Fellow Young Black Women : "Debsterism" is NOT your friend!

[nancydrew5]

How would a man know how many men a woman slept with unless she told them? I don't really understand the term 'ran through'. Why should women be made to feel shameful for enjoying sex? That's a double standard. Do men get tagged as 'ran through' when they sleep around? then they think they are entitled to settle down with miss virginity? I think a woman can have responsible safe sex and not feel shamed about it. I read this same article and didn't get any of those things out of it.

[nancydrew5]

I don't think she is sabotaging young women, I think she is empowering young women. As for as maturity, it's a proven fact by all the sociologist, psychologist says that cognitive development doesn't even mature until after age 25. This is one of the reasons that insurance rates are so high for teenagers and people under the age of 25, because they haven't fully developed their reasoning, thinking skills and ability to think about consequences of their actions.

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@BlackVoicesOnFilm I had no idea that 24-year-olds were expected to all have higher-pitched voices and to not own pets *shrugs*

[BlackVoicesOnFilm]

@ColonelOfWisdom LOL C'mon! You're not foolin anyone. Most 24 year olds don't have cats, lol. It's usually old ladies, middle aged ladies and kids. Besides, I wasn't even going by just your cat and just your tone of voice, but anyway.......

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@BlackVoicesOnFilm I've lived with animals all of my life. I love them. Two years before I took this cat in, my 8-year-old rabbit that I raised since it was a baby (and first recieved at age 14) died. I've also been told by people that I sound like a white person. I guess I must be white, since other people think so by voice?

[GeneralBacklash]

@BlackVoicesOnFilm So you're essentially saying any young woman who shines the spotlight of truth on a hypocritical old crone who genuinely DOES fit the description of a "cat lady" is to be disregarded.

Disingenuous shrews such as yourself always take severe issue with *ANY* woman who dares to "OPPOSE & EXPOSE" BS-spewing charlatans like "Ms.Heartburn" Debborah Cooper, who puts on a fraudulent façade of being concerned about black women and their intimacy/relationship issues.

[BlackVoicesOnFilm]

I don't get it. Deborah Cooper is telling young black women not to have kids out of wedlock, black men are saying the same thing, yet she's considered an enemy of black women? Black women and men don't need to start having kids until at least about age 30 anyway. Most black men aren't interested in marrying in their 'prime' years anyway. Many don't want to get married until around 30 and there's a growing number of BM saying they don't even believe in marrriage.

[nomyaw]

Good video but we know what she is saying they do adhere to. Sad thing is after they are all used up the white knight will be there.

[blackbolt75]

You certainly live up to your name. Deborah Cooper contradicts herself and she shows little common sense.

Good video!

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@blackbolt75 Thank You so much, latest sub :-)

[ChrisEveryDay]

The info in this video is GOLDEN. For some reason young BW do NOT understand the value of their youth. The hood is a wasteland of middle-aged single mothers who are trying to play the DATING game and they will always lose out to the younger (childless) woman. That Watkins guy should've made that point in that discussion because it is too important of a point to ignore or gloss over.

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@ChrisEveryDay Watkins didn't say anything about that b/c he knows that he would've been attacked and lose some female supporters. This is why there's so much hedonism & degeneracy in this society going on right now, because constructive criticism and having zero tolerance for mediocrity and/or Machivellian behavior is always seen as "hatin". You have dumbasses walking around saying that people *hate* on Gabby Sidibe. Yes, I'm SO jealous of the morbidly obese! I really wanna attain that.

[autismpete]

@ColonelOfWisdom Hey! New sub BTW, ask realmanallen73 bout me!

Anyways, I HATE that!! ANYTHING negative you say about someone is considered "hating", even if it's true! Britney Spears can't sing, Gucci Mane can't rap, and Tyler Perry's movies are ASS... but GOD FORBID if u have an opinion on something, you're either "hating" or judging."

And I'm a teacher. Makes me wanna pull my hair out, I tell ya....

[redkard1979]

"Debsterism " WANTS YOUMG WOMEN TO LIKE HER, because MISERY LOVES COMPANY, OLD lonely SPINSTERS

[cjjaxxon]

I don't care for Debra Cooper or "Debsterism". One vid I listened to for a minute and I was through with her. They were ALL the same.

[TheTruthBearer1]

@cjjaxxon Exactly. She ALWAYS make BW out to be victims and BM out to be victimizers. Typical black feminist.

[cjjaxxon]

@TheTruthBearer1 .......and a OLD one at THAT! LOL

[ghost2101]

i wrote off that debcooper broad off a long time ago.......shes probably gonna be a cat lady if she isnt already....

[DaGrimm1]

GOOD!

About time sistas start putting that crazy, man-hating bitch on blast.

Great work, Colonel.

*salutes*

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@DaGrimm1 Thank You (^_^)

[GeneralBacklash]

Re: treating women as "children", DC said as much in her "NIGNORE" vid, essentially calling women "illogical & emotional":

(quote) "Relationships for women are not based on logic [nor] on 'reason' [nor] on 'what makes sense'; [It's] about...how what you [as a man] do and what you say makes a woman 'FEEL'." (unquote)

See? No "brainwork" involved! So when a woman gets repeatedly burned by bad relationships with dishonorable men, the "childish" woman still gets to claim "innocence" & "victimhood."

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@GeneralBacklash What's even more stange about this stance of hers is that she *doesn't* believe that women should submit to men, and feels that women these days are too "advanced educated & sophistcated" to be June Cleavers...I thought women were easily-manipulated docile children with no responsibilities to their bodies?...Oh wait, that's right, ONLY when it's convient for us and allows us to be indulged in hedonism & greed, are we "strong and independent". Any other time?  Children.

[southpaw2k1]

@ColonelOfWisdom In other words, the reason why D. Cooper keeps giving young BW bad advice about men is that "misery loves company," period. She needs to make more company, to keep from admitting to herself that she screwed up as a person.

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@southpaw2k1 Exactly.

[marcusinHD]

great video

[ColonelOfWisdom]

@marcusinHD Thank You! I think I may be getting the hang of this.