I am a single dad who is 41 and a born again Christian. I can tell you first hand that once a man experiences the pleasures of the flesh, it is very difficult to refrain. Just as a dog returns to his own vomit... So will a man who doesn't stay in the word and surround himself w/ Christian men who hold him accountable. I can tell u though, the more we refrain... The more I love her for her. It's difficult at times... But we are holding out 4 marriage to gain favor from the LORD.
I know I am 17.... not married... only been with one girl.... sort of... but I do know this. Without God, pornography will be something that is going to be stuck with me forever. It has affected how I think. After i had started, I found hugging people to be weird. I found kissing anybody to be weird. Porn screwed up many basic things..... PRAISE GOD THAT HE CAN DELIVER ME!
for the man to be right, the woman needs to be right and vice versa, but the woman must respect her man and love him truly and faithfully and not bring him down but build him up if there is to be any good relationship that will flourish. It is the same as any other area of life, the woman is to be a helper of man not a nuisance or a difficulty. Same goes the other way too, but in the context of the family since the man is the spiritual head of the family, women must act like true Godly women
I will admit that I felt "defrauded" by my ex-girlfriend. Whereas my heart was fully committed to marriage, she decided we were not "right" for each other. When I look back at our conduct on the year we dated, I feel ashamed. As the man, I am to lead...but I was weak. I vowed that I would never again even kiss a woman...until she is my wife. I pray that all men hold fast to this...and that women honor a man who conducts himself in this way...and not challenge him. God's way is best.
@marcryan71 Amen. I am also no longer interested in any kind of physical contact until marriage. Any man of God would be completely fine with this. I will totally honor a man that wants the same. Kissing is definitely a sensual act and I don't really know anyone who can kiss without feeling more than just "oh I'm kissing" It's not just kissing. It is an action that comes before deeper sensual acts. Thanks for your comment! Praise God.
I am a single dad who is 41 and a born again Christian. I can tell you first hand that once a man experiences the pleasures of the flesh, it is very difficult to refrain. Just as a dog returns to his own vomit... So will a man who doesn't stay in the word and surround himself w/ Christian men who hold him accountable. I can tell u though, the more we refrain... The more I love her for her. It's difficult at times... But we are holding out 4 marriage to gain favor from the LORD.
VTwin4Christ 1 month ago 2
Wow..this message is so amazing, I pray that God helps me to stay pure until marriage. It possible through Christ.
munyorig 1 month ago 2
español por favorrr !!
LABENDICIONVIENE 1 month ago
AMEN !!!! love the fact that so many people agree,,, bless them all
albusai 2 months ago 2
where is the full sermon by matt chandler??
chriswatkinsdotcom 4 months ago
I know I am 17.... not married... only been with one girl.... sort of... but I do know this. Without God, pornography will be something that is going to be stuck with me forever. It has affected how I think. After i had started, I found hugging people to be weird. I found kissing anybody to be weird. Porn screwed up many basic things..... PRAISE GOD THAT HE CAN DELIVER ME!
tashkon 4 months ago 2
for the man to be right, the woman needs to be right and vice versa, but the woman must respect her man and love him truly and faithfully and not bring him down but build him up if there is to be any good relationship that will flourish. It is the same as any other area of life, the woman is to be a helper of man not a nuisance or a difficulty. Same goes the other way too, but in the context of the family since the man is the spiritual head of the family, women must act like true Godly women
xhemexx 6 months ago 4
great video and MUCH NEEDED TEACHING! Thanks !
pilgrimmum 6 months ago
I will admit that I felt "defrauded" by my ex-girlfriend. Whereas my heart was fully committed to marriage, she decided we were not "right" for each other. When I look back at our conduct on the year we dated, I feel ashamed. As the man, I am to lead...but I was weak. I vowed that I would never again even kiss a woman...until she is my wife. I pray that all men hold fast to this...and that women honor a man who conducts himself in this way...and not challenge him. God's way is best.
marcryan71 9 months ago 36
@marcryan71
Amen. I am standing with you. Praise Ye YAH, in Yashua's name.
cboneofenglewood 4 months ago
@marcryan71 Amen. I am also no longer interested in any kind of physical contact until marriage. Any man of God would be completely fine with this. I will totally honor a man that wants the same. Kissing is definitely a sensual act and I don't really know anyone who can kiss without feeling more than just "oh I'm kissing" It's not just kissing. It is an action that comes before deeper sensual acts. Thanks for your comment! Praise God.
MinnieTyko 5 days ago
GOD bless you for making this video. It is so true... Every man and woman need to know!!!
mytube4f 10 months ago
This is great. :D Thanks for posting!
SailorAmi94 10 months ago
amen thank God for such a beautiful picture called marriage.
billywarren22 1 year ago 2