im 11 and iv known wat sex was since i was 10 and not like acaully like two days ago my mother started talking about it even tho i was very emmbarresd i think my mother is going in the right direction in talking to me cuz...she wants me to get all the info from her not like sex ed class in middle school..even thp ik mostly everything i need to
These kids who are asking these questions are PHYSCO! I was looking for the song Sexting By Blood On The Dancefloor. A Bunch of kids at school say their not virgin. Wow. Can u answer a question? Why does EVERYONE think sex is cool? its soooo lame and innapropriate.
my mom said she would talk to me about it when i hit puiperty im age 10 i new about sex when i was 6 but didnt tell my parents it would be embarrassing
I'm 16 and have been watching your videos for about a year and I am so glad to have found you guys thanks so much. I'm currently sexually active and with the help of you I am able to be safe but one thing that I would really like it to be on birth control that would make me feel much safer but I have no idea how to aproach my parents about it. I'm able to drive in a few weeks so I'm thinking about going to a planned parenthood but it would be great if you had any other suggestions thanks!
I'm 16 and have been watching your videos for about a year and I am so glad to have found you guys thanks so much. I'm currently sexually active and with the help of you I am able to be safe but one thing that I would really like it to be on birth control that would make me feel much safer but I have no idea how to aproach my parents about it. I'm able to drive in a few weeks so I'm thinking about going to a planned parenthood but it would be great if you had any other suggestions thanks!
actually i'm almost 10, and i'm interested what happens during sex... I can't ask my parents... it's too embarassing... and I know my parents will NEVER tell me, they think i'll just find out online, and never have to bring up the question...!
I'm 12 I'm in 7th grade and my parents are on a low profile about sex. Like one time we were watching the nature channel and the bears started having sex and my dad changed the channel and 5 min. later he changed it back. I wish my parents would just tell it to me straight
Man, I wish you guys were around when my parents should have been discussing this with me! I learned about sex from Cinemax!!! Now my husband and I have two daughters and a son on the way, it's nice to know that I have help and advice as to how not to screw up my kids like my parents did me! LOL
I never really had the "sex talk" with either of my parents. The first time I recalled talking anywhere remotely similar was when I was about twelve or thirteen, hating my period and asking my dad if I can get birth control. I recall him saying he'd prefer if I won't, because many cases of people that have birth control have problems conceiving children when they're older, as well as problems in those that get abortions. He told me that our family would support me if something were to happen.
Next I know he was telling me that if a boy wants to have sex with me, we have to play a game where I keep a penny between my knees and keep it there. (Point: don't do it) then he went to tell me not to date until I'm married, which I guess a good amount of parents say to their kids too.
I'm almost 13 and my gf already told me she wants to lose her virginity with me soon. And I feel the same way. Buy holy fuck 8!!!!! I thought it was crazy when the 10 year old asked!
This is also the answer to your "is porn harmful to teens video?": Porn is only harmful if that's how kids learn about sex. If we as a society didn't try to make sex into some ugly, secret thing that children shouldn't know about, pregnancies would go down along with STDs.
Anyway, you should slowly start talking about sex with your kids when they leave toddler years. Telling them that "a stork" brought the baby will only confuse them in the future and consider you a liar. If you don't talk about sex at all with your kids, they will probably learn about it from a questionable source such as kids at school or porn.
@MikuruBeamu I agree, I learned everything I know about sex from porn. I've never even heard my parents mention anything vaguely related to sex. I was lucky, I figured it out well on my own but I can't say the same for the large majority of my peers who got stds and unwanted pregnancies bc they are idiots.
You do realize that many of the questions will turn out to be jokes, right? (not that many eight year-olds would even know how to find you in the first place...) Even if it really was a ten year-old that asked that question, he was only being curious because he wants to know more about this mysterious thing known as "sex".
I was in fifth grade when I asked my dad what it was and that was after we watched "the movie" which was basically a sex-Ed video for a younger audience in 5-6 grade.
A sexual relationship should be healthy, fun, exciting, new, and self-substaining. You can help aquire that through education...at all levels. Guys that know what they can do are a turn-on...CONFIDENT and healthy. Guys that don't know what they're doing are simply a waste of quality time. No reason to spend time with losers, too many quality partners around...so education is important. That's healthy, successful and leads to quality sex with a partner. It works well... :)
I guess I'm just saying, it's very important for kids to see their parents together, and love each other. (I agree, don't fuck in front of them) It can strongly effect them. And if you don't talk to them, it CAN hurt them, alot. Including relations they have with others as adults. Which isn't fair to your kid/s. By NOT talking to them, by NOT showing love for each other, or even being around each other, interacting, can hurt them more then protect.
>> or anything, but.. I never get mad at him, I listen and do what he says. (He's not bossy though ^^;) I'm trying to learn, it always always hurts, not because of him, but because of my parents, and what they did NOT do. I'm grateful to my husband very much. I don't know what's "normal" but I'm curious and even now, trying to learn what I can, making up for what I was never taught by those who should of.
I think they're right...about if parents never show affection towards each other. Or..well.. my case, were never like...around each other, they're always busy. Too busy to raise me even. I was on my own alot.
Friendly, but busy.
It hurts a kid, and more so when they're older. It hurts, I have NO EXPECTATIONS, I don't know what to expect, like you (Dan and Jennifer) said, it warps us/me when I'm adult (I'm 24 now) I'm just lucky for my husband, my ONLY EXAMPLE. He's nice, he's not mean >>
I got classes at elementary school at age 7 and 11/12. First time were with drawings and comic figures and thats how a girl looks inside, boys have a penis etc. Thats how babies are made. Second time was a bit more and they talked about periods as well, and not to be afraid to bleed. It was a relevation to many girls. At the age of 12 i got a book of my parents too, but by then i knew things allready. Then at age 13 at high school and every 2 years we got sex ed together with first aid.
My dad has always been open and honest about it...my mom honest but not so open...I figured out in 3rd grade from a freind and his dad but at a basic level
I don't even remember when I found out about sex or how I found out about it, but when I was little and asked my mom ( I knew everything, but I wanted to see how she reacted) she told me I KNOW, BUT I'M NOT GONNA SAY ANYTHING. It was really weird, because my mom was allways the TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING - TIPE. I really want to know how and when I found out about it, cause it was such a long time ago - I can't remember a thing. (12)
i think when a person reaches puberty is when you should you start talking about them about the bird and the bees.I also think there should be realsex ed classes in school because all they talk about in school is the same thing STDS, AIDS, HIV, how you can get them, Pregnancy.
i love this video because im 16 and my fourteen year old sister is pregnant and when i asked her 'WHY WERNT YOU SMART WHY DIDNT YOU USE A CONDOM" she told me that mom and dad never told me about that stuff so im so happy you are tellen all these parents this because of my mom not telling her how to be safe she is going to be a mommy at 14
my cousin was having sex at the age of ten and her mom didnt even know until her neighbors told her they heard someone say something about it and the guy shes with is 19 (she almost 12 now)
Kids should be told each thing about sex at the age the are first capable of comprehending it. But I disagree with you that parents shouldn't have sex in front of their kids. Only humans consider sex a private matter, The rest of the world is far more enlightened
I second that, I love my parent, I want to know they are loving each other in all senses (though they never do/have time) but I don't want to visualize much less see it. Ya know?
i first found out about sex wen i was 6 cuz my parents and i watched csi and those other real life muder cases all the time. so it was easy for use to talk about it.
my dad was completly serious when he said he wants me to wait till marriage, and telling ur kids that u want them to wait is one of the easiest way to talk to kids about sex.
I was 5 when my mom first started talking to me about sex. Because of the times, people were begining to come out about being homosexual and AIDS was still kind of a unknown. When I started going to school was when she told me about body parts and what they were used for and what where appropriate places to be touched. The sex talk should never end. It should be a conversation that continues to grow as your relationship with your kids grows.
Tell the kids about sex when they ask. And they for sure will if they know there parents will not get mad at them. I remember my parents telling me that u buy babies from baby stores. and i didnt know where babies come from till i was 10 or so. and my family thinks its really bad to use the words like sex, pregnant, etc.... especially infront of kids. if kids use those words, parents will slap them. that does not even stop kids from using those word. they do it with other kids.
i am 8 years old soon i will be 9 and i know what sex means my mom and dad were doing a million times that i went to the internet and i learned everything about sex!
Thank god for the two of you! I really respect what you have done with this video...please keep encouraging parents/guardians to talk to their children so that we can have a more well-informed, safe young generation!
i think u should just bring your kid up knowing that sex is just a natural part of the human life, not making them feel uncomfortable asking about it, cos if u do that then it wont b a taboo subject, it will just b another normal topic
i never asked my parents bout sex. my mom offered but i asked no thanks i already kno! and im 12. i tink i found out about it in 4th grade maybe sooner....and i still have 2 watch a movie bout it in school! :P
dear dan and jenn i am 13 years old and i can relate to your video. I remember when i was 8 years old and i heard the world and my parents told me that babies came from a machine. i knew it wasnt true so i asked my mom when she would really tell me and she did when i was 10 and i believe that kids should know the basics of it at about 11 or 10 or maybe 12 because towards that ages kids can be mature enough to understand it and not expose it to others, thank you and keep up the great information.
when i was bout 12 year old i didnt know what sex was 1 day a friend came to me and ask hey do you know a good porn site
whats porn?
thats sites where people heve sex
with shame i asked wha is sex since then they always insulted me when i aske my parents they exlpained it to me at the end i aksked why didnt u tell me befor they simpl answered cous you didnt ask.....
my mom started talking to me bout sex when I was 4. I asked my sister where baby came from and she said the segul. My mom then came to me and said that a baby sleeps in a mother tummy for a long time and then she goes to the doctor to help her take him/her out. Each time I ask sex related questions she answers them and now that im 16 she talks to me about healthy marriage and relationships and safe sex and her views on premarital sex
i learned at school when i was 4. and then i felt like it was taboo and i couldnt talk to my parents about it and it made me feel horrible. and when i got up the guts to talk about it they said "when your older" and now im trying to get them to tell my little brother about it (hes nine) because i dont want that to happen to him
also, i think it would greatly improve the chances of ones child coming to them and asking about it if they BUILT UP a history of answering OTHER questions in the same fashion. a lot of the time kids dont get an answer to something and they deem the source unreliable for ALL questions. if they learn that you are a STEADY source of knowledge, they will most likely ask you about the important things later in life as well.
the difficult thing is, not all kids will react the same way to the same information. like myself and my brothers. my mother was very open about talking about sex, but we werent comfortable with it. we saw it as embarrassing, not informational.
i guess my input would be to talk to your kids about sex when they want you to. thats when theyre most likely to absorb what youre even saying, anyway.
I have to say you guys are right. when i was young 13-16 they wouldnt talk about sex in a realistic manner. im 28 now and i can see how they really screwed up by not being frank. I can see how it has affected my past relationships especially with showing affection in public.
I just recently bought a book to help me better explain sex to my daughter, it is called "where did I come from" by Peter Mayle. It is very detailed but it helped me an enormous amount. She is 8 and asked me how babies are made
My mom wasn't the best to talk to. When I asked about periods, she said "You'll know" Sex was answered with "You'll know what to do" So she wasn't any help. I learned about sex in 4th grade and while people giggled in class, we all learned, correctly, what was up with puberty. Now I'm 18 and have a feeling if I hadn't learned about it then, I would have learned from an unreliable source such as another in the dark friend or someone I can't trust. So, 4th grade is a good age in my opinion.
i'm 14 i started learning about sex last year through my friends [who don't really know themselves or had sex way too young]. i'm sure i'll use you're tips and advise when i am emotionally ready. i couldn't go to my mom with questions that you guys answer cuz i feel weird asking. and i even feel weird talking to her about my boyfriend because she doesn't talk to me about hers.
thank you for your videos they really help me understand what sex is all about
Age 16 I've made a few bad mistakes growing up, having sex too early, Drinking at parties under the limit But the only way I actually learned, was from my parents, My parent's said, if anything you can talk to us for help, when you don't understand something, when your frustrated and need someone to guide you Wake Up, This is 2009 this is a whole new era, Now that pornography is the internet your kids are able to watch this from the comfort of they're chair, staring for hours while your at work
almost forgot, a puberty video and maybe a playlist will be awsome to all of those of us who are tursted with the test of talking sex lang to kids, we could just watch your videos toghether and then talk about them.
i learned how provocative thongs where at 10, wow, times do change! well, even though they are not my kids, i have talked to my little cousin bout sex and hes 10 also, he understans quite nicely and respects all aspects about it, will make it easier for him to deal with school i believe as other kids will start talking about it.
My 10 year old daughter hasn't asked about sex but a 13 year old boy has came to house asking for her, of course I denyed him talking to her cuz of the circumstance of his approach, what is some advice about talking to her about sex? I am thinking about talking to her about sex, do you think this is the right time to talk to her about it?
im 14 and i am so happy that dan and jennifer are making these videos my parents taut me about sex but not like this i know alot more about sex and how to protect myself and everything i am abstinant though so ill wait till marriage but i know this will help me in the future thanks dan and jennifer 8D!
Well parents dont tell they're kids cuz they r scared for sum reason.
so i learned about sex about 6 yrs old where
kids come from and how condoms work. Then
at 6th grade the teacher (it was sex ed week)
I learned about STDS, AND AIDS in 4th grade and im glad they talked about it my mom only asked me a couple times "Do you like boys or Girls" and stuff. I think the age is around 7-11
My parents were always really open about sex and answered all my questions. They figured better I know about it from them than experiement and get in a bad situation.
I don't quite see the problem with kids watching your show.
It will help them when they grow older, cuz they now know how things works, and what's normal. Besides, i think that kids should know about where they come from at the age of 5.
I think it's good to wait until the kid him/herself asks or is curious. There's...something special in /not/ knowing, but there is a time and place for it-when the kid is curious, and before puberty if they don't ask.
I was asked by a little one myself, what 'sex' was, bluntly, of course the kid was like omg young, but had heard me say the word 'sex'. So I said it was something parents who love each other do within marriage. And he was like "Oh, okey." and that was that ^^; lol
i started watching u guys at 14 i'm 15 now my cousin was 9 whin she asked me not her mom ware baby's came from and i told her a angle puts the baby in the mommies bellie and she got mad at me and sead i want the real answer and i sead ask your mom lolz
As soon as possible...good sex requires good partners and that requires a healthy mind and a healthy body. Sex is a natural and beautiful thing, and education is so important in making this possible. Especially for us girls...it's hard growing up with fairy tales. For myself, I didn't have to so it's cool for me but many girls are different. I don't have kids, but parents go do your job! Nice video. :)
Soon a possible is sick and wrong. What if the kid wants to not know and you're pushing it on 'em? I think ya should wait till the kid is curious enough to ask you.
Well...the only thing "sick and wrong" is growing up sexually illiterate, but if lack of experience is what you like i'm sure you qualify nicely. Not everyone wishes to be as you obviously are...alone and at home. And not everyone is...surprise! As for what 'ya' think I should do...I don't give a damn what you think. I didn't ask. Perhaps it's time for you to grow up, now...and join those of us that have. Good luck. :)
You obviously know nothing about being a kid. I've taken care of more then my fair share of kids, as well as taking classes on top of that for it and their development, so how bout you stop being a bitch? If not, I'll be forced to report you for harassment.
Well, you're probably correct you know more about kids than I do as you're still one yourself but that's your problem and not mine. Take your pills, tell the other patients I said hello...and go back to your cartoons now. Your room awaits you. Good Luck!
No, I am a mother and I've taken plenty of child care and development classes. And you're a bitch who when you do have kids, your daughter will be pregnant at 9-12. Now, as I said STOP TALKING TO ME bitch.
No, i'm so sorry nobody is talking to you. Nobody ever does, because you lead a very lonely life. Those men in the white coats outside your door are there to help you. Good luck! :)
Without the internet, I'd still be wondering what the hell sex is & I'm 17. No one has discused what sex really is to me: not my mom, teachers, "sex ed" classes in middle school, friends, etc. nobody. Its crazy!
My parents are super cool. I asked mom about babies and sex when I was really, really young... almost too young to remember. I think I was six. And she told me what sex is.
I think she told me what condoms are when I was eight or so.
Now I'm an adult and I have always been blessed with very healthy, vibrant sexual relationships. When I'm old enough to have children, I will follow mom's example of honesty and guidance. It doesn't hurt to have wise, courageous parents. =)
I do agree with you with the parents not showing affection around their kids. I learned about sex when I was 7 and that was from my friends. I dont think I would have done some of the things I did if my parents would have told me about it. Thank you for making this vid.
So parents please dont wait f or us to come to you saying we got a girl pregnant or that i wanna get checked for stds ask us thats all we need support and love from you parents.
and yes im sexually active, but at least i know everything about it.now is my choice to follow the tips from my sex ed class.and another thing i forgot to mention my parents,talk to me about sex like is a joke they always say sebastian dont have sex cuz is bad for you they never explained why not 2. so i went and did it with my girlfriend and after i was done i felt good, and then i asked my parents why not if it feels good. then they started telling me more and more.
LOL omg i love u guys. well im 15 now but when i was 11, i heard some high schoolers saying lets have an orgy, then i went and ask my mom if she wanted to have an orgy and she started freaking out! most common things kids dont know that i had to learn the hard way is : MILF orgy, Chlamydia,Gonorrhoea,Herpes genitalis (genital herpes),HIV and AIDS,Genital warts,Syphilis. and i learned all this later on in life when i got into high school and i was thinking on a more mature way.
from what i've seen parents give you useless information. most I learned was by myself and reading stuff in bio books, online, friends, porn, and the kama sutra
Depends on the maturity level of the individual, personally I think I had sex too soon. I was only 14. Way to young for me, I had no value for the person I was with all.
Right on... there's "physically ready and able" but more importantly, the tough one is "emotionally ready". hang tight, we've got a video on that coming in a few days.
I think it depends on the kid... some kids are ready to here it before others, but I think eight is an appropriate age to talk about the basics. I'm 14 and my parents have NEVER talked to me about sex. I have known about it since I was like four... I just figured it out. When I was about seven I started to understand that that's where babies come from. I remember being ten and thinking "when are my parents gunna talk to me about sex?" They never have, and I never asked.
My daughters are 4 and 6 and we have already begun age appropriate sex ed. In fact, my 6 year old wanted the "just us girls" book about puberty at the book store, so we bought it and have been discussing what will happen to them as they get older. I think parents have to realize, you don't have to set it all out there at once. A 6 year old just wants the basics of how a baby is made: the daddy puts the seed in the mommy's belly and it grows into a baby. They don't need to know the how yet.
Sex education in schools is despratly needed today only problem is christians and republicans think that it is and fight to keep kids ignorant on the topic and being unrealistic preaching Abstenance only. Lets get real sex ed is not dirty it is needed and it will help. Never fear education.
My parents believed in being very honest about the whole "where babies come from" question. One of their favourite stories is how my six-year-old sister went to a friend's birthday party and proceeded to tell all the girls there about the facts of life, complete with a crudely drawn diagram. Neither of us were traumatized by this approach, got pregnant as teenagers and fell down a black hole of moral decay. :D
Wait until your kid is 15 to talk about sex? They're probably already having it.
i am 13 (and yes my profile is wrong) and my mom has not told me about sex but i kinda knew about it since i was five i am a virgin not for long though(lol) my bf and i have been together for a while and me and him are planning to have sex and my little cousin asked me what sex is and i am like how does she know what tht means!!! soooooo i told her to ask her mom and dad she did and she got in trouble what should i do? i think her parents are very stupid soooo what should i do LOVE,
Anyone have a problem where your just standing or walking around somewhere publically with friends or someone and then later they tell you that there were people checking you out but you never noticed???
I agree w/ ya'll. My mom talked to me about sex in the 4th grade but it was pushing abstinence on me and not really giving me why people had sex or how its done or anything really. She told me wait until you're married and it's a bad thing to do. that's it. So my whole life i researched and in HS i lost my virginity. I'm glad i took the initiative to research because then I wouldn't have known how to get pregnant/STD's. I'm almost 19 now and i still have to keep researching! Thanks internet!
My mom started talking to me about sex when I was about 4. She bought me a book from a company called Good Vibrations, which illustrated a little boy and girl in a bathtub, and explained their "parts" in an age appropriate way. I think for shyer parents this is a great approach, especially as the kids get older and ask more. This doesn't mean you don't have to talk to your kids, it's more like providing them the basics in a non-biased, medical way that is less, shall we say, uncomfortable. =)
15, and not a virgin atm. my mom talked to me when i was in 5th grade. my mom gave me safety tips, and she praised abstinance but said all in all she's here for me and my choices. but i think 12 is a good time
my mom gave me the sex talk when I was 12 and she scared the shit out of me because she told me that my grandma had her first child at 12. So I haven't had sex and refuse to listen to my friends about how I'm missing out because I'm 15 and way too young to be having sex.
but I think you should start telling your children about the differences about boys and girls at age 3-4
Hey Dan and Jenn! I don't have any kinds but I can't wait till I have kids and I get the opportunity to tell them!!! My personal philosophy is to tell them about sex in stages and in different stages of their lives. So perhaps when they get to be 4 or 5, I'll tell them about the differences between girls and boys. And later on, about how babies come to be in mommy's tummy, and then later on being open about them asking me questions about sex and relationships and so on. Great vid!
I started asking questions about pregnancy when I was three or four years old. My mother told me, in an age appropriate way, how and why pregnancy happened. And after that, I've been able to ask my mother anything, and she'll answer me in the best way she can. She makes it feel really natural and easy to talk about sex, and because of her I've really learned how/why safe sex is important, and the emotional and relationship aspects of sex as well. I'm fifteen and a virgin, and I feel fine :)
we talked about it in school once but theres so much that i felt like i needed to know and i now i know all because of you guys. im only 12. thanks guys (:
i was asking about sex at the age of 6 which looking back on it i am suprised these questions happened so young, they talked about it alot a school and i had a 16 yr old brother who i would over hear talking to his friends about sex. i asked my parents about it i was told i was being inappropriate. it has taken me a long time to learn all that i know now about safesex and i mostly learned from tv sex ed shows and the internet.
well we have to consider the things in our world that are having an effect on that such as steroids in milk & chicken causing puberty to hit as early as age 8!
While I think it's ideal that parents should talk to their kids about sex, it's an unfortunate fact that many parents themselves don't always know what they're talking about, and may spread misinformation or judgmental opinions to their children.
that's why parents should get INFORMED, too! no excuse not to learn - we have the internet, libraries, family doctors, pamphlets, heath departments...the info is out there!
my parents werent loving toward eachother all my life and all it did was make me make sure my marriage would be healthy and way better. Although it did make me kind of afaid to commit because I thought marriage was an unhappy affair in your life
same thing here - not sure about marriage b/c of the example my parents have been...married 30 yrs and they don't seem to like each other that much lol - just stay together b/c they don't "believe" in divorce!
I believe that parents should suck it up and talk, too, but I think that that generation (not to lump you all together or anything) is a bit close-minded from the way *they* grew up...
I actually just went to the library, watched the Discovery Channel, and (shockingly) asked the clerk at my pharmacy questions.
Now, I'm 17 and my friends have deemed me knowlegeable enough to ask their questions to. I just wish they wouldn't have to ask me, but I'm very, very happy they do.Knowlege is power
I learned on my own because the school teaches mostly about abstinence and like 2 seconds on everything else (well my school at least) My mom got mad when I asked her about such questions and my dad decided to give me the talk when I was 18 just before Otakon. Luckily I have been smart enough to know better then to go experimenting.
But sex wasn't even in thought when I was 10. I was to busy acting like a pokemon or running around. I wonder if there is something wrong with me XD
I'm 15, and I was never informed from my parents about sex. I never asked them questions though, I just learned it on my own. I think its easier that way, no awkwardness and more straightforward than bullshit they'll tell you.
I'm one of those kids that watches Dan and Jennifer. My mom is very open about sex with me, but it's always awkward to ask a parent about it. How should a child ASK their parents about sex without making their parent think they are sexually active, or wish to be sexually active, because the first time i popped a sex question, my mom freaked saying I wasn't a virgin anymore, she didn't give me a chance to explain why I was asking.
Shit, I tought myself about sex at the age around 10 years old. I found myself watching sex anatomy and how the whole pregnant stuff works on the discovery channel and my parents had no idea what I was doing.
Well what if the children never ask. I'm almost 18 and I never remember asking about sex to my family.I do remember jokingly asking my 8 yr old best friend where babies come from. She said sex and i went, "Nooo wayyy!!"
So a few days ago my mother asked me if I was still a virgin.
After I answered she cried cuz she was disappointed.
iam 15 and when i start learing about sex in 10 years old from the movies what they say and what they do and in 12 i did know every thing :D
3on9999 2 months ago
completely agree with this video, well said...........
bzylizzy 3 months ago
im 11 and iv known wat sex was since i was 10 and not like acaully like two days ago my mother started talking about it even tho i was very emmbarresd i think my mother is going in the right direction in talking to me cuz...she wants me to get all the info from her not like sex ed class in middle school..even thp ik mostly everything i need to
xoxoashleytardxoxo 5 months ago
i mean GOOD!!
smarties123babe 6 months ago
this is really goof info.
smarties123babe 6 months ago
Im 14 and i tell my dad please please tell me more about sex and he says when im 18.Why does he do this?
TheYoungBoyScout 10 months ago
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waot2289o 1 year ago
when i was 12 i learned about birds and bees. 13? birds and keys
rimsdothemacarena 1 year ago
These kids who are asking these questions are PHYSCO! I was looking for the song Sexting By Blood On The Dancefloor. A Bunch of kids at school say their not virgin. Wow. Can u answer a question? Why does EVERYONE think sex is cool? its soooo lame and innapropriate.
CraziTV 1 year ago
Wow, love how this couple takes such a mature approach on sex.
bluffgrad07 1 year ago
i hope any 8 year olds watching this movie aren't going to ask to watch their parents have sex.
LieEarclevitus 1 year ago
my mom said she would talk to me about it when i hit puiperty im age 10 i new about sex when i was 6 but didnt tell my parents it would be embarrassing
*blushes* thanks for talking!
ymcagirl161 1 year ago
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I'm 16 and have been watching your videos for about a year and I am so glad to have found you guys thanks so much. I'm currently sexually active and with the help of you I am able to be safe but one thing that I would really like it to be on birth control that would make me feel much safer but I have no idea how to aproach my parents about it. I'm able to drive in a few weeks so I'm thinking about going to a planned parenthood but it would be great if you had any other suggestions thanks!
1612nemo 1 year ago
I'm 16 and have been watching your videos for about a year and I am so glad to have found you guys thanks so much. I'm currently sexually active and with the help of you I am able to be safe but one thing that I would really like it to be on birth control that would make me feel much safer but I have no idea how to aproach my parents about it. I'm able to drive in a few weeks so I'm thinking about going to a planned parenthood but it would be great if you had any other suggestions thanks!
1612nemo 1 year ago
actually i'm almost 10, and i'm interested what happens during sex... I can't ask my parents... it's too embarassing... and I know my parents will NEVER tell me, they think i'll just find out online, and never have to bring up the question...!
Toon999kinzpengwo 1 year ago
I'm 12 I'm in 7th grade and my parents are on a low profile about sex. Like one time we were watching the nature channel and the bears started having sex and my dad changed the channel and 5 min. later he changed it back. I wish my parents would just tell it to me straight
Way2Good4ForYou 1 year ago
Man, I wish you guys were around when my parents should have been discussing this with me! I learned about sex from Cinemax!!! Now my husband and I have two daughters and a son on the way, it's nice to know that I have help and advice as to how not to screw up my kids like my parents did me! LOL
indymerida 1 year ago
My parents don't even talk to me about sex, I'm 11,
If I'm going to sixth grade, We might talk
about that.
StarBrown08 2 years ago
I never really had the "sex talk" with either of my parents. The first time I recalled talking anywhere remotely similar was when I was about twelve or thirteen, hating my period and asking my dad if I can get birth control. I recall him saying he'd prefer if I won't, because many cases of people that have birth control have problems conceiving children when they're older, as well as problems in those that get abortions. He told me that our family would support me if something were to happen.
rosie2110 2 years ago
Next I know he was telling me that if a boy wants to have sex with me, we have to play a game where I keep a penny between my knees and keep it there. (Point: don't do it) then he went to tell me not to date until I'm married, which I guess a good amount of parents say to their kids too.
rosie2110 2 years ago
we had a sex ed class in 5th grade I cant look at hot dogs and donuts the same again.......
OverHereDear 2 years ago
@OverHereDear
lol XD
tugfngjfuvj 2 years ago
I'm almost 13 and my gf already told me she wants to lose her virginity with me soon. And I feel the same way. Buy holy fuck 8!!!!! I thought it was crazy when the 10 year old asked!
thecatsatwar 2 years ago
im 13 and ive known about sex sence i was 10 years old. Should i ask my parents to tell me about sex , even through i already know? im so confused
lorenzo21007 2 years ago
ask
maybe they don't know you want to know
your parents are the best people to ask
ask
videowatcheer 2 years ago
This is also the answer to your "is porn harmful to teens video?": Porn is only harmful if that's how kids learn about sex. If we as a society didn't try to make sex into some ugly, secret thing that children shouldn't know about, pregnancies would go down along with STDs.
MikuruBeamu 2 years ago
Anyway, you should slowly start talking about sex with your kids when they leave toddler years. Telling them that "a stork" brought the baby will only confuse them in the future and consider you a liar. If you don't talk about sex at all with your kids, they will probably learn about it from a questionable source such as kids at school or porn.
MikuruBeamu 2 years ago
@MikuruBeamu I agree, I learned everything I know about sex from porn. I've never even heard my parents mention anything vaguely related to sex. I was lucky, I figured it out well on my own but I can't say the same for the large majority of my peers who got stds and unwanted pregnancies bc they are idiots.
jsg103 2 years ago
You do realize that many of the questions will turn out to be jokes, right? (not that many eight year-olds would even know how to find you in the first place...) Even if it really was a ten year-old that asked that question, he was only being curious because he wants to know more about this mysterious thing known as "sex".
MikuruBeamu 2 years ago
I was in fifth grade when I asked my dad what it was and that was after we watched "the movie" which was basically a sex-Ed video for a younger audience in 5-6 grade.
lacrosseplaya59 2 years ago
A sexual relationship should be healthy, fun, exciting, new, and self-substaining. You can help aquire that through education...at all levels. Guys that know what they can do are a turn-on...CONFIDENT and healthy. Guys that don't know what they're doing are simply a waste of quality time. No reason to spend time with losers, too many quality partners around...so education is important. That's healthy, successful and leads to quality sex with a partner. It works well... :)
jdfox1 2 years ago
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I guess I'm just saying, it's very important for kids to see their parents together, and love each other. (I agree, don't fuck in front of them) It can strongly effect them. And if you don't talk to them, it CAN hurt them, alot. Including relations they have with others as adults. Which isn't fair to your kid/s. By NOT talking to them, by NOT showing love for each other, or even being around each other, interacting, can hurt them more then protect.
blondrose84 2 years ago
>> or anything, but.. I never get mad at him, I listen and do what he says. (He's not bossy though ^^;) I'm trying to learn, it always always hurts, not because of him, but because of my parents, and what they did NOT do. I'm grateful to my husband very much. I don't know what's "normal" but I'm curious and even now, trying to learn what I can, making up for what I was never taught by those who should of.
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blondrose84 2 years ago
I think they're right...about if parents never show affection towards each other. Or..well.. my case, were never like...around each other, they're always busy. Too busy to raise me even. I was on my own alot.
Friendly, but busy.
It hurts a kid, and more so when they're older. It hurts, I have NO EXPECTATIONS, I don't know what to expect, like you (Dan and Jennifer) said, it warps us/me when I'm adult (I'm 24 now) I'm just lucky for my husband, my ONLY EXAMPLE. He's nice, he's not mean >>
blondrose84 2 years ago
I got classes at elementary school at age 7 and 11/12. First time were with drawings and comic figures and thats how a girl looks inside, boys have a penis etc. Thats how babies are made. Second time was a bit more and they talked about periods as well, and not to be afraid to bleed. It was a relevation to many girls. At the age of 12 i got a book of my parents too, but by then i knew things allready. Then at age 13 at high school and every 2 years we got sex ed together with first aid.
MysteriousDrella 2 years ago
My dad has always been open and honest about it...my mom honest but not so open...I figured out in 3rd grade from a freind and his dad but at a basic level
aceeck1001 2 years ago
I don't even remember when I found out about sex or how I found out about it, but when I was little and asked my mom ( I knew everything, but I wanted to see how she reacted) she told me I KNOW, BUT I'M NOT GONNA SAY ANYTHING. It was really weird, because my mom was allways the TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING - TIPE. I really want to know how and when I found out about it, cause it was such a long time ago - I can't remember a thing. (12)
bybiomyletoja 2 years ago
i think when a person reaches puberty is when you should you start talking about them about the bird and the bees.I also think there should be realsex ed classes in school because all they talk about in school is the same thing STDS, AIDS, HIV, how you can get them, Pregnancy.
Polkadotsful 2 years ago
When I was in 2nd grade, I was the only girl on my baseball team and one of the other boys asked me if girls peed out of their butts.
zugaidosu 2 years ago
i love this video because im 16 and my fourteen year old sister is pregnant and when i asked her 'WHY WERNT YOU SMART WHY DIDNT YOU USE A CONDOM" she told me that mom and dad never told me about that stuff so im so happy you are tellen all these parents this because of my mom not telling her how to be safe she is going to be a mommy at 14
2015geek 2 years ago
my cousin was having sex at the age of ten and her mom didnt even know until her neighbors told her they heard someone say something about it and the guy shes with is 19 (she almost 12 now)
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daniel25m 2 years ago
Kids should be told each thing about sex at the age the are first capable of comprehending it. But I disagree with you that parents shouldn't have sex in front of their kids. Only humans consider sex a private matter, The rest of the world is far more enlightened
mistywillows 2 years ago
you think that kids should watch their parents have sex thats sick
wootsup981 2 years ago
I second that, I love my parent, I want to know they are loving each other in all senses (though they never do/have time) but I don't want to visualize much less see it. Ya know?
blondrose84 2 years ago
He says that humans think that sex it a private matter, I guess hes not human!
wootsup981 2 years ago
Yeah, really. *agrees with you*
But even some animals want some privacy, lol
blondrose84 2 years ago
lol like whales!
wootsup981 2 years ago
i first found out about sex wen i was 6 cuz my parents and i watched csi and those other real life muder cases all the time. so it was easy for use to talk about it.
my dad was completly serious when he said he wants me to wait till marriage, and telling ur kids that u want them to wait is one of the easiest way to talk to kids about sex.
SallySkelloton 2 years ago
I was 5 when my mom first started talking to me about sex. Because of the times, people were begining to come out about being homosexual and AIDS was still kind of a unknown. When I started going to school was when she told me about body parts and what they were used for and what where appropriate places to be touched. The sex talk should never end. It should be a conversation that continues to grow as your relationship with your kids grows.
lee85hg 2 years ago
Tell the kids about sex when they ask. And they for sure will if they know there parents will not get mad at them. I remember my parents telling me that u buy babies from baby stores. and i didnt know where babies come from till i was 10 or so. and my family thinks its really bad to use the words like sex, pregnant, etc.... especially infront of kids. if kids use those words, parents will slap them. that does not even stop kids from using those word. they do it with other kids.
fati48 2 years ago 2
This has effected my Life in many ways as I am a curious person and like to know everything. I am 17
fati48 2 years ago
i am 8 years old soon i will be 9 and i know what sex means my mom and dad were doing a million times that i went to the internet and i learned everything about sex!
Gulara111 2 years ago
Thank god for the two of you! I really respect what you have done with this video...please keep encouraging parents/guardians to talk to their children so that we can have a more well-informed, safe young generation!
ayoumans25 2 years ago
i think u should just bring your kid up knowing that sex is just a natural part of the human life, not making them feel uncomfortable asking about it, cos if u do that then it wont b a taboo subject, it will just b another normal topic
cucumberzr4chumpz 2 years ago
i never asked my parents bout sex. my mom offered but i asked no thanks i already kno! and im 12. i tink i found out about it in 4th grade maybe sooner....and i still have 2 watch a movie bout it in school! :P
jonasfever560 2 years ago
dear dan and jenn i am 13 years old and i can relate to your video. I remember when i was 8 years old and i heard the world and my parents told me that babies came from a machine. i knew it wasnt true so i asked my mom when she would really tell me and she did when i was 10 and i believe that kids should know the basics of it at about 11 or 10 or maybe 12 because towards that ages kids can be mature enough to understand it and not expose it to others, thank you and keep up the great information.
xxbwb24xx 2 years ago
When they ask
guitarman002 2 years ago
when i was bout 12 year old i didnt know what sex was 1 day a friend came to me and ask hey do you know a good porn site
whats porn?
thats sites where people heve sex
with shame i asked wha is sex since then they always insulted me when i aske my parents they exlpained it to me at the end i aksked why didnt u tell me befor they simpl answered cous you didnt ask.....
negers2 2 years ago
I was 4 or 5 when my parents told me about sex and I didn't completly understand.
"Mommy where do babies come from?"
"Well I'll show you this video"
"This is boring"
I went to school the next day and told a little girl "You have sperm in your belly. Did you know that?"
EXT100 2 years ago 2
my mom started talking to me bout sex when I was 4. I asked my sister where baby came from and she said the segul. My mom then came to me and said that a baby sleeps in a mother tummy for a long time and then she goes to the doctor to help her take him/her out. Each time I ask sex related questions she answers them and now that im 16 she talks to me about healthy marriage and relationships and safe sex and her views on premarital sex
doujinshilover64 2 years ago
i learned at school when i was 4. and then i felt like it was taboo and i couldnt talk to my parents about it and it made me feel horrible. and when i got up the guts to talk about it they said "when your older" and now im trying to get them to tell my little brother about it (hes nine) because i dont want that to happen to him
girlbaby206 2 years ago
also, i think it would greatly improve the chances of ones child coming to them and asking about it if they BUILT UP a history of answering OTHER questions in the same fashion. a lot of the time kids dont get an answer to something and they deem the source unreliable for ALL questions. if they learn that you are a STEADY source of knowledge, they will most likely ask you about the important things later in life as well.
KunoichiKira 2 years ago
the difficult thing is, not all kids will react the same way to the same information. like myself and my brothers. my mother was very open about talking about sex, but we werent comfortable with it. we saw it as embarrassing, not informational.
i guess my input would be to talk to your kids about sex when they want you to. thats when theyre most likely to absorb what youre even saying, anyway.
KunoichiKira 2 years ago
I have to say you guys are right. when i was young 13-16 they wouldnt talk about sex in a realistic manner. im 28 now and i can see how they really screwed up by not being frank. I can see how it has affected my past relationships especially with showing affection in public.
dtwinky 2 years ago
I just recently bought a book to help me better explain sex to my daughter, it is called "where did I come from" by Peter Mayle. It is very detailed but it helped me an enormous amount. She is 8 and asked me how babies are made
ummmmmmmmmgood 2 years ago 2
My mom wasn't the best to talk to. When I asked about periods, she said "You'll know" Sex was answered with "You'll know what to do" So she wasn't any help. I learned about sex in 4th grade and while people giggled in class, we all learned, correctly, what was up with puberty. Now I'm 18 and have a feeling if I hadn't learned about it then, I would have learned from an unreliable source such as another in the dark friend or someone I can't trust. So, 4th grade is a good age in my opinion.
Lemnii 2 years ago
i'm 14 i started learning about sex last year through my friends [who don't really know themselves or had sex way too young]. i'm sure i'll use you're tips and advise when i am emotionally ready. i couldn't go to my mom with questions that you guys answer cuz i feel weird asking. and i even feel weird talking to her about my boyfriend because she doesn't talk to me about hers.
thank you for your videos they really help me understand what sex is all about
beanermonkey13 2 years ago
Age 16 I've made a few bad mistakes growing up, having sex too early, Drinking at parties under the limit But the only way I actually learned, was from my parents, My parent's said, if anything you can talk to us for help, when you don't understand something, when your frustrated and need someone to guide you Wake Up, This is 2009 this is a whole new era, Now that pornography is the internet your kids are able to watch this from the comfort of they're chair, staring for hours while your at work
kidspwnwidrange 2 years ago
i begon mastrubating on my 9th now im 16 and im realizing how young that is :O
nuijnpwnsxD 2 years ago
almost forgot, a puberty video and maybe a playlist will be awsome to all of those of us who are tursted with the test of talking sex lang to kids, we could just watch your videos toghether and then talk about them.
wolfe787 2 years ago
great points - hang with us, we're going to do all that. definitely will have a few segments about HOW to talk to your kids about sex...
DanAndJenn 2 years ago
i learned how provocative thongs where at 10, wow, times do change! well, even though they are not my kids, i have talked to my little cousin bout sex and hes 10 also, he understans quite nicely and respects all aspects about it, will make it easier for him to deal with school i believe as other kids will start talking about it.
wolfe787 2 years ago
Aged 14...
I know quite a lot of people my age who watch your channel..
Thank you for making this vid!!
xx
My Mum told me to watch this coz we both don't like talking to each outher...
but me and my Dad talk tho...
xx
Badgirle666 2 years ago
My parentas told me at 5 they were very informitive but i watch theses vidios for things they dint cover-12
66646665 2 years ago
okay, im 13, and i learned about sex from a video in school...
sasukeparty123 2 years ago
My 10 year old daughter hasn't asked about sex but a 13 year old boy has came to house asking for her, of course I denyed him talking to her cuz of the circumstance of his approach, what is some advice about talking to her about sex? I am thinking about talking to her about sex, do you think this is the right time to talk to her about it?
makingliferightnow 2 years ago
If boys are "interested" in her, I think it might be a good time. But remember-be age appreciate in how you talk about it!
blondrose84 2 years ago
im 14 and i am so happy that dan and jennifer are making these videos my parents taut me about sex but not like this i know alot more about sex and how to protect myself and everything i am abstinant though so ill wait till marriage but i know this will help me in the future thanks dan and jennifer 8D!
FridaDeKaulitz 2 years ago
You are one of the most mature and smart 14 year olds I know (well, from what you posted) :)
blondrose84 2 years ago
i would say 10 or 11 right before middle school, but nothing too graphic
livewithsin 2 years ago 2
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icecubebattery 2 years ago
Well parents dont tell they're kids cuz they r scared for sum reason.
so i learned about sex about 6 yrs old where
kids come from and how condoms work. Then
at 6th grade the teacher (it was sex ed week)
I learned about STDS, AND AIDS in 4th grade and im glad they talked about it my mom only asked me a couple times "Do you like boys or Girls" and stuff. I think the age is around 7-11
before they start going 2 high skool
SilentDeathZER0 2 years ago
My parents were always really open about sex and answered all my questions. They figured better I know about it from them than experiement and get in a bad situation.
LadyDiscordAphrodite 2 years ago
The craziest question I got about sex was from my 6 year old cousin which was how do I have sex. Lmao!!! And I explained it to her.
allysexykitten 2 years ago
Great points guys, and great show! Everyone should ask questions and be responsible!
kidmecha 2 years ago 2
Yes....
This was enlightening.
I don't quite see the problem with kids watching your show.
It will help them when they grow older, cuz they now know how things works, and what's normal. Besides, i think that kids should know about where they come from at the age of 5.
Is there ANY reasons of waiting?
SlapphePikkur 2 years ago 2
I think it's good to wait until the kid him/herself asks or is curious. There's...something special in /not/ knowing, but there is a time and place for it-when the kid is curious, and before puberty if they don't ask.
I was asked by a little one myself, what 'sex' was, bluntly, of course the kid was like omg young, but had heard me say the word 'sex'. So I said it was something parents who love each other do within marriage. And he was like "Oh, okey." and that was that ^^; lol
blondrose84 2 years ago
i started watching u guys at 14 i'm 15 now my cousin was 9 whin she asked me not her mom ware baby's came from and i told her a angle puts the baby in the mommies bellie and she got mad at me and sead i want the real answer and i sead ask your mom lolz
s81710 2 years ago
As soon as possible...good sex requires good partners and that requires a healthy mind and a healthy body. Sex is a natural and beautiful thing, and education is so important in making this possible. Especially for us girls...it's hard growing up with fairy tales. For myself, I didn't have to so it's cool for me but many girls are different. I don't have kids, but parents go do your job! Nice video. :)
jdfox1 2 years ago
Soon a possible is sick and wrong. What if the kid wants to not know and you're pushing it on 'em? I think ya should wait till the kid is curious enough to ask you.
blondrose84 2 years ago
blonderose...
"sick and wrong..., I think 'ya'..."
Well...the only thing "sick and wrong" is growing up sexually illiterate, but if lack of experience is what you like i'm sure you qualify nicely. Not everyone wishes to be as you obviously are...alone and at home. And not everyone is...surprise! As for what 'ya' think I should do...I don't give a damn what you think. I didn't ask. Perhaps it's time for you to grow up, now...and join those of us that have. Good luck. :)
jdfox1 2 years ago
You obviously know nothing about being a kid. I've taken care of more then my fair share of kids, as well as taking classes on top of that for it and their development, so how bout you stop being a bitch? If not, I'll be forced to report you for harassment.
I all did was give a damn opinion, get over it.
blondrose84 2 years ago
blonderose...
Well, you're probably correct you know more about kids than I do as you're still one yourself but that's your problem and not mine. Take your pills, tell the other patients I said hello...and go back to your cartoons now. Your room awaits you. Good Luck!
jdfox1 2 years ago
No, I am a mother and I've taken plenty of child care and development classes. And you're a bitch who when you do have kids, your daughter will be pregnant at 9-12. Now, as I said STOP TALKING TO ME bitch.
blondrose84 2 years ago
blonderose...
No, i'm so sorry nobody is talking to you. Nobody ever does, because you lead a very lonely life. Those men in the white coats outside your door are there to help you. Good luck! :)
jdfox1 2 years ago
you guys rock!
and im 16, and i learned about sex all by myself from the internet, but you guys talk about some good topics, thx!
+ u guys seem like a lil mad there...
postman666andrei 2 years ago 5
Without the internet, I'd still be wondering what the hell sex is & I'm 17. No one has discused what sex really is to me: not my mom, teachers, "sex ed" classes in middle school, friends, etc. nobody. Its crazy!
Thank you internets!
kiwisunshine5233 2 years ago 3
hmm, im 17 now, but started watching ur guyses videos when i was like 14, or 15 i think, i defo learnt some good stuff.
tylermanchesteruntd 2 years ago 3
crazy question?
my girlfriend was baby sitting these two kids who were about 5 and 6 or around there and they asked if she shaved in her "private place" hah
amoose412 2 years ago
ha lol
hacker123456780 2 years ago
haha, when i was in 4th grade, and our sex teacher told us that if we wondered something about sex, we could ask her by anonymous mails.
All my class mates asked her if she shaved, if she likes it oral, and some really disgusting stuff about dogs humping girls.
So guys really learn that stuff at a young age if they learn about sex at a young age.
SlapphePikkur 2 years ago
my parents really never told me anything about sex, i literally had to learn all this stuff from the internet. and i'm 20 now!
jayshock89 2 years ago
wow that sux
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jayshock89 2 years ago
My parents are super cool. I asked mom about babies and sex when I was really, really young... almost too young to remember. I think I was six. And she told me what sex is.
I think she told me what condoms are when I was eight or so.
Now I'm an adult and I have always been blessed with very healthy, vibrant sexual relationships. When I'm old enough to have children, I will follow mom's example of honesty and guidance. It doesn't hurt to have wise, courageous parents. =)
Jinxedit 2 years ago 2
I do agree with you with the parents not showing affection around their kids. I learned about sex when I was 7 and that was from my friends. I dont think I would have done some of the things I did if my parents would have told me about it. Thank you for making this vid.
ippobaby 2 years ago 3
So parents please dont wait f or us to come to you saying we got a girl pregnant or that i wanna get checked for stds ask us thats all we need support and love from you parents.
this all comes from a 15 year old :D
chalespi 2 years ago
and yes im sexually active, but at least i know everything about it.now is my choice to follow the tips from my sex ed class.and another thing i forgot to mention my parents,talk to me about sex like is a joke they always say sebastian dont have sex cuz is bad for you they never explained why not 2. so i went and did it with my girlfriend and after i was done i felt good, and then i asked my parents why not if it feels good. then they started telling me more and more.
chalespi 2 years ago
LOL omg i love u guys. well im 15 now but when i was 11, i heard some high schoolers saying lets have an orgy, then i went and ask my mom if she wanted to have an orgy and she started freaking out! most common things kids dont know that i had to learn the hard way is : MILF orgy, Chlamydia,Gonorrhoea,Herpes genitalis (genital herpes),HIV and AIDS,Genital warts,Syphilis. and i learned all this later on in life when i got into high school and i was thinking on a more mature way.
chalespi 2 years ago
I had the interenet to give me the talk.
BobDoleismyBitch 2 years ago
also parents shouldn't get mad when kids ask.. i think most do and their children are afraid to ask them about it
MurderessLoveX1x 2 years ago 2
my mom never taught me i had to learn on my own
MurderessLoveX1x 2 years ago 2
I remember when i was 9, i don't hv any idea about sex
i still like to sleep wiv my mum n my mum feel annoyed
thn she asked " y don't u sleep wiv yr dad ??!!"
n i told her " becuz it will hv baby"
thn she juz told me "u will not hv a baby by juz sleeping together", but she still don't teach me anything about sex....
rtqtehrsex 2 years ago
are you stupid?
w7j93w0 2 years ago
from what i've seen parents give you useless information. most I learned was by myself and reading stuff in bio books, online, friends, porn, and the kama sutra
redrebel69 2 years ago 2
When do you think it's appropriate to actually HAVE sex?
AORTAFREAK 2 years ago 3
Depends on the maturity level of the individual, personally I think I had sex too soon. I was only 14. Way to young for me, I had no value for the person I was with all.
BobDoleismyBitch 2 years ago
Right on... there's "physically ready and able" but more importantly, the tough one is "emotionally ready". hang tight, we've got a video on that coming in a few days.
DanAndJenn 2 years ago
I think it depends on the kid... some kids are ready to here it before others, but I think eight is an appropriate age to talk about the basics. I'm 14 and my parents have NEVER talked to me about sex. I have known about it since I was like four... I just figured it out. When I was about seven I started to understand that that's where babies come from. I remember being ten and thinking "when are my parents gunna talk to me about sex?" They never have, and I never asked.
AORTAFREAK 2 years ago
well my dad talked to me about sex when i was 15 goin on 16 before goin to play basketball for at least 2 mins and i was like i already know ..lol
delacruz28 2 years ago
My daughters are 4 and 6 and we have already begun age appropriate sex ed. In fact, my 6 year old wanted the "just us girls" book about puberty at the book store, so we bought it and have been discussing what will happen to them as they get older. I think parents have to realize, you don't have to set it all out there at once. A 6 year old just wants the basics of how a baby is made: the daddy puts the seed in the mommy's belly and it grows into a baby. They don't need to know the how yet.
AutumnBrooke 2 years ago 4
its true, im fifteen and my parents don't teach me
newo0001 2 years ago 6
my parents taught me about that stuff when i was like 5 or 6 but i didn't know what it really was til i was 13
kellyraye815 2 years ago 2
Sex education in schools is despratly needed today only problem is christians and republicans think that it is and fight to keep kids ignorant on the topic and being unrealistic preaching Abstenance only. Lets get real sex ed is not dirty it is needed and it will help. Never fear education.
turboboy68 2 years ago 3
My parents believed in being very honest about the whole "where babies come from" question. One of their favourite stories is how my six-year-old sister went to a friend's birthday party and proceeded to tell all the girls there about the facts of life, complete with a crudely drawn diagram. Neither of us were traumatized by this approach, got pregnant as teenagers and fell down a black hole of moral decay. :D
Wait until your kid is 15 to talk about sex? They're probably already having it.
jakual339 2 years ago
i am 13 (and yes my profile is wrong) and my mom has not told me about sex but i kinda knew about it since i was five i am a virgin not for long though(lol) my bf and i have been together for a while and me and him are planning to have sex and my little cousin asked me what sex is and i am like how does she know what tht means!!! soooooo i told her to ask her mom and dad she did and she got in trouble what should i do? i think her parents are very stupid soooo what should i do LOVE,
babygirl..
babygirlification 2 years ago
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if you have sex at 13, i hope you get pregnant and he dumps your ass.
w7j93w0 2 years ago
you can go ahead and tell her. but, her parents MIGHT hang you IF they find out that you told her about sex.
btw my profile is wrong too, i'm 14 ( its rarely that someone puts there real information )
and good luck with loosing your virginity
solomonXR1 2 years ago
Anyone have a problem where your just standing or walking around somewhere publically with friends or someone and then later they tell you that there were people checking you out but you never noticed???
raccoonmatinginyour 2 years ago
Like... when I was like a 3rd grader lol
My mom used all the big technical words and after that I never wanted anything to do with sex lol
jesushatesme666 2 years ago
if I girl looks down when you pass by but then looks at you when she thinks you are not watching does it mean she likes you?
tico8007 2 years ago 2
I agree w/ ya'll. My mom talked to me about sex in the 4th grade but it was pushing abstinence on me and not really giving me why people had sex or how its done or anything really. She told me wait until you're married and it's a bad thing to do. that's it. So my whole life i researched and in HS i lost my virginity. I'm glad i took the initiative to research because then I wouldn't have known how to get pregnant/STD's. I'm almost 19 now and i still have to keep researching! Thanks internet!
angkittykat09 2 years ago 2
My mom started talking to me about sex when I was about 4. She bought me a book from a company called Good Vibrations, which illustrated a little boy and girl in a bathtub, and explained their "parts" in an age appropriate way. I think for shyer parents this is a great approach, especially as the kids get older and ask more. This doesn't mean you don't have to talk to your kids, it's more like providing them the basics in a non-biased, medical way that is less, shall we say, uncomfortable. =)
tunacasserole375 2 years ago
PS: I don't think Good Vibrations still sells those books, but I'm sure there are others still out there that do, and can probably be found online.
tunacasserole375 2 years ago
15, and not a virgin atm. my mom talked to me when i was in 5th grade. my mom gave me safety tips, and she praised abstinance but said all in all she's here for me and my choices. but i think 12 is a good time
x0mgDeenax 2 years ago
I didn't learn about sex until high school. in sex ad. me and my girlfriend havent even talked about kids yet, no were not married
IAmBlackDragonX 2 years ago
Seriously, Your 10, wtf are you doing on YOUTUBE>. searching..sex/
fighter8262 2 years ago
his learning. XD
RuneScapeSalva 2 years ago
my mom gave me the sex talk when I was 12 and she scared the shit out of me because she told me that my grandma had her first child at 12. So I haven't had sex and refuse to listen to my friends about how I'm missing out because I'm 15 and way too young to be having sex.
but I think you should start telling your children about the differences about boys and girls at age 3-4
gnnrdluv 2 years ago
Hey Dan and Jenn! I don't have any kinds but I can't wait till I have kids and I get the opportunity to tell them!!! My personal philosophy is to tell them about sex in stages and in different stages of their lives. So perhaps when they get to be 4 or 5, I'll tell them about the differences between girls and boys. And later on, about how babies come to be in mommy's tummy, and then later on being open about them asking me questions about sex and relationships and so on. Great vid!
aDividedHeart 2 years ago 2
I started asking questions about pregnancy when I was three or four years old. My mother told me, in an age appropriate way, how and why pregnancy happened. And after that, I've been able to ask my mother anything, and she'll answer me in the best way she can. She makes it feel really natural and easy to talk about sex, and because of her I've really learned how/why safe sex is important, and the emotional and relationship aspects of sex as well. I'm fifteen and a virgin, and I feel fine :)
Nickynamo 2 years ago 4
that's wonderful...be sure to share that same relationship with your kids :D
ayoumans25 2 years ago
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robertdoyle1975 2 years ago
i couldn't agree with you more.
AnUglyAmerican 2 years ago 2
we talked about it in school once but theres so much that i felt like i needed to know and i now i know all because of you guys. im only 12. thanks guys (:
mizzemba1 2 years ago
the first question is my age XD
overdragon18 2 years ago
i was asking about sex at the age of 6 which looking back on it i am suprised these questions happened so young, they talked about it alot a school and i had a 16 yr old brother who i would over hear talking to his friends about sex. i asked my parents about it i was told i was being inappropriate. it has taken me a long time to learn all that i know now about safesex and i mostly learned from tv sex ed shows and the internet.
tinka023 2 years ago 2
Sorry guys, but nothing spectacular in the advice department here.
Talk to your kids as early as they can comprehend what you're saying. They are starting sex very early.
BayAreaLen 2 years ago 2
well we have to consider the things in our world that are having an effect on that such as steroids in milk & chicken causing puberty to hit as early as age 8!
ayoumans25 2 years ago
While I think it's ideal that parents should talk to their kids about sex, it's an unfortunate fact that many parents themselves don't always know what they're talking about, and may spread misinformation or judgmental opinions to their children.
XiaoGui17 2 years ago 2
that's why parents should get INFORMED, too! no excuse not to learn - we have the internet, libraries, family doctors, pamphlets, heath departments...the info is out there!
ayoumans25 2 years ago
my parents werent loving toward eachother all my life and all it did was make me make sure my marriage would be healthy and way better. Although it did make me kind of afaid to commit because I thought marriage was an unhappy affair in your life
DSAGrrrl2005 2 years ago 2
same thing here - not sure about marriage b/c of the example my parents have been...married 30 yrs and they don't seem to like each other that much lol - just stay together b/c they don't "believe" in divorce!
ayoumans25 2 years ago
I believe that parents should suck it up and talk, too, but I think that that generation (not to lump you all together or anything) is a bit close-minded from the way *they* grew up...
I actually just went to the library, watched the Discovery Channel, and (shockingly) asked the clerk at my pharmacy questions.
Now, I'm 17 and my friends have deemed me knowlegeable enough to ask their questions to. I just wish they wouldn't have to ask me, but I'm very, very happy they do.Knowlege is power
hajislover 2 years ago 3
Right on - knowledge IS power!
DanAndJenn 2 years ago
I learned on my own because the school teaches mostly about abstinence and like 2 seconds on everything else (well my school at least) My mom got mad when I asked her about such questions and my dad decided to give me the talk when I was 18 just before Otakon. Luckily I have been smart enough to know better then to go experimenting.
But sex wasn't even in thought when I was 10. I was to busy acting like a pokemon or running around. I wonder if there is something wrong with me XD
byfuzzerabbit 2 years ago
Lmfao pokemon was the shit at 10
awsomeness78 2 years ago 2
I'm 15, and I was never informed from my parents about sex. I never asked them questions though, I just learned it on my own. I think its easier that way, no awkwardness and more straightforward than bullshit they'll tell you.
xAdrianaWoah 2 years ago 3
Exactly
awsomeness78 2 years ago
I'm one of those kids that watches Dan and Jennifer. My mom is very open about sex with me, but it's always awkward to ask a parent about it. How should a child ASK their parents about sex without making their parent think they are sexually active, or wish to be sexually active, because the first time i popped a sex question, my mom freaked saying I wasn't a virgin anymore, she didn't give me a chance to explain why I was asking.
xwatevx35 2 years ago
similar experience...
ayoumans25 2 years ago
I'm 15 and I learned about sex from school at 10. My parents never talked about sex to me...but then again I havent asked them anything....
I also learned more about sex from you dan and jen.
TheWiccanchild 2 years ago
Great show
DanamiTV 2 years ago
Shit, I tought myself about sex at the age around 10 years old. I found myself watching sex anatomy and how the whole pregnant stuff works on the discovery channel and my parents had no idea what I was doing.
GalaxySmith18 2 years ago
I live near toronto ontario and I have always gone to a catholic school and I have been learning about sex since like the 4th grade
leafsfan9917 2 years ago
Same here. Well when I was that age. I've been out of school for seven years lol.
CatMommy84 2 years ago
schools nowadays teach us so there is noooo need
leafsfan9917 2 years ago
YAY! I'm in a buy-a-red-Porsche midlife crisis, and my folks have never talked to me about sex. Guess I was a miracle, I'm that special.
likes2p 2 years ago
so what does this mean..... only kids watch this show.... lol
robinvan1983 2 years ago
Well what if the children never ask. I'm almost 18 and I never remember asking about sex to my family.I do remember jokingly asking my 8 yr old best friend where babies come from. She said sex and i went, "Nooo wayyy!!"
So a few days ago my mother asked me if I was still a virgin.
After I answered she cried cuz she was disappointed.
ohemmi 2 years ago
my dad started to talk to me when i was 4 O.o my younger brother is "talked" too when he started to talk. go spanish fathers ^.^ but still so awkward
bruce842659 2 years ago
Craziest question (not really crazy, I thought it was cute. The child was 4) - Why is it that only mommies seem to get pregnant?
Wospwosp 2 years ago 2