NOT ALL MEN ARE DOGS Stop complaining and focus on yourself

[1Hero411]

@MANSMINDvsWOMEN Thank you.

[suivatra123]

@shebphenominal: your just mad because the good men don't like you so your stuck with the (few) losers, grow some ovaries and actually look instead of talking out your ass because good men are allergic to bull shit so we stay away.

[Obamacain9]

Oprah,Michele Obama - Watch Out! - This sistr has by far got to be the mst intelligent young ldy that I have heard from in a lng time, especially on the topic of Men ! - Girl friend,are you married ? - Ldies Did you HEAR what she said ? - Alwys rember that you have the Pwer to chge the " all men our Dogs dynamic" by ding exactly what this sistr said. Also realize that the only Rson to get into a rtionship with a man is for lve and Cpanionship. Not Finac Sup - Nevr look for a Man to cplete you!

[Francojacko]

Well its GREAT to Hear this From a WOMAN........... Cuz ALL MEN arent dogs..... Some Women are Also.. and You know what they call Female Dogs?? hahaha

[mrcjrowe]

BRILLIANT !

It's about TIME a woman spoke the truth about other women because SEXISM is like racism, it works both ways. This video should be played in church every Sunday, and in school 5 days a week, and played again after every tv soap lol

On a real: Society needs videos like this because it creates a BALANCE and EQUAL respect, which is desperately need, between the two sexes. A house divided by itself will not stand, and we have to think about the next generation unless we are WICKED !

[krissy0789]

Title speaks for itself!

[MrUnique1983]

Seriously you need to get on Tagged.com and shut these women up stating there's no good men I'm about to post your video on my tagged page so that they can see what the hell you are talking about and basically I know you are married so if the husband is reading this with you bro..... IF YOU FUCK UP WITH HER I SWEAR TO EVERYTHING I LOVE I WOULD SHAKE YA HAND BOUNCE AND GET AT HER CAUSE SHE IS THE PERFECT WOMAN KEEP HER IN CUSTODY " HAND CUFFS"

[humbleman9]

In Brazil, women always say the same shit (all good men are gay or they are already married and blablabla), yet they say that we (men) are the ones who are the same.

In the whole world they (women) say the same bullshit. They are the same.

[makpak]

i aint no dog but WOOOF! Shes is fiiiiiiine.

[1548207]

My husband is handsome, attractive and women are always throwing themselves at him. I am low maintanance, my husband makes good money I have a part time job. My husband is a great father I punish my kids. My husband is very nice and humble I am a bitch really out of shape I like to drink and stay up late. But one thing we do have in common is that we love each other. I don't know what he sees in me but I feel like the luckiest woman on earth + we have 2 beautiful kids that look just like him.

[MANSMINDvsWOMEN]

@1548207 i guess you are in support of the video. go to my site and read mans mind.. interesting topics on what men think...

[MANSMINDvsWOMEN]

wow. ok i just seen all these posts on my video... i am writing an online series called mans mind vs women. which just kina gives a hint @ what men want. its funny and witty check it out @ ndavidk.com or follow me on twitter @ndavidkdotcom

[shebphenomenal]

ALL men are dogs!!!

[djzeez221]

@shebphenomenal Your just a F00L

[YourDailyNow]

you are making good points. I think you will give some sincere woman a moment of pause. Only those who are ready to make a change will listen. You are telling the truth. However, most people are not willing to make a change. It is easier just to complain.

[WillGotti]

It's ironic that women can call men dogs and get away with it but men can't call women bitches. If you look up what a male dog is called, it's a dog. A female dog is a bitch. So basically society has deemed it taboo for one and not the other. In this situation what's good for the goose isn't good for the gander. I know we shouldn't call each other names but we're just calling each other the gender category. Just like a female chicken is a hen and a male a rooster. Double standards.

[BENZCLS5]

I wish there where more black women like you around today..

[lit26]

"whatever it is that you're doing thats probably the kind of man that you have" love that!

[lit26]

LOVE THIS!!! doing a video response if you dont mind

[PoweredByHotshot]

Hand clap for this woman. I've been telling women that for years. Don't require something from someone you can't not produce yourself. Just don't add up and not equal. People forget it takes a diamond to cut a diamond.

[foreheadboy]

Her comment was pretty much simple and very plain.But what do you expect.....it is simple and plain when it comes to a relationship.

Most women ...( which are many ) wants to eat out of a beautiful plate.But a beautiful plate does not mean it will feed you properly with healthy food.Black people don't see black couples around them anymore which leads to individualism.You don't get inspired by it anymore nope..it's those sitcoms and hollywood.

Well,this woman in the video sounds conscious to me.

[capncunl]

DAMN!!!!!! AND SHE IS FINE TOO??? Will you marry me???

[capncunl]

Damn AND SHE IS FINE TOO??????????? SHEEEEESH!

[DASHANE19]

I respect this woman I need to show this to certain girls because dem ah gwan chupid 

[cyndan]

The healing process for BW and BM will have to become a collective effort with the obliteration of finger pointing i.e. the blame game. I have an issue with both BW and BM who try to justify their disdain for one another because on what someone ELSE did to them in a previous relationship, and let's be honest, not everyone who claims to be the victim of circumstances are completely innocent. In other words: learn from the past, evolve as a person, and make better decisions that are conducive.

[hitandrun1212]

She's pretty an intelligent, i would do her anytime anyday lol..

[tonkaaaaa]

This woman in the video speaks the truth, she is the real deal only wish there were more like her in the world.

[nativemrv19722]

This woman has plenty of real sense. Women have to high a goal maybe all that glammer isn't for everyone. If it's for you i believe you will get it. If it's not you won't have it.

[Linklex7]

Thank you.  You are definitely a true Strong Black Woman. Take note of this ladies, this is how you act. I wish you the best and hope that one day you find the man who will treat you wonderfully, if you haven't already.

[Moofus97]

Oh i love this woman!!!!!!!!!!!

[5h4ggyDr34d]

She is smart pretty and strong!

Need more beautiful, strong, black women like this!!

<3

Love what she says

[Precipitashin]

The complete truth!! Get your life together!! Then get a partner...

[YoungHussainYTV]

i real realy like this women she is very smart and clever!!!

[Patti326]

3 women thinks that men are dogs...you should be ashamed of yourselves and she's telling the truth read between the lines and stop being selfish and bitter and drag a good man to the dirt in your next relationship because you think he's like your ex

[lamentate07]

Attractive, intelligent, level headed and realistic. What's the catch? ;-) j/k.

thanks for sharing your views.

[IFCSAT]

You are awesome, amazing and extremely intelligent. As a man it hurts to hear women says that all men are dogs etc. But it all comes from a hurt place. If only your mind could be reproduced and placed in so many other women that are hating men. I wish you all the happiness! We need more women in the world like you! Thank you for posting this!

[eatyourroses]

Look at who's talking..... haha! To be honest, if a man wants you, he proves it. As soon as I look at you I think, pretty girl. Funny how all the women who got the physical card in tact (men are visual) start talking about how their personality pulled the guy. I am not knocking you, i am just saying my truth. Matters of the heart are more then following rules, and you know even if somebody did all the things you said, if the chemistry isn't there somebody is going to want to exit.

[Sirblackstallion9891]

hello ladies im a good man and im single and looking anybody wanna talk im here im 5'4 toned and future boxing and mma champ

[giftednurse9]

I hope to God no man ever hurt you....There are good men out there but there are some who play on your innocence. There are many who pretend to be good then later in the relationship they become monsters. There is no perfect remedy for finding or keeping a good man. As you mentioned, one has to love herself first! This is very important. If you love yourself first, you will know what you do not want in your life. Preach it girlie!

[Defiant359]

Very well said.... It starts with The Law of Attraction. Be the change you wish to desire in the world or for yourself. (Paraphrased qoute by Gandi) Enjoy life. 8-)

[88blossom]

so true

[americasfirstking]

I'm a good man now. I use to be the master of cheating, lies and deceit. I gave every woman what they wanted and I loved them all and I guess they all loved me. That is my past but I am retired now. No man's past is equal to his future and no man's future can be predicted by his past.

[ThePennyPincher]

I really liked this video! This is a woman who KNOWS what men see out there. I went from a $9.50 an hour job, broke and busting my ass to get ahead, when women wouldn't even look at me. Now (12 years later) I'm pulling in $150,000 a year driving a Mercedes Kompressor, own my own home, and don't owe a penny of debt. I see a lot of gold diggers and women looking for an easy ride, but I decided to have a lover in France. They're more fun, more loyal, and do their part when it comes to the tab.

[Smokey46312]

I love it!!!!

[Douggy10]

AAAHH GIRL!!!!!! im feeling her words.. thank you thank you thank you!!!

BTW, you are very beautiful!

[kevinjictvtv]

Yes, I am and I have been single for a longtime, why?

[originalwhitefolks]

Love it! ...If all men are dogs ... What catagory does the women who f*@k them fall into?

IF YOU WALK WITH LAMES... YOU WILL LIMP !!!

[tpatterson0]

@originalwhitefolks lol nice

[HOODYWOODRECORDS]

Finally!!! a Woman who is guided by logic and common sense and rejects the hypocrisy espouse by so many Females. Thank you for this video!

[jazzynlala]

On point sista...definately on point

[mssquirrely]

Good!! cause I'm sooooooo tired of hearing b/women bash b/men, we have to get it 2gether like you said, work on ourselves in every positive aspect of the word & the rest WILL FOLLOW

Nice Post!

[LER77]

Black Men and Women both need to learn how to look for a companion who complements them. Raise the bar, by searching for a Husband or Wife as opposed to a girlfriend or boyfriend. If your blessed to find that person appreciate them. Don't take a person's kindness for weakness.

[demoshe2002]

Can someone admit that we just looking at the jugz..lol

[MrSFblack]

thanks sistah,many more women need to here what u just said.they claim to want a good black man but normally go for trifflin' ass niggas for shallow reasons,what since does that make?those sistahs need to look inward n re-evaluate their own priorities,good black men love a good black woman wit her shit together not a drama queen.

[79563RUB]

dam good point sistah

[ichoose2bhappy]

what is the name of the paint on the wall behind you? that color is fab.

[JoPtoDiWorld]

you look like Beyonce =O

[fmcneillii]

@JoPtoDiWorld Beyonce really? Are you sure you not just saying that because she's light complexioned? Her features are NOTHING like Beyonce, Beyonce aint nearly as fine.

[Bullseye2012]

Wow! You look so so so much like my last EX that I really thought you were her at first. If she'd of had YOUR attitude we'd be married today. But because of her atypical ATTITUDE and anger management issues I eventually dumped her. Now I'm ecstatically married to a beautiful and super sensitive Dominican woman.

She is submissive and calls me her King and her "daddy sweetie". This is why she is my Queen and I give her the world. I'd gladly die for my wife. SHE 'get's it' ...many AA women don't!

[DavidandI2]

please walk into my life lol

I'm here I'm here

btw I am so glad you started this vid while standing up

omg I am resembling a dog

I'm so sorry lol

[jjjeeerrreeemmmyyy]

Even With The Crappy Video Quality, You're Still Gorgeous Misses.

(:

[ThugWabbit]

When the Queen is ready the King Will appear!!!! nais!

[mehtarahul19]

thats what ive been trying to say......you need to throw a seminar in toronto...its bad here.....

[KILLDOG08]

Very well say

[TheRodPierre]

where have you been all my life!? But you speak the truth. It goes for men as well, though: whatever you want in someone else you should be worthy of it, not in your MIND, but truly making an effort in your life. Thanks! You're a guru!

[honeyluv15]

I subscribed!! I tell my girls this all the time!!

[cbrown1084]

continued- That is why I keep hearing women's complaints about why men "aint shit" and men believe women "are bitches". I, personally,do not believe that all women are clueless and willing to choose "thug" men. However it is clear,through my experience, that women have that tendency of believing that about men, but on the other hand, tolerate their company to the point of forming friendships and beyond.

[cbrown1084]

great vid. However, as a BM, I have trouble keeping a relationship with both genders. I' am always complemented on being a nice person, but because I don't carry myself as a selfish, thuggish, drama-addicted outspoken being, I get left alone and ignored. It is great that you believe that not all men are dogs, but the social climate in the BC usually favors those who are more likely to have troublesome and ignorant personalities.

[TWN321]

You are exceptionally beautiful!! If only you were my type... ahh well..

[totaljett]

The sad part is there are not many women that have this insight. Most women are on the same wavelength of reasoning that's not logical. I give 5 stars to this beautiful sista of higher conciousness.

[mistanderson]

*standing ovation* Thank You THANK YOU. I like what you said. Its crazy that women had bfs every year or after every breakup and never got a chance to straighten up themselves. Some women don't know who they are.

[beba42603]

Amen mami this is truth!!!

[eastwood2414]

Great point! Glad to see someone think outside the box. Keep doing your thing.

[thadynastyrecords]

amen

[vgachupin]

So true, finally i hear a woman say something like this! I always hear a woman say " this is what a man's gotta do to impress me..." . For once i'd like to hear a woman say "this is what i'm gonna do to impress/keep a man..." ! Thank you ms Sykes

[MrHustleALot]

As a young black male, I agree with you on so many levels!! You seem like a sista who got her head on straight!! And kinda pretty I must admit. I could see myself dating a woman of your caliber. We'd vibe with each other real good.

[komjong]

this is Beyonces middle sister

[BronxCubans]

Blah blah blah lol yap yap yap can you just shut up in let us look at you. Your breath taking, but your ruining it with all that talkn. Real reason why most men are dogs, because you women allow us to be, and you talk to much lol yeah thats it ha ha.

[FlatbushShottas]

Oooh! You are one sweet looking woman.

[WalkingtheWalk1]

Hello I think you are doing some great things int he life of women and men. You are a God send to me. What I would love to see you do a video on are two things. Why after a woman have been hurt, and the meet what is clearly a great Godly man, why do they try to make that great man that has it together pay for what the bad ones has done to them. I would love to see a video on that. Thanks for all of your great videos. You have no idea how God is really using you.

[MistaChubbz1]

Preach! Thank you!

[JAYBOOGIE2278]

you look like beyonce'......

[eviljoker18]

@JAYBOOGIE2278 she does too

[mizkaterpyl]

you are a very beautiful lady. I love your hairdo..this is wat makes me want to cut my hair and rock a similar hairdo!!!

[lemmieatit]

Hot broad. And I love the hair

[prattvillepanthers]

I love your hair, thanks for not putting a long fake weave in. I wish that more black women would go the natural and neat route.

[Jaylethal777]

wow she bad as hell who is this

[Leemason39]

I believe black women,specially beautiful black women can be unapproachable,lot are very angry and bitter from past relationships. Good men arent really given a chance,if a women feels he is a good guy,she will take that he is weak,and most go for the thug type that they later complain about treating them bad

[thedweller]

who is this? she's got it all figured out!

[theultimatepimp45]

well said

[cgats777]

marry me! LOL nah seriously .. man this young lady is preachin!  tell it!

[bz204q]

this is a beautiful woman a woman from the Lord

[stlrider2005]

preach sista!

[TRINIBOY411]

Did a women make a video about things that alot of women do that are wrong. AMAZING. I need to find more.

[jplong18]

wow thx, good view, i like every thing you said, i hope it change the looks of all men. good job! ^^

[tbursee]

Wow, finally a black woman that has her head on right. I'm a single 40 year old professional brother in Atlanta, never married no kids. women assume that since I'm 40 and single , there must be something wrong, when on the contrary , is just means a lot is right.You see Coke can find a new janitor a lot easier than a new CEO. The bible says to whom much is given , nuch is required. An intelligent , articulate, handsome mild mannered brother full of love and character wont settle for anything.

[DucatiChica]

Good point made to women to get themselves together but the facts speak for itself. BTW, you are beautiful!

[DucatiChica]

Good point made to women but it is a fact that men are as faithful as their options and according to statistics, 1 in 4 men married or cohabiting cheat.

[goodmood3]

nice knockers

[hemsyyy]

you have a point buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut the good men like tiger cheat too

[sshatchell]

Men in general have a reputation. Maybe some more than others. But you have to know the right places to look. Church is a good one. Yet the big point is you have to sell what you want to buy. And the alternative that I see so many women doing is throwing themselves at married men because they know what they are getting and won't be disappointed initially. You have to stay positive, because if a man does leave a wife for his mistress. He's leaving a job opening!

[MsBrown282]

ur so right tru..n ur very beautiful

[insanecaine]

You're very beautiful.

[cesarfashion]

" I applause you...nicely said..""

[lostlenore]

Bravo! Thank you for recording and posting this.

[ClevelandTigersVB5]

"when the queen is ready, the king will appear" i loved that line and you make so much sense. its nice to know smart, strong, beautiful women like yu exist in the world. good for you

[nixx03]

great advice and so true :)

[niabdir]

this shanel cooper. i love her book.

[kendell132]

*how about a round of applause? thanks for making this video!!! very intelligent woman

[honeyluv15]

@kendell132 Well said!! I agree!

[bridoboy]

come to glasgow and a will show u a gd time ya milf

[EyeWearMySunglasses]

wtf is wrong wit u dudes???? she aint sayin nuthin that aint been said a Billilion times before!!

[therawcritique]

CHECK OUT MY SHOW: THE RAW CRITIQUE

Similar context to what this girl is saying!!

Preach it girl, I couldn't have said it better myself.

[kellee2008]

PREACH!!! I sent this to friends who need to hear this!

[insightforlife]

Hallelujah!!! Nuff Said, My Goodness. Singing my life with her words. Killing me softly with her song!!! OMG If I see you i'm kissing your feet!

[gm1love]

thank you for taking time out to express the truth. women know women and its better that, that came from a woman, rather than from a man. i will say this, the key is not necessarily loving yourself. thats very important but the true key is loving God with all of your heart. He knows exactly what and who you need. i posted a video in response, mafia music music remix gm. enjoy.  i speak the truth all day, every day. fyi, you are beautiful:)

[tradeup1]

Man thats real. women say that all the time the they want a God fearing manand spititually grounded, but like she said in the video at 1"43 ..."when was the last time you prayed... Thats real talk there!!!

[mbcaston]

TRU STORY

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[ruddiato]

honestly,im so glad hearing coming from a woman,i think i could cry,lol. like fo real,she's on point with it

[portia2727]

ALL MEN ARE DOGS!

[lucandraws]

Truth! A classic case (but a more serious one ) of 'be the change you want to see'. Even though she speak to the ladies, my brothers it goes for us too.

[newgpie]

Coming for a guy, Thank you. And your hot

[lluviamicaela]

Your video is right on....

[blklacquer]

good video!

[kingssecurity]

What is her name?

[kingssecurity]

She is so true and actually beautiful and seems as if she has it together. She understands a key secret we get what we give

[michaelwakes]

Good word....

[tamaradaluvgoddess]

I agree with her! There some good brothas out there!

[BruhMan09]

Great video!!! There are plenty of mature, responsible, hard-working, decent, and reliable all around good black guys. However, if these guys aren't into drama and petty non-sense some black women call these guys CORNY and BORING!!!

[mmcclain91]

so very true, unfortunately some women have a false sense of entitlement which disables from meeting their desired "man".

[HDego]

Wow she is so hot!..holla at me! :-)