I completely agree with you, I do not understand how the gay community is largely against transgender people or transsexuals. I have a few gay friends (that are pretty flamer), that dislike "Trannies". This doesn't make sense to me, like you said. I am fairly effeminate so it is hard for me to get other people to understand a viewpoint like you were able to do in this video (Simply because then they start to think I want to become transgender or something.) I appreciate you making this video
Damn everyone in the comment section was not at the last gay agenda meeting. "Q" means queer and questioning. Queer means many things to many people. Personally I like to describe myself as queer and I have a clear anontomical male gender. For me it means different.
Queer is by definition whatever is at odds with the normal, the legitimate, the dominant. There is nothing in particular to which it necessarily refers. It is an identity without an essence. 'Queer' then, demarcates not a positivity but a positionality vis-à-vis the normative. -David Halperin
I think the reason a gay man would hate on a fem, from my experience, 1. He hates that hes fem 2. Speaking as a "pretty" fem, they're just hatin' cuz I always get the hot guys. yeah...I think they're all nothing but jealous beeotchs, always on the rag. It's not my fault.
@jayunit85 there was a question about genderqueer- what I posted is about the closest definition, inside the title ´genderqueer´ can be many variations, its not particulaly about how you or anyone defines somebody, its more about how you would define yourself.
@jthulan i definately agree with that. i believe that a large part of the reason were here on earth is to learn to be ourselves and be okay with that. have you ever heard someone say "everyones a little weird"? haha i kinda see it like that.
Generally "queer" refers to people who's gender identity is neither male or female. Gender and sexuality are quite different. LGB all deal with sexualities while T and Q deal with gender identity. There are a lot of queer blogs on here, i suggest you look em up. I appreciate your willingness to ask questions instead of jumping to conclusions.
@TransDIYer ya that definately makes sense. if theres a spectrum for sexuality from gay to straight and everything in between then there must be one for gender identity too.
Well yah, We have moved along the continuum of acceptance and awareness Long time ago it was "gay" then "gay and lesbian" then they added bi and Transgendered because people felt that the term excluded them. I sorta favor just using "Queer" for everything, it was derogatory but now we own it. Queer covers anyone who feels different, especially in terms of sexuality.
Some say it's for "questioning" but I say it's wide enough alone. And then some are saying LGBTQQ but I think, enuf is enuf..:)
I agree with you 100% there's already enough people trying to disbute and disband us. Why create more segregation? This "community" needs to stick together. I personally don't agree with gender switching but i could never hate a transgender person. Feminine dudes? Could never be one but most of them are some the greatest funniest people you'll ever meet.
As far as queer, i guess they're tryin to retake it like black people did the N word and make it a positive term.
I completely agree with you, I do not understand how the gay community is largely against transgender people or transsexuals. I have a few gay friends (that are pretty flamer), that dislike "Trannies". This doesn't make sense to me, like you said. I am fairly effeminate so it is hard for me to get other people to understand a viewpoint like you were able to do in this video (Simply because then they start to think I want to become transgender or something.) I appreciate you making this video
JoshuaTFranco 2 weeks ago
Damn everyone in the comment section was not at the last gay agenda meeting. "Q" means queer and questioning. Queer means many things to many people. Personally I like to describe myself as queer and I have a clear anontomical male gender. For me it means different.
curnon69 2 months ago in playlist More videos from jayunit85
"Q" is Questioning, meaning those people who are just really unsure... :)
iamihan 3 months ago
The "Q" stands for questioning, not queer.
GleeFan123 4 months ago in playlist More videos from jayunit85
Queer is by definition whatever is at odds with the normal, the legitimate, the dominant. There is nothing in particular to which it necessarily refers. It is an identity without an essence. 'Queer' then, demarcates not a positivity but a positionality vis-à-vis the normative. -David Halperin
Barbaraplease 4 months ago
It stands for questioning lol
thaiIurr 4 months ago
I think the reason a gay man would hate on a fem, from my experience, 1. He hates that hes fem 2. Speaking as a "pretty" fem, they're just hatin' cuz I always get the hot guys. yeah...I think they're all nothing but jealous beeotchs, always on the rag. It's not my fault.
marcher1969 5 months ago
Very good point you make about how more "mainstream" gay people discriminate (to a certain extent) on smaller groups like transexual/bisexual/etc..
darovids 5 months ago
74stef 5 months ago
Queer (or genderQueer) neither man nor woman (genderless, agender)
74stef 5 months ago
@74stef ive never heard of genderless.. is that actually real? example??
jayunit85 5 months ago
@jayunit85 there was a question about genderqueer- what I posted is about the closest definition, inside the title ´genderqueer´ can be many variations, its not particulaly about how you or anyone defines somebody, its more about how you would define yourself.
74stef 5 months ago
I'm open minded to all people. Effeminate, butch, degrees inbetween...just be yourself is what I say.
jthulan 6 months ago
@jthulan i definately agree with that. i believe that a large part of the reason were here on earth is to learn to be ourselves and be okay with that. have you ever heard someone say "everyones a little weird"? haha i kinda see it like that.
jayunit85 5 months ago
YEAH THE Q IN THAT MEAN'S QUESTIONING..
1m2cute 6 months ago
Generally "queer" refers to people who's gender identity is neither male or female. Gender and sexuality are quite different. LGB all deal with sexualities while T and Q deal with gender identity. There are a lot of queer blogs on here, i suggest you look em up. I appreciate your willingness to ask questions instead of jumping to conclusions.
TransDIYer 6 months ago
@TransDIYer ya that definately makes sense. if theres a spectrum for sexuality from gay to straight and everything in between then there must be one for gender identity too.
jayunit85 6 months ago
Well yah, We have moved along the continuum of acceptance and awareness Long time ago it was "gay" then "gay and lesbian" then they added bi and Transgendered because people felt that the term excluded them. I sorta favor just using "Queer" for everything, it was derogatory but now we own it. Queer covers anyone who feels different, especially in terms of sexuality.
Some say it's for "questioning" but I say it's wide enough alone. And then some are saying LGBTQQ but I think, enuf is enuf..:)
philipem01 6 months ago
I have no problem with feminine gay guys or transexual people.I don't see anything wrong with it.I agree with everything you said.
PaperSteps 6 months ago
I agree with you 100% there's already enough people trying to disbute and disband us. Why create more segregation? This "community" needs to stick together. I personally don't agree with gender switching but i could never hate a transgender person. Feminine dudes? Could never be one but most of them are some the greatest funniest people you'll ever meet.
As far as queer, i guess they're tryin to retake it like black people did the N word and make it a positive term.
JOHNNYxBRAVADO 6 months ago