I've already been through this in real life. I chose to become a mother at 15. I'm now 16 and about to graduate high school over a year early. Anyone can do it! It's the most challenging thing I've ever been through in my life, but looking at my son fast asleep right now makes it all worth it :)
The only thing I know is that I as a 15 year old young man is that I could not be a good enough father to my children yet, and I'm most Likly going to have sex befor I'm ready to be a father. So early abortion seems like the best thing under the sitcom stances... And I do not say that easily or with any joy.
I only rated yes because you said what would I do. I would become a mother. As you said in the main video what Jessie does is her own choice, but I personally, would become a mother.
The creepiest thing is that my name is jessica, im 15, i love poetry my first loves name was kevin and my household was that way.. CREEPY! execept im not pregnant
On the other hand, I am completly in favor of "ProChoice" and even though I do see a moral issue with abortion, I will not force my beliefs onto others. I believe that abortions should only be available for rape victims. But then there is a chance of another child lost in the adoption system. It really is a gamble, unless pre-marital/long term relationship sex is outlawed. lols
I strongly believe that you should go into sex knowing the act is designed to create children, no matter what "protection" you use.If you are not ready for kids you shouldn't be having sex. No child should have to get lost in the system because of their parent's mistakes--they didn't ask to be created.
Because of her abusive father, it would be dangerous for her to be pregnant as he could become violent towards he and seriously harm her and the baby before it's born causing her to miscarry or for the baby to be born with a mental or physical disability from harm in the womb. Even if the baby is born perfectly healthy, the father could also become abusive to her baby and since babies are so fragile he or she could be killed.
And if she did manage to get out of the abusive situation with her dad, it's still on the fence. I've known many people who have been in the foster care program after being taken from their abusive homes by the CPS. Only three of them had good experiences and were lucky enough to go into first a good group home and a stable foster home and one even became adopted by a lovely family. The rest had awful experiences going into only a different kind of abusive situation.
So it would be a huge gamble for her even then and would probably be best to abort the child. It's also why I don't fully support adoption. People always use the excuse, 'There are so many people who cannot have children who would love your baby.' Like there is suddenly a shortage of children who need to be adopted. When there are no children who need to be adopted, then I would agree. But most likely, this baby will be in a foster care program where it could so easily go into an abusive home.
When her dad finds out he would probably beat her & she'd end up miscarrying or in hospital. So if she wanted to keep it she'd have to find a new place to live.
i think she should abort, i know that its hard, but a 15 year old shouldnt even have to go through the pregnancy.... if she had a better life she wouldnt be pregnant in the first place...
I vote this one to have the baby and keep it.I know that is what I would do.But dont worry, Im only 18.Tell you the truth,I dont think age has anything to do with a kid.Its all about the ability too and the willingness.I would never abort a baby, that is murder.I will never put it up for adoption, too many nights would I be sitting up worried sick thinking if they are being fed,changed, taken care, etc.Personaly if I was her,become a mother.Sometimes young moms, can be the best moms out there :)
@DarkAngelWings101 So a 12 year old who winds up pregnant would be "the best mom out there." Do you think a sixth grader who has never held a baby in her life could suddenly take care of one adequately? Be a mom? She doesn't know how to be a mom. The problem with teen pregnancies are that the family is burdened with taking care of another child because the teen is a child herself. It becomes a problem for more than just the teen mother, Thankfully there is abortion and adoption.
I wouldn't kill a poor defenseless baby. I would keep the baby if I were responsible enough to have sex then I'm responsible to keep it. ant- abortion. But at the end of the day its up to the mom.
@sullyluver1 Exactly. I am pro-choice simply cause what's best for me is not best for everyone else. And what is best for some may be worse for others. Like me for example, i have a lot of severe health conditions that i would not dare pass on to someone else, so i probably wouldn't keep it. But if you are responsible enough to handle the kid, I say kudos to you as well. Good for you for being mature enough when going into a sexual situation :)
Oh I know Jesse, don't worry she's a multi-millionaire, her kid turned out great, and she one an award in the guiness book of world records for highest long jump.
If it weren't for the abusive father aspect of this whole issue, I'd say she could at least consider becoming a mom. However, I am afraid for both her and the child if she tells her dad about this... Unless she is able to stay at someone else's house during and after her pregnancy, I'd be really cautious about having a kid while living with an abusive parent.
If she makes it out of high school alright, she could also probably go to college for little to no cost. I know a lot of women who got full tuition simply because they were young, single mothers.
yeaaaa i would go with adoption. if this girl lives with an abusive dad rasing a kid would probably be a lot harder than most other teenaged moms. plus its not like she cant have a healthy realationship with the child once she gets out of college or whatever she plans to do with her life.
then again that fourth option where we just stare at each other is also very tempting. hmmm decisions decisions
17/m/ms, i vote for this becuz she would givin the baby a chance of living life, and the baby would know his/her mother and might no his/her father, also i dont even know my birth father and also i dont have any memory of what he look like :(
I was a mom at 16 and it was the best decision I have ever made. I am a single mom of the happiest boy alive and I've never been happier. He is my reason to get up every day and my reason to stay clean. I have just graduated highschool and am going to become a paramedic in january. Having a baby is so rewarding
I lost a baby at 16. I had intended on keeping the baby. But due to certain beliefs i do not condone abortion. However, if i had at that time felt i was not emotionally or mentally capable i would most definitely have given the child to a family who may not be able to have children of their own. 'adoption'.
And if they dont have jobs well then they’ll get one and if they want thier education then go get it. Its no ones say to how far they get....thats all in thier control. And if they want it they will get it. And seriously for people saying hmm i don’t think their mature enough or blah blah blah ......you dont know them....your not them and they're not you so who are you to say. Exactly your no one to say ....everyone is a separate individual. stop stereotyping. Good luck to them
. And about them not being able to achieve their goals....that’s dumb cuz again that completely up to the parent.if the parents want great life for them and their child regardless of their age' they will make it happen. Having a child is an amazing beautiful thing. stop making it into a negative.and most of all There is no teen parent or older parent.a parent is a parent, simple as that. It all depends on the type of people they are thats it.
Believe me i know too many people who are the "right age" and are horrible parents and should not be able to reproduce...and also know young people who are awesome parents and have great lives. And yes although there are stupid, selfish, immature, young parents out there its ignorant to think that all are like that. And as for saying if you have a child young your life is over...that’s in no one’s control but the parents.
Believe me i know too many people who are the "right age" and are horrible parents and should not be able to reproduce...and also know young people who are awesome parents. And yes although there are stupid, selfish, immature, young parents out there its ignorant to think that all are like that. And as for saying if you have a child young your life is over...that’s in no one’s control but the parents....gosh thats so ignorant
. it is soo freaken aggravating that having a child and being a parent to people now days is the worst possible thing that could happen to them...I’m sorry but that’s just disappointing. And its amazing how everyone has an opinion about something they know so little about, and about people they don’t even know. And to be honest its so stupid how people say that age depends on if you’re ready to be a parent.
Being a father of 12 kids and still paying child support on 5 I would not have given up on nun of them and if I could I would have ever one of them agen
Hypothetically the girl could go partial term, and since her hips are probably not fully developed, the baby gets stuck. This posses serious risks to fetus and Jess. So what now?
One Vote for Motherhood! 15-f-United Kingdom. You chose to have sex, you have to live with the consequences. BUT. Motherhood could be fantastic for her and she will achieve her goals because if you want it enough, you can get it. I wish Jessica all the best in her decision! God Bless :)
I know we're talking about jessica and all but where is the boyfriend in all of this? Is he just gonna back out? If so, he's a big fat C-O-W-A-R-D. He cant just escape his problem(s) or they will just end up coming back and smacking him hard in the face.
But this could be seen in another way. He could be forced by his parents not to have any contact with her ever again (which could also be against his will).
People need to take responsibility for their actions. I got pregnant when I was 16 with a guy that I had only been officially dating for a couple weeks. I was scared to death to tell him, as he was going back to his home country in Europe for university. When I told him, he was scared. But neither of us supported abortion or adoption. At the first ultrasound, he cried. Ever since then, he's been the best dad to his now 2 year old daughter. I wouldn't change a thing.
I don't believe that abortion is moral. How is it fair for you to refuse a life the chance to even begin for your own selfish gain. If you're ready to have sex, you're ready to deal with the possible consiquences. I believe she should take care of her child because, if she were to give up the baby for adoption, who's to say the child will go to a better home? Jessica may even do a better job of raising the baby than the adoptive parents.
Jessica should have the baby! She got herself in that situation and she should take the ressponsibility!!! This would be my option.. BUT.... if she CAN NOT care for the child, then give it up for adoption to people who ccan care for the child! Abortion is not an option in MY opinion!!
I would keep the baby.....but thats really just me.
Since i was i little girl i dreamed about having a family of my own.
I thought i was pregnant when i was 16 and i wanted to keep it. My mom was totally against it and wanted me to have an abortion. Yes it was false alarm.. I'm kind of glad it was coz i wanted to finish my education first but i was also really sad at the same time. I love kids. Now i know as soon as i'm done with College and i have the right man, Im going to be a MOM
Are you aware that you gave "not emotionally ready" as a consequence to keeping the child and giving it up for adoption, but didn't mention it as a consequence of abortion at all? I know you're a very left-leaning thinker, but you too often appear to assume the people you're talking to agree with you.
26, M, AZ, NO NO NO NO, i've seen this since i was 13, yes age 13 some of my friends ended up pregnant, you're not going to be ready, you're never really ready, but 15, no job, no education, no anything, with a dad who will beat you senseless by revealing that his daughter is pregnant? Call the ER.
no, no, no, abusive father...i don't think she may get the help she needs and will lose out on exploring all her options in this world. There are plenty of people who i think would adopt it
I'm still a virgin and don't plan on losing that any time soon, but if I did have sex and became pregnant, I would want to keep the baby. I am aware of all the challenges being a teen mother would bring me, but I also believe I am mature enough to handle such a situation. I would rather keep the baby and give it a loving, well-nurtured life than worry about my baby ending up in an abusive or neglectful children's home.
It would be great if she could have the child. Unfortunately, society today sees teen pregnancy as a bad thing and the teen mother is forced into a situation like a back alley abortion instead of the mother receiving support from other mothers in the community.
Based on your first video, it doesnt seem like college will do much for her anyway, so her not going is unimportant.
And as I said in the other video, she should kill her father.
this is the main choice of what earlier Christians would have said
and yet I have seen prolifers not even mention it ("adoption - the responsible option" - as if being a mom were not heard of and only other option were abortion) a bit like hypnotised people who cannot remember a digit until hypnotist snaps
Once you have a baby its a great joy and no real human being would ever give that up. However BEFORE you do you still have choices and owe it to yourself and the kids you will have years down the line to make yourself as good a parent as possible.
If that means delaying parenthood then so be it, your kids will thank you for it.
I almost had an abortion. .. 2 days away from my apointment I decided to keep my baby. Best decision I ever made. Babies bring more joy than anything you will ever know. The government helps with money... and if you breast feed which is free... it's great for the baby and you! You can never get that baby back once you throw it away... you will always remember the baby you chose to terminate. :(
A government doesn't help with money, Taxpayers do. If you would have had that Abortion, the tax dollars could have went to something more important, and your life would have been much more satisfying overall. You can get a baby back at any time as long as both partners are fertile. You just do what you did the first time!
@spilledinsanity , No I'm not saying I am happy we stayed together for seven months, I wish we never broke up. I am in no way happy that my son doesn't get stable parents, and that's not fair for him... But at this point, Roman is a very happy little boy and he's shown just as much love as a child with parents who are together, or parents who planned to have a child.
spilledinsanity , No I'm not saying I am happy we stayed together for seven months, I wish we never broke up. I am in no way happy that my son doesn't get stable parents, and that's not fair for him... But at this point, Roman is a very happy little boy and he's shown just as much love as a child with parents who are together, or parents who planned to have a child.
i believe in pro life, the baby is a living thing and imho abortion (cringes saying it) is killing a baby, and killing is wrong, how would you like it?! and at the end of the day this is her own flesh and blood, why would you choose to kill family?
20/F/UT I am voting this not for Jessica but because this is what I did. I had my first child at 17 and my second only days before I was 19. I chose to keep and raise my daughters because I thought I was old enough to have sex therefore I needed to take on the responsibility that it brought. These were the best decisions of my life. Having my children made me a stronger person and helped me gain courage to leave an abusive household. For them. Not for me.
I must say, my best friend's mom was 16 when she had him, and she kept him, and she's done nothing but abuse him. He's gay and she uses that as an excuse to be a horrible mother barely feeding him and verbally abusing him. I know this is not a common case, but I just want to put it out there that not every teen mom turns their life around for their child, or is sacrificing themselves for their kid. Some of them are just being selfish.
im sure most of the teen moms on here aren't much better either. If they come from an abusive household and didn't take the time to go through therapy before having a kid then they are most likely abusive themselves without even realizing it. It's definitely mainly selfish reasons why these type of people have children in the first place, they want to be seen as "righteous" in their own eyes and not have to actually face the reality of the situation.
My mom got pregnant with me when she was a teenager, she said that I completely turned her life around. Being a mom gave her the courage to get herself out of a bad situation and she says that if it weren't for me she wouldn't be here today. She was a single teen mom and had no help but she always pulled through for me, there was never a time I had to go without. Today she has a good job and is in a better place. I don't support teen pregnancy, but my mom's my hero.
@LissieIsAwesomee I'm very happy that she chose to keep me. She helped me become the strong, independent girl I am today. I'm very proud of her decision to grow up and take responsibility.
I honestly didn't want to pick an option, mainly because everyone should be able to make their ow choices. It's not my decision to make. Every action has its consequences, which must be dealt with by the acting party.
I think this is the option she should choose. It may be very difficult, but it could be a very rewarding experience, as well as giving her the life experience almost necessary to be a writer. I'm not saying she should have it for her writing, but instead I'm saying not to let the thought that having a child would get in the way of her writing influence her decision. Someone who asks for advice is someone who is smart and cares, so I know she won't be a bad mother.
@PrideXentric Woops, almost forgot. 16/F/Canada. My sister had a kid at 20 and brother had a kid at 20 as well. There's a 5-year age difference between them and Jessica, but my sister has been doing well in government jobs and has a decent sized apartment, and is not married and my brother makes his money working with the cars he loves, doing welding. He married a woman with 4 kids. I don't think anyone should place limits on her ability to raise a child without knowing her. Sorry I talk a lot.
@BowToMySkill we cant advance human kind if unfit parents are raising a bunch of idiot children either. those who are financially and emotionally ready to raise a child will probably not abort. your assumption that everyone will get abortions is totally bogus.
@boface187 all the intelligent career minded people don't have children, they abort or use birth control, but the idiots have kids anyway, so we are in effect, devolving, because the only people breeding, are idiots.
I had a baby when I was 15. I kept him. His father and I stayed together for seven months after he was born but when he went to university it kind of fell apart. Now he visits every other weekend. I'm doing well in school, on a path to graduate early. I have a boyfriend who Roman loves, we've been dating for almost a year. There's a downside though, mostly money. I work but never get to shop for me... kids are expensive. But to me, it's worth it. I can't imagine my life without my son.(:
you make it sound like it's all working out fine because you stayed together for 7 months. lollll. and yeah, i know YOU must feel good about it but it must suck for the kid.
This is screwed up. 15-year-old kids, with their undeveloped brains, have no business making babies. Sorry Kentuckians.
I'm not voting, because that's retarded. However, I know a successful Doctor with a great family who is unable to have any more children. He is desperately trying to adopt, but there is a supply problem and a long waiting list. The adoption option is often overlooked, but it's a great alternative to (A) living off welfare, or (B) Abortion. It puts kids in great homes.
A lot of people don't realize this, but the younger you are when giving birth, the more time that children get to have their mothers in their lives. My mother had me when she was 33, which is unfortunate.
There is actually A LOT of compelling research that shows that one of the primary reasons that the crime rate has gone down so much in the last 20 years is because abortion is legal in the US. Fewer unwanted babies means fewer babies growing up abused, neglected, OR GIVEN UP FOR ADOPTION, basically fewer crime-committing people because of better family planning. Look it up sometime, it's mind-blowing.
With out our children we have no future!!! If you do not think evey child, person, life, on earth does not make a difference. Consider your own life. Like it or not at some point in your life, you were an unborn child. Now If you do not value your own life, that is really sad. But to say another human life (no matter how small) does not deserve to live, is as absurd as saying Hitler is saint for ending millions of lives, then again mabey he did the world a real service! But what do I know!
ok so first off i need to say that i voted for this one cuz this is wat i would do if i were in this situation, and i came VERY close to it at one time. but for me this was the best option if it hadn't been just a scare. i've always wanted a family and at the time my boyfriend and i thought that we could handle it.. mind u we were 14... as i look back i've seen that we were wrong but even tho it woulnd't have been easy at all i really think that we could've made it work =)
Well since this has nothing to do with Jessica, but is talking about my own personal decision I would keep it. I wouldn't have put myself in her situation in the first place, but if I did I would keep it.
sorry. but in responce to her being at risk of punishment from her dad. she is not really in a position where adoption would get her out of hot water. and taking a life is fare worse than creating one..the deed is done live with it.
Too young to have a baby. There is WAY too many young girls havin' babies and dependin' on help from their parents and the gov. Adoption is the best option.
I'm voting for Become a Mom, for me personally, I'd feel the need to take responsibility of my actions and mistakes and I wouldn't be able to live with the regret of killing or giving away my child.
17/f/ Rhode Island, US I had my daughter almost eight months ago and I could not be happier with my choice even with every challenge I will say though if this is true an abusive household isn't the best place for a new baby
@supercrazyawesomewow so the fact that girls who are abused are far more likely to get pregnant at that age has no impact on your impulse to judge her from your ivory tower. awesome.
@supercrazyawesomewow and I say your a douchebag loser...so ya, Ha. She had sex with her boyfriend, they tried to use a domer and it happened to break, mistakes happen. Oh ya, your a douchebag.
@ajf1060 still giving it up at 15 either way. and I'm a douchebag? yeah, thats it, or maybe its because if i was a dad and my daughter got pregnant, id completely disown her and then find the idiot who got my daughter pregnant and beat his ass. I mean, her parents were obviously against them having sex, otherwise she would have been on the pill, and also, the boy probably forced her into having sex. I respect him if he is staying with her, but its still idiotic to get pregnant at 15
I may be a guy, but if my girlfriend was pregnant, I'd honestly like her to have the child. (If she wanted me to help decide) I would stick with her and this child for my life the same way any adult would or atleased should. I think it's right to leave someone with a child and especially when it's yours. Kids are supposed to be an amasing thing and I can't wait to experience it.
yes, the outcome being having to get an abortion. And that's a stupid philosophy, the responsibility that comes with sex is way less intense than what it takes to fully raise a child. That's why there is protection, so that sex doesn't have to mean babies.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and we had a pregnancy scare a couple months ago. We both talked about it and agreed that I could not get an abortion or put him/her up for adoption. I didn't end up being pregnant, but if I was I would have been a mom. That is just my choice, I think everyone should have the right to chose what happens to them and it's not fair when people say they are wrong for their choice. People should learn to love and stop hating. :)
If I were here, I would keep the baby. I decided to have sex so I also have to face the consequences. I can't give MY baby away or worse, kill it. Last summer, my boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other. After a lot of sex (lol), I got pregnant, but I didn't know it. I just knew I was having a miscarriage- worst back pain and the next day, I bled and I knew that was a baby. If I knew I was pregnant, I would've kept it :)
Though our lives are very different, I was pregnant at 15 and kept my son. He's 2 now and the absolute joy of my life. Yeah, It sucks somtimes... But To me worth it. (:
I don't know why anyone would vote for this option when it means that she could be beaten- don't they know that whatever happens to the mother happens to the fetus? It isn't very pro-life to ask a child to endure domestic violence that puts both her and the child at risk... if it were me, I'd abort. 15/F/Canada
I'm 15,boyfriend is 19. We lost our virginities to each other, We are still together. What i'm trying to say that just because she's pregnant does not make her a whore, or anything as to that. We've had sex 4 times and the last time we didn't use a condom, and I had the pregnancy scare. I told Kyle the moment I knew I missed my period and we agreed to keep it. I got my period a few days later, though. I think she should keep it, or at least adopt it out. It's a life, save it.
I'm voting abortion for the simple fact that there are already too many mouths for this world to feed, and if they need you and your subscribers making these decisions, they're clearly not fit to raise a child.
I've already been through this in real life. I chose to become a mother at 15. I'm now 16 and about to graduate high school over a year early. Anyone can do it! It's the most challenging thing I've ever been through in my life, but looking at my son fast asleep right now makes it all worth it :)
AzrealeInsanityxxxD 1 month ago
if they had sex then they should have to deal with the baby. why kill a child bcuz your an idiot?
puglit1 2 months ago
The only thing I know is that I as a 15 year old young man is that I could not be a good enough father to my children yet, and I'm most Likly going to have sex befor I'm ready to be a father. So early abortion seems like the best thing under the sitcom stances... And I do not say that easily or with any joy.
MrJero85 3 months ago
I only rated yes because you said what would I do. I would become a mother. As you said in the main video what Jessie does is her own choice, but I personally, would become a mother.
noveditzmee 3 months ago
@prevs24 that is the meanest and cruelest thing ur discosting
bandgeekxoxoawesome 4 months ago
The creepiest thing is that my name is jessica, im 15, i love poetry my first loves name was kevin and my household was that way.. CREEPY! execept im not pregnant
ayanneih 4 months ago
On the other hand, I am completly in favor of "ProChoice" and even though I do see a moral issue with abortion, I will not force my beliefs onto others. I believe that abortions should only be available for rape victims. But then there is a chance of another child lost in the adoption system. It really is a gamble, unless pre-marital/long term relationship sex is outlawed. lols
AnnabellaChase 5 months ago
I strongly believe that you should go into sex knowing the act is designed to create children, no matter what "protection" you use.If you are not ready for kids you shouldn't be having sex. No child should have to get lost in the system because of their parent's mistakes--they didn't ask to be created.
AnnabellaChase 5 months ago
Because of her abusive father, it would be dangerous for her to be pregnant as he could become violent towards he and seriously harm her and the baby before it's born causing her to miscarry or for the baby to be born with a mental or physical disability from harm in the womb. Even if the baby is born perfectly healthy, the father could also become abusive to her baby and since babies are so fragile he or she could be killed.
neoncrayon69 5 months ago
And if she did manage to get out of the abusive situation with her dad, it's still on the fence. I've known many people who have been in the foster care program after being taken from their abusive homes by the CPS. Only three of them had good experiences and were lucky enough to go into first a good group home and a stable foster home and one even became adopted by a lovely family. The rest had awful experiences going into only a different kind of abusive situation.
neoncrayon69 5 months ago
So it would be a huge gamble for her even then and would probably be best to abort the child. It's also why I don't fully support adoption. People always use the excuse, 'There are so many people who cannot have children who would love your baby.' Like there is suddenly a shortage of children who need to be adopted. When there are no children who need to be adopted, then I would agree. But most likely, this baby will be in a foster care program where it could so easily go into an abusive home.
neoncrayon69 5 months ago
When her dad finds out he would probably beat her & she'd end up miscarrying or in hospital. So if she wanted to keep it she'd have to find a new place to live.
witchbloodgirl 6 months ago
i think she should abort, i know that its hard, but a 15 year old shouldnt even have to go through the pregnancy.... if she had a better life she wouldnt be pregnant in the first place...
dottidee427 6 months ago
I vote this one to have the baby and keep it.I know that is what I would do.But dont worry, Im only 18.Tell you the truth,I dont think age has anything to do with a kid.Its all about the ability too and the willingness.I would never abort a baby, that is murder.I will never put it up for adoption, too many nights would I be sitting up worried sick thinking if they are being fed,changed, taken care, etc.Personaly if I was her,become a mother.Sometimes young moms, can be the best moms out there :)
DarkAngelWings101 7 months ago
@DarkAngelWings101 So a 12 year old who winds up pregnant would be "the best mom out there." Do you think a sixth grader who has never held a baby in her life could suddenly take care of one adequately? Be a mom? She doesn't know how to be a mom. The problem with teen pregnancies are that the family is burdened with taking care of another child because the teen is a child herself. It becomes a problem for more than just the teen mother, Thankfully there is abortion and adoption.
CrazyDayism 6 months ago 13
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KILL THE BABY WHEN ITS BORN
prevs24 7 months ago
Why are so many people disliking? She said to like for a vote not to dislike if you're not casting the vote. xD If she did i missed it.
thebeejudy 7 months ago
Childfree ftw!
Mokurentate 7 months ago
ppl are fuucking retarded.. when the fuck did she tell you guys to dislike
KillaNinja0 8 months ago
this is the best option..
ItstheAlexShow 8 months ago
I wouldn't kill a poor defenseless baby. I would keep the baby if I were responsible enough to have sex then I'm responsible to keep it. ant- abortion. But at the end of the day its up to the mom.
sullyluver1 8 months ago
@sullyluver1 Exactly. I am pro-choice simply cause what's best for me is not best for everyone else. And what is best for some may be worse for others. Like me for example, i have a lot of severe health conditions that i would not dare pass on to someone else, so i probably wouldn't keep it. But if you are responsible enough to handle the kid, I say kudos to you as well. Good for you for being mature enough when going into a sexual situation :)
Qt4life6179 7 months ago 3
13/f/Maryland
Itssydnieee 8 months ago
won* my bad
bookconsumption 8 months ago
Oh I know Jesse, don't worry she's a multi-millionaire, her kid turned out great, and she one an award in the guiness book of world records for highest long jump.
bookconsumption 8 months ago
she's 15.... what rewarding experience!!!
aznmaplemaster 8 months ago
Laci you liar! You saod you WOULD take your clothes off next time! LIES! Hahaha 12/boy/Sc
spotandtiggerbug 8 months ago
15/f/ga,usa
xxtinygirl73xx 8 months ago
15/M/RI,USA
hipeoplez009 8 months ago
20/f/CA,USA
Bananalovespj 8 months ago
14/M/Canada
FCK27 8 months ago
i choose you get naked
MrFluffay 8 months ago
you have an abusive dad in your household. is there anything more to point out?
Mr81points 8 months ago
13/f/Canada
NasaNerdAlert 8 months ago
If it weren't for the abusive father aspect of this whole issue, I'd say she could at least consider becoming a mom. However, I am afraid for both her and the child if she tells her dad about this... Unless she is able to stay at someone else's house during and after her pregnancy, I'd be really cautious about having a kid while living with an abusive parent.
blue4arekkusu 8 months ago
If she makes it out of high school alright, she could also probably go to college for little to no cost. I know a lot of women who got full tuition simply because they were young, single mothers.
Courti 8 months ago
21/F/Florida
HighClassEmergency 8 months ago
yeaaaa i would go with adoption. if this girl lives with an abusive dad rasing a kid would probably be a lot harder than most other teenaged moms. plus its not like she cant have a healthy realationship with the child once she gets out of college or whatever she plans to do with her life.
then again that fourth option where we just stare at each other is also very tempting. hmmm decisions decisions
Masamune7vii 8 months ago 28
17/m/ms, i vote for this becuz she would givin the baby a chance of living life, and the baby would know his/her mother and might no his/her father, also i dont even know my birth father and also i dont have any memory of what he look like :(
themagiclover123 8 months ago
FUCK KIDS! I WOULD SHOT ONE IN DA HEAD!
FriezaReturns00001 8 months ago
@FriezaReturns00001 dude u was a kid once
themagiclover123 8 months ago
I was a mom at 16 and it was the best decision I have ever made. I am a single mom of the happiest boy alive and I've never been happier. He is my reason to get up every day and my reason to stay clean. I have just graduated highschool and am going to become a paramedic in january. Having a baby is so rewarding
katie1hamilton 8 months ago
I lost a baby at 16. I had intended on keeping the baby. But due to certain beliefs i do not condone abortion. However, if i had at that time felt i was not emotionally or mentally capable i would most definitely have given the child to a family who may not be able to have children of their own. 'adoption'.
FionaaElizabeth 9 months ago
And if they dont have jobs well then they’ll get one and if they want thier education then go get it. Its no ones say to how far they get....thats all in thier control. And if they want it they will get it. And seriously for people saying hmm i don’t think their mature enough or blah blah blah ......you dont know them....your not them and they're not you so who are you to say. Exactly your no one to say ....everyone is a separate individual. stop stereotyping. Good luck to them
skiddlydoo222 9 months ago
. And about them not being able to achieve their goals....that’s dumb cuz again that completely up to the parent.if the parents want great life for them and their child regardless of their age' they will make it happen. Having a child is an amazing beautiful thing. stop making it into a negative.and most of all There is no teen parent or older parent.a parent is a parent, simple as that. It all depends on the type of people they are thats it.
skiddlydoo222 9 months ago
Believe me i know too many people who are the "right age" and are horrible parents and should not be able to reproduce...and also know young people who are awesome parents and have great lives. And yes although there are stupid, selfish, immature, young parents out there its ignorant to think that all are like that. And as for saying if you have a child young your life is over...that’s in no one’s control but the parents.
skiddlydoo222 9 months ago
Believe me i know too many people who are the "right age" and are horrible parents and should not be able to reproduce...and also know young people who are awesome parents. And yes although there are stupid, selfish, immature, young parents out there its ignorant to think that all are like that. And as for saying if you have a child young your life is over...that’s in no one’s control but the parents....gosh thats so ignorant
skiddlydoo222 9 months ago
. it is soo freaken aggravating that having a child and being a parent to people now days is the worst possible thing that could happen to them...I’m sorry but that’s just disappointing. And its amazing how everyone has an opinion about something they know so little about, and about people they don’t even know. And to be honest its so stupid how people say that age depends on if you’re ready to be a parent.
skiddlydoo222 9 months ago
Being a father of 12 kids and still paying child support on 5 I would not have given up on nun of them and if I could I would have ever one of them agen
onlyvz 9 months ago
aboooooort
17/f/chicago
hil0o0o0 9 months ago
Great videos you have going on! ur such a beautiful girl!!! dawm it take it off!!!!
bamzKid 9 months ago
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bamzKid 9 months ago
@digman2012 taxpayers money doesn't go to pay abortions. Fuck! it's already illegal/that's not what fucking PP does... Omg pissed off right now.
GoldennHawk 9 months ago
Hypothetically the girl could go partial term, and since her hips are probably not fully developed, the baby gets stuck. This posses serious risks to fetus and Jess. So what now?
GoldennHawk 9 months ago
o gosh, the 'abortion' choice has 7,200 likes while this one...1,188 and adoption only has 3,200 likes... goodness
JettisonRiviera 9 months ago
17-f-Canada
mzkimmyy 9 months ago
One Vote for Motherhood! 15-f-United Kingdom. You chose to have sex, you have to live with the consequences. BUT. Motherhood could be fantastic for her and she will achieve her goals because if you want it enough, you can get it. I wish Jessica all the best in her decision! God Bless :)
AnFailEpic 9 months ago
I know we're talking about jessica and all but where is the boyfriend in all of this? Is he just gonna back out? If so, he's a big fat C-O-W-A-R-D. He cant just escape his problem(s) or they will just end up coming back and smacking him hard in the face.
But this could be seen in another way. He could be forced by his parents not to have any contact with her ever again (which could also be against his will).
firesteako 9 months ago
16 - F - UK.
There are too many kids in adoption and foster homes (my aunt is a foster carer - i've grown up around this situation). She should abort it.
twinchomckeith 9 months ago
24 -F- CA, i hate the idea of having a child of my own! So i vote no way.
ApricotArtLover 9 months ago
18-female-canada
People need to take responsibility for their actions. I got pregnant when I was 16 with a guy that I had only been officially dating for a couple weeks. I was scared to death to tell him, as he was going back to his home country in Europe for university. When I told him, he was scared. But neither of us supported abortion or adoption. At the first ultrasound, he cried. Ever since then, he's been the best dad to his now 2 year old daughter. I wouldn't change a thing.
PortoGF 9 months ago
its kind of sad that the world we live in votes for the option that means taking the least amount of personal responsibility.
kelseyxrawrrr 9 months ago
16/f/Illinois
I don't believe that abortion is moral. How is it fair for you to refuse a life the chance to even begin for your own selfish gain. If you're ready to have sex, you're ready to deal with the possible consiquences. I believe she should take care of her child because, if she were to give up the baby for adoption, who's to say the child will go to a better home? Jessica may even do a better job of raising the baby than the adoptive parents.
deathbird1395 9 months ago
Jillean/ 23/ Rhode Island
Mother of an almost 3 year old!!
Jessica should have the baby! She got herself in that situation and she should take the ressponsibility!!! This would be my option.. BUT.... if she CAN NOT care for the child, then give it up for adoption to people who ccan care for the child! Abortion is not an option in MY opinion!!
Jsunsetsky87 9 months ago
15/f/California
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entchen1781989 9 months ago
21/f/GER
I would keep the baby.....but thats really just me.
Since i was i little girl i dreamed about having a family of my own.
I thought i was pregnant when i was 16 and i wanted to keep it. My mom was totally against it and wanted me to have an abortion. Yes it was false alarm.. I'm kind of glad it was coz i wanted to finish my education first but i was also really sad at the same time. I love kids. Now i know as soon as i'm done with College and i have the right man, Im going to be a MOM
entchen1781989 9 months ago
Are you aware that you gave "not emotionally ready" as a consequence to keeping the child and giving it up for adoption, but didn't mention it as a consequence of abortion at all? I know you're a very left-leaning thinker, but you too often appear to assume the people you're talking to agree with you.
billythehick 9 months ago
26, M, AZ, NO NO NO NO, i've seen this since i was 13, yes age 13 some of my friends ended up pregnant, you're not going to be ready, you're never really ready, but 15, no job, no education, no anything, with a dad who will beat you senseless by revealing that his daughter is pregnant? Call the ER.
thinkingjack 9 months ago
no, no, no, abusive father...i don't think she may get the help she needs and will lose out on exploring all her options in this world. There are plenty of people who i think would adopt it
tlwdssd 9 months ago
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? Why would you take your clothes off?
JohnCornnells 9 months ago
23/m/penn
sapereaude120 9 months ago
15/f/OR
I'm still a virgin and don't plan on losing that any time soon, but if I did have sex and became pregnant, I would want to keep the baby. I am aware of all the challenges being a teen mother would bring me, but I also believe I am mature enough to handle such a situation. I would rather keep the baby and give it a loving, well-nurtured life than worry about my baby ending up in an abusive or neglectful children's home.
ThePrudenceFish 9 months ago
19/f/tx
sarahiroa1 9 months ago
20/M/US
It would be great if she could have the child. Unfortunately, society today sees teen pregnancy as a bad thing and the teen mother is forced into a situation like a back alley abortion instead of the mother receiving support from other mothers in the community.
Based on your first video, it doesnt seem like college will do much for her anyway, so her not going is unimportant.
And as I said in the other video, she should kill her father.
kirby4d 9 months ago
Become a mother and find a new place to live.
aveburytree 9 months ago
20/f/canada
MsBatgirl19 9 months ago
this is the main choice of what earlier Christians would have said
and yet I have seen prolifers not even mention it ("adoption - the responsible option" - as if being a mom were not heard of and only other option were abortion) a bit like hypnotised people who cannot remember a digit until hypnotist snaps
hglundahl 9 months ago
like the victim here:
watch?v=QeQW3lnG5X8
hglundahl 9 months ago
Once you have a baby its a great joy and no real human being would ever give that up. However BEFORE you do you still have choices and owe it to yourself and the kids you will have years down the line to make yourself as good a parent as possible.
If that means delaying parenthood then so be it, your kids will thank you for it.
mechadamuramu 9 months ago
I almost had an abortion. .. 2 days away from my apointment I decided to keep my baby. Best decision I ever made. Babies bring more joy than anything you will ever know. The government helps with money... and if you breast feed which is free... it's great for the baby and you! You can never get that baby back once you throw it away... you will always remember the baby you chose to terminate. :(
melodymoreen 9 months ago
@melodymoreen
A government doesn't help with money, Taxpayers do. If you would have had that Abortion, the tax dollars could have went to something more important, and your life would have been much more satisfying overall. You can get a baby back at any time as long as both partners are fertile. You just do what you did the first time!
Digman2012 9 months ago
Why am I not surprised at 20 something yuppies all in favor of abortion?
amartin7889 9 months ago
19 female pittsburgh
ChelzIsYourLamo 9 months ago
Don't worry she will get her own TV show when she turns 16.
championonwheels 9 months ago 172
@spilledinsanity , No I'm not saying I am happy we stayed together for seven months, I wish we never broke up. I am in no way happy that my son doesn't get stable parents, and that's not fair for him... But at this point, Roman is a very happy little boy and he's shown just as much love as a child with parents who are together, or parents who planned to have a child.
123Shelbi 9 months ago
spilledinsanity , No I'm not saying I am happy we stayed together for seven months, I wish we never broke up. I am in no way happy that my son doesn't get stable parents, and that's not fair for him... But at this point, Roman is a very happy little boy and he's shown just as much love as a child with parents who are together, or parents who planned to have a child.
123Shelbi 9 months ago
16/f/nj I would not be able to give up my child. No matter how much it would mess up my life. And I couldn't kill it.
amanda513tkk 9 months ago
I think this choice should be chosen with lots of thought and prayer.. NOT by a voting on youtube...
vbgirl523 9 months ago
i believe in pro life, the baby is a living thing and imho abortion (cringes saying it) is killing a baby, and killing is wrong, how would you like it?! and at the end of the day this is her own flesh and blood, why would you choose to kill family?
coralsummer1993 9 months ago
20/F/UT I am voting this not for Jessica but because this is what I did. I had my first child at 17 and my second only days before I was 19. I chose to keep and raise my daughters because I thought I was old enough to have sex therefore I needed to take on the responsibility that it brought. These were the best decisions of my life. Having my children made me a stronger person and helped me gain courage to leave an abusive household. For them. Not for me.
brittanyangel321 9 months ago
I must say, my best friend's mom was 16 when she had him, and she kept him, and she's done nothing but abuse him. He's gay and she uses that as an excuse to be a horrible mother barely feeding him and verbally abusing him. I know this is not a common case, but I just want to put it out there that not every teen mom turns their life around for their child, or is sacrificing themselves for their kid. Some of them are just being selfish.
HayleyFaith 9 months ago 20
@HayleyFaith
im sure most of the teen moms on here aren't much better either. If they come from an abusive household and didn't take the time to go through therapy before having a kid then they are most likely abusive themselves without even realizing it. It's definitely mainly selfish reasons why these type of people have children in the first place, they want to be seen as "righteous" in their own eyes and not have to actually face the reality of the situation.
spilledinsanity 9 months ago
@HayleyFaith Agree agree!!
hislilpanda89 8 months ago
17/F/NY
My mom got pregnant with me when she was a teenager, she said that I completely turned her life around. Being a mom gave her the courage to get herself out of a bad situation and she says that if it weren't for me she wouldn't be here today. She was a single teen mom and had no help but she always pulled through for me, there was never a time I had to go without. Today she has a good job and is in a better place. I don't support teen pregnancy, but my mom's my hero.
LissieIsAwesomee 9 months ago
@LissieIsAwesomee I'm very happy that she chose to keep me. She helped me become the strong, independent girl I am today. I'm very proud of her decision to grow up and take responsibility.
LissieIsAwesomee 9 months ago
33/F/TN
I honestly didn't want to pick an option, mainly because everyone should be able to make their ow choices. It's not my decision to make. Every action has its consequences, which must be dealt with by the acting party.
PhreakPhantasia 9 months ago
I think this is the option she should choose. It may be very difficult, but it could be a very rewarding experience, as well as giving her the life experience almost necessary to be a writer. I'm not saying she should have it for her writing, but instead I'm saying not to let the thought that having a child would get in the way of her writing influence her decision. Someone who asks for advice is someone who is smart and cares, so I know she won't be a bad mother.
PrideXentric 9 months ago
@PrideXentric Woops, almost forgot. 16/F/Canada. My sister had a kid at 20 and brother had a kid at 20 as well. There's a 5-year age difference between them and Jessica, but my sister has been doing well in government jobs and has a decent sized apartment, and is not married and my brother makes his money working with the cars he loves, doing welding. He married a woman with 4 kids. I don't think anyone should place limits on her ability to raise a child without knowing her. Sorry I talk a lot.
PrideXentric 9 months ago
15 years old. Stopped right there.
Tiosh 9 months ago
lol at the dislikes
fumblebane 9 months ago
19/M/IN
defisnet 9 months ago
20/f/ohio
stacianne5491 9 months ago
how are we suppose to advance human kind if we all get abortions?
BowToMySkill 9 months ago
@BowToMySkill You dont abort every pregnancy just the ones were the mother dose not want to have it
Neeidea 9 months ago
@BowToMySkill we cant advance human kind if unfit parents are raising a bunch of idiot children either. those who are financially and emotionally ready to raise a child will probably not abort. your assumption that everyone will get abortions is totally bogus.
boface187 9 months ago
@boface187 all the intelligent career minded people don't have children, they abort or use birth control, but the idiots have kids anyway, so we are in effect, devolving, because the only people breeding, are idiots.
BowToMySkill 9 months ago
@BowToMySkill You do know we can now make babies in the lab now, right? You don't even need sperm, just egg. Or you don't need egg, just sperm.
Tiosh 9 months ago
wow....why so many dislikes....holy shit, people boggle my mind..
suberkin 9 months ago
"but i am not takin my cloths off this time" LOL
thepokigur 9 months ago
17/f/mo
I had a baby when I was 15. I kept him. His father and I stayed together for seven months after he was born but when he went to university it kind of fell apart. Now he visits every other weekend. I'm doing well in school, on a path to graduate early. I have a boyfriend who Roman loves, we've been dating for almost a year. There's a downside though, mostly money. I work but never get to shop for me... kids are expensive. But to me, it's worth it. I can't imagine my life without my son.(:
123Shelbi 9 months ago 54
@123Shelbi
you make it sound like it's all working out fine because you stayed together for 7 months. lollll. and yeah, i know YOU must feel good about it but it must suck for the kid.
spilledinsanity 9 months ago
This is screwed up. 15-year-old kids, with their undeveloped brains, have no business making babies. Sorry Kentuckians.
I'm not voting, because that's retarded. However, I know a successful Doctor with a great family who is unable to have any more children. He is desperately trying to adopt, but there is a supply problem and a long waiting list. The adoption option is often overlooked, but it's a great alternative to (A) living off welfare, or (B) Abortion. It puts kids in great homes.
mrman26 9 months ago
And wtf 15 already pregnant?
When I was 15 I was playing football/piano and stuff.
NerdGamerx 9 months ago
18/m/for me to know
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if you need opinion from ppl on the web then u cant possibly raise a child
NerdGamerx 9 months ago
For me this would be the way to go.
1010Bonnita 9 months ago
A lot of people don't realize this, but the younger you are when giving birth, the more time that children get to have their mothers in their lives. My mother had me when she was 33, which is unfortunate.
discountbacon 9 months ago
19/F/Canada
The child has no fault for the parents foolish mistake.
ObscurusRaptus 9 months ago
your hands and arms are so fat ! ur really pretty tho
02sprinkles 9 months ago
Tramp is 15... Shouldnt have been having sex keep it
MadBadger 9 months ago
15/f/Canada
Birthofanotion 9 months ago
21/f/USA/FL
xbabiexbuux 9 months ago
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There is actually A LOT of compelling research that shows that one of the primary reasons that the crime rate has gone down so much in the last 20 years is because abortion is legal in the US. Fewer unwanted babies means fewer babies growing up abused, neglected, OR GIVEN UP FOR ADOPTION, basically fewer crime-committing people because of better family planning. Look it up sometime, it's mind-blowing.
cabsmellokub79 9 months ago
With out our children we have no future!!! If you do not think evey child, person, life, on earth does not make a difference. Consider your own life. Like it or not at some point in your life, you were an unborn child. Now If you do not value your own life, that is really sad. But to say another human life (no matter how small) does not deserve to live, is as absurd as saying Hitler is saint for ending millions of lives, then again mabey he did the world a real service! But what do I know!
whathelloh 9 months ago
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whathelloh 9 months ago
20, F, Dallas, Tx
ok so first off i need to say that i voted for this one cuz this is wat i would do if i were in this situation, and i came VERY close to it at one time. but for me this was the best option if it hadn't been just a scare. i've always wanted a family and at the time my boyfriend and i thought that we could handle it.. mind u we were 14... as i look back i've seen that we were wrong but even tho it woulnd't have been easy at all i really think that we could've made it work =)
lezzy09 9 months ago
wait.... wer is the video wen she took off her clothes!!!!
itsthatcoolguy23 9 months ago
woah, where'd the abusive father come from all the sudden? i thought this was supposed to be kind of a general thing, i guess not.
TomWardMusic 9 months ago
Well since this has nothing to do with Jessica, but is talking about my own personal decision I would keep it. I wouldn't have put myself in her situation in the first place, but if I did I would keep it.
28/m/california
baysickleebuck 9 months ago
41/M/Mass
hillbilly007bond 9 months ago
20;f;indiana.
danniexmassacrex 9 months ago
15 F Washington
LunaAyaname 9 months ago
how the hell can a 15 year old be a mum, COME ON.
mossyburger 9 months ago 2
@mossyburger dude, I live in LA, there's five chick or more in my high school who are prego and a but fuck load who are already moms
xXFoxyGrandmaXx 9 months ago
sorry. but in responce to her being at risk of punishment from her dad. she is not really in a position where adoption would get her out of hot water. and taking a life is fare worse than creating one..the deed is done live with it.
Harrysativa 9 months ago
18/f/Illinois I'm pro-choice, but I'm just voting for what I would do in Jessica's situation ..I'll have the baby no matter what.
Niquey92 9 months ago
24/F/North Carolina.
happywilkie 9 months ago
15/F/OH
RKLove14 9 months ago
Too young to have a baby. There is WAY too many young girls havin' babies and dependin' on help from their parents and the gov. Adoption is the best option.
TazDiablo50 9 months ago
Flush the little polywog down the drain. The planet is too crowded.
chikdada 9 months ago
I'm voting for Become a Mom, for me personally, I'd feel the need to take responsibility of my actions and mistakes and I wouldn't be able to live with the regret of killing or giving away my child.
19 /F/ Florida
missfobsessive 9 months ago
17/f/ Rhode Island, US I had my daughter almost eight months ago and I could not be happier with my choice even with every challenge I will say though if this is true an abusive household isn't the best place for a new baby
alexzmikey323 9 months ago
i say that a 15 year old who got pregnant is a whore
supercrazyawesomewow 9 months ago
@supercrazyawesomewow so the fact that girls who are abused are far more likely to get pregnant at that age has no impact on your impulse to judge her from your ivory tower. awesome.
Heligoland43 9 months ago
@supercrazyawesomewow and I say your a douchebag loser...so ya, Ha. She had sex with her boyfriend, they tried to use a domer and it happened to break, mistakes happen. Oh ya, your a douchebag.
ajf1060 9 months ago
@ajf1060 still giving it up at 15 either way. and I'm a douchebag? yeah, thats it, or maybe its because if i was a dad and my daughter got pregnant, id completely disown her and then find the idiot who got my daughter pregnant and beat his ass. I mean, her parents were obviously against them having sex, otherwise she would have been on the pill, and also, the boy probably forced her into having sex. I respect him if he is staying with her, but its still idiotic to get pregnant at 15
supercrazyawesomewow 8 months ago
(24/f/canada) I was a teen mom, who went to college. I say be a MOM. best thing I ever did.
shosegood 9 months ago
I may be a guy, but if my girlfriend was pregnant, I'd honestly like her to have the child. (If she wanted me to help decide) I would stick with her and this child for my life the same way any adult would or atleased should. I think it's right to leave someone with a child and especially when it's yours. Kids are supposed to be an amasing thing and I can't wait to experience it.
Kinesis17 9 months ago
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Tetrahedragon2 9 months ago
25/F/Detroit, MI (Mother of 1, and 1 on the way)
mandiii04 9 months ago
if you need any help getting pregnant hit me up
chapstickfantasy 9 months ago
Abort please. dont ruin a teenager girl and a childs life, its not fair.
SuperMrsnowman 9 months ago
@NeonTeddyBear100 I'm pretty sure the girl will make her own decision and not base her life on what a bunch of youtubers have to say.
CoyoteSly 9 months ago
22/F/Can.
CoyoteSly 9 months ago
20/f/usa
megcombb 9 months ago
15/F/Can.
If i were her i would not be able to give up my baby..I don't believe in abortion other than in the case of rape.
i think if you choose to have sex you should be ready for any outcome that might happen.
You shouldn't have sex if your not educated on the matter either.
Jazzie21569 9 months ago
@Jazzie21569
yes, the outcome being having to get an abortion. And that's a stupid philosophy, the responsibility that comes with sex is way less intense than what it takes to fully raise a child. That's why there is protection, so that sex doesn't have to mean babies.
spilledinsanity 9 months ago
abortion obviously. last thing earth needs is 2 more stupid teens having a stupid baby...
TaoriUTS 9 months ago
17/F/Can.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and we had a pregnancy scare a couple months ago. We both talked about it and agreed that I could not get an abortion or put him/her up for adoption. I didn't end up being pregnant, but if I was I would have been a mom. That is just my choice, I think everyone should have the right to chose what happens to them and it's not fair when people say they are wrong for their choice. People should learn to love and stop hating. :)
21694amber 9 months ago
whats with all the dislikes? seriously people...
McScreamo 9 months ago
16/M/US
LPwonder2008 9 months ago
16/F/AB
If I were here, I would keep the baby. I decided to have sex so I also have to face the consequences. I can't give MY baby away or worse, kill it. Last summer, my boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other. After a lot of sex (lol), I got pregnant, but I didn't know it. I just knew I was having a miscarriage- worst back pain and the next day, I bled and I knew that was a baby. If I knew I was pregnant, I would've kept it :)
ItsErickaa 9 months ago
Though our lives are very different, I was pregnant at 15 and kept my son. He's 2 now and the absolute joy of my life. Yeah, It sucks somtimes... But To me worth it. (:
123Shelbi 9 months ago
19/F/TN
I just don't think I, personally, could give up my baby. But I hope Jessica chooses what works for her.
ashPTERODACTYL 9 months ago
I don't know why anyone would vote for this option when it means that she could be beaten- don't they know that whatever happens to the mother happens to the fetus? It isn't very pro-life to ask a child to endure domestic violence that puts both her and the child at risk... if it were me, I'd abort. 15/F/Canada
JannaBanana552 9 months ago
15/f/usa
I'm 15,boyfriend is 19. We lost our virginities to each other, We are still together. What i'm trying to say that just because she's pregnant does not make her a whore, or anything as to that. We've had sex 4 times and the last time we didn't use a condom, and I had the pregnancy scare. I told Kyle the moment I knew I missed my period and we agreed to keep it. I got my period a few days later, though. I think she should keep it, or at least adopt it out. It's a life, save it.
DC1996 9 months ago
I'm voting abortion for the simple fact that there are already too many mouths for this world to feed, and if they need you and your subscribers making these decisions, they're clearly not fit to raise a child.
NewAgedRage 9 months ago 50
@NewAgedRage its killing an innocent child
TheAshley123457 9 months ago