Cindy, if you're sticking around with guys that treat you like shit, then that's clearly what you're attracted to, and the Right Man will never be appealing to you.
How is that animal game supposed to work with people you've never met and of whom you know nothing about (hence the need for the whole dating process)?
"Don't wait until you get your heart broken to ask the key questions."
If things are going alright, what reason do you have to ask?
"What did I do wrong?"
Nothing.
"Maybe it's because you're missing some red flags."
Everyone I meet has little trouble waving those flags. And if I'm unaware that I'm raising red flags of my own, no one's yet informed me that I'm doing so.
Thanks for all your posts. It seems a nerve was hit for you. Please don't become bitter. Sometime we're doing something subconsciously that sabotages our good actions. Go to my e-book website and read the advice (it's not just for women) Google It's All About You by Donna Barnes. I promise it will help you well beyond just saying "Be yourself" I wish you all the best!
Can you promise that your book says more than the same thing I must have read dozens of times by now by other authors who were just as sure that what they had to say would guarantee me more successes?
Yes!! My book isn't about playing games or trying to be something you're not. It's about figuring out what is exactly right for you (and I include email coaching). Read some of the testimonials from guys. And there is a money back guarantee!
To the lady who made the comment at 1:05 who said "This Asian fetish is annoying". Well, what I can say is this, your fetish for dating white guys only and ignoring other races is getting annoying too. Maybe the white guys have this "Asian" fetish because you women are desperate only for their race. It's not a "Asian fetish" .. the real problem is your "White fetish". Takes 2 to tango.
The video was great. All the things I say to myself or my girlfriends. I have been married, dated, you name it. And, I always compensate for the guy... his parents just died, his sister needs him, his kids need him, he does what he wants for a living and doesn't care about money... until we have to pay a bill. Thanks for this and I'm goanna get the book!
that guy at 00:39-00:42 "Steve" is a real asshole
Glick34 2 years ago
i doubt the very attractive women in this clip are single
every time im attracted to a woman shes taken
jayconn 2 years ago
Cindy, if you're sticking around with guys that treat you like shit, then that's clearly what you're attracted to, and the Right Man will never be appealing to you.
How is that animal game supposed to work with people you've never met and of whom you know nothing about (hence the need for the whole dating process)?
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
"Maybe you don't value myself"
Yes I do, and as a result, too many people think I'm presenting myself as an arrogant prick. ;(
"you think you don't even have choices."
As far as I can tell, the only choices available are the ones that are ugly, stupid, irritating, or all of the above.
"Maybe you just don't know how do date."
So what, the universal rule "just be yourself" is meaningless?
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
"Quit hurting others."
I'm not.
"and getting hurt."
That's constructive. ;(
"Don't wait until you get your heart broken to ask the key questions."
If things are going alright, what reason do you have to ask?
"What did I do wrong?"
Nothing.
"Maybe it's because you're missing some red flags."
Everyone I meet has little trouble waving those flags. And if I'm unaware that I'm raising red flags of my own, no one's yet informed me that I'm doing so.
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
Thanks for all your posts. It seems a nerve was hit for you. Please don't become bitter. Sometime we're doing something subconsciously that sabotages our good actions. Go to my e-book website and read the advice (it's not just for women) Google It's All About You by Donna Barnes. I promise it will help you well beyond just saying "Be yourself" I wish you all the best!
LifeandDatingCoach 3 years ago
Can you promise that your book says more than the same thing I must have read dozens of times by now by other authors who were just as sure that what they had to say would guarantee me more successes?
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
Yes!! My book isn't about playing games or trying to be something you're not. It's about figuring out what is exactly right for you (and I include email coaching). Read some of the testimonials from guys. And there is a money back guarantee!
LifeandDatingCoach 3 years ago
"Guys can't be faithful."
Yes they can, but because those men aren't "challenging" for you, you don't want them.
"It's either his way, or no way."
Because women hold NO CARDS whatsoever, right? ;(
"This asian fetish is really getting annoying."
Oh shut up. At least people are paying attention to you.
"Stop blaming them."
If you're everything that women claim to want and are shunned regardless, who else CAN you blame but them?
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
"It's like they don't have feelings..."
Of course it's like that. If a guy reveals that he has feelings, every woman around him thinks he's a pussy.
"Why are you thinking with this head instead of THIS head?"
Because thinking with the first head is apparently what gets results. If you want a guy that thinks, then GO for a guy that thinks.
"Guys are so afraid to be committed."
Yes, because women see a guy who's committed as a stalker. Who wants that perception? No one. Ergo...
Bobzeaux 3 years ago
To the lady who made the comment at 1:05 who said "This Asian fetish is annoying". Well, what I can say is this, your fetish for dating white guys only and ignoring other races is getting annoying too. Maybe the white guys have this "Asian" fetish because you women are desperate only for their race. It's not a "Asian fetish" .. the real problem is your "White fetish". Takes 2 to tango.
shenzhenprostitute 3 years ago
The video was great. All the things I say to myself or my girlfriends. I have been married, dated, you name it. And, I always compensate for the guy... his parents just died, his sister needs him, his kids need him, he does what he wants for a living and doesn't care about money... until we have to pay a bill. Thanks for this and I'm goanna get the book!
judithwestbrook 3 years ago
This is pretty good, but too complex and no step by step solutions for any one dating block. I would narrow it down.
good job,
UbuntoO
UbuntoO 3 years ago