I know exactly what Alex went/is going through. One of my best friends committed suicide last year. I miss him horribly and whenever i hear this song i wanna cry. but still i love this song. R.I.P Adrian Manely. <3
@mocker4eva yes he did, Alex has commented on it before and even has a tattooo in dedication. We are appreciating the music, this song is a tribute to his dead brother. So in turn we are appreciating him. And that was Alex's intention.
Hey guys, we're a band called They Them and Us and we just released our first studio EP. One of our largest influences is definitely all time low. You should check out our channel and maybe our facebook page as well! :)
@Djslayinx thanks for correcting, I should have searched more before i commented, it's cause i found the name on tumblr and i guess i shouldn't believe that easy, sorry though...
@ItsmeReiRei no his brother's name IS tom. the tattoo on alex's hand. T.E.G. if his brother's name was daniel then the lettering on the tattoo would be different.
This song really gets to me, especially currently. My parents divorced when I was about 3 months old, and with that divorce I lost contact with my older brother. On monday, after around 19 years, I am in contact with my older brother and will be meeting him for the first time since I was a baby. I feel fortunate that I am going to see him. Alex, however, lost his brother forever. Alex, I love you dude, I wish you could have been able to have him around forever.
HopelessRecords hagan un tour por Latino America aqui en Perú ATL es muy aclamado Iml queremos un concierto de All Time Low eso es todo. Que gran cancion (Y)
@CaliforniaPuppy I know that, but it was ALEX'S brother. I love ATL as a whole, don't get me wrong, but Alex wrote the lyrics for the song for HIS brother.
@osnapitzacupcake I know but I don't like when people always talk about Alex and Jack like they're the only ones in the band. Sorry if you got me wrong :(
@gilollme honestly, that's so messed up. you can hate on great music all you want, but his brother is a completely different story, that's a person, a living, breathing person, who alex loved, that passed away. do you know what it feels like to lose someone close? it's the most heartbreaking thing, there's nothing more depressing than that. how could you even say something like that?
yeah, my grandfather died. only person ive ever cared about. hate my family. drunken father, drug addicted mother, sister is a wreck, 18, no job, 3 kids. hell. ive been beaten senseless, my grandfather took care of me, gave me wisdom, gave me an education, now hes gone, cus some asshole with a gun. so yeah, alex can learn how to deal with real pain, cus at least he has someone else in his life.
nope, ive just learned to live with it. hurts like hell, but i live with it, without going around crying to people, learnt to be as emotionally detached as possible :P
@gilollme I am sorry that happened to you, that's very sad and you have every right to feel pain because of that, but it doesn't give you the right to say that you're glad his brother died. even though he still has ppl to support him, he still loved his brother
@gilollme not the clearest choice of words, but its okay, i understand now that you explained it. i guess it's always nice to have ppl who u can relate to, makes u feel less lonely, calms u down in a way. sorry i kinda jumped on ur back, its just the way u worded i kinda interpreted it ALOT differently
@gilollme Wow. That is SO messed up. I can understand if someone doesn't like the music and hates on it. The music, I mean. But hating on the loss of Alex's brother!? That is just sick. I have no idea what to say. That is just so disappointing that somebody would say that. What the hell is WRONG with you?
it's so hard to believe about the story behind this song, alex seemed to be a very happy and funny person, i never thought he had a brother who committed suicide, it's sweet of him to make this song for his brother, a sign of him not being forgotten and never will be and i think it's awesome that he included this song in their album, stay strong alex, keep smiling, RIP thomas gaskarth you will never be forgotten...
@Djslayinx ummm...no. his name is tom. haven't you seen alex's tattoo? it says t.e.g not d.e.g get your facts straight before you go around spreading lies like that.
@Djslayinx No his name was Thomas Gaskarth E.G Alex's Tattoo T.E.G And also, Alex actually posted about Tom and telling epople it was inface Tom not Dan.
@ItsmeReiRei I know... I told my mom (Yeah, she listens to ATL too) that Alex had a brother who died when Alex was only 12... And when i said that, i thought:Wow, after that he's still always smiling and making funny jokes with Jack...
Sorry, but the original one will forever top this one. There was just something about the original. It always gives me goosebumps when I hear it.. this version doesn't have the same effect on me for some reason.
@whoreiz0n What I don't really get is, where did people get this information from, and why are some people saying it was his brother named Daniel that O.D pills and alcohol?
@sjuttioelva actually, his brother's name was Tom. Some fan made up the name Daniel for him, and I have no idea where you got Ted from, but Alex has said in a Twitter post that his name was Tom.
@YamiNoHikaree I actually have no idea. A very dedicated ATL fan told me his name was Ted. And he do have TEG tattooed, so don't get how it could be Tom. Anyway it doesn't matter. Alex lost a brother and wrote a song about him. All my wishes go out to Alex and his family, its horrible to lose a family member so young.
@sjuttioelva Eh, who knows. One or both of us is wrong but whatever yo.
I sends my love to Alex, I can understand his pain as I lost my cousin a few years back. Alex is amazing, writing this song was a brave thing to do, and I do admire him for it. <3
this is potentially the saddest song I have ever heard. breaks me into pieces :(
arykalove 2 days ago 2
I know exactly what Alex went/is going through. One of my best friends committed suicide last year. I miss him horribly and whenever i hear this song i wanna cry. but still i love this song. R.I.P Adrian Manely. <3
and R.I.P Tom Gaskarth
helloimashley100 3 days ago
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Alex has to be one of the bravest people, to be able to song this and it sound so amazing. i love him.
JodieeGaskarth 5 days ago
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JodieeGaskarth 5 days ago
I love how even though this isn't a slow, sappy ballad, I still cry every time I listen to it. <3 I love you, All Time Low.
GreenIsTheEnemy1 6 days ago
@IronWeaselFan well just because people have family members who died doesn't mean theyre sad all the time.. -_-
sarahisLEGIT123 1 week ago
awesome song gets me ALL the time
KnightWings182 1 week ago
holy shit, what an awesome song asdfghjklqwertyuio
SinkingNowhere 1 week ago
Alex is so brave <3
TheOnlyWayIsAlice 1 week ago 2
his brother didn't commit suicide.
anyway you should appreciate the music. not talking about something so personal to Alex and his family.
mocker4eva 2 weeks ago
@mocker4eva yes he did, Alex has commented on it before and even has a tattooo in dedication. We are appreciating the music, this song is a tribute to his dead brother. So in turn we are appreciating him. And that was Alex's intention.
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Hey guys, we're a band called They Them and Us and we just released our first studio EP. One of our largest influences is definitely all time low. You should check out our channel and maybe our facebook page as well! :)
theythemandus 2 weeks ago
intro was ruined @_@
09ghostfreak 2 weeks ago
apparently he died in his sleep and alex is really upset that people think otherwise...
chocolatepetz 2 weeks ago
I'm surprised Alex could go through stuff like this.I know I couldn't if one of my siblings commited suicide.
Zelda17100 3 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
ugh stop saying he committed suicide... it was an alcohol overdose :/
anyway, this is one of my fav songs in the whole world <3 AllTimeLow <3
realrockmusic4life 3 weeks ago
@realrockmusic4life Acually he did comment suicide.
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XXXASHESXXX1 3 weeks ago
@realrockmusic4life No, it was Suicide, Alex found him dead in his room..
R.I.P Thomas Gaskarth <3
AllTimeLowcorey 3 weeks ago 8
@AllTimeLowcorey well alex said himself it was alcohol overdose
realrockmusic4life 2 weeks ago
@Djslayinx thanks for correcting, I should have searched more before i commented, it's cause i found the name on tumblr and i guess i shouldn't believe that easy, sorry though...
ItsmeReiRei 4 weeks ago
@ItsmeReiRei no his brother's name IS tom. the tattoo on alex's hand. T.E.G. if his brother's name was daniel then the lettering on the tattoo would be different.
Amuto62 3 weeks ago
This song really gets to me, especially currently. My parents divorced when I was about 3 months old, and with that divorce I lost contact with my older brother. On monday, after around 19 years, I am in contact with my older brother and will be meeting him for the first time since I was a baby. I feel fortunate that I am going to see him. Alex, however, lost his brother forever. Alex, I love you dude, I wish you could have been able to have him around forever.
alltimeamandax0 4 weeks ago 4
This song talked me out of suiced.
V_V Thank you Jack,Alex,Rian,and Zack.
I love you guys so much. <3
XXXASHESXXX1 1 month ago 3
@MusicalWheaten maybe its the ending of Running From Lions on the PUOSU album?
iLimeBomb 1 month ago
HopelessRecords hagan un tour por Latino America aqui en Perú ATL es muy aclamado Iml queremos un concierto de All Time Low eso es todo. Que gran cancion (Y)
enzo17561 1 month ago
Wait this isn't original? Will someone please link me the original?
ChicagoAnimeGirl96 1 month ago
@ChicagoAnimeGirl96 Yes, the original was on the album The Party Scene. :) /watch?v=ZwnsFjch-kQ
osnapitzacupcake 1 month ago
o.o I feel like the guitar in the beginning is stealing something from this song o.o
MusicalWheaten 1 month ago
R.I.P. Tom Gaskarth
Save a spot in heaven for Alex, okay? :')
osnapitzacupcake 1 month ago 28
@osnapitzacupcake and Zack and Rian and Jack. They're in the band,too.
CaliforniaPuppy 1 month ago
@CaliforniaPuppy I know that, but it was ALEX'S brother. I love ATL as a whole, don't get me wrong, but Alex wrote the lyrics for the song for HIS brother.
osnapitzacupcake 1 month ago
@osnapitzacupcake I know but I don't like when people always talk about Alex and Jack like they're the only ones in the band. Sorry if you got me wrong :(
CaliforniaPuppy 1 month ago
@CaliforniaPuppy That's okay :) I love all of ATL though :D
osnapitzacupcake 1 month ago
There is another version?
rosiethemad 1 month ago
@rosiethemad The original is on The Party Scene
Tiffany97ATL 1 month ago
@Tiffany97ATL Thanks! Feel like an ATL virgin for not knowing that :/
rosiethemad 1 month ago
@rosiethemad We were all like that once xD
Tiffany97ATL 1 month ago
this song is beautifully sad....
SilentChimp14 1 month ago
screw the other version it still has the same meaning :'(
kayshack100 1 month ago in playlist All Time Low - Put Up Or Shut Up (Album Stream)
@CurlyMusic823 whatever it is. Can't tell but it has the right to do whatever it is. Still fucked up though.
DylanWeigandGruesome 1 month ago
This song makes me cry every time I listen to it:'(
ZoeLouiseeX 1 month ago
R.I.P thomas gaskarth hope u found and comfort wherever u are
aims345678 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
@gilollme How did you think people were going to interpret "I'm glad his brother is dead,"?
baileythebeast05 1 month ago
I cry every time i hear this song. My parents keep coming in and asking if im okay or if im having another panick attack.
bluedinosaursXD 2 months ago
ever since one of my family members died this was the only thing that helped me sleep and be happy cause i would think about the good memories
SeeUinTheDark100 2 months ago
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im glad his brother is dead
gilollme 2 months ago
@gilollme WTF!?!?!
EmoScreamo316 2 months ago
@gilollme honestly, that's so messed up. you can hate on great music all you want, but his brother is a completely different story, that's a person, a living, breathing person, who alex loved, that passed away. do you know what it feels like to lose someone close? it's the most heartbreaking thing, there's nothing more depressing than that. how could you even say something like that?
CurlyMusic823 2 months ago
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yeah, my grandfather died. only person ive ever cared about. hate my family. drunken father, drug addicted mother, sister is a wreck, 18, no job, 3 kids. hell. ive been beaten senseless, my grandfather took care of me, gave me wisdom, gave me an education, now hes gone, cus some asshole with a gun. so yeah, alex can learn how to deal with real pain, cus at least he has someone else in his life.
gilollme 2 months ago
@gilollme That's a little personal to be putting on the internet. Makes it a little hard to believe.
cullithTLM 2 months ago
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nope, ive just learned to live with it. hurts like hell, but i live with it, without going around crying to people, learnt to be as emotionally detached as possible :P
gilollme 2 months ago
@gilollme wtf?
emmilsteinonyamind9 2 months ago in playlist All Time Low - Put Up Or Shut Up (Album Stream)
@gilollme I am sorry that happened to you, that's very sad and you have every right to feel pain because of that, but it doesn't give you the right to say that you're glad his brother died. even though he still has ppl to support him, he still loved his brother
CurlyMusic823 1 month ago
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you know, its not like i want people to die, but im just glad he understands a slight fraction of what ive felt. sorry if it came out wrong
gilollme 1 month ago
@gilollme not the clearest choice of words, but its okay, i understand now that you explained it. i guess it's always nice to have ppl who u can relate to, makes u feel less lonely, calms u down in a way. sorry i kinda jumped on ur back, its just the way u worded i kinda interpreted it ALOT differently
CurlyMusic823 1 month ago
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runalldaylong 2 weeks ago
@gilollme Wow. That is SO messed up. I can understand if someone doesn't like the music and hates on it. The music, I mean. But hating on the loss of Alex's brother!? That is just sick. I have no idea what to say. That is just so disappointing that somebody would say that. What the hell is WRONG with you?
TheGoochOner 2 months ago
@gilollme what the ballls?!?!
emmilsteinonyamind9 2 months ago in playlist All Time Low - Put Up Or Shut Up (Album Stream)
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ZoeLouiseeX 1 month ago
It's not the name of his brother that matters.
It's the fact that he wrote it and put emtion into it, he wants you to listen to it and understand. not fight over a name.
RahImaMummieUnicorn 2 months ago
@alltimelow852 well said! :)
GHoleary619 2 months ago
rest in peace ):
fabulouskilljoy202 2 months ago
NO DISLIKES. Lets keep it that way.
Jaadeeeenn 2 months ago 2
@Jaadeeeenn you jinxxed ittt
OhMyPradax 2 months ago
@456yeahrightATL its from the party scene album just search it up on youtube (:
iLimeBomb 2 months ago
Alex is seriously the strongest person I've ever heard of. <3
ifuckinglovethisbandsomuch.
sweetersgirl 2 months ago 71
0 dislikes, yeahhhhh bitches.
ilovetwilight141 2 months ago 2
it's so hard to believe about the story behind this song, alex seemed to be a very happy and funny person, i never thought he had a brother who committed suicide, it's sweet of him to make this song for his brother, a sign of him not being forgotten and never will be and i think it's awesome that he included this song in their album, stay strong alex, keep smiling, RIP thomas gaskarth you will never be forgotten...
ItsmeReiRei 2 months ago 100
@ItsmeReiRei His name was daniel... ( Danny )
Djslayinx 4 weeks ago
@Djslayinx ummm...no. his name is tom. haven't you seen alex's tattoo? it says t.e.g not d.e.g get your facts straight before you go around spreading lies like that.
Amuto62 3 weeks ago
@Djslayinx No his name was Thomas Gaskarth E.G Alex's Tattoo T.E.G And also, Alex actually posted about Tom and telling epople it was inface Tom not Dan.
AllTimeLowcorey 3 weeks ago
@ItsmeReiRei his brother didn't commit suicide, he died in his sleep from drinking too much.
thatlegitkiddo 4 weeks ago 2
@ItsmeReiRei I know... I told my mom (Yeah, she listens to ATL too) that Alex had a brother who died when Alex was only 12... And when i said that, i thought:Wow, after that he's still always smiling and making funny jokes with Jack...
IronWeaselFan 1 week ago
Sorry, but the original one will forever top this one. There was just something about the original. It always gives me goosebumps when I hear it.. this version doesn't have the same effect on me for some reason.
BlinkBackToLetMeKnow 2 months ago
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CeciliaGAra182 2 months ago
gahhd this song is so freaking sad.
flippy774 3 months ago
The tattoo is TEG and his name was Tom. Just google it.
laxloveee15 3 months ago 3
..Sounds so different, I do love the original better aswell :/
mychemicalromancegrr 3 months ago
I like this one better, The emotion is the same if you are talking like a subject like this..
seether5000 3 months ago
@RachLovesCookies Thomas is Alex Gaskarth's brother; which is who this song is written about.
whoreiz0n 3 months ago
@whoreiz0n Aww... It's beautiful.
RachLovesCookies 3 months ago in playlist Another Random Playlist..
@whoreiz0n What I don't really get is, where did people get this information from, and why are some people saying it was his brother named Daniel that O.D pills and alcohol?
sjuttioelva 3 months ago
@whoreiz0n @Rachlovescookies his brother's name is Ted though..
sjuttioelva 3 months ago
@sjuttioelva actually, his brother's name was Tom. Some fan made up the name Daniel for him, and I have no idea where you got Ted from, but Alex has said in a Twitter post that his name was Tom.
YamiNoHikaree 3 months ago
@YamiNoHikaree I actually have no idea. A very dedicated ATL fan told me his name was Ted. And he do have TEG tattooed, so don't get how it could be Tom. Anyway it doesn't matter. Alex lost a brother and wrote a song about him. All my wishes go out to Alex and his family, its horrible to lose a family member so young.
sjuttioelva 3 months ago
@sjuttioelva Eh, who knows. One or both of us is wrong but whatever yo.
I sends my love to Alex, I can understand his pain as I lost my cousin a few years back. Alex is amazing, writing this song was a brave thing to do, and I do admire him for it. <3
YamiNoHikaree 3 months ago 3
@sjuttioelva TED could be his initials cus im pretty sure his brothers name is Tom :) x
luna2moondance 3 months ago
@luna2moondance I actually have no idea. But why would it be Tom?
sjuttioelva 3 months ago
@sjuttioelva Alex told us it was tom he said it in a tweet :)
luna2moondance 3 months ago 2
i liked everything better on The Party Scene But this song is still great no matter what
GibsonIsMyBear 3 months ago in playlist !All Time Low
a little too much bass.
effenashleyy 3 months ago
<3 Splendida.
MiSsSkEvAmPirE 3 months ago
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this is beautiful, so is the other version
r.i.p thomas gaskarth <3
woaahhMONALiSA 3 months ago
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woaahhMONALiSA 3 months ago
i love this song soooo much <3 i
SwissMocha97 3 months ago 3
R.I.P Thomas Gaskarth
GHoleary619 3 months ago 236
@GHoleary619 I feel so stupid asking, but who is Thomas Gaskarth?
RachLovesCookies 3 months ago
@GHoleary619 his name was Danny :x
Djslayinx 2 months ago
@Djslayinx No... His name was Thomas. :@
georgiia98 2 months ago in playlist YouTube Mix for All Time Low
@Djslayinx it wasnt.
GHoleary619 2 months ago
I like the original better. It had more emotion...
naomilovesATL 4 months ago 92
@naomilovesATL where can I find the original?
456yeahright 2 months ago
@naomilovesATL well fuck u they have the same meaning
kayshack100 1 month ago
@kayshack100 Of course they have the same meaning. It's the same song, just a different version. :P
naomilovesATL 4 weeks ago
first ? ;]
ichyy500 4 months ago