As a man, if I want something serious with a woman, I give it about a month (that's 4 dates give or take). Then we need to talk about what we are. BF and GF, exclusive to each other etc etc. Sex is very important to men (and women) so that's something we need to discuss. Lack of communication is a big problem in most relationships. So men and women need to discuss exactly what kind of relationship they are going to have. And sex is a most certainly a topic worth bringing up.
Loved it!!! I don't know if "Natalie" is a real person or not but ladies with "whorish ways" gotta stick together. Not that I'm one, or there's anything wrong with that LMAO! Love ya Abiola!
I can't front I gotta like the girl. Guys who wanna f#ck don't really care if she's right or not. It's definitely *individual*.
Me personally, Not on the first date. With that said if the woman is making me wait after we both know we are the one...Then that doesn't instill respect at all, it's a turn off.
Great question and truly inspired reading Ms. Abiola! Write some screenplays & act in them too, you've got skills.
Time period is completely relative. If you have protection & freedom from concern about society's mores and judgement, go for it.
But placing a date can backfire. We men can be dumb but not all the time. If we think you're putting us on sex date delay, we can play possum and act patient then roll once we get it.
And I can understand you being skeptical on females having any sympathy for you on your social inabilities.
The rampancy of relationship breakups to me kinda suggests that women don't give enough sympathy to men (or maybe vice versa).
But I have known you for enough years to know that you would be sympathetic and helpful to any friend of yours who wanted to accomplish something, but couldn't because of a high possibility of embarrassing characters.
thats a hard one to answer just as long as they don't come off as a trollop. yeah and i just had to come through to make sure people weren't on here stalking my chick. lol
Blushing, blushing, blushing!!!!, lol, sounds great abiola, u always take it there, the book is definetly gonna be somethin' 2 talk about when it gets published. that was funny."I'm not a whore!, I just just have whorish ways!", that really made me think, there really could be a difference, who knows. Once again, another great one abiola, keep em comin'. do u think u can do an episode about aspirin' urban soul real poetry, becuz those are one of the things that i aspire 2 be. I like 2 write.
My bad on the question topic, I had it back wards ! LOL
Too soon to have sex in my eyes is the first day.
When I'm dating someone, I want to get to know them to see if a relationship can and will develope. I prefer to wait for 6 months when in a relationship before giving up the goodies and if and when it does happen then it's for the right reason not just the physical.
OMG Abiola, I laughed and laughed and of course I blushed while laughing as I watched this. I can't wait for the book, and judging by the reaction of the audience they can't wait too!
I'll wait a month or two. Six months is retarded.
blahblahblahman 3 months ago
awl yehh u rite!!
emayan06 2 years ago
ive seen her someone cant think of where
emayan06 2 years ago
Tough Love on VH1
mayarababy 2 years ago
As a man, if I want something serious with a woman, I give it about a month (that's 4 dates give or take). Then we need to talk about what we are. BF and GF, exclusive to each other etc etc. Sex is very important to men (and women) so that's something we need to discuss. Lack of communication is a big problem in most relationships. So men and women need to discuss exactly what kind of relationship they are going to have. And sex is a most certainly a topic worth bringing up.
TheBigSuegroski 2 years ago
@yvessaintlaurent88 thanks now i remember!
ujumful 2 years ago
i saw u somewhere.... but idk where w.e ur cute !:)
ujumful 2 years ago
@ujumful......She was on a show called "Tough Love".
yvessaintlaurent88 2 years ago
I love this woman! So talented!
Dame25 2 years ago 3
Loved it!!! I don't know if "Natalie" is a real person or not but ladies with "whorish ways" gotta stick together. Not that I'm one, or there's anything wrong with that LMAO! Love ya Abiola!
lsu4peace 2 years ago
I notice few folks answered the question....
I can't front I gotta like the girl. Guys who wanna f#ck don't really care if she's right or not. It's definitely *individual*.
Me personally, Not on the first date. With that said if the woman is making me wait after we both know we are the one...Then that doesn't instill respect at all, it's a turn off.
dwayneneckles 2 years ago
Thoroughly enjoyed your video.. funny as hell.. and the best part is always reading these comments..
dwayneneckles 2 years ago
Funny, witty and cool!!
jooraye 2 years ago
amazing! even better the 2nd time around!
nando1635 2 years ago
The new book sounds amazing! Can't wait to see it---yay!
damaliabrams 2 years ago
Great question and truly inspired reading Ms. Abiola! Write some screenplays & act in them too, you've got skills.
Time period is completely relative. If you have protection & freedom from concern about society's mores and judgement, go for it.
But placing a date can backfire. We men can be dumb but not all the time. If we think you're putting us on sex date delay, we can play possum and act patient then roll once we get it.
Waiting doesn't always instill respect.
Pirate7X 2 years ago
My brain always strains before I even get around to giving somebody my number.
I'm sorry, but not having much to say defeats the purpose of even thinking about a telephone.
SamuraiClinton 2 years ago
I feel so sorry for you Samurai.
And I can understand you being skeptical on females having any sympathy for you on your social inabilities.
The rampancy of relationship breakups to me kinda suggests that women don't give enough sympathy to men (or maybe vice versa).
But I have known you for enough years to know that you would be sympathetic and helpful to any friend of yours who wanted to accomplish something, but couldn't because of a high possibility of embarrassing characters.
Kittyslasher69 2 years ago
love it!
akosua319 2 years ago
thats a hard one to answer just as long as they don't come off as a trollop. yeah and i just had to come through to make sure people weren't on here stalking my chick. lol
bertmarx 2 years ago
Blushing, blushing, blushing!!!!, lol, sounds great abiola, u always take it there, the book is definetly gonna be somethin' 2 talk about when it gets published. that was funny."I'm not a whore!, I just just have whorish ways!", that really made me think, there really could be a difference, who knows. Once again, another great one abiola, keep em comin'. do u think u can do an episode about aspirin' urban soul real poetry, becuz those are one of the things that i aspire 2 be. I like 2 write.
RealGurl920 2 years ago
I agree...i laughed and laughed..and blushed even more...love the reading..your books gonna be amazingly HOT...
Artsamust 2 years ago
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hourglas39 2 years ago
Wow...in every case? So that meant a max of 2 partners yearly or 6 months waiting then getting busy the rest of the year?...
Pirate7X 2 years ago
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hourglas39 2 years ago
My bad on the question topic, I had it back wards ! LOL
Too soon to have sex in my eyes is the first day.
When I'm dating someone, I want to get to know them to see if a relationship can and will develope. I prefer to wait for 6 months when in a relationship before giving up the goodies and if and when it does happen then it's for the right reason not just the physical.
hourglas39 2 years ago
6months WOW!!! Thats a long time. Well I guess to each is own.
William82oct 2 years ago
OMG Abiola, I laughed and laughed and of course I blushed while laughing as I watched this. I can't wait for the book, and judging by the reaction of the audience they can't wait too!
LuvemOrLeavem 2 years ago 2
i say the first week is way too soon for sex........i mean lol ppl jux dnt wait dez days no more... .
great vid u look fab honey and i so luv all ur tweets on twitter , thanx for all the nice quotes..
have a great wknd:)
Sweet1T28 2 years ago
Thank you, dahling!! What's your twitter name? Am I already following you? If not send me a tweet so that I can follow back. xoxo
PlanetAbiola 2 years ago