he has done!
Kelseysmyangel 1 year ago 3
If you don't mind me asking, what exactly happened that caused the embolism? Was it negligence, or just a difficult procedure or something like that? I am sorry for your loss, and I wanted to say that you sure have some beautiful children!
garciajennifer223 1 year ago
This is something that no one could have stopped. it was meant to be but there are some kids that we can help still. Kids who live in the middle east forced to become terrorists.
at least we can help them.
and whoever that kikoshithead is. Hey man, I'm atheist but you don't say stuff like that.
pfl95 1 year ago
this is pretty sad.
he's dead so he's just dead.
let him rest in peace and his family move on.
pfl95 1 year ago
I was crying. I was reading sad stories and none made my sorrow rise until now. God bless you Benjamin and I hope your home safe in Heaven.
ThyDragonforceGod 1 year ago
Very touching, tears poured. I gave birth to my son 3 weeks early and they told me there was a chance he'd be put on oxygen - something about white boys who are born before term, their lungs don't fully develop -. of course i was heart broken but i stayed strong, had faith and didnt shed one tear. I knew my sons guardian angel was watching over and God had his hands around us. Now, to this day.. I have a healthy/happy 4 month old Boy. God is GREAT and works miracles!
il0vemyb0yz 1 year ago
Beautiful Baby Boy and Beautiful Family!!! I am so sorry for your loss,GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!
pyxieflesh069 1 year ago
The faces of your saddened family brought tears to my eyes. My nephew was still born yesterday morning and I was there when he came into the world. He was the most amazing miracle I had ever seen, perfect in every way, but I cannot stop crying for him. I held him and kissed him goodbye as the warmth drained from his tiny body. He was just under a pound and was 7inches in length. I have to say, your Benjamin has a beautiful face, he looked absolutely adorable. R.I.P sweet Benjamin. x
alahdorn 1 year ago
o and ay least he is in another place now were he will meat you soon
NicktheMagician1 1 year ago
dont fell bad at least you got to be with him wile he was alive
NicktheMagician1 1 year ago
whoever the nurse was that killed the baby by making a mistake,all i have to say is you will pay fro your sins
cookie7560 1 year ago
bless your beautiful family! I pray for you, little baby ben was beautiful and now is an angel in heaven. Such a heartfelt story.
ayaamaya 1 year ago
ur story of ur son is such an inspirtation to me, i was just arguing with a couple of women that thought that it would be ok to abort (murder) an unborn child cause i would have birth difects and would just suffer. i told them that it was wrong a child no matter how much time its here deserves to know that they are loved. birth defects or not. ur story proves me right. bless u lil benjamin. fly high sweet child.GOD bless u and urs
jjac31456287 1 year ago
Rip Beautiful Angel
AriesXDiamond 1 year ago
he will go streight to heaven... children who pass away are granted heaven by god... A child is born sinless (i am a muslim)... and may god keep you strong as a family always.....
nightsynth 1 year ago
this video made me cry...
arnetalfojamilay 1 year ago
Poor baby! You all loved him so much! And as I saw this, I grew closer to Ben. Rip little one!
Conie100 1 year ago
im so sorry about ur lost ... they actauly sung this song at my grandfather funeral at the beginning of the year
heathermakeup18 1 year ago
WOW. This is a very powerful video! You have such rock solid faith. You guys are awesome! May God Bless you abundantly, as I know He will be each and every day.
rhonda1379 1 year ago
jehovahs plan may not be the same as ours but he has reasoning for it and i know you will be with your dear son again
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lauren6000blue 1 year ago
made me cry..
marierosecardante 1 year ago
This is by far one of the most beautiful videos on youtube, I am crying its so touching, and I applaud how much faith you have, Lord continue to bless your family! and your little angel up in heaven..
ILUVHORSES1981 1 year ago
WHAT DID THE NURSE DO?I CAN SEE THE LOVE FOR YOU ALL GOD IS THE ONE THAT CAN MAKE ALL FEEL BETTER AND SO WILL THE 3 BEUTIFAL KIDS YOU HAVE AND THE 1 GORGUSE BABY THAT AWAITS YOU IN HEAVEN WITH OUR FATHER.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALLWAYS
mlopez512 1 year ago
This is a wonderful but sad story about your family. I am not a religious person, I do have my beliefs and faith. I was lovely of you to share this with the world. A family with such a harsh loss and still has their faith. The loss of your lil' Benjamin was heart wrenching. You have a beautiful family. I'm sure you will see your lil Benjamin again one day. our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
typeomeywisted13 1 year ago
All I can say is WOW!!! God bless you.
MsRock26 1 year ago
this video was very touching, as i was watching it i began to cry because he was so beautiful and he just had to go like that. i'm so sorry for your los!
R.I.P Benjamin Raven.
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TheLevel4gymnast 1 year ago
What a sad and beautiful story. I would love to show this to my children so they don't cry sometimes about death. Unfortunately their father - my ex (who is Catholic) believes that when you die it is black and that is all. What a beautiful way to express Gods power and Faith. Thank you so much for sharing this. You are great parents and your children are gorgeous. I really hope this came across the way I was trying to express it. RIP angel Ben.
jellymornington 1 year ago
If he was alive today he would be a beautiful little boy. Don't be sad, be happy. He is living a wonderful life up in the heavens of the good.
ClupenguinFanclub 1 year ago
you have some of the most beautiful children I have ever laid my eyes upon. God bless you all.
RNMize 1 year ago
God says it, I believes it, that settles it!
Overfiend002 1 year ago
after your loss do you have another kids now ? God bless your family.
SUMRUCUK 1 year ago
Aww im so sorry guys...you can have one of my kids :-)
deerprincess99 1 year ago
I Cried . he Was so handsome. & your kids loved him so much . he was a blessing to you guys. im truly sorry for the lost. me & mother sat and watched the whole thing. tears run down our face. you will see him agian )=
miisha25baybee 1 year ago
i commend ur faith and do not disourage it. i am a non beleiver. all of your children are beautiful. i'm sure ben is in a nice place somewhere. deepest sympathy to your family. u have a beautiful lil boy to remember.
bec775775 1 year ago
What a wonderful family...through tragedy you still uplift the name of our Lord Jesus Christ...thank you for your dedication and faith in God despite your circumstances...may your witness plant many seeds for the kingdom. God bless!
mrschknfricasee 1 year ago
wow this is sooo sad, im sorry! n for kikyousdream, u r sooo disrespectful beyind belief, you know that this family is religious n lost their bby an all u can do is use that language an make them feel more down, wow u need to grow up. if this was u n their shoes what would u do, wouldnt u want memories of ur bby, or would u b as heartless as u r to this family. ur unbelieveable! ppl like u is y this world is so carless..
startariot69 1 year ago 10
@startariot69 It's not being "religious" It's having a relationship with our Creator!
Dear Family, your video has moved me. Your faith in Jesus Christ is the stongest I have ever seen! With faith, we move mountains.
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we all know it is sad, maybe God want it that way.. so that He can keep the baby in his arms.. for the family, sorry . and for the nurse, dont blame yourself , nothing is to be blamed, God has given the family a chance to atleast have baby benjamin for few moments...... it's already a gift that God extended his life ... please stop blaming each other.. He is right now at God's hand.
cute1885 1 year ago
beautiful little angel with the bluest eyes RIP sweet baby
paranrm 1 year ago
This family, in its grief, has blamed the medical fraternity because to accept this as a true passing of life they would have anger at their so-called God - and clearly they can't face that, so they continue to live in a self-propelled euphoria that their 'God' has given them strength etc. Bear witness to your own grief but publicising your young children's grief is indescribably cruel. They could not possess the delusional fantasy you have in this God, so their grief is bad! shame on you!
Lennii 1 year ago
This family, in its grief, has blamed the medical fraternity because to accept this as a true passing of life they would have anger at their so-called God - and clearly they can't face that, so they continue to live in a self-propelled euphoria that their 'God' has given them strength etc. Bear witness to your own grief but publicising your young children's grief is indescribably cruel. They could not possess the delusional fantasy you have in this God, so their grief is bad! shame on you!
Lennii 1 year ago
Dios !!! que dolor tan grande !!!
CruelaMimines 1 year ago
It probably wasn't the nurses fault. These babies are fragile and almost always die within one year of birth. I feel bad that he passed away, but you should not blame things on other people when the baby was already destined to die.
-A medical student
haucks 1 year ago 2
@haucks I am so glad someone (i.e. you) made a sensible comment. I completely agree with you. I believe in the anger and frustration and sorrow of this family, but it is so misplaced.
cherryberry2 1 year ago
I cried. Blessed be the name of the lord and blessed be this beautiful child who was lost to the hands of cruel fate. Praise be the Lord for his survival as long as was possible. The Lord's plan is unclear. Blessed be the family and the child. Blessed be all christians.
frizzyfrizzo50 2 years ago
hermoso me conmovio su video la cancion muy bello ,me recordo mi princesa MI bella HIJITA ISABELLA QUE ahora esta junto a DIOS .
ncyta 2 years ago
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fuck that nurse!!
galaxybabecute 2 years ago
I hope you sued the living crap out of that nurse.
Nicksblog 2 years ago 2
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that is fucked up beyong belief, poor angel, I hope that nurse doesn't hurt anymore innocent children....but why were you creepy religious people carrying around and taking family photos with the dead baby.....that gives me the chills.
KikyousDream 2 years ago
when its your baby u would understand how they can do that its the last time u can hold and tell them how much u love and will miss them its the last time u get to touch them kiss them
maridentha 2 years ago 5
@KikyousDream If it was your child you would understand why
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