How can I emotionally detach myself from my boyfriend and the relationship? It hurts me mentally and emotionally being in love with someone who doesn't seem to be all that serious about me or the relationship. I just want to feel free, I want to be happy and the only way I believe I will be able to accomplish this is by not being emotionally attached to him. I don't want to hate him or anything, I just want to have the carefree attitude that if it works, ok, if not, it's still ok.
~ The person whose mind is always free from attachment, who has subdued the mind and senses, and who is free from desires, attains the supreme perfection of freedom from Karma through renunciation. ~
Someone said you were too flamboyant to be taken serious. Let me first say, thats the stupidest shit ive ever heard. Secondly id like to say i like it :)
OK Davey Wavey. Your talking about Mandalas and the Bhagavad Gita of which I have both sitting here beside me. Your thoughts on detachment insightful. I am also a Friend on your myspace. I have Mandalas on there. Oh BTW you must have a Million Videos.
If you haven't seen it yet, you need to see Little Buddha. It shows the Buddhist way without being 'in your face' about it. I personally love the film.
I'm not prejudice, just way too flamboiant to take seriously. im sorry. i couldnt help but laugh. i own a copy of the gita, i enjoyed half of your message i get the idea. keep up the good work.
Thanks for your comment. How do you know God is a man-made theory? Can you prove it? If I'm wrong to believe in God then I may look silly. But if God exists then I haven;t lost anything, only gained wisdom. I tried not to believe once but positive thinking will only ever get you so far. New age notions about the universe etc just leave me cold. If we're here by some random coincidence, then there's no meaning to life whatsoever. I dont believe that. I'll take my chances.
I like the theory of detatchment. Is it a theory? Anyway I feel having the skill is it a skill? or ability of detatchment is a great tool to possess. Maybe it's more about controlling and having the ability to take everything in life in moderation and not go overboard. Well those are my thoughts ae.
Dave, if people are detatched how can we show compassion for others who are lost, suffering or in pain? We should be walking in love not detatchment. The world needs love. People need love, and to re-connect to the unconditonal love of God, not the universe or any other idea or man made theory - none of that self-help stuff produces lasting transformation other than to the bank balance of the authors of it.
do your duties/responsibilities but with detachment BG chapter 3 verse 19 detachment is NOT same as giving up all actions thats indolence and FYI this is not self-help BGita is THE best spiritual text ever produced, Bible is for average soul while BG is for a philosopher/science of soul dont just babble what comes to ur mind
thanks for sharing some Buddhism with us. I try to live my life without attachments, but it's difficult. Have you read the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle? Awesome book which changed my life...check it out! ;)
Thank you for helping me understand detachment and Buddhism more. Your personal insights have enlightened my perspective on Buddhism. Thanks for sharing your beliefs and opinions. By the way, what is your myspace page web address? Thanks, Patrick
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How can I emotionally detach myself from my boyfriend and the relationship? It hurts me mentally and emotionally being in love with someone who doesn't seem to be all that serious about me or the relationship. I just want to feel free, I want to be happy and the only way I believe I will be able to accomplish this is by not being emotionally attached to him. I don't want to hate him or anything, I just want to have the carefree attitude that if it works, ok, if not, it's still ok.
Famfriass 3 months ago
~ The person whose mind is always free from attachment, who has subdued the mind and senses, and who is free from desires, attains the supreme perfection of freedom from Karma through renunciation. ~
colloredbrothers 1 year ago
you speak of non-attachment. Detachment is different.
no1beanflicker 1 year ago
Thank you good reminder.
chrisirwin34 1 year ago
All things are ephemeral, so clinging to anything is a waste of time! Read a book and pass it on, or watch You-Tube videos! :)
urbandenizen 1 year ago
put your shirt on, looks like you are trying to pick someone up
crystalblueming 1 year ago
Someone said you were too flamboyant to be taken serious. Let me first say, thats the stupidest shit ive ever heard. Secondly id like to say i like it :)
ziggystardustish 1 year ago
Interesting and challenging.
Tengent 2 years ago
Four Noble Truths
AryaSravaka 2 years ago
OK Davey Wavey. Your talking about Mandalas and the Bhagavad Gita of which I have both sitting here beside me. Your thoughts on detachment insightful. I am also a Friend on your myspace. I have Mandalas on there. Oh BTW you must have a Million Videos.
samstewart74 2 years ago
If you haven't seen it yet, you need to see Little Buddha. It shows the Buddhist way without being 'in your face' about it. I personally love the film.
blarf001 3 years ago
I'm not prejudice, just way too flamboiant to take seriously. im sorry. i couldnt help but laugh. i own a copy of the gita, i enjoyed half of your message i get the idea. keep up the good work.
twitchx 3 years ago
Did you detach from your shirt?
kube3211 4 years ago 13
Thanks for your comment. How do you know God is a man-made theory? Can you prove it? If I'm wrong to believe in God then I may look silly. But if God exists then I haven;t lost anything, only gained wisdom. I tried not to believe once but positive thinking will only ever get you so far. New age notions about the universe etc just leave me cold. If we're here by some random coincidence, then there's no meaning to life whatsoever. I dont believe that. I'll take my chances.
packamacka 4 years ago
You're equating atheism to nihilism.
bummercucumber 2 years ago
I like the theory of detatchment. Is it a theory? Anyway I feel having the skill is it a skill? or ability of detatchment is a great tool to possess. Maybe it's more about controlling and having the ability to take everything in life in moderation and not go overboard. Well those are my thoughts ae.
enterprize13 4 years ago
I love Indian Religions!
KristopherNexus 4 years ago
That is so true. In fact, that puts a lot of things about life into perspective. By the way, feel free too add me as a friend on here.
12Fred56 4 years ago
Dave, if people are detatched how can we show compassion for others who are lost, suffering or in pain? We should be walking in love not detatchment. The world needs love. People need love, and to re-connect to the unconditonal love of God, not the universe or any other idea or man made theory - none of that self-help stuff produces lasting transformation other than to the bank balance of the authors of it.
packamacka 4 years ago
you are attached to love
copywright11 3 years ago
do your duties/responsibilities but with detachment BG chapter 3 verse 19 detachment is NOT same as giving up all actions thats indolence and FYI this is not self-help BGita is THE best spiritual text ever produced, Bible is for average soul while BG is for a philosopher/science of soul dont just babble what comes to ur mind
srp112 2 years ago
thanks for sharing some Buddhism with us. I try to live my life without attachments, but it's difficult. Have you read the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle? Awesome book which changed my life...check it out! ;)
chaiknees 4 years ago
are u a real gay..?
Honestly, you're just so cool!
Answer my question..
azrashahrazad 4 years ago
Thanks.
Blueaveo3568 4 years ago
well...yea ure right^^ cant say anything else ^^
Misterdrink123 4 years ago
u do realise ur background pick looks like ur playing with urself.
lol.
stay cool stay cute.
again like ur insightful video blogs.
like the last one about detachment.
not to many people read The Bhagavad Gita
deadman00 4 years ago
u do realise ur background pick looks like ur playing with urself.
lol.
stay cool stay cute.
again like ur insightful video blogs.
like the last one about detachment.
not to many people read The Bhagavad Gita
deadman00 4 years ago
Great point!Thanks.
But your BLOG is not avalable here...what a pity. T T
Xercrud 4 years ago
interesting... I'm intrigued now.
Oblivimark 4 years ago
That was a really good video. It just made me really think about what you were talking about. I hope you have more like this!
tyler5757 4 years ago
you are so cute (:
ralphfv 4 years ago
mmmm, you just made me in the mood for choco chip cookies... :o) lol
Ilikezdahotbeatz 4 years ago
Thank you for helping me understand detachment and Buddhism more. Your personal insights have enlightened my perspective on Buddhism. Thanks for sharing your beliefs and opinions. By the way, what is your myspace page web address? Thanks, Patrick
memadonna78 4 years ago