My dad kicked me out of my house for the fifth time on my birthday last week, he'll ask me to come back as soon as my mom wants me back to her house. He's the only one I thought really loved me and cared about me as an actual person. I'm eighteen and I live in a hotel now because I have nowhere to go.
This song is making me cry and I need it. This song is brilliant
i'm pretty sure this isn't about cheating. as far as i know, it is about her feelings towards Loudon, her dad, who gave her and her siblings next to no attention whatsoever while at the peak of his carreer. she's calling him out on being a shitty dad.
That's not really fair, "You cheated me" is about cheating yourself by abusing your body with drugs and unhealthy relationships. I.e standing up for yourself.
@Hunter172 - "You cheated me" is bad pop. I'm sorry, I can't put softeners in here because of space restrictions. So i have to be blunt. I like good pop. What's bad about it? The music. It's just so........meh. Linda Ronstadt, Helen Reddy, middle of the road, middle-aged music. I'm a musician, don't really listen to lyrics. Only Joni M. I listen to lyrics. That's it. Only her. But, tones, textures, rhythms, sonics, convey passion.....just listen to what her voice is doing on this! YCMe? Boring.
no offence but martha wainwrights a bitch. i mean lw3 is a fucking awesome performer and songwriter and shes saying hes a motherfucking ass hole well listen to motel blues or a father and a son or white whinos and try say hes an ass hole then
Ode to rock-bottom. Brilliant, as that's where I am right now :D nice to know someone can write a song just to say "fuck you" to someone who screwed her over. Lx
Probably one of the best things to take away from this song. I use this throughout my life, because I always used to pretend, but one day I said fuck it, I will NOT say I'm alright for you.
@zalechlabe Well, if you weren't such an ignorant douchebag, you'd realize that the song has depth and meaning, and focuses on the difficulties of growing up with abusive, deadbeat parents (specifically her father). It's swearing in a powerful, poetic sense. But people like you just don't see that. So stop being a douchebag and listen to the damn music.
@DontGoQuietly Exactly, the song is about ego, making too much out of life, unnecessarily overly dramatic... Just don't get into trouble. Learning to be tolerant is better... keep it positive...
@zalechlabe It's interesting how you "have no interest in this song whatsoever" yet you bothered to comment on it a second time, nearly a month after the second time.
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Why doesn't the woman just stay out of trouble? Ah, but then she'd have no fodder for her songs. I feel no compassion for her. She makes her own troubles by bad choices in life.
This song is about her father, Loudon Wainwright III a cult icon in folk singing/writing. He is considered the Charlie Chaplin of Folk. Her brother, herself, and her father each appeared in the film The Aviator, the 2004 Martin Scorcese film about Howard Hughes. They all played lounge singers in the three eras shown through The Coconut Grove nightclub.
@tubl8 True! I was just recently introduced to her through a friend. I am 72 and when I heard this song, I nearly started to cry, for I know these feelings so well! It is almost a motto for people my age! What? Are we all only capable of listening to Guy Lombardo and Lawrence Welk? No way! Give me MW any day! I like truth!
You say my time here has been some sort of joke That I've been messing around Some sort of incubating period For when I really come around I'm cracking up And you have no idea No idea how it feels to be on your own In your own home with the fucking phone And the mother of gloom In your bedroom Standing over your head With her hand in your head With her hand in your head
I will not pretend I will not put on a smile I will not say I'm all right for you When all I wanted was to be good To do everything in truth To do everything in truth Oh I wish I wish I wish I was born a man So I could learn how to stand up for myself Like those guys with guitars I've been watching in bars Who've been stamping their feet to a different beat
This is a song by a girl to her idiot father. am I not right? Please correct me if I am wrong. "For whoever you are" is one of the most poignant phrases I have yet heard in a song. Chills, indeed.
I've just bumped into this Martha Wainwright lady, but she is really cool. I wish I've been acquainted with her longer. She is quickly becoming one of my favorite female vocalists, right next to Spektor and Harvey.
I guess, it's about a parent/child situation - but it fits for other occasions too. Me - for example - I'm thinking about my wife, my sister - ja, my father too, last not least Noemi, Magali... and so on. Just about this bunch of motherfucking assholes I've met in the course of my life. Well, maybe you're just in a parent/child situation if you love someone - you're just so ready to expect all the best and to do everything in truth - even if the other is obviously a b.m.f.a.. Or is that oedipal?
This is such a fearless song - I have only recently properly discovered Martha Wainwright, I love her voice, fragile yet strong. Kate Bush meetsTori Amos after the bloody mother f**ker of all break ups?:)
to DontGoQuietly: this song is phantasmic to me. You mentioned her reasons for writing. what were her reason/s? It's poetic and I as everyone perhaps is reading into it, but not knowing her until recently?
WOW this hits home so much it fuckin scares me. its like she grew up in my house. I love it ....passion. pain. hurt. love its got it all..... well done Martha love ya
There's such wryness, sadness and anger packed into it and it's just wonderful. I think everyone has identified with this song at some point and Martha's reasons for writing it are my own reasons for loving it.
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Nice title :)
PATROSFUCK 20 hours ago
what a great song, feels so good to hear when in a time of hard
DazedConfused1969 1 month ago
My dad kicked me out of my house for the fifth time on my birthday last week, he'll ask me to come back as soon as my mom wants me back to her house. He's the only one I thought really loved me and cared about me as an actual person. I'm eighteen and I live in a hotel now because I have nowhere to go.
This song is making me cry and I need it. This song is brilliant
PoetryAddict8 1 month ago
Listen to this every time I'm on my way to and from visiting my fuckface of a father.
YourGhostInTheSnow 2 months ago
I will not leave the kitchen, I will make you a sandwich.
kannabiz420 2 months ago
wonderful, truth, brutal!!
fmdjd 3 months ago
I can't stop listening to this... the last 937 hits were mine... My next life I want to be this song.
rickyseabra 3 months ago 5
would be cool to hear her sing this with Björk...
rickyseabra 3 months ago
Well done fucking absolutely well done.
01594842330 3 months ago
My sons mother loves this song....
Gotta be honest it is a great track.
sepul071200 3 months ago
fucking cunting people. yeah i need this song right now.
tangocolt02 4 months ago 7
I like the way she sings with Snow Patrol! Its better then this i reckon...but thats just my opinion of it
Heroesrules1994 5 months ago
i'm pretty sure this isn't about cheating. as far as i know, it is about her feelings towards Loudon, her dad, who gave her and her siblings next to no attention whatsoever while at the peak of his carreer. she's calling him out on being a shitty dad.
runkert 5 months ago 18
what a bitch
warlockboyburns 5 months ago
If you wanna have fans but not too many so that you become mainstream I think an album title like this works.
I love you, you Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole
jpksocrates 6 months ago
This song is boss!
fefebabes2 6 months ago 2
found this girl afta relising she was the female voice from Snow Patrol's Set the fire to the 3rd bar and she is amazing
kennydalglish56 6 months ago 3
Thank you ...my sentiments exactly.
riverdream75 7 months ago
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What a fucking bitch.
TheNickTheM 7 months ago
This is sex. What's up with the suburban house-wife "You Cheated Me" crap?Anyhow,
she created this. Stick a fork in her. She's done. Still, she created this...so, I still love her despite her current lameness. Love ya Martha. : )
soundtosound 7 months ago
@soundtosound
That's not really fair, "You cheated me" is about cheating yourself by abusing your body with drugs and unhealthy relationships. I.e standing up for yourself.
Hope that restored your faith in Martha!
Hunter172 7 months ago
@Hunter172 - "You cheated me" is bad pop. I'm sorry, I can't put softeners in here because of space restrictions. So i have to be blunt. I like good pop. What's bad about it? The music. It's just so........meh. Linda Ronstadt, Helen Reddy, middle of the road, middle-aged music. I'm a musician, don't really listen to lyrics. Only Joni M. I listen to lyrics. That's it. Only her. But, tones, textures, rhythms, sonics, convey passion.....just listen to what her voice is doing on this! YCMe? Boring.
soundtosound 7 months ago
This is my theme song
MourirSarin 8 months ago 3
no offence but martha wainwrights a bitch. i mean lw3 is a fucking awesome performer and songwriter and shes saying hes a motherfucking ass hole well listen to motel blues or a father and a son or white whinos and try say hes an ass hole then
MrK9nny 8 months ago
i like
mrsbluesubmarine 8 months ago
0:50-0:32 is SOO my ex's new ringtone!!!!!!! XD that bloody motherfucking asshole
kamacachiCBlover 8 months ago
Ode to rock-bottom. Brilliant, as that's where I am right now :D nice to know someone can write a song just to say "fuck you" to someone who screwed her over. Lx
xxrebel2uxx 8 months ago 2
fuck this song
mvendi86 9 months ago
This song shits i love a scorned woman
aphordonte 9 months ago
I'm shocked at Loudon Wainwright the Thirds little girl ! I have just one thing to say:
Dead skunk in the middle of the road
You got yer dead skunk in the middle of the road
Stinkin' to high Heaven!
twinkie57401 9 months ago
I will not say I am alright for you <3
Probably one of the best things to take away from this song. I use this throughout my life, because I always used to pretend, but one day I said fuck it, I will NOT say I'm alright for you.
Elizaplaystheguitars 9 months ago 2
when all else has failed, I have this song, sung at the top of my lungs to the sky. Thanks Martha.
flyoverangel 9 months ago 28
wow, I know one of you searched for "motherfucking asshole"
DMB206 10 months ago
love this song! love her voice. i cant stop playing this song...............:)
bobbyshawsyoutub1000 10 months ago
@critchley3819 ditto means "yeah me too, i agree"
PlanYourLift 11 months ago
@PlanYourLift and that's why Ditto is the pokemon known for transforming into it's opponent
LeChemostron 10 months ago 4
I broke out singing this song when I got fired by my boss.
PlanYourShift 11 months ago 5
I love this song!
Lini902 11 months ago
love it
cannedpoo 11 months ago
13 people are mother fucking assholes.
doctoryarn 11 months ago 5
Great song.
BonesTheCat 11 months ago
bitch is crazy
ryan216 11 months ago
mon amour
stefcussable 1 year ago
mmmmmmmmmmmm que dire????????????? Merci ma belle
stefcussable 1 year ago
man watta song watta voice with real power and meaning
tamereigh 1 year ago
my ex was visiting and he told me he loves the song - I said hey it's my break-up anthem, it's about you... he said he'd been called worse
ntgroover 1 year ago
@ntgroover Yeh OK but what do you mean?
critchley3819 11 months ago
Imagine someone spilling their guts in an artistic form. Never been done before. Absolutely terrible. Bella Martha!!!! Sei una grande!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Beatlemania1979 1 year ago
Imagine someone spilling their guts in an artistic form. Never been done before. Absolutely terrible. BellaMartha!!!! Sei una grande!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Beatlemania1979 1 year ago
Ggarbage'
giffordig 1 year ago
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@giffordig You can get help for your stutering
critchley3819 11 months ago
what a trash heap
giffordig 1 year ago
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The title offends. Why do people spill their guts in this way for all to see? I have no interest in the song whatsoever - just from the title.
zalechlabe 1 year ago
@zalechlabe Well, if you weren't such an ignorant douchebag, you'd realize that the song has depth and meaning, and focuses on the difficulties of growing up with abusive, deadbeat parents (specifically her father). It's swearing in a powerful, poetic sense. But people like you just don't see that. So stop being a douchebag and listen to the damn music.
maddieemcee 1 year ago 5
@zalechlabe Get over yourself.
DontGoQuietly 9 months ago
@DontGoQuietly The title obviously applies to you...
zalechlabe 9 months ago
Very mature, honey.
DontGoQuietly 9 months ago
@DontGoQuietly Exactly, the song is about ego, making too much out of life, unnecessarily overly dramatic... Just don't get into trouble. Learning to be tolerant is better... keep it positive...
zalechlabe 9 months ago
@zalechlabe It's interesting how you "have no interest in this song whatsoever" yet you bothered to comment on it a second time, nearly a month after the second time.
gryffindorxo 7 months ago
very good
imbarehungry 1 year ago
good
miouth150 1 year ago
What a foul mouthed fuckin bastard of a song!
iceonaboy 1 year ago
is she singing about dick chainey?
:Þ
hallobaaaby 1 year ago
As a huge Loudon fan, I have to say it's a great pity he fucked this particular lady's mother....
blokeshead 1 year ago
Bloody Mother Fucking Magnificent!
seviwesuohetarepsed 1 year ago 2
POETRY IS NO PLACE FOR A HEART THATS A WHORE. indeed.
eddypfunk 1 year ago 2
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Why doesn't the woman just stay out of trouble? Ah, but then she'd have no fodder for her songs. I feel no compassion for her. She makes her own troubles by bad choices in life.
zalechlabe 1 year ago
@zalechlabe haha thats hilarious. keep your head, keep your nose clean, keep the telly on...the grave awaits you!
eddypfunk 1 year ago
You do realise this is about her dad right? You can't really choose your parents.
DontGoQuietly 1 year ago
Nice. I still dig Loudon though, even if he is a "Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole."
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isarayoyhg 1 year ago
the irony between this one and loudon wainwright III - daughter is just outstanding.
WovenWomb 1 year ago
Might get stabby.
joynthis 1 year ago
Such a great fucking song.
Poetry is no place for a heart that's a whore.
thesilvernymph 1 year ago 2
Love this song.
--totally unrelated: The album cover reminds me so much of Helen Reddy's "I am Woman"
musiknouvel 1 year ago
@musiknouvel Yep it sure is unrelated but Helen Reddy has a voice,one of the best.
critchley3819 1 year ago
Poetry don't work on whores.
SomethingGodAwful 1 year ago 3
WTF! how come it took me so long to get to this? great voice, great song. pure.
raphael13377 1 year ago 2
@raphael13377 I to just found this and Its has blown me away.
critchley3819 1 year ago 2
@critchley3819 : ditto
Gakeolebale 1 year ago
@Gakeolebale I dont know why you have contacted me when all I can find in my reply from you is ditto and I dont know what ditto means...
critchley3819 1 year ago
@critchley3819 wasn't Ditto a pokemon? i'll have to check this up
TheNaljs 11 months ago
this is a beautiful, sad song. i love martha.
goddessluna93 1 year ago
For BRANDON FIELDS
MuleKist 1 year ago
To BRANDON FIELDS
MuleKist 1 year ago
I like the name of the song, that's for sure!
JuliaPetrovaChannel 1 year ago
fuck em all...still a great song
penelopep15 1 year ago
I love this song. So true and emotional. And her voice is amazing.
Pumpmos 1 year ago
So much emotion and depth in this
mrsohmygosh 1 year ago 2
This song is about her father, Loudon Wainwright III a cult icon in folk singing/writing. He is considered the Charlie Chaplin of Folk. Her brother, herself, and her father each appeared in the film The Aviator, the 2004 Martin Scorcese film about Howard Hughes. They all played lounge singers in the three eras shown through The Coconut Grove nightclub.
MrBraindead1989 1 year ago
F U C K
joeperryforpope 1 year ago
i <3 martha
spookybeast 1 year ago
The best, the best, the best!!
Even tho I love my female friends singing too /watch?v=PociEqw_VTo ... leave a comment if you like her. thx. : )
guitarguy10000 1 year ago
This song is fucking amazing...
ElliotWoolf 1 year ago 2
....nydelig<3
macbookyes 1 year ago
it's weird to hear those harsh words to a somewhat relaxing melody
LorieKins 1 year ago
Her voice and freedom of expression and emotional height are incredible on this. A sort of folk crescendo. Truly marvelous. Like a female Dylan.
Zakdayak 1 year ago 4
She sounds like she has a cold. Her voice sounds like it's going out the whole time.
MrHossCartwright 1 year ago
free and honist, such a timless voice
intouchdm 1 year ago
fucking cool love ya mate
kirkowoop 1 year ago
timeless and classic for me..
zultaurus 1 year ago
She should be much more famous than she is. Very underrated and overlooked.
tubl8 1 year ago 27
@tubl8 True! I was just recently introduced to her through a friend. I am 72 and when I heard this song, I nearly started to cry, for I know these feelings so well! It is almost a motto for people my age! What? Are we all only capable of listening to Guy Lombardo and Lawrence Welk? No way! Give me MW any day! I like truth!
hgbrown20001 1 year ago 6
I love the fact that she always expresses her feelings without becoming melodramatic or wimpy...so strong spirited...
creeper1981 2 years ago 3
all comments were green in this list .., says heaps about the song brilliant
Realisticalcynic 2 years ago 4
The title is just bloody brutal...
HyperWake444 2 years ago 6
brilliant
jyvecat 2 years ago 4
that voice... *goosebumps*
disconnected84 2 years ago 15
pure brilliance
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jagozjagolandu 2 years ago
masterpiece
aambored 2 years ago 7
reminds me of someone..............
bigcaramelcat 2 years ago 5
whoever you are
AsboDolche 2 years ago 3
I adore this. The emotion in it... I aspire to write a song this real.
willoemusic 2 years ago 4
But I feel old & tired
Opalmaia170 2 years ago 3
Poetry is no place for a heart that's a whore
And I'm young & I'm strong
But I feel old & tired
Overfired
And I've been poked & stoked
It's all smoke, there's no more fire
Only desire
For you, whoever you are
For you, whoever you are
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here2go 2 years ago 17
Beautiful...the title comes from a hurtin' place that just needs to let some anger out. Dig it.
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cashmoneyboys666 2 years ago
thanks for this song.
Aoogachaka 2 years ago
Great tune.
CDHIgnorance 2 years ago 4
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bernskiwoo 2 years ago
wow...some title. aha
sherulzz 2 years ago
this is for u daddy...
scratchdanndo 2 years ago 6
"i will not say i am alright for you.."
sometimes thats all you can say when life is a head fuck
bernskiwoo 2 years ago 3
Sooo underrated... The lyrics are just genius.
nicotinization 2 years ago 13
For all of us daughters with absent fathers. In all the ways they can be absent. Whoever they are.
marvelsquantis 2 years ago 12
ARRGHH ya Bloody!
TheAtraxRobustus 2 years ago
Just perfect...
golfw1986 2 years ago
This is a song by a girl to her idiot father. am I not right? Please correct me if I am wrong. "For whoever you are" is one of the most poignant phrases I have yet heard in a song. Chills, indeed.
EJTJ04 2 years ago 8
Correct, that's what she's said when questioned about it.
A girl's father who marginalises her just with his goddamn presence and whose presence is with her wherever she goes.
-I'd never try to please you just because all I've ever wanted is your acceptance-
Lilyichka 2 years ago 4
love this song =D
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theboratt 2 years ago
No, you.
unabomberman 2 years ago
Jesus this photo of hers resemble Mariah's lips and facial contour.
superc 2 years ago
omg yeah it does!
jacd2k9 2 years ago
I've just bumped into this Martha Wainwright lady, but she is really cool. I wish I've been acquainted with her longer. She is quickly becoming one of my favorite female vocalists, right next to Spektor and Harvey.
m00nEater 2 years ago 3
such a tune it makes me think of crying naked women running round new york in the rain with an axe
wicked
AsboDolche 2 years ago 5
haha omg it makes me think that to! haha
jacd2k9 2 years ago
The song title is an sight grabber
ReggaeZal 2 years ago
Go Martha!
Yayyyyyy!
stillamused 2 years ago
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swearing in songs that are meant to be heartfelt kills it
RadicalNotion 2 years ago
Ammmmmaaaaaaaaaazzzzzzzzzzziiiinnggggg!
guitarguy10000 2 years ago 2
I guess, it's about a parent/child situation - but it fits for other occasions too. Me - for example - I'm thinking about my wife, my sister - ja, my father too, last not least Noemi, Magali... and so on. Just about this bunch of motherfucking assholes I've met in the course of my life. Well, maybe you're just in a parent/child situation if you love someone - you're just so ready to expect all the best and to do everything in truth - even if the other is obviously a b.m.f.a.. Or is that oedipal?
kafkazepam 2 years ago
I love this song and the one about her brother: laurel and hardy!
It's a sad song but more sad for her. Seeing this part:
All I wanted was to be good, to do everything true!
Don't you think?
1ManiacMonkey1 2 years ago 12
Yes! Laurel and Hardy is a brilliant song - finally someone who has the Ground Floor album :)
babsthesheep 2 years ago
I can't get enough of this. It's amazing.
DevotedHelenFan 2 years ago 5
quite sad really to sing a song like this about your old man
64g15csr 2 years ago 3
this is mathas way of telling her dad whats on her mind...........awesome
64g15csr 2 years ago 5
I waited two minutes and twenty seconds to hear this 2:20 nice song
norevelation 2 years ago
"I will not pretend, I will not putt on a smile" Wow.. I love it! The text is so amazing . :D
bloodyj66 2 years ago
This is such a fearless song - I have only recently properly discovered Martha Wainwright, I love her voice, fragile yet strong. Kate Bush meetsTori Amos after the bloody mother f**ker of all break ups?:)
IrenaJean 2 years ago 4
Best part of all...break those vocal chords Martha !! Alllllll righttttttt !!!!!!!!
barbaricboy 2 years ago
to DontGoQuietly: this song is phantasmic to me. You mentioned her reasons for writing. what were her reason/s? It's poetic and I as everyone perhaps is reading into it, but not knowing her until recently?
solsticepostess 2 years ago
mega läässig
junkietimeXD 2 years ago
WOW this hits home so much it fuckin scares me. its like she grew up in my house. I love it ....passion. pain. hurt. love its got it all..... well done Martha love ya
kirkowoop 2 years ago
AWSOME BALLAD!
kathyhutton 2 years ago
WAHT AN AWSOME BALLAD!!!!! LOVE THIS!
kathyhutton 2 years ago
FUCKING GREAT!!!
spabank 2 years ago 3
This song is epic! Can't be much better than that!
harvard11 2 years ago 5
Martha got it so right. She is extremely wonderful.
kearneybubbles 2 years ago 7
there is something of Dylan about her
elerayrah 3 years ago 3
There's such wryness, sadness and anger packed into it and it's just wonderful. I think everyone has identified with this song at some point and Martha's reasons for writing it are my own reasons for loving it.
DontGoQuietly 3 years ago 8
oh i love this song.
54spiritedwill54 3 years ago
Rock on Martha I love you too great song and so exquisite...............
Whistlejocket 3 years ago 5
Of course ;) Martha IS the exquisite :D
babsthesheep 3 years ago
brilliant!
upyerbum666 3 years ago 2
Right, just to let everyone know, I'm not having those comments posted on my video - I don't care who was right, and who was wrong, and neither does the rest of the world. So I have deleted them, and any more ridiculous comments that appear on this video will be deleted straight away.
babsthesheep 3 years ago