if a man is not perfect give him a chance and grace to improve.i know we cant do this so we shud ask God to help us .dont judge ppl. we even dont know about ourselves properly. luv
Praise God for Dr.Ty. She hit dead on the head. Ms.Doubtfire it is not that serious that you have to compromise the rest of your lifes happiness to be with this individual who doesn't know if he is coming or going. If he is not titthing (check the report at his church)then you didn't even have to ask Dr.Ty unless you are not sure if you want to live under a curse. Think about it.
Thank God for confirmation! I just went throught a similar situation. It has drawn me closer to God. If we are truly seeking the face of God, we will be lead by the Spirit of God, not by our flesh. We have to truly use wisdom and the Word of God.
As I was reading this to my friend, who is currently going through a divorce, her immediate reaction by the beginning of the second paragraph was to leave him alone. The situation definitely isn't right and I know too many people who have gotten married and settled for less than what God had for them.
Big up to Dr. Ty for godly counsel. I was engaged to be married twice, once at 25 and again at 28. I walked away from the latter 2 weeks before the day; it's been 6 years since I made that wise decision and I praise God for it! The embarrassment & pain are temporary and they're not worthy to be compared to the pain of deceiving YOURSELF into marrying someone unqualified. Exit graciously from this situation, and let God comfort,cover and heal the both of you is my prayer. Blessings!
I agree with the Dr. This situation has some serious problems. The financial issues outside of not paying child support can be corrected with time, professional financial counsel and follow through. Every one will experience financial difficulty at some time in their lives. To marry for money is a huge mistake! Just look around you at all the people who had great jobs and beautiful homes, but now they are 30 days from homelessness.The true issue is this brother's character and leaness of faith.
Wow! Same ole' prewedding scenario. Boy loves girl but....... I agree with the Dr. The finances are not the deal breaker. Financial challenges are a part of life and can be overcome with time, wise PROFESSIONAL financial counsel and follow through. No church home, premarital sex, & pressuring her to go to city hall just to avoid being tempted. RED FLAGS!RED FLAGS!RED FLAGS! This situation needs an immediate intervention by the appropriate parties! - Jeff
I love Dr. TY! She's helped me SO MUCH. Dr. Ty, you really ought to have a talk show on one of the Christian networks. They need to find out about you and give you some time on one of those networks. Thanks for wise counsel and KEEPIN IT REAL.
May God Bless you for your comments!!! I mean no disrespect but I would like to call you "Momma Ty" because you gave godly advise and hit the nail on a head. I really appreciate people like you telling the truth and I honestly believe that is why the divorce rate is so high(especially in the church). It is my pray that this young lady heeds to your words of wisdom and prevent a destructive road. Young lady, God is not saying no, He is simply is saying "Not Now!" and maybe "Not Him!"
Dr. Ty, thank you for giving wise counsel and keeping it real. Hopefully she will put away any pride or whatever's holding her back and cut this relationship off as you have suggested. Praise God for your ministry. Have a wonderful day :o)
My God!
shalonda32025 1 year ago
if a man is not perfect give him a chance and grace to improve.i know we cant do this so we shud ask God to help us .dont judge ppl. we even dont know about ourselves properly. luv
cheers
iamalostchildofGod 2 years ago
May God's peace be with you.
iamalostchildofGod 2 years ago
True.
Koolregg1014 2 years ago
yup unequally yolked..ge is not fit to lead, love, hes not even a good friend, a help..sad
onegreeneye 2 years ago
Once they get married, he's not paying his bils now, he going to beat the crap out of her.
comett1 2 years ago
yeah is she?
thankfulgurl 3 years ago
*>>OOOOOOOoooOooo...that was good. 7:26 "All fornication is is a preview of adultery..."
jaelott 3 years ago 2
Amen Dr. Ty! Amen
Intriguedkiki 3 years ago 3
amen sister you told it like it is thank u for being honest with her and telling the truth God bless U
aiopanointed3 3 years ago 4
great ty! Do it girl!
pamperry1 3 years ago 2
Amen Ty!
zeevideo 3 years ago
Praise God for Dr.Ty. She hit dead on the head. Ms.Doubtfire it is not that serious that you have to compromise the rest of your lifes happiness to be with this individual who doesn't know if he is coming or going. If he is not titthing (check the report at his church)then you didn't even have to ask Dr.Ty unless you are not sure if you want to live under a curse. Think about it.
thooks7 3 years ago 4
not just run, sho nuff run,lol
loveyourvoice00201 3 years ago 4
Amen!! Run and don't stop running!
GsShay 3 years ago 3
You need to back out of it.. Marring this guy would be the biggest mistake of your life....
Preach2k 3 years ago 4
Thank God for confirmation! I just went throught a similar situation. It has drawn me closer to God. If we are truly seeking the face of God, we will be lead by the Spirit of God, not by our flesh. We have to truly use wisdom and the Word of God.
Lynnlin08 3 years ago
again praise the Lord for Dr. Ty adams wise words. I can so relate, i also walked away from a similer situation.
pshakes 3 years ago 2
As I was reading this to my friend, who is currently going through a divorce, her immediate reaction by the beginning of the second paragraph was to leave him alone. The situation definitely isn't right and I know too many people who have gotten married and settled for less than what God had for them.
lolamarya 3 years ago 4
Big up to Dr. Ty for godly counsel. I was engaged to be married twice, once at 25 and again at 28. I walked away from the latter 2 weeks before the day; it's been 6 years since I made that wise decision and I praise God for it! The embarrassment & pain are temporary and they're not worthy to be compared to the pain of deceiving YOURSELF into marrying someone unqualified. Exit graciously from this situation, and let God comfort,cover and heal the both of you is my prayer. Blessings!
676Entertainment 3 years ago 4
I agree with the Dr. This situation has some serious problems. The financial issues outside of not paying child support can be corrected with time, professional financial counsel and follow through. Every one will experience financial difficulty at some time in their lives. To marry for money is a huge mistake! Just look around you at all the people who had great jobs and beautiful homes, but now they are 30 days from homelessness.The true issue is this brother's character and leaness of faith.
moneyman1966 3 years ago
Wow! Same ole' prewedding scenario. Boy loves girl but....... I agree with the Dr. The finances are not the deal breaker. Financial challenges are a part of life and can be overcome with time, wise PROFESSIONAL financial counsel and follow through. No church home, premarital sex, & pressuring her to go to city hall just to avoid being tempted. RED FLAGS!RED FLAGS!RED FLAGS! This situation needs an immediate intervention by the appropriate parties! - Jeff
moneyman1966 3 years ago
I love Dr. TY! She's helped me SO MUCH. Dr. Ty, you really ought to have a talk show on one of the Christian networks. They need to find out about you and give you some time on one of those networks. Thanks for wise counsel and KEEPIN IT REAL.
chantejoy 3 years ago
May God Bless you for your comments!!! I mean no disrespect but I would like to call you "Momma Ty" because you gave godly advise and hit the nail on a head. I really appreciate people like you telling the truth and I honestly believe that is why the divorce rate is so high(especially in the church). It is my pray that this young lady heeds to your words of wisdom and prevent a destructive road. Young lady, God is not saying no, He is simply is saying "Not Now!" and maybe "Not Him!"
vdwilliams1 3 years ago
Dr. Ty, thank you for giving wise counsel and keeping it real. Hopefully she will put away any pride or whatever's holding her back and cut this relationship off as you have suggested. Praise God for your ministry. Have a wonderful day :o)
wdrahming 3 years ago
wow... you were right on it!... i will be tuning in today to hear you on akintunde's show... stay blessed in Jesus!
jdubbndc 3 years ago