well. I do think she's a fine Black woman but I've seen her in person and...she's..amazon-ish! She had me in awe! lol. I thought to myself if she just only keep herself fit she'll be perfect like she was when she first lost the weight on season 1of CFC. SHE WAS FINE! She's a bit too heavy now for her age and height.
There is nothing wrong with the way Toccara is built! If the media and whitey never called her a fat ass none of you people will be saying the same. I loved her body when she was on America's Next Top Model. That woman is not fat at all! She is built. Now Monique is FAT ASS!
LADIES..Big is not beautiful!!! What Toccora doesnt realize is that she's still young and once she gets in her 30's and have kids...those "curves" WILL BE GONE!!! I hear this all the time in the gym from the sistas and I think your misguided. Yes love yourself inside and out but you have to take care of your body..which means WORKOUT! Nobody is saying to be a size 0 but c'mon!
The problem comes in when one says Toccara is "big" in the first place. LOL! Are you serious? Of course you are. Damn ... amazing. Anyway, thanks for weighing in.
I think you mean "perpetuate" stereotypes, not "perpetrate" them, but you were spot on about people trying to change others. If that becomes pathological, or obsessive, the frustration stemming from that can become become cancer causing.
On a side note, but more relevant to this topic, Toccara is a hotty! ;)
Hey atlantasis, I haven't seen toccaras video, but i did hear dr. ian talkin shit about her on the gayle king show and I think he is such a prick. He is married to a white woman and he goes around saying that blk and white women have the same body structure and what not. I understand why toccara went off Dr. Ian provoked her wth his comments.he don't know how 2 handle a sister. He is married to a white woman. He don't know how to handle all that goodness. I'm deleted myself from his challenge
"he don't know how 2 handle a sister. He is married to a white woman."
He'd rather not live a life of hell by living with a "sister". He's smart, that's why he married a white woman.
They grew up with a black mother who did nothing buy nag them to death, blame them and step on them because they're bitter that their husband has left them.
Black men who go for white women have had ENOUGH of black women.
Ian Smith is married to a BLACK woman. Who made up this rumour? lol pathetic. oh, and that BLACK wife of us is an alumnus of harvard and the university of chicago.
furthermore, uninformed and underexposed individuals like you have no clue about the multifaceted reality of black female presence. lol. just because you are from a lower class background does not mean you have to project that myopic understanding of society onto others (black women). you are laughable.
Brandtley, I'm not surprised at all that you support Toccara. I've seen your improper use of grammar and poor spelling. I'm not talking about typos, I'm talking about your pathetic attempts on composing a sentence.
Maybe if you would just pay attention to learn something, instead of shooting your mouth off because you think someone is putting you down.
Nobody listens to a screaming hag. I'm sure you didn't pay attention to your mom when she was nagging and screaming at you.
Naw see girl you are right on point. I totally feel you on this subject. Its hard to go through a competition and give up so much (as far as lifestyle) and for someone to overlook it constantly when you are trying your best. And the way that they got up and tried to defend the girl like toccara was about to really about to do damage, i mean the girl provoked the hell out of toccara and so did they. they were in the wrong anyway.
i didnt say she was off my list i said that that she lost the #1 spot and please i and the other ppl on the post would like to know you definition of class
she showed some class? that is class? that is class? are you for i want you to do a video about what class is she just lost the top spot on my top10 women to miss keys i hope you just saying that because u a fan of hers and dont realy believe that that is class
Tocarra is her own woman. So you taking her off your top 10 iist is okay. i think she will survive. LOL! My video is self explanatory. Thanks for asking.
hey i posted a vid response and this was to toniUNCLE-T tv and yea he rejected my video response because he did not want diverse view points or knowledgeable black women's thoughts. he like's yes men and thats not me. well check out my response and know that you are right on time with this one sis!!!
It would be different if Dr. Ian was saying "Are you ready to get healthy?" but he harps on her weight and she doesn't have cellulite or anything and saying things like that is the very reason why people are throwing up their meals. Now I think that she was a bit harsh but she was feeling attacked and people do strange things. And she is the strongest one on that team, the healthiest bar none. Also Brian talked all that stuff, then walked out on Harvey hypocritical much.
Well if she is happy with herself why be on the show? You say "she's trying to stick up for us" No she's trying to stick up for herself.Dr. Ian was right in telling her to have some class. If she wasn't in the wrong why did she come back and apologize? I see you want to stand by her only because she is a black woman. Wrong is wrong, she showed no class and restraint. How you know she didn't hurt anyone? If she felt like she didn't hurt anyone why did she apologize? Peace!
harshly after witnessing her "emotional melt down", however, after listening to your well articulated points I have a new perspective on it. Thank you!
thhhhhhhhhank u sista agree 100%. u dnt get white women trying to look gud for black people do you. she was obviously upset if she was a stereotypical angry black women she would of knocked someone out! 4 real
I admire Tocarra's confidence... I believe that there was something more to that explosive episode because she was not acting like herself. Everyone has a bad day...
I agree, who cares what other races may think...Why should we base our standards according to how other races view us? People should just be true to themselves...excellent vid...
It's not about atractiveness. It's about health. Overweight and obesity increases health risks, period. Tocarra looks good, BUT she is at risk for numerous health problems. She is obese according to the BMI, which isn't the best way to measure body composition. However, her body fat% is the best way to measure body composition, and he's obese on that as well.
And that's awesome. I just don't understand why she gets upset at the Doctor who is trying to help her live a longer, and higher quality life. I just think it was a misunderstanding. Tocarra thought the show was trying to make curvacious women look unattractive, but that's not what it's about. It's just about living healthy. Imo, looking good should be the last reason to exercise and eat healthy.
I think Toccara has a nice body fit or not. Just curves in the right places. If I had her body I wouldn't be stressed about working out as much either. I don't have any curves so if I gained more than 20 lbs it don't look right. Her confidence makes her sexy.
you are right she did show class, cause had it been me yes I would have been stereotypical and smacked the hell out of that white women for banging the desk like I am suppose to respond to that like we in a court room she should no black people get crazy when you try to shut us down from saying what we got to say that is a week spot shoo.lol. but yeah bump the world I wit toccarra to. I must subb to your channel. peace. real vid.
I want even thinkin' bout feeling embarressed for black people...Isn't Screech on that program I mean come on. No one needs to be embarrased this happens I think it all goes down to the fact that she loves being curvy. This wasn't expressed on the show but I feel she felt that Dr. Ian was attacking her cultural identity. That's why she got so aggrevated. Remember He's Married to a White woman. So for those things comming from him set it off. Toccara is jaw dropping beautiful. Just my "white" pov
HA! Not at all. October through April is good. May through September is the worst. The humidity makes it shrink faster. But I deal with it. Go to yahoogroups and join a group called NappyHair. We pass great tips and suggestions for those going natural or that are already natural.
How you stand by that temper tantrum. She made you look bad on tv also. That just reinforced the stereotype of the black women. This very stereoptype is driving black men away to other races of women.
Atlanta Sistah, this is a DC Brotha that just had to comment on your breakdown vs breakthrough comment. Sista, a breakthrough is done from a position of poise, strength, dignity and integrity. Sistah, Toccara made ALL OF US(Black People) look bad. She melted down and handled that poorly. Thanks!
Well, I guess our opinions on what is exactly a breakthrough do not match. I'll stick with mine. You feel free to do the same. As far as Toccara making "all of us" look bad. Honey, I don't live my life that way. I don't carry the "Black burden". What a joke! Let me tell you this. No matter how poised Toccara acts or anyone else with a brown hue, folks are going to think what they want. So you go ahead trying to please. I hope it works out for you. Oh, and thanks for sharing. Have a good one!
black men are choosing women of other colors because they dont want to share the same stigmatism that black women automatically come with. Its like the passing our ancestors who were mixed used to do. Black men are doing it with women of other colors. if they can get with a white girl they are "In the mix" thank you. Pass on.
black men are choosing white women for two reason an easy lay or if there more evolved curiousity about another race. Nothing more nothing less. It's not Tocarra job to be a role model for proper submissive black women. All she is being is herself which most of the time is a fun loving, sweet women who is genuine. That day she was genuinely upset and vented. I certainly don't condone going off all the time but she should have to hide how she feels because you can't deal with it.
tswagg504 you also need a reality check. You obvious no nothing of Toccara. If you did you wouldn't have bothered to say something so ignorant. This is how she behaves typically. I don't care if you poor little psyche couldn't handle Toccara being upset.
But a real strong black man does would understand that their is more to the story than what you've seen.
Furthermore she does scare you that much than you should run to a white women.
Some people say that Toccara is a "Strong Woman", are you guys blind?! If she's so strong, she wouldn't have lost it the way she did, I think Dr. Ian was so right when he told her to "show some class". I just don't understand what the hell she's doing in the show if she's so "Happy" with her weight. Is she on drugs or something?
naw wut da fuck iz wrong wit yall ppl ...if anybody dumb its Dr ian and that white lady..obviously toccara luvs herself she knows who the fuck she iz and she gave the panel wut they been askin 4 ...and they lucky dat ass aint get toe up! and 4 the dumb shit that american idol guy and that fat block next 2 him ,they can shut da fuck up wit dey punk comments that they would never say 2 toccaras face. she aint there 4 yall bitchasses. thats why Somore' stayed n the room wit Toccara cuz she real
What the hell was that? Can you please reply in English? Not everybody can understand rap talk.
Toccara is an attention whore. Her career is tumbling and that's why she made an appearance on that show. She knew that if she made a "fiery" appearance that it would grab some attention and her face would be on camera longer.
Instead of getting recognition for "hardwork", she plays the attitude card to try to get ahead.
Luckily the judges were mostly black or she would've cried racism.
ok Jimmy5antos. If she just there for publicity. Why lost the weight at all. Instead she could have just stood up in there faces and argued everytime with every person. Like Dustin did last time.
It's clear and apparent to anyone that you don't know what the fuck your talking about.
What are you plummy stupid. Maybe where you come from it pays to eat shit with a smile on you face. While in the rest of the world. It's a sign of strength to be direct.
It's really not up to us to explain something she had went over a thousand times on the show. Do you even watch the show?
I know,give her some that opium your'e on so when that sycophant Doctor Ian, uber bitch psychiatrist Stacy or prune faced Harvey say something off- colored. She be as zoned out and off based as YOU ARE!!!
A87th you don't speak for me. I personally disagree with everything you said. It's not Tocarra job to be fake. So you can feel better about you place in society. IF you feel ashamed. It's got more to do with you than her.
If she loves her size so much, why is she on Celeb Fit Club,AGAIN? If money is her motivation then why did she become so insulted? No one said anything 2 her 2 warrant that response. I want a sister on TV 2 have more pride and not express her self that way. I know very few people who can articulate as well as say Barack or Oprah,myself included, but I at least a have enough pride 2 applaud those of us who can. I will not pat folks on the back who dont have enough shame 2 not carry on like that.
I really have no idea what the reason is for her going on the show. What I do know is that she is HUMAN first. Her expression of her feelings does not warrant the Black community putting her down. And I am not patting her on the back. I am allowing her to be who she is. As the public we don't know the full story of what happened behind the scenes. Do remember that this is TV and editing does come into play. Thanks for sharing.
Your welcome sweetie, but your wrong(no offense). Her actions don't warrant the black community standing up for her either. Shes human,but shes a celeb. She put her self out 2 be judged, so let her be judged. My comments are based off what I saw. Not some benefit of doubt or speculation that something else happened. The Docs had enough of her vulgar language and blithering idiot routine. I would have cussed her out soon as she said "kiss my ass".
No offense taken, honey. You saying I am wrong has no effect. It really doesn't. Because at the end of the day, you have your opinion and I have mine. No right or wrong, just opinions, no matter how right one THINKS they are. Oh so, you would have cussed her out? My, my ... LOL!
+1 - If she doesn't wanna lose weight, why is she on the show? She put herself out there, so let it be. This was worse than how Dustin Diamond acted last season...
Its not about making white folks happy, its about making our community proud. Especially if you are fortunate 2 be on a medium thats seen all over the world. Sister her action hurt you. This is the expected from you. Im far from perfect, but I cant lie, I was embarrassed. The bright side is she had the sense 2 apologize. She should be sorry. So let her be sorry. Dont defend her...5000
No, her actions did not hurt me. I don't live my life that way. As far what "they" expect from me ... it would not matter if Tocarra or anyone else that is female and Black bowed their heads in public and remained good little house negros, folks would still think the worse. This has been proven time and time again. I will continue to defend her if I deenm it necessary. I really do live my life on my terms. Good try, but that doesn't work here. 5000?? You have got to kidding ... LOL!
My favorite rappers do tons of ignant shit in their public and privite lives. When it happens I dont defend them, I just say hay, thats my nigga though. As u said,"I'll defend when deemed necessary" also. Like with Rev. Wright, I agree with everything he said. If Rev. Wright is wrong, I dont wanna be right. But whats necessary about Toccara? Thanks 4 your time. U got the last word...
amen atlantasistah you know this all coincides with the construct of racism white supremacy and entertainment is one of the major area's out of nine black men and women are attacked in dr Ian is an emasculated puppet who is used to carry out the dynamic goals of racism white supremacy in america.I saw that episode as well being healthy is one thing but destructively criticizing someone is something totally different and his choice of words fit into the dynamics of white supremacy stereotypes
Why is it when an Itlaina or Hispanic woman go off they are "hot blooded" and it's damn near celebrated?, but when we do it, it's classless and embarrasing? That Dr. showed his true colors smh. looked as if the whole panel was ready to jump Toccara. They all could have handled that situation better.
i agree with you she was just a young woman that lose her cool. and your rite that dr. ian pissed me off he seemed like a bit of uncle tom when said that he should have tried to console her
Tocarra is a damn fool how you go on a weigh tLOSS show... TWICE and complain when they want yu to lose weight shes dumb
tp213 2 years ago
I haven't speak on this because I haven't seen it yet. But I do no that the media is very judgemental of people in regards to weight.
SylviaNCali 2 years ago
well. I do think she's a fine Black woman but I've seen her in person and...she's..amazon-ish! She had me in awe! lol. I thought to myself if she just only keep herself fit she'll be perfect like she was when she first lost the weight on season 1of CFC. SHE WAS FINE! She's a bit too heavy now for her age and height.
wingchundragon 2 years ago
There is nothing wrong with the way Toccara is built! If the media and whitey never called her a fat ass none of you people will be saying the same. I loved her body when she was on America's Next Top Model. That woman is not fat at all! She is built. Now Monique is FAT ASS!
AmuseTheGreat 2 years ago
LADIES..Big is not beautiful!!! What Toccora doesnt realize is that she's still young and once she gets in her 30's and have kids...those "curves" WILL BE GONE!!! I hear this all the time in the gym from the sistas and I think your misguided. Yes love yourself inside and out but you have to take care of your body..which means WORKOUT! Nobody is saying to be a size 0 but c'mon!
wingchundragon 2 years ago
The problem comes in when one says Toccara is "big" in the first place. LOL! Are you serious? Of course you are. Damn ... amazing. Anyway, thanks for weighing in.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
I understand why Toccara was so ticked off.
DarkLadyJade 3 years ago 3
i stand by toccara too, because big is beautiful.
misspimpette9 3 years ago 2
Yes it is finally a channel with sense and not non sense!!! Keep up the work Atlanta sis!!
INDEPENDANTBLKWOMAN 3 years ago
I like your hair and you have a really good pont. Funny thing is she lost like eight lbs that week and Dr. Ian still complained about her weight?
That is the most annoying thing because as a doctor he should know that it's healthy to lose only one to two per week.
icammons 3 years ago
Granted, this Dr. Ian IS about being healthy coupled with healthy life-styles. But beyond this?
He is as white-washed as they come. Sad.
SeptiaWoman 2 years ago 2
People the whole thing was about being a healthy weight, not necessarily being slim or skinny.
pharohjamal 3 years ago
I think you mean "perpetuate" stereotypes, not "perpetrate" them, but you were spot on about people trying to change others. If that becomes pathological, or obsessive, the frustration stemming from that can become become cancer causing.
On a side note, but more relevant to this topic, Toccara is a hotty! ;)
BrianASoto 3 years ago
I love toccara just the way she is.
tombstone999 3 years ago
Hey atlantasis, I haven't seen toccaras video, but i did hear dr. ian talkin shit about her on the gayle king show and I think he is such a prick. He is married to a white woman and he goes around saying that blk and white women have the same body structure and what not. I understand why toccara went off Dr. Ian provoked her wth his comments.he don't know how 2 handle a sister. He is married to a white woman. He don't know how to handle all that goodness. I'm deleted myself from his challenge
daclassic78 3 years ago
"he don't know how 2 handle a sister. He is married to a white woman."
He'd rather not live a life of hell by living with a "sister". He's smart, that's why he married a white woman.
They grew up with a black mother who did nothing buy nag them to death, blame them and step on them because they're bitter that their husband has left them.
Black men who go for white women have had ENOUGH of black women.
dougdangger 3 years ago
Ian Smith is married to a BLACK woman. Who made up this rumour? lol pathetic. oh, and that BLACK wife of us is an alumnus of harvard and the university of chicago.
furthermore, uninformed and underexposed individuals like you have no clue about the multifaceted reality of black female presence. lol. just because you are from a lower class background does not mean you have to project that myopic understanding of society onto others (black women). you are laughable.
pomegranate50 3 years ago 5
i was specifically addressing this pathetic individual dougdangger.
pomegranate50 3 years ago 3
ok someone tell me again why people are saying Tocarra embarrassed black people?
beatnik8 3 years ago
Toccara is fat. Stop saying thick when it really means fat.
I think most of the general public have no ideal who the hell Toccara is. She is a d-list celeb.
Isn't she on a show called "take the cake" I saw about one second of it one night channel surfing. I guess Popeye's wasn't hiring.
Why do you have to be loud? Being loud is not cute. What will cause cancer is eating fried fight and drinking koolaid.
No wonder you are alone with no man.
realtrend 3 years ago
Brandtley, I'm not surprised at all that you support Toccara. I've seen your improper use of grammar and poor spelling. I'm not talking about typos, I'm talking about your pathetic attempts on composing a sentence.
Maybe if you would just pay attention to learn something, instead of shooting your mouth off because you think someone is putting you down.
Nobody listens to a screaming hag. I'm sure you didn't pay attention to your mom when she was nagging and screaming at you.
dougdangger 3 years ago
Naw see girl you are right on point. I totally feel you on this subject. Its hard to go through a competition and give up so much (as far as lifestyle) and for someone to overlook it constantly when you are trying your best. And the way that they got up and tried to defend the girl like toccara was about to really about to do damage, i mean the girl provoked the hell out of toccara and so did they. they were in the wrong anyway.
funnyfoxbird 3 years ago
i didnt say she was off my list i said that that she lost the #1 spot and please i and the other ppl on the post would like to know you definition of class
nubie3845 3 years ago
Class is not knocking the hell out of Dr, Ian and the white woman. That is class. Thanks for asking.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
she showed some class? that is class? that is class? are you for i want you to do a video about what class is she just lost the top spot on my top10 women to miss keys i hope you just saying that because u a fan of hers and dont realy believe that that is class
nubie3845 3 years ago 2
Tocarra is her own woman. So you taking her off your top 10 iist is okay. i think she will survive. LOL! My video is self explanatory. Thanks for asking.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
I understood her becuase they didnt let her talk so ofcourse she got more emtional I would be too
Kani87Shirin 3 years ago
hey i posted a vid response and this was to toniUNCLE-T tv and yea he rejected my video response because he did not want diverse view points or knowledgeable black women's thoughts. he like's yes men and thats not me. well check out my response and know that you are right on time with this one sis!!!
goldengoodas 3 years ago
Great response video. Thanks for posting it.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
It would be different if Dr. Ian was saying "Are you ready to get healthy?" but he harps on her weight and she doesn't have cellulite or anything and saying things like that is the very reason why people are throwing up their meals. Now I think that she was a bit harsh but she was feeling attacked and people do strange things. And she is the strongest one on that team, the healthiest bar none. Also Brian talked all that stuff, then walked out on Harvey hypocritical much.
coolbreeze842003 3 years ago 2
His wife is Black.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Well if she is happy with herself why be on the show? You say "she's trying to stick up for us" No she's trying to stick up for herself.Dr. Ian was right in telling her to have some class. If she wasn't in the wrong why did she come back and apologize? I see you want to stand by her only because she is a black woman. Wrong is wrong, she showed no class and restraint. How you know she didn't hurt anyone? If she felt like she didn't hurt anyone why did she apologize? Peace!
calliope3rdward 3 years ago
I have no idea why she apologized. Maybe she felt like it was the right thing to do. Ask her. BUT the point is she DID apologize. It is what it is.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Excellent video. I must admit that I judged her
harshly after witnessing her "emotional melt down", however, after listening to your well articulated points I have a new perspective on it. Thank you!
lstrum 3 years ago
No, thank you for listening.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
thhhhhhhhhank u sista agree 100%. u dnt get white women trying to look gud for black people do you. she was obviously upset if she was a stereotypical angry black women she would of knocked someone out! 4 real
Member2287 3 years ago
I admire Tocarra's confidence... I believe that there was something more to that explosive episode because she was not acting like herself. Everyone has a bad day...
I agree, who cares what other races may think...Why should we base our standards according to how other races view us? People should just be true to themselves...excellent vid...
msdrella 3 years ago
It's not about atractiveness. It's about health. Overweight and obesity increases health risks, period. Tocarra looks good, BUT she is at risk for numerous health problems. She is obese according to the BMI, which isn't the best way to measure body composition. However, her body fat% is the best way to measure body composition, and he's obese on that as well.
OllyakaEnfillade 3 years ago
Well, she is indeed doing the program and has lost over 15 pounds.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
And that's awesome. I just don't understand why she gets upset at the Doctor who is trying to help her live a longer, and higher quality life. I just think it was a misunderstanding. Tocarra thought the show was trying to make curvacious women look unattractive, but that's not what it's about. It's just about living healthy. Imo, looking good should be the last reason to exercise and eat healthy.
OllyakaEnfillade 3 years ago
I think Toccara has a nice body fit or not. Just curves in the right places. If I had her body I wouldn't be stressed about working out as much either. I don't have any curves so if I gained more than 20 lbs it don't look right. Her confidence makes her sexy.
c0c0puffz 3 years ago
I agree with the points made in this video... and I've always liked Tocarra's shape.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
you are right she did show class, cause had it been me yes I would have been stereotypical and smacked the hell out of that white women for banging the desk like I am suppose to respond to that like we in a court room she should no black people get crazy when you try to shut us down from saying what we got to say that is a week spot shoo.lol. but yeah bump the world I wit toccarra to. I must subb to your channel. peace. real vid.
tobusha08 3 years ago
I want even thinkin' bout feeling embarressed for black people...Isn't Screech on that program I mean come on. No one needs to be embarrased this happens I think it all goes down to the fact that she loves being curvy. This wasn't expressed on the show but I feel she felt that Dr. Ian was attacking her cultural identity. That's why she got so aggrevated. Remember He's Married to a White woman. So for those things comming from him set it off. Toccara is jaw dropping beautiful. Just my "white" pov
aromicdevil 3 years ago
I saw Dr. Ian's wife. She does not look white to me. I think she is indeed Black.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
You have nice hair. My hair is natural and waiting for it to grow like yours
breakofdawn26 3 years ago
Thank you. Natural hair ain't easy. BUT I love it.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
I live in Toronto and find the weather harsh on my hair. I'm dieing to get into hot climate. Is ATL weather accomadating to your natural hair texture
breakofdawn26 3 years ago
HA! Not at all. October through April is good. May through September is the worst. The humidity makes it shrink faster. But I deal with it. Go to yahoogroups and join a group called NappyHair. We pass great tips and suggestions for those going natural or that are already natural.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
I will check it out. I didn't know humidity makes it shrink since my hair always ends up being cut low. Thanks for the info
breakofdawn26 3 years ago
Yep, his wife is a light skinned black woman. I was a bit surprised that he married black. They have a child together.
Haitian1130 3 years ago
That didn't make any sense though, if she didn't wanna lose weight then she shouldn't have gone on the show!!!
Flamingrivers 3 years ago
How you stand by that temper tantrum. She made you look bad on tv also. That just reinforced the stereotype of the black women. This very stereoptype is driving black men away to other races of women.
tswagg504 3 years ago
Sorry, that excuse is getting quite boring. Excuse me while I yawn ...
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Atlanta Sistah, this is a DC Brotha that just had to comment on your breakdown vs breakthrough comment. Sista, a breakthrough is done from a position of poise, strength, dignity and integrity. Sistah, Toccara made ALL OF US(Black People) look bad. She melted down and handled that poorly. Thanks!
dmoneyswift 3 years ago
Well, I guess our opinions on what is exactly a breakthrough do not match. I'll stick with mine. You feel free to do the same. As far as Toccara making "all of us" look bad. Honey, I don't live my life that way. I don't carry the "Black burden". What a joke! Let me tell you this. No matter how poised Toccara acts or anyone else with a brown hue, folks are going to think what they want. So you go ahead trying to please. I hope it works out for you. Oh, and thanks for sharing. Have a good one!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
black men are choosing women of other colors because they dont want to share the same stigmatism that black women automatically come with. Its like the passing our ancestors who were mixed used to do. Black men are doing it with women of other colors. if they can get with a white girl they are "In the mix" thank you. Pass on.
likefiur 3 years ago
black men are choosing white women for two reason an easy lay or if there more evolved curiousity about another race. Nothing more nothing less. It's not Tocarra job to be a role model for proper submissive black women. All she is being is herself which most of the time is a fun loving, sweet women who is genuine. That day she was genuinely upset and vented. I certainly don't condone going off all the time but she should have to hide how she feels because you can't deal with it.
Brandtley86 3 years ago
tswagg504 you also need a reality check. You obvious no nothing of Toccara. If you did you wouldn't have bothered to say something so ignorant. This is how she behaves typically. I don't care if you poor little psyche couldn't handle Toccara being upset.
But a real strong black man does would understand that their is more to the story than what you've seen.
Furthermore she does scare you that much than you should run to a white women.
Brandtley86 3 years ago
very articulate
tcascoe 3 years ago
Some people say that Toccara is a "Strong Woman", are you guys blind?! If she's so strong, she wouldn't have lost it the way she did, I think Dr. Ian was so right when he told her to "show some class". I just don't understand what the hell she's doing in the show if she's so "Happy" with her weight. Is she on drugs or something?
plumkiwi631 3 years ago
naw wut da fuck iz wrong wit yall ppl ...if anybody dumb its Dr ian and that white lady..obviously toccara luvs herself she knows who the fuck she iz and she gave the panel wut they been askin 4 ...and they lucky dat ass aint get toe up! and 4 the dumb shit that american idol guy and that fat block next 2 him ,they can shut da fuck up wit dey punk comments that they would never say 2 toccaras face. she aint there 4 yall bitchasses. thats why Somore' stayed n the room wit Toccara cuz she real
mr1fine 3 years ago
What the hell was that? Can you please reply in English? Not everybody can understand rap talk.
Toccara is an attention whore. Her career is tumbling and that's why she made an appearance on that show. She knew that if she made a "fiery" appearance that it would grab some attention and her face would be on camera longer.
Instead of getting recognition for "hardwork", she plays the attitude card to try to get ahead.
Luckily the judges were mostly black or she would've cried racism.
Jimmy5antos 3 years ago
ok Jimmy5antos. If she just there for publicity. Why lost the weight at all. Instead she could have just stood up in there faces and argued everytime with every person. Like Dustin did last time.
It's clear and apparent to anyone that you don't know what the fuck your talking about.
Brandtley86 3 years ago
What are you plummy stupid. Maybe where you come from it pays to eat shit with a smile on you face. While in the rest of the world. It's a sign of strength to be direct.
It's really not up to us to explain something she had went over a thousand times on the show. Do you even watch the show?
I know,give her some that opium your'e on so when that sycophant Doctor Ian, uber bitch psychiatrist Stacy or prune faced Harvey say something off- colored. She be as zoned out and off based as YOU ARE!!!
Brandtley86 3 years ago
Brandtley, you're an idiot.
Blasting your mouth and acting ghetto will get you NOWHERE in life.
When was the last time you saw an educated person shoot of their mouth?
Ever seen a brain surgeon with a ghetto mouth?
Ever seen a chemical engineer talk ebonics?
You think Colon Powell talks rap?
Looks like YOU need to learn what class is. Ghetto is NOT class.
dougdangger 3 years ago
A87th you don't speak for me. I personally disagree with everything you said. It's not Tocarra job to be fake. So you can feel better about you place in society. IF you feel ashamed. It's got more to do with you than her.
Brandtley86 3 years ago
If she loves her size so much, why is she on Celeb Fit Club,AGAIN? If money is her motivation then why did she become so insulted? No one said anything 2 her 2 warrant that response. I want a sister on TV 2 have more pride and not express her self that way. I know very few people who can articulate as well as say Barack or Oprah,myself included, but I at least a have enough pride 2 applaud those of us who can. I will not pat folks on the back who dont have enough shame 2 not carry on like that.
A87th 3 years ago
I really have no idea what the reason is for her going on the show. What I do know is that she is HUMAN first. Her expression of her feelings does not warrant the Black community putting her down. And I am not patting her on the back. I am allowing her to be who she is. As the public we don't know the full story of what happened behind the scenes. Do remember that this is TV and editing does come into play. Thanks for sharing.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Your welcome sweetie, but your wrong(no offense). Her actions don't warrant the black community standing up for her either. Shes human,but shes a celeb. She put her self out 2 be judged, so let her be judged. My comments are based off what I saw. Not some benefit of doubt or speculation that something else happened. The Docs had enough of her vulgar language and blithering idiot routine. I would have cussed her out soon as she said "kiss my ass".
A87th 3 years ago
No offense taken, honey. You saying I am wrong has no effect. It really doesn't. Because at the end of the day, you have your opinion and I have mine. No right or wrong, just opinions, no matter how right one THINKS they are. Oh so, you would have cussed her out? My, my ... LOL!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
+1 - If she doesn't wanna lose weight, why is she on the show? She put herself out there, so let it be. This was worse than how Dustin Diamond acted last season...
Arevilo 3 years ago
Its not about making white folks happy, its about making our community proud. Especially if you are fortunate 2 be on a medium thats seen all over the world. Sister her action hurt you. This is the expected from you. Im far from perfect, but I cant lie, I was embarrassed. The bright side is she had the sense 2 apologize. She should be sorry. So let her be sorry. Dont defend her...5000
A87th 3 years ago
No, her actions did not hurt me. I don't live my life that way. As far what "they" expect from me ... it would not matter if Tocarra or anyone else that is female and Black bowed their heads in public and remained good little house negros, folks would still think the worse. This has been proven time and time again. I will continue to defend her if I deenm it necessary. I really do live my life on my terms. Good try, but that doesn't work here. 5000?? You have got to kidding ... LOL!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
My favorite rappers do tons of ignant shit in their public and privite lives. When it happens I dont defend them, I just say hay, thats my nigga though. As u said,"I'll defend when deemed necessary" also. Like with Rev. Wright, I agree with everything he said. If Rev. Wright is wrong, I dont wanna be right. But whats necessary about Toccara? Thanks 4 your time. U got the last word...
A87th 3 years ago
If you don't see the necessary, then this conversation is VERY UNnecessary.
But again, thanks for sharing.
NOW I have the last word.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
amen atlantasistah you know this all coincides with the construct of racism white supremacy and entertainment is one of the major area's out of nine black men and women are attacked in dr Ian is an emasculated puppet who is used to carry out the dynamic goals of racism white supremacy in america.I saw that episode as well being healthy is one thing but destructively criticizing someone is something totally different and his choice of words fit into the dynamics of white supremacy stereotypes
zellacurry 3 years ago
Why is it when an Itlaina or Hispanic woman go off they are "hot blooded" and it's damn near celebrated?, but when we do it, it's classless and embarrasing? That Dr. showed his true colors smh. looked as if the whole panel was ready to jump Toccara. They all could have handled that situation better.
Savvybbw 3 years ago
i agree with you she was just a young woman that lose her cool. and your rite that dr. ian pissed me off he seemed like a bit of uncle tom when said that he should have tried to console her
bigthingsgoin2008 3 years ago
Your once again right.
TruimphTV 3 years ago