A Feminist Perspective of Domestic Violence

[TronPachioftheDynamo]

@disagreeablesob Even when a corpse is presented, most people say it's justified...

[disagreeablesob]

You weren't calling me a pussy,you were calling any guy who's ever had to cope with an abusive or violent female a pussy;he's supposed to fight with both hands tied.Society tells him he'll be penalised if he responds in kind,then tells him that he can't expect sympathy or help either.Point is you're someone who won't take female violence seriously until you see a corpse.When you're aware that some people CHOOSE specific patterns of behaviour,you realise that some people really can be evil.Adios.

[piratsindre17]

Can I just say, without getting flamed or anything, that men who think they are oppressed are all pussies? I'm male myself, not that is matters, but this is totally weak.

[disagreeablesob]

@piratsindre17 You only think men who complain of being subjected to abuse or prejudice because they're male are pussies because you either believe all men have it coming,or because you haven't yet had to suffer the consequences of some girl or woman's bias,phobia or malice.But many males have found that even when they DON'T respond in kind to some female's verbal abuse or some other worse expression of hostility,they're still told that THEY'RE the ones who need to keep THEIR tempers in check.

[piratsindre17]

@disagreeablesob Please. If a man can't make his wife or partner love him enough to treat him with proper respect, he can live alone.

[disagreeablesob]

@piratsindre17 That you actually think you can MAKE a woman love and respect you says that you really have no idea of how duplicitous some women are capable of being,or of how cold-bloodedly sociopathic women can be.A WOMAN will decide WHEN and IF she gives you her love and respect,it's not something YOU can expect to EVER be in control of.You sound like you're one of those naive,archaic romantics who still idealises women to the point of actually seeing them through rose-coloured glasses.

[piratsindre17]

@disagreeablesob That you think I meant "make" as in "control" says that you have horrible experiences with women. Love and respect is earned, and if you're giving it and not getting it in return, then you either get some form of counselling, or ditch her. You talk about duplicitous women? Why even get involved with a woman like that? And no, I don't idealise women, everyone has flaws, the difference between you and I, is that I make no distinction between horrible women and horrible men.

[disagreeablesob]

@piratsindre17 YOU said "make",not me.If you can't grasp the meaning of the words you use,perhaps you should keep silent.That it's EARNED,something GIVEN,is implicit in what I said.Duplicitous means "deceptive",as in a disguised or concealed aspect,a thing you WOULDN'T SEE.Again it's your poor comprehension skills at fault.Most men's experiences with horrible women and horrible men have been VERY different,as most men never found themselves physically and emotionally intimate with those men.

[piratsindre17]

@disagreeablesob I comprehend every word I use quite well. I know what duplicitous means, just because someone tries to deceive (being duplicitous,) doesn't mean they would succeed, unless the "victim" is susceptible to being fooled in the first place. I'm quite sure women who, at the start of a relationship, are great to be with, don't inexplicably and suddenly turn into nasty bitches. Not saying it's your fault, but I dare say most abuse is male-female. So don't make this a big deal. It's not.

[disagreeablesob]

@piratsindre17 Most people enter relationships only after a period of acquaintance,with the belief that they generally know the other person.Predators exploit that belief.Get it right;most REPORTED incidents of abuse are male-female.In this culture,men who complain of being abused by women are ridiculed,told that they're weak and unmasculine,(sound familiar?It should,YOU said exactly that)so the fact that examples of REPORTED incidents of female-male abuse are relatively rare is NOT remarkable.

[piratsindre17]

@disagreeablesob Fine fine, sorry I called you a pussy, I would take that back. Point is, I don't think half of the reported cases of female-male abuse is as serious as the victims would have it, that the abusers are that evil. You used the word "predator," to think that people actually enter into relationships with that mindset is unrealistic. They're the consequence of relationships gone down the drain, which are best ended. Anyway I don't think we're going to agree. Last word is yours.

[SugarBudgie]

LOL The beginning was hilarious. However this whole movie is pretty inaccurate. I'm a feminist and this is totally not what I think of when I think of domestic violence. Also domestic violence is not always just on women, it can be either sex, and don't forget gay couples have domestic violence too.

[Protherium]

@SugarBudgie

But you will not deny the existence of World Patriarchy Cospiracy, wouldn't you? The same masculist organisation which invented chastity belts.

[SugarBudgie]

@Protherium I'm not familiar with that actually, first time hearing about it. What exactly is it?(The World Patriarchy Conspiracy?)

[Protherium]

@SugarBudgie

There are feminists out there who believe women were extremely oppressed throughout history by men, who are some kind of a community of interest who wants women as slaves. Watch this:

-- watch?v=50pp_MM8omA

For these feminists, any anti-feminist evidence is fake, a crude lie coming from Patriarchy Conspiracy.

[SugarBudgie]

@Protherium The video did not exactly explain this theory out right, he just went on about how men sacrificed themselves in war and casualities in war. I don't think Patriarchy is some huge "conspiracy" like the Illuminati, and this is the first of hearing such a thing. Patriarchy in history and today is a complex problem, you can't just blame men, women who support sexism are to blame too. It's also a matter of culture and in some religions as well.

[sillygoose544]

I couldn't stop laughing! Favorited and saved!

[disagreeablesob]

Everyone who isn't a feminist KNOWS this is irony and didn't need to be told so.Anyone who IS a feminist was probably nodding along,thinking "That's SO right,all men are BASTARDS!" or just grinding her teeth in rage.

[SugarBudgie]

@disagreeablesob Actually I'm a feminist and I was laughing the whole time. It's pretty funny.

[gamenode]

It's sad that you have to have a disclaimer at the end of the video that you aren't advocating violence against women. Dozens of movies are made every month that show hundreds of men dying horrible deaths and there's never a disclaimer that it's not advocating violence. Probably because many of them are advocating violence.

[72Roux]

Lol feminazis...

[LeonSkottKennedey]

i love your werk :) this video made mi laugh so hard XD

[wetdream09]

lol i usually hate videos with these robotic voices. but the script was genius! lol

[LadySeraph]

Why is the woman dressed like a teletubbie?

[inechiSAN]

That was funny XD

But the ending was kind of gay.

[tttttttttttt93]

nerds

[TheVerySpecialThommy]

hahahaha

[DC5533]

LMFAO! That was awesome Harry! :P

[MRAGenderEquality]

Domestic violence is a non issue for the majority of men. The minority that do commit domestic violence are already being dealt with. So why do people bring it up other then enforcement issues its pretty much a non issue for the rest of us.

[genepoolshallow]

Watching this made me feel guilty about being a man. I probably deserve to feel bad. I probably COULD learn a lot by being falsely accused of rape. Like how incredibly biased the courts are. Although I expect the only thing I would take away from an experience like that is a lot of bitterness and thoughts of revenge. Sweet, sweet revenge...

[Kawiia17]

Should've thrown in some beer, pretzels and more fart jokes and then it would be perfect. Haha

[Nightshade323]

This is HILARIOUS...Perfect visual of the feminazi's domestic violence propaganda.

[Seita1223]

@Nightshade323 Maybe you've never been slapper around because some asshole is drunk or in a bad mood. It happens take your white bread head out of your ass.

[DeadSleepers]

@Seita1223 After reading what he said, it makes sense. Feminists LOVE to paint DV as an abusive husband beating down on a poor woman. They reinforce it SO much that even when women such Erin Pizzey point out that women are just as violent...they will send DEATH threats. She was literally forced out of the country.

[Seita1223]

@DeadSleepers Statistically speaking that is a complete fallacy. Men commit domestic violence far more than women ever do. Simply having a higher level of testosterone makes men more prone towards violence. Look at rape statistics and violent crime statistics in general. Men are much more violence. You can't really argue with the numbers. I think the problem here is that men generally don't want to see women pointing out problems in the male community, they aren't used to women speaking out. .

[DeadSleepers]

@Seita1223 You forget that men are way less likely to report their abusive spouses and therefore go under the radar. Femmes tend to forget that as they love to twist the numbers. To them, DV goes as far as simply yelling at a woman and they will add that to the numbers. Not to mention, many states have the mandatory arrest law that takes men in based only on the woman's accusation no questions asked.

[Seita1223]

@DeadSleepers All states probably take men in on the word of the women if there is clear evidence of violence. IE physical damage. It is also less relevant to consider female to male violence as the same thing. A 180 pound man beating 110 pound women it a world different than the inverse. Not to say it is right but to compare the two is akin to apples and oranges. Also, in my state yelling threat of violence is considered assault. Actual violence is battery. They would now how to classify it.

[DeadSleepers]

@Seita1223 Clear evidence? A woman can call 911 and just say that her man THREATENED to hurt her..true or not that man is going to spend at least an evening in jail due to the bias laws enforced by Big Sis government. However when the roles are flipped, men NEED evidence before the police will even do anything.

[DeadSleepers]

@Seita1223 Also, if those numbers were so true, then why would would feminists threaten the lives of their own (Erin Pizzey) due to their findings? Women can be just as violent if not more.

[Seita1223]

@DeadSleepers She was supposedly threatened by one group of MILITANT FEMINISTS in Britain. She also received threats from ant-feminists. The small minority that may have made threats do not reflect feminism as a whole, just as the Tea Party does not reflect the view of the whole Republican party. Also Pizzey's findings are one study among many and are not universally supported. Even if the threats were real/relevant, feminists don't record the numbers either, the police do.

[DeadSleepers]

@Seita1223 Where were the non militant feminists? Why didn't they try and help her out? Easy, they were up in arms about forcing her out of the country. As for fem stats, you mean like 1 in 4 rape state they love to throw around? What bogus.

[crh2010]

@Seita1223 testosterone isnt a bad thing its what makes men rational and logical

wtf do u mean by they are "used" to women speaking out thats all the media blares on day time tv

finally men get a voice and the feminists dont like it

[MrLukePaul]

this is fuckin bullshit.

[TheHappyMisogynist]

@MrLukePaul

Don't tell me, Harvard, right?

[TheHappyMisogynist]

@MrLukePaul

You should have studied harder, and paid more attention to the support your argument part. Bye.

[coolcat768]

@TheHappyMisogynist your'e on to something man, why is it that radical feminists are not kicked out by the smart women that are around? i guess the answer their guilty of what they fought against , and that is being indifferent to the issues that dont affect them. but it does have a negative effect on society as a whole. hopefully this will educate men to choose stable women. a lot have a chip on their shoulder, anyways i'm glad someone is being pro active.

[Curas1]

Oh shut up, dunk her! lol!

[HowDaWorldTwerks]

omg this was so funny...my girlfriend laughed at this too

[nonconservative]

LMFAO!!!! HAAHAHA

[Yardidol]

Funny stuff bro. Perfect mixture of truth with a little bit of humor. Good job.

[NaterSTAB]

LAWL

not only funny but with legitimate points.

good shit.

[toonzguy]

HYSTERICAL!

[seanth014]

'if you kill me you won't have anyone to rape' yes its so ridiculous that its laughable. both are playing their feminist playhouse roles so well!!!

[daboys1215]

This is freaking hilarious!

....BUT the sad thing is that this is exactly what feminists think.

This is why I'm anti-feminist.

[Troo44]

lol

[EstevanMusic]

He is trying to cut a piece of your toast... I hope it does not ruin my chainsaw.

XDXDXDXDXDXDXD

[trekkie108]

its a bit over the top

[sunset305]

3 strikes your out is a how many people would base their trust and respect with fellow workers and potential friends. (for me all it takes is 1strike) Ive met and talkd with many women and they jus feel completely comfortable that they should be forgiven for WHATEVER they do.(1 women ran up $60,000 debt than couldn't understand why hubby was livid) Ur vid clearly shows how ridiculous the FM mantra is and that most women r not like the one in your vid (humble and respectful, undeserving)!!!!

[AC101666]

This video is awesome. I laughed my ass off!

[Octavian88mtl]

Lol this is hilarious. Great satire, you should work on south park :P

[SkaRocksYea]

LMFAO!!!!!!

[Troo44]

ROFLOL

[casperfaust]

normally i try to watch your videos with my overly sarcastic and humor seeking nature left behind. This one, however, was more than i could resist. Though i completely understand and agree with the message, the humor was too clever. I almost had tears running down my face when he said "...maybe he is trying to cut a piece of your f*cking toast..."

[HalfEatenDimSim]

Great video

[ColonelCosmic]

This video does a great job of summarizing the false imagery that society paints about men.

[sccrow72]

I laughed so hard that milk came out of my nose - and I wasn't even drinking MILK!!!

Definitely a five-star video!

I am going to forward this to my friends right now...

[HQR3]

Five stars.

Laughed so hard I had to check myself for a hernia.

A feminist watching this would call it unbelievable:

"Do you know the price of cooking oil nowadays?"

[globalman100]

"Maybe he is trying to cut a piece of your f***ing toast. I hope he does not ruin my chainsaw....."

AWESOME!!!!

[Bigeasygreasy]

Probably the best use of xtranormal I have seen on this subject. And funny as hell. Well, until the end. Good job. 5/5

[Mathman1ac]

Roflmao. Fantastic.

[Jacobsenacc]

People don't believe this, do they?

and is it bas that I laughed at the chainsaw and toast joke?

[SoCoandCoke]

The ending is awesome.

[pinegrove33]

This was excellent.

[AtheistGlitch]

commenting broken?

[TheHappyMisogynist]

Not that I know about.

[thecreepyguy]

haha

[Jmnzz]

Outstanding. One thing though. you forgot to have the son and daughter standing in the back watching. You know that's how we men pass on our patriarchal ideals.

The daughter will stand their confused while the son watches curiously. Later he will practice on his sister so when he grows up the saga can continue xD. They made a PSA about it and everything ._.

I personally despise those PSA commercials. Like that one where the guy beats that waitress because she spills his coffee.

[mrjazz747]

@Jmnzz So you're teaching your son to diss the female species? Wow, what a life that kid will go through. He will eventually disrespect women because his dad, who is obviously a failure, taught him to do so. However, when your son becomes a failure like his dad, he will point the finger at you and blame you for everything. I have seen this happen before. I hope you protect your daughter from that kind of a loser, if not, then you're a bigger loser than I thought.

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

1. I don't have any children.

2. You are a friggin moron.

3. I was pointing out the obvious bias and bigotry displayed towards men in PSA commercials. You notice how ALL of them depict men being abusive to women and children when women are more abusive to children than men and DV is nearly equal? Of course you do, it's just the truth doesn't matter to bigots.

4. You were able to discern me being a failure (at what exactly) from 1 comment on youtube?

5. See #2

[mrjazz747]

@Jmnzz Oh, I see. It's okay for you to sit there and encourage the brother practicing on his sister crap and making fun of the situation, but when someone else comes to their defense you're quick to call them a moron and whine away like some spoiled brat. While it's true that there are women who abuse their spouse, guys do it a lot more. I grew up seeing this crap and refuse to side with cowardly men that think it's ok to beat on someone weaker. These guys would never fight a man one on one.

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

"Its ok for you to sit there and encourage the brother practicing on his sister crap"

Actually, what I did, as I pointed out in my first reply to you, was display my disdain for the way that PSA commercials only focus on men abusing families. I didn't encourage the boy practicing. I pointed out how disgusting and bigoted the commercial was through sarcastic humor.

I called you a moron because you are one.

"Guys do it a lot more"

Actually no. Nearly equal is not "a lot more"

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

"But when someone else comes to their defense"

Whose defense? This entire video was created to make fun of the bigots in the feminist movement that paint all abusers as men.

"I grew up seeing this crap"

I don't give a flying fuck.

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

"and refuse to to side with cowardly men that think it's ok to beat on someone weaker"

Men who defend themselves and their children from abusive women are not cowards. Just because someone isn't as strong as you doesn't mean they can't hurt you.

You are the only coward here.

"These guys would never fight a man one on one"

Yes, because the fact that they are tired of bigoted propaganda being spread about their gender means they would never fight another man.

Moron.

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

Look. You can take your chivalrous white knight bullshit and go running through the streets beating up any man that gives a woman a dirty look all you want.

I will continue to do the sensible thing, which is view women as human beings and grown adults who are perfectly capable of taking responsibility for their own actions. Not some weak children who need the world stopped every time something doesn't go their way.

[Jmnzz]

@mrjazz747

If you don't like the fact that people, that is men AND women are being shown the bigoted stereotypes and false facts about men in the west and are (GASP) taking offense to it and trying to (GASP GASP) change it then I got two words for you.

Too bad.

I'm sure in your perfect world "real men" don't hit women.

Well in the fun place many people like to call reality, real men do whatever the fuck they want. That includes defending themselves.

Now go spew your bullshit at someone else

[Seita1223]

@Jmnzz This is an ignorant attempt to distort facts. Get an education. As a man I think your attempts to think of this as a real defense of your ideology is laughable. It addresses no real concerns just caricatures of issues that you don't understand. The court systems are biased according to one guy. Does he believe many more rape cases are shams than reality? Does he think a women wearing a skimpy outfit is asking for it? Say what you mean and have the balls to back it up.

[Jmnzz]

@Seita1223

"This is an ignorant attempt to distort facts"

Translation: The video doesn't meld with my personal worldview, therefore it is an ignorant distortion of facts.

"Get an education"

Pointless insult, which only exposes your own ignorance.

"As a man I think your attempts to think of this as a real defense of your ideology is laughable."

As a man I think your attempts to conclude what I think and feel, with absolutely no knowledge of me, save a few comments is laughable.

[Jmnzz]

@Seita1223

"It addresses no real concerns just caricatures of issues"

It is a satirical video meant to be funny and at the same time represent the bias against men when it comes to DV and one of the root enablers of that bias, feminism.

"that you don't understand"

That is the second statement you have made where you claim to know things about me you couldn't possibly know. In short, more ignorance.

[Jmnzz]

@Seita1223

"The court systems are biased according to one guy"

So you claim these are issues I do not understand when you make claims like this?

The court systems have been proven to be bias against men and lawsuits have been brought up against feminist organizations to combat that bias.

Those lawsuits were won by the way.

"Does he believe many more rape cases are shams than reality?"

I am not him and won't assume to know what other people think, unlike you.

[Jmnzz]

@Seita1223

"Does he think a women wearing a skimpy outfit is asking for it?"

Maybe you should ask him all of these questions instead of me. Or are you too afraid that Paul would provide you with the wealth of information, proof, and facts he has to support his claims that is readily available on his other videos.

Funny you chose this video to attack his ideas and couldn't even speak directly to him.

[Jmnzz]

@Seita1223

"Say what you mean and have the balls to back it up. "

I am pretty sure that's what I have done. Maybe you should grow a pair and speak to the person who created the video and not the commentators.

[LeonSkottKennedey]

@Jmnzz when i sah that 1 about the kaffee i thaht the guy was tu nice about it ^^

[MysteryManoLove]

LOL

[redqew]

Excellent!

[mala265]

I cracked up at 2.30 .... good video.

[TheMadShangi]

I love this video.

[boxant]

".... well, you do have a point there."

;)

[AtheistGlitch]

good points, but shitty delivery. I really hate this bot voice.

[TheHappyMisogynist]

I agree. I like to experiment from time to time. And I would l'd love to find a way that is less time consuming than my other work. Oh well. :)

[4thtroika]

This is too much!

[TheHappyMisogynist]

In what way, please explain. Thanks

[4thtroika]

It's so over the top, especially when done in Xtranormal. Good job.