Crisis of Marriage in America - Yaser Birjas

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[Muslim4Lyfe64]

It is a real crisis-marriage. I don't even mean the being married part, but finding a wife the halal way and getting married the halal way.

Subhan'Allah, one brother on Facebook said it is easier to go out and find a girl to commit zina with for one night than to fight a woman to marry and I think that's true. I know for myself, as a brother it has been hard trying to find a sister and I am trying to do it the halal way. I pray Allah gives me sabr and a good muslimah wife.

[Vimalish15]

@Muslim4Lyfe64 U can go to a skeikh and tell him about ur problem he may arrange a marriage for u, the problems with many muslim mens is they all want a prfect woman which doesn't exist don't marry someone for their looks rather for thesir Deen, love is a strange thing, suitability is the right word, have faith, Inshallah I will get married next year when I am 18 (arranged marriage) My own free will

[serene528]

It 's more difficult to stay married than it is to get married.

[abuis001]

It's important to stay cognizant of these issues/concerns and maintain an open mind when it comes to the notion of marriage. Princes and Princesses are a thing of fairy tales; at the end of the day reality dictates. If each side refuses to accept his/her rights and responsibilities, the system of marriage will collapse. Too often, brothers are quick to blame sisters for being too picky and unrealistic and vise-versa.

[abuis001]

I've heard so many versions of what I call "The Marriage Lecture," but unfortunately none give full consideration to many of the cultural and social barriers that Muslims living in the U.S. encounter. What an insightful lecture--the survey was especially clever. It was interesting listening to some of the reasons for delaying marriage for both brothers and sisters, because these are concerns voiced by so many Muslim brothers and sisters within my community.

[AbbuMisbah]

Asa Bro. Jazak Allah Khair for uploading such a educating and eye opening video.

Subhan Allah, it is amazing.

[MsReadIT]

AAh its like ther was soo much left to talk about! but hilarious esp towards end! wel yep i have noticed the lack of 'brother power'..sisters i say r willing to sacrifice but support from the male side is important too..May Allah grant us the best..

[humrose]

Thanks for this, great topic and some real food for thought.

[tijan07]

Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters, my advice to you is, you won't know the baraka of being marriage until you get marriage for the sake of Allah(t)! If you do so, just for Allah, he will bless the marriage and your children!I just got to know that now, there is nothing better than having a family you share life with! Don't follow the non-muslim, please! I swear by Allah, you will get to love each other, if you follow Allah's rule! This non muslim society are leading people to autodestruction

[royalmiskeen]

bro tijan07.Respect to what you said MAshallah.Its so simple and straightforward approach.Just get married for the sake of Allah and the rest would b looked aftr by Allah Himself.But no!!!we have to listn to dumb ppl out there who would never encourage their fellow brthrs n sistrs to get married simply and straightforwardly.They would inject stupid issues like..caste,bank balance,house,cars,degree,evn alim or not Looolz.Subhanallah!

[MsDatona]

@tijan07 The beliefs in this video are amazing, but the problem is that North Americans will never put them into practice. We are becoming sexually perverted, and our children are being raised without fathers, and we get all of our beliefs from 'Sex and the City' and 'Jersey Shore'. We don't know what love is anymore. Our society is fucked.

[faizina21]

masha'allah it is a great vedeo jazaka'allah khair for the upload

[DemYemen]

Bismillah,

Oh my goodness...I did not have enough time to watch the whole video initially but now that I have, OH WOW... the ending is hilarious haha LLOOLL. I know a brother that's just like that pretty much subhan Allah LLOOLL.

Questions and answers were also fun to hear, masha Allah.

Again ya akhi jazak Allahu khaira for the upload.

[DemYemen]

Bismillah,

Crisis indeed...I concur...

Jazak Allahu khaira for the upload ya akhi.

[Muslim4Lyfe64]

Salam Aleikum. Brothers, just label this moron's replies as "spam" insha'Allah.

[narzzz]

ok?

Your comment alone reflects your IQ. You should of thought twice before posting. Get a life(Islam) buddy.

[mygirlmimi3]

listen u are so lost. if u don't like islam or muslims don't listen to noble men like him and give your uneducated comments.you are only going to receive the punishment of god for your useless untrue comments.

[Tulip708]

salam

Just wondering if he is a qari also and if there is any qirat done by him I can get.

Mashallah he has a good voice (at 52 mins)

[sam491442]

just because a woman has a job doesnt mean that she is a bad mom or wife, there is nothing wrong with working as long as you dont forget ur family.

[xxdjelfaxx]

I know, mashallah If you can manage both my hands up to you I was just making teh point that the role of a housewife shouldn't be looked down upon it's actually one of the hardest things to acomplish.

[yaelds]

the way I see it it is a basic pilar of society: by raising future generations (not necessarily on their own but with a bigger part of the responsability) and also creating a refugee for the present generation to renew its faith and rest from tribulations.

[rightpathislam]

as a 24 years old young man

this video opened my eyes

JAZAKALLAh KHAIR!!!

[beachman007]

nice video

[xxdjelfaxx]

Mashallah marriage is such a beautiful blessing Allah has given us, and the shariah shows us how to live a happy married life, it's simple, i'll tell you the problem in the west all the women r chasing their careers and look down at the role of a housewife a role i dream of fulfulling inshallah one day, just remember that the man is the breadwinner, and our duty as women is to take care of our homes bring uo our children teach them about islam and be a comfort to our husbands and children.

[yoyoprincess94]

# Transliteration Translation

1 Ar-Rahman (الرحمن) The All Beneficent

2 Ar-Rahim (الرحيم) The Most Merciful

3 Al-Malik (الملك) The King, The Sovereign

4 Al-Quddus (القدوس) The Most Holy

5 As-Salaam (السلام) The Peace and Blessing

[SayHeIsOne]

Listen lads, lets go back home get a nice home maker educated from a good madrasa inshaAllah, a real woman who will raise your kids. that way when single women start to pile up in the west society will learn a good lesson.

[salahAllah]

May Allah (swt) bless Mr Speaker and the person that put the vid on here.

I am currently a single muslim at this moment and hoping inshallah to get marrid soon and im frankly looking for a partner from overseas since I feel that majority of sisters in the west are too demanding!!!!

This is only my personal opinion

[maghi85]

they'll love everything except Allah and his rasool

[shaykha]

BarakAllahu Feek Sheikh

[darulhijra]

May Allah bless the speaker and the one who shared it with us. Mashallah great lesson. May Allah make it easy for all of us to find the suitable spouse. ameeeennnnnn

[mafiamob2005]

very informative speech also funny too a little bit of humour does lighten things up a bit :)

[salahAllah]

Marriage in the west for Muslims, are one of the most difficult issue. Therefore as Muslims we should work harder and put a lot more emphases on it.

[4theonly1]

Mashallah.

[islam4usa]

My recommendation is Muslim should be Muslim when both husband and wife share there lives together! The family's in laws ,friends will not make life easy for you!

My life is a movie!

[islam4usa]

I'm an American Muslim who had a Christian wife! We married as Christians. She knew my parents where a Muslim and Christian Marriage! My Dad from Jordan, Mom here in States! Both my parents ended in divorce and made life a living hell for us kids.

My life also ended as my parents. Except I keep our children out of the Religion war between mom and I. My wife left me when I finally choose Allah almost 10 years ago she gave me a choice,wife or Allah? I chose Allah and haven't looked back!

[metin85]

Alhamdulillah, brother.

[silentfuzz]

i love this video. esp the part on non conventional sources of wealth. its just beautiful.

[happynames]

masha Allah a very good video, May Allah subhanahu wa taala bless us with the right soulmate.ameen

[flamezdrag]

good video mashallah

[najjar89]

the fact that Muslim young men are marrying Muslimat from oversees and non-Muslim women is simply the American Muslim young woman's fault that she's demanding as hell with respect to worldly goods the man has. And this whole overqualification,and such stuff is harming them even more.

[najjar89]

ok cross that.. kind of an unfair statement

[smartoez]

najjar, okay you cancelled your own statement but i completely agree with your view. Muslim women in west are demanding so much that it is virtually impossible for any of those to get married. They want some kind of super heroes, rich, entertaining, jokers who would make them laugh all the time. They want a guy who would build their lives just around them. No wonder we see so many muslim girls not being married. And many guys bring their brides from back home. Look at muslim divorce rate in west

[mj4sh]

They want some kind of super heroes, rich, entertaining, jokers who would make them laugh all the time. They want a guy who would build their lives just around them.

Hahahah very true bro its hell lot of difficult and its kinda pain in the neck to get married here. I mean they want a All-in-One man who is 100% similar that of their dreams. This makes me sick and it really pisses me off bro. Not only blaming the womens but men aswell.

[smartoez]

I am marrying back home bro... or may be a revert is a good option too ;)).

[MuslimGhost]

Yeah seriously. Im sick and tired of this whole feminist movement that they're trying to force into Islam.

[101muslimgirl]

he was speaking truth mashaAllah

may Allah bless him

peace

[MuslimGhost]

This guy had better be married, or else...

[0AlbanianBella0]

lolll yeahh he is married!

[TheLionsEyes]

Well Im trying to complete 1/2 my deen now..lol Just need to find a brother.

[07aFG]

May Allah give you the best Muslim Insha'Allah

[CRAKIZGOOD]

ameen

[koxerman]

mashallah he is right! Now I want to marry as fast as it is possible!

[shahherwan93]

oh ic