Since when is not spying on someone anti-male? Hell if you boys have nothing to hide then you won't mind posting your last ten texts here for the world to see.
You guys are out of your minds. In a perfect world I wouldn't have to go through my partner's texts. However, if I hadn't and just "respected her privacy", I would never had know that she had been cheating on me for the last 6 months. My wife of 8 years was having an affair, and I have a right to know it, especially when Im the one paying the phone bill. There are two sides to every story. This site seems to be slanted towards being very anti male.
Tell him it's not okay to get into your privacy. Tell him that you would never cheat on him n that you might be talking to guys, but you aren't flirting with them even if they do flirt with you. Trust goes both ways, so both parties need to let the other know who they are talking to, and open up about the other friendships you have. If something's on your phone that would make the other person heartbroken, then that's unfair to the other person.
Just tell him that you haven't given him any reason not to trust you. And if there isn't any trust in the relationship...it's time to leave anyways. Trust me, I've been in THE EXACT same situation.
Since when is not spying on someone anti-male? Hell if you boys have nothing to hide then you won't mind posting your last ten texts here for the world to see.
Chastance 1 month ago
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If you have something to hide, then maybe it's good that he's looking through your texts. Maybe you're a cheating bitch.
UnderwhelmingPlywood 1 month ago
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CmOwns05 1 month ago
i know you trust him, but how can he trust you if youre hiding your texts? what could you be hiding? look at things from his point of veiw
Trippin4got 1 month ago
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You guys are out of your minds. In a perfect world I wouldn't have to go through my partner's texts. However, if I hadn't and just "respected her privacy", I would never had know that she had been cheating on me for the last 6 months. My wife of 8 years was having an affair, and I have a right to know it, especially when Im the one paying the phone bill. There are two sides to every story. This site seems to be slanted towards being very anti male.
p3x935 1 month ago
Tell him it's not okay to get into your privacy. Tell him that you would never cheat on him n that you might be talking to guys, but you aren't flirting with them even if they do flirt with you. Trust goes both ways, so both parties need to let the other know who they are talking to, and open up about the other friendships you have. If something's on your phone that would make the other person heartbroken, then that's unfair to the other person.
ushiel16 3 months ago
Just tell him that you haven't given him any reason not to trust you. And if there isn't any trust in the relationship...it's time to leave anyways. Trust me, I've been in THE EXACT same situation.
GuiniverePug 4 months ago