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  • My looooveeee !!!!

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  • i dedicate this to m school mates i moved to tenerife for 4 years i still kept in contact with them on fb the hole time i was there then i had to move back to the uk because there was no jobs there and they had 1 night out with me and now they totally ignore me its probably jealousy that i lived in tenerife for 4 years but either way they havent said why there ignoring me

  • CAN U SEE THE DISLIKE BAR?? EXACTLY!!!

  • @pokemonaddictify hell yes!!!!!

    

  • this is how i say please.

  • the aaron lewis acoustic version is much better

  • Seriously one of my favorite songs!!!!!

    

  • This song reminds me so much of the lessons 14 Shades Of Grey contains. To those who didn't look closely enough to see what I've been dealing with... now you know.

  • This song should of been written when I was in high school because of all the teachers I had treated us unfairly (This song is just for you).

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  • OMG I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Amen,Cause you know that i love you. And selfish too. I can not understand, how if things are from the heart, right, wrong-good,bad, look at the spread. and whats heart between two is unjust feeling is not thought to be read, slander. And mislead. send him a dead rat, or hang a jock strap and a y stick on her mail box. More fun than misery. I forgive meant so much

  • Amen,Cause you know that i love you. And selfish too.

  • you've manipulated me for my entire life and i absolutely hate you...

    i wish that you would listen to this song so that you could understand how i feel.

    but you never will, because you don't care and you'll never understand me...

  • @remtail3 dear God, commit a suicide, deepshit -,- what a miserable comment

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  • the acoustic version is way better along with the rest of the ones he does solo

  • I heard this song and now I actually feel like I have a home.

  • This song made me realize so much shit... First off, I AM good enough. There's something wrong with YOU, not me. I'm going to be MYSELF, and not who these assholes in my life want me to be. I'm tired of making everyone else happy, other than myself. Shit, this song makes me want to punch something; I love it.

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  • to my mom..

  • I think I need to start dating outside the USA...that might be my problem. Staind rules!

  • love staind!!

  • I believe i have just related to this song

  • Staind NEVER disappoints me!! Thanks for speaking for me!! They always managed to have the right words.

  • @shemare02 i know exactly what you mean..

    

  • Because of my ex ive lost all my friends, no 1 respects me, can some 1 give me a reason 2 keep living.

  • @evilblood1982 SO many ppl in this world are fighting to live..IF ur in perfect health be thankful for that..

  • @evilblood1982 the meaning of life is to "Survive" not give up

    giving up is for cowards, you are NOT a coward

  • Seven people sucks and doesn't know good music

  • @olpenjoras: learn to conjugate properly before you try to put people down and you sound like you have no idea how to speak. Idiot.

  • This is my absolute FAVORITE song by Staind.

  • def pref the acoustic version but this version kicks major ass too

  • AaronLewis is my GOD

  • this song is the shit it felt like this when me and my old split up.... great shit yo

  • 6 people have no taste in music. Aaron...you are the man!

  • So please, don't keep telling me that its okay, I don't buy all that shit that you say, and quite honestly I'm fucking sick of it!

  • so please who the fuck did you want me to be

    is it something that i couldnt see

    never knew this would be so political

    thanks mom.. thanks dad .. for telling me im a fuck up but not saying why.. i finally figured it out though. no thanks to you. hope you rot in your graves

  • @acidtrance101 I know exactly how you feel.....its not as much anger as it is just this massive pain........

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  • @TheHasoj Awesome !

    

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  • depressing lyrics >.>

  • hahahah monkeys

  • ... so please ...

  • @jawbreaker5000 Good deal man. I think you will find in the long run, forgiving her will be the one thing that may set you free. Also, remember to forgive yourself for some of the bad feelings you harbor towards her, you can then TRUELY get some piece of mind. To better days Bro, I guarantee things will get better if you stay with it.

  • this is a great song...deep lyrics and a great singer. Love this song!!!

  • Nice song...

  • @VicePower Wow dude, sounds wonderful. I hope the best for you, and remember, when things look bleek they always look better the next day. Have a great New Year. Our prayers are with you.

  • One of the best rock songs out there

  • @jawbreaker5000 Dude, hide your money, realize your mom is human with a very real human problem. Tough love yes, but dont write her off your list. My childrens mother died a horrible death from a distroyed liver from alcohol and though it appeared the booze was more important to her than her own children it wasn`t. She just lost all control to the disease of addiction and couldn`t recover, but she still brought them into this world. Pray for her, I will.

  • I just broke up with my long time girlfriend, I couldnt be happyer but all of the memories of the good times before all the bitter and painful fights keep going through my head. but the "Who the fuck do you want me to be" sends chills up my spine, and i remember why I told her that this was the last fight.

  • we all have gone thru shit in our lives guys.. i myself have stop going to school because my mom has no work.. and it sucks.. i usually have money and can buy what i want.. buy now i dont even have a cent in my pocket.. yes i thought about killing myself because i can see myself as a worthless bastard that cant even help my mom.. but then i just think about that there is somebody who is going thru problems worst than i have.. so i have to be strong for them.. chin up guys

  • @lordswit6666 My mother killed herself so my sis and I could get insurance money. 25,000 a piece. woopty friggin doo. I`d much rather had my mom here to see her grandkids and great grandkids. It`s never worth that. TRUST ME! Glad you realize that.:0)

  • @rifflizard oh im sorry bro.. merry Christmas anyway.. yes.. we should be strong for each other.. and not give into misery.. happy new year... your mom is with God right now mate xD

  • @vicePower You have the power to change your life. Nice to hear you are turning things around

  • @VicePower Don't do it bro. You would be surprised of the number of people that actually care. I have had many friends go out that way and it really sucks. Talk to someone. Anyone. It helps. Almost everyone has gone through some shit at some point, I am guilty myself. Sitting on a couch with a .357 magnum in my lap. It's not fucking worth it. Push forward and never look back. It's hard , I know, but it CAN be done. Chin up my friend.

  • @VicePower Hey bro ive actually been going thru some of the shit that yu r, and honestly wen i think bout it, if i wer to do sumthin to my self that serious i wudnt only be hurting myself, but the friends tht stood by my side listening, caring, showing me passion and love wen it was needed the most. And i want you to think about who it wud be hurting in the long run in yur life, and dont wrry its just one of those times in life yu make it thru.

  • @VicePower Dont kill yourself dude. I dont know what it is your going through but everybody goes through something bad in their life, some worse than others but its not worth killing yourself over. You gotta find something to hold on to, something worth living for: a person, a girlfriend, a religion, music, family member, making a difference in the world, etc.

  • @VicePower HOLD ON BROTHER

  • @VicePower kill yourself!!!

  • 6 bitchs that dont know good music when they here !!!!!!!

  • Love this song!

  • Amazing song, helped me get thru my abusive ex......

  • @foxgirl12121 Are you alright?

  • @Skullz930, i agree the acoustic version is better :)

  • This version is good but when he does it slower on the acoustic. It's so amazing!

  • i hEARD THIS SONG WHEN I WAS HAVING HARD TIMES

  • love it*

  • Love this song.

  • Great tune!

  • THUMBS UP IF YOU LOVE THIS SONG!

  • This is good, but i prefer Aaron Lewis doin this on his own acoustic tour live at Mohega Sun

  • love it !

  • who are the 5 douchebags who disslike this....life is that perfect ey?

  • This is such a powerful song. Reminds me of my mom and how she expects so much out of me and is so disapointed when I can't fill her expectations. Yet shes never here for me to show me some guideance. because for over a year of my hardest time she chose her fiancee over me. Thankyou mom.

  • just 2 let yall all know.im sorry 4 all ur losses and i hope that evrything gets better 4 all of u guys...this is actually my first youtube comment ever so i wanted 2 make it a good one and hopefully an encouragin one 2!stay alive ppl!its YOUR life! and smile cuz it helps.

  • @j4mail1 I hate when that happens

  • my family had no real family and the ppl we considered real family fuxd us over soooo bad... we havent been okay since. this song described how we felt pretty much exactly!!! fux the ppl who u help through hard times and who dont give a damn bout you and ruin your life after that!!!!!

  • i love their guitar playing

  • The real big reason why this song is sad, is because everyone "here" relates to this. Everyone has someone out there that is criticizing them, or making them wait to be with that person on a whole other level, telling them just a little while longer. Trying to let them down in a gradual, nice way. Well i've had it, waiting, is just not an option. I couldn't see what was wrong with me, and its because there is nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with you, because you didnt take me...

  • @fervetboy This deserves to be one of the most top rated comments on any YouTube video. Well said.

  • @fervetboy i completely agree with this other person that replied to your comment....i dont even know wht to say

  • @kelliesaysrawrr thank you. Im glad my comment has gotten attention. No one should go through what we are going through. For me, at this moment, the same thing is happening as what was going on my last comment. Same shit, different person. For a message out there, everyone in the world is different, but everyone in the world is the same.

  • @fervetboy Thats Deep

  • @MegaEmilio68 Its been about a year now since that time. And as time went on i met the woman of my dreams who is now my Fiance. And it came to me all of a sudden that everything happens for a reason. Fate you could say. She didn't take me because fate wanted me to experience the heart broken to be so much more grateful when that special someone came into my life. Everyone here needs to know that patience is a virtue and that whatever happens has very important and good reason behind it.

  • @fervetboy Deep and well thought comment. Kudos fervet for not wasting a comment.

  • its like he wrote this song about me

  • @guitarg3ek i think alot of people feel the same way. i know ive felt this for just about every song they wrote staind defines me. thats why they have the following they have

  • four fucked up people disliked this song, wow how the fuck could you dislike this song? .... stupid bitch (:

  • @aboasrgk 5 bitches nao :(

  • my life in one song

  • "who the fuck did you want me to be? was it something that I couldn't see?" that line is so meaningful to me...

  • so sad.... :,(

  • I LUV THIS SONG ITS THE SHIT!

  • THANK YOU AARON LEWIS !! for sayin what i could not.

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  • @AdamPipe1 I agree with you !!!! He is OUR voice. He is OUR words. He Says what WE feel. In a world of empty words His words rise above all.

  • one of my faverite songs they sing :)

  • W.O.W!!

  • im glad i found this song....wicked ...like

  • ya, its a good song :)

    love aaron's vocals. a lot of their songs mean a lot to me

  • holy shit Í have a new favourite song ^^

  • @DelisDinner If u like this you should look up King of all Excuses...or Fill me Up. Both great songs.

  • great thanks xD

    do you know the song schizophrenic Conversations ?

    also an awesome song xD

  • are all some of my favorite from this album...I love the entire album rather hehe...Staind's my fav. band, never done anything I didn't like and can very easily relate to everything.

  • la letra en espaniol alguien la tiene?

  • acoustic versions much better i think

  • Wow! How all their songs are so relative, and they REALLY hit when your feeling the exact same way.

  • This song make me wanna punch people...I love it! Fuck u fuck u fuck u...ur cool..and FUCK YOU

  • this song really reminds me of my father ....we have a fucked up relationship lol but its a great song

  • Wow, im loving this ! <3

  • when i would get outta the dentists office i would put this on my cd player and fall asleep to it while my dad drives cause laying in that dentist chair really takes it outta ya when u wake up and you feel tired and having to crack your neck to get surqulattion in your body

  • Woow... La cancion es increible.. como todas las de este disco... y la letra es Impactante...

    Dime por favor,

    ¿Quién carajos querías que fuera?

    ¿Fue algo que no pude ver?

    Nunca pensé que esto sería tan político

    Y por favor, sigo usando esta piel miserable

    Y está empezando a romperse por dentro

    Pero es obvio que eso no te molesta,

    Así que por favor....

    Lo mejor Staind es increible...

  • this album is so good every song is just killer

  • same here kinda.. 1 was step.. parent.

  • both of my parents were heavy alcoholics this song really helped me when i was going through a very hard time

  • @AlexandraHutchko take ah drink n shut the fuck up!

  • @AlexandraHutchko man im sorry for you bro

  • @haloman46u thank you :)

  • @AlexandraHutchko dang man i thought that wat i was going through was hell but i have my parents to help me.....well my mom.....but without her and a few friends i wouldnt be here now.....i dont know wat it feels like....and i know i cant do much but say im sorry for ya bro........just hang in there and dont let anything bring u down farther

  • @AlexandraHutchko same with me.. and also For You

  • who the fuck did he want me to be....

    brilliant song...i love it... ..makes ya think ya know? lol

  • who the fuck did you want me to be *

  • Are these guys considered grunge?

  • People consider them differant things. Me, I would call them Hard Rock or Alternative Metal. You can consider them what ever you want.

  • the acoustic version is better, no?

  • I can really relate to this song right now, thanks for posting it up! :D

  • Good song. I like acoustic version 100x better tho. This version sounds like its on fast foward.

  • Definately. I love Aaron Lewis

  • Where can I find the acoustic version?

    Thanks.

    --Aden

  • Best SonG eveR

  • good song i gotta say,

  • there best song

  • My favorite song.

  • man i forgot how good this album is, another awesome track! thanks wickedsin for putting this out, I broke the cd by accident :(

  • My fav. two...don't feel like dtermining any more than thatlol...but would be Fade and Home equally the same. Tho their new one tangled up in you really gets me...sing that to my wife all the time XD

  • i like this one so much but with all respect of all of ur comments, it is not the best but it is one of the best 5 songs by Staind.....how could u guy forget about "Right Here", "So Far Away", "For You", "Yesterday"?

  • Well... it's still all about opinions.

  • what? people cant have different opinions than yours? hahaha

  • No, Not Anymore. People Aren't Allowed To Have Opinions Because We All Get Ridiculed Because Of Them Nowadays..

    XD

  • The best song by the best band

  • I sweer It's best song Iherd

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  • wtf you talking about?

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  • EXCELLENT !!

  • when ever im not happy i listen to this song n im alrite after that :)

  • who the fuck did she want me to be?

  • lol emo bitch, lmfao

  • i swallowed all my pride!

  • & who the fuck did he want me 2 be.

  • who the fuck did she want me 2 be...

  • Whoa I get this song, its fuckin brutality honest about people, Love it.

  • i love it

  • que?

  • Sorry I have an opinion. Ill be sure to conform to what certain people belive next time.

  • It's not that. It's just that you felt the need to post it on a place where fans of the band will obviously post. You -could- have an opinion and still keep quiet about it in a hall of fans.

  • and thank you.

  • i prefer hi